This Mental Shift Makes You Dangerously Confident
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- Опубликовано: 10 июн 2024
- How I went from insecure and anxious to confident and charismatic.
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In this self improvement video we discuss how to be confident, how to be charming, and how to reprogram your mind for success. This is key if you want to know how to attract women and be confident around girls. I teach how to have a high self esteem through reprogramming your subconscious mind. 
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What really helped me gain confidence while not becoming a total dick was realizing, as a person, nobody is better than me and nobody is worse than me.
Exactly. Everybody is the main character in their own story. Nobody is any more special than anyone else, we’re all human.
Everybody has their own problems, it’s inescapable. We are all born, we then live on this Earth for about several decades, and then we die. Tom Hanks, You, and the drugged out bum on the sidewalk are all just living this human experience. None of us are perfect, we are flawed and we make mistakes and fall victim to temptation because we are human, it’s part of the human experience. We all deal with problems (albeit different problems) but nevertheless we all deal with them whether it’s relationship issues, family issues, a lack of fulfillment, etc. We all need to eat, need to shit, and need to drink water in order to survive.
@@tadiqshahid4625 type more 🤓🤓🤓
there's always a bigger fish
@@Broahh69 I don’t think you understood what i meant. Yes, people are going to be better than you at things, but that doesn’t make you an inferior being compared to them.
This.
A popular Jordan Peterson quote that always sticks out to me, "don't compare yourself to someone else, compare yourself to who you were yesterday"
You just helped me massively today. I was comparing myself to an image of perfection in my mind, rather than seeing my progress the last two days, it's not wonder I'm how I feel, I'm making strides and sometimes the subconscious likes to fight back. 🙏
Stoic
There it is. The token Jordan Peterson quote
Kenny is one of the few self development youtubers that actually want you to get better in life, rather than most of the other ones who just want your money and views
Ikr? Some self improvement influencers sound like they are just making shit up out of thin air just for the content
100% agree. Dude gives some of the most solid advice on this platform
Factssss
Bs in my opinion
Some „gurus” sell their stuff but I can’t remember even one who didn’t give good advices for free on their free RUclips channel.
Problem is with broke people who think they will constantly get free good stuff.
Everything cost, even me writing this comment, cost
You watching this you pay with your time as currency to boost up youtube platform
Man if you don’t have money = broke just watch free content
Why you think is a bad thing if someone decide to monetise their knowledge
Your math teacher should teach for free?
Does your mum work for free? 😂😅
@@lepszyjaPL good statement, but
All I'm saying is there's a lot of self development youtubers out there who may or may not give free content but they definitely do not give good content, but some youtubers do, like kenny, I hope you've understood my comment now. Also the fact that watching a video cost you time isn't necessarily bad because it may affect you to do something positive.
"if you don't step into the hero role of your own life, you will forever be an extra in someone else's"
Holy shit balls this truth slaps.
isn't that just main character syndrome summarised tho?
it took me years to realize that im not socially awkward but just dont connect with most people my age
I relate to that
Yep. I came to a point in my life where I learned there really isn't anything wrong with me. It's just in living in a life and a world where I don't want to live. One where everyone and everything is fake and superficial and it leaves no real room to foster genuine connections and all of us are living lives of bland compromise rather than doing what makes our souls happy
@@smokingcrab2290 sometimes I got those real moment but they are rare and you have to cherish them
It all starts with finding people that have the same interest as you
@@smokingcrab2290there is a loneliness epidemic, where people don’t have many or any real connections, largely due to living in the digital age. I knew it’d be an issue as soon as MySpace came out (I’m 40 so I was college aged). I didn’t know what anyone was talking about (I refused to get any sm til 2016 I caved) because there was apparently a whole other world ppl were living in and somehow ppl have come to believe sm is “connecting”.
@@smokingcrab2290 finding genuine people is rare
but they are out there buddy
Principle NO. 1- Know Thy Self
Principle NO. 2- Close the Gap
Principle NO. 3- Step into the Higher-Self
After watching this video. I want to tell you this: you are very articulate, you are a good speaker, you are very confident, and you are very charismatic
Absolutely loved this video. I recently hit rock bottom and it gave me so much clarity on who I used to be, who I am now, and who I want to become. Something that really helped make things click for me was reading about Carl Jung's "Persona". The "higher self" IS something anyone can step into which to me is simply being unapologetically yourself and it has a magnetic effect on the people around you who are too insecure to do the same themselves - it's not easy at first but becomes easier as you see the amazing positive impact it has on your life, but in a way, the higher self is also a mask. In order to become the truly best version of yourself, it takes time and effort - the sooner you recognize this, the sooner you realize time is on your side and the world becomes your oyster. It's wild to think how I recently was going through the worst moment of my life and how quickly things shifted to being the happiest I've ever been with so much excitement for what's to come in my future. Just found your content today but will definitely be sharing this with friends in my life who need to hear what you have to say.
What’s the book called?
Persona by Carl Jung?
"Instead of predicting failure and find a way to avoid it, predict success and find a way to achieve it"
That resonated!
Once every few months, I happen to witness a life-changing video. When I saw this, I immediately focused all of my attention. I’m about to watch it for the second time now. Thank you so much 🙏
Any chance you could provide the link to the videos pls??
@@katiavorgnano829 Last time I found a video as important as this, it was a video named “how to be a high frequency person” by Jack Hopkins.
It is about spirituality and vibrations. Give it a try.
"Dominating his friend"
"Pause"
😂😂😂
this is the one self improvement youtuber that genuinely helps me. My life has massively improved since I found this channel.
this video is pure fax, this is literally everything ive done the past year to completely conquer any anxiety and doubts in the mind. I learned to study myself, study my thoughts & emotions, and realized that I am the one in control, I can be whoever I want to be. The world is yours fellas. Go get after it.
you help me a lot on my self improvement journey.
RESPECT
It's less of traditional 'entertaining' self-improvement bullshit and more of a how to actually tackle those deep insecurities! Kudos man really love these kind of contents 👍
Bro's content is so much underrated
I haven’t seen this channel in a few years. I’m here from the fitness influencing days.
Man, you’ve grown. A lot. Great to see.
welcome back :)
That internal vs external confidence is REALLY insighful and useful to hear put that way
Soooo well explained! I was the best wedding photographer in my country in my mind as a beginner, few years before I actualy did it... I always knew I am that what I think I am, not the other way as there is a huge difference. You explain it way better. So refreshing to hear that. Thank you for clarifying the bigger picture with identity, that explains a lot and I will be working on that for sure. Thank you and wish you the best, so good Kenny and you did an amazing progress. Hats off.
Damn bro created a paradigm shift in my mind 🤯. Fuck this shit. I’m tired of being a lazy, uninspired, passive loser. I’m flipping the script, I’m taking the reigns and I’m taking charge. I’m gonna grab my subconscious, reshape my identity and tell my inner thoughts; *”look at me, I am the captain now.”*
Also, in the video, you mentioned reading a number of books that helped you arrive at the conclusions outlined in this video - could you please share these books 🙂?
I think I’ve always envision the confident version of myself but I was held back by my deep trauma which I broke out of.I feel great, you really can notice people looking at you more
Video starts at 5:00
Best video you have done yet. Straight to the point, very informative, precise and easy to understand. I'm into self improvement und learning since a while and still learned something new, also sent it to some friends of mine as well. Thanks for giving us these informations for free.
"You become the higher self that gets those things, you do not get those things then become the higher self "
Wow, this is the first video of seen on this channel and I’m stunned. This guy really knows what he’s talking about. Great video, and great pointers. This answers a lot for me🙏🙏
You earned a charismatic subscriber Sirrr!! Everything you sad is so true I myself observed that if you want to be something you desire change the internal you .... but I don't know how I had forgotten this .... I was suffering very badly from few days not been able to concentrate not getting interested in anything but this helped me thanks
This is the first time a youtube video gave me an actual breakthrough moment.
:)
I think making jokes about yourself occasionally is actually not bad because
1. it signals confident & no insecurities
2. if you aren't bothered by it, you're already the person you want to be, or living the life you want, at least to an extent, & even if you subconscious registers the joke, one joke wont have an impact on your image of self as you know you're doing well, & so would you subconscious mind
3. if you do feel bad, you know what to work on if you aren't working on it as it is
Watching this every day before school
I've hit that subscribe video because you are me and I am you. Funny how the universe shows us these things all same but uniquely. I am in Kenya and I am seeing the results. There's nothing, nothing that opens the heart to self growth than the satisfaction that comes to you after GIVING YOURSELF THE CHANCE and a little bit of grace
In my view, there's a few important things that are lacking in people that aren't confident:
- knowledge about their own overthinking and its primal causes
- understanding about the uttermost triviality with which naturally confident people think in social settings
- understanding about their advantage over others, since overthinking is just "thinking too much" and they do that flawlessly
- real life evidence that proves to their brain that they can actually be confident
"This is not some future you, this is the version of you that's been floating around available for you to shift into at any given moment, you just needed the clarity required to do so".
Due to some setbacks in my career I was feeling extremly underconfident and insecure as I was thinking that I would be confident after achieving that thing not knowing the fact that confidence is what which is going to get that for me in the fist place so now I have to learn to accept myself and not letting my self esteem be decided by the size of goal I set for myself and for that this video has helped me tremendously to seek for my deeper identity and bridge the gap thank you
Yooo this is a goated advice !!
Ok crazy epiphany from watching this video. You said to try and focus on that ideal version of yourself and close the gap. I realized when thinking about it, I already am that ideal person. I started seeing all the good things in me and realized I am awesome just the way I am.
You just unlocked what had been forgotten for me thank you
Great this is pure gold, finally I found my answer
First time on your channel, half way through the video and I am a subscriber now. You are honest and true, no bullshit or magic pills.
12:15 If you don’t step into the hero role of the movie that is your life, you will forever be an extra in someone else’s
That quote is really good, I’ll try to keep it in mind. Thanks for everything that you do brother.❤
Very powerful and to the point. Thank you for sharing your evolved selfs experience.
So a takeaway from the video is "aim to be the version of yourself, that is confident", right? Which is aimed at the right direction, I think, but its not quite there yet.
My take would be:
Confidence is an experience you get, when you have competence and are aware of it.
There is no trick or perspective that will give you a fastlane. It is a consequence of competence. And competence needs time to be developed.
For the Christian, root your true identity in Christ. I am working on doing this and it's not easy. But read the Word and see what God says about you and your identity in Christ through Christ's work on the cross.
And find a community of Christian men. Walking in God alone is absolutely a hard task
Thank You for this video!!
thanks bro, this video helped a lot
Amazing video man! Thanks for all the knowledge youve allowed me to unlock. Your the man kenny!
great video. thankyou
I honestly can’t imagine a higher self for me. That’s not to say that I’m already perfect or that I have everything I want. I most certainly don’t. But realistically speaking I don’t feel the need to make much of a change to myself. I’ve already made working out a habit, my financial goals are on track, I’ve been taking steps to meet more people. I think the gap is pretty small and the work I’m already doing is going to take me there with some dedication and patience.
Dude..mind blowing fr
It all makes sense!
Nice vid man
Be fit, healthy, string, look after your hygiene, make good money and your confidence will skyrocket. Don’t forget to be kind, courteous and curious. Stay Uncommon!
Bro casually drops amazing life-changing advice
This video can literally save you years of your life and thousands of headaches.
Wow. One of the best videos I ever saw on this topic. Thank you Kenny. Going to check out more of your videos.
Such a cool tool once you learn how to reframe and trust in the process without thinking just about the results. Then suddenly you realize that you are already that person.
Wow, a powerful video. Great job! ❤
Iv never been able to find out my identity, but I know I have one, and I am comfortable with it and understand that I'm just not some people's cup of tea.
Meditations is big secret. 🤯
That was actually a great video
Love the videos bro🤘🏽
Fake it till you make it can work, as a way to shift default negative internal responses that need to shift to positive ones. But must be used wisely, not for external success and without shame attached. ❤
amazing!
give a try to teta healing
It's called living in the end it's like you see the ball going through the net or you see the ball going into the hole
You're so underrated🔥🔥
This was a great video bro. Are there are books you recommend on the topics you spoke about in this video? Thanks
Great advice bro
This is amazing advice 👏👏
Great video.
Thanks ❤
In the background, is that a candle (the one next to the books) below the plant? If yes, please be careful if it can start a fire !!!
bro just got himself a new sub
this vid is helpful
hey ken, nice video again.
would you mind moving the captions up a bit next time, so we can look at you and the captions sorta simultaneously
1- know thy self
2- close the gap between you and your ideal version
3- step into higher-self
Isn't stepping into my higher self and fake it till you make it kinda same advice?
Step into = take action to improve. Commit. Fake it is lying to yourself. My pleasure ✌️ ps: see confidence like this: body and mind are 2 friends. Who agreed to go to the gym. If 1 didnt show up for 10 days straight; would you trust that friend? Or in other words: do what you say and say what you do. As precisely aa possible. Be reliable, to yourself 🔥🥰🔥
I see what you’re saying but they are different because one is more deliberate and requires introspection and effort while the other is fake and probably will not actually change you on the inside.
I always say to people that I teach in day trading. Money is just a symptom of being rich. You must carry the mindset before receiving your symptoms. Being wealthy isn't a physical thing.
Thank you for the advices they really hit the spot.
Guys, read Joe Dispenza's book, *Evolve Your Brain*. He explains everything kenny is saying and more.
5:23 5:47 THE GAP 11:47
Someone read think and grow rich - amazing book and amazing value
So ultimately Fake it till you make it!!
Powerful message Thank you so much! 💪🏻🫡
Confidence is like money. It's hard to keep and easy to lose.😂
Bro remind me of confident morty
So if i build muscles, improve mg facial features and speak slowly with a more mascular tone and be confident. I can get my ex back? And get better friends overall?
Oouuuuuh this is gooooood
Any advice on books, authors, or what to look into?
this guy looks like pat cummins
I think one of the books he got this from was "Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself" by Dr. Joe Dispenza
Haven't read that one yet but I've heard good things about Dispenza
@@kenny.bender I read it and would recommend it. You'd be surprised how many parallels between your video and the book that there are
Kings start the video from 3:20
My sister once told me that fake confidence is real confidence
Results lag is the modern signs follow.
In short, meditate. Changed my life, never been more confident.
Found your channel a while back, been watching you grow as a creator. Just subbed now. Keep up the great work fella. You're going places.
Wow so good
Theta*
nice big statement opening there kenny 😉
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I am going to head north ! lol
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Underrated