When Lili said that everything was a countdown I have never related to something more in my life. I constantly feel like I'm waiting for things to be over.
One of the many things I’ve taken away from this is, “Although this a very uncomfortable, painful feeling, it’s quite beautiful that I have the capacity to experience it” 💜
"My wish always has been I wanna be happy. My Intention is to find true happiness and peace with myself." I just watched the whole thing . This is so inspiring. 💓
This interview resonated with me…panic attacks are real. The dread is real. The magnitude to which you can feel anxiety is sickening. It’s hard work to push forward wiser
I've never related to somebody so much. Its kind of refreshing/warming to hear somebody has been through the same type of thing as you and that you're not alone
I must say....no matter how many of these podcasts I've watched, I am still amazed how Jay is able to connect, relate and make his guest feel so comfortable. So many layers to this man. Thanks for sharing.
I want her law to go into effect ASAP!!! I'm so tired of people (loved ones) telling me how I should feel, and that my feeling are not valid and I'm crazy for feeling the way I do..
Maybe we're all just called here to this planet to experience life and all these emotions, whether uncomfortable or exhilarating, with full and complete depth. That's what we are called here to do, Thank you Lili for helping realize that.
This young lady's contribution to humanity goes away beyond her role as an actress. Wise, empathetic,.kind and concerned about how we as women move through the world. Keep up the good work, Lili!
The fear of being bored is really something that feeds general anxiety. I m glad Lili talked about that as well, it makes me feel less isolated. It tends to create a huge internal fire where i am just left with strong anger and being unable to be understood or to let that go is pure angst as well. I am amazed about this girl, Lili is so sweet and strong at the same Time, very inspiring !
I just wanna hug her. This made me cry because I know exactly how it feels to have anxiety/panic attacks! Yes IT IS REAL! The physical symptoms are REAL and not "just in our heads" as some people would say. Lili is such an inspiration. Thank you for discussing this very important topic and helping those of us who suffers from anxiety and depression.
I feel this is one of the most wholesome and candid podcasts I have heard so far. I am a huge fan of Lili Reinhart as an actor but now even more so for the person she is. Both Lili and Jay are an inspiration to figure out yourself and to listen to yourself. Loved the talk!
Unbelievable, how much I could relate with this entire conversation. We all suffer the trauma done by others. However, we can only heal that trauma. Such conversations in a traumatizing world is profound and immensely helpful
Lily, I’ve never watched any of your work. Until I watched this episode I had no idea who you were. I have missed out. I love your energy, honesty and insightfulness. I too am on a healing journey. It’s Fucking wonderful. Thank you for allowing myself to nudge myself just a little closer to ultimate great fullness without judging myself!!!
This generation is definitely changing life. We are awakening to the truth/ collapsing wrong patterns, and future children will be able to know/learn what we did not know when we need it the most. I genuinely think that well-being has to be taught at school at a very young age. Who knows...
I feel like crying listening to her. I could relate so much to when you crave solitude and you're happy about it. It is something people around you does not understand. I'm loving her more than I love her character in Riverdale.
I literally share snippets of this with people when they are personally struggling because as a grown ass 47 yr old this has resonated and helped me put things in perspective and sets my inner voice or self talk straight 💜💜💜
Lili is such a beautiful woman inside & out, I love watching all these interviews seeing her talk about her own personal issues/ struggles like this before she was famous & after reaching success it’s very interesting not a lot of celebrities are so honest like this!
This human being, the guest, has a ancient soul, she has experienced something extraordinary in her past lives. If she reminds inquisitive she will bring new dimensions of divinity into this world. She got what it takes to make a difference in this world. From Danny, South Africa
I appreciate you a lot for talking about this in such great detail, Lili. I also begged my mom to be homeschooled at a young age, dealt with anxiety and situational panic attacks for most of my life. Now I'm in university & pursuing acting, and on the verge of quitting due to panic attacks but also very pressured to succeed. Thanks for opening up, it helps to know that we're not alone.
God, thank you for inviting Lili here. she doesn't have many interviews at all, and this long podcast is a real miracle. and we know so little about her life, what she was like, what's with her now, it's nice to learn something new I love her so much, and this podcast is all I need.
Love the openness & honesty of both !!!! Good or bad food is food never call it junk please !!!! 🙏 There are people in our world that have nothing to eat & would be grateful for any food whatsoever !!!!
The convo was hard so I found it relaxing watching her twirl her foot with her red shoes and calming also when talking about hard topics helps focus on something
Thank you Jay and Lili. I also have identified as a Christian my whole life, but started asking fundamental existential questions recently. From watching this, I realised I try to optimise my life both around the expectations I Think others have of me, but also my desire to maximise my short life. I realise that I’ve been trying to realise my full potential for the past few years (especially over the pandemic), but trying harder only led to more anxiety and frustration. I can Do those things and be better off financially or circumstantially - but it just doesn’t let me feel at ease. Then I took a week off - of no real plans, little to no execution of my regular duties to family, work or friends. Just did what I felt like. The one thing I truly enjoyed was Silence. Because it helped bring Clarity. I will seek that out more, and Be Silent. Thank you Both.
I can completely relate to what Lili Reinhart is saying here.... It is good to hear so I don't feel alone but I also feel compassion for her struggles .... She is someone people can look up to but what she needs to know is all she has to be is herself for people to do that... She has an incredible soul to go with all that struggle. Lili just be you it is beautiful and brilliant!!!
This episode fascinated me so much. The world is filled with opportunities for learning and practicing. My favorite thing about the episode was that you were comfortable discussing spirituality, wellness, and mental health, as well as your support for body positivity. Re-watching this episode will remind me that feeling a certain way is okay. Thanks for making our lives better by doing this. I am deeply grateful to you both.
lili is such a kind and bright soul. as someone who almost never relates to others stories, her way of being so transparent really hit me and made me feel so seen.
I am enjoying this conversation so much. Only now, in my 30s, am I just grasping that relationships end and that's okay. I used to hold on so tightly, considering it a failure if a relationship didn't work out. Now, I'm learning that people change, I change, and it's okay to let relationships fade. You know, I say that, but it still feels hard to accept. Also, I completely resonate with the Googling of how to handle situations and the articles saying things like "go on a hike." No!
I don’t regularly listen to podcasts. But when I remembered Lili was on Jay Shetty podcast, I knew I had to listen. I LOVE Lili so much and how she talks abt mental health and her character Betty. One of my many takeaways from this episode was to live with the feelings of sadness or grief in order to feel them and process, which I know will be hard Also. This makes me remember how much I loved the Look Both Ways movie. One of the best movies of 2022
This is hands down my favorite interview. Everything Lili said is how I feel and her thought process on being impatient, embracing all emotions good and bad, the anxiety that is triggered randomly. I never met someone I related more to.
Gosh, wow, Lili, you're wise beyond your years. I guess the most overwhelming take away for me was the breathtakingly beautiful way Lili describes choosing to live a full heartfelt life with all of the highlights and shadows, not downplaying the hard times but truly and humbly grateful to be able to experience it all and Jay pointing out so beautifully how these polar emotions inform the other which allows us to learn through the contrast. Thank you so very much.
I need that clip on repeat whilst I sleep, she is correct I hold everything in so much that I have no idea how to feel or express the full range of emotions. I had to turn this connection of when I was a child, What a beautiful episode.
This is beautiful! Lilli you have literally reached a level of family in our home through art and love this year that have saved my daughter in ways I don't know if I could ever repay you. Jay is always a North Star example to me. He is a still life painting that people can look at and create their masterpiece with words. He is a magic table of real still life! Love you both Eternally!
At first i was like oh let's just watch this for a while and later ended up watching the whole video. It's so relatable in everyone's lives. Thank you lili for sharing the insights!
Her shoes are so shiny and sparkly. I really like them. She is so strong and love how she open up. As I did used to think her life was perfect and nothing bad ever happend in her life. I sometimes forget that even now
it really stood out to me that Lili (like me) has social anxiety, yet didn't let that stand between her and her dream. that was so inspiring and it feels good knowing that the goal isn't to "get rid of it", but to learn ways to manage it so I can achieve my dreams. I also loved the bit about creating who I want to be and the part about not mulling over what choice is "the right one" to make... because in the words of Bob Marley "every little thing is gonna be alright"
“It’s my undying ambition and drive” Oh how relatable this is. Her energy is pure light thank you for sharing this gem of an interview 💎 I dream of being interviewed by Jay, I know that one day it will happen ♥️
I honestly cannot relate more to this podcast, I am going through the same thing right now, I am trying to be ok on my own, handle my feelings and not have to keep myself busy to be ok! This generally is nice to hear that there is someone else out there going through the same thing, because I feel I have been going mad, like I’m crazy for hating my job and the anxiety I get everyday
I love these. Can relate to them both personally and professionally ( as a mental health professional). Iv always said. You got to allow yourself to feel it to heal it. All these podcasts are so REAL, so insightful and impactful. Love the last segment of the final 5!I absolutely loved the last one today ... YOU CANNOT TELL ANOTHER HUMAN BEING WHAT THEY CAN OR CANNOT FEEL!
That opening line summed up my life too, I have spent so much of my life in fight or flight its been the default mode. I am a fan of Lilis and this was so important to hear. Jay this episode and the one with Kendal have been so on topic and incredibly well put together thank you.
I believe that there is a need for opposition in all things in order for us to truly experience joy. I struggle with feeling pain but it has taught me so much and made my life more rich.
I loved this podcast! I really enjoyed hearing about focusing on who I want to be, what are my values, changing old patterns instead of dwelling on who I am or trying to understand the past! Great interview!
Wow, this episode was incredibly relatable. So much of what Lili was saying was like whoa am I her, is she me? Lol. I really resonated with her. Definitely needed to hear this and go along on this journey with you both in this moment. I appreciate you both talking about these different subjects that aren’t necessarily always talked about in popular media. Covering these topics in a way that is accepting, understanding, and nonjudgmental is very refreshing. An for letting others know that there are other people out there like them, and that we truly are not alone in this world. Everyone feels things that you’ve felt at some point over the years. Which in turn creates this connection between all of us in a way. Take the time to feel your feelings. Comprehend why you’re feeling them. An have compassion for yourself during the process.
I can relate so much to her talking about anxiety and jobs...and the need to fix things immediately. Thank you so much for sharing! It really makes such a difference, knowing so many people feel the same and...IT IS OK!
I recently found this podcast and it is truly helping me so much ❤ I have just recently allowed myself to accept that I was sexually abused when I was child after pushing it away and burying it my whole life. I never understood why I hated school so much and this helped me realize that it was because I essentially felt unsafe. Just like Lilli I counted down every second I was there. And I never understood why I’ve always had anxiety and didn’t know how to explain that feeling. Thank you guys so much! I’m beginning my journey on healing myself and becoming the best version of myself. Thank you Jay ❤
1. Cry freely whenever needed 2. We can create our purpose of life, rather searching for it. 3. And last 30 sec one liners❤️ 4. Spirituality is like a School and we all are students, We can say we belong to the School but we must know we are not the School. 5. Do you want to go for a journey to experience all emotions? Ofcourse Yes.❤️ And than grateful for receiving all the emotions. Lots of Love From India Jay and Lili. I love you both of you. And I know you both love me back. Gratitude near both of you & team for the beautiful time you created for us. I am a teacher in an Engineering College and definitely going to pass this knowledge to my students ❤️❤️
I've never felt so indentify with someone as i do with lili she's such an inspiration for me i really understand her because i want become an actress one day and i know that's gonna be hard and even right now having 15 Years old i'm working for my future so hard that at some point it's frustrating and i love how she's so Open and honest with us, i truly admire her .
48:20-48:43 “Rather than who am I, (question) is who do I want to be? we’re trying to figure out who we are rather than create who we are we go into finding and seeking rather than creating and being and finding and seeking is the never ending journey. I’ve recently been experimenting a lot of sadness and hopelessness, being upset with myself and my experiences for the way I am, for the traumas I suffered and how they effect my life now. I cannot describe how much I needed to hear this. The whole converstation is beautiful but this part just went straight to my heart. Instead of being sad and looking for answers, I decided to create and be the person I truly want to be. It will be a journey but will keep these words close to my at all times ✨
This is beautiful, I am going through the exact same thing at the moment and trying to understand who I am and uncover my past traumas and this part stood out to me as well! Now I can change my direction and start deciding who I want to be instead of wondering who I am 🥲🤞🏼
Found this ep late, but it’s a very good one! Lili’s tone is refreshing, and both of their takes/looks are very insightful. I’m in my 20’s, and she hit it right on the nose! 🤧
I remember 2 years ago i was a student and I have this social anxiety or some kind, I couldn't go to school, I had this trauma that was so hurtful it triggered, amplified those pressure I already had on myself, or society put on me like what to wear, act, if I was try hard enough for the money my parents invested in my education, etc. I have this tendency to isolate myself bc that made me feel safer than to meet people, besides I think I needed sometimes to heal. I thought I need some mental help and quit school for a while. The country I live in, people don't know much about "mental health", and It also hard for me to open up about my problem. So i just isolated myself for a while and wasn't able to put on any more pressure. I had a big fight with my parents to get the allowance to quit school for a while, because they didn't believe there was something wrong with my mental health, they didn't even know mental health existed. I feel seen and heard when i see video like this, so i also share my story for anyone living in places where people don't know about mental health so you have to go on internet like me.. feel seen and heard. And I like sharing, so 💁♀️
This conversation means the world for me. Especially the part describing to leave your identity and find what you want to be and take that transaction for your new version
This is one of the best episodes so much awareness, Lili is so so kind and just listening to her experience is so comforting and helpful i’m sure it helped a lot out there including me thank you 💗
so so so relatable. esp about grieving people we lose, the loss of ppl who are still around. it is so DIFFICULT to grieve and release and accept and make space for new
Thank you for this beautiful content! Very relatable, I was googling “successful people with anxiety and depression” as a person with both it is wonderful to see an intelligent young woman making it happen and helping others along the way. 🙏
I’m not sure if she knew this but he spirit has always shined through , even in her work and other roles. I wasn’t surprised by the person we seen here today. She’s always felt like a friends that’s just far away. She’s a Virgo so I think I just relate to her so much and I see her behind me when I look in the mirror. Sending her the best of energies and support as she creates who she is and what she wants to do.
Did I ever need this today. It is comforting to know someone else has dealt with anxiety from a young age, while I don't wish it on anyone. I felt so alone in Jr high and High School with my experience with anxiety. Mental health was not talked about then and kids were so mean. I know exactly what she meant about counting down hours of the class, school day, etc. Listening to this interview over and over. 💗
I was soo excited to see Lili Reinhart on the podcast. I'm a big fan,hearing her story is soo inspiring. I'm the same age and can relate to soo much, it made me cry. It's soo refreshing to hear the authenticity, great conversation. Honestly my favourite guest you've had! This touched my soul... so thank you ⭐
When Lili said that everything was a countdown I have never related to something more in my life. I constantly feel like I'm waiting for things to be over.
What a muslim is doing here, you guys only believe in alaa and he does not believe in these things.
@@GAMINGBLAZE Im not a muslim...
@@AllieMusicOfficial I thought Ali is a muslim name.
@@GAMINGBLAZE Indian media ne literally kitne chutiyo ke dimaag ka bhang bhosda kar rakha hain, kaam ki chize dekh le beta tv pe ❤️❤️❤️
@@GAMINGBLAZE He is, or related to muslim religion
One of the many things I’ve taken away from this is, “Although this a very uncomfortable, painful feeling, it’s quite beautiful that I have the capacity to experience it” 💜
If you want you can rewind the video to get refreshed❤❤❤
Being vulnerable and showing your real emotions are valid. Incredible interview!
I’m telling you, everything you going through is preparing you for what you ask for.
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That's true
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Thank you✨❤️
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One of my biggest takeaways from this conversation is creating....creating who I want to be....creating new patterns..actively being who I want to be
"Telling someone not to cry is like tellimg someone not to laugh." We need to release our emotions. This is so powerful! Love this podcast!❤❤✨️
"My wish always has been I wanna be happy. My Intention is to find true happiness and peace with myself." I just watched the whole thing . This is so inspiring. 💓
wow! i always think the exact same way!! It feels amazing to see someone wishing the same too.
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This interview resonated with me…panic attacks are real. The dread is real. The magnitude to which you can feel anxiety is sickening. It’s hard work to push forward wiser
Are you ok
But what actually triggers Panic attack?
@@arvindgujjar5525 r#ew#
Nice comment
Jennifer so cute
I've never related to somebody so much. Its kind of refreshing/warming to hear somebody has been through the same type of thing as you and that you're not alone
I watch this anytime I’m feeling sad because this reminds me I’m going to be okay and it’s going to pass
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you shouldnt feel sad because Allah with us always
ikr so funny😂🤣these podcasts are
When she shared her wish is to be happy.. that resonated. You can tell she is such a kind and pure soul.
I must say....no matter how many of these podcasts I've watched, I am still amazed how Jay is able to connect, relate and make his guest feel so comfortable. So many layers to this man. Thanks for sharing.
I want her law to go into effect ASAP!!!
I'm so tired of people (loved ones) telling me how I should feel, and that my feeling are not valid and I'm crazy for feeling the way I do..
Maybe we're all just called here to this planet to experience life and all these emotions, whether uncomfortable or exhilarating, with full and complete depth. That's what we are called here to do, Thank you Lili for helping realize that.
This young lady's contribution to humanity goes away beyond her role as an actress. Wise, empathetic,.kind and concerned about how we as women move through the world. Keep up the good work, Lili!
The fear of being bored is really something that feeds general anxiety. I m glad Lili talked about that as well, it makes me feel less isolated. It tends to create a huge internal fire where i am just left with strong anger and being unable to be understood or to let that go is pure angst as well.
I am amazed about this girl, Lili is so sweet and strong at the same Time, very inspiring !
I just wanna hug her. This made me cry because I know exactly how it feels to have anxiety/panic attacks! Yes IT IS REAL! The physical symptoms are REAL and not "just in our heads" as some people would say. Lili is such an inspiration. Thank you for discussing this very important topic and helping those of us who suffers from anxiety and depression.
I feel this is one of the most wholesome and candid podcasts I have heard so far. I am a huge fan of Lili Reinhart as an actor but now even more so for the person she is. Both Lili and Jay are an inspiration to figure out yourself and to listen to yourself.
Loved the talk!
So good!
The way her whole presence is pure poetry. Lili is awakened ❤
@ 38:46 "How do I find serenity, acceptance and peace without running away from myself?" amazing. thank you lili
Unbelievable, how much I could relate with this entire conversation. We all suffer the trauma done by others. However, we can only heal that trauma. Such conversations in a traumatizing world is profound and immensely helpful
Lily, I’ve never watched any of your work. Until I watched this episode I had no idea who you were. I have missed out. I love your energy, honesty and insightfulness. I too am on a healing journey. It’s Fucking wonderful. Thank you for allowing myself to nudge myself just a little closer to ultimate great fullness without judging myself!!!
You are not living.. You are just surviving nothing more relatable than this
This generation is definitely changing life. We are awakening to the truth/ collapsing wrong patterns, and future children will be able to know/learn what we did not know when we need it the most. I genuinely think that well-being has to be taught at school at a very young age. Who knows...
Did anyone else find it calming watching Lili twirl and spin her foot around or is it just me who found it relaxing
Same … I’m a foot tapper with my energy so it was calming
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Shift your focus
I felt the same
At what time duration?
28:20 is may absolute favourite, I always think that every life we get to experience something different. Life is not just a thing that happens once.
I feel like crying listening to her. I could relate so much to when you crave solitude and you're happy about it. It is something people around you does not understand.
I'm loving her more than I love her character in Riverdale.
Love this! Thank you so much for sharing! :)
I literally share snippets of this with people when they are personally struggling because as a grown ass 47 yr old this has resonated and helped me put things in perspective and sets my inner voice or self talk straight 💜💜💜
When Lili and Jay said that both ways would have been okay. I don't have to keep thinking, ' what if I had done this' would life be any different.
I have never related to someone so much before, let alone a celebrity. I've always loved Lili, she's seems very honest and sincere
Please do more videos with her!!! This was the most beautiful and realistic, relatable thing I’ve watch in my life!
I so agree!
I cannot express how much I needed to hear this conversation. Thank you to the universe for sending it my way. 💕
I feel exactly the same.
Agree!! And it’s 8 months later
Don't thank "the universe". Thank the creators who posted the video to help people : )
Lili is such a beautiful woman inside & out, I love watching all these interviews seeing her talk about her own personal issues/ struggles like this before she was famous & after reaching success it’s very interesting not a lot of celebrities are so honest like this!
To be in a career, job that makes you happy. To feel everything, to be with urself. ❤️
I think she’s the most real / relatable “celebrity” of our time.
Her and Misha Collins. Both very refreshing. 🥰
This human being, the guest, has a ancient soul, she has experienced something extraordinary in her past lives. If she reminds inquisitive she will bring new dimensions of divinity into this world. She got what it takes to make a difference in this world. From Danny, South Africa
I appreciate you a lot for talking about this in such great detail, Lili. I also begged my mom to be homeschooled at a young age, dealt with anxiety and situational panic attacks for most of my life. Now I'm in university & pursuing acting, and on the verge of quitting due to panic attacks but also very pressured to succeed. Thanks for opening up, it helps to know that we're not alone.
Most genuine episode. A lot of the time while watching, guests say a whole lot of nothing. She was real
God, thank you for inviting Lili here.
she doesn't have many interviews at all, and this long podcast is a real miracle. and we know so little about her life, what she was like, what's with her now, it's nice to learn something new I love her so much, and this podcast is all I need.
Love the openness & honesty of both !!!! Good or bad food is food never call it junk please !!!! 🙏 There are people in our world that have nothing to eat & would be grateful for any food whatsoever !!!!
Facing a condition when you are silent but a thunderstorm running inside,is really so incredible to be describe 🔥 time is not going to be same always.
It’s so enlightening seeing lily express her mind. I deeply relate to almost everything she said, she’s so so beautiful inside and out
Jay Shetty's voice itself is healing 🙂
The convo was hard so I found it relaxing watching her twirl her foot with her red shoes and calming also when talking about hard topics helps focus on something
Thank you Jay and Lili. I also have identified as a Christian my whole life, but started asking fundamental existential questions recently. From watching this, I realised I try to optimise my life both around the expectations I Think others have of me, but also my desire to maximise my short life.
I realise that I’ve been trying to realise my full potential for the past few years (especially over the pandemic), but trying harder only led to more anxiety and frustration. I can Do those things and be better off financially or circumstantially - but it just doesn’t let me feel at ease.
Then I took a week off - of no real plans, little to no execution of my regular duties to family, work or friends. Just did what I felt like.
The one thing I truly enjoyed was Silence. Because it helped bring Clarity.
I will seek that out more, and Be Silent. Thank you Both.
I can completely relate to what Lili Reinhart is saying here.... It is good to hear so I don't feel alone but I also feel compassion for her struggles .... She is someone people can look up to but what she needs to know is all she has to be is herself for people to do that... She has an incredible soul to go with all that struggle. Lili just be you it is beautiful and brilliant!!!
Exactly the words I say to myself and childern it's okay to cry. Sit in your feelings let yourself express the needs for yourself.
This episode fascinated me so much. The world is filled with opportunities for learning and practicing. My favorite thing about the episode was that you were comfortable discussing spirituality, wellness, and mental health, as well as your support for body positivity. Re-watching this episode will remind me that feeling a certain way is okay. Thanks for making our lives better by doing this. I am deeply grateful to you both.
lili is such a kind and bright soul. as someone who almost never relates to others stories, her way of being so transparent really hit me and made me feel so seen.
I am enjoying this conversation so much. Only now, in my 30s, am I just grasping that relationships end and that's okay. I used to hold on so tightly, considering it a failure if a relationship didn't work out. Now, I'm learning that people change, I change, and it's okay to let relationships fade. You know, I say that, but it still feels hard to accept. Also, I completely resonate with the Googling of how to handle situations and the articles saying things like "go on a hike." No!
This is one of my favorite episodes, the flow and understanding of each other is so so smooth and well said 😭
I always feel a sense of calm when I see and hear Lili- I just feel connected to her. meeting Lili would mean the world to me; such a beautiful soul
I don’t regularly listen to podcasts. But when I remembered Lili was on Jay Shetty podcast, I knew I had to listen. I LOVE Lili so much and how she talks abt mental health and her character Betty.
One of my many takeaways from this episode was to live with the feelings of sadness or grief in order to feel them and process, which I know will be hard
Also. This makes me remember how much I loved the Look Both Ways movie. One of the best movies of 2022
This is hands down my favorite interview. Everything Lili said is how I feel and her thought process on being impatient, embracing all emotions good and bad, the anxiety that is triggered randomly. I never met someone I related more to.
Gosh, wow, Lili, you're wise beyond your years. I guess the most overwhelming take away for me was the breathtakingly beautiful way Lili describes choosing to live a full heartfelt life with all of the highlights and shadows, not downplaying the hard times but truly and humbly grateful to be able to experience it all and Jay pointing out so beautifully how these polar emotions inform the other which allows us to learn through the contrast. Thank you so very much.
U don't need to loose urself amidst all the things that may be happening to you. Thnx alot Jey and Lily.
A gift bag of an interview; lightbulbs, resonance, vulnerability, raw, real conversation. Soulfood♡Much appreciated and needed☆Thank you!
When Lili said “crying is ok” i immediately started crying omgg💘
I need that clip on repeat whilst I sleep, she is correct I hold everything in so much that I have no idea how to feel or express the full range of emotions. I had to turn this connection of when I was a child, What a beautiful episode.
@@DazUncharted I have that clip cut
This is beautiful! Lilli you have literally reached a level of family in our home through art and love this year that have saved my daughter in ways I don't know if I could ever repay you. Jay is always a North Star example to me. He is a still life painting that people can look at and create their masterpiece with words. He is a magic table of real still life! Love you both Eternally!
The part that resonated with me on the deepest level was when Lili revealed how her every wish was to feel happy and to be at peace with herself ✨❤
At first i was like oh let's just watch this for a while and later ended up watching the whole video. It's so relatable in everyone's lives. Thank you lili for sharing the insights!
Her shoes are so shiny and sparkly. I really like them. She is so strong and love how she open up. As I did used to think her life was perfect and nothing bad ever happend in her life. I sometimes forget that even now
it really stood out to me that Lili (like me) has social anxiety, yet didn't let that stand between her and her dream. that was so inspiring and it feels good knowing that the goal isn't to "get rid of it", but to learn ways to manage it so I can achieve my dreams.
I also loved the bit about creating who I want to be and the part about not mulling over what choice is "the right one" to make... because in the words of Bob Marley "every little thing is gonna be alright"
I can definitely relate to this! My anxiety got really bad at 11 as well, but it stemmed from the death of my dad. Love her!!!!
“It’s my undying ambition and drive” Oh how relatable this is. Her energy is pure light thank you for sharing this gem of an interview 💎 I dream of being interviewed by Jay, I know that one day it will happen ♥️
It’s on my long term goals to be interviewed by Jay Shetty too! I can’t wait to hear your story on this podcast ❤
YES! One of my dreams also. ✨️ manifesting it for all of us
@@viancazavala4560 she is dilusional just like rest in the comment section
Indeed, I felt her. She's one of the people who suffered a lot in her life.
I honestly cannot relate more to this podcast, I am going through the same thing right now, I am trying to be ok on my own, handle my feelings and not have to keep myself busy to be ok! This generally is nice to hear that there is someone else out there going through the same thing, because I feel I have been going mad, like I’m crazy for hating my job and the anxiety I get everyday
I love these. Can relate to them both personally and professionally ( as a mental health professional). Iv always said. You got to allow yourself to feel it to heal it. All these podcasts are so REAL, so insightful and impactful. Love the last segment of the final 5!I absolutely loved the last one today ...
YOU CANNOT TELL ANOTHER HUMAN BEING WHAT THEY CAN OR CANNOT FEEL!
That opening line summed up my life too, I have spent so much of my life in fight or flight its been the default mode. I am a fan of Lilis and this was so important to hear.
Jay this episode and the one with Kendal have been so on topic and incredibly well put together thank you.
I believe that there is a need for opposition in all things in order for us to truly experience joy. I struggle with feeling pain but it has taught me so much and made my life more rich.
She's so real for this and I love her honesty and introspection and vulnerability as a human being.
I loved this podcast! I really enjoyed hearing about focusing on who I want to be, what are my values, changing old patterns instead of dwelling on who I am or trying to understand the past! Great interview!
Wow, this episode was incredibly relatable. So much of what Lili was saying was like whoa am I her, is she me? Lol. I really resonated with her. Definitely needed to hear this and go along on this journey with you both in this moment. I appreciate you both talking about these different subjects that aren’t necessarily always talked about in popular media. Covering these topics in a way that is accepting, understanding, and nonjudgmental is very refreshing. An for letting others know that there are other people out there like them, and that we truly are not alone in this world. Everyone feels things that you’ve felt at some point over the years. Which in turn creates this connection between all of us in a way. Take the time to feel your feelings. Comprehend why you’re feeling them. An have compassion for yourself during the process.
I can relate so much to her talking about anxiety and jobs...and the need to fix things immediately. Thank you so much for sharing! It really makes such a difference, knowing so many people feel the same and...IT IS OK!
IT IS OKAY! We’re all human :) Happy this resonated with you! Thank you for sharing!
just 30 min in, and I have been deeply touched by lili´s story and being so vulnerable. Beautiful interview
Today I called in sick at work , it resonated my current emotions , a newly grad so lost and trying to find myself again .
she is such a truthful person, no shame in being herself.
Thanks!
I recently found this podcast and it is truly helping me so much ❤ I have just recently allowed myself to accept that I was sexually abused when I was child after pushing it away and burying it my whole life. I never understood why I hated school so much and this helped me realize that it was because I essentially felt unsafe. Just like Lilli I counted down every second I was there. And I never understood why I’ve always had anxiety and didn’t know how to explain that feeling. Thank you guys so much! I’m beginning my journey on healing myself and becoming the best version of myself. Thank you Jay ❤
I hope you are doing good, you are so brave ❤
1. Cry freely whenever needed
2. We can create our purpose of life, rather searching for it.
3. And last 30 sec one liners❤️
4. Spirituality is like a School and we all are students, We can say we belong to the School but we must know we are not the School.
5. Do you want to go for a journey to experience all emotions? Ofcourse Yes.❤️ And than grateful for receiving all the emotions.
Lots of Love From India
Jay and Lili. I love you both of you.
And I know you both love me back.
Gratitude near both of you & team for the beautiful time you created for us.
I am a teacher in an Engineering College and definitely going to pass this knowledge to my students ❤️❤️
Such a deep, meaningful conversation.I loved every minute of it. There's so much to takeaway from this. Just watching this once isn't enough 😭😭😭😍😍😍
Her whole story seems like my own story! Not a single thing is different amazed and motivated ✨
So so so well spoken, you can tell she did a lot of work on herself.
I've never felt so indentify with someone as i do with lili she's such an inspiration for me i really understand her because i want become an actress one day and i know that's gonna be hard and even right now having 15 Years old i'm working for my future so hard that at some point it's frustrating and i love how she's so Open and honest with us, i truly admire her .
Create yourself instead of finding yourself. Just wow 🤩 thank you!
48:20-48:43 “Rather than who am I, (question) is who do I want to be?
we’re trying to figure out who we are rather than create who we are
we go into finding and seeking
rather than creating and being
and finding and seeking is the never ending journey.
I’ve recently been experimenting a lot of sadness and hopelessness, being upset with myself and my experiences for the way I am, for the traumas I suffered and how they effect my life now.
I cannot describe how much I needed to hear this. The whole converstation is beautiful but this part just went straight to my heart.
Instead of being sad and looking for answers, I decided to create and be the person I truly want to be. It will be a journey but will keep these words close to my at all times ✨
This is beautiful, I am going through the exact same thing at the moment and trying to understand who I am and uncover my past traumas and this part stood out to me as well! Now I can change my direction and start deciding who I want to be instead of wondering who I am 🥲🤞🏼
Found this ep late, but it’s a very good one! Lili’s tone is refreshing, and both of their takes/looks are very insightful. I’m in my 20’s, and she hit it right on the nose! 🤧
i love the response during the section: Letting go of something you’ve always identified with for so long
I remember 2 years ago i was a student and I have this social anxiety or some kind, I couldn't go to school, I had this trauma that was so hurtful it triggered, amplified those pressure I already had on myself, or society put on me like what to wear, act, if I was try hard enough for the money my parents invested in my education, etc. I have this tendency to isolate myself bc that made me feel safer than to meet people, besides I think I needed sometimes to heal. I thought I need some mental help and quit school for a while. The country I live in, people don't know much about "mental health", and It also hard for me to open up about my problem. So i just isolated myself for a while and wasn't able to put on any more pressure. I had a big fight with my parents to get the allowance to quit school for a while, because they didn't believe there was something wrong with my mental health, they didn't even know mental health existed. I feel seen and heard when i see video like this, so i also share my story for anyone living in places where people don't know about mental health so you have to go on internet like me.. feel seen and heard. And I like sharing, so 💁♀️
This conversation means the world for me. Especially the part describing to leave your identity and find what you want to be and take that transaction for your new version
really good, very well spoken and relatable for all of us who may have anxiety, social anxiety or other issues.
This is the most relatable.podcast I have ever listened to
SHE IS AN ANGELLLLL!!! I LOVE HER!
This is one of the best episodes so much awareness, Lili is so so kind and just listening to her experience is so comforting and helpful i’m sure it helped a lot out there including me thank you 💗
I am loosing myself, feel like I am falling slowly slowly feeling tired hopeless and watching this video
so so so relatable. esp about grieving people we lose, the loss of ppl who are still around. it is so DIFFICULT to grieve and release and accept and make space for new
definitely harder when you recognize the need for community but don’t have it
Thank you for this beautiful content! Very relatable, I was googling “successful people with anxiety and depression” as a person with both it is wonderful to see an intelligent young woman making it happen and helping others along the way. 🙏
I’m not sure if she knew this but he spirit has always shined through , even in her work and other roles. I wasn’t surprised by the person we seen here today. She’s always felt like a friends that’s just far away. She’s a Virgo so I think I just relate to her so much and I see her behind me when I look in the mirror. Sending her the best of energies and support as she creates who she is and what she wants to do.
Did I ever need this today. It is comforting to know someone else has dealt with anxiety from a young age, while I don't wish it on anyone. I felt so alone in Jr high and High School with my experience with anxiety. Mental health was not talked about then and kids were so mean. I know exactly what she meant about counting down hours of the class, school day, etc. Listening to this interview over and over. 💗
I was soo excited to see Lili Reinhart on the podcast. I'm a big fan,hearing her story is soo inspiring. I'm the same age and can relate to soo much, it made me cry. It's soo refreshing to hear the authenticity, great conversation. Honestly my favourite guest you've had! This touched my soul... so thank you ⭐
I loved this interview so much. Wishing you all so many blessings and love! 🙏🤍✨