Unfortunately she didn't love him as much . Didn't want to have his children,never wore the wedding ring he bought her, didn't take his name. If Alan was in her place he would have done all of the above for her . But the greatest disrespect to his memory was publishing his private diaries. There have been unfounded rumors about his sexual orientation that arose from a specific entry about his movie "Dark Harbor". Nobody had noticed the kissing scene between Alan and Norman Reedus until they read that specific entry in the diaries and started to talk about a man with a double life, when there is no evidence of that. All because of the diaries. Even if Alan intended to have them published,it should have been his decision when to do it and what to put in it,not someone else's.
@user-pg7bl8bv1j Sorry, I just found your question. You need to know one thing so you can understand why I know this. I was born legally blind. Totally blind in my right eye. Without my contact in my good eye. I can only see clearly an inch from my nose. This eye does aches. I am registered with the blind association of America. Thus, I am aloud to get talking books from the Library for the blind. Years ago my mum purchased from a books some audio books. Funnily enough, I was listening to one of the books already. I thought I would listen to the audio. That way I could return the blind book to the library. I started the audio from the beginning. It didn't take long for me to notice that something was wrong. The whole book was not being read. Chucks were missing. I looked at the package and there was a number to call. Besides being very rude and down right nasty. I was told that they cut out things they deem unimportant in the book. I refuse to buy audio books. This may or may not be the reason you can't find it. It is merely my experience. I wish I could be of more help.
She proved that she didn't love him at all . Denied him kids and a dog. Never wore his wedding ring or took his name. They could have adopted a child if she wasn't able to carry one but she didn't want to share him with anyone,not even with a dog. He would have been happier and healthier if he had a family to come home to,but he continued to work on project after project until his death . The biggest insult to his memory was publishing his private diaries without his consent. The editor confirms that in the foreword. Plus his godson Tom Burke states in the Guardian's interview that Alan wouldn't write a memoir because as he said "I know myself and I 'm not interested". That book caused a lot of his fans to make false assumptions about Alan's character and his life, for which he can't defend himself. Alan ALWAYS put his wife's wishes first at the expense of his own and she tarnished his memory. Poor man he got short-handed and he deserved the world.
@@Libra-v1r You believe everything put on here because it's true. Alan had no problem telling people to go feck themselves. His best best Emma and Ruby. Have vouched for Rima. I'm also been with the same man for 37 years. Your jealously shows at this very sad.
@@dmarcouxbeatty374 you're trying to find excuses for the inexcusable. Find some proof that Alan wanted to have his diaries published,like I found evidence that he didn't. Stop calling the evidence I present jealousy just because you have no evidence to prove your point. I refuse to stay silent so idiots and ignorant people like you are not offended
I have followed Alan 's film work and also his theater work since I was very young . My two oldest children grew up watching Harry Potter and growing up with it. I live in Italy and have often stayed in the same village where Alan and Rima had (but I believe it is still owned by Rima) a big house. Alan loved coming to this place and was often in the small square with his tablet, sitting at a table..very discreet..you could meet him and for him it was as if there was no difference.he was very humble. I myself also saw it at the Roman theater in Volterra in 2010. helpful and very attentive ..loved Shakespeare even acted in Italian. He was a very lovable person and very funny. I can say this because, at times, in the little square he would tell anecdotes to friends and I would indirectly listen from my table. No one disturbed him, we all respected him and his privacy. his death shocked me .. too premature, but I had the opportunity to give a small gift to this great actor: two days after his death, my third child was born, I named him Alan .. in honor of him, and in remembrance of him.
No Rima didn't keep his dream home, where his precious ashes are buried! She didn't want it. He willed it to his niece Sarah, his brother David's daughter.
I miss him so much. I bought the book, it's a little part of him, thanks to his widow to share it with us. No doubt, it was done with his permission. I can’t imagine how much Rima Horton Rickman must miss him. Our love is extraordinary; 50 years imagine! Alan Rickman was a great actor, my favorite actor. He was a really good person. So charismatic, polite and kind to everyone. He’s the reason I watched the Harry Potter movies. 'cause he was in it. (and then I became a fan of HP, especially of cause Snape, the most complex and interesting character what a masterfull interpretation! He deserve more place in HP movies. For me, Alan will be Snape forever , he is irreplaceable ) . My thoughts are with his widow, who must continue without him, it must be so hard for her. We lost our favorite actor, she, she lost the man of her life, her great love. I'll never forget him. ( sorry for my bad english , I'm french ...)
Amen. And if you haven't already seen Galaxy Quest, you should absolutely do so. He is dryly hilarious but also touching as the frustrated Shakespearean actor turned pigeonholed Star-Trek-type TV star.
That are my thoughts completely. I first saw him in HP and since then followed him more avid than a drug dog! No, I didn't trespass his privacy, but I went to Dublin for Borkman and watched the play he directed in London and so on. And in one direction or another he WAS the love of my life, because I never had the same crush on anybody else. And my husband knew, of course. Alan was the very best and the epitome of intelligence, wit, earnestness and warmth.
@@serendipityshopnyc in one of the tributes Patrick Breen (played Quellek) told that Allan Rickman was visiting him 6 weeks before his death when Breen had a premiere. He looked ill but told that he is fine and nobody should worry. Such a thoughtful person who took care of his collegues.
Hi Estelle D.! This American thinks your English is excellent. No worries! I knew of Alan Rickman from previous works but (this is a bit embarrassing to admit) not his name until the Potter movie series. His portrayal of Snape was so stunning I simply had to take note. We were all lucky to have dear Mr. Rickman; fortunately for us, he is on film (streaming!) in perpetuity. I will check out the book! Je regrette, mon Francaise est terrible. Adieu, mon ami!
From Shakespeare to Truly Madly deeply to Die hard to Love Actually to Harry Potter the list goes on and on.., ...,. One of the most talented actors to have ever lived. RIP
@carolyn ellis Wiki has some interesting details about this 1991 Robin Hood film. That Alan kept knocking back the role until they agreed to let him do whatever he wanted with the Sheriff part. And that Kevin Costner, playing Robin, may not have appreciated being acted off the screen by one A. Rickman. I think he may have received a Best Supporting Actor Oscar for this role. His acceptance speech mentioned not to underestimate the value in over exaggerating and over-playing your character !😃
About 20 years ago, Mr Rickman was a passenger on an Air Canada flight I was working from Calgary to London. I still remember the seat he sat in. Never wanting to bother celebrities onboard, I said nothing, but could barely contain my excitement just hearing his voice. As it was a late departure, he slept all the way across the pond. I tucked a little note on the armrest saying how much I'd admired his role in Sense & Sensibility and signed it 'One of the FAs onboard', hoping he'd read it when he woke. He deplaned in LHR and I was left with a very fond memory of that flight...
@@Hannah-pk6iq I knew from every report that the man had class, compassion and an exteme desire to help and encourage others. Just his presence made that airmans day. So cruel you-even Alan Richman would have given you the time of day and appreciated that man’s story.
I remember Alan Rickman as Slope in the brilliant BBC Barchester Towers decades ago. I knew then that he would be an exceptional and wonderful actor. He was a genius and so versatile. ❤
Barchester Towers YT channel. The whole thing! I watch it through again and again, and not just for Alan but Nigel Hawthorne, Geraldine McEwan, Donald Pleasance, etc.
My mother-in-law died of this and anyone who lives through this has an unbelievable journey….I send my love and admiration to him his widow…it is not a journey for the faint of heart….
I am not an actor watcher but when Alan Rickman was on the screen, I became one. He was so gifted as an actor and from what I hear about him now, as a person. I am certain his wife Rima was that component that centered him and gave him the confidence to live his thespian life with ease. So, thank you, Rima.
I bought the book, and so far I have found it entertaining. I ended up loving Alan Rickman once I knew how talented and a nice person he was. I cried when I watched some of the tributes. I would have liked to meet him, just to have a good conversation with him. Very smart and just a wonderful guy.
Met him at a Q&A in Hollywood for "A Little Chaos" in 2015. It was one of the best days of my life. Yes, Rima and Emma are correct -- he was kind of moody and unapproachable, but he signed my picture of him (which I have framed on my living wall), and he gave me a wonderful smile when I did approach him. Rima is absolutely charming. I've always loved Rima.
I like her, too. And I think she might be a good rolemodel for women, because: I don't have any children either, and she is one of those women who prove that a woman doesn't necessarily need to be a mother in order to be balanced, passionate, caring, calm (in a healthy way) and content. There's a cliche that I'm sometimes told by mothers, that I (39) will someday become bitter and unbalanced if I won't become a mother. They don't even care that it's partly also health problems that caused me to decide not to be a mother. I sometimes think it's rather the continuing derisive words of people like that who might MAKE women like me bitter someday if they are treated like this for long enough 🤷♀️
@@oOBubbleStreamOo Don't let family or strangers derail your happiness, having a child doesn't define someone's value and the joys they have in their daily life. Hugs
@@oOBubbleStreamOo Well put. It's how family and people treat us in the long run what makes unmarried/childless women turn bitter. You can be a good sport and bear the jokes and derisive comments only for so long.
I remember first seeing him in the early 80s in the Alan Plater adaptation of The Barchester Chronicles as Obadiah Slope. He was so good that I can't possibly imagine anyone else playing that role.
What I wouldn't give to see the three of them (Emma, Rima and Alan) together having this laugh. Rima is SO sweet! This is a lovely book! I was surprised to see his artwork in his diary entries. This book is a gift to all who admired Alan.
This book is written in such a way that caused a lot of fans to believe he was gay or bi when there is no scandal on him and no evidence that he was . They could have done a kind of documentary about his life instead of publishing his private diaries and exposing him to false assumptions. He should have been the only one to decide whether he wanted his diary published and when and what to include in it, not someone else's decision. It's a disrespect to his memory.
@@nickieh6034 how do you know? Were you there? The publisher writes in the foreword that it's not clear whether Alan wanted to publish the diaries. What's your proof that Rima knew what his wish was?
I preordered this book on Audible over a month ago. I’ve adored this actor since the early 90’s. I cannot wait to read more from this enigmatic and intelligent man. Much missed ❤️
@@jandunlap7618 that's why what she did was despicable. Watch Alan Rickman Last Days podcast episode 61 on RUclips at 19:07 Alan wanted his diaries to be destroyed after death. Not only did she betray him and ignore his dying wish she published his private diaries and relinquished all rights to Canongate. Apparently she never knew him or didn't care.
Simply one of the greatest actors ever, a charming person. I had the chance to meet him after a play in London, and he was kind and nice to all there. I'm reading his book and I'm glad his wife gave permission to publish this very private piece of his life. It will keep his memory much alive, together with his brilliant performances. As fro this interview I absolutely adore Rima's class and Dame Emma Thompson's. As Juliet Stevenson said when Alan passed "We've lost a King". I say we've lost an Emperor, but his memory is still with us all fans.
His wife had no right to publish his private diaries just because he's gone That book has led a lot of his fans to believe and spread ridiculous unfounded allegations about him which tarnish his memory. He left her millions and she could have donated that money to fund pancreatic cancer research instead of publishing what was meant to be private
@@janz1352 who are you to say that???? I assure you there's too many on the same boat who could see through her! You have no right to tell me or others what to say !
I'll buy this book, what a wonderful actor he could make the phone directory interesting. What a huge loss to everyone, I wish he was still here. RIP ❤ 🌹
Great interview with Emma and Rima. Enjoyed the diaries immensely. A fascinating read. Alan’s character really shone through and I loved the inclusion of his beautiful illustrations. Such a talented man. Rima’s account of Alan’s last few weeks were incredibly moving and sad.
@Linda King I don't want to spoil the impact of that distinct and captivating voice for you! Wiki has a surprising paragraph detailing that Alan had some kind of locked jaw when young, producing his slowed pace of speech. And something about a "spastic palate" - that from one of his drama teachers! I knew nothing about Alan's years before the Die Hard film (1988), released when he was already 42. First studying graphic design, then running a business with fellow graduates for a couple of years. Applying to RADA at the age of 24. Supporting himself as a student by working as a theatre dresser for Ralph Richardson and Nigel Hawthorne (names from memory). Now those would have been amazing experiences. I imagine Alan learned alot about clothing, costume and the wearing of it. He definitely had his own stylish personal look. Then Alan joining the board of RADA some twenty five years later, serving as Vice Chair and on various committees. So he definitely believed in giving back to support the next generations. Anyway ... an interesting read.
@@lindaking9222 I agree. Alan's voice was a wonderful gift for an actor (in spite of any physical oddities). And a gift for his many audiences over the years.
All I had to do was Google whether Alan wanted to have his diaries published I am very disappointed with what I read. Have recently discovered this actor looks like he was a decent guy and had a big heart.
I remember having dinner with you and Alan after a show in NYC with Eve. It was a wonderful experience. I learned so much about directing from him that evening.🎭❤️
I saw him playing the part of Jaques in Shakespeare's As You Like It at the RSC way back in the late 1970's I think it was. And then Hamlet at the Riverside Studios early 1990's. Then I watched him in Robin Hood, and laughed so much. He was an amazing actor. Gone but never forgotten.
I understand. I keep telling myself "it's impossible to be in love w someone you've never met, never will meet" and then I think of him, or see his face, or hear someone talking about him, and... I glow.
I read Alans book and I agree with the interviewer and Emma that Rima was Alans Rock. It didnt matter if Alan was having a bad day,Something went wrong or he didnt feel good. One call,Text or Rima went to whereever he was Rima was there for him. RIP Alan you are so missed
I saw him in Seminar. There were so many people getting autographs after the show! He was so patient, signed everyone 's programs, posed for pictures. He didn't do a lot of talking but he did make sure to make some type of contact with everyone there --and he was there a long time. He showed great respect for his audience.
He was one of my very favorite comedic actors. I adored it when THAT voice and THAT vocabulary with THAT impeccable delivery, played comic relief acts!!! God, how RICH the soup it was!!! I will miss him so but be ever grateful for his body of work which I will immensely enjoy over and over again until I too get my very own chance to have audience with him on the stage of our next journey to where he’s at the forefront and I to the rear in rapture together as I imagine it will be!! See you then, Alan!! Cheers
Loved him... Robinhood Prince of theives with Kevin Costner wouldn't have been what it was without him... Just loved his work. RIP Allen, and thank you.
"Truly Madly Deeply" was such a great film and Ala'ns performance was masterful!!!! I have looked all over for a DVD but never found one to this day...sadly ...I miss his acting sooo much..saw every film and listened to all his readings ..Alan was a most superior gifted actor who will be remembered forever! Thanks for the incite to his personal and witty charm..was most enlightening to hear a man whos art was so intense could be such a wonderfu person on the other side of the screen :-)
She published his private diaries without his consent and tarnished his memory by giving rise to false assumptions about Alan's double life as gay or bi, because of the entries she included in the book. None of those would have happened if she hadn't published them. The fact that he's gone does not justify what she did . Even if Alan wanted to publish them at some point,he should have been the one to decide when to publish them and what to include ,not somebody else . Who does that to a loved one?
Got his book. The only part I read was the foreword. Publisher Alan Taylor says they don't know whether Alan wanted his diaries published or not. At that moment I knew I had to put the book back in its case. He was a private man he wouldn't want it and his wife shouldn't have disrespected him . He honored her his entire life and was always committed to her.
@@Michael-om7pfif Alan really wanted to keep his diaries private after his death, he would have destroyed them or asked openly for them to be destroyed. People who write diaries and don’t destroy them want them to be their legacy. His wife Rima told Neil Pearson who found a publisher for the diaries that ‘Alan would have wanted them published’. His family and close friends supported the publication of the diaries and no one has spoken out against the publication. His wife knew him better than anyone and loved him deeply. If you personally don’t support the diaries then don’t read them but it’s wrong to blame Rima for this. She hasn’t disrespected him at all. There’s absolutely nothing in those diaries that harms Alan’s character or reputation.
@@janz1352 what you're saying is not what Alan Taylor says in the diaries foreword. I believe him. If Alan wanted his diaries published he wouldn't have waited till the last moment to give his permission. He would have published the book long before that because nobody knows the time of their death. Agree to disagree thanks for your comment and have a nice day
@Mel You likely know some of their story together. I read Wiki today. Alan and Rima met at school (I think) when he was 16 and she 15. He received a state grant to attend a select grammar. Such a thing to have known each other as teenagers. And then get together some ten years later 👫
Emma Thomason’s recollections give you a great insight into the brilliance and hilarity of a most gifted actor. He was superb in anything he did. Will miss him.
Emma's like you dont have to say it, I'll say it "he was terrifying!" Lol I love that. I never saw him that way just as someone who would take you in and give comfort like a teddy bear
She tarnished his memory by publishing his private diaries without his consent. His publisher Alan Taylor wrote in the diaries foreword that it's not clear whether he wanted them published. Diaries she never read as she said because they're private,but still published for the whole world to see, leaving him open to false assumptions about his supposedly double life as gay or bi,which arose from a "Dark " Harbor" entry. He was faithful to her all his life and she repayed that with disrespect after he was gone.
Anybody making stupid, false assumptions from the diaries are just looking for any excuse to say Rima wasn’t good enough for him and are dishonoring Alan’s memory in doing so@@Libra-v1r
@@janz1352 the one who is dishonoring his memory is YOU by fervently supporting Rima's decision to publish the diaries! She never said that it was Alan's wish for the diaries to be published! And you indirectly call Alan Taylor a liar! He had no reason to write in the foreword that it's not clear whether Alan wanted them published,if that was not true. What a DESPICABLE individual you are !😡you are reported ofc for the things you called me Next time you open that big mouth of yours be sure you have a WRITTEN proof of what you say I have Alan Taylor's WRITTEN proof in the diaries when you have NOTHING!
@@janz1352 FYI Rima said she couldn't have thought of a finest editor than Alan Taylor for the diaries publication. Alan Taylor wrote that it's not clear whether Alan wanted his private diaries to be published or not So....if there's a few brain cells left in you it's easy to conclude that Rima approved of EVERYTHING the editor did in that book, including his foreword statement. No matter how many unfounded arguments you present,you can never debunk mine,so pipe down will you
Ooooohhhh ok🤪 I’m not discounting what Alan Taylor said but I’m also not discounting what Neil Pearson said who was the first person Rima approached about getting the diary published. I think we both know that you would still hate Rima even if the diaries hadn’t been published anyway. If you were a true ‘fan’ of Alan’s then you would not be acting like a toxic bully towards his wife and those who support their relationship @@Libra-v1r
It's a wonderful book just reading it and going to sleep late because I can't put it down ! amazing to see Rima as she is there in the diaries all the time as Emma is too ..Thankyou for this ! such a class actor and his truth and heart shines through all his words ..his words are staying in my mind as they are so real not faked and I love that .. I Madly Deeply Thank him for the joy he has given ✨💖
His private diaries that she published without his consent. What a disrespectful act to the man who honored her until his last moment when he dedicated a song for her to be played at his memorial service.
@@Libra-v1rYes you're right! She had no business publishing his private diaries when she herself said they were private and she hadn't even read them! They could have made like a biography of him and his life and things and talked to people who knew him. Not publish his own private diary for the world to see ! Not expose him to speculations and assumptions about his private life! Who does that to a loved one! Even if he had told her on the day he died that he was going to publish his diaries he would be doing it not her not Alan Taylor not Emma Thompson not anybody but him he would pick out what he wanted not somebody else that never even read themd before. You think they discussed what he would want in it, when he only had. Few months to live? They even change what was in it they were only going to do have from 91 til 2016. They added and appendix that contains some things from the 70s and early 80s. Anyway you look at it you don't publish someone's private diary of someone that's well-known and loved like Alan....not when he's not there to oversee it.
That man was testosterone on legs...he just oozed masculine sexiness...omg was he sexy af.... Extraordinary talent & charasmstic personality...he had it all....yet so humble. God I miss him....RIP dear Alan ♥️🕊️
True, but Alan was uncomfortable with that title and description. He was just the opposite of that in his personal life. He even said in an interview when asked if he was never tempted to take up with some young actressand he say a resounding NO! He later stated in an interview and I quote "I have never been remotely sexually voracious. This is the real Alan. The Alan we know and love. So different than other celebrities, especially handsome desirable men
Though one of them I only know from a few public pictures, but it seems to me the more years these two ladies collect, the more attractive they are. As much as I adore Emma, hearing Rima talking caught my attention even more. What a resonant and warm sounding voice and all in all a very charismatic woman!!!
@@Libra-v1robviously untrue. A complete fabrication. The diaries came out in 2022. Why has this allegation only been revealed now? This podcast was uploaded 4 months ago and the allegation that Alan wanted his diaries destroyed has appeared nowhere else. If there was any grain of truth to it then the mainstream tabloids would be all over it by now - that hasn’t happened. TMZ specialise in crass celebrity gossip and take story tips from anyone. They haven’t backed up their allegations with any source or contacted representatives of Alan’s family, Rima Horton or the publishers for comment. They get away with this because they are not part of the mainstream media. Dead celebrities are like cannon fodder for them - they don’t care about the truth. The diaries have been edited very respectfully. If you don’t like them or disagree with them - don’t read them. To choose to embark on a two year campaign of hate, misinformation, blatant lies and disgusting allegations (not just about the diaries either) against Rima is obsessional, toxic trolling behavior. It is not anyone’s business to make any sort of judgment against Rima about the diaries, her relationship with Alan or anything else. Go and get another ‘hobby’ Nicole and while you’re at it - act your age and not like some obsessional 16 year old!
Really liked him as an actor. Didn’t realise that he was half Welsh until I heard him being interviewed and he spoke some Welsh and said his mother was from Pontypridd.
Smart enough to get the opportunity to draw attention on herself by publishing Alan's diaries without his consent. That is stated in the diaries foreword. Moreover, Alan's godson Tom Burke affirms that Alan would never write a memoir. That's in his interview for the Guardian. The book did more damage to his reputation than good. A lot of his fans made false assumptions about Alan's character and sexuality, for which he can't defend himself .
@@Libra-v1r I don't wish to argue with you, but she doesn't appear to 'draw' attention to herself, she's published them and gone back to living her life quietly. And both she and Emma Thompson appeared to state that Alan knew and approved of the diaries being published (though, they could indeed be lying through their teeth, I have no way to know). Do you have a link to the interview in the Guardian?
@@Walls2008 just Google "Tom Burke the Guardian interview" or "Tom Burke on Alan Rickman". Alan never approved of the diaries being published . If you have the book there's a note by publisher Alan Taylor in the foreword. He says that it's not clear whether Alan wanted his diaries published or not. Rima herself said that she wouldn't have thought of a finest editor than him,and by the way,she sold the rights of that book to the publishing house. That means they could collect the rest of the entries and publish another book in the future,in which they can add or remove anything they like,even fabricate spicy stories to attract new readers. As for Tom Burke's interview,he wrote that his mother asked Alan if he intended to write a book in the future and he said "No, I know myself and I am not interested". There's also another book by Maureen Paton, Alan's unauthorized biography, which Alan did not collaborate on. The author collected sources from people who either knew Alan in person or worked with him, including Alan's close friend and director Peter Barnes. Another proof that Alan didn't want his diaries published, if he didn't collaborate on Maureen Paton 's book why would he write his own? Alan should have been the only one to decide when to publish his diaries and what to include in them,not someone else. Rima knew him for 50 years she knew how private man he was to do such a thing to him just because he's gone. He left her millions. She should have donated some of that money to fund pancreatic cancer research, plus the money she got from selling his property. If she only asked for people's financial support for that cause everyone would have offered money without her publishing Alan's private diaries. How can you do that to a loved one without their consent?
Loved him in Die Hard. He was just rotten 😂 I don’t like Hollyweird but British actors seem to be the cream of the crop. That scene in Love Actually-ugh. It made me cry. They’re so excellent together
that was all that was on the programme , with pre-recorded interviews they just choose what they consider to be the best bits of a longer interview , will double check but I don't think there is a longer version anywhere !
It seems it was the only good thing she did for him because publishing his private diaries and leaving him open to false assumptions is certainly not good!
@@winterguest2003that's a complete lie!!!! You should read what the publisher Alan Taylor wrote in the diaries foreword . He wrote that it's not clear whether Alan wanted them published or not! Besides,Alan didn't cooperate on the writing of his unauthorised biography by Maureen Paton. Why do you think he would approve of that one? How ungrateful and disrespectful she was to do such a thing. There are entries in the book that have caused a lot of his fans to falsely assume he was gay or bi , because of the way that book was written. Thanks Rima! 😡
That's not true at all! Why would you want someone to publish your diary when you wouldn't be there to tell him what to put in it? I can't think anyone who would publish their loved ones diary specially famous person. She had no business doing that. And it has made people speculate and make false assumptions about things because of the way it's written mostly bits and pieces and very ambiguous in places. Even though I enjoyed the book, I would rather it not have been published
The Maureen Paton book was a hatchet job, poorly edited, full of errors and very badly written. It’s no wonder Alan hated it. At least the diaries are Alan’s own words. I don’t know why or how anybody would make any assumptions about his sexuality - I certainly didn’t and it looks like the majority of commenters on here didn’t either. Or why you would make negative accusations or assumptions about his relationship with Rima either unless you had a jealous agenda against her. The diaries really don’t reveal that much and they would have been heavily edited so the really private stuff would of course, not be included. There is no way Rima would have gone ahead with having them published if Alan hadn’t approved of it in some way (or his brothers and sister for that matter). Neal Pearson the book dealer (and actor) who found a publisher for the diaries in response to being asked whether Alan would have wanted them published said : “I’m certain that he would because Rima is certain that he would…and I was very happy to go along with her on that basis.” Rima was his soulmate and most of the sensible, mature comments on here support and recognise that. Stop dishonoring Alan’s memory by spreading misinformation because of your completely irrational hatred of his widow. @@Libra-v1r
@@janz1352 so you call Alan Taylor a liar????????? Why would he write that it's not clear whether Alan wanted his diaries published or not????? You're IGNORANT about Maureen Paton 's book because I can tell you have not read it ,you just reproduce what people have said about it And because you're IGNORANT I inform you that Alan's close friend and director Peter Barnes collaborated on that book. Do some research before you spread LIES !!!!! People who knew Alan personally have collaborated on that book,which makes it no less credible than his diaries. Rima had no business publishing the diaries. You know NOTHING about Alan, which gives you no right to say anything on the matter A man so private, that he never mentioned he had cancer in any of his entries, because he was afraid that the diary could fall into the wrong hands if it was ever stolen. He had absolutely no reason to expose his thoughts to the public. He said that he didn't want people to know everything about him,if they wanted to know who he was it was all in the work. Obviously you haven't heard any of this and if you have it's not convenient for you to admit it not to spoil the image of your beloved Rima about whom you know nothing about either ! Stop telling lies if you don't have proof of what you're talking about!
But Emma you and Alan in love actually was truly amazing together felt the emotion and vibe be proud of that ok rip Alan did not know yer as a person but as an actor truly amazing and Emma too wonderful films memories will live on god bless both of you.
Oh how I love Emma Thompson! Comparing herself to Piglet - "There I'd be bouncing around and he (Alan) would just about put up with my small pinkness."
Alan Rickman was an extraordinary actor. It's a pity he is no longer with us.
Rima is so sweet. I understand why he loved her so much.
True
Evidently she’s also brilliant.
They were together for over 50 years
Unfortunately she didn't love him as much .
Didn't want to have his children,never wore the wedding ring he bought her, didn't take his name.
If Alan was in her place he would have done all of the above for her .
But the greatest disrespect to his memory was publishing his private diaries.
There have been unfounded rumors about his sexual orientation that arose from a specific entry about his movie "Dark Harbor".
Nobody had noticed the kissing scene between Alan and Norman Reedus until they read that specific entry in the diaries and started to talk about a man with a double life, when there is no evidence of that.
All because of the diaries.
Even if Alan intended to have them published,it should have been his decision when to do it and what to put in it,not someone else's.
@@labratambercertainly not,they were apart in the 90s not counting when he was sharing a flat with Ruby Wax and her boyfriend.
I knew it! Rima was his anchor. She kept him grounded. I'm so glad they had each other.
@user-pg7bl8bv1j Sorry, I just found your question. You need to know one thing so you can understand why I know this. I was born legally blind. Totally blind in my right eye. Without my contact in my good eye. I can only see clearly an inch from my nose. This eye does aches. I am registered with the blind association of America. Thus, I am aloud to get talking books from the Library for the blind. Years ago my mum purchased from a books some audio books. Funnily enough, I was listening to one of the books already. I thought I would listen to the audio. That way I could return the blind book to the library. I started the audio from the beginning. It didn't take long for me to notice that something was wrong. The whole book was not being read. Chucks were missing. I looked at the package and there was a number to call. Besides being very rude and down right nasty. I was told that they cut out things they deem unimportant in the book. I refuse to buy audio books. This may or may not be the reason you can't find it. It is merely my experience. I wish I could be of more help.
She proved that she didn't love him at all .
Denied him kids and a dog.
Never wore his wedding ring or took his name.
They could have adopted a child if she wasn't able to carry one but she didn't want to share him with anyone,not even with a dog.
He would have been happier and healthier if he had a family to come home to,but he continued to work on project after project until his death .
The biggest insult to his memory was publishing his private diaries without his consent.
The editor confirms that in the foreword.
Plus his godson Tom Burke states in the Guardian's interview that Alan wouldn't write a memoir because as he said "I know myself and I 'm not interested".
That book caused a lot of his fans to make false assumptions about Alan's character and his life, for which he can't defend himself.
Alan ALWAYS put his wife's wishes first at the expense of his own and she tarnished his memory.
Poor man he got short-handed and he deserved the world.
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His "anchor" betrayed him.
Alan wanted his diaries to be destroyed.
@@Libra-v1r You believe everything put on here because it's true. Alan had no problem telling people to go feck themselves. His best best Emma and Ruby. Have vouched for Rima. I'm also been with the same man for 37 years. Your jealously shows at this very sad.
@@dmarcouxbeatty374 you're trying to find excuses for the inexcusable.
Find some proof that Alan wanted to have his diaries published,like I found evidence that he didn't.
Stop calling the evidence I present jealousy just because you have no evidence to prove your point.
I refuse to stay silent so idiots and ignorant people like you are not offended
I have followed Alan 's film work and also his theater work since I was very young .
My two oldest children grew up watching Harry Potter and growing up with it.
I live in Italy and have often stayed in the same village where Alan and Rima had (but I believe it is still owned by Rima)
a big house.
Alan loved coming to this place and was often in the small square with his tablet, sitting at a table..very discreet..you could meet him and for him it was as if there was no difference.he was very humble.
I myself also saw it at the Roman theater in Volterra in 2010.
helpful and very attentive ..loved Shakespeare even acted in Italian.
He was a very lovable person and very funny.
I can say this because, at times, in the little square he would tell anecdotes to friends and I would indirectly listen from my table.
No one disturbed him, we all respected him and his privacy.
his death shocked me .. too premature, but I had the opportunity to give a small gift to this great actor:
two days after his death, my third child was born, I named him Alan ..
in honor of him, and in remembrance of him.
That’s a beautiful story & tribute. ♥️
No Rima didn't keep his dream home, where his precious ashes are buried! She didn't want it. He willed it to his niece Sarah, his brother David's daughter.
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@@barbarazirger7732 untrue , Rima still have the italian house ....
@@barbarazirger7732not true. Stop spreading lies. Rima still owns the house in Tuscany.
A great talent. "Truly, Madly, Deeply" is one of my fave films of all time. RIP Alan.
When Alan Rickman and Juliet Stevenson sing THE SUN AIN'T GONNA SHINE ANYMORE it is so perfect...so unforgettable.
Mine too. I would love to see it again.
I miss him so much. I bought the book, it's a little part of him, thanks to his widow to share it with us. No doubt, it was done with his permission.
I can’t imagine how much Rima Horton Rickman must miss him. Our love is extraordinary; 50 years imagine!
Alan Rickman was a great actor, my favorite actor. He was a really good person. So charismatic, polite and kind to everyone.
He’s the reason I watched the Harry Potter movies. 'cause he was in it. (and then I became a fan of HP, especially of cause Snape, the most complex and interesting character what a masterfull interpretation! He deserve more place in HP movies. For me, Alan will be Snape forever , he is irreplaceable ) .
My thoughts are with his widow, who must continue without him, it must be so hard for her. We lost our favorite actor, she, she lost the man of her life, her great love.
I'll never forget him. ( sorry for my bad english , I'm french ...)
Vous avez trouvez tous les mots juste ❣
Amen. And if you haven't already seen Galaxy Quest, you should absolutely do so. He is dryly hilarious but also touching as the frustrated Shakespearean actor turned pigeonholed Star-Trek-type TV star.
That are my thoughts completely. I first saw him in HP and since then followed him more avid than a drug dog! No, I didn't trespass his privacy, but I went to Dublin for Borkman and watched the play he directed in London and so on. And in one direction or another he WAS the love of my life, because I never had the same crush on anybody else. And my husband knew, of course. Alan was the very best and the epitome of intelligence, wit, earnestness and warmth.
@@serendipityshopnyc in one of the tributes Patrick Breen (played Quellek) told that Allan Rickman was visiting him 6 weeks before his death when Breen had a premiere. He looked ill but told that he is fine and nobody should worry. Such a thoughtful person who took care of his collegues.
Hi Estelle D.! This American thinks your English is excellent. No worries! I knew of Alan Rickman from previous works but (this is a bit embarrassing to admit) not his name until the Potter movie series. His portrayal of Snape was so stunning I simply had to take note. We were all lucky to have dear Mr. Rickman; fortunately for us, he is on film (streaming!) in perpetuity. I will check out the book! Je regrette, mon Francaise est terrible. Adieu, mon ami!
RIP Alan RIckman. What a wonderful man, a wonderful talent.
What a guy!! Alan Rickman was fabulous! 👏👏👏
From Shakespeare to Truly Madly deeply to Die hard to Love Actually to Harry Potter the list goes on and on.., ...,. One of the most talented actors to have ever lived. RIP
I loved his voice and his wonderful acting in whatever role he took on. He was a hoot as the Sheriff of Nottingham in Robin Hood
@carolyn ellis Wiki has some interesting details about this 1991 Robin Hood film. That Alan kept knocking back the role until they agreed to let him do whatever he wanted with the Sheriff part. And that Kevin Costner, playing Robin, may not have appreciated being acted off the screen by one A. Rickman. I think he may have received a Best Supporting Actor Oscar for this role. His acceptance speech mentioned not to underestimate the value in over exaggerating and over-playing your character !😃
@@comealongcomealong4480
Yes his speech, Alan, was just subtle and funny
I imagine Kevin Costner was seething quietly.
Alan was a one off
About 20 years ago, Mr Rickman was a passenger on an Air Canada flight I was working from Calgary to London. I still remember the seat he sat in. Never wanting to bother celebrities onboard, I said nothing, but could barely contain my excitement just hearing his voice. As it was a late departure, he slept all the way across the pond. I tucked a little note on the armrest saying how much I'd admired his role in Sense & Sensibility and signed it 'One of the FAs onboard', hoping he'd read it when he woke. He deplaned in LHR and I was left with a very fond memory of that flight...
so nothing happened. what a useless story. embarrassed for you
Boy Hannah, you’re terribly rude. Alan would Not approve.
@@marshaneumann5017 Wow you knew him ?
@@Hannah-pk6iq I knew from every report that the man had class, compassion and an exteme desire to help and encourage others. Just his presence made that airmans day. So cruel you-even Alan Richman would have given you the time of day and appreciated that man’s story.
@@marshaneumann5017 I am currently reading his diaries. I made no mention of AR himself.Give your head a wobble love.
I'm still grieving for him... What a loss. Looking forward to reading the diaries.
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I remember Alan Rickman as Slope in the brilliant BBC Barchester Towers decades ago. I knew then that he would be an exceptional and wonderful actor. He was a genius and so versatile. ❤
I watched this as an adolescent ,I knew then as well ,he was destined for greatness.
Yes. His Slope was brilliant. Such an amazing actor. 💕
Barchester Towers YT channel. The whole thing! I watch it through again and again, and not just for Alan but Nigel Hawthorne, Geraldine McEwan, Donald Pleasance, etc.
@@heatherjones6647 thanks for the tip, I must look for it. And the lovely Susan Hampshire.
My mother-in-law died of this and anyone who lives through this has an unbelievable journey….I send my love and admiration to him his widow…it is not a journey for the faint of heart….
I am not an actor watcher but when Alan Rickman was on the screen, I became one. He was so gifted as an actor and from what I hear about him now, as a person. I am certain his wife Rima was that component that centered him and gave him the confidence to live his thespian life with ease. So, thank you, Rima.
Terrifying or not he was the most generous spirit of many actors that I have seen. I’m missing it seven years and I still miss him. I always well.
I think about him weekly, i miss him all the time. 😢
I bought the book, and so far I have found it entertaining. I ended up loving Alan Rickman once I knew how talented and a nice person he was. I cried when I watched some of the tributes. I would have liked to meet him, just to have a good conversation with him. Very smart and just a wonderful guy.
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Met him at a Q&A in Hollywood for "A Little Chaos" in 2015. It was one of the best days of my life. Yes, Rima and Emma are correct -- he was kind of moody and unapproachable, but he signed my picture of him (which I have framed on my living wall), and he gave me a wonderful smile when I did approach him. Rima is absolutely charming. I've always loved Rima.
You are so lucky!
I like her, too. And I think she might be a good rolemodel for women, because: I don't have any children either, and she is one of those women who prove that a woman doesn't necessarily need to be a mother in order to be balanced, passionate, caring, calm (in a healthy way) and content. There's a cliche that I'm sometimes told by mothers, that I (39) will someday become bitter and unbalanced if I won't become a mother. They don't even care that it's partly also health problems that caused me to decide not to be a mother. I sometimes think it's rather the continuing derisive words of people like that who might MAKE women like me bitter someday if they are treated like this for long enough 🤷♀️
@@oOBubbleStreamOo Don't let family or strangers derail your happiness, having a child doesn't define someone's value and the joys they have in their daily life. Hugs
@@oOBubbleStreamOo Well put. It's how family and people treat us in the long run what makes unmarried/childless women turn bitter. You can be a good sport and bear the jokes and derisive comments only for so long.
Lovely interview with Emma and Rita! I just wished it was longer!
Just a friendly reminder: It's Rima - not Rita ☺
I remember first seeing him in the early 80s in the Alan Plater adaptation of The Barchester Chronicles as Obadiah Slope. He was so good that I can't possibly imagine anyone else playing that role.
I'm laughing also crying!!! God i miss him!!!
What I wouldn't give to see the three of them (Emma, Rima and Alan) together having this laugh. Rima is SO sweet! This is a lovely book! I was surprised to see his artwork in his diary entries. This book is a gift to all who admired Alan.
What's name of book?
@@marinakokina8917 Madly, Deeply: The Alan Rickman Diaries
This book is written in such a way that caused a lot of fans to believe he was gay or bi when there is no scandal on him and no evidence that he was .
They could have done a kind of documentary about his life instead of publishing his private diaries and exposing him to false assumptions.
He should have been the only one to decide whether he wanted his diary published and when and what to include in it, not someone else's decision.
It's a disrespect to his memory.
Alan and his wife, Rima, were together for over 40 years. She knew what his wishes were regarding his diaries.
@@nickieh6034 how do you know?
Were you there?
The publisher writes in the foreword that it's not clear whether Alan wanted to publish the diaries.
What's your proof that Rima knew what his wish was?
I preordered this book on Audible over a month ago. I’ve adored this actor since the early 90’s. I cannot wait to read more from this enigmatic and intelligent man. Much missed ❤️
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I would like to have heard more from Rima.
no kidding.. She's the one that really knew him
@@jandunlap7618 that's why what she did was despicable.
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Not only did she betray him and ignore his dying wish she published his private diaries and relinquished all rights to Canongate.
Apparently she never knew him or didn't care.
@@Libra-v1r you’re the despicable one here.
@@janz1352 I know you looked at the mirror before saying that and saw yourself 🤡🤡🤡🤡
Simply one of the greatest actors ever, a charming person. I had the chance to meet him after a play in London, and he was kind and nice to all there. I'm reading his book and I'm glad his wife gave permission to publish this very private piece of his life. It will keep his memory much alive, together with his brilliant performances. As fro this interview I absolutely adore Rima's class and Dame Emma Thompson's. As Juliet Stevenson said when Alan passed "We've lost a King". I say we've lost an Emperor, but his memory is still with us all fans.
His wife had no right to publish his private diaries just because he's gone
That book has led a lot of his fans to believe and spread ridiculous unfounded allegations about him which tarnish his memory.
He left her millions and she could have donated that money to fund pancreatic cancer research instead of publishing what was meant to be private
Keep your poisonous comments to yourself. You have your own twisted agenda against Rima and it’s not welcome here or anywhere@@Libra-v1r
@@janz1352 who are you to say that????
I assure you there's too many on the same boat who could see through her!
You have no right to tell me or others what to say !
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I'll buy this book, what a wonderful actor he could make the phone directory interesting. What a huge loss to everyone, I wish he was still here. RIP ❤ 🌹
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Greatly missed I loved him since I saw him in The Barchester Chronicles and Truly Madly Deeply the barchester chronicles
Great interview with Emma and Rima. Enjoyed the diaries immensely. A fascinating read. Alan’s character really shone through and I loved the inclusion of his beautiful illustrations. Such a talented man. Rima’s account of Alan’s last few weeks were incredibly moving and sad.
Wonderful actor & what an unforgettable voice
@Linda King I don't want to spoil the impact of that distinct and captivating voice for you! Wiki has a surprising paragraph detailing that Alan had some kind of locked jaw when young, producing his slowed pace of speech. And something about a "spastic palate" - that from one of his drama teachers! I knew nothing about Alan's years before the Die Hard film (1988), released when he was already 42. First studying graphic design, then running a business with fellow graduates for a couple of years. Applying to RADA at the age of 24. Supporting himself as a student by working as a theatre dresser for Ralph Richardson and Nigel Hawthorne (names from memory). Now those would have been amazing experiences. I imagine Alan learned alot about clothing, costume and the wearing of it. He definitely had his own stylish personal look. Then Alan joining the board of RADA some twenty five years later, serving as Vice Chair and on various committees. So he definitely believed in giving back to support the next generations. Anyway ... an interesting read.
@@comealongcomealong4480 yes,I know that,thank you,regardless his voice was memorable
@@lindaking9222 I agree. Alan's voice was a wonderful gift for an actor (in spite of any physical oddities). And a gift for his many audiences over the years.
Dogma!!!
Loved him ❤️
All I had to do was Google whether Alan wanted to have his diaries published I am very disappointed with what I read.
Have recently discovered this actor looks like he was a decent guy and had a big heart.
I remember having dinner with you and Alan after a show in NYC with Eve. It was a wonderful experience. I learned so much about directing from him that evening.🎭❤️
What was he like? I never met him 😭
He was charming with a wonderful sense of humor and very kind. He talked with everyone at the table as if each one was important. A gentle soul.
@@barbaramelzer8760 Thank you so much 😭♥️
@Barbara MELZER. “…dinner with you and Alan…”. Who is “you”? Emma Thompson, Rima, or the journalist?
@@leamaka2082 Rima his wife and Eve his drama teacher from RADA.
Alan is forever carried in my heart and mind
How could you not love this man. I know I did.
Long live Alan! What a lovely interview with Rima and Emma.
A lovely talented man.
One of my all time favourite actors. Genius, humour, acerbic wit - he just oozed talent!
Nice interview with Emma and Rima ♥
I saw him playing the part of Jaques in Shakespeare's As You Like It at the RSC way back in the late 1970's I think it was. And then Hamlet at the Riverside Studios early 1990's. Then I watched him in Robin Hood, and laughed so much. He was an amazing actor. Gone but never forgotten.
And in Sense and Sensibility
What a wonderful eulogy, eloquent, sad and yet humerous celebrating a wonderful person!.
Thank God his body of work continues and the love he bore people in his life is shared among his colleagues and his wife.
I can't wait until the book arives!!! I preordered his book as soon as I could! How do I miss someone I've never met?! 💔
judging by the comments , Alan had a massive army of fervent fans !
I understand. I keep telling myself "it's impossible to be in love w someone you've never met, never will meet" and then I think of him, or see his face, or hear someone talking about him, and... I glow.
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I read Alans book and I agree with the interviewer and Emma that Rima was Alans Rock. It didnt matter if Alan was having a bad day,Something went wrong or he didnt feel good. One call,Text or Rima went to whereever he was Rima was there for him. RIP Alan you are so missed
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Lovely man fantastic actor.
Saw him on Broadway in Seminar in 2012. Very funny, warm man signing autographs outside.
I saw him in Seminar. There were so many people getting autographs after the show! He was so patient, signed everyone 's programs, posed for pictures. He didn't do a lot of talking but he did make sure to make some type of contact with everyone there --and he was there a long time. He showed great respect for his audience.
Truly, Madly, Deeply! Loved him in this.
He was one of my very favorite comedic actors. I adored it when THAT voice and THAT vocabulary with THAT impeccable delivery, played comic relief acts!!! God, how RICH the soup it was!!! I will miss him so but be ever grateful for his body of work which I will immensely enjoy over and over again until I too get my very own chance to have audience with him on the stage of our next journey to where he’s at the forefront and I to the rear in rapture together as I imagine it will be!!
See you then, Alan!!
Cheers
Lucky to have seen Alan on stage before the big movies,sadly missed .
Thank you for this lovely interview , he was my all time crush and remains so .
I loved this man, such a great actor!! Rima you were so lucky to have him in your life.
One of the best. 😢
Loved him... Robinhood Prince of theives with Kevin Costner wouldn't have been what it was without him... Just loved his work. RIP Allen, and thank you.
"Truly Madly Deeply" was such a great film and Ala'ns performance was masterful!!!! I have looked all over for a DVD but never found one to this day...sadly
...I miss his acting sooo much..saw every film and listened to all his readings ..Alan was a most superior gifted actor who will be remembered forever!
Thanks for the incite to his personal and witty charm..was most enlightening to hear a man whos art was so intense could be such a wonderfu person on the other side of the screen :-)
DVD on Amazon.
I also just found it on Amazon. I ordered it and can't wait to watch it.
@@ritawhitney441 THE SUN AIN'T GONNA SHINE ANYMORE
Juliet Stevenson and AR
eBay
If you ever need a good cry, watch this film
You are so lucky you had him in your life. I adored him and I adore you🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
She published his private diaries without his consent and tarnished his memory by giving rise to false assumptions about Alan's double life as gay or bi, because of the entries she included in the book.
None of those would have happened if she hadn't published them.
The fact that he's gone does not justify what she did .
Even if Alan wanted to publish them at some point,he should have been the one to decide when to publish them and what to include ,not somebody else .
Who does that to a loved one?
I miss him so much! I really wanna read the diaries.
I need to buy this book. He was such an amazing person.
Got his book.
The only part I read was the foreword.
Publisher Alan Taylor says they don't know whether Alan wanted his diaries published or not.
At that moment I knew I had to put the book back in its case.
He was a private man he wouldn't want it and his wife shouldn't have disrespected him .
He honored her his entire life and was always committed to her.
@@Michael-om7pfif Alan really wanted to keep his diaries private after his death, he would have destroyed them or asked openly for them to be destroyed. People who write diaries and don’t destroy them want them to be their legacy. His wife Rima told Neil Pearson who found a publisher for the diaries that ‘Alan would have wanted them published’. His family and close friends supported the publication of the diaries and no one has spoken out against the publication. His wife knew him better than anyone and loved him deeply. If you personally don’t support the diaries then don’t read them but it’s wrong to blame Rima for this. She hasn’t disrespected him at all. There’s absolutely nothing in those diaries that harms Alan’s character or reputation.
@@janz1352 what you're saying is not what Alan Taylor says in the diaries foreword.
I believe him.
If Alan wanted his diaries published he wouldn't have waited till the last moment to give his permission.
He would have published the book long before that because nobody knows the time of their death.
Agree to disagree thanks for your comment and have a nice day
I had the privilege of seeing Alan at a provincial theatre in Hampshire, in a wonderful play The Reading Room, it has been a treasured memory for me
I bought the diary, full of trivial informations.. truly a collectible!
He was a very unique actor ... loved him in Robin Hood ... he is missed ...
Loved him ever since his Obadiah! His timing was perfect.
That's true love right there
@Mel You likely know some of their story together. I read Wiki today. Alan and Rima met at school (I think) when he was 16 and she 15. He received a state grant to attend a select grammar. Such a thing to have known each other as teenagers. And then get together some ten years later 👫
They actually met in 1965 when he was 19 and she was 18
& don't forget his immortal voice at the end of Mike Oldfield's brilliant Tubular Bells...❤
Sweet Alan and sweet Rima.
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Emma Thomason’s recollections give you a great insight into the brilliance and hilarity of a most gifted actor. He was superb in anything he did. Will miss him.
I thought he was fantastic in Closet Land. Just him & Madeleine Stow - what a film!
I've only cried twice when an actor died. First was Olivier and when Alan Rickman died. I don't think I will again.
He was wonderful. Off topic but I love the deep purple suit and mossy green tie. (At least that's what the colors look like on my screen.)
Alan was (is) a beautiful soul
Emma's like you dont have to say it, I'll say it "he was terrifying!" Lol I love that. I never saw him that way just as someone who would take you in and give comfort like a teddy bear
I miss Alan Rickman. 😢
A beautiful person and a wonderful wife to carry on his legacy.
She tarnished his memory by publishing his private diaries without his consent.
His publisher Alan Taylor wrote in the diaries foreword that it's not clear whether he wanted them published.
Diaries she never read as she said because they're private,but still published for the whole world to see, leaving him open to false assumptions about his supposedly double life as gay or bi,which arose from a "Dark " Harbor" entry.
He was faithful to her all his life and she repayed that with disrespect after he was gone.
Anybody making stupid, false assumptions from the diaries are just looking for any excuse to say Rima wasn’t good enough for him and are dishonoring Alan’s memory in doing so@@Libra-v1r
@@janz1352 the one who is dishonoring his memory is YOU by fervently supporting Rima's decision to publish the diaries!
She never said that it was Alan's wish for the diaries to be published!
And you indirectly call Alan Taylor a liar!
He had no reason to write in the foreword that it's not clear whether Alan wanted them published,if that was not true.
What a DESPICABLE individual you are !😡you are reported ofc for the things you called me
Next time you open that big mouth of yours be sure you have a WRITTEN proof of what you say
I have Alan Taylor's WRITTEN proof in the diaries when you have NOTHING!
@@janz1352 FYI Rima said she couldn't have thought of a finest editor than Alan Taylor for the diaries publication.
Alan Taylor wrote that it's not clear whether Alan wanted his private diaries to be published or not
So....if there's a few brain cells left in you it's easy to conclude that Rima approved of EVERYTHING the editor did in that book, including his foreword statement.
No matter how many unfounded arguments you present,you can never debunk mine,so pipe down will you
Ooooohhhh ok🤪 I’m not discounting what Alan Taylor said but I’m also not discounting what Neil Pearson said who was the first person Rima approached about getting the diary published. I think we both know that you would still hate Rima even if the diaries hadn’t been published anyway. If you were a true ‘fan’ of Alan’s then you would not be acting like a toxic bully towards his wife and those who support their relationship @@Libra-v1r
It's a wonderful book just reading it and going to sleep late because I can't put it down ! amazing to see Rima as she is there in the diaries all the time as Emma is too ..Thankyou for this ! such a class actor and his truth and heart shines through all his words ..his words are staying in my mind as they are so real not faked and I love that .. I Madly Deeply Thank him for the joy he has given ✨💖
I still miss him.
Grateful to Rima for sharing the diaries.
His private diaries that she published without his consent.
What a disrespectful act to the man who honored her until his last moment when he dedicated a song for her to be played at his memorial service.
@@Libra-v1rYes you're right! She had no business publishing his private diaries when she herself said they were private and she hadn't even read them! They could have made like a biography of him and his life and things and talked to people who knew him. Not publish his own private diary for the world to see ! Not expose him to speculations and assumptions about his private life! Who does that to a loved one! Even if he had told her on the day he died that he was going to publish his diaries he would be doing it not her not Alan Taylor not Emma Thompson not anybody but him he would pick out what he wanted not somebody else that never even read themd before. You think they discussed what he would want in it, when he only had. Few months to live? They even change what was in it they were only going to do have from 91 til 2016. They added and appendix that contains some things from the 70s and early 80s. Anyway you look at it you don't publish someone's private diary of someone that's well-known and loved like Alan....not when he's not there to oversee it.
I love him
Bring him back please
That man was testosterone on legs...he just oozed masculine sexiness...omg was he sexy af....
Extraordinary talent & charasmstic personality...he had it all....yet so humble.
God I miss him....RIP dear Alan ♥️🕊️
Absolutely! ❤❤❤❤😊😊
True, but Alan was uncomfortable with that title and description. He was just the opposite of that in his personal life. He even said in an interview when asked if he was never tempted to take up with some young actressand he say a resounding NO! He later stated in an interview and I quote "I have never been remotely sexually voracious. This is the real Alan. The Alan we know and love. So different than other celebrities, especially handsome desirable men
@@barbarazirger7732a man like no other
Though one of them I only know from a few public pictures, but it seems to me the more years these two ladies collect, the more attractive they are. As much as I adore Emma, hearing Rima talking caught my attention even more. What a resonant and warm sounding voice and all in all a very charismatic woman!!!
I listen to the audiobook version of the diaries, marvellous!
Watch Alan Rickman Last Days podcast episode 61 on RUclips at 19:07
Alan wanted his diaries to be destroyed
@@Libra-v1robviously untrue. A complete fabrication. The diaries came out in 2022. Why has this allegation only been revealed now? This podcast was uploaded 4 months ago and the allegation that Alan wanted his diaries destroyed has appeared nowhere else. If there was any grain of truth to it then the mainstream tabloids would be all over it by now - that hasn’t happened. TMZ specialise in crass celebrity gossip and take story tips from anyone. They haven’t backed up their allegations with any source or contacted representatives of
Alan’s family, Rima Horton or the publishers for comment. They get away with
this because they are not part of the mainstream media. Dead celebrities are like cannon fodder for them - they don’t care about the truth. The diaries have been edited very respectfully. If you don’t like them or disagree with them - don’t read them. To choose to embark on a two year campaign of hate, misinformation, blatant lies and disgusting allegations (not just about the diaries either) against Rima is obsessional, toxic trolling behavior. It is not anyone’s business to make any sort of judgment against Rima about the diaries, her relationship with Alan or anything else. Go and get another ‘hobby’ Nicole and while you’re at it - act your age and not like some obsessional 16 year old!
You missed a favourite of mine, Quigley Down Under! ❤
Really liked him as an actor. Didn’t realise that he was half Welsh until I heard him being interviewed and he spoke some Welsh and said his mother was from Pontypridd.
If I could've got Alan Rickman, David Bowie, Cillian Murphy and Johnny Depp round a dinner table, I'd have been the happiest woman alive 😍😍😍😍
Oh my! Imagine the conversation! ❤
@@joankney8484 Yes I know 💜
Would have been worried if you'd left Bowie off the list, with a deep-cut reference username like that 🙂
@@dontbefatuousjeffrey2494 ☺️ well spotted . .
I never heard her voice before, she's seems even more smart and warm than him. RIP the marvellous Mr Rickman.
Smart enough to get the opportunity to draw attention on herself by publishing Alan's diaries without his consent.
That is stated in the diaries foreword.
Moreover, Alan's godson Tom Burke affirms that Alan would never write a memoir.
That's in his interview for the Guardian.
The book did more damage to his reputation than good.
A lot of his fans made false assumptions about Alan's character and sexuality, for which he can't defend himself .
@@Libra-v1r I don't wish to argue with you, but she doesn't appear to 'draw' attention to herself, she's published them and gone back to living her life quietly. And both she and Emma Thompson appeared to state that Alan knew and approved of the diaries being published (though, they could indeed be lying through their teeth, I have no way to know). Do you have a link to the interview in the Guardian?
@@Walls2008 just Google "Tom Burke the Guardian interview" or "Tom Burke on Alan Rickman".
Alan never approved of the diaries being published .
If you have the book there's a note by publisher Alan Taylor in the foreword.
He says that it's not clear whether Alan wanted his diaries published or not.
Rima herself said that she wouldn't have thought of a finest editor than him,and by the way,she sold the rights of that book to the publishing house.
That means they could collect the rest of the entries and publish another book in the future,in which they can add or remove anything they like,even fabricate spicy stories to attract new readers.
As for Tom Burke's interview,he wrote that his mother asked Alan if he intended to write a book in the future and he said "No, I know myself and I am not interested".
There's also another book by Maureen Paton, Alan's unauthorized biography, which Alan did not collaborate on.
The author collected sources from people who either knew Alan in person or worked with him, including Alan's close friend and director Peter Barnes.
Another proof that Alan didn't want his diaries published, if he didn't collaborate on Maureen Paton 's book why would he write his own?
Alan should have been the only one to decide when to publish his diaries and what to include in them,not someone else.
Rima knew him for 50 years she knew how private man he was to do such a thing to him just because he's gone. He left her millions. She should have donated some of that money to fund pancreatic cancer research, plus the money she got from selling his property.
If she only asked for people's financial support for that cause everyone would have offered money without her publishing Alan's private diaries.
How can you do that to a loved one without their consent?
Che mostro di bravura. Alan r.i.p.
Loved ❤
You and Robbie are there. Both liked
"..... and he'd just about put up with my small pinkness".... 😂😂😂
emma has a great way with words !
It’s pigness. She was piglet
@@francescaruby1150 I appreciate she was Piglet. I just listened to it again at 5:57 and I still hear pinkness 💗
Loved him in Die Hard. He was just rotten 😂 I don’t like Hollyweird but British actors seem to be the cream of the crop. That scene in Love Actually-ugh. It made me cry. They’re so excellent together
Yes, the voice, almost a purr……. There was only one Sheriff of Nottingham as far as I’m concerned. A very sad loss to the acting world.
i want to hear more
@topicalnewsanddebate Would it be possible to release the full interview with Rita and Emma?
that was all that was on the programme , with pre-recorded interviews they just choose what they consider to be the best bits of a longer interview , will double check but I don't think there is a longer version anywhere !
Alan is a great actor any movie he was in was great but my favourite was Robin Hood ❤❤❤
"and then Rima turned up and I calmed down" 😢
It seems it was the only good thing she did for him because publishing his private diaries and leaving him open to false assumptions is certainly not good!
It’s only people like you making those false assumptions borne out of jealousy of Rima @@Libra-v1r
If those diaries were so private, even his WIFE wasn’t allowed to read them, would Rickman want all of us reading them?
He told her he wanted them published.
@@winterguest2003that's a complete lie!!!!
You should read what the publisher Alan Taylor wrote in the diaries foreword .
He wrote that it's not clear whether Alan wanted them published or not!
Besides,Alan didn't cooperate on the writing of his unauthorised biography by Maureen Paton.
Why do you think he would approve of that one?
How ungrateful and disrespectful she was to do such a thing.
There are entries in the book that have caused a lot of his fans to falsely assume he was gay or bi , because of the way that book was written.
Thanks Rima! 😡
That's not true at all! Why would you want someone to publish your diary when you wouldn't be there to tell him what to put in it? I can't think anyone who would publish their loved ones diary specially famous person. She had no business doing that. And it has made people speculate and make false assumptions about things because of the way it's written mostly bits and pieces and very ambiguous in places. Even though I enjoyed the book, I would rather it not have been published
The Maureen Paton book was a hatchet job, poorly edited, full of errors and very badly written. It’s no wonder Alan hated it. At least the diaries are Alan’s own words. I don’t know why or how anybody would make any assumptions about his sexuality - I certainly didn’t and it looks like the majority of commenters on here didn’t either. Or why you would make negative accusations or assumptions about his relationship with Rima either unless you had a jealous agenda against her. The diaries really don’t reveal that much and they would have been heavily edited so the really private stuff would of course, not be included. There is no way Rima would have gone ahead with having them published if Alan hadn’t approved of it in some way (or his brothers and sister for that matter). Neal Pearson the book dealer (and actor) who found a publisher for the diaries in response to being asked whether Alan would have wanted them published said : “I’m certain that he would because Rima is certain that he would…and I was very happy to go along with her on that basis.” Rima was his soulmate and most of the sensible, mature comments on here support and recognise that. Stop dishonoring Alan’s memory by spreading misinformation because of your completely irrational hatred of his widow. @@Libra-v1r
@@janz1352 so you call Alan Taylor a liar?????????
Why would he write that it's not clear whether Alan wanted his diaries published or not?????
You're IGNORANT about Maureen Paton 's book because I can tell you have not read it ,you just reproduce what people have said about it
And because you're IGNORANT I inform you that Alan's close friend and director Peter Barnes collaborated on that book.
Do some research before you spread LIES !!!!!
People who knew Alan personally have collaborated on that book,which makes it no less credible than his diaries.
Rima had no business publishing the diaries.
You know NOTHING about Alan, which gives you no right to say anything on the matter
A man so private, that he never mentioned he had cancer in any of his entries, because he was afraid that the diary could fall into the wrong hands if it was ever stolen.
He had absolutely no reason to expose his thoughts to the public.
He said that he didn't want people to know everything about him,if they wanted to know who he was it was all in the work.
Obviously you haven't heard any of this and if you have it's not convenient for you to admit it not to spoil the image of your beloved Rima about whom you know nothing about either !
Stop telling lies if you don't have proof of what you're talking about!
But Emma you and Alan in love actually was truly amazing together felt the emotion and vibe be proud of that ok rip Alan did not know yer as a person but as an actor truly amazing and Emma too wonderful films memories will live on god bless both of you.
Emma Thompson sparkles in this lovely tribute to Alan Rickman.
just a class act aces a fan rip
Go watch Johnny Sessions imitate Alan on QI. He tells an anecdote about Alan having a conversation with a young child. Its side splittingly funny.
we will try and find it! , thanks Immanuel !
@@Enticers Series F, episode 11 Films. Very funny. And as a treat, Emma Thompson as well.
Oh how I love Emma Thompson! Comparing herself to Piglet - "There I'd be bouncing around and he (Alan) would just about put up with my small pinkness."