I went from being raised Christian, to being atheist, to dabbling in the manifestation/spirituality world, to realizing that there is also a lot of toxic stuff in the manifestation world (some of the same toxic/self-serving Christian beliefs under a different name, appropriating Native American and other cultures, as well as "female empowerment" that's actually the patriarchy in "bad bitch" clothes), to not feeling connected to anything all over again and like you said it feels isolating. I like how you described your spirit as just the energy within you, because I don't know that there is a outside higher power, but I do believe there is a version of a 'higher self' within us and that is there for me even when I don't have a community to lean on.
I'd been feeling adrift in my spirituality as well and only recently started feeling more grounded. It's taken over 10 years of self exploration to reach this point. Who you are and your understanding of yourself and the world around you is constantly evolving.
Your channel of “social media “ is Positive 🍀 and Peaceful 🧘♀️. I enjoy your content. I’ve limited many other social media channels but yours is therapeutic. Keep it coming 💜
Thank you so much for posting this. I’ve been so off that even listening to anything motivating or inspiring just pisses me off 😂 but this is exactly what I needed to hear, I’m feeling hopeful
Hey, Kalyn I've followed your podcast for about 2 years now on different platforms and I never commented, but this talk inspired me to open up re: my feelings towards my own spiritual experience. Something that makes me feel spiritually disconnected is forcing myself and my body into places and shapes we don't belong. I treat myself, inside and out, like a puzzle piece that doesn't fit but I keep trying to jam into place - my expectations of myself and others' expectations of me. After 25 years of life, where I've been just forcing myself into a certain body shape, hating myself when I don't achieve it, trying to be #1 in my classes, living with energy vampires my entire life, over-scheduling myself, being everyone's "yes" woman, everyone's on-call therapist, inconsistent sleep cycles, social media overload, comparison, perfectionism, chaotic daily environment, not giving myself adequate time to heal from trauma and pain, society's pressures re: when women are supposed to be married, have kids, giving up their careers, etc etc.. I am so beyond burnt out. The past 6 months, every aspect of my life has been suffering bc of this. It's finally starting to take its toll, so the past few days I've been working on slowing down and doing an "energy audit" by cutting off as much of the dead, negative energy (like removing a plant's dead leaves so it can grow), and finding ways to deal with and cope with what I can't change right now - limiting how much of my energy those things and people are allowed to have. Learning to say "no" is a great life skill that I never mastered, so I'm finally working on it and practicing it daily. "No" doesn't always have to be negative. In fact, recently, "no" has been one of the most positive and freeing words I have ever used. I believe "no" is going to be the starting point to me getting back in touch with my spirituality and coming back to myself. Thank you for this talk, Kalyn! And a belated congratulations on the baby, I think you would make an excellent mother! You look so pretty and glowy and ethereal! xx
man, Thank you so much for your content. I dont have many friends left...and have been cautiously single for almost 4 years, but I very much need a positive female voice so I can listen and not feel so isolated. Women really are so underrated in society, and that is so not right...I just wanted you to know, Miss Koze, that you make a difference in my world. I kinda suck really bad at messaging courtship, and that's my bad, but without these videos, I may not have been able to stay a positive person. I hope that helps you understand that you are making a difference, and from the bottom of my heart, I thank you for your efforts. I still get blown away while listening to how unbelievably wise you are...To my mental well being,, you are absolutely and astonishingly immaculate . Thank-you.😃
Here's to the process of accepting that it's not just the inhale and the exhale of life that bring us meaning, the moment between, that pause before the exhale, do not conflate it's length of time to it's depth of significance💛 here's to the humble"in-between"💛 . My soul always finds your content at that the right time. Thank you for being you✨❤️
Kalynnnnn I wanted a pep talk Istg😭🥺i have my therapy appointment tomorrow and i think I'm overthinking nothing at this point because Understanding psychology and spiritual concept together has been choatic soooooo I'm very excited to listen to what you are gonna say You feel like a soul sister who always always has been here for me for as long as I can remember So ya I hope you are having a good day and thank you so much for everything 💖✨😊
Thank you for mentioning the manifesting part, I've been stressing about that. Because if you manifest what you are, you can never be sad, but in the long run if you bottle up your emotions, those will be built up inside you and I feel like that's one of the worst things to do if you want to be happy and feel free spiritually. I feel like you are one of the only ones who speak about spirituality, who doesn't push that toxic positivity to us and that's so awesome! Every time I question some belief (like mentioned before), we seem to agree. Your videos really make me feel better in every way, thank you!
i so appreciate the reality about true crime. i go through this same cycle where im a true crime fan once in a while but i can tell im in a more negative place when im heavy on the true crime
Oh I needed this today- I've also been watching way too much true crime and feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. My usual way of dealing with it is yoga and asking the universe for guidance but the universe is on holiday with a sign saying "dude you have no idea what you want cos you're so lost"
Wow I haven’t watched one of your videos in a while but I’m so glad I saved this for later ❤️ Definitely feeling overwhelmed/disconnected with life atm, especially feeling like a cog in the machine with work/life in general. Another thing I think may help me (and maybe others) is going out into nature. I know personally I spend way more time inside when Im feeling this type of way but digging my feet into some dirt always helps! Xx
You mentioned it's a privilege to feel secure but some people are very spiritual without security. I really think Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs would be close to what you were trying to convey. I didn't have all my needs met growing up so I'm going through a lot of what you talked about here. I get it.
Looking for good spirituality books if anyone cares to share what they enjoyed reading ☺️ I’m pretty open to reading and learning new things. Just want to see what’s out there to dive into 📚✨
And yeah… I have issues with avoidance by binging true crime content. Funny you hit that nail on the head with a hammer 🔨 thanks kaitlyn! So sorry if I spelled your name wrong!
I feel the same about true crime. I had a time where I binge watched Bailey sarians true crime videos for days and weeks and i started to realize how paranoid I got, so I had to stop for a while. Half a year later I'm back to it, but I watch or hear a true crime podcast once a week or so, that's more digestible for me. But I know what you mean, it draws me in so much, I don't like horror movies or anything violent and I don't like true crime videos on cannibalism😅 but murder misteries are so interesting, to find out what brings people to do that shit. That's what I love about it, understanding what drives people to do that.
firstly I want to say thank you for this video I really needed it. do you think a sudden disconnect could be karma for doing something wrong to someone. I don’t want to announce it online but idk I feel guilty and I’m thinking this is my karma for doing what I did..
Been feeling this way lately...... sooooo guys. Hear me out I'm not too crazy but what do u guys think. Me and my bf got into our new house. His mom has always caused drama. She constantly needs him blah blah blah. When we got the house she quit her job and now has nowhere to go. I told my bf months ago this would happen and I wanted his word that he wouldn't move her in. Months ago! I don't need the drama especially with our 10 month old. I told him it's over if he moves her in. Idk maybe I'm too harsh but.... the stories are unreal about her. What do u guys think???🤔forgot to mention she just got out of jail for assault. And now he's moved all of her stuff into our garage.
He needs to set boundaries with her. If he cant you are right to take issue. Id say lean into your gentle and vulnerable side speak to the protector in him voicing how your home is your sanctuary and how you feel nervous for your child and little family. Act as though hell do the right thing. Hopefully he steps up.
Only you know what it is like to be in your shoes. Throwing in the info about your bf's mother possibly being violent is a serious point to consider. Your bf clearly loves her and doesn't want his mother on the streets based on his actions you've shared. I hope it all works out for everyone involved. Sorry for not having a solution other than listen to your instincts and inner voice. Also try to keep open communication with your partner where he isn't feeling defensive. This will be difficult since the subject is his mother. If you can get him on board that you two are a team then he will hopefully want to do what is best for your new precious family. Your emotional well being matters. Providing a safe peaceful home for your child matters.
While I do appreciate your positive outlook and spiritual political correctness, I do feel like I wanna point out that relying solely on your own instincts about whats right for you has kept people stuck in cults way to many times. There's been so many "spiritual leaders" exposed recently, and yet their followers remain so deeply brainwashed that their inner compass is completely broken. Sadly, many of the people who experience the disconnect from spirituality, have a tendency to unknowingly step into the culty bubbles. With good intentions, of course.
This is a really important point, too many people are sucked into cults and extreme ideologies (kkk, qanon, etc) and this 'just trust your feelings' mindset isn't always healthy. Many people in the 'spiritual' community completely disregard science and truth to live in an alternate reality where they can bypass uncomfortable feelings by denying facts of life.
I went from being raised Christian, to being atheist, to dabbling in the manifestation/spirituality world, to realizing that there is also a lot of toxic stuff in the manifestation world (some of the same toxic/self-serving Christian beliefs under a different name, appropriating Native American and other cultures, as well as "female empowerment" that's actually the patriarchy in "bad bitch" clothes), to not feeling connected to anything all over again and like you said it feels isolating. I like how you described your spirit as just the energy within you, because I don't know that there is a outside higher power, but I do believe there is a version of a 'higher self' within us and that is there for me even when I don't have a community to lean on.
I'd been feeling adrift in my spirituality as well and only recently started feeling more grounded. It's taken over 10 years of self exploration to reach this point. Who you are and your understanding of yourself and the world around you is constantly evolving.
Your channel of “social media “ is Positive 🍀 and Peaceful 🧘♀️. I enjoy your content. I’ve limited many other social media channels but yours is therapeutic. Keep it coming 💜
Thank you so much for posting this. I’ve been so off that even listening to anything motivating or inspiring just pisses me off 😂 but this is exactly what I needed to hear, I’m feeling hopeful
Hey, Kalyn
I've followed your podcast for about 2 years now on different platforms and I never commented, but this talk inspired me to open up re: my feelings towards my own spiritual experience. Something that makes me feel spiritually disconnected is forcing myself and my body into places and shapes we don't belong. I treat myself, inside and out, like a puzzle piece that doesn't fit but I keep trying to jam into place - my expectations of myself and others' expectations of me. After 25 years of life, where I've been just forcing myself into a certain body shape, hating myself when I don't achieve it, trying to be #1 in my classes, living with energy vampires my entire life, over-scheduling myself, being everyone's "yes" woman, everyone's on-call therapist, inconsistent sleep cycles, social media overload, comparison, perfectionism, chaotic daily environment, not giving myself adequate time to heal from trauma and pain, society's pressures re: when women are supposed to be married, have kids, giving up their careers, etc etc.. I am so beyond burnt out. The past 6 months, every aspect of my life has been suffering bc of this. It's finally starting to take its toll, so the past few days I've been working on slowing down and doing an "energy audit" by cutting off as much of the dead, negative energy (like removing a plant's dead leaves so it can grow), and finding ways to deal with and cope with what I can't change right now - limiting how much of my energy those things and people are allowed to have. Learning to say "no" is a great life skill that I never mastered, so I'm finally working on it and practicing it daily. "No" doesn't always have to be negative. In fact, recently, "no" has been one of the most positive and freeing words I have ever used. I believe "no" is going to be the starting point to me getting back in touch with my spirituality and coming back to myself.
Thank you for this talk, Kalyn! And a belated congratulations on the baby, I think you would make an excellent mother! You look so pretty and glowy and ethereal! xx
man, Thank you so much for your content. I dont have many friends left...and have been cautiously single for almost 4 years, but I very much need a positive female voice so I can listen and not feel so isolated. Women really are so underrated in society, and that is so not right...I just wanted you to know, Miss Koze, that you make a difference in my world. I kinda suck really bad at messaging courtship, and that's my bad, but without these videos, I may not have been able to stay a positive person. I hope that helps you understand that you are making a difference, and from the bottom of my heart, I thank you for your efforts. I still get blown away while listening to how unbelievably wise you are...To my mental well being,, you are absolutely and astonishingly immaculate . Thank-you.😃
This video is so real and so helpful. I feel seen, heard, and understood.
Heart💞❤️⭐💫🌟✨
I needed to hear this right now. 🥺
Kalyn, I feel the same with true crime! I'm so relieved listening to you talking about that sort of stuff. Lots of love ❤️❤️
You are so inspirational 🙏🏻 i love you, your content is so peaceful and you are so beautiful💗 wish you all the best for your new family
Here's to the process of accepting that it's not just the inhale and the exhale of life that bring us meaning, the moment between, that pause before the exhale, do not conflate it's length of time to it's depth of significance💛 here's to the humble"in-between"💛
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My soul always finds your content at that the right time. Thank you for being you✨❤️
This video found me at the perfect time. Finally feeling so inspired. Thanks for the pep talk ❤️
Kalynnnnn
I wanted a pep talk
Istg😭🥺i have my therapy appointment tomorrow and i think I'm overthinking nothing at this point because
Understanding psychology and spiritual concept together has been choatic soooooo
I'm very excited to listen to what you are gonna say
You feel like a soul sister who always always has been here for me for as long as I can remember
So ya
I hope you are having a good day and thank you so much for everything 💖✨😊
Needed this! ☕️ 😘 🌻
Soul massage ✨☁️
Oh my goodness I'm feeling this way now and have been for a while and was wondering if it was a spiritual disconnect. Thank you 🙏🏻
Thank you for mentioning the manifesting part, I've been stressing about that. Because if you manifest what you are, you can never be sad, but in the long run if you bottle up your emotions, those will be built up inside you and I feel like that's one of the worst things to do if you want to be happy and feel free spiritually. I feel like you are one of the only ones who speak about spirituality, who doesn't push that toxic positivity to us and that's so awesome! Every time I question some belief (like mentioned before), we seem to agree. Your videos really make me feel better in every way, thank you!
i so appreciate the reality about true crime. i go through this same cycle where im a true crime fan once in a while but i can tell im in a more negative place when im heavy on the true crime
I love you 💖 seriously thank you 💞☺️
Thank youuuuu your vibe is so motherly and summery. I love it
Oh I needed this today- I've also been watching way too much true crime and feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. My usual way of dealing with it is yoga and asking the universe for guidance but the universe is on holiday with a sign saying "dude you have no idea what you want cos you're so lost"
Wow I haven’t watched one of your videos in a while but I’m so glad I saved this for later ❤️
Definitely feeling overwhelmed/disconnected with life atm, especially feeling like a cog in the machine with work/life in general. Another thing I think may help me (and maybe others) is going out into nature.
I know personally I spend way more time inside when Im feeling this type of way but digging my feet into some dirt always helps! Xx
need to hear this so much… thank you Friend
Peeeeerfect Topic - need this so bad rn! 💛💫
You mentioned it's a privilege to feel secure but some people are very spiritual without security. I really think Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs would be close to what you were trying to convey. I didn't have all my needs met growing up so I'm going through a lot of what you talked about here. I get it.
Kayln you are an angel 🥰
Thank You, I definitely needed to hear this
Wow.. really needed this today. Thank you for sharing your wisdom!!
omg, I so appreciate this pep talk very much ❤ Thank you 😊 🙏 ❤ 🙌 ☺ *big hugs*
How much i needed this right now is truly crazy
Ugh feel this so much right now
This was just what I needed
Love you.
I need to do things differently. I realized recently that "doing things better that I do poorly now" isn't a strategy.
Looking for good spirituality books if anyone cares to share what they enjoyed reading ☺️ I’m pretty open to reading and learning new things. Just want to see what’s out there to dive into 📚✨
Someone told me “tell God what you’re going to do, out loud, and He’ll laugh.” I think it means to pray silently?
And yeah… I have issues with avoidance by binging true crime content. Funny you hit that nail on the head with a hammer 🔨 thanks kaitlyn! So sorry if I spelled your name wrong!
I feel the same about true crime. I had a time where I binge watched Bailey sarians true crime videos for days and weeks and i started to realize how paranoid I got, so I had to stop for a while. Half a year later I'm back to it, but I watch or hear a true crime podcast once a week or so, that's more digestible for me. But I know what you mean, it draws me in so much, I don't like horror movies or anything violent and I don't like true crime videos on cannibalism😅 but murder misteries are so interesting, to find out what brings people to do that shit. That's what I love about it, understanding what drives people to do that.
firstly I want to say thank you for this video I really needed it.
do you think a sudden disconnect could be karma for doing something wrong to someone. I don’t want to announce it online but idk I feel guilty and I’m thinking this is my karma for doing what I did..
I feel like another cause could be moving environement. Moving from a house makes me feel like my routes are juste chopped off
I have no spirituality but I am looking. Stuck in a fear state. fear of life.
Been feeling this way lately...... sooooo guys. Hear me out I'm not too crazy but what do u guys think. Me and my bf got into our new house. His mom has always caused drama. She constantly needs him blah blah blah. When we got the house she quit her job and now has nowhere to go. I told my bf months ago this would happen and I wanted his word that he wouldn't move her in. Months ago! I don't need the drama especially with our 10 month old. I told him it's over if he moves her in. Idk maybe I'm too harsh but.... the stories are unreal about her. What do u guys think???🤔forgot to mention she just got out of jail for assault. And now he's moved all of her stuff into our garage.
He needs to set boundaries with her. If he cant you are right to take issue. Id say lean into your gentle and vulnerable side speak to the protector in him voicing how your home is your sanctuary and how you feel nervous for your child and little family. Act as though hell do the right thing. Hopefully he steps up.
Only you know what it is like to be in your shoes. Throwing in the info about your bf's mother possibly being violent is a serious point to consider. Your bf clearly loves her and doesn't want his mother on the streets based on his actions you've shared. I hope it all works out for everyone involved. Sorry for not having a solution other than listen to your instincts and inner voice. Also try to keep open communication with your partner where he isn't feeling defensive. This will be difficult since the subject is his mother. If you can get him on board that you two are a team then he will hopefully want to do what is best for your new precious family. Your emotional well being matters. Providing a safe peaceful home for your child matters.
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While I do appreciate your positive outlook and spiritual political correctness, I do feel like I wanna point out that relying solely on your own instincts about whats right for you has kept people stuck in cults way to many times. There's been so many "spiritual leaders" exposed recently, and yet their followers remain so deeply brainwashed that their inner compass is completely broken. Sadly, many of the people who experience the disconnect from spirituality, have a tendency to unknowingly step into the culty bubbles. With good intentions, of course.
Cults are so interesting. I could see myself falling for some.
This is a really important point, too many people are sucked into cults and extreme ideologies (kkk, qanon, etc) and this 'just trust your feelings' mindset isn't always healthy. Many people in the 'spiritual' community completely disregard science and truth to live in an alternate reality where they can bypass uncomfortable feelings by denying facts of life.