Our men today are too nice and agreeable. We have not shown enough masculinity around women and the trend is not going the right direction. Men are becoming more like women and the opposite is true.
TheMmmooonnn 24? Now before you say anything. I'm really dumb when it comes to love and relationships. Like my parents never teaches or talk to me about these things. Like I know nothing about sex except it's a disease. Unless that's STD? Yeah, I dont know much but I'm still learning things on my own.
why do u need love? I chose video games!! the advice that I can give you is to be as ur self with more confident (even if u fake it), of course take care of ur look and clothes and try to be approachable. When u love someone ,try to look for common interests to talk about or even doing AND inform her of ur feelings in a proper time. AND don't just look for sex, sex isn't love!
That advice of acting like you’re supposed to be in any room (or fake it)...great advice. Learned that one ages ago, and can’t tel you what a difference it makes with the people around you, when you appear to be SO COMFORTABLE. Some will talk to you, because they feel uncomfortable and think you’re the comfortable one. In turn, you’ve got conversation. 😁👍🏼 Thanks again Kate.
I'm actually really surprised at myself, Kate. The more I watch your videos the more I realize I actually do this stuff on my own without realizing it. The "that reminds me of" literally happened yesterday. The girl at work I like, who's sadly already married, was telling me how she took her kids camping. And out of nowhere I did the that reminds me of when I went camping in boy scouts on this really old warship called the Lexington. She responded with "that's really cool", and smiled. I'm glad I stumbled upon your channel as it makes me realize I knew more about attracting women than I thought I did, so thanks I really mean it :). And something I've also noticed about game is boldness. I've noticed that the more bold/confident you are the more women and people in general will take notice.
Glad to know my videos gave you some important realizations. All these knew stuff you just learned will definitely come in handy in the future ;) Good luck!
This is great! Can you possibly make a video about how to stay relaxed and be calm while in the process of talking to girls for the first time? I feel my blood rushing and my heart starts beating fast?
I second this. I’m a big introvert, which people say is wonderful once you’re in a stable relationship, but taking the very first step is hard. Maybe a video on how we could play up our introverted qualities that are attractive and not quirky?
Amazing content as always, your videos are really helping me break out of my shell and be more confident around others. Hands down best dating and relationship advice on RUclips, keep up the awesome work! :)
I Have and use most of these, and in my opinion, I do them well. I have this thing where, I'll be very excited and I'll totally be ready to go out and be myself, but when it comes to speaking to a woman, I have this feeling and I sometimes lockup and don't say whats on my mind or often, nothing at all. Any words of wisdom would be great! I'm now officially subscribed, so you're stuck with me now Kate...lol
Kate, interesting video. I always presumed charisma and game was innate or natural for some men. I have a few really outgoing friends that just have that ease about them. I’ll work on my game skills and see what happens.
Great content with useful advice. For us introverts, everything is complicated. I have a question though. Do you have any videos with content relating to talking with women who work as waitresses, or something in the lines of small talk? Thanks
If I tried to talk with a girl and she ignored me, after that I left her and went away, then I noticed she’s following me , what should I do ,, in this situation,
Kate, what about attracting a girl to whom you have displayed signs of neediness and insecurity 😞? Is there a way back in 🤔? Can you do a video on this topic? Thanks !
So in short, have fun. Approach women who have the body language that invites you, and simply enjoy the conversation. If it doesn’t work then gracefully thank her for her time (I personally like to make a small, self-assured, joke like, “thanks for the courtesy laughs.”) and move on. Failure doesn’t have to hurt. It only means the two of you aren’t connecting.
I Met a woman in a professional setting. It was kind of tense as it was one to one but in a way she was playing with her hair alot. She was very receptive and nice. I felt there was something pulling us together but I'm not sure of I'm over reading.
@@egehy4495 thank you my friend, I ended up loving the woman dearly and over time we both admitted our feelings to one another, unfortunately circumstances pulled us away but I wish only the best for her and hope I can meet her again one day.
Michael Hubbard the universe has a way of taking things away and bringing it back to you when the time is right, i hope this is the case here! If not, better things are to come!
Hi Kate! Have you thought about writing a book , or maybe you already have written book that gathering your tips ? Waiting to your answer , Thanks Moti!
I suggest you check out Brad Browning's Mend the Marriage program. He's a colleague and a good friend of mine who's an expert in that field. He runs his own RUclips channel and offers 1 on 1 coaching program which I think would really be helpful for you! You can know more about it here: www.marriageguy.com/
Thanks Kate great tips I was wondering this girl I am dating is always playing with her hair when I am talking with her she seems to be touching a lot is this a good thing or do you think she just nervous alround me? What do you think? Help
Kate. Me and girlfriend broke up, after 4 years .. she studies in hostel and the hostel don't allow to use mobile. She only contact me when she come home two days every month. Now I came to work in Africa. When came here we where fighting in small things .. one day i got really sad and I told her " you like to give pain to me " then I took a cigarette and put it in my hand and face. Then send her video. She also got very sad. Her mother and friends said her leave this guy. She now blocked me in WhatsApp and everywhere. I did that because of my emotions. But I love her a lot .. now what to do ? Pls help
You probably spend too much time whacking off and playing games. You need to force yourself to get a life and eventually you realize that you're interesting. Find some things in real life be it gardening, art, history, whatever, just follow it, learn it, take a class in it. Then you will have a passion that makes you light up, and women like that a lot. Hopefully you will meet someone special on the way who even shares your passion. Good luck
Actually thought you gonna give those useless standard quotes, but you really pulled off some good advice, thank you! PS: Guys, dont fake it! But keep trying until you eg. feel natural taking up the space you feel most comfortable in. And thus be more confident by having gained experience!
Hi Kate. You should make a video that’s dedicated to Encouraging a woman to Open Up. Get her to remove the metaphorical “Mask” that she hides behind and get her to reveal her true, and awesome self 😀
So I’m going out with this girl on Friday it’s our second date I was extremely nervous on the first date and she said she wanted to see me again later when we were texting she told me she thinks we would be better as friends because I remind her of a guy she was really close with and she doesn’t know if she can get past that but after talking some more she agreed to go out on another date with me idk if this is just mixed signals and she is interested or I’m just reading to much into the situation lol
The fact that she's going out with you again is a pretty good indication that things are going well for you Glenn. And yeah, don't overthink stuff and just enjoy. Good luck! :-)
Oh sorry! Thanks for letting me know about this. I'll have it fixed ASAP. Meanwhile, you can check out the full content on my blog by visiting this link www.katespring.com/improve-your-game/
Hey Kate, I have a question. Is going directly to some girl and saying that you have a strong and lovely feelings for her, right to do? We don't talk too much. Actually she is in another class so there is less interaction between us. I don't have any topic to start with her.
That's sweet but chances are, you're gonna come off as a weird creep and you don't want that. How about you start with friendship and making comfortable with you first before you go with the "feelings" stuff? :-)
What should the first response words out of my mouth be if a girl I'm cold approaching at a club says, "I'm sorry but do you mind moving along because my girlfriends and I just want to have fun together and don't want to be interrupted by guys" ... should my response be some kind of an apology ? Please help me.. Thanks
Apologizing isn't gonna get you anywhere Curtis. This usually happens. When "Girls just wanna have fun", it's best to just leave them alone. Unless you can comeback with a reply (something witty/fun) that would spark not just her, but the entire group's interest, then bingo! ;)
hey kate, there is a girl i am friend with from almost 3 months we are talking to each other and i have feelings for her which are hard for me to contain anymore i request you to suggest me whether i tell her now or continue being friends and tell her later
If you've watched my other videos Siddharth, you probably would've figured out my answer already, and that's *go tell her!* If you leave things the way they are, you'd be stuck in the friend zone which would make things reaaaally complicated for you so I suggest you plan a way to let her know about your feelings soon! Good luck! 😊
Indeed! It doesn't work like magic. These things take time, which means you might hit a few bumps along the way, but progress is progress, so don't give up! 💪
Hey Kate! I am really interested in a girl that works in a coffeshop (like Starbucks)... How can I approach her? I am 17 and she is like 18.5 (i think)... What should i dooo??
buffdaddy4444's right. Guessing her exact age's not gonna help you so go give it a shot! Here, I feel this video's gonna help you a lot so go check it out! ruclips.net/video/ePgiYXLVTKE/видео.html
So this girl that I really like she laughs at my jokes alot we laugh together but the catch is we only see each other for 5 minutes or 1 hour on different days we usually stare at eachother for like 3 seconds and laugh she sometimes looks at me when I am not focusing on her at that time and I look up and she laughs. Can anyone tell me if she likes me or is into me?
You need to look for more signs other than just that. Watch this video to know more about "How to tell if she's into you" ruclips.net/video/n7-09X9aKg8/видео.html
Question, so when should I stop pursuing a love interest. At one point it felt pretty strong between me and this one person, initially she came on to me but now it seems I have to engage her to strike up conversations, I meam we still laugh and all but does this mean she is uninterested if I have to engage her?
James Sayers another relationship guy writes that women are like cats.....they come and go as they please, and trying to get them to come to you too strongly usually causes them to go the other way.....so keep the convos entertaining, brief, flirty, then YOU leave the convo before she does. The concept is attract by making her laugh and gently poking fun at her, then let her go......understand somerhing that i forgot and it caused me to to lose my ex gf......attraction is something you need to be mindful of constantly.....am what i am saying or doing right now.causing attraction and causing a loss of attraction?
James Sayers just thought of something else ive learned about recently......its called the "illusion of action". Oftentimes people assume they need to be doing SOMETHING to get what tjey want, BUT the irony with women in particular is that oftentimes doing too much causes them to move away, not closer. So when something isnt working the way you want it to, consider doing something DIFFERENT rather than MORE of what youve been doing. As an aside, im 42 and need this advice more than anyone so please dont think im preaching up on my high horse.....just dont want anyone making rhe same mistakes i did.
buffdaddy4444 yes that similar to the wolf spider paradox which is a male wolf spider approaches the den of the larger female wolf spider, however of he approaches to fast for the female's comfort the female spider will eat him. But I appreciate the advice, I'm only 16 and I am grateful of what your trying to. I'll certainly begin a trying the illusion/paradox
Hmm... Professor Spring. Doesn't sound bad at all. I may have to rethink all this RUclips and coaching stuff. Feels great to have an extra career option ;)
Hey Kate, My ex broke up with me last month because I took her for granted before things ended. We had been together for a year, and I had recently moved away a bit further from her. We did have a long distance relationship before though, and it worked out. So, I took her for granted, she broke up, I did some begging and pleading (sadly). When I asked her for another chance she said she needed to think, and we didn't speak untill she was done (1 week). The answer was a "no". We then met up in person, and she told me she been seeing this other guy, they had just hung out 3 times or so, and she promised that they hadn't done anything serious yet (like making out etc, and I believe her). She told me to look into her eyes and told me not to worry about him, and before we said bye that day, I asked her as a joke "can I have one last kiss?" and she said "it won't be the last one" but didn't give me one. Mixed signals.. After that day that we met up, she decided that she needs to think more, and that's where I'm at now. We haven't spoken for 12 days and I guess you could say that I have had 2 smaller periods of NC. The thing is, what do I do now? I have watched all your videos and I was planning to do a NC period of 45 days if she tells me "no" this time when she contacts me. But then I heard from somewhere that NC is not the way to go if you have indeed taken her for granted, and been showing a lack of interest. So I'm wondering what to do if she tells me "no" when she contacts me (should be within 5 days time). Should I focus on reattracting her and showing interest after waiting a couple of days if she tells me "no"? Or should I first tell her that I think the breakup was a good idea and that she won't hear from me again, unless I change my mind?.
Anton Malmgren go after her. Surprise her. You took her for granted? She doesn't need to think things through. This comment was 6 months ago. Hope it worked out
Sorry to hear that Meraz. I've got a video that's definitely gonna help you though. Watch it as soon as you can! ruclips.net/video/juo5zwRe3mk/видео.html
Great vid! Many valuable tips, and you’re pretty?? Subscriiiibed. “belong to the room” Just walk and talk like you would inside your own house. Disclaimer: don’t be naked or use profanity if that’s what you do inside your house, just minus that. All else is a go!
it's beyond looks, trust me. Attitude, purpose of life, high-value man, self-improvement, improve grooming , things you love to do, what type of man you are, crush your limiting belief ass, get fit, intelligence. if your working on your vision, have a conviction to get good with women so there's a lot of reasons than just looks.
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Fake it until you make it. Word!
I love how you logically talk about everything.
Oh you want to know the story of how I got these biceps? By lifting children out of poverty.
Ooh, nice one! Care to give me the woman's version of this pickup line? I might find it handy in the future ;)
PSS: Pardon me of my reply: I thought your reply is 2 WEEKS ago. My bad.
@@KateSpring Why wouldn't this be the woman's version? You can have biceps.
Our men today are too nice and agreeable. We have not shown enough masculinity around women and the trend is not going the right direction. Men are becoming more like women and the opposite is true.
I can't improve game. I really having a hard time understanding what it actually means. The only game I can improve is my video game skills.
Well, unless you wanna date your video games Jayquan, then I suggest you try harder ;)
Kate Spring I guess...
how old are you honey?
TheMmmooonnn 24? Now before you say anything. I'm really dumb when it comes to love and relationships. Like my parents never teaches or talk to me about these things. Like I know nothing about sex except it's a disease. Unless that's STD? Yeah, I dont know much but I'm still learning things on my own.
why do u need love? I chose video games!!
the advice that I can give you is to be as ur self with more confident (even if u fake it), of course take care of ur look and clothes and try to be approachable. When u love someone ,try to look for common interests to talk about or even doing AND inform her of ur feelings in a proper time.
AND don't just look for sex, sex isn't love!
That advice of acting like you’re supposed to be in any room (or fake it)...great advice.
Learned that one ages ago, and can’t tel you what a difference it makes with the people around you, when you appear to be SO COMFORTABLE. Some will talk to you, because they feel uncomfortable and think you’re the comfortable one. In turn, you’ve got conversation. 😁👍🏼
Thanks again Kate.
You're welcome Barry! Great to hear about someone who's experienced this scenario firsthand :-)
I will say your videos has fixed a lot problems I wasn't aware I've had and has had positive outcomes. Much gratitude
I'm actually really surprised at myself, Kate. The more I watch your videos the more I realize I actually do this stuff on my own without realizing it. The "that reminds me of" literally happened yesterday. The girl at work I like, who's sadly already married, was telling me how she took her kids camping. And out of nowhere I did the that reminds me of when I went camping in boy scouts on this really old warship called the Lexington. She responded with "that's really cool", and smiled. I'm glad I stumbled upon your channel as it makes me realize I knew more about attracting women than I thought I did, so thanks I really mean it :).
And something I've also noticed about game is boldness. I've noticed that the more bold/confident you are the more women and people in general will take notice.
Glad to know my videos gave you some important realizations. All these knew stuff you just learned will definitely come in handy in the future ;) Good luck!
Definitely some good advice!
This is great! Can you possibly make a video about how to stay relaxed and be calm while in the process of talking to girls for the first time? I feel my blood rushing and my heart starts beating fast?
I second this. I’m a big introvert, which people say is wonderful once you’re in a stable relationship, but taking the very first step is hard. Maybe a video on how we could play up our introverted qualities that are attractive and not quirky?
Your videos are well put together and I've been enjoying them all thus far! Keep going!
Thanks Kate !. My personal wing girl!, and all the very best
Kate tho 😏
Amazing content as always, your videos are really helping me break out of my shell and be more confident around others. Hands down best dating and relationship advice on RUclips, keep up the awesome work! :)
Heyy, thank you for your kind words. Really appreciate it :-)
I Have and use most of these, and in my opinion, I do them well. I have this thing where, I'll be very excited and I'll totally be ready to go out and be myself, but when it comes to speaking to a woman, I have this feeling and I sometimes lockup and don't say whats on my mind or often, nothing at all. Any words of wisdom would be great! I'm now officially subscribed, so you're stuck with me now Kate...lol
Simply ...Cool...
Thanks
You're welcome Joseph! ;)
Kate, interesting video. I always presumed charisma and game was innate or natural for some men. I have a few really outgoing friends that just have that ease about them. I’ll work on my game skills and see what happens.
Nice! It doesn't happen overnight Aaron, but as long as you keep going, you should see improvements in no time. Good luck! :-)
Hey Aron, how did it go?
“ I like ya and I want’cha, now we can do this the easy way or we can do this the hard way, the choice is yours”
Great content with useful advice. For us introverts, everything is complicated. I have a question though. Do you have any videos with content relating to talking with women who work as waitresses, or something in the lines of small talk? Thanks
Thanks Emilios! I think you'd find this one helpful: ruclips.net/video/7eGRGK48Sc8/видео.html
@@KateSpring Thanks.
Noticed you changed your hair colour. Still rocking it!!
Great catch eagle eyes ;) Thanks and I love it too :-)
Straight fiiiiiya as always! Appreciate it
Very solid advice as always
If I tried to talk with a girl and she ignored me, after that I left her and went away, then I noticed she’s following me , what should I do ,, in this situation,
Kate, what about attracting a girl to whom you have displayed signs of neediness and insecurity 😞? Is there a way back in 🤔? Can you do a video on this topic? Thanks !
Hey Kate, New Hair is amazing, Nice
Thanks Kalpa! Appreciate it :-)
There is a girl that sometimes sends me attraction signals and sometimes she just ignores me, what do i do?
So in short, have fun. Approach women who have the body language that invites you, and simply enjoy the conversation. If it doesn’t work then gracefully thank her for her time (I personally like to make a small, self-assured, joke like, “thanks for the courtesy laughs.”) and move on. Failure doesn’t have to hurt. It only means the two of you aren’t connecting.
I Met a woman in a professional setting. It was kind of tense as it was one to one but in a way she was playing with her hair alot. She was very receptive and nice. I felt there was something pulling us together but I'm not sure of I'm over reading.
So 3 years later, how did it go?! ( hope it went well!)
@@egehy4495 thank you my friend, I ended up loving the woman dearly and over time we both admitted our feelings to one another, unfortunately circumstances pulled us away but I wish only the best for her and hope I can meet her again one day.
Michael Hubbard the universe has a way of taking things away and bringing it back to you when the time is right, i hope this is the case here! If not, better things are to come!
@@egehy4495 thank you my friend 😊
Hi Kate!
Have you thought about writing a book , or maybe you already have written book that gathering your tips ?
Waiting to your answer , Thanks
Moti!
Hey Moti! You can download a free copy of my Attraction Handbook using this link www.katespring.com/free Enjoy! :-)
Hi Kate- I use your thoughts in other areas of my life with perceived success. Thank you.
I like to say: Give me ur phone number or else! 😂😂😂
Good one Jorge! That's effective and hilarious if used properly, but to everyone reading this, be warned: *USE AT YOUR OWN RISK!* 😂
So you said you would get back to use in the comments.
Hi..could you advise on how to reconquer my wife ?
I suggest you check out Brad Browning's Mend the Marriage program. He's a colleague and a good friend of mine who's an expert in that field. He runs his own RUclips channel and offers 1 on 1 coaching program which I think would really be helpful for you! You can know more about it here: www.marriageguy.com/
If she agrees to hangout and try to setup a day to meet up but is to busy is she interested or nah
Kate what would you do if you walked in on the guy you were dating watching your videos and making detailed notes?
Thanks Kate great tips I was wondering this girl I am dating is always playing with her hair when I am talking with her she seems to be touching a lot is this a good thing or do you think she just nervous alround me? What do you think? Help
Michael Eckert
yeah she is nervous but that doesn't mean a whole lot
Kate. Me and girlfriend broke up, after 4 years .. she studies in hostel and the hostel don't allow to use mobile. She only contact me when she come home two days every month. Now I came to work in Africa. When came here we where fighting in small things .. one day i got really sad and I told her " you like to give pain to me " then I took a cigarette and put it in my hand and face. Then send her video. She also got very sad. Her mother and friends said her leave this guy. She now blocked me in WhatsApp and everywhere. I did that because of my emotions. But I love her a lot .. now what to do ? Pls help
sarath siva go to her
Wow I really like UR shirt Kate ! The way U do UR hair looks Amazing !
Thank you Joe! 😊
I have an hard time telling stories about myself, because i have not that much to tell.
You probably spend too much time whacking off and playing games. You need to force yourself to get a life and eventually you realize that you're interesting. Find some things in real life be it gardening, art, history, whatever, just follow it, learn it, take a class in it. Then you will have a passion that makes you light up, and women like that a lot. Hopefully you will meet someone special on the way who even shares your passion. Good luck
Kate what is your take on dating sites? My question may be a little off topic but it is a popular thing for the very busy person. Thanks
Activate Kruger I've had good luck meeting women who are too busy,like me of course you have to weed thru some
Thank you
Actually thought you gonna give those useless standard quotes, but you really pulled off some good advice, thank you!
PS: Guys, dont fake it! But keep trying until you eg. feel natural taking up the space you feel most comfortable in. And thus be more confident by having gained experience!
Hi Kate. You should make a video that’s dedicated to Encouraging a woman to Open Up. Get her to remove the metaphorical “Mask” that she hides behind and get her to reveal her true, and awesome self 😀
A bunch of This A Very Very Informative
Thank you
You're welcome Ronnie!
1. Take initiative
2. That reminds me of...
3. Posture & Body language
4. Have a sense of humor
I damn adore your videos. They're in some way helpful :) thanks for all the advices.
You're welcome Hugo! Appreciate it! :-)
You forgot to put the recap at the end with all steps together. But great video!
Kate Kate Kate I don't care what u say but I learn so much just by watching you move
thanks for being so beautifully true✌✌
Aww, thanks Dezhi! Appreciate it! :-)
Kate Spring Keep up the good work and be beautiful or I unsubscribe the loveliness out of your eyes...
if that even makes any sense😁😁
What about Pickup in daygame, should I use commom lines?
Kate, you are doing a great job! Will you ever be touring in Arizona?
Thanks Brian! Not anytime soon but hopefully some time in the future. When that happens, you'll be the first one to know ;)
Come to London!
Been there last year and I can most certainly say I'm coming back someday! 🙂
So I’m going out with this girl on Friday it’s our second date I was extremely nervous on the first date and she said she wanted to see me again later when we were texting she told me she thinks we would be better as friends because I remind her of a guy she was really close with and she doesn’t know if she can get past that but after talking some more she agreed to go out on another date with me idk if this is just mixed signals and she is interested or I’m just reading to much into the situation lol
The fact that she's going out with you again is a pretty good indication that things are going well for you Glenn. And yeah, don't overthink stuff and just enjoy. Good luck! :-)
Jacob, I gotta steal that line...😂😂😂😁
Hi kate
So i like this girl but i not know if she like me and i not know what to say to her so can you help me out thanks
Kate! You haven't added the 2nd step in the description! !!
Oh sorry! Thanks for letting me know about this. I'll have it fixed ASAP. Meanwhile, you can check out the full content on my blog by visiting this link www.katespring.com/improve-your-game/
Hey Kate, I have a question. Is going directly to some girl and saying that you have a strong and lovely feelings for her, right to do? We don't talk too much. Actually she is in another class so there is less interaction between us. I don't have any topic to start with her.
That's sweet but chances are, you're gonna come off as a weird creep and you don't want that. How about you start with friendship and making comfortable with you first before you go with the "feelings" stuff? :-)
What should the first response words out of my mouth be if a girl I'm cold approaching at a club says, "I'm sorry but do you mind moving along because my girlfriends and I just want to have fun together and don't want to be interrupted by guys" ... should my response be some kind of an apology ? Please help me..
Thanks
Apologizing isn't gonna get you anywhere Curtis. This usually happens. When "Girls just wanna have fun", it's best to just leave them alone. Unless you can comeback with a reply (something witty/fun) that would spark not just her, but the entire group's interest, then bingo! ;)
Thanks for getting back to me :-)
Can you please give an example of a statement that would be a witty reply ?
How do I approach a woman I'm interested in?
Got the perfect video for you Rafael! Hope this helps! ruclips.net/video/ePgiYXLVTKE/видео.html
Thank you, for all your knowledge and experience. You have more courage than most guys I know! But wait I am really not creepy. LOL
kate how was today
hey kate,
there is a girl i am friend with
from almost 3 months we are talking to each other and i have feelings for her which are hard for me to contain anymore
i request you to suggest me whether i tell her now or continue being friends and tell her later
If you've watched my other videos Siddharth, you probably would've figured out my answer already, and that's *go tell her!* If you leave things the way they are, you'd be stuck in the friend zone which would make things reaaaally complicated for you so I suggest you plan a way to let her know about your feelings soon! Good luck! 😊
Thank you Kate for the help
Wow, none of that sounds terribly difficult. I say that because I always see myself as awkward, but it just seems to take practice.
Indeed! It doesn't work like magic. These things take time, which means you might hit a few bumps along the way, but progress is progress, so don't give up! 💪
Hey Kate! I am really interested in a girl that works in a coffeshop (like Starbucks)... How can I approach her? I am 17 and she is like 18.5 (i think)... What should i dooo??
LindeMan Linde go up to her and talk to her man
buffdaddy4444's right. Guessing her exact age's not gonna help you so go give it a shot! Here, I feel this video's gonna help you a lot so go check it out! ruclips.net/video/ePgiYXLVTKE/видео.html
So this girl that I really like she laughs at my jokes alot we laugh together but the catch is we only see each other for 5 minutes or 1 hour on different days we usually stare at eachother for like 3 seconds and laugh she sometimes looks at me when I am not focusing on her at that time and I look up and she laughs. Can anyone tell me if she likes me or is into me?
You need to look for more signs other than just that. Watch this video to know more about "How to tell if she's into you" ruclips.net/video/n7-09X9aKg8/видео.html
Question, so when should I stop pursuing a love interest. At one point it felt pretty strong between me and this one person, initially she came on to me but now it seems I have to engage her to strike up conversations, I meam we still laugh and all but does this mean she is uninterested if I have to engage her?
James Sayers possibly engagE slightly less But make the interactions where u do engage more flirty and entertaining?
buffdaddy4444 I really only pass in the halls and only one class. I'll try your advice, thanks buff daddy
James Sayers another relationship guy writes that women are like cats.....they come and go as they please, and trying to get them to come to you too strongly usually causes them to go the other way.....so keep the convos entertaining, brief, flirty, then YOU leave the convo before she does. The concept is attract by making her laugh and gently poking fun at her, then let her go......understand somerhing that i forgot and it caused me to to lose my ex gf......attraction is something you need to be mindful of constantly.....am what i am saying or doing right now.causing attraction and causing a loss of attraction?
James Sayers just thought of something else ive learned about recently......its called the "illusion of action". Oftentimes people assume they need to be doing SOMETHING to get what tjey want, BUT the irony with women in particular is that oftentimes doing too much causes them to move away, not closer. So when something isnt working the way you want it to, consider doing something DIFFERENT rather than MORE of what youve been doing. As an aside, im 42 and need this advice more than anyone so please dont think im preaching up on my high horse.....just dont want anyone making rhe same mistakes i did.
buffdaddy4444 yes that similar to the wolf spider paradox which is a male wolf spider approaches the den of the larger female wolf spider, however of he approaches to fast for the female's comfort the female spider will eat him. But I appreciate the advice, I'm only 16 and I am grateful of what your trying to. I'll certainly begin a trying the illusion/paradox
If only my professors explained concepts like you and your videos...
Hmm... Professor Spring. Doesn't sound bad at all. I may have to rethink all this RUclips and coaching stuff. Feels great to have an extra career option ;)
I subscribed long ago. I appreciate your help.
Thanks for subscribing Daniel. There's a couple more helpful videos coming your way so keep an eye out for them :-)
You should have a live show with other girls discussig these kinds of topics, i think that would improve your channel.
Excellent idea Alberto! It'll take some time to convince my girls to do a video with me, so hopefully it happens soon ;)
Thanks . Great video. I also like the style of this video. None of the home to get a women in bed , as that is all that matters.
the sad thing is that, i am really good at doing all the things you told but still 😑
Aww, sorry buddy. It doesn't work like magic though. In some cases, it may take some time but I'm sure you'll find her one day. Good luck! :-)
interesting stuff
Thanks! 🙂
Hey Kate,
My ex broke up with me last month because I took her for granted before things ended. We had been together for a year, and I had recently moved away a bit further from her. We did have a long distance relationship before though, and it worked out.
So, I took her for granted, she broke up, I did some begging and pleading (sadly). When I asked her for another chance she said she needed to think, and we didn't speak untill she was done (1 week). The answer was a "no". We then met up in person, and she told me she been seeing this other guy, they had just hung out 3 times or so, and she promised that they hadn't done anything serious yet (like making out etc, and I believe her). She told me to look into her eyes and told me not to worry about him, and before we said bye that day, I asked her as a joke "can I have one last kiss?" and she said "it won't be the last one" but didn't give me one. Mixed signals..
After that day that we met up, she decided that she needs to think more, and that's where I'm at now. We haven't spoken for 12 days and I guess you could say that I have had 2 smaller periods of NC. The thing is, what do I do now? I have watched all your videos and I was planning to do a NC period of 45 days if she tells me "no" this time when she contacts me. But then I heard from somewhere that NC is not the way to go if you have indeed taken her for granted, and been showing a lack of interest.
So I'm wondering what to do if she tells me "no" when she contacts me (should be within 5 days time). Should I focus on reattracting her and showing interest after waiting a couple of days if she tells me "no"? Or should I first tell her that I think the breakup was a good idea and that she won't hear from me again, unless I change my mind?.
Anton Malmgren go after her. Surprise her. You took her for granted? She doesn't need to think things through.
This comment was 6 months ago. Hope it worked out
Great 👍 video dear
Thanks Ed!
If you can wear a leather jacket over a lavender polo and still get a number, you truly have game.
I find that idea sexy, really. Leather jackets are too underrated nowadays.
Good video
Thanks Neil! :-)
I defo don't want a long distance relationship cause that just doesn't work for me love from lexi x
Kate hi how are you
I like a girl .she live abroad.she came to my country for study.we know each other for 4 months.i think I stuck in friend zone.,😑😑
Sorry to hear that Meraz. I've got a video that's definitely gonna help you though. Watch it as soon as you can! ruclips.net/video/juo5zwRe3mk/видео.html
I think a good video would be about the lost art of manners.
helpfull conenent
Kate you are beautiful ❤
Thank you Ameya! 💖
Nice vid
Hey Kate you know you can have the best time of yore life because I’m going to be there..😏
Nice try Lalo. Thanks though ;)
Great vid! Many valuable tips, and you’re pretty?? Subscriiiibed.
“belong to the room”
Just walk and talk like you would inside your own house. Disclaimer: don’t be naked or use profanity if that’s what you do inside your house, just minus that. All else is a go!
Thanks for subscribing Raffi! Appreciate it! 🙂
Hey Kate will you ever make vids that are a bit less formal? Like your not reading from a script or something.
Thanks for your feedback Rashaan! I'll try to keep things light and do better next time ;)
Hm interesting the only thing I learn is that Canadian women are cute ...
I thought this was for women
I recommend you check out Amy North's channel instead! 🙂
I wish i had sensible gf like u❤ lots love to u
Aww, I'm sure you'll find one soon Sanket ;)
My game is still lagging 😂
Time to upgrade you gear? ;)
Dang! What's up beautiful.
Looking cute n thx will try if anyone would like 2 talk 2 me :D
Hey, good luck! And you're welcome :-)
kate hi how are you
Finally a youtuber thats from Canada that i can be loyal to lol
None of this matters when your unattractive, take it from me.
it's beyond looks, trust me. Attitude, purpose of life, high-value man, self-improvement, improve grooming , things you love to do, what type of man you are, crush your limiting belief ass, get fit, intelligence. if your working on your vision, have a conviction to get good with women so there's a lot of reasons than just looks.
Kate hi how are you