This whole saga is both sad and wierd af like how tf does someone get this unlucky with bio family ?? I'm so glad she atleast has an awesome found family
I've learned every family has a patient zero crazy person. It only depends how close you are to patient zero how unhinged things become and how many meat shields or bunkers you have around you lol. It's very possible you can have a completely unhinged family member next to you but because you are in patient zero's "bubble" you are completely unaware or conditioned to view it as normal.
@@theprodigaltrue black families are a challenge. Depending how deep in the faith/religion that isn't the easiest thing to do. I went full no contact with my abusive mother figure and still got dragged into drama. Hell had to literally ghost everyone, change numbers and move 1500 miles away just to get away from how unhinged she was. If you are their target, it's not a simple thing to just remove them without either burning all bridges or ghost and move
@@Fluffykunn I'm so sorry to hear that. But not only black families, Latino Families are the same, they are too much into drama, and take for granted that you owe them you life and more, I had to embrace the b**** fame to be let alone, and now my family knows better to not mess with me.
I just can’t. This OP annoys the hell out of me. She’s explaining, very comprehensively, how much of a POC her sister and mother are and have been to her. Then explains how much of a doormat she is in response. She can’t reconcile the two behaviors so that she has an appropriate response? I have no sympathy.
"She made fun of me for being SA'd when she did it to me herself when we were children; it's funny in a finked up way-" IS EVERYBODY JUST GONNA SKIP OVER THAT?!?!?!
Why would you try to hold your sisters baby, when yall are hating on each other. Thats just stupid, its common sense that its gonna cause a confrontation.
Yeah, that move was high key disrespectful of OP to go and handle her sister's baby when she knows her sister doesn't want her around her children. It was already iffy that she was going behind her sister's back to see the nephews at their mom's house. Extended family don't have the right to their younger relatives when the parents have made a boundary known.
48:19 Children are paimfully honest and this little man is going to grow up to be an excellent big man. That simple little 'you're doing your best' should be forever burned into our heroine.
Wait, engaged to a person who’s related to someone who SA’d her. In addition to continuing to work at the same place she was sa’d? Don’t get me wrong, OPs sister is beyond saving and definitely needs to kick the bucket at some point but Jesus, you were already a trouble magnet without saying where you were.
Absolutely. And for those saying it's common, while yes, people do use pseudonyms, this girl names people anything from: relationship with OP, to animal names, first names, nicknames, last names, and it's so inconsistent you lose track.
From what I'm getting, Oz is the fiancé. Son to Boss, Grandson to Opa/Grandpa. I'm guessing OP is not biologically related to Opa but had a strong familial bond to him
I'll try my best... Oz = fiance Boss/ "dad"= Oz's father/brother? Grandpa/"Opa" = Boss' father/Oz's grandfather B!tch = OP twin The dog twins = Boss' twin sons From what I get I believe OP's family are poor black immigrants to a Dutch country. OP was most likely a maid/au pair to her boss's family. She likely lives with them. Her boss and his family more or less welcomed OP's family as their own (terrible idea). OP took a motherly role to her boss' children who have developmental issues. For some reason, OP sold her body when she was younger. She also was SA'd by her boss's brother while on vacation.
@@ARcinderno wait I think Opa is the boss’s dad who passed away, dad is boss and oz is fiancé… at least that’s what I think lol. This story is crazy I think it’s bc she has so many family members and English isn’t her first language… plus I’m wondering is Lucifer Oz’s dad?? After all Oz is Boss nephew and Lucifer is Boss brother…
this can't be real, also op has no spine and it's infuriating, i have a twin, if he told me the things her twin said to her, i would be in prison for attempted murder and not give a damn.
This sounds like an Arabic/European (Slavic) scenario. It sounds like deep historical traditions. The twin girls raised in a MAN dominated society. Some of the unpleasantness would be normal (Male relatives having all the power over women!).
None of this makes sense. What kind of job is this? She's still working a job where a relative assaulted her. Is also engaged to another. This isn't a real story. The lingo doesn't jive with the communities she claims to be mingling with. "High yellow" 🙄
I think she’s half Egyptian so maybe she’s light skinned? But still darker than her chosen family, since her fiancé is redheaded they tend to be very pale. Plus English isn’t her first language. Idk this is all confusing lol
You know I used to complain about too much backstory but now with this story I take it back. Those backstory details add context. Never knew how much they are needed until now. 😩🤭😮💨
The way she described her sister, torturing her. Laughing about it and having to walk on eggshells around her...I have an older sister like her. I understand her pain...I know too well EXACTLY what she's talking about. It's mentally, physically and emotionally so abusive it's beyond real explaination unless uv been through it ...just that person raising their voice...brings back the trauma and makes u physically start shaking. I have autism too, on the low scale but it makes it so much worse. p.s isn't it CONVENIENT that's what shitty shit ppl did was "in the past" so they do t have to be held accountable for their sh**ttu actions??
I've said this many times in the past and fully expect to say it many, many, many more times in the future...if all the power that someone has in this world is to insult you and/or make you feel bad, that makes for an incredibly pathetic existence...lol
The dialogue in this is confusing. When she kicked the sister out did the boss/ future FIL call op a b*tch? Maybe it’s the way it’s written but op relationship with her in laws is strange af. Edit: NGL op was pissing me continuing to entertain the sister. You know she hate you and everything about you yet you keeping talking with her. The moment I knew it was her I would’ve hung up. Smh I would’ve cut the father off too. Why tf would you want to keep contact with someone who would tell you you’re less than every other human arounf you and nobody love or will ever love you? Trauma really be taking ppl out cause I wouldn’t have entertained half the bs the sister was doing.
It was, and always will be, strange. It's clear they're making up for the past and that "Boss" will probably spend the rest of his life trying undo the damage his brother did to OP. While it's amazing he's willing to move mountains for OP, I doubt that their relationship would be this strong otherwise.
Omg just cut ties. You're also toxic for staying. Sorry, just can't stand people who can't stand when they're already aware of the problem. Tsk disappointed, dragging other people into it.
I don't like seeing this level of emotional and mental weakness in people like OP narrative tells she has....it's disgusting. I am an Empath, but don't have a problem turning dar on bs in human forms. I am autistic too and also averse to situations that are confrontational and trouble makers, but that doesn't mean that I will not deal you an eardrum shattering slap if you dare to see me as weak, let alone cross my boundaries with brazenly bullysome behaviour. I had to be this "me" when as a teenager, I realised that the World is full of human looking monsters starting first from my former bio Family. It was when I beat and push my then older former sister into the well when she came from behind to do same to me. It gave me great pleasure and I allowed myself to feel that pleasure dealing her what she wanted to do to me....that period made everyone one of those witches realise that I was no longer abuse accomodating and abuser friendly. After that, when I got admission to further my education and saw all that they were doing to frustrate my bid to leave for Univ. All they did while I went through challenges and how they side with and enable everybody who wants to and attempts to hurt not only me but my kids; I finally disowned and went no contact with them till FOREVER!
Anyone else more confused than anything? I truly believe this was written by a real person because it all confusing and even AI has some standards this is a fucking mess.
Chair. Ok. Well, it sounds like this OP has gone through some stuff and I sympathize. Fortunately, it seems that I misheard from the other room and the narration was the sister sold the nephew's chair- not cherry...
Hey I know you probably won't see this but there is a channel called Revenge Returns that is blatantly stealing your video and publishing it with just a different and frankly terrible background video. The video even has a part of your audio that says "Secret Voices here" they didn't even bother to edit that out. The title of the video on the channel where I heard it was "Entitled Family Physically Assaulted and Disowned Me, Believing My Coworker’s False Accusations". Just thought you should know. Other people have called them out for stealing videos but they are just deleting their comments.
Zipit lock it and put in your pocket I'm writing that down I've been following this story since the pushing incident I'm really glad Op has such a good support network also if Op reads my comment give your ghost boobies then name the plushie boo,bies
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5 min in and im 99% certain twin is an addict. Who sales a hardwood handcrafted piece of furniture for $30 if not for drugs.
Some worthless crackkka made it thats why. Oh but I also really need his money 😂
Wait. wait. I just turned around and asked my husband... LEMON OREOS? He was all casual and said, yeah good stuff.
Wait until you try the hot chicken wing flavor or the popcorn flavor oreos
They also have/had sour patch kids oreos
They are yummy my favorite ones are the neapolitan oreos
I like a certain lemon cookie, but never heard of lemon oreos
There are golden Oreo cookies with lemon creme.
You NEVER, EVER DISCUSS MONEY WITH ANYONE. you always get this. Always
i learnt this the hard way : C
This whole saga is both sad and wierd af like how tf does someone get this unlucky with bio family ??
I'm so glad she atleast has an awesome found family
I've learned every family has a patient zero crazy person. It only depends how close you are to patient zero how unhinged things become and how many meat shields or bunkers you have around you lol.
It's very possible you can have a completely unhinged family member next to you but because you are in patient zero's "bubble" you are completely unaware or conditioned to view it as normal.
All this story did was answer the ancient question of good twin evil twin. This is what it looks like.
Its mostly op fault for keeping hateful people in her life
@@theprodigaltrue black families are a challenge. Depending how deep in the faith/religion that isn't the easiest thing to do. I went full no contact with my abusive mother figure and still got dragged into drama. Hell had to literally ghost everyone, change numbers and move 1500 miles away just to get away from how unhinged she was. If you are their target, it's not a simple thing to just remove them without either burning all bridges or ghost and move
@@Fluffykunn I'm so sorry to hear that. But not only black families, Latino Families are the same, they are too much into drama, and take for granted that you owe them you life and more, I had to embrace the b**** fame to be let alone, and now my family knows better to not mess with me.
I just can’t. This OP annoys the hell out of me. She’s explaining, very comprehensively, how much of a POC her sister and mother are and have been to her. Then explains how much of a doormat she is in response. She can’t reconcile the two behaviors so that she has an appropriate response? I have no sympathy.
"She made fun of me for being SA'd when she did it to me herself when we were children; it's funny in a finked up way-"
IS EVERYBODY JUST GONNA SKIP OVER THAT?!?!?!
It would appear so
I wheezed about the release of the Chihuahua
Yeah he was going crazy 😂😂
Op, just STOP! Leave them ALL alone, in their own toxic waste!
What an intense moment when the twin sister sold the precious chair made by their grandfather! I can't believe she would do that for just $30.
Why would you try to hold your sisters baby, when yall are hating on each other. Thats just stupid, its common sense that its gonna cause a confrontation.
Yeah, that move was high key disrespectful of OP to go and handle her sister's baby when she knows her sister doesn't want her around her children. It was already iffy that she was going behind her sister's back to see the nephews at their mom's house. Extended family don't have the right to their younger relatives when the parents have made a boundary known.
OP please just go NC with twin sister. This is insane, so much unnecessary drama/ stress
I’ m tired … she tragic.. her family annoys me.. who the hell wants to deal with this..
I spent the whole history asking myself why the hell didn't she cut contact with her twin sister and family already? Like...
48:19 Children are paimfully honest and this little man is going to grow up to be an excellent big man. That simple little 'you're doing your best' should be forever burned into our heroine.
This is the most confusing story. Grandpa, to one twin? Under 25, but legal parent to teenagers? Boss is father? Engaged to boss's nephew? 😵💫
I really thought it was just me alone....it's confusing as heck🤦🤦🤦🤦🤦
@@Akeila-cg2ng yeah I gave up.
It's like a HORRIBLE Wattpad story🤦🤦🤦
ADOPTIVE grandpa. ADOPTIVE. Were you even listening?
Sometimes, this channel messes up grammar, etc.
Boss? She keeps using that word. I don't think it means what she thinks it means. (Unless that's a REAL cool boss)
Wait, engaged to a person who’s related to someone who SA’d her. In addition to continuing to work at the same place she was sa’d? Don’t get me wrong, OPs sister is beyond saving and definitely needs to kick the bucket at some point but Jesus, you were already a trouble magnet without saying where you were.
I just wish she wrote this without all of these dumbass nicknames, it is a chore trying to follow the story
It’s a privacy thing they do on Reddit with these stories
Totally agree, the nicknames make it hard to follow. Simpler names would be better.
Absolutely. And for those saying it's common, while yes, people do use pseudonyms, this girl names people anything from: relationship with OP, to animal names, first names, nicknames, last names, and it's so inconsistent you lose track.
I would’ve gave 50k each to the other sister and brother.
I wouldn’t reward someone who treats me poorly
@@itzlexxii I said the other sister. Not her twin
@@KDawg92801 sorry I missed that she had another sister.
Who the hell is Oz? What is the relationship between boss, oz, grandpa, and OP? What the hell is going on here?
From what I'm getting, Oz is the fiancé. Son to Boss, Grandson to Opa/Grandpa. I'm guessing OP is not biologically related to Opa but had a strong familial bond to him
I'll try my best...
Oz = fiance
Boss/ "dad"= Oz's father/brother?
Grandpa/"Opa" = Boss' father/Oz's grandfather
B!tch = OP twin
The dog twins = Boss' twin sons
From what I get I believe OP's family are poor black immigrants to a Dutch country. OP was most likely a maid/au pair to her boss's family. She likely lives with them.
Her boss and his family more or less welcomed OP's family as their own (terrible idea). OP took a motherly role to her boss' children who have developmental issues.
For some reason, OP sold her body when she was younger. She also was SA'd by her boss's brother while on vacation.
@@ARcinderso who is H? She mentioned H but I missed who exactly that was?
@@chinaking918H is twin sisters husband I believe
@@ARcinderno wait I think Opa is the boss’s dad who passed away, dad is boss and oz is fiancé… at least that’s what I think lol. This story is crazy I think it’s bc she has so many family members and English isn’t her first language… plus I’m wondering is Lucifer Oz’s dad?? After all Oz is Boss nephew and Lucifer is Boss brother…
I just really hate that sister who else agrees with me. I’m just being perfectly honest.
this can't be real, also op has no spine and it's infuriating, i have a twin, if he told me the things her twin said to her, i would be in prison for attempted murder and not give a damn.
This sounds like an Arabic/European (Slavic) scenario. It sounds like deep historical traditions. The twin girls raised in a MAN dominated society. Some of the unpleasantness would be normal (Male relatives having all the power over women!).
Was OP groomed by ‘The Boss’ and their family?
this story is all over the place, what the hell is happening lmao
None of this makes sense. What kind of job is this? She's still working a job where a relative assaulted her. Is also engaged to another. This isn't a real story. The lingo doesn't jive with the communities she claims to be mingling with. "High yellow" 🙄
Sounds to me like she's probably a nanny of some kind, although she never really clarifies it.
I think she’s half Egyptian so maybe she’s light skinned? But still darker than her chosen family, since her fiancé is redheaded they tend to be very pale. Plus English isn’t her first language. Idk this is all confusing lol
@@ultimatefrisby2079 i think i heard other stuff about that op, apparently she also gives her boss backrubs and gets high with him.
Money changes everything.
This story makes no sense... there's no beginning... just pushed right in the middle of the mess🤦🤦🤦🤦
You know I used to complain about too much backstory but now with this story I take it back. Those backstory details add context. Never knew how much they are needed until now. 😩🤭😮💨
@@chinaking918 exactly
The kids are so sweet.
The Chihuahua and Pomeranian 😂😂
Awesome
Then at kid who said she was doing her best at being a mom and that's ok
Hope they raise the two dogs to actually behave
What the HELL did I just listen to? Lost as all I can say.
Honestly, this story is giving me a headache….it’s all over the place.
The way she described her sister, torturing her. Laughing about it and having to walk on eggshells around her...I have an older sister like her. I understand her pain...I know too well EXACTLY what she's talking about. It's mentally, physically and emotionally so abusive it's beyond real explaination unless uv been through it ...just that person raising their voice...brings back the trauma and makes u physically start shaking. I have autism too, on the low scale but it makes it so much worse. p.s isn't it CONVENIENT that's what shitty shit ppl did was "in the past" so they do t have to be held accountable for their sh**ttu actions??
“Get’em” 😂😂😂😂 I love the boss!
Op and everyone sounds soo exhausting to be around... The constant drama
The family relations are so confusing. Is she talking about kids or nephews or siblings or fucking dogs, at this point I can't tell half the time.
And is her boss having adult kids and toddlers at the same time ? Is the boss her finance’s dad or brother ?
"You're jealous of her business and successful career" ... So why tf does she need handouts from her sister again? I smell bullshit.
WHO THE FUCK IS PHILIP?
The last sentece was my favorite 😂
I've said this many times in the past and fully expect to say it many, many, many more times in the future...if all the power that someone has in this world is to insult you and/or make you feel bad, that makes for an incredibly pathetic existence...lol
The dialogue in this is confusing. When she kicked the sister out did the boss/ future FIL call op a b*tch? Maybe it’s the way it’s written but op relationship with her in laws is strange af.
Edit: NGL op was pissing me continuing to entertain the sister. You know she hate you and everything about you yet you keeping talking with her. The moment I knew it was her I would’ve hung up. Smh I would’ve cut the father off too. Why tf would you want to keep contact with someone who would tell you you’re less than every other human arounf you and nobody love or will ever love you? Trauma really be taking ppl out cause I wouldn’t have entertained half the bs the sister was doing.
It was, and always will be, strange. It's clear they're making up for the past and that "Boss" will probably spend the rest of his life trying undo the damage his brother did to OP. While it's amazing he's willing to move mountains for OP, I doubt that their relationship would be this strong otherwise.
This. Was. Chaos. 🤯
Omg just cut ties. You're also toxic for staying. Sorry, just can't stand people who can't stand when they're already aware of the problem. Tsk disappointed, dragging other people into it.
God damn door mat needs to go no contact Jesus Christ
I don't like seeing this level of emotional and mental weakness in people like OP narrative tells she has....it's disgusting.
I am an Empath, but don't have a problem turning dar on bs in human forms.
I am autistic too and also averse to situations that are confrontational and trouble makers, but that doesn't mean that I will not deal you an eardrum shattering slap if you dare to see me as weak, let alone cross my boundaries with brazenly bullysome behaviour. I had to be this "me" when as a teenager, I realised that the World is full of human looking monsters starting first from my former bio Family. It was when I beat and push my then older former sister into the well when she came from behind to do same to me. It gave me great pleasure and I allowed myself to feel that pleasure dealing her what she wanted to do to me....that period made everyone one of those witches realise that I was no longer abuse accomodating and abuser friendly. After that, when I got admission to further my education and saw all that they were doing to frustrate my bid to leave for Univ. All they did while I went through challenges and how they side with and enable everybody who wants to and attempts to hurt not only me but my kids; I finally disowned and went no contact with them till FOREVER!
I wish you couldve renamed everyone in the story so we could make sense of everything.
Twins are MVPs
I should take a shot every time OP said she cried
I need someone to draw me a family tree. Bc I don’t understand what’s going on
Was this written by AI?
An AI fed a diet of only the most convoluted soap operas, apparently.
@@FullMoonOctober including being SA'd by her own sister.
Anyone else more confused than anything? I truly believe this was written by a real person because it all confusing and even AI has some standards this is a fucking mess.
i listened to all of it, and I have a lot more questions than before
Honestly the story is written so ppoorly its hard to follow and also, idk why but OP actually annoys the heck out of me 😂
Anyone have a key for the names? Who is My Boss? Help! 😂
Is OP an au-pair? Othereise ot makes no sense why the boss is around all the time 😖 WTF? It's hard to follow...absolut psycho
This sounds all so fake tbh
No money from Grandpa to ber.
This story is almost impossible to follow...
Chair. Ok. Well, it sounds like this OP has gone through some stuff and I sympathize. Fortunately, it seems that I misheard from the other room and the narration was the sister sold the nephew's chair- not cherry...
How are people this pathetic?
This story is fake as hell
Is this updated?
We are up to date as of now
Hey I know you probably won't see this but there is a channel called Revenge Returns that is blatantly stealing your video and publishing it with just a different and frankly terrible background video. The video even has a part of your audio that says "Secret Voices here" they didn't even bother to edit that out. The title of the video on the channel where I heard it was "Entitled Family Physically Assaulted and Disowned Me, Believing My Coworker’s False Accusations". Just thought you should know. Other people have called them out for stealing videos but they are just deleting their comments.
Zipit lock it and put in your pocket I'm writing that down
I've been following this story since the pushing incident I'm really glad Op has such a good support network also if Op reads my comment give your ghost boobies then name the plushie boo,bies
Dumb story but day 7
Cringe
No money from Grandpa to ber.
Was OP groomed by ‘The Boss’ and their family?