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  • My Future SIL (aka the Sith Lord) thinks I need to be an unhealthy weight to be in her wedding pictures as MOH (u/ShesChoaticGood6599 in r/AITAH)
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Комментарии • 492

  • @Maninawig
    @Maninawig 6 месяцев назад +1414

    Story 1: "Heather claims he was so drunk that he was passed out for most of it" so.... they are admitting to r@ping him?

    • @tatkkyo9911
      @tatkkyo9911 5 месяцев назад +87

      Yup that would seem to be the crux of the issue.

    • @Bunny_queen143
      @Bunny_queen143 5 месяцев назад +34

      SUE.

    • @rynieryarom4277
      @rynieryarom4277 5 месяцев назад +68

      The problem is some places does not recognise male SA. Even it is some judges doesn't believe in it

    • @Daeneiracorn
      @Daeneiracorn 5 месяцев назад +92

      @@rynieryarom4277 which is so dumb. like guys look up the DEFINITION. "sexual intercourse without consent" HE. DID. NOT. GIVE. CONSENT.

    • @denis3208
      @denis3208 5 месяцев назад +10

      Most people can't get the tool to work when they are that drunk, or so I heard, so it might even be impossible.

  • @NotAnIlluminatiSpy
    @NotAnIlluminatiSpy 6 месяцев назад +1696

    What's kind of hilarious to me, is that AAALLLLL of this would never have happened if OP was the best woman.

    • @Star-bk1qj
      @Star-bk1qj 6 месяцев назад +53

      Fr ☠️☠️☠️

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig 6 месяцев назад +196

      Probably not directly, but I doubt the racst bride could actually keep quiet anyways

    • @mrsw2923
      @mrsw2923 5 месяцев назад

      Do you see now why it is BAD to have us women in charge?!?! This here is woman fighting. A man will punch you in the face and all will be fine. Not so with women. We are ruthless and vicious. I’m a real feminist. So I’m a senior citizen. We never denied who we are. We embraced it. Understand your weakness and proceed accordingly.

    • @laetitiac9890
      @laetitiac9890 5 месяцев назад +103

      Then the brother would be married to a psychopath

    • @LadyMysanthrope
      @LadyMysanthrope 5 месяцев назад +3

      omfg ... 😧

  • @olipq
    @olipq 5 месяцев назад +610

    ITS STILL UPDATING HOLY SHITTT
    but also aaron and zara are now officially a couple so 🥳🥳🥳

    • @buttersaltedpopcorn
      @buttersaltedpopcorn 5 месяцев назад +48

      no bc i looked it up and op legit hust updated

    • @misslovely9727
      @misslovely9727 5 месяцев назад +15

      Where can I see the update? 👀

    • @DJKillerKira666
      @DJKillerKira666 4 месяца назад +11

      I NEED A LINK

    • @TTSteve
      @TTSteve 4 месяца назад +7

      YEEEES

    • @KatSheep
      @KatSheep 4 месяца назад +5

      Wait still?! Im not even half way done with the video now I gotta read it

  • @Exe_gaming030
    @Exe_gaming030 6 месяцев назад +356

    I know I should comment on the story but every now again, I’m looking at the video, and I just see the Minecraft gameplay in the background and I just find it amusing, from how they tried to craft arrows with string instead of sticks, their discovery of different apples, and them being confused on why they couldn’t craft a copper shovel despite clearly having made one before

    • @ericacano9057
      @ericacano9057 6 месяцев назад +31

      😂 I'm glad I'm not the only one. They could even use the crafting bench to help but they just give up and I'm like "it's there! Click it! It will tell you how to make the copper axe!!"
      Interesting to see them building what looks to be a storage space, probably going to be an automatic redstone one from the looks of it. At first I had been focusing on how nice the texture pack makes the cobblestone look, then I started looking at the build and trying to figure out what they were building.

    • @chriiiiis
      @chriiiiis 5 месяцев назад +17

      Dude, the minecraft game play is so ass I'm distracted. Like why doesn't bro have a weapon or more food while mining????

    • @robertfaucher3750
      @robertfaucher3750 4 месяца назад +5

      I was like tf is going on here when I mistook the goblin trader as a baby zombie and jumpscared myself

    • @Poopick
      @Poopick 4 месяца назад +3

      Yeah the arrow crafting sure was so funny, it caught my attention from the main subject. I was like "what is player trying to do exactly? Oh he tries to make arrows? Funny error in recipe"

    • @lorinash9283
      @lorinash9283 3 месяца назад

      The game is so weird i was like ok what weird mincraft mod is this

  • @GoldyOs
    @GoldyOs 5 месяцев назад +181

    OP NEEDS TO ACCEPT THE GODDAMN HELP!
    She has no sense of self worth even though she sounds like an amazing woman! Your counselor needs to help her grow a spine in a healthier way.

    • @sweetblaquewine
      @sweetblaquewine 5 месяцев назад +7

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @MrDoreius
      @MrDoreius 5 месяцев назад +23

      And the therapist seems to be crap, did not catch op having depression

    • @gogodance5244
      @gogodance5244 3 месяца назад +10

      Honestly her lack of spine caused so much problems at times it got frustrating

    • @gavinwilliams1288
      @gavinwilliams1288 2 месяца назад +5

      You see the same too! I mean damn she says she doesn’t want help but then complains about not knowing what to do. She wants to go places only when she knows it’s safe. Lady she’s on the run and could be anywhere, basically nowhere is safe. You have to protect yourself at all times. Plus she doesn’t want any protection but still doesn’t feel safe. Bruh what the?

  • @trashotaku
    @trashotaku 4 месяца назад +135

    "I never expected you to be this jealous or vindictive" says the girl who got her grunt to physically assault two people with A EFFING BRICK and showed up to her ex's place where she not only damaged his property but also physically assaulted him all because he got into a new relationship (albeit a fake one)

  • @adyashanayak7958
    @adyashanayak7958 6 месяцев назад +512

    Aaron told op not to give details on where she is staying.
    OP: Gives a fake name but proceeds to give all details about Zara.

    • @Zminator1986
      @Zminator1986 5 месяцев назад +1

      Especially when she makes a big deal that she's the other black woman in the old job, has her own business, owns a specific breed of dog, is a mil brat, rents an apartment I'm like, "OP, you are an idiot and making it easy for to expose who Zara is."

    • @lunaphoenix1785
      @lunaphoenix1785 5 месяцев назад +28

      She explained Zara in the next post

    • @nicholaszikos3851
      @nicholaszikos3851 3 месяца назад +12

      Zero chance if you know them you can’t find Zara she’s the only other black lady at the theater in leadership

    • @mr.halfright
      @mr.halfright 3 месяца назад +5

      Yeah, with the details she gave, basically anyone who knows her somewhat well could easily find whoever Zara is

  • @SilveryBlue1010
    @SilveryBlue1010 5 месяцев назад +152

    That Francesca message is so hilariously self-victimize and delulu if I'm OP I'd reply to that with one clown emoji 😂

    • @khaleesireyna731
      @khaleesireyna731 4 месяца назад +9

      OMG yes! Like, I've got a family that has several professional victims (ie NOTHING is ever their fault and the world is just out to get them. Any argument against this version of reality for them is futile. My mother is the 1st one of these that comes to mind) and I don't think I've ever heard anything quite so delulu.

  • @AhmadSmith-kd9pt
    @AhmadSmith-kd9pt 6 месяцев назад +172

    The thing is she was running from the law and that's also against the law😂😂😂😂😂

  • @avencree
    @avencree 5 месяцев назад +193

    After that long, stupid, completely self serving, text from Heather trying to be the “bigger” person, I’d just text back “Sucks to suck.”

    • @yopoxikeweapescai9066
      @yopoxikeweapescai9066 4 месяца назад +8

      For me it would be "projection lol"

    • @trashotaku
      @trashotaku 4 месяца назад +3

      I would've just sent "😢"

    • @Kuromicbc.
      @Kuromicbc. 3 месяца назад +1

      For real

    • @Kuromicbc.
      @Kuromicbc. 3 месяца назад +1

      I would’ve sent « 😂 »

    • @luciferphoenix301
      @luciferphoenix301 2 месяца назад +3

      Now I see why people send "womp womp" these days. Perfect opportunity.

  • @funtimegenshin6973
    @funtimegenshin6973 5 месяцев назад +127

    The moment she called me tacky she would of gotten thrown out by her hair and the whole family would know why

    • @SenatiaA
      @SenatiaA 5 месяцев назад +7

      Amen

    • @zekova
      @zekova 2 месяца назад +1

      Hell yeah 🙌🏻💯

    • @mgnruth
      @mgnruth 2 месяца назад +1

      Oh for sure I ain't flying that shit 😂

  • @AfraidCrawdad
    @AfraidCrawdad 6 месяцев назад +473

    “YoU dOn’T wAnT mE aS aN eNEMy YoUnG mAn” last time I heard that they were gunned down by the police. Oh well

    • @nonebusiness7723
      @nonebusiness7723 6 месяцев назад +21

      I would ask for further context?

    • @Nerdbookworm
      @Nerdbookworm 6 месяцев назад +19

      @@nonebusiness7723same like wtf is homie smoking

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig 6 месяцев назад +7

      RIP to your grandma

    • @cookiecrumbs2840
      @cookiecrumbs2840 5 месяцев назад +5

      @@Maninawig Ain't no way xD

  • @Jasmine-gb6uq
    @Jasmine-gb6uq 6 месяцев назад +200

    This should be made into a horror movie. H is psychotic.

    • @TiffWaffles
      @TiffWaffles 6 месяцев назад +1

      Not just Heather but her best friend Kim as well. Both of them are psychotic. Can you imagine having somebody like Kim smashing you in the head with a brick just because you wouldn't entertain her bullshit?

  • @xXSetsuaiXx
    @xXSetsuaiXx 5 месяцев назад +297

    "You wouldn't want me as an enemy, young man."
    "We have a Zara and a Xena. Bring it."

    • @theodorebarton4256
      @theodorebarton4256 Месяц назад +1

      gives the same energy as "I have an army" "we have a hulk" or "I am a god" * gets destroyed * "puny god"

  • @liztewliztew
    @liztewliztew 4 месяца назад +39

    47:05 - OP didn’t ruin her brother’s relationship. The wannabe bride-to-be is the one who ruined her own relationship with OP’s brother.

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 5 месяцев назад +98

    Adopted is a wedge word. It's meant to separate like "real" family. If she says it often enough she hopes it creates a distance

    • @CharlieApples
      @CharlieApples 5 месяцев назад +4

      Nah, it was a relevant detail.

    • @zoeb3573
      @zoeb3573 4 месяца назад +20

      @@CharlieApples I think they mean the fact the SIL kept pointing out he was adopted, trying to create distance between the siblings because they're not "reaaaaally" siblings. which is bs.

    • @mgnruth
      @mgnruth 2 месяца назад

      Agree ❤

  • @skinnyguy4180
    @skinnyguy4180 5 месяцев назад +84

    “There is a brick on my desk.” OH SHIT! 😮

  • @TiffWaffles
    @TiffWaffles 6 месяцев назад +202

    120 pounds isn't overweight though... Especially for someone who is OP's height. I am early in the story and I just feel so bad for her. I know that she's absolutely beautiful. Can you imagine telling somebody who had body issues before that they need to lose weight which will only put them back in that negative mindset?
    I am getting some racist vibes from SIL, too.

    • @lindsay1989
      @lindsay1989 6 месяцев назад +28

      Right? That’s actually super slim at 5 7”

    • @RylieRiddle
      @RylieRiddle 6 месяцев назад +28

      120 at 5'7 seems a bit too slim. She should be closer to 130, 135 if she's super active.

    • @ARcinder
      @ARcinder 6 месяцев назад +32

      Yeah 120 at 5'7 is a BMI of 18.8, that is just barely above underweight.
      OP must have been "too" curvy for her exSIL liking. Most likely some mix of racism and jealousy.

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig 6 месяцев назад +6

      ​@@ARcinder I got mixed up with kilograms, so I looked it up and this is right. The lowest number I could find for a healthy weight of that size is 122lbs... lowest. So she is still underweight.

    • @smsff7
      @smsff7 5 месяцев назад +5

      She sounds underweight at that. I think a healthy weight for a woman that tall is 122-149 pounds

  • @TrentReeves-c2k
    @TrentReeves-c2k 5 месяцев назад +270

    Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it...

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 5 месяцев назад +3

      there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

    • @TrentReeves-c2k
      @TrentReeves-c2k 5 месяцев назад +1

      its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 5 месяцев назад

      this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.

    • @SS-nl2qf
      @SS-nl2qf 5 месяцев назад +10

      Scammers! This comment is a scammer.

  • @ryangooseling
    @ryangooseling 5 месяцев назад +171

    The OP has the wickedest sense of humor. I wish her and her family only the best.

  • @austinfowler2707
    @austinfowler2707 5 месяцев назад +50

    Story 1:
    So im gonna go with the likelyhood that she cheated and got the abortion.
    Given her personality, she would have jumped at the chance to baby trap him.
    Thought the only defense i can give her is:
    1) her father is highly religious and finding out she got pregnant out of wedlock would have run the risk of losing access to the family money/didnt want the ire of her father.
    2) theres a slim...slim chance that she didnt want to be pregnant at that time so did it. Which would have been her right. But this is the least likely imo.
    This lady is crazy regardless so it could be any reason.

    • @daylightbright7675
      @daylightbright7675 4 месяца назад +9

      Dude, either she cheated or SA'd her fiancè? There is no defense for her. One possibility is already pretty fucking bad, and the other is even worse...

    • @S_047
      @S_047 4 месяца назад +4

      100% a cheater.

    • @jaredcastro579
      @jaredcastro579 2 месяца назад +3

      Option 3.) She cheated on the brother with a man of a completely different race, and she knew the baby would be obviously a mix of something that isn't OP's brothers race.

  • @rosevalety3408
    @rosevalety3408 4 месяца назад +26

    This is like a thriller book, except these are real people... My god I hope they all heal from this. Han and Aaron are keepers, you guys are just family for each others, be safe sister, truly hope it's behind you.

  • @akaony
    @akaony 5 месяцев назад +353

    To think nothing of this would've happened hadn't Heather outed herself by calling her best woman tacky

    • @trashotaku
      @trashotaku 4 месяца назад +12

      Fr, but of course someone as entitled as Heather would never hold themselves accountable since it's clearly everyone else's fault that her life spiraled so violently down the drain and into the sewer 😮‍💨😑🙄😒

    • @lauriemeyer7030
      @lauriemeyer7030 4 месяца назад

      The letter from Heather, text back. Hope you figure out you did it to yourself.
      PS, I am positive Heather is not on the street!
      PPS, your boss is a pr!@k.😅

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 5 месяцев назад +110

    If Heathers dad doesn't have her in a mental asylum, then she's not as sick as he's pretending she is

  • @hadencross
    @hadencross 6 месяцев назад +64

    Im 58 mins in and still locked in

  • @southernflight5078
    @southernflight5078 5 месяцев назад +96

    That message to Francesca is wild. She clearly is messed in the head. Someone failed to take Heather to some hospital visits when she was younger. That woman is so unhinged that I'm surprised that her mask didn't fall immediately.

    • @yopoxikeweapescai9066
      @yopoxikeweapescai9066 4 месяца назад +1

      Average dnd player i guess lol

    • @Toonwalla2010
      @Toonwalla2010 4 месяца назад +3

      ​@yopoxikeweapescai9066 ugh! don't lump her in with the average DnD player. 😂 The crappy insecure players are not the norm but are the loudest so they get the most attention and give us a bad rep. Even we stay would stay away from Heather's level of crazy

    • @yopoxikeweapescai9066
      @yopoxikeweapescai9066 4 месяца назад +2

      @@Toonwalla2010 average population perception tbh. Happens to all the the "kinds" of ppl xd
      +idk, maybe some crazyness helps the psycotic character be more accurate xd

    • @dalekayataiga
      @dalekayataiga 4 месяца назад

      She probably is a narcissist

    • @nicholaszikos3851
      @nicholaszikos3851 3 месяца назад

      Sith magic keeps others from seeing her true face

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 5 месяцев назад +25

    You and your brother need an attorney. It's important. They know all the steps that go into a court case. For instance you can ask to be reimbursed for medical expenses and even lost wages. And the lawyer can make sure the restraining order get tied to the sentence which extends the restraining order

    • @liamcordery114
      @liamcordery114 3 месяца назад

      hey if your wanting OP to see this you may want to comment on the original post just in case they don't know about this video nothing against the creator of this video it's just sometimes somethings get on YT without the OP knowing.

  • @nope_118
    @nope_118 5 месяцев назад +60

    I dont care if it's fale or not, it's so well written

    • @nunyabizness6113
      @nunyabizness6113 4 месяца назад +5

      Not really the nerdy references felt forced and all of it sounds like a wattpad story

  • @Kati_P
    @Kati_P 3 месяца назад +12

    "You chose to make me do all of this" is such a telling statement. This is a person who can't take responsibility for their actions. Everything they do is someone else's fault, never theirs. This is NOT someone you want to have around you, if you can possibly help it.

  • @_Cursed_Queen_
    @_Cursed_Queen_ 5 месяцев назад +22

    ‘I’m just tired, not physically but mentally and I just want to sleep all the time’
    I just sighed to myself and went ‘that’s depression, babes.’
    I also felt offended at first when my doctor said that I might have depression and should get it checked out, because I didn’t feel sad or suicidal or whatever like you would expect when you first think of depression. Perhaps years ago I was closer to that stereotype but it was labeled as anxiety. Now it’s mostly revolved around energy and motivation, which is hard ontop of my adhd lol

    • @randomfan4521
      @randomfan4521 4 месяца назад +2

      That's how I feel. It's hard because all I get is medicine and get asked how that is working and it's helping, but I still have anxiety and no energy to do anything. I can't draw or play games without feeling like I don't have the energy for it and just stare at my phone. Sometimes, I get a smell burst of energy, but it never lasts long.

  • @chadiusthundercock6283
    @chadiusthundercock6283 6 месяцев назад +32

    Really hard to focus on when the chest organization is so abysmal.

  • @RepellentJeff
    @RepellentJeff 6 месяцев назад +135

    “I’m no bridezilla.”
    Yeah, so that was a f***ing lie.
    Edit: Sometimes I wonder if I should try getting in a relationship, then I hear a story like this and just go “Hmm… *_Naahh.”_* 🤪

    • @sinbadwilliams7186
      @sinbadwilliams7186 6 месяцев назад +3

      Exactly why I dont do relationships. Plus out of the 4 I had when I was younger 2 cheated on me with the 2nd sending her brothers at me who put me in the hospital for calling her a cheating whore. O dont care for relationships anymore

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig 6 месяцев назад +5

      Technically, I believe bridezilla is a term where sane women go crazy frim engsgement to honeymoon... and Heather was madder than a hatter even before getting engaged.

    • @anyjen
      @anyjen 5 месяцев назад +5

      Sometimes you get lucky and find a good one. The problem is that most of the good ones tend to get into relationships quickly and stay in them, so barring a tragedy or a betrayal they don't go back to the dating pool, and by that time they have emotional baggage, and might become one of the bad ones...

    • @yopoxikeweapescai9066
      @yopoxikeweapescai9066 4 месяца назад

      Tbh, same. But will keep being an idealist in secret lol

    • @yopoxikeweapescai9066
      @yopoxikeweapescai9066 4 месяца назад

      ​@@sinbadwilliams7186seems like an skill issue (did the loser got jail or you revenge)

  • @minadoherty9419
    @minadoherty9419 6 месяцев назад +195

    Anyone else shipping Aaron and Zara?

    • @Una1
      @Una1 6 месяцев назад +17

      I was going to comment the exact same thing! 😂

    • @Maninawig
      @Maninawig 6 месяцев назад +48

      Just got to the part where cops showed up at Zara's house. And they do look like they could be cute together. A special shoutout to Han, though, as he just met this girl, was thrown into her chaos, and stayed to weather the storm.

    • @katherinebass530
      @katherinebass530 6 месяцев назад +29

      ​@@Maninawig He is all the green flags.

    • @shinatina2466
      @shinatina2466 5 месяцев назад +7

      All the shipping right here

    • @Justahobbylife
      @Justahobbylife 5 месяцев назад +2

      Yeahh

  • @Sharutoka.
    @Sharutoka. 4 месяца назад +10

    Oh damn, this story is still developing, she's still updating on reddit

  • @MistressOP
    @MistressOP 6 месяцев назад +50

    I love a saga :). Aaron just DATE ZARA and marry her! :) lol midway through this.

    • @X_Shadow_Wolf_X
      @X_Shadow_Wolf_X 5 месяцев назад +4

      Some of the comments are saying they started dating and the post is still updating after this vid was published 👀👀👀

  • @Maninawig
    @Maninawig 6 месяцев назад +64

    Got to say that OP's nerdiness in Story 1 is quite endeering... maybe as it joyfully contrasts the horrors of her story and is super well placed.

  • @donnamason938
    @donnamason938 6 месяцев назад +31

    Wow, Heather is batshit crazy.

    • @sweetblaquewine
      @sweetblaquewine 5 месяцев назад +1

      🦇💩🦇💩🦇💩 💯

    • @marrero8100
      @marrero8100 5 месяцев назад

      1:00:46 Heather guilt tripping and still blaming, and even apparently pitying OP for her own shit.
      This disgusts me so much.

  • @_Cursed_Queen_
    @_Cursed_Queen_ 5 месяцев назад +31

    Aaron: don’t tell who you are with so they can’t track you down
    Op: so here is their info down to their dress size-

    • @khaleesireyna731
      @khaleesireyna731 4 месяца назад +4

      OP did say they changed details, so even if they're giving stuff like a dress size or dog breed, they could literally have just picked a random dress size/dog breed that looks intimidating and irl Xena is actually a very aggressive chihuahua or is actually a Cane Corso. Who can say?

    • @nanadiaries9189
      @nanadiaries9189 4 месяца назад +1

      She didn’t update while it was happening. This update is after the fact . Didn’t you comprehend that when op said it

    • @britnymichelle4245
      @britnymichelle4245 4 месяца назад

      @@nanadiaries9189um no, because this story is confusing as hell and honestly irritating with the AI voice. So how about you stick your head back up your own ass with the attitude

  • @heartsmyfaceforever8140
    @heartsmyfaceforever8140 3 месяца назад +4

    If you get called tacky, that’s not a perceived slight.

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 5 месяцев назад +15

    Kim threw a brick at OP, I’m glad you stayed over the night. Your brother was right siblings we have a language of our own.

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 4 месяца назад +6

    Children of racists don't suddenly stop being racists

  • @bluediamond3248
    @bluediamond3248 5 месяцев назад +25

    I have Clinical Depression and I can say this depression is a chemical imbalance, your body isn't creating enough serotonin, also known as the "Happy chemical" some days no matter how good a day you just feel sad, alone, and unmotivated. There are different types of depression but they all are painful. Medication is good for some people, I for one am on medication, but if you don't want to take medicine I suggest therapy or journaling is very therapeutic. Whichever the case depression is not your fault and you are not alone. It's normal to feel sad when you have depression even though good things are happening around you. Finding coping skills, therapy, or sometimes medication is very important. Isolation is sometimes good but not for long periods of time, just know you have people who love and care about you and that you are not alone. It'll get better my depressed baddies 💙 keep your head up because you can't let that crown slip 😊 God bless. Good luck OP I wish you and your family the best 💙

    • @donnamullins1676
      @donnamullins1676 4 месяца назад +2

      I’m doing none of that, have just been hoping for years now it would just go away, I’m 61 too old to fix it now, people should get help asap, this stuff ain’t no joke

    • @bluediamond3248
      @bluediamond3248 4 месяца назад

      @@donnamullins1676 I agree 💙 but I also believe it's never too late for anyone, I hope you are doing alright I'll be praying for your peace my friend 💙

    • @khaleesireyna731
      @khaleesireyna731 4 месяца назад +1

      ​@donnamullins1676 please know it's never too late. I kept telling myself for years that it wasn't *that* bad when it came to my depression/anxiety. It took talking to my therapist to finally actually get on meds and I'm glad I did. It's never too late and you deserve to feel well in all aspects. Mental health included.

  • @ernestpadilla-je3rk
    @ernestpadilla-je3rk 5 месяцев назад +10

    there's been dozens of weddings where the "best man, maid of honor" roles were broken. they had a man of honor and best woman

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 5 месяцев назад +19

    I think you should assume that Heather met some guy at a bar and let him pick her up and she's staying with him. She's not the type to sleep in a car. She's not that clever

    • @jokerzbabe13
      @jokerzbabe13 5 месяцев назад +3

      After listening to the entire story, I believe her fancy lawyer daddy was hiding her somewhere, as he insists she was diagnosed but that she 'cant go get treatment bc she is a fugitive.' So how would she get the diagnosis in the first place?

    • @CharlieApples
      @CharlieApples 5 месяцев назад +1

      Weird assumption considering Heather has a family and friends to stay with 🤨

    • @CharlieApples
      @CharlieApples 5 месяцев назад

      @@jokerzbabe13 Earlier in life

  • @samoea19
    @samoea19 6 месяцев назад +23

    Wow i didnt know this story had more updates

    • @skyscoutgaming2345
      @skyscoutgaming2345 5 месяцев назад

      Me too. Usually watch these in TikTok and they only have 1-2 parts. So now I search for them on RUclips to get the full story.

  • @JeneenRose-Osborne
    @JeneenRose-Osborne 4 месяца назад +8

    I truly hope things have gotten better for all of them. 🥺 I really hope Aaron n Zara start dating because they sound like they’d be a great couple. 🙏🏻💖

  • @lorianabanana6066
    @lorianabanana6066 5 месяцев назад +13

    I can't believe the Evil ExSIL was calling OP heavy at 5'9" 120lbs!! I'm 5'1" 115lbs and I usually wear a small or extra small. Yes I have curves and carry all my junk in my trunk lol. But I'm very petite and people constantly call me tiny, little and someone even called me 'puny' at work. I have good muscle tone and work a very physical job so I'm very fit. OP is about the same weight as me but EIGHT INCHES TALLER!!! Even now she must be very thin. ExSIL is delusional and obviously very jealous. She just wants to bring OP down so she feels more confident, typical bully narcissist. Bye Felicia lol.
    Btw all bodies are beautiful and gawd knows I love a curvy woman. Just saying that it's legit ridiculas to try and body shame anyone ever, but especially when it's obviously not true. It be like calling me too tall and insisting I wear flats lol- like girlfriend needs some glasses lol.

    • @tanakasensei3450
      @tanakasensei3450 4 месяца назад

      It always feels like the majority of society thinks that, if a woman wears anything bigger than a small, she's overweight.
      Granted, I also learned the hard way that a large in one country could be a 2XL in a different country (ordered a cute 2XL hoodie from a website, and found out it was a size 14 - which is smaller than what I wear).

    • @lunarkaia3964
      @lunarkaia3964 4 месяца назад

      Seriously! I’m not quite 5’4” and like 110lbs and it’s a nightmare finding clothes that fit- I’m an XS, sometimes 2XS!

  • @personwithaquestion1800
    @personwithaquestion1800 6 месяцев назад +24

    H is a can of crazy

  • @1Scimetar
    @1Scimetar 6 месяцев назад +38

    I just googled it, and OP would be, by numbers alone, considered actually slightly underweight at five foot seven inches and 120 lbs, as the recommended weight range for a woman of her height is between 122 and 149 pounds.

    • @CharlieApples
      @CharlieApples 5 месяцев назад +3

      Yeah 120 at 5’7” is very thin for most women. She probably wears a size 0-2

  • @smsff7
    @smsff7 5 месяцев назад +11

    I hope letty is doing well. She and sophie deserve to be happy.

  • @ToriBelle96
    @ToriBelle96 6 месяцев назад +15

    My brother and I are close, now and then I remind him that if I ever date someone and they say/do anything, I'll always take his side and believe him. I'd much rather find out if a partner is being mean to him because I could never date someone who is cruel to my family

  • @cornbread12987
    @cornbread12987 6 месяцев назад +66

    A group of redditors in the drama department of a college. Oof, this is dramatic.

    • @MikeSVZ
      @MikeSVZ 6 месяцев назад +9

      Keep your real world logic out of my Reddit fantasy please

    • @impishrebel5969
      @impishrebel5969 5 месяцев назад +7

      You say that but I had a toxic dumpster fire of a SIL that constantly had emergency vehicles at her house and it was drama after drama with her. Real life doesn't pull punches like fiction does. The brick was enough to convince me because it's too absurd to be fake.
      I moved 4k miles away because of that b, for the record.

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 4 месяца назад +4

    Interesting thing. Lawyers have hidden well paying clients in asylums before. They just have to get the dr to agree

  • @ghoste3991
    @ghoste3991 2 месяца назад +2

    Bro went THROUGH it. Your fiance turns out to be an ass, everything goes to shit, and then you find out you might've been sa'd???

  • @skittlemilks1614
    @skittlemilks1614 5 месяцев назад +6

    Tf I’m 5’7” and I was near skeletal when I was 120. Bride has issues.

  • @LoganRogue1
    @LoganRogue1 6 месяцев назад +23

    Wow this chick heather is a full blown narcissist. Wow

    • @francinetitherington4060
      @francinetitherington4060 5 месяцев назад +3

      She passed Narcissist miles ago and her behaviour if flat out PSYCHOTIC.

  • @maxwellmukwevho1383
    @maxwellmukwevho1383 6 месяцев назад +18

    this was intense

  • @katherinebass530
    @katherinebass530 6 месяцев назад +9

    😅 so are Aaron and Zara together or not!?

  • @loycebruley9023
    @loycebruley9023 5 месяцев назад +6

    Love all the Star Wars/Trek references! You are a true Senator, 🖖

  • @quad9238
    @quad9238 4 месяца назад +3

    Her trying to guilt trip is so funny... I am laugh so hard... 1:02:47

  • @3.cstasy
    @3.cstasy 4 месяца назад +6

    im stuck on how she’s 5’7 120lbs but “needs to lose weight”??? that’s a healthy, normal weight for her height…

    • @gavinfarris7624
      @gavinfarris7624 27 дней назад

      Yeah it kind of takes away from the credibility of the whole story when someone contradicts themselves like that.

  • @carseann
    @carseann 4 месяца назад +4

    I’m sorry, 128 lbs is not a healthy enough weight at 5’7? Dude, I’m the same height, a little curvy, and I’m five pounds lighter and it’s healthy! That doctor concerns me.

    • @edene.4870
      @edene.4870 4 месяца назад +1

      Considering there are doctors who literally say a woman having leg hair at all is unnatural and unhealthy? There's a reason you're always told to get second and third opinions on important medical issues.

  • @NoelleNaturally
    @NoelleNaturally 3 месяца назад +4

    She should actually apply for Worker’s Compensation. She was physically assaulted on the job, resulting in a psychological disability.

    • @nybotheveg
      @nybotheveg Месяц назад

      Oh yeah, good point that happened at work due to a failure of the security.

  • @NeonNuanceGaming
    @NeonNuanceGaming 4 месяца назад +4

    Go-lly Heather's a trip man! My ex sister in law was like Heather. They had their wedding on a holiday weekend. I wasn't even in the wedding party until one BM cancelled. She told SIL two weeks in advance. SIL made me a BM the day of...The wedding was beautiful (my brother paid for everything) and in return, she ran his start-up company into the ground by talking crap to customers on FB. She micro-managed EVERYTHING! Including the relationship. It lasted about a year an a half. He ended it when she started getting mean to our mom.

  • @LODintheshadows
    @LODintheshadows 4 месяца назад +8

    The gaslighting is real 😂 she insulted, belittled her, she lied about plans and paying for stuff herself, she assaulted ex, and is still claiming that she SA'd him, still lying about the cameras (how would she know unless she did it or they were traced back to her?) assaulted sis and stole her car, admitted she used her friend to go after op because friends dumb lol. She kept letting people record her lies and crimes and still tries to say she 100% innocent and op is the mastermind

  • @tartlynerdy
    @tartlynerdy 4 месяца назад +4

    These updates were wild. Somebody needs to get on op to improve that survivor's instinct. I'd also really wish op would stop saying she ruined her brother's relationship. She didn't ruin anything.
    I'm very stunned the police would seriously investigate any allegations from a psycho that went after someone with a brick. A brick. Kim deserves everything that's going to happen to her. I had no doubts in my mind Heather set this up since her flying monkey seems incapable of independent critical thinking skills.
    I'm very happy Heather kept digging that hole she was stuck in. Heather is an idiot to still keep texting op and especially for the fact she blamed op for her abortion. She aborted because she cheated and didn't know who knocked her up. Her long text was pathetic but especially the last touch. I guess Heather is going to become a born again Christian.
    I was hoping Heather's dad would be reasonable but shame on me for that assumption. The apple never falls far from the tree. Heather isn't sick lol.

  • @tracygardner6318
    @tracygardner6318 5 месяцев назад +4

    Drop the charges against Heather is he crazy as her father he should be punishing her and telling her what she did is wrong.

  • @ac9448
    @ac9448 4 месяца назад +9

    "I'm wordy and nerdy!"
    🤣
    Me too girlie.

  • @askhermit586
    @askhermit586 5 месяцев назад +5

    I envy your friends. Good friends are a blessing

  • @AlexSmith-4811
    @AlexSmith-4811 6 месяцев назад +8

    Anyone else hoping for a zara aaron couple lol

  • @Poopick
    @Poopick 4 месяца назад +3

    Heather sounds like a bitter person. Takes her own faults and blames it on others. How shameful

  • @qine6559
    @qine6559 2 месяца назад +2

    «SIL Got engaged on OPs bday party»… Having listened to a ton of reddit stories I realize this is a red flag! Never would I have realized if not for such stories😅

  • @dianecheney4141
    @dianecheney4141 5 месяцев назад +5

    You need to talk to your therapist. Because, laughing when you feel "trapped" is one of those fight or flight reactions. Don't feel bad about it. A part of your brain that isn't conscious made the response for you

  • @MsRee713
    @MsRee713 4 месяца назад +3

    Quick fact:
    The Ring camera was a Shark Tank program project.

  • @AngelusNielson
    @AngelusNielson 4 месяца назад +4

    Family is family, family is beyond blood. And those people are horrible, OP really didn't need to take care of someone who brought her depression on themselves.
    And that psychopath blames everybody but herself, of course.

  • @wolflovernumber1
    @wolflovernumber1 5 месяцев назад +4

    Being a woman who suffers from anxiety and depression, it sucks full stop, Francesca. It is a long, hard sloug to get to somewhat an even kheel.

  • @mismatched0socks_722
    @mismatched0socks_722 6 месяцев назад +9

    Is the Luke and Space Mom joke around the 20:51 mark reference Star Wars? What does it mean?

    • @randomness3979
      @randomness3979 6 месяцев назад +6

      I think it’s kind of an Alabama-ish joke

    • @NotAnIlluminatiSpy
      @NotAnIlluminatiSpy 6 месяцев назад +14

      Luke and Leia are siblings but they kissed one time before they knew. Ex-GF was implying incest hentai fantasies.

    • @mismatched0socks_722
      @mismatched0socks_722 6 месяцев назад

      @@NotAnIlluminatiSpy ah thanks for explaining

    • @mismatched0socks_722
      @mismatched0socks_722 6 месяцев назад

      @@randomness3979 thank you for explaining

  • @clottedscream
    @clottedscream 5 месяцев назад +4

    i wonder if the name Letty was a reference to Howl's Moving Castle

  • @KaityPea3
    @KaityPea3 2 месяца назад +3

    5'7" and 120lbs??... Am I missing something? I am 5' 2 and the lowest I have ever been as an adult was 133, and I was considered skinny-average. This woman has to be slim to be that size/weight...how does she need to lose weight???

    • @bicbiro1116
      @bicbiro1116 2 месяца назад +1

      I’m a 5’7” woman and was thinking the exact same thing…I’m overweight as I am, and I’m aiming for 150lbs eventually as a healthy weight…120 sounds dangerous

  • @vincentcleaver1925
    @vincentcleaver1925 6 месяцев назад +9

    There would have been a stampede for the door if anyone had ever stood up to the bride

  • @BirdMarcel98
    @BirdMarcel98 5 месяцев назад +4

    (Edited to specify that I’m not quite done watching thru the video, lolz.)
    OP should probably just move jobs. Like I know there’s a TON going on that I could have commented about, but y’all have p much said it all. But her bf finding her other jobs is a sign, and tho she apparently can’t get into those ones, perhaps it’s time for a positive change in scenery. Switching jobs could be the thing OP needs, bc it sounds like that depression is hitting hard and making her feel irritable and refuse help. Trust, I’d know from personal and ongoing experience (as do many others), not to mention the hellscape OP’s life has become. I left my old job bc something traumatic happened there, and what used to be a peaceful place of employment became an anxiety-spiking prison. Day in and day out, your head is on a swivel, and you can’t work like that. It’s no one’s fault but Heather’s, tho in my very humble opinion, OP just might feel better if she accepts that the company is shitty and doesn’t want her.
    It’s not admitting defeat to leave and redirect your life. I’m only 25 and learning in every hard way possible, and I have empathy for her attitude towards change given everything that’s happening. It’s shitty.
    Ofc I don’t know quite what the deets are regarding her job and work experience are, so at the end of the day I’m just some chucklefuck in the comment section. Hopefully OP and Co will figure out something that works for them and OP can build up a safe and satisfying new life.

  • @nathengriffiths-holland7038
    @nathengriffiths-holland7038 5 месяцев назад +5

    Story one- I love it when people talk nerdy lol makes me hopeful to find someone as nerdy as me one day 😂

  • @NonyaBiznessDude
    @NonyaBiznessDude 5 месяцев назад +2

    Way too much drama dude

  • @trashotaku
    @trashotaku 4 месяца назад +2

    I agree with the people saying that Op's sperm donor was only trying to get back into her life so he can get money from her

  • @loplop7029
    @loplop7029 5 месяцев назад +4

    Why are all these fake protagonists so cringe and pathetic?! Couldn’t at least one or two of them have “fake” spines?!
    And, maybe, someone could experience something without tumbling into a mewling bout of therapy…

  • @crystalh4016
    @crystalh4016 5 месяцев назад +4

    Me at 5'2 look sick at 120. I cant imagine being that weight at 5'7

    • @QueenJuliana89
      @QueenJuliana89 5 месяцев назад

      I’m 5’5” and I would look sick at that weight.

  • @nicholaszikos3851
    @nicholaszikos3851 3 месяца назад +2

    You’re telling me the lawyers daughter going to law school is manipulative 😮😮

  • @GMWILD87
    @GMWILD87 4 месяца назад +3

    Story 1 OP says we were raised not to hate soooo no one told grandpa that since he disowned OP I think it's perfectly fine to hate someone especially one who hurts you or a loved one.

  • @LadyAmdis
    @LadyAmdis 5 месяцев назад +4

    I keep thinking 'Okay, it's gonna end soon, right?' and checking the time stamp. Nope. Still another half hour to go!

  • @watersoluble5871
    @watersoluble5871 5 месяцев назад +3

    Thing is wild animals aren’t always guaranteed to be on the hunt and don’t really have ulterior motives. Running into a man, or anyone in the woods, would be more terrifying somehow depending on context. Like the bear is supposed to be there you know?

  • @redbear4350
    @redbear4350 3 месяца назад +1

    01:02:00 wait wait wait.. H ruin3d her life with her own hands and now writes down this HILARIOUS text just to play with poor F. Mind? 😂😂😂😂 how ridiculous she is? Damn! I started laughing at such ridiculous message!

  • @DumbAsh00
    @DumbAsh00 3 месяца назад +2

    5'7" 120lbs is skinny af

  • @AbbieWells-r6v
    @AbbieWells-r6v 2 месяца назад +1

    Seems like Op's brother dodged not a bullet, but a whole entire fucking nuke. The way Heather called op 'Adopted sister' though she knew the two were close is really strange, especially because we established Heather was limiting the time Op and her brother spent together during the planning of the wedding. It really seems like she was trying to distance them, not only physically but planting the seed in his head by reducing the value of Op and her brother's relationship by reminding him they are not biological. It's something that's really easy to overlook, but definitely a warning sign of a narcissist. And the way it all spiralled so quickly after Heather was confronted- it was literally explosive. Even though she had been mean with calling op tacky and insulting her and their friends, it wasn't as explosive or violent as the rest of the story. It's really freaky.

  • @s.a.munknown4300
    @s.a.munknown4300 3 месяца назад +2

    They got engaged at ops birthday? That shouldve been the first major red flag

  • @mztweety1374
    @mztweety1374 5 месяцев назад +3

    Oh honey you gotta break these up In to segments good lord…😂

  • @mrsw2923
    @mrsw2923 3 месяца назад +1

    I don’t think your problem is depression. You have a bad case of PTSD.

  • @green2703
    @green2703 2 месяца назад +1

    Heather learned the guilt tripping and gas lighting from her father. The whole situation is F*d.
    I do have to say, I really like Zara! I can visualize her so well and I am thankful there are ppl in the world !ike this!

  • @jamesseegar2206
    @jamesseegar2206 3 месяца назад +1

    The dialogue took long.
    Sorry but I can't deal with the story I understand it and I'm sorry for the people that were involved. But don't post another story like this

  • @bobsanders8682
    @bobsanders8682 5 месяцев назад +3

    Yo it's crazy I'm only halfway through this story and it feels like there isn't more crazy to be had from Heather

  • @Octoberdoomster1
    @Octoberdoomster1 2 месяца назад +1

    120 is still too small for 5 7 in my opinion. I’m still battling an ed. I’m 5 3 however.