Fr, even if OP wasn't with her, pretty sure she wouldn't go running up to her deadbeat ex who abandoned her...Breaking up with her isn't gonna makeup or fix the abandonment, that's just gonna make things worse.
You know what. God fucking bless the sons from story 2. Can you imagine that, your dad coming out (no shame, queer too, and my first relationship out of hs was with a 40+ year old, so hitting close to home) then dating a fucking 18 year old when you are a literal decade older then the new partner. Like they did everything so right this story warmed my heart. I know alot of people say these things are fake and whatever. But honestly I hope this one is real and those beautiful people are out there sharing the love. I know I'm gonna come back to story two when I'm feeling down one day. It's a good story.
Story 1: Weird dynamic by OP, he can't be so blindsided by the opinions of others, right? I mean, he's sleeping with his brothers ex? That alone would raise eyebrows, add the fact that now OP is trying to be dad to his nephew. Not siding with the brother, but out of 7 billion people, you choose your brothers ex-wife and crazy dynamic. The fact that they were/are best friends are irrelevant once they slept together. To say that, then ending up together sounds opportunistic.
OP was her friend too. Been through thick and thin with her. The brother lost out when he left and abandoned them. There was a similar story of a cheating wife and husband had a fling with the sister. Let her stay in the kids life. Happens more often then you think especially if a spouse dies.
@questions3983 A death in the family is a very different situation, at least to me. Here, everyone is still around, poor choices aside. And the brother willingly pursued his brothers ex. Friendships are great, but that doesn't mean that being her second choice out of two means he's special. He could have looked elsewhere (outside the family even) but didn't. Seems like a weird dynamic to choose.
The brother sucks for coming back but If he didn't want kids and she insisted on it I don't think he's a monster for divorcing her (as long as he paid his proper support). The Op was clearly waiting in the wings so everybody in this story sucks imo.
Why is it so common on Reddit to date siblings current/former partners like op can try to paint the brother as the bad guy all he wants but op is disgusting
I wouldn’t say dating your siblings former ex as disgusting and I only say this as it’s only disgusting if they cheated if they dated after the divorce and the break up, it’s a sin but putting this into the same level of a guy who tries to and force a woman to do abortions in mind you I’m not pro life. I am pro-choice and when you’re pro-choice, you have the right to choose what you want to do with the baby it’s between the woman and the doctor for a reason people
Wrong. OP helped a friend and her child who was abandoned by his brother. Said friend was divorced. His brother gave up any and all claim to any role in her life when he tried to skirt child support and alimony by surrendering his parental rights. And let's not forget that she's her own person as well, not a pair of tits with legs, people. She chose this just as much as he did, and they did so after the POS had already severed all ties. He had his chance, and blew it, he made himself effectively nobody where her life is concerned, and he has no right to be upset that she found someone better, even if he's related to that someone. Despite that, he assaulted his brother, flung insults at the both of them, and proceeded to badmouth them both to their family, and it wouldn't surprise me if that kind of behavior wasn't an isolated incident, hence why she's not with the fucker anymore. He is, in fact, the bad guy here.
Seriously? The brother wanted to force his wife to have an abortion... when she didn't, he abandoned his wife AND CHILD... divorced her... never met the kid for YEARS... he even signed over rights to his child. Then thought... "oh... I'm sure she'd have taken me back if it weren't for OP getting into a relationship with her." But you think OP is disgusting 😂 lol okay
1st OP thinks he's the main character who finally got the girl but it's gross to date your sibling's ex imo. Support, yes, and befriend, also yes. Date is gross though, even if he is the golden child and you have a stick up your ass about him.
I think dating your siblings ex is a sin but this does not screams. This is worse than what the brother did while OP did was bad on my book. What the brother did was extremely worse and a whole new level one thing how dare you try force a woman to do abortions without letting her have the choice.
Story 1. OP, his brother, and his wife are all assholes. Bro, you all grew up together, so she knew you before she even sterted dating your brother. She picked him, not you, and now that she a single mom she has picked you. This isnt like you didnt know she was your sister in law, and just started dating at random, you were there for everything. Nothing you have done is remotely fine.
Story 1- Really? The OP and the ex wife are in the wrong? When it's clealry the family and the deadbeat dad's fault. You have no say in their lives or relationships
@@Tuturial464 They are all in the wrong; besides the child of course. And the brother is more in the wrong than everyone else. And we all have the right to pass judgment on anything and everything.
She wasn't his sister-in-law. She divorced the deadbeat and got someone better. It just so happened that she'd already known someone better and hadn't seen it at the time.
@@weirdferretthing the fact that she was once an in-law automatically make it morally unjust, at least within familiar structure. Also the "didn't see it at the time" isn't much of an argument. She made a decision, it was her right, it is also her right to date whoever she wants to, but to not expect the judgement from her community is just asinine. No matter how you see it, it is wrong to get with an ex of a family member, that's a big no-no. The brother being a jerk and asshole doesn't make it any less wrong.
@ARcinder what family? If a family treats you toxic, is it a family? Besides you can't seem to see who are in the wrong. So what if little brother loves the girl. They seem perfect and supportive.
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I really like how the brother and family think that OP is the only reason that stops the ex-wife get back with the brother... Is she a brainless doll?
Fr, even if OP wasn't with her, pretty sure she wouldn't go running up to her deadbeat ex who abandoned her...Breaking up with her isn't gonna makeup or fix the abandonment, that's just gonna make things worse.
Your brother wasn't there to get back with his ex. He's just using that as an excuse to get everyone on his side.
Seriously! Everyone is ganging up on OP for that.
Story 1: "Give the brother a chance to be a husband and father!"
Uhhhh, she already did and he failed ducking spectacularly 😂😂😂
Okay. I think I needed a trigger warning for the 2nd story age differences. OP is 10 years younger than his sugar daddy son😮
You know what. God fucking bless the sons from story 2. Can you imagine that, your dad coming out (no shame, queer too, and my first relationship out of hs was with a 40+ year old, so hitting close to home) then dating a fucking 18 year old when you are a literal decade older then the new partner.
Like they did everything so right this story warmed my heart. I know alot of people say these things are fake and whatever. But honestly I hope this one is real and those beautiful people are out there sharing the love.
I know I'm gonna come back to story two when I'm feeling down one day. It's a good story.
really relieved the sons rescued that 19 year old. Poor kid. There is so much ick going on there. "let" him go to school.
A channel called Revenge Returns is stealing your content and even using your thumbnails with your channel name in it.
I asked him to stop and he did listen, so yeah I reported him let's see what happens
Thanks!
1st: He left. That's where it ended for him.
wanted sugar daddy dude still wrong
Story 1: Sooo, the wife gets no say???
Story 1: while what OP did kind of breaks the code, his brother made his choice. His ex made hers too.
The code is made up bullshit not worth wiping your ass with.
He's no brother that's for sure
So he didn’t break that code
@@Tuturial464 Technically he did. But given the circumstances, OP did no wrong.
He didn’t break the bro code, bro ran off, abandoned them, the bro code stopped existing when bro became a dead beat.
Story 1: Weird dynamic by OP, he can't be so blindsided by the opinions of others, right? I mean, he's sleeping with his brothers ex? That alone would raise eyebrows, add the fact that now OP is trying to be dad to his nephew. Not siding with the brother, but out of 7 billion people, you choose your brothers ex-wife and crazy dynamic. The fact that they were/are best friends are irrelevant once they slept together. To say that, then ending up together sounds opportunistic.
OP was her friend too. Been through thick and thin with her. The brother lost out when he left and abandoned them. There was a similar story of a cheating wife and husband had a fling with the sister. Let her stay in the kids life. Happens more often then you think especially if a spouse dies.
@questions3983 A death in the family is a very different situation, at least to me. Here, everyone is still around, poor choices aside. And the brother willingly pursued his brothers ex. Friendships are great, but that doesn't mean that being her second choice out of two means he's special. He could have looked elsewhere (outside the family even) but didn't. Seems like a weird dynamic to choose.
for the love of god please eat something
The brother sucks for coming back but If he didn't want kids and she insisted on it I don't think he's a monster for divorcing her (as long as he paid his proper support). The Op was clearly waiting in the wings so everybody in this story sucks imo.
Oh what? Toxic golden boy comes back to the woman he left. Now he wants to be a deadbeat dad
He’s not wrong for that but he doesn’t get to demand seconds chances. When he left like that, he gave up all rights to what his ex and his child do.
Dad Got Married and Moved Them In Without Telling Me...
Why is it so common on Reddit to date siblings current/former partners like op can try to paint the brother as the bad guy all he wants but op is disgusting
Some mother fucking common sense here!
I wouldn’t say dating your siblings former ex as disgusting and I only say this as it’s only disgusting if they cheated if they dated after the divorce and the break up, it’s a sin but putting this into the same level of a guy who tries to and force a woman to do abortions in mind you I’m not pro life. I am pro-choice and when you’re pro-choice, you have the right to choose what you want to do with the baby it’s between the woman and the doctor for a reason people
Wrong. OP helped a friend and her child who was abandoned by his brother. Said friend was divorced. His brother gave up any and all claim to any role in her life when he tried to skirt child support and alimony by surrendering his parental rights.
And let's not forget that she's her own person as well, not a pair of tits with legs, people. She chose this just as much as he did, and they did so after the POS had already severed all ties. He had his chance, and blew it, he made himself effectively nobody where her life is concerned, and he has no right to be upset that she found someone better, even if he's related to that someone.
Despite that, he assaulted his brother, flung insults at the both of them, and proceeded to badmouth them both to their family, and it wouldn't surprise me if that kind of behavior wasn't an isolated incident, hence why she's not with the fucker anymore. He is, in fact, the bad guy here.
Right you are forgetting who's is in the wrong
Seriously?
The brother wanted to force his wife to have an abortion... when she didn't, he abandoned his wife AND CHILD... divorced her... never met the kid for YEARS... he even signed over rights to his child.
Then thought... "oh... I'm sure she'd have taken me back if it weren't for OP getting into a relationship with her."
But you think OP is disgusting 😂 lol okay
1st OP thinks he's the main character who finally got the girl but it's gross to date your sibling's ex imo. Support, yes, and befriend, also yes. Date is gross though, even if he is the golden child and you have a stick up your ass about him.
I think dating your siblings ex is a sin but this does not screams. This is worse than what the brother did while OP did was bad on my book. What the brother did was extremely worse and a whole new level one thing how dare you try force a woman to do abortions without letting her have the choice.
Well dating a friend isn't a sin, and what brother is he?
Bro code
He's no brother that's for sure
Fuck the bro code
Bro code my @ss. He only wants her back because op makes her happy.
Story 1. OP, his brother, and his wife are all assholes.
Bro, you all grew up together, so she knew you before she even sterted dating your brother. She picked him, not you, and now that she a single mom she has picked you.
This isnt like you didnt know she was your sister in law, and just started dating at random, you were there for everything. Nothing you have done is remotely fine.
Story 1- Really? The OP and the ex wife are in the wrong? When it's clealry the family and the deadbeat dad's fault. You have no say in their lives or relationships
@@Tuturial464 They are all in the wrong; besides the child of course. And the brother is more in the wrong than everyone else. And we all have the right to pass judgment on anything and everything.
She wasn't his sister-in-law. She divorced the deadbeat and got someone better. It just so happened that she'd already known someone better and hadn't seen it at the time.
@@weirdferretthing the fact that she was once an in-law automatically make it morally unjust, at least within familiar structure.
Also the "didn't see it at the time" isn't much of an argument. She made a decision, it was her right, it is also her right to date whoever she wants to, but to not expect the judgement from her community is just asinine.
No matter how you see it, it is wrong to get with an ex of a family member, that's a big no-no. The brother being a jerk and asshole doesn't make it any less wrong.
@ARcinder what family? If a family treats you toxic, is it a family? Besides you can't seem to see who are in the wrong.
So what if little brother loves the girl. They seem perfect and supportive.
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Day 239 in the ghost house... my god. There are ghosts everywhere. Like not a single spot in this house doesnt have ghosts.