Charisma 101: How to Be More CHARISMATIC

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    Charisma 101: Going over the basics on how to improve your charisma and become more charismatic
    0:00 Intro
    0:39 Presence & Awareness
    2:41 Emotion over Logic
    7:16 Warmth
    9:11 Practice & Analyze

Комментарии • 45

  • @thejovontorres
    @thejovontorres 8 месяцев назад +52

    "Charisma isn't about how you speak but also how you listen and respond."
    An interesting topic that's overlooked. I'm diggin' the purple back light.

  • @ren1643
    @ren1643 8 месяцев назад +63

    The way you fix this is by introspection. No amount of techniques will make you good at socializing. Just letting go. You should be able to yell for no reason, or do things that make you look like a weirdo or dork. Not that you want to do that, but having released yourself of the shackles that burden your communication.
    Things like wanting to control the outcome, trying to appear cool, all these things can trigger a fear/panic mode when the mask ain’t working.
    In the end you gotta learn not to care what people think. Understanding that everyone is a lot like you. Insecure and worried about themselves. Self analyzing to the point they don’t see those things you do in yourself. They’ll forget the second you’re out of their sight and they take on another task.
    Just like you do. Your RAS can handle only so much information. It doesn’t latch on to irrelevant things. Only what you deem relevant. I.e. angel numbers, red cars, motorbikes, bmx, people wearing hats. These are things you’ll only notice if you’re looking for them.
    Same with seeing positive responses from women. If you believe no woman can be attracted to you. You won’t see anything, but if you believe the opposite you’ll see positive signs of attraction.
    It’s all mindset. It’s all internal. Win the internal battles and let go. It will take time, it will take practice but it’s far better than learning some technique to get you in the zone.
    You should just be in the zone at all times.

    • @dasfx2895
      @dasfx2895 6 месяцев назад +2

      Working on this part of myself. I internalize alot (introvert). You see angel numbers too?

    • @fongumunwi3643
      @fongumunwi3643 6 месяцев назад +3

      Thank you very much I watched so many videos so far just trying to find the trick to finally being charismatic when I'm the one holding on to myself trying as hard as possible not to look weird and so making sure I never leave my comfort zone
      But the problem is really me thanks alot bro I'll try this out and it might be hard at the start but it's better than scrolling through countless hours of IG trying to escape, even in the presence of others.

    • @TonyMcKinney03
      @TonyMcKinney03 6 месяцев назад +1

      Very well said

    • @jqy4sho
      @jqy4sho 19 дней назад

      @@dasfx2895yup i do.

    • @gagandeepsingh7789
      @gagandeepsingh7789 4 дня назад +1

      Amazing ❤

  • @daniellucatero-jimenez.1440
    @daniellucatero-jimenez.1440 8 месяцев назад +5

    Saw this video as recommended & was not disappointed. Needed this reminder thank you 💪

  • @TheRealTraivonNieves
    @TheRealTraivonNieves 8 месяцев назад +5

    Great stuff Danny! Really great informative video!!

  • @kingmachiavelli6262
    @kingmachiavelli6262 8 месяцев назад +72

    If you look intimidatingly good it's really hard to have charisma because people won't even give you the chance to bring your charm out lol

    • @maxleighgrace8858
      @maxleighgrace8858 7 месяцев назад +9

      That is simply not accurate, however, if you look great but are an absolute asshole then you will be perceived as less attractive than an average person with genuine substance

    • @kellygreenii
      @kellygreenii 6 месяцев назад +2

      Not true. You just have to account for it by going out of your way to put them at ease. For example a little self-deprecating humor or admitting to feeling awkward can “humanize” you and make you less intimidating.

    • @makingmodernmen8843
      @makingmodernmen8843 6 месяцев назад +10

      @@kellygreeniiI would never advocate for self deprecation under any circumstance. Simplest way to disarm anyone is a calm, collected, cool energy, a smirk, and speaking to them like you’re in on the joke, like you’re both a part of the same club, that other people don’t know about.
      Really not that complicated.

    • @LuisMiguel-ng6lt
      @LuisMiguel-ng6lt 12 дней назад

      @@makingmodernmen8843I really needed this, always felt weird using self deprecating humor but it worked when trying to “fit in”, putting them at ease like that sounds way more natural for me thanks

    • @sapshady8020
      @sapshady8020 3 дня назад +1

      ​@@maxleighgrace8858 I agree with @king. Its true. U cant be charismatic AND intimidating. Imo.

  • @mannyhan5912
    @mannyhan5912 8 месяцев назад +3

    I thought you were like a mil subs in. Love the content you produce. Im here for the ride man 🎉🎉

  • @rainakreeger
    @rainakreeger 6 месяцев назад

    Wow. This is crazy good! Such an informative video and just the one I've been looking for. #
    As a neurodivergent person with past experiences that made me feel like an outsider, I kind of feel like I am a boring person to talk to which contradicts my want to meet new people and make friends. This video really went in depth and gave me so much new information I can now use and practice on my next interactions. Thanks Danny! Also I'm shocked this video is so underrated, but hopefully it will get more views and subscribers as well!

  • @floschrodl338
    @floschrodl338 5 месяцев назад +1

    Such a good Video. Wow thank you for the value!!!

  • @EseShad0w316
    @EseShad0w316 8 месяцев назад +3

    Awesome video man.

  • @user-hl7lr8ld2i
    @user-hl7lr8ld2i 8 месяцев назад +3

    Very good explanation of charisma

  • @methedreamer3767
    @methedreamer3767 8 месяцев назад +4

    This deserve a LOT more
    Views

  • @dolunaymustafa
    @dolunaymustafa 8 месяцев назад +1

    Love these videos :)

  • @nikitaivanov5676
    @nikitaivanov5676 8 месяцев назад +8

    Danny, you will blow up inevitably

  • @dotk_50
    @dotk_50 2 дня назад

    That's me 😎

  • @TacTar
    @TacTar 4 месяца назад

    It's kinda funny bc you didn't smile once in this video but great information 👌

  • @VincentBruno280
    @VincentBruno280 2 месяца назад +13

    This guy looks like a scary Ryan Reynolds.

  • @matthewleaphart2993
    @matthewleaphart2993 8 дней назад +2

    There is not 300 countries

  • @capone5494
    @capone5494 7 дней назад

    someone summarize

  • @BalladsofBahrain
    @BalladsofBahrain Месяц назад +3

    Ryan Gosling from Flipkart

  • @a.b.tapatio5713
    @a.b.tapatio5713 Месяц назад

    This festival sounds like Tommorrowland

  • @ayysavy892
    @ayysavy892 2 месяца назад +3

    you look like ryan reynolds

  • @CitySpectraMedia
    @CitySpectraMedia 5 месяцев назад +1

    Way too many adds in one video

    • @itsdannyvera
      @itsdannyvera  5 месяцев назад +4

      RUclips's algorithm controls ad displays based off each viewers habits, average view time, likelihood to click etc, so the amount of ads seen is different for everyone

  • @cohesive3482
    @cohesive3482 6 месяцев назад +8

    300 countries? There aren't that many countries on planet Earth.