Yeah. Islamically if you witness or know wrong is happening even if it is your parents call it out. Your silence is supporting the bad deed. Dont allow such things to continue. Tell the wife, if brother isnt sorting himself out. Then elders have to be told. She left everything for him and he doesnt even have the decency to be a good humanbeing
Actually you're wrong... Islamically it is obligatory to conceal the sins of a Muslim. The Prophet saaw said: 'Whoever conceals the sins of a Muslim, Allah will conceal his sins on the Day of Judgment.' It is better that if you see a person committing a sin, to advise him secretly and do not expose him.'
@@aishamasud5912 yes that hadith is there but you are talking about sin of a Muslim...dont go public or announce it. This is about a husband...here we are talking about injustice and a wife's rights...man's duties...and in surah nisa the chapter about women it states "O you who have believed, be persistently standing firm in justice, witnesses for Allah, even if it be against yourselves or parents and relatives. Whether one is rich or poor, Allah is more worthy of both. So follow not [personal] inclination, lest you not be just. And if you distort [your testimony] or refuse [to give it], then indeed Allah is ever, with what you do, Acquainted." So when your kin family or friend does injustice goes against right, goes against the deen or does wrong and you know of it are witness to it speak up. That doesn't mean go public. But follow the deen and the law of the land. So say if a husband is abusive and you know its your brother and you are silent...you are part of his bad deed...you are also accountable. Here when the brother is having affairs the sister is Islamically duty bound...to speak up tell his wife so she herself isn't deceiving her sister inlaw who is her kin, then its up to the wife to deal with it. Now if the man doesn't stop or change his ways then yes you speak to the elders of the house because they are family again kin. Now if still he continues to sin do wrong and be unjust to his wife you go to an imam. There are rules and regulations in islam we have guidance alhumdulillah. Again as you have said...we arent announcing it to the world while it happens or humiliating anyone here. What you have mentioned is more so for a Muslim who isn't related because if its a brother or sister related to you you won't announce it but you must sort it out or bare witness against it because on the day of akhirah you will be accountable for your silence and allowing it to continue. Always look at what you have said and in conjuction with the rights/duties (Quran and hadiths together) and what is deemed a sin aka what he is doing is zina and there are no reasons to hide that deed within family or authorities of the deen aka imams who are Islamic mosque heads there to guide and stop injustice. Surah nisa is really good with rights duties etc. We all should learn the rights and duties in islam for all and also whats sin and what we should do when wrong happens within our family and friends circle and what deen says towards that.
Hiding a family members sins, ignoring them or remaining silent...you are an accomplice in that deed...you will be held accountable on the day of judgement. So bare witness and speak up. Do not take things out of context...dont let loyalty, cultures and traditions effect your religion. Authentic Hadiths and Quran work hand in hand. Know your rights and duties in islam be it a wifes husbands a mothers or fathers and a child's. And do your research before telling others they are wrong. May Allah swt guide us all ameen
@@dubai_fitness ok but why you replying to my comment? I didnt mention that at all. And yes you are correct unless the first wife has that clause in her nikah and its in agreement with the husband that he wont get married to another while married to her...she cant do much. She can get khula based on him getting married again or if it is the contract then on that bases that he broke the agreement. Either way accept or get divorced. Polygamy is real it happens. Some schools of thought do say a man should ask his wife's permission to remarry some don't. Nothing should be hidden. Should be announced and the man should be able to fulfil all rights and duties towards all wives which isn't for the average guy. Anyways you should have commented separately n not on my comment.
A lot of women stay with the husband because of the culture and family. In some cultures a divorce is still seen as something bad. The women know that their husbands cheat on them but ignore it and stay married. Parents also play a huge role. I have seen women telling their parents about their cheating and violent husbands but the parents only cared about their name and reputation. They didn't let their daughters leave their husbands because other people will talk bad about the family.
I really hate that disgusting side of our culture. Legit abusers and cheaters - heck even murderers and pedo's - get swept under the rug by the family. VILE
@@usman1995ful partially, but also if you're so adamant to marry someone you're probably attached to them to the point you're in some sort of denial or act like it'll be alright
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Also women stay BC of financial stability, the woman feels hopeless BC there is no groundwork she has for herself or lacl of family support, cultural pressure as u said
Yall have good hearts...my ex cheated on me for years and his WHOLE family was in on it and covered for him. And they did the same for all his relationships before and after me. 😐
Oh my gosh. what a wild bunch. I feel bad for you and u fortunatelt I know people who cover up for their family members aswell because they truely think blood is more important than moral.
I agree with Sid no one is happy being cheated on but some women don’t have a choice and are restricted so they accept it making it NOT OKAY, if you cannot yourself mediate then bring in an elder, it’s important!
So I used to think that a man would need his wife’s permission for a second marriage but I was so shocked when someone said to me that a man doesn’t need the first wife’s permission at all. He can do it without telling her anything. I looked into it and it’s actually true! Shocking!
@@silmsadie Not willingly but she is forced to accept that. If the husband tells her that he would otherwise divorce her or if she's financially dependent on her husband...
You guys could literally be doing anything in your videos and having kids screaming in the background and I’d still watch. I love your guys’ sarcasm and sass but u guys also speak straight facts🤫
The email: WHYYYYY didn’t she bring this issue up with her parents when they were marrying? This woman left her family for this pos? And she didn’t say ANYTHING? If she’s old enough, Confront him, like how sid said. Tell him either he has to tell her (make sure she shows proof) or she will. If the wife is fine with it, encourage her to speak with a therapist because there might be some fear, self esteem issues, family problems. Also tell her to make sure he is regularly tested and her too or always wear a condom. It is best for her to leave the marriage if she converted. She’s not obligated to stay with a man that is adulterer...I believe the punishment in actual sharia is stoning....so leaving him is fine and will help her become a better Muslim. If she wants to stay, encourage BOTH to get counseling, starting with him on individual counseling to understand if this is a medical condition/addiction. If he’s a narcissist, recognize he might never change and she will still might have to leave him. Don’t have kids until your 100% sure as much as possible that he changed. If he still continues to cheat, her your parents involved as long as your brother hasn’t been babied by your parents. Mamas boys are hard to change. At the end of the day, he is better off single. Men will only commit and change for the one they live. If he’s a cheater, he will confine this pattern until he finds “the one” where he’s not looking anymore.
I missed these! Bring more of these please, I love your channel and both of you are goals! My favourite thing is to binge watch these Q and A’s and I’m always agreeing with u guys but I think Iv been through them all 😩 I was so excited when I saw this video!
Some woman are so poor they really can’t do anything ..they have kids..family and all ...but I think woman should be never okay with man who is cheating ..
Also, you know if they were to get divorced, he's find another innocent wife to cheat on in 2 seconds and the community would talk badly about the wife.
which is why I really hate it when family pushes their kids into marrying young, or when kids want to marry young, and their family doesn't tell them to wait. like earn some money first, try to keep working while you're married, decide on how many kids you want to have, get to know the person properly inside & out, and make sure you have a way out of the marriage. Girls need to understand this.
Accepting cheating is the same as accepting the sin (tacit consent) instead of standing against it by confronting the person or outing them (as his promiscuity poses serious health risks for the wife). If the wife knows of the cheating, it is the same as tolerating oppression and injustice which Allah has prohibited for the believer. Also a cheating man does not deserve to be with a righteous wife and vice versa (also in the Quran). As believers we are commanded to stand against injustice even if the wrongdoer is our family member (Quran). So the choice is really, do we fear Allah or society.
Missed these ask Sid and Dina eoisodes. Should turn this into a series again.
Good idea yes xxx
Me toooo
me too. Helps think through all the craziness in the world we find ourselves in.
Yes please!!!!!
Quarantine addition!! I’m all for it
Sid is always goofing around and suddenly comes a wisdom bomb.
Perfectly described :D
@@dubai_fitness For real? The wife can't choose. Wow.
I SWEAAARRR
Lol when Sid said chill you’ve married a good one🤣
God forbid we ever meet men like this.
Yeah. Islamically if you witness or know wrong is happening even if it is your parents call it out. Your silence is supporting the bad deed. Dont allow such things to continue. Tell the wife, if brother isnt sorting himself out. Then elders have to be told. She left everything for him and he doesnt even have the decency to be a good humanbeing
Actually you're wrong... Islamically it is obligatory to conceal the sins of a Muslim. The Prophet saaw said: 'Whoever conceals the sins of a Muslim, Allah will conceal his sins on the Day of Judgment.' It is better that if you see a person committing a sin, to advise him secretly and do not expose him.'
@@aishamasud5912 yes that hadith is there but you are talking about sin of a Muslim...dont go public or announce it. This is about a husband...here we are talking about injustice and a wife's rights...man's duties...and in surah nisa the chapter about women it states "O you who have believed, be persistently standing firm in justice, witnesses for Allah, even if it be against yourselves or parents and relatives. Whether one is rich or poor, Allah is more worthy of both. So follow not [personal] inclination, lest you not be just. And if you distort [your testimony] or refuse [to give it], then indeed Allah is ever, with what you do, Acquainted."
So when your kin family or friend does injustice goes against right, goes against the deen or does wrong and you know of it are witness to it speak up. That doesn't mean go public. But follow the deen and the law of the land. So say if a husband is abusive and you know its your brother and you are silent...you are part of his bad deed...you are also accountable.
Here when the brother is having affairs the sister is Islamically duty bound...to speak up tell his wife so she herself isn't deceiving her sister inlaw who is her kin, then its up to the wife to deal with it. Now if the man doesn't stop or change his ways then yes you speak to the elders of the house because they are family again kin. Now if still he continues to sin do wrong and be unjust to his wife you go to an imam. There are rules and regulations in islam we have guidance alhumdulillah.
Again as you have said...we arent announcing it to the world while it happens or humiliating anyone here. What you have mentioned is more so for a Muslim who isn't related because if its a brother or sister related to you you won't announce it but you must sort it out or bare witness against it because on the day of akhirah you will be accountable for your silence and allowing it to continue.
Always look at what you have said and in conjuction with the rights/duties (Quran and hadiths together) and what is deemed a sin aka what he is doing is zina and there are no reasons to hide that deed within family or authorities of the deen aka imams who are Islamic mosque heads there to guide and stop injustice. Surah nisa is really good with rights duties etc.
We all should learn the rights and duties in islam for all and also whats sin and what we should do when wrong happens within our family and friends circle and what deen says towards that.
Hiding a family members sins, ignoring them or remaining silent...you are an accomplice in that deed...you will be held accountable on the day of judgement. So bare witness and speak up. Do not take things out of context...dont let loyalty, cultures and traditions effect your religion. Authentic Hadiths and Quran work hand in hand. Know your rights and duties in islam be it a wifes husbands a mothers or fathers and a child's. And do your research before telling others they are wrong.
May Allah swt guide us all ameen
@@dubai_fitness ok but why you replying to my comment? I didnt mention that at all. And yes you are correct unless the first wife has that clause in her nikah and its in agreement with the husband that he wont get married to another while married to her...she cant do much. She can get khula based on him getting married again or if it is the contract then on that bases that he broke the agreement. Either way accept or get divorced. Polygamy is real it happens. Some schools of thought do say a man should ask his wife's permission to remarry some don't. Nothing should be hidden. Should be announced and the man should be able to fulfil all rights and duties towards all wives which isn't for the average guy. Anyways you should have commented separately n not on my comment.
dubai fitness wrong. your wife should be ok with it, otherwise it is not acceptable.
A lot of women stay with the husband because of the culture and family. In some cultures a divorce is still seen as something bad. The women know that their husbands cheat on them but ignore it and stay married. Parents also play a huge role. I have seen women telling their parents about their cheating and violent husbands but the parents only cared about their name and reputation. They didn't let their daughters leave their husbands because other people will talk bad about the family.
I really hate that disgusting side of our culture. Legit abusers and cheaters - heck even murderers and pedo's - get swept under the rug by the family. VILE
Disgusting. Seriously
i think in this case if she knows she is just too embarrassed to acknowledge it cuz she went agaisnt her parents to marry this guy.
@@usman1995ful partially, but also if you're so adamant to marry someone you're probably attached to them to the point you're in some sort of denial or act like it'll be alright
Also women stay BC of financial stability, the woman feels hopeless BC there is no groundwork she has for herself or lacl of family support, cultural pressure as u said
That’s disgusting. He could give her incurable diseases and the fact she left her family for him...smh
what a dog
Nah he uses adequate protection and gets tested regularly
Yall have good hearts...my ex cheated on me for years and his WHOLE family was in on it and covered for him. And they did the same for all his relationships before and after me. 😐
oh no
So sorry ...hope you’re in a good place now
I‘m so sorry :/ this is just sick
Oh my gosh. what a wild bunch. I feel bad for you and u fortunatelt I know people who cover up for their family members aswell because they truely think blood is more important than moral.
Exactly Dina!! People shouldn’t need/get recognized for being decent humans and how they should be already
That intro gave me SERIOUS nostalgia from like 5 years ago! God I missed those days 😭😭
I agree with Sid no one is happy being cheated on but some women don’t have a choice and are restricted so they accept it making it NOT OKAY, if you cannot yourself mediate then bring in an elder, it’s important!
I agree with Sid, stand up for oppressed and dont be just okay with telling everyone
*Mika in the house trying to break the door down* 🤣
stopped what i was doing as soon as i saw the notification 😂
Same. Supposed to be cleaning
I can't believe my eyes! A notification from Sid and Dina! glad you guys are back
So I used to think that a man would need his wife’s permission for a second marriage but I was so shocked when someone said to me that a man doesn’t need the first wife’s permission at all. He can do it without telling her anything. I looked into it and it’s actually true! Shocking!
Yeah Dina was misinformed about that
That’s why a wife should put it in her nikah as a condition
Ummmm..what wife would willingly agree to that?
@@silmsadie Not willingly but she is forced to accept that. If the husband tells her that he would otherwise divorce her or if she's financially dependent on her husband...
I'm shocked right now. I didn't know that. Poor women who are going through this😔
Dina's hairstyle makes me want to run out and get my hair cut the same way!
nearly spat out my drink when I saw you had uploaded on this channel :D happy to see you back!
Sid's facial expressions when Dina's reading the email are so funny
„ ... edededeede .. Technically, he‘s not taken, sister; you can marry four.“ 🤣🤣
I didnt realize how much i missed Dina's no nonsense attitude. Love that this series is back.
Omds literally was thinking the other day only if Dina&Sid started these vids again lol quite entertaining
We have missed you guys. It's been ages.
yes glad u are back on. not uploaded on youtube in ages. nice to see the very popular sid n dina question advice videos back i hope its regular now.
Omg I missed this so much y’all don’t even understand
Thank god somethings positive in the air finally something to smile at!! Alhumdulilah
You guys could literally be doing anything in your videos and having kids screaming in the background and I’d still watch. I love your guys’ sarcasm and sass but u guys also speak straight facts🤫
Welcome back good to see u both ❤️
so happy that these series is back. u both make me laugh so much,and also give good advice which is relatable. stay blessed.
FINALLY OMGGG MISSED THIS SERIESSS
My fav thing to go to when I'm not in a good mood are these videos of yours even if I've watched them already!
Bring these episodes back! So good seeing the channel alive again.
Y'all should do a podcast version of this! I'd listen!!
Hope you continue these semi regularly, I loved listening to these!!
Oh I was just thinking about these sid&dina's videos !!! Missed them a lot
Thank you for coming back, now back to the vid
YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAss no flipping way so happy to hopefully have you guys back!!!!!!!!
Clicked soooo fast! I LOVE THIS ENERGYYYY
Dina's got the look of love in her eyes when she looks at her man!!! Awww
DINA LOL! “NEXT TIME YOU BE POLITE TO ME, DO YOU UNDERSTAND”
The video we didn’t know we deserved but the video we needed! 😭😭
omg what !! i was so shocked when i got this notif lool missed u guys tho !
leema are you my twin
Haleema Sultan no
@@haleemas6370 :(
Seriously enjoyed this with a nice cup of tea and pashweri naan
Heey boo I see you ❤️
I haven't even watched the video yet but YAY SID AND DINA QUESTIONS ARE BACK!!!!!
I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS MOMENT
Finallyyy they’re baackkk
Sid's hair looks healthier
Slowly getting through all your old vids. You guys are the best
YESSSS MAAAATE didn’t know I needed this until now 😭
My reaction was literally just “yayyy” haha
ONLY THING KEEPING 2020 GOIN IS THIS SID X DINA COMEBACK
Omggg please come back and keep going these! Every few months I watch these advice videos again and there’s only so many to watch lol xoxo
My jaw dropped when i saw this come up i was gutted when these videos ended i used to binge watch.. omg bring this series back for GOOD
Aaaaand they're back, baby! Awesome. Missed these guys so much!
So glad you are back guys ... Much love
I Missed these ask sid and dina videos mannn.... Love from germany habibis😍♥️
So glad you guys are doing these vids again. These were the best!
So much wisdom in this advice, you guys considered so many perspectives I wouldn't have thought of otherwise!
Your hair looks sooo good I love it!
OH MY GOD I MISSED THESE SO MUCHHHHHHHHHHHHH MISSED U GUYS
O my god! I can’t believe they’re back
So happy to see this kinda content from you guys again!
So happy you guys are back!!
Hii guuuuys! I've missed these videos so much. So happy to see this pop up ✌🏻
Haven’t watched Dina in a while
OMG!! Welcome back!! So good to see these vids again, the content that we needed 😂🙌🏼
The email: WHYYYYY didn’t she bring this issue up with her parents when they were marrying? This woman left her family for this pos? And she didn’t say ANYTHING? If she’s old enough, Confront him, like how sid said. Tell him either he has to tell her (make sure she shows proof) or she will. If the wife is fine with it, encourage her to speak with a therapist because there might be some fear, self esteem issues, family problems. Also tell her to make sure he is regularly tested and her too or always wear a condom. It is best for her to leave the marriage if she converted. She’s not obligated to stay with a man that is adulterer...I believe the punishment in actual sharia is stoning....so leaving him is fine and will help her become a better Muslim.
If she wants to stay, encourage BOTH to get counseling, starting with him on individual counseling to understand if this is a medical condition/addiction. If he’s a narcissist, recognize he might never change and she will still might have to leave him. Don’t have kids until your 100% sure as much as possible that he changed.
If he still continues to cheat, her your parents involved as long as your brother hasn’t been babied by your parents. Mamas boys are hard to change. At the end of the day, he is better off single. Men will only commit and change for the one they live. If he’s a cheater, he will confine this pattern until he finds “the one” where he’s not looking anymore.
I'M SO HAPPY YALL ARE BACK ON THIS CHANNEL!
Yaaasssssss!!!!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 i have missed these so much!!!!! It’s how I originally found you guys!!! ♥️♥️♥️
I really love these ask Sid and Dina episodes!
Glad you guys are back
So glad to see you both back!
YAY SO HAPPY YOU GUYS ARE BACK!!
I love dina's personality
I’ve missed these videos, glad to see you back!
I missed these! Bring more of these please, I love your channel and both of you are goals! My favourite thing is to binge watch these Q and A’s and I’m always agreeing with u guys but I think Iv been through them all 😩 I was so excited when I saw this video!
Haven't watched yet but omg I am so so excited that you're back with these!
itzzz about time you upload a video cuzz we hella miss u guyzzz!!!
YAAAAAASS They are finally back!!! Keep it up guys.
I love to see Dina staying true to herself.
Missed these kind of videos. I enjoy watching them. Thank you
I loveeee these!!! Please keep these coming! I’ve rewatched the old videos at least 10 times 😂😂😂😂
i loves sids laugh ahahha
No way! I was ltrly thinking this morning that u guys should do these advice videos again looll yay! Keep doing it guys they’re so entertaining
I’m so happy to see you guys back!!!! Yay 😀
Dina’s brother is married?!?!? Woohoo congrats
Wait which one tho?
PierceTheBellybutton yusef is married
Glad to see you back!
Omg guys I‘ve missed you alot ❤️
Awww it's good to see you guys!x
The sister in law isn’t from back home! She said he married his girlfriend
Yes and she said that she has different religion so she might not be Muslim
@ Muslims wouldn't be having gf tho
@@saadia4009 you'd be surprised
best content ever is back 😂😂❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for posting 🥺🥺🥺
Some woman are so poor they really can’t do anything ..they have kids..family and all ...but I think woman should be never okay with man who is cheating ..
Also, you know if they were to get divorced, he's find another innocent wife to cheat on in 2 seconds and the community would talk badly about the wife.
which is why I really hate it when family pushes their kids into marrying young, or when kids want to marry young, and their family doesn't tell them to wait. like earn some money first, try to keep working while you're married, decide on how many kids you want to have, get to know the person properly inside & out, and make sure you have a way out of the marriage. Girls need to understand this.
Accepting cheating is the same as accepting the sin (tacit consent) instead of standing against it by confronting the person or outing them (as his promiscuity poses serious health risks for the wife). If the wife knows of the cheating, it is the same as tolerating oppression and injustice which Allah has prohibited for the believer. Also a cheating man does not deserve to be with a righteous wife and vice versa (also in the Quran). As believers we are commanded to stand against injustice even if the wrongdoer is our family member (Quran). So the choice is really, do we fear Allah or society.
Yesss, i'm glad these are back.. this is what i used to watch you both for! 😅 Where's my popcorn?
It's as if Sid received some sort of revelation at 9:03 😂😂😂
Love the hair, Dina!!!
I Missed This So Much!! Hope You Guys Continue!!
Legit have a class online in 5 minutes but I had to stop and watch😂
Glad you’re back!!! ☺️
Omg your back i love the ‘Ask’ videos!
Sid: third party involved would be myself 😂😭
Bloody missed yous!