Hannah I'm surprised people are easily led by glossy magazines and don't realise it's been airbrushed and a way to make money. You can't reverse aging through products but can adopt lifestyle choices to avoid speeding it up. It's also ironic she smokes which causes aging yet wants to look youthful.
@@greenkitty82 you can if you eat right, sleep and use certain products lol. But smoking, excess sun and drinking will stop any reversal and will lead it to happen faster
I'm 7 minutes in and a solution is already clear - she enjoys shopping more than just the items. Cut out the weekly trip with mum and invited her round for tea instead
Emma Wainwright It is a very very hard addiction to kick! I am hearing good news that a 3-4 day fast with plenty of electrolytes can cure most addictions!
Best thing you can do if you’re trying to keep your costs down is find something to do to occupy your time and replace the shopping kick. Focus on working out every night, picking up a hobby, or start finding things to do that aren’t expensive. Also: minimalism is awesome if you’re struggling with buying things you don’t need. Minimalism focuses on making sure you’re mindfully buying and that what you hold onto is beneficial and useful. Lastly, smoking is terrible for you!! Cut that habit and you’ll save a cool $40-50 a week.
What Ive noticed with all the people in these shows is that they do nothing but shop. Maybe if they did some voluntary work, did an evening class, learnt a new language or a new skill. You will be too busy to spend money that you dont have or can't afford!
@@KatieNicolexx Evening classes do not to be very expensive here and can get some classes for free if you can show that you are on a low income or on benefits.A proper evening class may cost money but in the long run may increase job prospects in the future.
@@KatieNicolexx There's a difference between investing money to learn new skills which could be a future money making side hustle and buying stuff she doesn't need and the money just thrown out the window. One can spend money wisely or like there's no tomorrow.
@High Tide 68 she also is asking for help and trying to better herself. I find her beautiful, your comment on the otherhand shows an ugly, hateful personality.
@High Tide 68 she is asking for help, which is a sign of intelligence. Clearly she is very insecure and still has not properly grieved the death of her father. She is a beautiful soul, anyone can see that... your inability to see past her flaws (flaws i might add she is trying to work on by appearing in the program!) reveals an overly critical and judgmental personality. If you have a partner I feel sorry for them...
Unfortunately, all the expensive anti-aging products will never be able to keep up with the aging effects of smoking. I watched my mom who was always beautifully dressed and made up age prematurely due to her smoking. Also cut short her life Definitely due to smoking. But she was addicted. Just like a drug addiction or alcohol. Never start ladies and you will look younger than those who do. And more importantly, live longer.
I used to smoke and non-smokers don't understand how hard it is to stop. Of course it's doable, I'm proof of that, but it's probably one of the hardest things I've ever done. Having said that, I don't know how anyone can afford to smoke these days, I was shocked to hear that it's about £15 a pack these days!
Nicola is a very beautiful young woman. Her boyfriend is so charming. I wish for her to love herself more. She is so intelligent and sweet!! Best of luck!! Love from Debbie and Dexter-Dog her rescued chihuahua companion in Southern California. USA.👩🐾😁👍
I need help. My spending habits are awful. Yes, I find amazing deals, but do I really "need" 40 pairs of workout leggings and 5 tanks each in every color to match?? I have a whole rack of sweaters, at LEAST 15, and I just bought another today. Don't get me started on pants 🤦🏽♀️. Work pants, distressed jeans, dark wash, high waisted, I've got them all. Too many jackets to remember. My undies drawer is stuffed. I don't know how I accumulated so many pairs of black leggings. Watching this show makes me realize I'm definitely shopping and filling my wardrobe because I'm missing something in my life or I've got unresolved issues. Time to soul searching. I'd love to see a therapist but my insurance doesn't cover mental health. She should shop at places that have higher end, quality pieces for way less than full price. She could have spent only $15 on that top!
Absolutely Ridiculous There are apps where you can store photos of your whole wardrobe. You can style and create a capsule wardrobe and it really helps. If you’re in the shop you can scroll and see if you have anything similar and create the same look and it feels really good to save the money.
i stopped spending on a no shop year - i unfollowed all brands on social, got rid of the bookmarked shops on my laptop and just stopped looking in shops or online as a pleasure activity. Obvs not as good as therapy but a place to start
Like you said... Soul searching! I think we all need to do a little more of that. Think about why you might shop too much and what triggers the behavior. I've found decluttering my house and selling as much as possible on OfferUp fun and freeing! Too much stuff and clutter gave me anxiety but I was the one buying it 🤦🏻♀️
Maybe you can start with asking yourself these 3 questions before you buy something: 1. Do I already own one? 3. Is this in my budget? 3. Name 3 fun things you can do with this money 🙏
I wonder what a one year follow up on these shows would be like? I'm not convinced the "solutions" and plans are anything more than clickbait and don't work long-term.
Joel Hall I would like to see that too, on a few of these videos, some of those that were on it actually say how they are doing, and they all seem to be doing fine... but I guess the ones that weren’t just wouldn’t comment!
What is a psychological coach. I am a psychologist and I also have a master in life coaching. But this term is just not transparent and doesn't do our profession any good. Total of 6 years of university and studying and then going on 4 years as a specialisation in psychotherapy. I like the program and the set up but there are aome vague aspects on psychological field that should be cleared. Especially on long term.
He doesn't have a psychology degree so they cleverly avoid calling him a psychologist because he isn't one. In other episodes they said he went to therapy himself, wrote a few self help books and then decided to give therapy himself. He's highly educated (Oxford university - philosophy and physics) but never studied anything remotely related to psychology. Pretty sure this why they replaced him with Mark who is actually qualified to give people the help they need.
Looking at L'oreal models in a magazine and wanting to be as stunning as they are.... and buying the products. Do these women not know that the models arent using the products themselves? They are just advertising them.
I got a $5,000 vacation for $920 by being smart with mine. Just don’t charge more than you make (and no more than what you would have just bought anyway) always use points/cash back cards, and enjoy businesses paying you to live your normal life. Or... you can totally use cash and only get what you pay for... But I prefer free money, myself. Besides, most businesses won’t give you a discount for using cash and have already built in the credit card fees, so... if you think about it... they are making extra money off of you. To each their own!
They have done studies on it and there is a sense of loss when handing over money that is not felt when you slap a card and put it back in your wallet. There is no real physical trade in our minds. Long story short: use cash whenever possible and the simple way to know whether you can afford an item is if you have the money to pay for it.
Thats what im planning to do - use cash more. Im not a spendaholic and cant buy expensive things but like her i would prefer quantity for the price rather then paying a lot of money for one thing. I wont be lots of the same things though. But for me i find it hard in big shops or food shopping as i tend to pick up more than i need or niknaks that after a while of use its pointless. I find shops very distracting and stressful. There is just TOO much stuff!! I feel if i use cash like i did with my pocket money in my teen years i would make it last longer , save more or being more considerate of my purchases. Obviously christmas is coming but im getting the bear minimum but some people have requested stuff which are only available online so ofc il purchase that but everything else is gunna be cash. Hopefully this process will work! Im glad to say im 29 and not in debt at all even though im currently unemployed due to injury but i do wish i saved a bit more than buy random bits and bobs so maybe i would of gotten a house earlier on.
If she really can’t resist coming home with something she should hit the charity shops. She said herself she liked a bargain and doesn’t ever splash out on one big item, more like many cheaper pieces. It’s a win win situation really, especially considering most charity shops aren’t located in malls, main parts of the city, etc and more in smaller areas of town, meaning she would be out of the way of big shops that could lead to temptation haha Edit: why tf is her mum taking her out shopping when she knows she’s meant to be living on a budget for a week, talk about it running in the family lmao
i love charity shops. most of my “expensive” clothes are from charity shops. I lived in Morningside, Edinburgh where many rich people nearby, so many nice things in those shops. 🤗. It is a pity i moved to germany, they don’t have many here.
Her in Early 2000's: It's not like I want to be in debt, I've just been offered a lot of credit. Her Mum in Early 2000's: What the hell, spend it. 2007 Financial Crisis: Hold my beer.
You can definitely and should use retinol in your skincare routine at age 28! It’s preventative, and not just for 45 year olds, and they’re just eye masks. 18 year olds use eye masks 🤦🏼♀️
Of course, I totally agree- smoking accelerates ageing immensely, but retinol is an amazing antidote for ageing for even those who don’t smoke and live healthy lifestyles.
Coco Pops I agree, using good ingredients skincare won’t help much, if a person smokes, drinks or doesn’t have a healthy lifestyle. I was just referring to the fact that it wasn’t something too out of the norm for someone to use eye masks, especially approaching 30. Have a great day.
The book "30 Days to Stop Being a Shopaholic" by Harper Daniels is good. It uses a mindfulness and meditation approach to get to the root. It's fun too. It's easy to overspend without the right perspective of self.
I’m so glad we have online banking on our phones now. I can check in 1 click how much I’ve spent this week, my budget, savings etc. I know if I was her age in 2005 I would be doing the same and just wasting money as I can’t track it there and then
It is such a shame assurance is not covering mental health issues. All the money spent on clothes would be more then having some serious sessions to help compulsive buying. Try to start with a few as it might save you.
I totally agree with Nicola's comments about the way bereavement affects her. I've been through much the same thing, but over a longer time. A fascinating episode of a great series.
I have never spent £435 in a week in my life . I dont have it i need to pay my bills thats more important ive got everything in life and not 20 grand of stuff i dont need in life and in debt IF I CANT AFFORD IT I WONT BUY IT AND SPEND ANY MONEY AND SAVE UP
Not really cause that's what got her in her situation in the first place... she likes to buy a lot of cheap things, because she thinks it's okay as they are cheap. In the meanwhile, buying just a few more pricey item might help her actually break the habit
A more expensive item usually goes with some elaboration on how often you'll use it, and and the expected life of the item compared to the disposable £3 top...
I wonder if she might need to see an optician, or maybe check her thyroid hormone levels, a lot of women get problems with itaround the age of 30-ish, and one symptom is dry skin and hair and also "sandy" eyes. Could explain the blinking and the skincare obsession?
Go back to using cash get rid of cards Banks encourage people to get into debt by handing out these cards ! Cash much easier to budget when using cash !
27:50 whoa so are you telling my her brother went into foster care after the father died because the mother no longer wanted to look after him?! that's insane.
Apparently because he’s severely disabled . Perhaps having her brother being chucked away has something to do with her issues ?? I have a severely autistic son and I would never ever give him away .
I looked it up...YES it is different in England! They help you care for your disabled child...unlike the USA when you are left in the dust. They have several forms of Foster Care that are all about caring for the parent's sanity as well as the welfare of the child. There are even temporary Foster Care services (for just a couple days) so if parents need a break. GOD how great would that be for single parents here in the States that just need a break!?!? I wish our government cared that much about the parents and the kids!
Lol it’s such a shame PC culture prevailed so strongly after the noughties- can’t imagine a BBC lifestyle show being as scathing and sarcastic as these 2 presenters were just naturally being!
Agreed. She's overplucked them to death and they'll likely never grow back. Everyone had eyebrows like that in the mid 2000s and they were awful. She just looks permanentlt surprised because the arch js so high.
Bit you don't really know there situation maybe that was the best option for both parties, and who knows maybe he is taken into a nice beautiful home where they are more understanding
I want all women to imagine yourselves screaming bad names and insults at an 11-12 year old girl...”You fat, pimply, no good, lazy pig! You are so UGGLY!”. Now if you wouldn’t do that to a young girl-Why are you doing it to the young girl that still lives inside of you?! Because you heard those insults then and are merely repeating the mean girls, bad parents and horrid boyfriends words over and over! You may NOT be a beauty queen and that is a good thing because the beauty queens were often overpushed by parents and never feel pretty enough either without being very plastic. And I am not talking about make up-Makeup can be fun for everyone!
Dont know why this randomly showed up in my recommended but I'm so glad it did. Been binging all the episodes.Taking it as a sign from above🤣🙏
Cynthia Stephanie SAME!
Me too! 😊
me three
Tbf you should start anti aging before you're 30 to prevent damage to your skin
Hannah I'm surprised people are easily led by glossy magazines and don't realise it's been airbrushed and a way to make money. You can't reverse aging through products but can adopt lifestyle choices to avoid speeding it up. It's also ironic she smokes which causes aging yet wants to look youthful.
@@greenkitty82 you can if you eat right, sleep and use certain products lol. But smoking, excess sun and drinking will stop any reversal and will lead it to happen faster
Coco Pops hit the nail on the head 👍
Any face cream that contains sunblock does the job ! There is no miracle cream , just a good diet and lifestyle !
no cream in the world can save your skin from the damage of smoking (and she looks fairly tanned too, so there's also that)
I'm 7 minutes in and a solution is already clear - she enjoys shopping more than just the items. Cut out the weekly trip with mum and invited her round for tea instead
She likes things ! All goes hand in hand ! Addiction!
or go to an art class each week with mum
Worried about her skin and still smoking.
Worst thing you can do for your skin besides tanning.
She’s an idiot
Her crows feet are beyond help.
Emma Wainwright It is a very very hard addiction to kick! I am hearing good news that a 3-4 day fast with plenty of electrolytes can cure most addictions!
She’s absolutely beautiful so there’s no need to worry!
Best thing you can do if you’re trying to keep your costs down is find something to do to occupy your time and replace the shopping kick. Focus on working out every night, picking up a hobby, or start finding things to do that aren’t expensive. Also: minimalism is awesome if you’re struggling with buying things you don’t need. Minimalism focuses on making sure you’re mindfully buying and that what you hold onto is beneficial and useful. Lastly, smoking is terrible for you!! Cut that habit and you’ll save a cool $40-50 a week.
What Ive noticed with all the people in these shows is that they do nothing but shop. Maybe if they did some voluntary work, did an evening class, learnt a new language or a new skill. You will be too busy to spend money that you dont have or can't afford!
Classes cost money. At least here in the US but volunteering is a great idea!
@@KatieNicolexx Evening classes do not to be very expensive here and can get some classes for free if you can show that you are on a low income or on benefits.A proper evening class may cost money but in the long run may increase job prospects in the future.
@@KatieNicolexx There's a difference between investing money to learn new skills which could be a future money making side hustle and buying stuff she doesn't need and the money just thrown out the window.
One can spend money wisely or like there's no tomorrow.
It’s sad that a beautiful women like her can feel so insecure that she needs to go into debt just trying to feel “good enough”.
@High Tide 68 she also is asking for help and trying to better herself. I find her beautiful, your comment on the otherhand shows an ugly, hateful personality.
@High Tide 68 the sentence 'shes not beautiful' was based on your opinion, not anything that was absolutely true.
She does have nice eyes just has problems with impulse control.
@High Tide 68 she is asking for help, which is a sign of intelligence. Clearly she is very insecure and still has not properly grieved the death of her father. She is a beautiful soul, anyone can see that... your inability to see past her flaws (flaws i might add she is trying to work on by appearing in the program!) reveals an overly critical and judgmental personality. If you have a partner I feel sorry for them...
It’s like that for most diseases
watched a load of these now, the early noughties really ruined eyebrows for women
Unbelievable that the mother wanted to go shopping with her during the cold turkey week. It's easy to see why her problem has gotten so bad.
Unfortunately, all the expensive anti-aging products will never be able to keep up with the aging effects of smoking. I watched my mom who was always beautifully dressed and made up age prematurely due to her smoking. Also cut short her life Definitely due to smoking. But she was addicted. Just like a drug addiction or alcohol. Never start ladies and you will look younger than those who do. And more importantly, live longer.
The best anti ageing is don't smoke and stay out of the sun. You'll live longer too!
Lol the Dior saddle bag that's completely back in style this year
I hope she kept it!
the only decent purchase she's ever made should she decide to sell it.
@@abbyl1449 Unfortunately, probably not, since it likely reeks of cigarettes.
Smoking is a huge money saver. She doesn’t seem to understand how much of an issue her debt is
What a waste with all those anti-ageing skincare products because of smoking 😵
I used to smoke and non-smokers don't understand how hard it is to stop. Of course it's doable, I'm proof of that, but it's probably one of the hardest things I've ever done.
Having said that, I don't know how anyone can afford to smoke these days, I was shocked to hear that it's about £15 a pack these days!
Hope she still has that Dior kidney bag. Its super trendy now & worth thousands
Her boyfriend needs to step up and assure her she does not look like a elephant. Where does she get this?
Mental self torment
The era of over plucked eyebrows.
Ecohobo sadly mine never recovered lol
@@kiskadee321 sorry to hear so. You know there is a herbal remedy based on ginseng that stimulates hair growth?
@@kiskadee321 people follow trends like a pendulum.
Really why go on the show when you are not going to try. She acts like someone else got her in debt.
Nicola is a very beautiful young woman. Her boyfriend is so charming. I wish for her to love herself more. She is so intelligent and sweet!! Best of luck!! Love from Debbie and Dexter-Dog her rescued chihuahua companion in Southern California. USA.👩🐾😁👍
"The malls of Basingstoke"
Christ that's depressing.
"I've seen six shirts of the bloke... Does he excist?"
THAT Dior bag (4.03) is Worth so much money know!
Made in china
@Leah613 everything matching is vulgar ... shows a lack of imagination / personal style ...
If she stopped smoking she wouldn't need the anti ageing stuff !!
I need help. My spending habits are awful. Yes, I find amazing deals, but do I really "need" 40 pairs of workout leggings and 5 tanks each in every color to match?? I have a whole rack of sweaters, at LEAST 15, and I just bought another today. Don't get me started on pants 🤦🏽♀️. Work pants, distressed jeans, dark wash, high waisted, I've got them all. Too many jackets to remember. My undies drawer is stuffed. I don't know how I accumulated so many pairs of black leggings. Watching this show makes me realize I'm definitely shopping and filling my wardrobe because I'm missing something in my life or I've got unresolved issues. Time to soul searching. I'd love to see a therapist but my insurance doesn't cover mental health.
She should shop at places that have higher end, quality pieces for way less than full price. She could have spent only $15 on that top!
Absolutely Ridiculous There are apps where you can store photos of your whole wardrobe. You can style and create a capsule wardrobe and it really helps. If you’re in the shop you can scroll and see if you have anything similar and create the same look and it feels really good to save the money.
i stopped spending on a no shop year - i unfollowed all brands on social, got rid of the bookmarked shops on my laptop and just stopped looking in shops or online as a pleasure activity. Obvs not as good as therapy but a place to start
Like you said... Soul searching! I think we all need to do a little more of that. Think about why you might shop too much and what triggers the behavior. I've found decluttering my house and selling as much as possible on OfferUp fun and freeing! Too much stuff and clutter gave me anxiety but I was the one buying it 🤦🏻♀️
Maybe you can start with asking yourself these 3 questions before you buy something:
1. Do I already own one?
3. Is this in my budget?
3. Name 3 fun things you can do with this money 🙏
s Taylor That sounds cool! Do you happen to know what the App is called?
For a psychologist he interrupts a lot.
he wasn’t. life coach or something. he doesn’t have the qualification as psychologist.
Who uses clothes only once and get ride of it? Crazy! I have clothes from my childhood and teen years yet!
Floyd Mayweather
I wonder what a one year follow up on these shows would be like? I'm not convinced the "solutions" and plans are anything more than clickbait and don't work long-term.
Joel Hall I would like to see that too, on a few of these videos, some of those that were on it actually say how they are doing, and they all seem to be doing fine... but I guess the ones that weren’t just wouldn’t comment!
What is a psychological coach. I am a psychologist and I also have a master in life coaching. But this term is just not transparent and doesn't do our profession any good. Total of 6 years of university and studying and then going on 4 years as a specialisation in psychotherapy. I like the program and the set up but there are aome vague aspects on psychological field that should be cleared. Especially on long term.
Yeah I'm pretty sure he's a sham.
He doesn't have a psychology degree so they cleverly avoid calling him a psychologist because he isn't one. In other episodes they said he went to therapy himself, wrote a few self help books and then decided to give therapy himself. He's highly educated (Oxford university - philosophy and physics) but never studied anything remotely related to psychology. Pretty sure this why they replaced him with Mark who is actually qualified to give people the help they need.
Looking at L'oreal models in a magazine and wanting to be as stunning as they are.... and buying the products. Do these women not know that the models arent using the products themselves? They are just advertising them.
What was that eye blinking all about?
Ecohobo nerves
30k a year in 2004 is 52k Today! Good lord.
Number one money rule. Deal in cash whenever possible.
you must be italian
I got a $5,000 vacation for $920 by being smart with mine. Just don’t charge more than you make (and no more than what you would have just bought anyway) always use points/cash back cards, and enjoy businesses paying you to live your normal life. Or... you can totally use cash and only get what you pay for... But I prefer free money, myself. Besides, most businesses won’t give you a discount for using cash and have already built in the credit card fees, so... if you think about it... they are making extra money off of you. To each their own!
They have done studies on it and there is a sense of loss when handing over money that is not felt when you slap a card and put it back in your wallet. There is no real physical trade in our minds. Long story short: use cash whenever possible and the simple way to know whether you can afford an item is if you have the money to pay for it.
Thats what im planning to do - use cash more. Im not a spendaholic and cant buy expensive things but like her i would prefer quantity for the price rather then paying a lot of money for one thing. I wont be lots of the same things though. But for me i find it hard in big shops or food shopping as i tend to pick up more than i need or niknaks that after a while of use its pointless. I find shops very distracting and stressful. There is just TOO much stuff!!
I feel if i use cash like i did with my pocket money in my teen years i would make it last longer , save more or being more considerate of my purchases.
Obviously christmas is coming but im getting the bear minimum but some people have requested stuff which are only available online so ofc il purchase that but everything else is gunna be cash. Hopefully this process will work!
Im glad to say im 29 and not in debt at all even though im currently unemployed due to injury but i do wish i saved a bit more than buy random bits and bobs so maybe i would of gotten a house earlier on.
If she really can’t resist coming home with something she should hit the charity shops. She said herself she liked a bargain and doesn’t ever splash out on one big item, more like many cheaper pieces. It’s a win win situation really, especially considering most charity shops aren’t located in malls, main parts of the city, etc and more in smaller areas of town, meaning she would be out of the way of big shops that could lead to temptation haha
Edit: why tf is her mum taking her out shopping when she knows she’s meant to be living on a budget for a week, talk about it running in the family lmao
i love charity shops. most of my “expensive” clothes are from charity shops. I lived in Morningside, Edinburgh where many rich people nearby, so many nice things in those shops. 🤗. It is a pity i moved to germany, they don’t have many here.
Her in Early 2000's: It's not like I want to be in debt, I've just been offered a lot of credit.
Her Mum in Early 2000's: What the hell, spend it.
2007 Financial Crisis: Hold my beer.
I thought she was flirting, but she just blinks interestingly.
Gio Herrera no, she is trying not to cry.
I think it's like, a tick when you're uncomfortable, like some people blink hard and fast, she seems to just bkink hard
Why is the severely disabled brother in foster care???...
You can definitely and should use retinol in your skincare routine at age 28! It’s preventative, and not just for 45 year olds, and they’re just eye masks. 18 year olds use eye masks 🤦🏼♀️
Wiser would be quit smoking
Of course, I totally agree- smoking accelerates ageing immensely, but retinol is an amazing antidote for ageing for even those who don’t smoke and live healthy lifestyles.
@@astrid8433 it can reverse a lot of damage. But smoking tannig excessively drinking just dont help
Coco Pops I agree, using good ingredients skincare won’t help much, if a person smokes, drinks or doesn’t have a healthy lifestyle. I was just referring to the fact that it wasn’t something too out of the norm for someone to use eye masks, especially approaching 30. Have a great day.
I think the issue was that she had sooo many
I am so relieved that I no longer make impulse purchases. This lady makes me worry. It's all about behaviour.
slowest blinker ever...…..weired !!
Tony Baloni I think she does it to be more feminine and “cute” to seem more attractive....I know girls who do that for those reasons
Dose anyone feel a bit angry that her mom just put her brother in foster care for her????
Yeah wondering if there’s any more to that story.
YES!
Yes, I was annoyed about that too, but you never know, he may now be with people who really care about him.
9:10 first episode where ben forces a double cheek kiss when meeting the participant. very awkward to watch, this girl wanted nothing to do with it
The book "30 Days to Stop Being a Shopaholic" by Harper Daniels is good. It uses a mindfulness and meditation approach to get to the root. It's fun too. It's easy to overspend without the right perspective of self.
I’m so glad we have online banking on our phones now. I can check in 1 click how much I’ve spent this week, my budget, savings etc. I know if I was her age in 2005 I would be doing the same and just wasting money as I can’t track it there and then
It is such a shame assurance is not covering mental health issues. All the money spent on clothes would be more then having some serious sessions to help compulsive buying. Try to start with a few as it might save you.
I totally agree with Nicola's comments about the way bereavement affects her. I've been through much the same thing, but over a longer time. A fascinating episode of a great series.
She obviously got the habit from her mother.
THE COACH GUY IS SO PAINFULLY BORING!!!
Imagine if Jay and Ben were your parents 😂😩
Lol you would never buy anything! My mom is like that! Convinces you that you don't need it!
@@jenniferhcsmith-5586 so is my mum then comed to grandbabies next thing I know it's on my door step.
"I'm not buying a 12"!!!
Nicola looked so much younger with the lighter makeup. It was an amazing transformation
I have never spent £435 in a week in my life . I dont have it i need to pay my bills thats more important ive got everything in life and not 20 grand of stuff i dont need in life and in debt
IF I CANT AFFORD IT I WONT BUY IT AND SPEND ANY MONEY AND SAVE UP
why do they want her to spend more on each item? can't she just buy fewer cheap things?
Not really cause that's what got her in her situation in the first place... she likes to buy a lot of cheap things, because she thinks it's okay as they are cheap. In the meanwhile, buying just a few more pricey item might help her actually break the habit
A more expensive item usually goes with some elaboration on how often you'll use it, and and the expected life of the item compared to the disposable £3 top...
She have a kind of classic style anyway
Plus quality and classic yet modern styles never go out of fashion so she won't need to constantly buy new looks to keep up with the latest fashion
She's not only a spendaholic but a blinkaholic as well
LMAOO
I wonder if she might need to see an optician, or maybe check her thyroid hormone levels, a lot of women get problems with itaround the age of 30-ish, and one symptom is dry skin and hair and also "sandy" eyes. Could explain the blinking and the skincare obsession?
She wouldnt have had issues with her under eyes if she didn't smoke. Hope she quit smoking
Go back to using cash get rid of cards Banks encourage people to get into debt by handing out these cards ! Cash much easier to budget when using cash !
27:50 whoa so are you telling my her brother went into foster care after the father died because the mother no longer wanted to look after him?! that's insane.
I was thinking the same thing.
She’d be 43 now 🤔
Good with maths ain't ya
I used to eat cereal that carried a brand labelled Dorset... Now I know where it's manufactured.
I like nicola, she's funny and has good taste but yeah she spends too much
Why is her brother in foster care? Is it different than US?
Apparently because he’s severely disabled . Perhaps having her brother being chucked away has something to do with her issues ?? I have a severely autistic son and I would never ever give him away .
I looked it up...YES it is different in England! They help you care for your disabled child...unlike the USA when you are left in the dust. They have several forms of Foster Care that are all about caring for the parent's sanity as well as the welfare of the child. There are even temporary Foster Care services (for just a couple days) so if parents need a break. GOD how great would that be for single parents here in the States that just need a break!?!? I wish our government cared that much about the parents and the kids!
Utter nonesense thsr under eye treatments are not suitable for people under 40
Her mate in the middle in pink top.... what does it say ______ do love Beckhams? Wracking my brains what it could say.... lol
ziannamc its Spanish for tired of the Beckhams I believe. Lol
Lol it’s such a shame PC culture prevailed so strongly after the noughties- can’t imagine a BBC lifestyle show being as scathing and sarcastic as these 2 presenters were just naturally being!
Anyone else spot that Ben fancies Nicola? :D
I was thinking that too!
Yes! 😊
I think he bats for the other side..
Oh god all the women's eyebrows just annoy me.
Natalie M What eyebrows? 😂🤣🤣🤣🙌🏼
and this is why there is a small mean girl inside the nicest of us...try to keep squashing her smaller.
Agreed. She's overplucked them to death and they'll likely never grow back. Everyone had eyebrows like that in the mid 2000s and they were awful. She just looks permanentlt surprised because the arch js so high.
It is an UK thing 🤣🤣
You're spending £200 on clothes a week, how much do you think you're spending every week... £100? What!!!
28 years old.. she looks more like 42 years old.
The eyebrows...
Anyone know how she’s doing now?
So she has a disabled brother who was put in foster care ..poor boy
Bit you don't really know there situation maybe that was the best option for both parties, and who knows maybe he is taken into a nice beautiful home where they are more understanding
Well, good for him!!!! I hope they look after him much better than his mum would
NEVER place your pint on the pool table! Pros don't, amateurs do. Gotcha now, Mr. Psychologist.
I cringed so hard when I saw that. Hasn't either of them been to a pub before ? Who does that ?
£40 on cigarettes p/w - Why not smoke roll ups?
She looks a bit like chloe sevigny I think
I think it's the face shape, big eyes and haircut
28- you could tell me she was 46 and I would believe you
Lovely show
ironically, the makeup trend that she hated back then is the trend nowadays.
St Vincent DePaul Society Thrift Shop in Lowell, Massachusetts
Does the Pier even exist now?
They closed all their branches around 2008
She is 28 years old..but she looks a lot older and why worried for her skin when she smokes 😝 like crazy
this is why shit shops are booming
She doesn’t want to face her grief at all.
Start by giving up smokes and you won't need anti-aging goop. That should make a difference in your budget.
She already had wrinkles around her eyes
BDina Smoking cigarettes will do it! 😵
The days where you could be like.. yeah we’ll just wing it at the pub and stick it on, man needs a pint 😂
She's buying all this anti-aging products and yet she smokes........ Best Anti-Aging is to give up the smokes
She is cute
ofcourse she has no damn clue how much she spends - most don't!
I want all women to imagine yourselves screaming bad names and insults at an 11-12 year old girl...”You fat, pimply, no good, lazy pig! You are so UGGLY!”. Now if you wouldn’t do that to a young girl-Why are you doing it to the young girl that still lives inside of you?! Because you heard those insults then and are merely repeating the mean girls, bad parents and horrid boyfriends words over and over! You may NOT be a beauty queen and that is a good thing because the beauty queens were often overpushed by parents and never feel pretty enough either without being very plastic. And I am not talking about make up-Makeup can be fun for everyone!
Yeah she needs help....naw losing, and going hungry makes people think more about what is worth buying.
Ohhh the 2000's and 2010's, look at those eyebrows!!!!!
She has bad skin because she's a smoker!
She looks as having good skin, the wrinkles around the eyes and the blinking makes me wonder if she perhaps should see an optician?
What was the home decor store she bought the tile in??
She does everything to look jointer but smokes, does she not know that smoking makes YOU LOOK OLDER?
At the end, when Mr. Bf was sitting at the staircase he looked like a squatter.... Lol
It says she is a manager, I can't imagine how it would be when all the people you manage watch the programme
Account manager. Totally different job- sales & client services.
Take å weekend in the mountain hiiking
8:16 is that a Gizmo backpack? ❤
Agree
MGF...not expensive
She *Blinks* a Lot 😨
Women blink more than men.
What's weirder for me is how slowly she blinks sometimes
Contacts that is a bit dry?
she looks way older than 28
Scoobadiving in an indoor pool is like trying to swim 100miles in your bathtub at home.