Basically, surrender to the universe over things and outcomes I can't control. I'm sure most of us have been through incredibly difficult situations. Remember, you've survived it. Be proud that you didn't give up!
@@Thomas.Bolleiro God Gave me Desires to Do things and then the opportunity to do them. And we have free will and I made some bad choices..got to suffered..but learned some good lessons. Mostly..we just experience Life and God has Provided us with bodies and a Place to experience. How do you think you come about? It was certainly not anything you did!
@@kathleenwharton2139 What proof do you have that it's god who did all those pains to you? Did he text you? Did he ever call you? Did he talk to you in a park, alone? If you talk about Free Will, then listen up It was my Free Will NOT to live in pain, he, your god, broke that same rule that he created I don't remember signing a contract with him, that read that I should suffer my whole life in pain for no reason, from an early age As long as he doesn't show up in our lives as an actual matter, you have no right to tell us that it exists.
This is exactly my problem. I worry CONSTANTLY about things in the future and also things that are mostly out of my control. It’s a never ending cycle. And when one problem goes away, I find a new problem.
@@mrdave777I’ve been diagnosed with anxiety and depression but not ocd. I have a few traits like I have compulsive thoughts because I think things over and over but idk if I have it or not.
@@malexmartinez4007 Everyone has their story and health conditions. I’ve struggled with the thought too many times. I’m convinced it’s narcissistic and not thinking of others. I do believe sacrifice/volunteering for a greater good eliminates such a feeling. Finding a higher meaning. How can one eliminate themselves when they are involved in something bigger than themselves?!
The reality is, every single person watching this video has already got through every single fear, worry, problem or disaster in their lives up to this moment- and survived! The odds are in our favour that we will survive the next problem, just don’t go looking for them, let them come to you in their own good time.
@@heinmolenaar6750 just the present moment as it is without judging or thinking. Just being present and doing your tasks as conscious as possible without forcing anything. Unconsciously as I belive you are surfing on your highest timeline then…
Surrendering is good but to be fair, some of us have been through extremely bad times, trauma and only just about survived. It is easy to say surrender when you haven't been through terrifying and agonising times. Some things are actually that bad. Sadly.
just sit outside, do nothing, until u feel the urge to do something else and then keep on doing that now, that’s what it means to surrender and live in the present: to DO when u feel called to do smth, and to NOT DO when that feeling is gone
This is great. It’s true that we can never really know what is best for us. With time, some of the worst experiences of my life lead me to better places and relationships.
I do that- remind myself how safe I am in this moment and how I’ve always had my back even when those closest to me weren’t capable of meeting me on that level. I ask myself, when have you ever really let yourself down? Past is sadness and future is anxiety. Being in the now, Doing from the Being state. 🌀✨⚡️
The past is frozen in time, thinking of the future only sets you up for attacks from satan he will only make you worry about what could go wrong or disappoint your future plans, living in the present in JESUS CHRIST is the closest thing to eternity . Keep your focus on JESUS .
If you wanna look back at the past, dont regret. If you wanna live the moment right now, dont get attached. If you wanna see the possibilities of the future, dont get anxious.
It does not sound corny.I am 57 and i wish i knew years ago about letting go, the art of letting go and just being. When we let go fear leaves with that letting go i feel.
These days I've been feeling lost and very bad about different stuff in my life and the external things I can't control. I opened youtube and this appeared in recommendations
I think most people think letting go is giving up on what you want to have. For a while I used to think that too. Now I know that I also misunderstood the concept. Letting go is actually letting go of the resistance that our brains create around this wish that we subconsciously push forward. When we actually let go of that resistance, the fear of what will be the outcome disappears. What is left is a relax and sound mind that can assess the situation in a more objective and realistic fashion, which in return helps you achieve this wish/goal that you may not be able to otherwise. Once we understand that our perspective becomes our reality, everything changes.
Letting go doesn't happen by will or effort or whatever. You can't make the decision to let go. But when you watch and listen to what is whithout any movement of thought. You have already let go whithout even knowing. Stay with what is and remain still with it. What is , is most sacred.
Evan… your words have opened my eyes! When you said enlightenment and awakening is really just being here in this moment and letting the past and the future go and stop fretting about future outcomes and past events. Thank you. Peace to you ❤
When your hard on yourself, it’s difficult not to take things personally. But most all things aren’t personal. You don’t know til you learn. How you learn is unique but learning is the best thing you can do. Once you learn your lesson, you will cringe at the event that lead to it. But it will pass eventually. The people that are hardest on themselves, desire the most perfection.
Thank you so much for the message. I really needed to hear 👂 that especially while walking 🚶 on my 15 minute break at work. It was a really good form of stress relief to listen 🎧 to your message.
2 yrs ago I stopped worrying and surrendered to the Universe it was not easy at first and scary to let go had to take baby steps to break the old Habit creating my own HELL everyday .Form a New Habit to let go because some problems are just too much to handle and for your Sanity , your life will Transform by letting go feeling Light and Happier to Surrender to the Universe I always tell my friends and family to Surrender it make life worth living and enjoyable knowing you are not alone in this Journey let the Universe Decide whats Good for you. (MEDITATE )
But what changes, do things start working out or do you just stop caring that life sucks. I don't want to wake up some day at 60 and think I should have tried harder to get my dreams
I do things with a smirk and it makes me laugh. Now I got to stop laughing to get things done but worth the time. Awesome work. Wishing nothing but good for you.
hi i really like this video. recently ive really been anxious about being alone my life. im 21 years old and a virgin and i feel unlovable from a romantic standpoint, i mean ive seen all my friends get and lose girls but Ive been single the whole time. i get overwhelmed thinking about it but this video helped. i'm at the point now where i just want to be happy but i feel i put so much validation into how others especially females see me and thats really been ripping me apart
Completely normal at your age but you will come to find the only true validation you can get is from yourself. Validation from others will be very short lived.
I resonated a lot with this comment. Only difference for me is with friends. I have none and I’m 23. I let all my old friendships go back in 2019 and some more 2022. Now it’s just me and I am trying to just surrender to just being alone for now.
I'm twenty eight. I'm a proud virgin with no true friends. So, my situation isn't bad at all, but I'm just letting you know it's life. There's no one standard way to live life. Do what makes you happy, as long as it isn't harming yourself and others! Peace and blessings be upon you🥶💙
the more I want peace the more I lose it. But when im stopping searching for it and just accept that im not in peace, I somehow get peace. This body is not stable it changes all the time, now you are in peace after some time you are stressed again.
Embracing the present and surrendering to what life offers can transform fear and anxiety into peace and contentment. This practice of acceptance is not just about easing the mind but about enriching the journey of life itself. 🙏
I labor under the feeling of needing to be perfect, always. Every situation, every time, in every thought or action. And it seems to me that the people around me, especially my dependents, do actually expect this of me.
You can't draw a map of a place if you haven't actually traversed it. You won't know what the best path through life is if you haven't tried and failed enough things.
Just hit the subscribe button to your RUclips channel after enjoying this video on my walk on my lunch 🥗 break. Walked a full 0.99 miles in 15 and a half minutes.
I live with people that are all emotionally immature and honestly, crazy. Unfortunately, their craziness affects me horribly. It's so hard to constantly have to be ready to put up with their crap.....
all want is to surrender myself and change my self, and all i am trying is to be conscious all the time, sometimes i got trap in my past memories and sometimes that memorised thought makes toxic chattering. I also do meditation but, its not easy to feel noting and think nothing. how you come through this life please suggest me
Let go of the past. Every time, your mind wanders to the past, bring it back, to the present. You're still alive and healthy correct?? So your past wasn't TOO bad huh?? Try Journaling, and continue practicing meditation. Ask yourself challenging, deep questions about your past, and then you will notice healing!! The answers are already within you!
I don’t even know what the present moment is. Any moment that you had in mind when you decided to “come back to the present moment” has already receded into the past.
Watching and listinging without any movement of thought outwardly and inwardly is being in the present. Watching and listinging without concentration, effort, will, without the desire to change what you observe. So, there's only observation. No observer, only observation.
No, you must surrender to what is. There's no such thing as surrender to the creator. Because you don"t know the creator. Your thoughts about the creator is just imagination according to your religious conditioning. It's whithout any reality. It's of your own making. Your creator is put together by thought.
This was brilliant Evan. Do you have any videos that would help someone in their 20s that has a ton of suppressed emotions and lives their life constantly distracting themselves from those because they can’t bear to feel them and let them go??
I visualise an orangutang sitting in a forest to help ground me in this reality..orangutangs are 98% genetically identical to humans..it’s only 1% of my life that interferes with the peace of my reality..all the drama and self obsession is created by a tiny part of my brain..yes, that also is part of the exceptional possibility of human endeavour that creates all the remarkable things in human civilisation..but it’s created by a tiny percentage of difference inside of us..the orangutang simply looks at me and wonders what all the fuss is about
To heal shame, please fully accept that you are not guilty for wanting love.
Thy can only meet us as deeply as they’ve met themselves. 😌
Jesus Loves You..that is Enough! I had to go there because I am old and nobody needs me anymore.
So true. I feel weak when I want love. But it's ok. I deserve it.
Blah blah, you are guilty of existence
Damn, those words deeply touched me
Basically, surrender to the universe over things and outcomes I can't control. I'm sure most of us have been through incredibly difficult situations. Remember, you've survived it. Be proud that you didn't give up!
Relax and Breathe
God is in Control
You are Free 😇
Fu
Wow thank you for this
If God is in control, then when why bother?
Also why does he bring us suffering, while we did nothing wrong?
@@Thomas.Bolleiro
God Gave me Desires to Do things and then the opportunity to do them. And we have free will and I made some bad choices..got to suffered..but learned some good lessons. Mostly..we just experience Life and God has Provided us with bodies and a Place to experience. How do you think you come about? It was certainly not anything you did!
@@kathleenwharton2139 What proof do you have that it's god who did all those pains to you?
Did he text you? Did he ever call you? Did he talk to you in a park, alone?
If you talk about Free Will, then listen up
It was my Free Will NOT to live in pain, he, your god, broke that same rule that he created
I don't remember signing a contract with him, that read that I should suffer my whole life in pain for no reason, from an early age
As long as he doesn't show up in our lives as an actual matter, you have no right to tell us that it exists.
This is exactly my problem. I worry CONSTANTLY about things in the future and also things that are mostly out of my control. It’s a never ending cycle. And when one problem goes away, I find a new problem.
Do you have OCD? Any other diagnosed maladies? Thx
@@mrdave777I’ve been diagnosed with anxiety and depression but not ocd. I have a few traits like I have compulsive thoughts because I think things over and over but idk if I have it or not.
Same. In fact, I think of ending it all every day, usually the moment I wake up and upon going to bed.
@@malexmartinez4007 Everyone has their story and health conditions. I’ve struggled with the thought too many times. I’m convinced it’s narcissistic and not thinking of others. I do believe sacrifice/volunteering for a greater good eliminates such a feeling. Finding a higher meaning. How can one eliminate themselves when they are involved in something bigger than themselves?!
I have lived long enough to see that what goes around. Really does come around.
The reality is, every single person watching this video has already got through every single fear, worry, problem or disaster in their lives up to this moment- and survived! The odds are in our favour that we will survive the next problem, just don’t go looking for them, let them come to you in their own good time.
I really believe flowing in the rythm of God without interfering leads to your highest timeline.
Yes
What's the rythm of god?
@@heinmolenaar6750 just the present moment as it is without judging or thinking. Just being present and doing your tasks as conscious as possible without forcing anything. Unconsciously as I belive you are surfing on your highest timeline then…
@@ChatJayPiTthe timeless present is the rythm of god? Right. I get it. Thanks.❤️
@@heinmolenaar6750 yes :) enjoy the present moment, embrace it … knowing that you are just where you need to be :)
Surrendering is good but to be fair, some of us have been through extremely bad times, trauma and only just about survived. It is easy to say surrender when you haven't been through terrifying and agonising times. Some things are actually that bad. Sadly.
just sit outside, do nothing, until u feel the urge to do something else
and then keep on doing that
now, that’s what it means to surrender and live in the present: to DO when u feel called to do smth, and to NOT DO when that feeling is gone
All that to say, let go and let god!
This is great. It’s true that we can never really know what is best for us. With time, some of the worst experiences of my life lead me to better places and relationships.
Jesus Said..Forgive Yesterday..Live ToDay..Trust God for Tomorrow. God Knows what you need before you even ask and He Will Give it to You 😊❤
I do that- remind myself how safe I am in this moment and how I’ve always had my back even when those closest to me weren’t capable of meeting me on that level. I ask myself, when have you ever really let yourself down? Past is sadness and future is anxiety. Being in the now, Doing from the Being state. 🌀✨⚡️
Exactly 🕉️
The past is frozen in time, thinking of the future only sets you up for attacks from satan he will only make you worry about what could go wrong or disappoint your future plans, living in the present in JESUS CHRIST is the closest thing to eternity . Keep your focus on JESUS .
Best way to put it is be passionate without expectation
If you wanna look back at the past, dont regret.
If you wanna live the moment right now, dont get attached.
If you wanna see the possibilities of the future, dont get anxious.
Truth
Easy said difficult to do
It does not sound corny.I am 57 and i wish i knew years ago about letting go, the art of letting go and just being.
When we let go fear leaves with that letting go i feel.
Let Go of Control! Peace will follow! Give up Control!
Took me 20 + years of my 42 years of life thus far to accept this. Thank you...
These days I've been feeling lost and very bad about different stuff in my life and the external things I can't control. I opened youtube and this appeared in recommendations
I will not falter
I will not fail
With God's help, I will prevail
The journey is long but the needs are few
Just let life happen, that's all you do
Life takes care of life..😊❤
I think most people think letting go is giving up on what you want to have. For a while I used to think that too. Now I know that I also misunderstood the concept. Letting go is actually letting go of the resistance that our brains create around this wish that we subconsciously push forward. When we actually let go of that resistance, the fear of what will be the outcome disappears. What is left is a relax and sound mind that can assess the situation in a more objective and realistic fashion, which in return helps you achieve this wish/goal that you may not be able to otherwise. Once we understand that our perspective becomes our reality, everything changes.
Exactly
Letting go doesn't happen by will or effort or whatever. You can't make the decision to let go. But when you watch and listen to what is whithout any movement of thought. You have already let go whithout even knowing. Stay with what is and remain still with it. What is , is most sacred.
Evan… your words have opened my eyes! When you said enlightenment and awakening is really just being here in this moment and letting the past and the future go and stop fretting about future outcomes and past events.
Thank you. Peace to you ❤
This is something i want to learn to do because im an overthinker and it can be exhausting.
I really liked the breakdown of how and why to surrender in a practical sense. Thank you
a deep and profound insight into relationships, love and life which I wish I had known in my youth.
Well said Evan - I tended to catastrophise - if that's a word. It does take a bit of conscious effort to change - thanks for the inspiration to do so.
great content
❤ Message Received ❤
Nobody has true control over the future. Neither do you.
It's not a matter of control the future, but to be free from the future. Free from psychological time as thinking.
This message came at the perfect time. Thank you.
When your hard on yourself, it’s difficult not to take things personally. But most all things aren’t personal. You don’t know til you learn. How you learn is unique but learning is the best thing you can do. Once you learn your lesson, you will cringe at the event that lead to it. But it will pass eventually. The people that are hardest on themselves, desire the most perfection.
Thank you so much for the message. I really needed to hear 👂 that especially while walking 🚶 on my 15 minute break at work. It was a really good form of stress relief to listen 🎧 to your message.
❤what a beautiful mantra 🕉️ “stop worrying all the time “ thx 🙏
wise man
Great video and much needed. Thank you.
Thank you brother. Would have never discovered this if it wasn’t for your original Letting Go video and meditation 🕉️
I appreciate this video brother. Upwards and onwards. Keep up the good work.
2 yrs ago I stopped worrying and surrendered to the Universe it was not easy at first and scary to let go had to take baby steps to break the old Habit creating my own HELL everyday .Form a New Habit to let go because some problems are just too much to handle and for your Sanity , your life will Transform by letting go feeling Light and Happier to Surrender to the Universe I always tell my friends and family to Surrender it make life worth living and enjoyable knowing you are not alone in this Journey let the Universe Decide whats Good for you. (MEDITATE )
But what changes, do things start working out or do you just stop caring that life sucks. I don't want to wake up some day at 60 and think I should have tried harder to get my dreams
@@Caolan-b6r I think it's about doing what you like to do. This can include "trying hard". But you don't insist on what the outcome will be.
What if one has no friends or family left?
🙏 for this message.❤
Gratitude 🙏
I like your posts
You are translating Buddhism in a way I understand and can relate to
Coming from a western standpoint
I do things with a smirk and it makes me laugh. Now I got to stop laughing to get things done but worth the time. Awesome work. Wishing nothing but good for you.
hi i really like this video. recently ive really been anxious about being alone my life. im 21 years old and a virgin and i feel unlovable from a romantic standpoint, i mean ive seen all my friends get and lose girls but Ive been single the whole time. i get overwhelmed thinking about it but this video helped. i'm at the point now where i just want to be happy but i feel i put so much validation into how others especially females see me and thats really been ripping me apart
Completely normal at your age but you will come to find the only true validation you can get is from yourself. Validation from others will be very short lived.
I resonated a lot with this comment. Only difference for me is with friends. I have none and I’m 23. I let all my old friendships go back in 2019 and some more 2022. Now it’s just me and I am trying to just surrender to just being alone for now.
I'm twenty eight. I'm a proud virgin with no true friends. So, my situation isn't bad at all, but I'm just letting you know it's life. There's no one standard way to live life. Do what makes you happy, as long as it isn't harming yourself and others! Peace and blessings be upon you🥶💙
We are taught not to surrender by others, but we have to learn how to surrender ourselves ❤
the more I want peace the more I lose it. But when im stopping searching for it and just accept that im not in peace, I somehow get peace. This body is not stable it changes all the time, now you are in peace after some time you are stressed again.
Good message
You're my friend 💖
Embracing the present and surrendering to what life offers can transform fear and anxiety into peace and contentment. This practice of acceptance is not just about easing the mind but about enriching the journey of life itself. 🙏
very wise and helpful. thank you
Very good video. Thanks for this. It helped me loads 🙏
This is some Tao Te Ching wisdom 👏
Truth brother. Thanks for the vid!
I worry all day long about everything all of the time 😢
Practice meditation
Weak.
Everything we do is out of fear
Yes. Fear is the main problem.
Surrender to shri krishn ... He will take care.❤️❤️ Radhe Radhe..🙏🙏
🕉️
Thank you, thank you, thank you for your message Evan
I WILL NEVER SURRENDER 🗣🗣🗣🗣🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯
I've always felt that no matter what I do in life, I will never get the results I want out of life and wonder why my life is so hard.
Beautiful message, many thanks 😊
❤️❤️❤️ I needed to hear this today. I'm hoping to be able to express my ideas like this, as well.
Yeap great talk friend ' thanks really good
Acceptance
I labor under the feeling of needing to be perfect, always. Every situation, every time, in every thought or action. And it seems to me that the people around me, especially my dependents, do actually expect this of me.
I am exactly the same 🤔
I think it's a virtue
Great video, you've just gained a new subscriber. Thank you 🙏
we create the good and the bad for us. We have that power. We only suffer in our brain
Thank you. You are awesome.
Wow this is so great!
Great advice 👍
Great video my guy! subcribed.
Vipassana is good for this.....👍Have a blessed day brother....
Yes ☸️
100% right and you are beautiful ❤️✨
You can't draw a map of a place if you haven't actually traversed it. You won't know what the best path through life is if you haven't tried and failed enough things.
Just hit the subscribe button to your RUclips channel after enjoying this video on my walk on my lunch 🥗 break. Walked a full 0.99 miles in 15 and a half minutes.
People always worried about food water now in modern times life has advanced far beyond control
All we have is now.
Great video! ❤
I live with people that are all emotionally immature and honestly, crazy. Unfortunately, their craziness affects me horribly. It's so hard to constantly have to be ready to put up with their crap.....
You gotta get out of there
You have good content I hope you succeed bro
Thich Nhat Hanh. Look him up if unfamiliar. He has a plethora of books.
I love him. I mentioned him often in these videos
all want is to surrender myself and change my self, and all i am trying is to be conscious all the time, sometimes i got trap in my past memories and sometimes that memorised thought makes toxic chattering. I also do meditation but, its not easy to feel noting and think nothing. how you come through this life please suggest me
Let go of the past. Every time, your mind wanders to the past, bring it back, to the present. You're still alive and healthy correct?? So your past wasn't TOO bad huh?? Try Journaling, and continue practicing meditation. Ask yourself challenging, deep questions about your past, and then you will notice healing!! The answers are already within you!
I needed this!! Thanks!
What about physical issues that are in the present moment? It’s hard to ignore them.
Thanks
Hey good vid I just subbed. I am agreeing with you.
Great video Thank you
amen❤
I don’t even know what the present moment is. Any moment that you had in mind when you decided to “come back to the present moment” has already receded into the past.
Watching and listinging without any movement of thought outwardly and inwardly is being in the present. Watching and listinging without concentration, effort, will, without the desire to change what you observe. So, there's only observation. No observer, only observation.
You can't know the present. Because the present is a living thing. You can only know dead things from the dead past.
Another name for it is giving up and relinclish control
The title of this video is exactly what I'm doing right now.
And my name is Evan. 😅
Good advice.
Yes gratitude be grateful
Fuckin profound message! Thank you!
Surrendering to the Creator is much more fruitful than surrendering to the “creation”.
They are the same thing
@@myselfasevan who are you trying to convince?
No, you must surrender to what is. There's no such thing as surrender to the creator. Because you don"t know the creator. Your thoughts about the creator is just imagination according to your religious conditioning. It's whithout any reality. It's of your own making. Your creator is put together by thought.
@@heinmolenaar6750 beautifully stated 😊
Amazing video brother ❤keep em coming
This was brilliant Evan. Do you have any videos that would help someone in their 20s that has a ton of suppressed emotions and lives their life constantly distracting themselves from those because they can’t bear to feel them and let them go??
This is very hard to believe choices and decisions affect my life. How can I surrender to the universe.
thank you ❤
such awesome content!! broken down really nicely... you should have 1000x followers. thx for being here!
Thank you for watching 🙏
I visualise an orangutang sitting in a forest to help ground me in this reality..orangutangs are 98% genetically identical to humans..it’s only 1% of my life that interferes with the peace of my reality..all the drama and self obsession is created by a tiny part of my brain..yes, that also is part of the exceptional possibility of human endeavour that creates all the remarkable things in human civilisation..but it’s created by a tiny percentage of difference inside of us..the orangutang simply looks at me and wonders what all the fuss is about
Thank you
Godbless
You made my day bro ❤️❤️
I get anxious for no reason… soon as I’m quiet and relaxed it’s like “wait this isn’t right” anyone else? What helps….😅😅asking for a friend