What You Can Control vs. What You Can't

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  • Опубликовано: 27 дек 2024

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  • @erinc8795
    @erinc8795 2 года назад +56

    Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference 🙏❤

  • @the.kate.outdoors
    @the.kate.outdoors 2 года назад +17

    Just found out who this conflict is with. Ugh my heart is honestly enraged for you. You have changed my life for the better over the years and the KOZE Community has given me soooo much joy. I don't know how, but I truly trust the universe has some plan to have this work out in your favor. Without putting her down I will end with this. Your character is UNMATCHABLE and that shines through. So much love sis.

  • @corrineweiss7811
    @corrineweiss7811 2 года назад +23

    Ive followed you for 6-7 years now Kalyn and I seriously don’t know where I’d be without your words and your brand. Thank you so much for Koze and I’m so sorry for the things surrounding koze that are out of your control. It’s so inspiring to see how you are handling it ❤️

  • @Sarah-gi3ct
    @Sarah-gi3ct 2 года назад +6

    Fully support you girl! I’ve been a subscriber of yours and Koze for years. Years. Good will prevail. I will no longer support JH.

  • @tarahofarrell
    @tarahofarrell 2 года назад +20

    I have followed both you and the other creator involved for years. The moment I saw the brand name I was shocked and annoyed that it was happening because it shouldn’t have happened. However, as always, you handle things beautifully. Keep doing what you’re doing Kalyn, you have my full support 💕

    • @striketochill
      @striketochill 2 года назад +2

      I hope you no longer support the other creator too.

  • @meera99999
    @meera99999 2 года назад +25

    Loved this Coffee Talk!! So sorry for everything going on with your business :( I will forever support All Things Koze 💛

  • @sarahhouseman13
    @sarahhouseman13 2 года назад +11

    you make me a better person, luv u ❤

  • @kristinalockwood4970
    @kristinalockwood4970 2 года назад +7

    I love the world you’ve built around koze, I always leave your content feeling inspired by your grace and intention.

  • @gabriellelevesque3187
    @gabriellelevesque3187 2 года назад +20

    This video came at the right time for me. Just got in a huge argument with my mom concerning her drinking problem that she doesn't seem to even notice. Huge rage comes into me every time the subject comes up because I can't deal with anymore. I seriously need to just let go of what I can't control.

    • @liasawa1532
      @liasawa1532 2 года назад +6

      I hope it's okay for me to reply to this. Just wanted to say I'm sorry for what you're going through, since I have had two people I loved very much end up as alcoholics. I couldn't stop either one of them, and finally had to let go and take care of myself so that what they were doing would not destroy me. I wish you the best and hope you are able to focus on giving yourself the life you deserve.

    • @Kaymitlit
      @Kaymitlit 2 года назад +2

      So sorry to hear that please take care of yourself as much as you can 💖

  • @cesskin7979
    @cesskin7979 2 года назад +1

    I love the way you think and articulate your findings - thank you for this reminder! Listening to you feels like a good deep talk with a friend 🤗

  • @teresaperez1657
    @teresaperez1657 2 года назад +3

    I admire how you handle life with such grace. You inspire me to work on becoming a better version of myself and change my perspective on the things I can and can’t control.

  • @monica_.
    @monica_. 2 года назад +4

    This is a lesson in grace. It's so inspiring to witness how mindfully you've been handling this execrable situation. Your integrity is what matters the most but I also wish for this to be fully resolved in your favor 💕✨

  • @littlemaniacinmyhead
    @littlemaniacinmyhead 2 года назад +2

    This video was so perfect in time for me. I was sitting there getting upset about things I can not control and the way I felt about myself. Your words grounded me again and I shifted my focus on to the things in my life that I can control. I struggle with Anxiety and the fear of loosing everything I love and sometimes my head goes nuts without me realsing until its too late and I am upset about the whole world. Your voice always brings me down. Thank you so much for being the lovely human being you are. I am only 23 y/o but I have been watching you videos sice what feels like a lifetime (Found your channel when I was 15) ❤❤️❤️

  • @autumnboekeloo
    @autumnboekeloo 2 года назад +5

    thank you for talking about this ❤️ i’m really struggling to be happy in this transition period from college to the real world. it’s hard having a full time job. it’s hard being alone so much. i’ve been so in my thoughts lately so it’s a great reminder to let go of what i can’t control ❤️

  • @sarahcolegrove2326
    @sarahcolegrove2326 2 года назад +4

    I have been following your channels for years & love your content..wanted to show some extra support for you & your brand right now 💛

  • @gracevwagner
    @gracevwagner 2 года назад +12

    Your coffee talks always seem to come at the perfect time 💜

  • @ChillMexicanSoul
    @ChillMexicanSoul 2 года назад +8

    This is one of my favorite coffee talks of yours. I felt that I really needed this reminder. Thank you Kayln 🥰

  • @vernatudela2131
    @vernatudela2131 2 года назад +2

    Wow! Just recently I had to stop myself from being upset and overwhelmed to realize that I could only control me and my reaction to the situation and the obstacles thrown at me that day. My son was in the car and I didn't want him to feel the same way, so I took a breath, slowed my driving , and told him that no matter what's going on and the end of the day we will get there and that it was better late then never. Thank you for the reminder thos morning. 🙂

  • @MariJadeWrites
    @MariJadeWrites 2 года назад +3

    I needed this today, feeling overwhelmed and discouraged.

  • @marthelea
    @marthelea 2 года назад +5

    I had to listen to this twice because the message was so strong and this is something I am personally working on all the time. So this talk will probably be a go-to for me in the future, kinda like a pep talk whenever I need it.
    Thank you for this you wise woman on the internet

  • @mykaliii
    @mykaliii 2 года назад +1

    100% stand with you on all this!!!

  • @linikedemarco
    @linikedemarco 2 года назад

    I’m kind of disappointed in myself for not knowing about you or your brand before the situation with what’s-her-face, but I’m so glad I eventually did. You are such a beautiful soul, Kaelyn.

  • @emilywilson9186
    @emilywilson9186 2 года назад

    This video just changed my life in this moment. Thank you.

    • @emilywilson9186
      @emilywilson9186 2 года назад

      Specifically 10:00 to 11:00. Like. You don't understand what your words just did for me.

  • @Dirtanddiamonds1
    @Dirtanddiamonds1 2 года назад

    Wow I’m completely in awe of your spirit and attitude! Wishing you much success in everything you’re pursuing, I know in the end, everything will work out for your good💗

  • @tayhoops
    @tayhoops 2 года назад +1

    freaking love your talks and anything you share with us. Thank you! 🧡 you have a beautiful glow to you these days and I’m just happy to listen/watch whatever you’re choosing to share with us!

  • @mariamorenavicente
    @mariamorenavicente Год назад

    Thank you for this conversation! By the way, I really love your hair!

  • @liasawa1532
    @liasawa1532 2 года назад +1

    Perfect timing...have been struggling with this and appreciate your wisdom. Thank you :)

  • @marinatoadiewimmer
    @marinatoadiewimmer 2 года назад +1

    Listening to this, while falling asleep, to not feel alone. :) Thank you big sister. Greetings from Germany

  • @laurenambrose4012
    @laurenambrose4012 2 года назад +1

    You have so much wisdom. I wish you the best. 🙏🏻💖✨

  • @vvmarie9922
    @vvmarie9922 2 года назад +1

    You helped me so much today you uplifted me I have anxiety and it's been pretty bad lately I want to start getting more motivated and more productive

  • @ThatGirlShelbyy
    @ThatGirlShelbyy 2 года назад +16

    Sending all my love and support over the J/H thing **eyeroll** , and I won’t be supporting her again, since she once again pulled some BS with her launch.
    It’s just so unfair that one person can spend so much time and energy to establish a brand, just for someone else to try and claim is as an “original” brand that’s honestly way overpriced and just another cash grab.
    My heart dropped into my gut when I saw her brands name, and sure enough, MOST of the comments on the video were supporting YOU and AllThingsKoze ❤

    • @eneri_444
      @eneri_444 2 года назад

      shut up lmao i’ve never even heard of this kalyn girl and her brand. jaclyn doesn’t even sell the same things.

    • @shanaesmith112
      @shanaesmith112 2 года назад +9

      @@eneri_444 This Kalyn Nicholson girl has over a million subscribers on youtube. She is not a no one.

    • @eneri_444
      @eneri_444 2 года назад

      @@shanaesmith112 never said she was a no one. just said i’ve never heard of her.

    • @mjl3753
      @mjl3753 2 года назад +6

      @@eneri_444 if you came here to troll you're very welcome to leave.

    • @eneri_444
      @eneri_444 2 года назад

      @@mjl3753 i’m not trolling 😂 just giving my opinion like everyone else.

  • @goldenforhours
    @goldenforhours 2 года назад

    So relatable especially with the overwhelm/ overstimulation of life sometimes these days. This is why I love yoga and things that bring me into the “now” and what really matters. Thank you 💕 you are such a role model and example of how to move gracefully through hard things

  • @PaolaCLife
    @PaolaCLife 2 года назад

    I wish we lived near each other. I feel like we would be best friends! Thank you for being such a beautiful soul!

  • @44cosmogurl
    @44cosmogurl 2 года назад +1

    Amazing job staying so poised and positive through it all ❤

  • @Liz-bt2sk
    @Liz-bt2sk 2 года назад +2

    Wow. This video is mental health gold for me right now🍯🧠 lol. I have so many takeaways from this video that I know are going to help me. Thank you for putting so much time and consideration into what you put out in the world.
    PS - the description ❤️ I’m rooting for you Kalyn

  • @tiffanyschuna3484
    @tiffanyschuna3484 2 года назад +1

    Guuuurl I am so proud of you! It has been a beautiful thing watching you grow darling ❤

  • @dominiquejasperse4841
    @dominiquejasperse4841 2 года назад

    Needed this reminder before I start my day, was feeling overwhelmed but your videos always help me take a step back ❤

  • @TrueChristina
    @TrueChristina 2 года назад +1

    Thank you, I needed this this week!

  • @maggieruth
    @maggieruth 2 года назад +2

    I appreciate you. Proud of your calm resilience. Way to go Goddess ✨🫶🏼🌙

  • @juliomatos122
    @juliomatos122 Год назад

    Excellent video nice work , thank You !

  • @bridget349
    @bridget349 2 года назад +1

    thank you for this, i really neededit 💞 your coffee talks have helped me so much over the last year! also you are glowing girl!! any advice on feeling lost in a job? that you dread and know you don’t want to continue but also need the income to survive? any help anyone?❤

  • @meep3832
    @meep3832 2 года назад

    lovin the divine timing along w many in comments

  • @chrisoulalakkas7935
    @chrisoulalakkas7935 2 года назад

    People change, feelings fade, things go wrong, memories remain but life goes on.

  • @aprilbrooks
    @aprilbrooks 2 года назад

    These videos give me so much nostalgia ✨🥰

  • @alissamicheleanderson
    @alissamicheleanderson 2 года назад

    Here from the “Jaclyn” brand - KOZE Collection

  • @jsmith8904
    @jsmith8904 2 года назад

    Thanks for the reminder

  • @martialag
    @martialag 2 года назад

    Good morning! Peace and blessings!

  • @traceypeacock8018
    @traceypeacock8018 2 года назад +6

    You are dealing with everything so well and have faith that people see the bigger picture and can see you are a genuine, honest person that has good morals 😊 carry on being the bigger person in those difficult situations so proud of you for dealing with this anxiety in a positive way, you have so many good things in your life that are so much more important right now and you are so right in focusing on those ❤ sending you good vibes 🫶🏼 keep doing you 😉

  • @TCCDIGITALSTICKERS
    @TCCDIGITALSTICKERS 2 года назад

    Great talk. Loved it ❤

  • @HeyyJillian
    @HeyyJillian 2 года назад

    I Release Control by Alexa Sunshine Rose 🌹 is my one of my favorite songs to meditate to 😊

  • @yasminvilla7002
    @yasminvilla7002 2 года назад

    You’re amazing 💕

  • @evelyne.u
    @evelyne.u 2 года назад

    This reminds me of Stephen Covey’s circle of influence and circle of concern :)

  • @veronika__asmr_
    @veronika__asmr_ 2 года назад +1

    You are such a class act! 💋💋💋( I love the vampire picture) ☝️you have such a beautiful soul! Thank you for this video!

  • @MOMO-YYDS
    @MOMO-YYDS Год назад

    ❤😊

  • @Angelasalchemy
    @Angelasalchemy 2 года назад

    Love you!!!

  • @mjl3753
    @mjl3753 2 года назад

    🤗❤️🙏

  • @RigobertBidoung
    @RigobertBidoung 10 месяцев назад

    🎉 bonjour Madame chef bidoung onana rigobert koundessong merci

  • @joanacgarcez
    @joanacgarcez 2 года назад +1

    I needed the reminder so much right now - just turned 25 and the future seems so scary to me sometimes it gets overwhelmed because I feel I'm not doing enough and I'm running out of time. This really helped me put things into perspective, you really are the big sister I never had