I also know families that live on very little in order for the mom to be the one to raise the kids. I feel like the lack of money mindset can be valid but is often an excuse to pressure the mother to do more
@@motherhoodempowerment7012 income has everything to do with budgeting? I don’t want to have to have a tight budget and not be able to afford fun vacations for my kids. If your husband makes enough for the both of you, you’re very blessed bc not everyone is that fortunate in this economy.
Vacations are not a need. Don’t assume my husband makes 2x an individual. We do not go on many vacations and for me, it’s worth being available for my kids fulltime. Everyone has free will and choice so maybe others have decided differently but it’s misleading to purport a single income isn’t enough but then clarify that the second income goes towards vacations
@@motherhoodempowerment7012 ok 🤦🏻♀️ and I said “if” …never said he did. And it’s not just vacations, it’s sports teams, medical bills, etc. I want my kids to have everything i didn’t.. if you’re ok with how you’re living that’s all that matters.. but having one income in this economy isn’t really sustainable.. especially if emergencies happen. If it is for you, then good for u. You are blessed
It’s bc nowadays, unless your husband has a really good job, both parents need to be bringing in money in this economy..
Do u think any of that has to do with how modern families budget their money?
I also know families that live on very little in order for the mom to be the one to raise the kids. I feel like the lack of money mindset can be valid but is often an excuse to pressure the mother to do more
@@motherhoodempowerment7012 income has everything to do with budgeting? I don’t want to have to have a tight budget and not be able to afford fun vacations for my kids. If your husband makes enough for the both of you, you’re very blessed bc not everyone is that fortunate in this economy.
Vacations are not a need. Don’t assume my husband makes 2x an individual. We do not go on many vacations and for me, it’s worth being available for my kids fulltime. Everyone has free will and choice so maybe others have decided differently but it’s misleading to purport a single income isn’t enough but then clarify that the second income goes towards vacations
@@motherhoodempowerment7012 ok 🤦🏻♀️ and I said “if” …never said he did. And it’s not just vacations, it’s sports teams, medical bills, etc. I want my kids to have everything i didn’t.. if you’re ok with how you’re living that’s all that matters.. but having one income in this economy isn’t really sustainable.. especially if emergencies happen. If it is for you, then good for u. You are blessed