How to become irresistible to women: Dont try to become irresistible to women. Listen to your own intuition and go find your purpose in life. If you do that the women will come, trust me. And you wont have to think about how to text her or what to say because it wont matter, youre to busy making your dreams come true........just saved you 11 minutes
Can you become an engineer by listening to your intuition? Can you learn languages by intuition or anything else for that matter? No, you need to educate yourself and learn. While having a great life is indeed attractive to women, that will only open the door. If you do not know what to do, once you're in, you may soon find yourself on the front porch with the door shut.
Great video! Thank you... Quick Summary: 1) Take initiative. Take leadership over yourself and do what you say you are going. What you are speakes louder than what you say. 2) Be vulnerable. Show emotional strength. It shows power, and confidence. 3) Get big Open up physically. Arms open. Let your body say, “I am here open and willing.” Let your body language (regardless of actual size) show how big you are on the inside. 4) Master Communication Listen first, and then ask thoughtful questions. 5) Text with Intent a) Detailed and firm invitation to specific date and time b) Reference to shared memory/experience c) Be humorous
Kate has done her research, great video! But I would say that, when she talks about "vulnerability" she's really talking about authenticity. Being who you are with no apologies.
Kate, thank you for taking the time to make these videos! I went through a really hard break up a few years ago and I've been doing everything I can to find confidence in myself again. These videos will be guide to learning to love myself, and to find someone who I can share a life with. 🙏💕
Hello German! Glad to know you're finally getting back to the game. There's lots of helpful videos on my channel so be sure to check them out. Go get 'em tiger! ;)
And that, gentlemen, is how you flatter a lady. Complimenting both the inside and outside aspects of a woman works more than you can imagine. Well done Jose! 👏
One thing I've noticed a long time ago when it comes to women looking for a man of confidence. They can't tell the difference between that and the arrogant ones.
@@JonBandMiley True confidence is the total opposite of arrogance. Arrogance is for the scared little wimps that brag, and never work hard or do anything. Confidence is for the hard working accomplishing folks.
Being a man of your word, doing what you say you're going to do, that is in my experience the most important aspect of not only being a man, but also keeping relationships together, whether they be just friendships, or romantic relationships, or what have you. I think Katie Holmes said it best in Batman Begins: "Its not who you are underneath, but it's what you do that defines you." That being said it's also the most difficult, because being a man of your word requires that you do so, even when it is not convenient.
@@KateSpring - I do have a question for you, and that is how do you know when a woman genuinely likes you, and to her it's not just an affair? In the context I just provided, obviously what I just said suggest that the two are involved sexually. So how do you know when it's more than just sex for a woman? How do you know when she's actually developing feelings for you, especially if she's giving you mixed signals? Maybe you can do a video on the subject, since you said you were interested in getting suggestions about different videos you can do?
Communication with words, writing, and actions is crucial to civilization's progress. It's the ages old advice of tell em what ya want, document it for history, and then get to doing it. When we're being true to community wellness it's a clear trailhead to helpful progress everytime.
It's really strange to hear real advise. I like how you make things clear rather than saying "just be nice" or "be a gentleman" the generic bs. This is nothing but the raw truth from an intelligent woman. Thanks for sharing
Kate, seriously this is the best teaching video I have ever seen. You communicate in a way that men completely are able to listen and learn. Not to mention that you are beautiful
@@ericocampo4427 what a bunch of bs. Are you seriously trying to impress random people on RUclips with that 'humble millionare' lie? No wonder you're looking for advice on attracting women...
you should only worry about how much money you have when it comes to women if the woman is a gold digger... and hate to break it to you, but if she likes you because you have money, then she likes YOUR MONEY and NOT YOU. And don't give me the whole, "but I could fuck her!" excuse because you can't... if she likes you for your money, she's not going to have sex with you. Think about it... once you give her your money .... that money is gone and no longer on you.. so what attracted to her is then gone once she has it... and if you don't give her money, then why would she have sex with you if you are not gonna give her what she came for? Think about this... have you ever seen a girl that you found repulsive and couldn't in a million years picture yourself having fun having sex with her... and then you found out she was rich and suddenly wanted to have sex with her and truly like her?
I agree about that book "Models". Being vulnerable has really improved me. I was afraid to lose weight. I thought I could never diet or maintain an exercise routine. I decided to do it anyway. As a result, I lost 100 lbs. I also became a yogi and personal trainer in the process, starting a new career. In addition, I started to face my fear about singing in public. I started going to karaoke, and the terror was incredible! But I kept going, and then started instead doing open stages. I later transitioned out of covers into my originals. I got my album done too. I thank Manson for this.
I'm glad it all worked out all right for you! It all boils down to having the courage of doing what you think you can't do. As long as you're willing to do the next step then you'll eventually have progress. Keep it up!
Biggest challenge I have; the right women; nothing is worse then going after someone I kind of sort a like! My goal is to find the right people Im interested in! and to be opened to be wounded; this is where my work is! hard stuff!
One simple communication tip for you Kate: smile a little bit from time to time and try to be more engaging by being less robotic...you will convey your message more effectively...
You aways bring the facts, keep it real and tell us from a real women's perspective and you don't cut out every mistake so we know your a real person. I'm glad to say I was here before this channel really blows up! Keep up the great work!
Thank you for the book recommendations! I'm halfway through Models and this is exactly what I needed. So nice to finally find frank dating advice that isn't the creepy pickup artist crap.
Apart of me feels only dudes can teach this, but at the same time She has the inside knowledge to her own psyche. & more of an understanding from a woman's perspective.
Thanks for helping make a difference for people who just need that extra boost, Kate! I believe what you're saying is not only true for *attracting* women but people in general... more pacifically people that you work with, social settings etc. having the ability to be a leader amongst women and men.
You're welcome! I'm guessing the auto-correct striked again and you meant "attracting", but that's an interesting take on my video Daniel! Thanks for sharing 🙂
My parents always said I was good at taking up space. Thanks for the tips, Kate. I've watched a few of your videos, and I appreciate the psychological insights and your desire to help us out. Have a great day.
It's been awhile since I have watched your videos. I like it how you explain everything so clearly and is helping quite a bit. How many different body languages are there Kate? Great video thank you, this is perfect information.
Hey Kate, idk if it was this video or another that I saw where you mentioned the idea of "calling her not txting her" when asking her out. Well 3 months ago after hearing your advice I did it. I straight up called a girl who had denied me a few times in the past, and I've been in a seriously relationship her with for over 3.5 months, and i really think that move was the game changer. So this is a late thanks.
Through the whole video I was curious as to why you wore a nightgown and look so hot but didn’t let your hair down. Obviously you know your hot and didn’t want to melt us dudes down by throwing the whole hair down thing in with it. Nice nighty 👍
I've often not succeeded to date nor to mate which tells me that I'm not the most attractive male for most females but there's actions I want to take to change my luck for the better on that which's why I'm watching these videos
Plus I don't go by crossing fingers for my luck to change for there to come a time for a woman to look at me and me attractive just as I do her besides hitting it off with her cos I don't want to hope for it, instead I just want it to happen so all take every good action there is under the sun to make a reality the way I want it to be and not a dream
Hi Kate, new to your channel. Is there a way to personally email you? I would like to tell you my story and a few questions about it. A response would be greatly appreciated! Thank you! Jason
some tips for you :) 1) no pickup lines, no games - cougars are experienced women and they get it right away if you aren't authentic. 2) Don't talk about age 3) show alot of self confidence and make your intentions clear from the beginning 4) don't try to impress her with money 5) make her laugh and give her a good time. She wants to feel the good mood coming from younger men ... best of luck to you :)
Go hiking on trails in the Seattle area. Just last month we had a guy who had a cougar jump on him it wanted him so bad. This may not be your thing because I don't think the cougar had sex with him, but he was dead tired afterwards. Well, he was dead anyway.
First of all and foremost, your mannerism indicates you are an intelligent and amazing women. That in turn motivates me to seek and want your advice. Can't wait to see what else you have to offer in how to attract the opposite sex.
Glad to hear that Francisco. You can find more helpful videos on my channel with topics that would definitely interest you. Feel free to check them out anytime 🙂
Hi Kate, love your informative videos. Thanks for the tips and advice about women. I am stuck in a predicament right now with a younger woman (12 yr difference). I am in my early 30’s and I have been talking to a young lady in college, studying to get her masters degree. We both went to the same high school and grew up in the same neighborhood, but of course 12 years apart. We always have small talk and flirt at work, but when I text her she sometimes does not reply, and I def do not text her again and when we see each other at work, I try to stay away from her and mind my business, but she always seems to come around to where I am and tries to be around me and I always catch her looking at me. Whenever we are at work together, things seem good, but when it comes to being outside of work, it is not the same. I cant get her to hang out with me. What I feel is, she does like me, but the age difference, and her peers judging her, is deeply on her mind and preventing her from going out with me. I am asian and in our culture, her parents and her peers will definitely judge me going out with her in a negative way. Do you have any advice about my situation? I really like her, but I dont know if I should move on to people around my age or keep trying to pursue her. Thank you
Hey Ryan! Unfortunately, that has to be her decision and we can't do anything about it. Looks like you know your way around women so how about you try and date some other women close to your age and see if that would get a response or reaction from her?
Thank you for your overview. It was Spencer who said the strongest thing. Darwin said the survivors are the most adaptive to change, if that's good fodder for another video. Keep up the good work.
Thanks! Adaptation can easily be applied to dating as well. Over the years, the dating scene has evolved and changed so much with the influence of technology and social media taking a major role. I've met men who didn't do anything but just whine about it, and I've also met Darwin's survivors who adapted and used these tools to their advantage. So you think you're one of the survivors jtlege? 😉
It's fascinating that you would dress this way for a male audience. Though provocative, it's tasteful and compels one to keep watching. The fact that you're well spoken, demands a level of respect and the lingerie creates a sense of intimacy with your audience. Everything you do is obviously deliberate. Well done.
If women are so attracted to alpha males then why do they always seem to end up dating the ultra skinny pretty boys rather than the strong, muscular men?
Generalizations bro. It's what's in style in that immediate area, women will always respond to specific traits regardless of what's _IN_ at the moment.
Never heard about the vulnerability thing before. Got me thinking if i should have done it or not before.Thanks for that input in your video. It freed me from self consciousness. More power! 😊
Seriously , I focus on you enough to loss track of what u r saying , how to get you ?that will be new . I have no thing familiar between us to remindy u but am getting familiar with your voice . Love u @kate spring
You are an extremely well speaker. Along with your hand gestures and your slight facial expressions you bring your point to a concise explanation. Job well done and thank you
I thought your content was bogus at first, but that changed after seeing you explain with actual concepts, referencing Mark Manson and using those short clips as some kind of subconscious message. That's very well thought out Kate, tells a lot on how you spend your free time :)
Her example of the short neck giraffe sounds to me more like Lamarck's theory, rather than Darwin. Where are those short neck giraffes's? (hint: they did not survive)
Another fine video. About that poll...not sure where to select on my phone for the poll, so I'll write my response as first do something on "women liking you in 10 secs or less". Then the following up on " how to build rapport". Both I would like to be seen done Kate. Fascinating facts about the numbers of words spoken by women per day. Quite beautiful really.
Nice going Tim! I'd say just enjoy the date and have fun! I'd also recommend watching this video: ruclips.net/video/UPC4ItjOXPk/видео.html Good luck! :-)
She'll be nervous too, Tim! :) It's a new situation for both of you. Remember that you have all the tools in you that you need to master that life of your's! All the tools. Think about it, there is nothing you can forget at home or not have and therefore not being successful. You have everything with you all the time. Just roll with it and learn the flirt-/dating-/love-game. With practice you will get better and better. And as Kate already said: Have fun!
Ok, so lets check if this really works. Kate i like your Videos, i think they are very unique and i am short neck vulnerable Giraffe. I'd like to get to know you and take you out for a coffee
Pretty good advice really, particularly the vulnerability part. I remember getting physical in my single days with women off the back of moments of vulnerability. One women started kissing me whilst I got upset about my dog that had died. On another occasion a women took a liking to me, because on the evening we met, I felt ill and had to keep rushing to the toilet. I know it was that because I asked her and that is what she said. Incredible really, but guys need to realise the power of attraction in vulnerability.
Love your advice and decided to subscribe. If I may offer some advice of my own, what you say has great merit and it seems as though you’ve put a lot of thought into it and wrote it down perfectly. It might seem more “fluid” on screen if you wrote bullet points and then spoke freely on those. You’re presence is great and I think that it might feel more like talking to the individual instead of a group. Thanks again for your videos, they really are great!
Hey Kate, I just started listening to your videos, I just have a bit of feedback. I like your body language(that you use in your videos). I got to say is that your voice and tone are a little monotoned, you slightly inflect your voice, but not enough to be on the same level as the knowledge you have to share with us, I'm going to keep listening and watching because this is an area that I've been told I struggle with.
I'm pretty sure plenty of those watching are what most would classify as undesirable because out of billions there will be plenty trying to figure out some way to get someone but their genetics have doomed them to being alone. They could get someone but those available are undesirable to them.
+Joe Lewus I'm definitely one of the extremely few people who not only lost the genetic lottery, but got sued by it, as an added insult. Could there be a woman for me? That's irrelevant, because when you look like I do, the last thing you want to do is to put yourself in social situations where meeting women is possible. If you lined up all the women in the world (3,5 billion), and pushed me on a wheelbarrow in front of each and every one of them, MAAAYBE one of them would feel..."something" that could be described as desire. But the odds of that woman living in my town, or even my country, is beyond remote. And the chance that she's also available and not criminally insane, well....no, I give up. Nothing will ever happen. And I'm not even sure I could handle being with a woman anyway. After more than 20 years of being a hermit (after leaving my parent's fortress), being alone has become my reality. So it would take a very forceful (and blind) woman to jump on me for anything to develop.
Good info. I don't know if your appearance is intentional for this purpose but the hair and baby doll makes you more natural and attractive. Knowing the info given, even more so.
Hi Kate. So I am going to throw some thoughts out and maybe you could create a video on some or all of it. Me stats: age 54 and really like the vibe of 20 something women. Not really looking for a wife...and maybe not even a girlfriend. Okay, even if had the money, I don't want to pay for my company...that is, from a professional. I offer no offspring future. How about social pressure from her peers...or even public responses when they view it ( I'm cool w it, but how could framing it to her happen?) Btw, I don't have an ex nor children. Really tho, I feel this shouldn't play into it...but do say if it does. I've never seen ANY dating couch websites touch such a wide age difference. But us men are out there and we ain't creeps...just red blooded men. I'm sure there is more. I am looking forward to your input. Thanks, Eric
Hey Eric, there is something I can tell you for now: Number one, the less you worry about it, the more relaxed you will come across and the less she will care about it. I once read that women are a mirror of our (men's) emotions and according to personal experience, I can really confirm that. So basically for your it's the most natural thing in the world to go and meet 20 something women. If anyone asks you why you do it, the only thing coming into your mind(!) shall be "Why not??? I like her, she likes me - that's it." Number two: Same attracts same. So if you don't mind the age difference, approach women and like to get to know them, you will attract the ones that also don't care about it. The more the woman worries about it and maybe starts flipping back and forth, the less she is "in sync" with you and your values concerning this constellation. Of course life is a lesson for everyone and she could very well come to the conclusion that she actually likes it, but I'm sure you know you cannot try make a river go the other way. Keep it relaxed, share your worldview concerning age difference with her in the right moment, be vulnerable with this and just lead with good intention. If she "fits" you, she will join. I hope that helped, now I'm also curious what Kate will come up with ;)
Mike Myon Thanks Mike for your reply. I'm a newbie so testing the water. In fact, I am currently just about to do some day game here on a nice day in downtown Portland Oregon. Okay, thanks again!!
hopper333 Haha, look at you man, going out for day game and having a good time, that's great! Many guys wouldn't dare doing that, so enjoy and be proud of yourself. Best of fun + luck :)
+Mike Myon Well, Mike. I'm 41, and although I'm very much attracted to "women" in their 20s, if you ever see me with one, call the cops... You won't, though. I'm not a pedophile.
Great job! Very insightful. Ive always enjoyed a woman's take on anything related to matters of the heart. Also the information you present is very structured and direct. Thank you
@@damon47st2 Being a gentlemen hadn't really worked for me... I try to be really nice and they appreciate and like that about me. But they don't find it attractive. Actually I think its had the opposite effect. Adults respect me a lot and others think of me as nice but I've never had anything close to a girlfriend. I kissed one girl once. And we both agree it was a mistake on both our parts and damn near ruined our friendship and made me feel like shit.
You're good at this! I like the way you reference articles/theories to corroborate your views/experiences. There's hope for us single men after all. lol. Good luck!
Yoooo this was the other half of the game I needed to know. I've gotten to the point where I really understand the way men think because I am one and I always reference evolution when talking about the Male thought process. This is exactly what I was looking for. Thank you haha
Hey Kate, you look great,and you would look even better with a smile. I have a request for you. Mind doing both of the videos for which you got us to vote? It would be great to learn more from you.
Thanks King :-) The poll's a bit old, but you're in for a treat coz I did both! Got the links below so you can go start watching them :-) ruclips.net/video/RLOa5WVkfM4/видео.html ruclips.net/video/cn8O7SI3cNc/видео.html
This only considers physical aspects of attraction. You could say there is also a spiritual dimension--an uncanny connection between two souls. In that sense, it helps to "know what you're looking for" yet remain open to God surprising you with someone you couldn't have predicted.
We're talking about women here though. Women are very visual creatures. You like spiritual connection because you're a man. That's why most men do not have sex toys because no matter how advanced the sex toy is, it can't give spiritual connection that a man craves. That's why women all have sex toys... cuz they don't care about spiritual connection.... they can just have orgasms from a toy and be happy. Their happiness can be bought. Men's happiness cannot since you cannot buy spiritual connection.
Nice vid. I agree commmunication is so important. You want to communicate that you are interested in the girl intellectually (because you are), while never being scared to show you are also interested in the girl sexually (because you might be). But I disagree, you don't always have to humorous in your texts. Humour and playfulness can be hard to convey via text, and not as funny as irl.
Thanks CJ! Just because it's hard doesn't mean it isn't effective. Remember that effort goes a long way and most women can easily see effort when it's headed their way, so it'll be a huge boost for you. Just adapt the _"What have I got to lose"_ attitude!
@@KateSpring I think the problem many guys have myself included is that they make effort but with an outcome attached (get her number/ go for coffee). So the girl won't appreciate the effort cause she smells a sneaky motive. But it's hard for us guys to just be chill with girls, believe me. Just quickly, I've had long-term relationships with handful of women, but I'm an only child who went to all-boys school, being natural around girls was never easy. Love to hear it thoughts on tips for guys like me if U have time.
Is it just me who gets more and more overwhelmed the more I watch? Back in the days if I were attracted to someone and felt a connection I'd go for it and were sucessfull(even if I was the total opposite of alfa and uber sensitive). Life happened and it seems I've lost that touch, hence why I look at these, but all that happens is I get overwhelmed n thinks screw it. Great advice though, I'll keep it in mind and look for that precious connection, thanks :)
How to become irresistible to women: Dont try to become irresistible to women. Listen to your own intuition and go find your purpose in life. If you do that the women will come, trust me. And you wont have to think about how to text her or what to say because it wont matter, youre to busy making your dreams come true........just saved you 11 minutes
Can you become an engineer by listening to your intuition? Can you learn languages by intuition or anything else for that matter? No, you need to educate yourself and learn. While having a great life is indeed attractive to women, that will only open the door. If you do not know what to do, once you're in, you may soon find yourself on the front porch with the door shut.
3% men is it you ?🤔😆😅
Yes and no. Dont overthink it and be yourself, but if yourself is not attractive at all, you are fucked. Then you can start getting towards her heart.
Yes sir 👏
Eoin Brennan Dude you see it
Great video! Thank you...
Quick Summary:
1) Take initiative.
Take leadership over yourself and do what you say you are going. What you are speakes louder than what you say.
2) Be vulnerable.
Show emotional strength. It shows power, and confidence.
3) Get big
Open up physically. Arms open. Let your body say, “I am here open and willing.” Let your body language (regardless of actual size) show how big you are on the inside.
4) Master Communication
Listen first, and then ask thoughtful questions.
5) Text with Intent
a) Detailed and firm invitation to specific date and time
b) Reference to shared memory/experience
c) Be humorous
Great work James! This will surely come handy to those who can't spend 11 minutes for my video 😂👏
Not at all Kate... It's a rich 11 minutes ... this is merely an augmentation of your great work... :-)
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So in other words... rape the girl.
James Clark Xies9
Kate has done her research, great video! But I would say that, when she talks about "vulnerability" she's really talking about authenticity. Being who you are with no apologies.
You got that one on point Ryan. Thanks! :-)
Kate, thank you for taking the time to make these videos! I went through a really hard break up a few years ago and I've been doing everything I can to find confidence in myself again. These videos will be guide to learning to love myself, and to find someone who I can share a life with. 🙏💕
Hello German! Glad to know you're finally getting back to the game. There's lots of helpful videos on my channel so be sure to check them out. Go get 'em tiger! ;)
I am glad you went scientifically ,thats attractive.
Kate, it was impossible for me to ignore your beauty. But far even deeper and better; it was even harder for me to ignore your wisdom.
And that, gentlemen, is how you flatter a lady. Complimenting both the inside and outside aspects of a woman works more than you can imagine. Well done Jose! 👏
Did u get her number??
One thing I've noticed a long time ago when it comes to women looking for a man of confidence. They can't tell the difference between that and the arrogant ones.
Oh trust me Mark, we know 😉 And it's a real turn-off too so be careful not to over do it when trying to display confidence. Good luck!
Mark, that's because confidence is just a nice way of saying arrogance. They mean the exact same thing.
So true infact they seem to fall for the arrogant than the self confident guy..it makes me think arrogance is sexy 🤔😂😂😂😂
@@alphamasaf154 What does that mean when people post up these squares in a comment?
@@JonBandMiley True confidence is the total opposite of arrogance. Arrogance is for the scared little wimps that brag, and never work hard or do anything. Confidence is for the hard working accomplishing folks.
Being a man of your word, doing what you say you're going to do, that is in my experience the most important aspect of not only being a man, but also keeping relationships together, whether they be just friendships, or romantic relationships, or what have you.
I think Katie Holmes said it best in Batman Begins: "Its not who you are underneath, but it's what you do that defines you."
That being said it's also the most difficult, because being a man of your word requires that you do so, even when it is not convenient.
Great stuff! They call me *Katie* when I'm *home* 😉
So so true
@@KateSpring - I do have a question for you, and that is how do you know when a woman genuinely likes you, and to her it's not just an affair?
In the context I just provided, obviously what I just said suggest that the two are involved sexually. So how do you know when it's more than just sex for a woman? How do you know when she's actually developing feelings for you, especially if she's giving you mixed signals?
Maybe you can do a video on the subject, since you said you were interested in getting suggestions about different videos you can do?
Communication with words, writing, and actions is crucial to civilization's progress. It's the ages old advice of tell em what ya want, document it for history, and then get to doing it. When we're being true to community wellness it's a clear trailhead to helpful progress everytime.
Woman hate me. I wish I could have good looking women. I am ugly. I have had 2 failed relationships.
Thank you for helping me with this. I've been trying to do things you said and my wife is feeling better . Me too 💝
Happy to help and hear that Doc!
@@KateSpring the vulnerable part was not really correct though. Many women don't like men who cry
It's really strange to hear real advise. I like how you make things clear rather than saying "just be nice" or "be a gentleman" the generic bs. This is nothing but the raw truth from an intelligent woman. Thanks for sharing
Heey, thanks! There's a couple more helpful videos on my channel so make sure you check them out when you get the chance 😉
The bunch of guys here trying to hit on kate didn't understand anything of her videos. You don't even sound funny, you sound desperate.
so true man, its so cringy
Plus the fact that she's engaged.
Creepy and pathetic actually. Her great info and guidance is lost on them.
Agreed.
Would they be here if they weren't desperate? Personally, I gave up on finding love when I was 20. I'm just here to torture myself.
Kate, seriously this is the best teaching video I have ever seen. You communicate in a way that men completely are able to listen and learn. Not to mention that you are beautiful
Why, thank you! Appreciate it :-)
With looks, money, status and height.
The Black Knight ZA If you got no game or social proof, none of that matters
If you have enough money you can always get gold diggers, lol.
Eric Ocampo 1st step: stop lying to yourself and others
@@ericocampo4427 what a bunch of bs. Are you seriously trying to impress random people on RUclips with that 'humble millionare' lie? No wonder you're looking for advice on attracting women...
you should only worry about how much money you have when it comes to women if the woman is a gold digger... and hate to break it to you, but if she likes you because you have money, then she likes YOUR MONEY and NOT YOU. And don't give me the whole, "but I could fuck her!" excuse because you can't... if she likes you for your money, she's not going to have sex with you. Think about it... once you give her your money .... that money is gone and no longer on you.. so what attracted to her is then gone once she has it... and if you don't give her money, then why would she have sex with you if you are not gonna give her what she came for?
Think about this... have you ever seen a girl that you found repulsive and couldn't in a million years picture yourself having fun having sex with her... and then you found out she was rich and suddenly wanted to have sex with her and truly like her?
Being assertive + confident + don’t care about what other people think without being rude= you get the girl you want
Exactly. Wanna know more about how to be a bad boy that women want without being a dick? Watch this video! ruclips.net/video/qsKn-jU0FT0/видео.html
It's all about confidence.
Fuck confidence! I refuse to be reduced to a single attribute.
Yeah, but I don't have it.
@@rschana100 ikr
I'm confident that confidence isn't what it's "all about"
I have NONE, so I'm FUCKED.
I agree about that book "Models". Being vulnerable has really improved me. I was afraid to lose weight. I thought I could never diet or maintain an exercise routine. I decided to do it anyway. As a result, I lost 100 lbs. I also became a yogi and personal trainer in the process, starting a new career. In addition, I started to face my fear about singing in public. I started going to karaoke, and the terror was incredible! But I kept going, and then started instead doing open stages. I later transitioned out of covers into my originals. I got my album done too. I thank Manson for this.
I'm glad it all worked out all right for you! It all boils down to having the courage of doing what you think you can't do. As long as you're willing to do the next step then you'll eventually have progress. Keep it up!
@@KateSpring Roger. Thank you for your videos. I try to watch at least one every day.
you look like the girl that I'm trying to attract. great stuff.
Biggest challenge I have; the right women; nothing is worse then going after someone I kind of sort a like! My goal is to find the right people Im interested in! and to be opened to be wounded; this is where my work is! hard stuff!
One simple communication tip for you Kate: smile a little bit from time to time and try to be more engaging by being less robotic...you will convey your message more effectively...
Thanks for your feedback Romesh! Appreciate it! :-)
Romesh Kirpalani she might be an intj
Intelligent and open for criticism. I like you very much Kate. 😊
Nice example of how to make things lightly Kate. Nice feedback Romesh.
Kate Spring how he dare😃to such beautiful girl
-Take initiative
-Be vulnerable
-Look bigger
-Master communication
-Text with intent
I'm attracted to the teacher
No shit. That's at least 50% of the reason that any single human watched this video.
You are not the only one...
Nice top. I had to watch the video three times...kept getting distracted.
The good old teen fantasy
*nurse lol
You aways bring the facts, keep it real and tell us from a real women's perspective and you don't cut out every mistake so we know your a real person. I'm glad to say I was here before this channel really blows up! Keep up the great work!
Thank you! Don't forget to hit that subscribe button! ;)
Kate Spring I been subbed lol 😋
Thank you for the book recommendations! I'm halfway through Models and this is exactly what I needed. So nice to finally find frank dating advice that isn't the creepy pickup artist crap.
Thanks Chad! There's more videos on my channel that you can enjoy!
I can't believe over 800 downticked this video. This video was really good and is spot on. Thanks Kate for sharing your insights!
Let's focus on the positive things like the 9.8k likes 😉 Appreciate your support!
Apart of me feels only dudes can teach this, but at the same time She has the inside knowledge to her own psyche. & more of an understanding from a woman's perspective.
Good to hear you're keeping an open mind despite how you feel Jurell. That attitude's gonna take you far in the long run. Keep it up! 👍
Thanks for helping make a difference for people who just need that extra boost, Kate! I believe what you're saying is not only true for *attracting* women but people in general... more pacifically people that you work with, social settings etc. having the ability to be a leader amongst women and men.
You're welcome! I'm guessing the auto-correct striked again and you meant "attracting", but that's an interesting take on my video Daniel! Thanks for sharing 🙂
@@KateSpring
The messages was spoken in a professional style which contradicts the feeling put out by the outfit. Regardless good presentation.
Thank you Kate! you speak from the heart about helping us to love our women. 'A noble enterprise! You rock! -Joe
Thank you Joe! Appreciate it! 😊
6:08 it looks like the letters "b" and "e" create glasses on her face 😂
Hahahahaha! I didn't notice that before 🤓
Sammy Alvarez why did that made me laugh?😂
My parents always said I was good at taking up space. Thanks for the tips, Kate. I've watched a few of your videos, and I appreciate the psychological insights and your desire to help us out. Have a great day.
Always a pleasure 💖
It's been awhile since I have watched your videos. I like it how you explain everything so clearly and is helping quite a bit. How many different body languages are there Kate? Great video thank you, this is perfect information.
Hey Kate, idk if it was this video or another that I saw where you mentioned the idea of "calling her not txting her" when asking her out. Well 3 months ago after hearing your advice I did it. I straight up called a girl who had denied me a few times in the past, and I've been in a seriously relationship her with for over 3.5 months, and i really think that move was the game changer. So this is a late thanks.
Wow! Glad to hear it. So happy for you Will! Hopefully the next time I hear from you will be about your engagement! 💖
Passion is addictive. Find that which excites you and the world gets excited with you... They simply can't help it.
Couldn't agree more with you Randy.
I'm not really taking this in, I'm just staring at the screen, mesmerized! 😀💐
Not the result that I'm hoping for but hey, you can always hit that replay button 😉
Through the whole video I was curious as to why you wore a nightgown and look so hot but didn’t let your hair down. Obviously you know your hot and didn’t want to melt us dudes down by throwing the whole hair down thing in with it. Nice nighty 👍
Mark Hall - she is incredibly seductive! But you’re right, if she let her hair down WITH that silky top, this video would have over a million hits!
I've often not succeeded to date nor to mate which tells me that I'm not the most attractive male for most females but there's actions I want to take to change my luck for the better on that which's why I'm watching these videos
Don't give up! 🤞
@@KateSpring I won't give up, I can't cos I want it that much plus you're a fine looking girl
Plus I don't go by crossing fingers for my luck to change for there to come a time for a woman to look at me and me attractive just as I do her besides hitting it off with her cos I don't want to hope for it, instead I just want it to happen so all take every good action there is under the sun to make a reality the way I want it to be and not a dream
STRAIGHT FIRE!!!! LOVE IT!
Glad to know you love it David. Go share it with friends who need it! :-)
You are honestly so good at speaking. It’d be a dream come true if you could have these as an audiobook
Thanks Daniyal. That's actually a great idea. Appreciate your suggestion!
Where and how to pick up cougars? Especially when my time is limited and can't get out much.
Hi Kate, new to your channel. Is there a way to personally email you? I would like to tell you my story and a few questions about it. A response would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!
Jason
some tips for you :) 1) no pickup lines, no games - cougars are experienced women and they get it right away if you aren't authentic. 2) Don't talk about age 3) show alot of self confidence and make your intentions clear from the beginning 4) don't try to impress her with money 5) make her laugh and give her a good time. She wants to feel the good mood coming from younger men ... best of luck to you :)
Go hiking on trails in the Seattle area. Just last month we had a guy who had a cougar jump on him it wanted him so bad. This may not be your thing because I don't think the cougar had sex with him, but he was dead tired afterwards. Well, he was dead anyway.
Nick Joseph Old person’s home, sometimes they can’t even say no because they’re so old.
Adult dating sites
First of all and foremost, your mannerism indicates you are an intelligent and amazing women. That in turn motivates me to seek and want your advice. Can't wait to see what else you have to offer in how to attract the opposite sex.
Glad to hear that Francisco. You can find more helpful videos on my channel with topics that would definitely interest you. Feel free to check them out anytime 🙂
I've heard honesty is important. I actually came here because of the thumbnail.
That was honest, Shinobi! 😂
Wow . Exactly what I was searching for
Im trying to learn how to get girls and all i can think is “you dont look like your wearing a bra”:)
Hi Kate, love your informative videos. Thanks for the tips and advice about women.
I am stuck in a predicament right now with a younger woman (12 yr difference). I am in my early 30’s and I have been talking to a young lady in college, studying to get her masters degree. We both went to the same high school and grew up in the same neighborhood, but of course 12 years apart. We always have small talk and flirt at work, but when I text her she sometimes does not reply, and I def do not text her again and when we see each other at work, I try to stay away from her and mind my business, but she always seems to come around to where I am and tries to be around me and I always catch her looking at me.
Whenever we are at work together, things seem good, but when it comes to being outside of work, it is not the same. I cant get her to hang out with me.
What I feel is, she does like me, but the age difference, and her peers judging her, is deeply on her mind and preventing her from going out with me. I am asian and in our culture, her parents and her peers will definitely judge me going out with her in a negative way. Do you have any advice about my situation? I really like her, but I dont know if I should move on to people around my age or keep trying to pursue her.
Thank you
Hey Ryan! Unfortunately, that has to be her decision and we can't do anything about it. Looks like you know your way around women so how about you try and date some other women close to your age and see if that would get a response or reaction from her?
This channel is 5x more useful than channels like far from average. Keep up the great work!
Thank you! 😊
Thank you for your overview. It was Spencer who said the strongest thing. Darwin said the survivors are the most adaptive to change, if that's good fodder for another video. Keep up the good work.
Thanks! Adaptation can easily be applied to dating as well. Over the years, the dating scene has evolved and changed so much with the influence of technology and social media taking a major role. I've met men who didn't do anything but just whine about it, and I've also met Darwin's survivors who adapted and used these tools to their advantage. So you think you're one of the survivors jtlege? 😉
She wants to actually help men! Thats amazingly hot 😉
Thank you Chris! 😊
@@KateSpring thanks Katie!😍👍
It's fascinating that you would dress this way for a male audience. Though provocative, it's tasteful and compels one to keep watching. The fact that you're well spoken, demands a level of respect and the lingerie creates a sense of intimacy with your audience. Everything you do is obviously deliberate. Well done.
Why, thank you Rudolph! Now when you say it like that, then yeah, I'd say that's deliberate ;)
Maybe an idea, How to flirt from a distance
Thank you for your suggestion Nick! Will definitely consider making one. Appreciate it! :-)
You are a very compassionate person Kate and I find that to be both rare and very attractive.
Thank you Will! 🙂
Kate you are very welcome and you deserve it Ms Compassion.
:)
If women are so attracted to alpha males then why do they always seem to end up dating the ultra skinny pretty boys rather than the strong, muscular men?
Luke, I'm on TV which one are you 😂😂
She already clarified that she wasn't referring to huge men on steriods or who "overdose on protein powder"
underrated comment right here.
Generalizations bro. It's what's in style in that immediate area, women will always respond to specific traits regardless of what's _IN_ at the moment.
Luke, I'm on TV, let me say that Alpha Males come in All Shapes and Sizes.
Never heard about the vulnerability thing before. Got me thinking if i should have done it or not before.Thanks for that input in your video. It freed me from self consciousness. More power! 😊
You're welcome Christoff! There's a couple more helpful videos on my channel so be sure to check 'em out! :-)
you nailed this one Kate. Great research.
Thanks Matt! Share it with friends who you think would need it! ;)
i w3ant to.....nail............kate....
Seriously , I focus on you enough to loss track of what u r saying , how to get you ?that will be new . I have no thing familiar between us to remindy u but am getting familiar with your voice . Love u @kate spring
how to make a women like you in under 10 seconds
Make sure you vote in the poll that appears at 0:52 Demarcus! Votes are pretty close so make yours count! ;)
+Joshua Tower ok
Demarcus Faulkner Send her photo of your bank account statement if you have $$$.
@@demarcusfaulkner7411 Don't send her a dick pic NO ONE likes that!
@@JonBandMiley Women only like men for what they have. Who you are or how you treat them means nothing to them.
You are an extremely well speaker. Along with your hand gestures and your slight facial expressions you bring your point to a concise explanation. Job well done and thank you
Thanks Johny! Appreciate it! :-)
You're looking irresistible yourself Miss. Spring :). Hope you have yourself a pleasant day
Thank you so much! Don't forget to hit that subscribe button! :-)
I thought your content was bogus at first, but that changed after seeing you explain with actual concepts, referencing Mark Manson and using those short clips as some kind of subconscious message. That's very well thought out Kate, tells a lot on how you spend your free time :)
Glad you see it that way Frank. There's a couple more helpful videos on my channel so go check them out! :-)
Ok
You're beautiful and intelligent Ms.Kate.
Thank you Mhoadiev! Appreciate it! :-)
Kate Spring You're welcome:)
Kate you are adorable and I am surprised that more people haven't said that, your advice is great and I will be a fan of your work.
That's very sweet of your Richard. Thanks! 😊
You kill it! These videos are excellent: Darwin, Emerson, statics, quotes & references -- Goodness, truly great!
Why, thank you! Don't forget to share with your friends! :-)
Her example of the short neck giraffe sounds to me more like Lamarck's theory, rather than Darwin. Where are those short neck giraffes's? (hint: they did not survive)
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Listiger Lurch You can use the short neck giraffe example for both Darwinism and Lamarckinism
Your videos have offerd me a great deal of insight on getting back into dating, i appreciate the tips, and hints.
Sounds good Robert! Go get 'em! :-)
best female dating Coach! solid stuff!
Thanks Tigers! ;)
tigers gedanken no
Kate Spring
Another fine video. About that poll...not sure where to select on my phone for the poll, so I'll write my response as first do something on "women liking you in 10 secs or less". Then the following up on " how to build rapport". Both I would like to be seen done Kate. Fascinating facts about the numbers of words spoken by women per day. Quite beautiful really.
Thank you! I was also fascinated (and shocked) when I learned about it so I couldn't help myself and share it with you guys :-)
I'm going on a first date with the girl of my dreams this weekend, and I am extremely nervous. How do you get rid of nerves before a first date?
Nice going Tim! I'd say just enjoy the date and have fun! I'd also recommend watching this video: ruclips.net/video/UPC4ItjOXPk/видео.html Good luck! :-)
She'll be nervous too, Tim! :) It's a new situation for both of you. Remember that you have all the tools in you that you need to master that life of your's! All the tools. Think about it, there is nothing you can forget at home or not have and therefore not being successful. You have everything with you all the time. Just roll with it and learn the flirt-/dating-/love-game. With practice you will get better and better. And as Kate already said: Have fun!
You gotta clean the pipes b4 any big date cant go into a big date with a loaded gun
Surgically take out your nervous system
Jeeze, now I'm wondering how Tim Laird's date went.
If I use these tips from an attractive woman like you, I think I’ll be able to get any pretty woman out there! Thank you!
That's the spirit! 💪
This is so good Kate I had to subscribed ...
Thank you! There's more helpful videos coming up so keep an eye out for them! :-)
sure will..
This has changed my life. I'm watching this and writing this comment at 3 am.
Well, they say if you're still up that late then you better be doing something life-changing, so I guess that's a good job for you? ;)
Ok, so lets check if this really works. Kate i like your Videos, i think they are very unique and i am short neck vulnerable Giraffe. I'd like to get to know you and take you out for a coffee
Advice from someone who is as plain , robotic and as passive as this girl seems difficult to accept. But her advice alone is trustworthy.
I'll be sure to work on that Brian. Thanks for the feedback 🙂
Your smart and beautiful lady..😎
Thanks Tom 😊
tom d great have you not learned yet Tom *Thanos voice*
Pretty good advice really, particularly the vulnerability part. I remember getting physical in my single days with women off the back of moments of vulnerability. One women started kissing me whilst I got upset about my dog that had died. On another occasion a women took a liking to me, because on the evening we met, I felt ill and had to keep rushing to the toilet. I know it was that because I asked her and that is what she said. Incredible really, but guys need to realise the power of attraction in vulnerability.
Good to know how showing vulnerability has worked wonders for you.Thanks for sharing Kevin!
Cool story, bro
Nice outfit!
ewww
Thanx for your lovely vids. I come over at random times to hear your words of wisdom....and always go back enlightened. :)
Appreciate that Akash! 🙂
@@KateSpring Anytime!! :)
I really enjoyed your video. You had great points and I will implement this in my life!
Glad to hear it Johnny! Always glad to hear my tips being used not just for dating, but self-improvement as well 🙂
Kate Spring Absolutely. I don’t feel I’m good looking, so it’s nice to know I can use these tips lol.
My man Gandhi an alpha yo!
you cant lead without being alpha.
😂😂LoLs👆😁 good one...! Some 'hilarious' comments that people get in here... Hhaaahh!!
Gandhi got many bobs and vagene
@@I_Have_The_Most_Japanese_Music 💀💀💀💀💀
gandhi was the real deal bro.
Love your advice and decided to subscribe. If I may offer some advice of my own, what you say has great merit and it seems as though you’ve put a lot of thought into it and wrote it down perfectly. It might seem more “fluid” on screen if you wrote bullet points and then spoke freely on those. You’re presence is great and I think that it might feel more like talking to the individual instead of a group. Thanks again for your videos, they really are great!
Ilike you Emigdio😊
Always good insight,...btw you're very charming .....
Thank you Frank! Appreciate it :-)
nice to hear from you, if you're ever on vacation near Sarasota Florida, dinner's on me!!
Hey Kate, I just started listening to your videos, I just have a bit of feedback. I like your body language(that you use in your videos). I got to say is that your voice and tone are a little monotoned, you slightly inflect your voice, but not enough to be on the same level as the knowledge you have to share with us, I'm going to keep listening and watching because this is an area that I've been told I struggle with.
Your feedback's a gem William, thanks! Promise to work on it on my future videos! 😊
On this planet we are more than 7 billion and we are here watching these videos in order to mate? :D
Well, 1% of 7 billion is still a lot of people.
I'm pretty sure plenty of those watching are what most would classify as undesirable because out of billions there will be plenty trying to figure out some way to get someone but their genetics have doomed them to being alone. They could get someone but those available are undesirable to them.
sad isn't it
+Joe Lewus I'm definitely one of the extremely few people who not only lost the genetic lottery, but got sued by it, as an added insult.
Could there be a woman for me? That's irrelevant, because when you look like I do, the last thing you want to do is to put yourself in
social situations where meeting women is possible.
If you lined up all the women in the world (3,5 billion), and pushed me on a wheelbarrow in front of each and every one of them, MAAAYBE one of them would
feel..."something" that could be described as desire. But the odds of that woman living in my town, or even my country, is beyond remote.
And the chance that she's also available and not criminally insane, well....no, I give up. Nothing will ever happen. And I'm not even sure I could handle being with
a woman anyway. After more than 20 years of being a hermit (after leaving my parent's fortress), being alone has become my reality. So it would take a very
forceful (and blind) woman to jump on me for anything to develop.
teppolundgren Damn dude. Just put yourself out there.
Good info. I don't know if your appearance is intentional for this purpose but the hair and baby doll makes you more natural and attractive. Knowing the info given, even more so.
Thank you! 😊
Hi Kate. So I am going to throw some thoughts out and maybe you could create a video on some or all of it.
Me stats: age 54 and really like the vibe of 20 something women. Not really looking for a wife...and maybe not even a girlfriend. Okay, even if had the money, I don't want to pay for my company...that is, from a professional. I offer no offspring future. How about social pressure from her peers...or even public responses when they view it ( I'm cool w it, but how could framing it to her happen?) Btw, I don't have an ex nor children. Really tho, I feel this shouldn't play into it...but do say if it does.
I've never seen ANY dating couch websites touch such a wide age difference. But us men are out there and we ain't creeps...just red blooded men.
I'm sure there is more. I am looking forward to your input.
Thanks, Eric
Sounds interesting Eric. Thanks for your suggestion and I'll definitely look into it! :-)
Hey Eric, there is something I can tell you for now: Number one, the less you worry about it, the more relaxed you will come across and the less she will care about it. I once read that women are a mirror of our (men's) emotions and according to personal experience, I can really confirm that. So basically for your it's the most natural thing in the world to go and meet 20 something women. If anyone asks you why you do it, the only thing coming into your mind(!) shall be "Why not??? I like her, she likes me - that's it."
Number two:
Same attracts same. So if you don't mind the age difference, approach women and like to get to know them, you will attract the ones that also don't care about it. The more the woman worries about it and maybe starts flipping back and forth, the less she is "in sync" with you and your values concerning this constellation. Of course life is a lesson for everyone and she could very well come to the conclusion that she actually likes it, but I'm sure you know you cannot try make a river go the other way. Keep it relaxed, share your worldview concerning age difference with her in the right moment, be vulnerable with this and just lead with good intention. If she "fits" you, she will join.
I hope that helped, now I'm also curious what Kate will come up with ;)
Mike Myon
Thanks Mike for your reply. I'm a newbie so testing the water. In fact, I am currently just about to do some day game here on a nice day in downtown Portland Oregon. Okay, thanks again!!
hopper333 Haha, look at you man, going out for day game and having a good time, that's great! Many guys wouldn't dare doing that, so enjoy and be proud of yourself. Best of fun + luck :)
+Mike Myon Well, Mike. I'm 41, and although I'm very much attracted to "women" in their 20s, if you ever see me with one, call the cops...
You won't, though. I'm not a pedophile.
Great job! Very insightful. Ive always enjoyed a woman's take on anything related to matters of the heart. Also the information you present is very structured and direct. Thank you
That's very wise of you Jose! That's why good 'ol Joe always say *"Knowing is half the battle"* 😎
Nice lingerie!
The Defenestrator that was the purpose
Agreed. it's a look that she can easily pull off!
dont comment on that be a gentleman!
💀
@@damon47st2
Being a gentlemen hadn't really worked for me... I try to be really nice and they appreciate and like that about me. But they don't find it attractive.
Actually I think its had the opposite effect. Adults respect me a lot and others think of me as nice but I've never had anything close to a girlfriend. I kissed one girl once. And we both agree it was a mistake on both our parts and damn near ruined our friendship and made me feel like shit.
The one thing I found irresistible is that your ponytail❣️🔥
Thanks Raziq! 💁♀️
Hey dear you are so beautiful but please make video with subtitles
Hey there! Just hover your mouse towards the bottom right side of the video, then click the "CC" icon and subtitles will be enabled :-)
Kate Spring thanks dear
I like your view on been vulnerable. If you are not vulnerable you come across as fake and as if you are hiding something, you dont seem real enough.
Keeping it real is also a good way to future-proof relationships, so just try your best to be yourself and most of all, enjoy!
U are so beautiful 😍.
Thank you Satyamesh! 🙂
Your vids are clean and quite humorous with the use of those funny pictures the quotes are very amazing additions aswell
I've really given those quite some thought so I really appreciate it, thank you! 😊
You're good at this! I like the way you reference articles/theories to corroborate your views/experiences. There's hope for us single men after all. lol. Good luck!
Thanks Chetan! There's a couple more helpful videos on my channel so don't forget to subscribe and to check the rest of the videos out! 😊
Yoooo this was the other half of the game I needed to know. I've gotten to the point where I really understand the way men think because I am one and I always reference evolution when talking about the Male thought process. This is exactly what I was looking for. Thank you haha
I like a woman but she put my number in busy mode and i can't call her, so what should I do.
Hey Kate, you look great,and you would look even better with a smile.
I have a request for you. Mind doing both of the videos for which you got us to vote?
It would be great to learn more from you.
Thanks King :-) The poll's a bit old, but you're in for a treat coz I did both! Got the links below so you can go start watching them :-)
ruclips.net/video/RLOa5WVkfM4/видео.html
ruclips.net/video/cn8O7SI3cNc/видео.html
Thank you, Kate. It's a pleasure to learn from you
There is one more question I need to ask, that is, how do I get of the 'dreaded' friend zone. Would you help me with that?
What Makes your Videos , So Good ...You Get to the Point..... ! Keep Up the Great Work... !
Thanks Von! I'll definitely try to keep 'em that way 😉
Something about women and there hair up, don't stop Kate!
Kate you are the best Relationship coach
Thank you Romould! 💖
This only considers physical aspects of attraction.
You could say there is also a spiritual dimension--an uncanny
connection between two souls. In that sense, it helps to
"know what you're looking for" yet remain open to God surprising
you with someone you couldn't have predicted.
We're talking about women here though. Women are very visual creatures. You like spiritual connection because you're a man. That's why most men do not have sex toys because no matter how advanced the sex toy is, it can't give spiritual connection that a man craves. That's why women all have sex toys... cuz they don't care about spiritual connection.... they can just have orgasms from a toy and be happy. Their happiness can be bought. Men's happiness cannot since you cannot buy spiritual connection.
The knowledge she gave is a correct.
Boy, am I glad to know that 😎
Nice vid. I agree commmunication is so important. You want to communicate that you are interested in the girl intellectually (because you are), while never being scared to show you are also interested in the girl sexually (because you might be). But I disagree, you don't always have to humorous in your texts. Humour and playfulness can be hard to convey via text, and not as funny as irl.
Thanks CJ! Just because it's hard doesn't mean it isn't effective. Remember that effort goes a long way and most women can easily see effort when it's headed their way, so it'll be a huge boost for you. Just adapt the _"What have I got to lose"_ attitude!
@@KateSpring Thanks, Kate!
@@KateSpring I think the problem many guys have myself included is that they make effort but with an outcome attached (get her number/ go for coffee). So the girl won't appreciate the effort cause she smells a sneaky motive. But it's hard for us guys to just be chill with girls, believe me. Just quickly, I've had long-term relationships with handful of women, but I'm an only child who went to all-boys school, being natural around girls was never easy. Love to hear it thoughts on tips for guys like me if U have time.
Is it just me who gets more and more overwhelmed the more I watch? Back in the days if I were attracted to someone and felt a connection I'd go for it and were sucessfull(even if I was the total opposite of alfa and uber sensitive). Life happened and it seems I've lost that touch, hence why I look at these, but all that happens is I get overwhelmed n thinks screw it. Great advice though, I'll keep it in mind and look for that precious connection, thanks :)
You made me change suddenly.....
Thanks so much.