The update we hoped never to make

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  • Опубликовано: 26 янв 2023
  • We've tried to be super cautious about what we share about Naomi's diagnosis and prognosis. But Naomi has always held true to being honest about something that affects so many people globally; both as survivors, supporters and those that are living with cancer. And having had you on side for so long we wanted to give an honest update. We had a plan as everyone does; but we know this disease has other plans. We're not unrealistic, but to live each day in hope and light is our best bet right now xx
    THE RAFFLE: raffall.com/330572/enter-raff...
    GO FUND ME: www.gofundme.com/f/help-naomi...

Комментарии • 845

  • @SJ_Strum
    @SJ_Strum  Год назад +396

    The raffle has closed now - we got enough for the treatment!!!! You are all amazing! The Go Fund Me is still active & every penny will go to treatment the private company can offer a lot more and we won’t give up www.gofundme.com/f/help-naomi-survive-stage-4-bowel-cancer

    • @seablue3353
      @seablue3353 Год назад +10

      That’s amazing news! Sending Love to you all. ❤️

    • @hellybelle5
      @hellybelle5 Год назад +10

      Yours smiley faces at the end ♥️Such beautiful, and lovely sisters ♥️

    • @susanabderhalden9212
      @susanabderhalden9212 Год назад +8

      Im so happy. Hope it works.

    • @Lou7301.
      @Lou7301. Год назад +5

      Hope so much all is going as well as possible 💕

    • @Kaj0699
      @Kaj0699 Год назад +5

      Good Luck 🙏🏻🤞🏻👍🏼😘

  • @meljstephan
    @meljstephan Год назад +485

    * a note to other viewers: if you aren't able to give financial contributions, you can always rewatch SJ's older videos and watch ads all the way through.

    • @helenbennett4391
      @helenbennett4391 Год назад +10

      I shall do this 😪🙏💙x

    • @sammiejo9029
      @sammiejo9029 Год назад +4

      Same. Sending all the love, light & positivity in my heart & soul. Myself & my 10yr old son will say as many prayers every night for you to be healthy as can be & that may God lay His hands on you & your precious family as well as all of God's angels to protect you & carry you all through the hardest times. May God Bless You Always

    • @r.a.c.h6172
      @r.a.c.h6172 Год назад +3

      How can i just send moneyxxx

    • @meljstephan
      @meljstephan Год назад +5

      @@r.a.c.h6172 There is a GoFundMe in the video description

    • @Sedgies
      @Sedgies Год назад +3

      Wonderful of you to post this reminder. Every dollar will go to say this as a reminder to us. ❤

  • @ciscokid0110
    @ciscokid0110 Год назад +236

    My hubby here in the US had stage 3 lung cancer that had spread badly, even into his aortic lining. He had 33 radiation treatments and lots of chemo and immunotherapy and he just passed his five years clear. I pray for the same blessing for you.🙏🏻❤️

    • @SJ_Strum
      @SJ_Strum  Год назад +17

      Wow this is amazing to here thank you and I’m so so happy for you all xxxxx

    • @sunshinejohnson8330
      @sunshinejohnson8330 Год назад +1

      AMEN AMEN IN ( JESUS) NAME 🙏🙏🙏 THERE'S HEALING TAKING PLACE.

  • @Louisepentland
    @Louisepentland Год назад +322

    I have SUCH hope for you Naomi and SJ. There are more options. Active treatment. I am saying every prayer and sending you every ounce of love I have for you. xxxxxx

  • @msaijay1153
    @msaijay1153 Год назад +175

    The name Naomi means "pleasantness" and it really suits your beautiful spirit.

  • @galaxy8374
    @galaxy8374 Год назад +226

    I'm so sorry.
    Naomi, your children will always be so proud of you for your bravery. Your love for your children and family is so strong, and cancer can never be stronger than that

  • @charlierose2104
    @charlierose2104 11 месяцев назад +7

    She was/is so beautiful. I don’t have to have ever met her to see how bright she shined even in her worst days. Her grace and beauty is so pure.

  • @heaven56
    @heaven56 Год назад +100

    Immunotherapy is very good. My own mom is currently on it. She was first diagnosed in 2018 with cervical cancer. She was good after treatment for about a year and a half before it came back and spread into her lymph nodes. It is now what they call a "chronic" issue. There is no way to get rid of it. Just extend her life, comfortablely. She has been on it for about a year and has done fantastic. I hope it will work for you too, Naomi. ❤

    • @SJ_Strum
      @SJ_Strum  Год назад +26

      Oh tbis js wonderful news; I’m so happy for your mom and you all. Let’s hope we get it ❤❤❤❤

    • @Aimee659
      @Aimee659 Год назад +7

      @@SJ_Strum Immunotherapy as well as Reiki? Bless you both 🙏💌

  • @asedition8847
    @asedition8847 Год назад +214

    Naomi it’s hard to know what to say but I just want to say thank you for being so courageous and dignified…..you look so beautiful and put together. As the song goes ‘ I wish you bluebirds in the spring’

  • @siangoves
    @siangoves Год назад +42

    I don't want to believe this is real. as good as your doctors may be, they can never give you an exact estimation because they only take your physical body into consideration, they cant measure your mind and soul. Your strength and determination could get you through this, don't ever give up! Loads of love being sent to you all xxxxx

  • @Caoivyweevy
    @Caoivyweevy Год назад +193

    Wow. I was diagnosed with grade 4 brain cancer in 2021 days after I had my first and only baby, I had a craniotomy and didn't have a recurrence until this Christmas. I'm due to start chemo and radiation in the next few weeks and I was feeling so sad about having to do treatment but watching this has really given me a wake up call as to how fortunate I am to be even doing treatment. I know those horrible rooms your sister talks about so well. Sending you all the good vibes, I hope you have some bright days ahead. Xxxx

    • @samkhan2426
      @samkhan2426 Год назад +13

      I pray you make a full recovery- you will be in my prayers. My mum went through cancer an its a very hard battle... but you will get through.all the best

    • @lisagrafton2529
      @lisagrafton2529 Год назад +9

      Praying for God's complete healing for you, Caoimhe!

    • @jackiemarini3203
      @jackiemarini3203 Год назад +5

      Prayers and hugs coming your way .☮️💜

    • @Kenzie_McIntyre
      @Kenzie_McIntyre Год назад

      stay positive as it's amazing what the strength of the mind has ...much love coming your way

  • @annkotfila8811
    @annkotfila8811 Год назад +13

    Oh you sweet, beautiful girl. I’m old and have lived my life. I only wish that I could take your cancer and free you to live many years with your family. I’d do it in a heartbeat if I could!! I send you love and warm hugs from Massachusetts in the USA.
    God is holding you in the palm of His hand and will give you the strength to take this journey. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @tallulahboo9924
    @tallulahboo9924 Год назад +48

    I've sat for 15 minutes not knowing what to type and I have so few words...Naomi your so incredibly brave sending you and your family so much love and strength. S J you and your beautiful sister are an inspiration to others and I can't even begin to know how hard this video was to make. Sending you the biggest hugs xx

  • @josierose6313
    @josierose6313 Год назад +6

    My dad got diagnosed with terminal lung cancer from asbestos poisoning- he got told he had 6 months to live but we were blessed with 2 years - never ever give up hope, you are truly brave and inspirational ❤

  • @amessina4333
    @amessina4333 Год назад +59

    This gutted me. The sister in me. The mother in me. The woman and the wife in me. All gutted for you and your family. Your last update lifted me so high and was so full of hope and I know filming this one was just an impossibility. I’m just so sorry, and so tired of C and it’s hold on us all. I will pray, donate, and hug my children tighter and lay next to them in bed tonight a little longer, to honor the mother in you. Sending love, strength and peace over the miles, from the US, from my heart directly to yours. ❤️

    • @mosaicgirl4002
      @mosaicgirl4002 Год назад +8

      What a truly beautiful comment. Well put!❤❤

  • @lifeontheround
    @lifeontheround Год назад +20

    I believe your children will be so proud of their Mummy. What a brave brave lady you are ❤

  • @MB-wl2mv
    @MB-wl2mv Год назад +48

    I'm so sorry you're going through this. My dad responded extremely well to immunotherapy for lung cancer. I pray it works for you too xx

    • @truecrimefan1433
      @truecrimefan1433 Год назад +6

      So did my mum she had stage 4 lung cancer told prob have 18 months size of a melon and it shrunk it to a walnut and she is stable and here 7 years later 🥰

  • @The.Caroline
    @The.Caroline Год назад +43

    I’m in tears. Your sisterly bond and the love you all have for each other in your family really shines through. I hope you feel how loved you are, that in itself is a healing factor. Praying for you Naomi and crossing my fingers for the immunotherapy ❤

  • @taceyraulerson1394
    @taceyraulerson1394 Год назад +24

    As a multiple time cancer survivor I know your strength and hope are what will get u through. Keep your family close and make the most of the good days. I will keep u in my thoughts and prayers.

  • @tonyarussell8419
    @tonyarussell8419 Год назад +16

    Why do the loveliest of people have to endure life’s biggest challenges? Sending love, strength & prayers to you both at this difficult time. 🤗

  • @meljstephan
    @meljstephan Год назад +56

    I really have no words. Cancer is so merciless and horrible and unfair. Naomi and Sarah, you both exude such grace and positivity throughout such a difficult journey. I simply cannot put into words how sorry I am that you're going through this.

  • @jessicabellone913
    @jessicabellone913 Год назад +12

    Sending you lots of love and prayers. My mom has had metastatic breast cancer for 15 years now and the meds that have sustained her life the longest has be immunotherapy. Wishing you all the best ❤🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️

  • @jordantaylor8614
    @jordantaylor8614 Год назад +18

    I just... wish there was more to say or do. I am so so so hopeful that you get immunotherapy and that you have brighter more independent days. My heart is with you Naomi, SJ, Lottie, Summer, Lee and everyone else who loves you and has been by your side there in person. You are marvelous sisters and human beings. Your impact on my life and so many of our lives is unexplainable really. Mostly I will be thinking of you and I will be praying endlessly for you all. Praying for those brighter days and memories to be made right now. All my love forever Naomi and SJ. ❤

  • @michellelair3102
    @michellelair3102 Год назад +11

    Naomi, I hope you realize how many people’s lives you have impacted. There are tens of thousands of us who adore and love you. You have inspired me to be a better person, reevaluate my priorities, and cherish every moment of this fragile life. Sending you lots of love, strength, and peace from New York. ❤

  • @sejbomb
    @sejbomb Год назад +16

    I can’t even imagine going through this, but I have to say I’ve never met such an amazing family. I’m sending all my love, hope and support. Xx

  • @sybildarcy9166
    @sybildarcy9166 Год назад +65

    I’m a hospice nurse, THERE IS ALWAYS HOPE ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

    • @marilynroberts6644
      @marilynroberts6644 Год назад +4

      Thank you for bringing up such an important point 💜💜💜💜💜
      Hope goes a long way to make a difference.

    • @tchili1
      @tchili1 Год назад +5

      I was an ICU nurse and have seen unbelievably wonderful miracles. God bless you and am praying for you to have complete healing.

    • @cd9400
      @cd9400 Год назад +3

      Yes! Without hope there is nothing. Prayer and love to you xxx

  • @kjb1801
    @kjb1801 Год назад +33

    Much love and strength to you all.

  • @myhippieheart13
    @myhippieheart13 Год назад +15

    My sister has just been diagnosed with aggressive lung cancer and she has started chemo and radiation. Thank you, thank you. Sharing your journey has helped me understand what she will be going through. There is always hope xxx ooo Sue

    • @Jessnairi
      @Jessnairi Год назад +1

      Hope your sister is doing okay🙏🏽💖🥹

  • @acounterbalance7207
    @acounterbalance7207 Год назад +26

    Naomi, you are such a brave and loving mother. I am buying raffle tickets right now! While I might not be a psychic, I feel a blooming hope that your lungs will clear and the next time we hear from you, your voice will be strong, full of life, with an easy breath. Sending love and and healing.

    • @imogen-rc6lx
      @imogen-rc6lx Год назад

      She's TERMINALLY ill. Please.
      Don't talk nonsense.

  • @suzeiom
    @suzeiom Год назад +8

    Sending so much love SJ, so sorry that you are going through such a hard time ❤❤❤

  • @codacristina
    @codacristina Год назад +5

    Prayers and love to you, Naomi, to SJ, and the whole family. ❤️

  • @nattybking
    @nattybking Год назад +9

    This was heartbreaking to watch and must have been even more heartbreaking to record. I am so sorry this is happening to you, let's hope there is a miracle on the horizon. X

  • @sionedmacmillan4843
    @sionedmacmillan4843 Год назад +1

    I’m so so sorry, you’re both in my thoughts constantly xx

  • @sapphaiysha
    @sapphaiysha Год назад +6

    Hope always ❤ lots of love to you all xx

  • @jynaya
    @jynaya Год назад +8

    Thanks for letting us know how we can help ❤

  • @helenturner8374
    @helenturner8374 Год назад +1

    You’re incredible. Sending all love, thoughts and hope your way 💜 x

  • @naanaa54tq
    @naanaa54tq Год назад +1

    Sending so much love to you guys. I’m praying for you, Naomi. Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing your story.

  • @seandeborahwest4181
    @seandeborahwest4181 Год назад +8

    I have been following SJ for a few years now. I have always loved names and have two adult daughters named Addison and Emerson. I’m always thinking of names for my grandchildren. Since she first shared your cancer diagnosis, I have been praying for you all. My father and mother in law very recently had similar diagnoses. They are much older though. It doesn’t seem fair to happen to you at such a young age. I admire your grace and strength! I will continue to pray for you all from over in Arkansas, United States. 🙏🏻🛐📿

  • @louisecalderwood7981
    @louisecalderwood7981 Год назад +1

    I’m so so sorry you and your family are going through this! Sending love and hope to you ❤

  • @ingridbennett5805
    @ingridbennett5805 Год назад +1

    Thank you for sharing - it can’t have been easy but I appreciate it and sending you all the hope.

  • @rachaelmjennings
    @rachaelmjennings Год назад +6

    Praying for a miracle for you Naomi 💗💗💗 You're doing so well, these updates are so important ❤️

  • @cleoh2370
    @cleoh2370 Год назад +7

    Sending all of the love and hope in the world ❤️❤️❤️ this made me so emotional for you sisters you are so amazing

  • @addyrain6817
    @addyrain6817 Год назад +32

    I have hope for you to fight and beat the cancer again!!!!!!! Much love ❤️!!!!!!!! Strength to you and your family!!!!!

  • @chanelmckibbon
    @chanelmckibbon Год назад +19

    Hope & Science ❤ sending love & light to all of you ❤

  • @darianalexi
    @darianalexi Год назад +8

    Naomi and SJ, thank you for sharing the news with us. We’re all rooting for you. Hope has not been lost. We love you both. 💗

  • @missknisely
    @missknisely Год назад +12

    I'm glad to hear that sweet Naomi knows the power of putting joy and hope into her body. Spend every second giggling with your family as much as possible. Looking forward to the update that you're responding really well to the therapy.

  • @pammysk302
    @pammysk302 Год назад

    You are so brave to make this video. So much love and prayers for healing to you xo

  • @LoleneNiara
    @LoleneNiara Год назад +3

    My heart is with you both. We will be there for you as you have been for us. ♡

  • @isabellemarsters7385
    @isabellemarsters7385 Год назад +8

    I cried all the way through this, I was so incredibly happy to watch your last update and although I don’t know you I am devastated to hear this news. You are so strong. All my ❤.

  • @sarahbiglin7794
    @sarahbiglin7794 Год назад +1

    This is like listening to my sister all over again,much love xx

  • @emmasher961
    @emmasher961 Год назад +5

    Just brought a raffle ticket. Sending you so much love and prayers 💕

  • @hayleybarnes8789
    @hayleybarnes8789 Год назад +2

    Prayers for you and your family Naomi. Thankyou for being so honest and open. Sending you all hope and strength x

  • @isabelburrows7555
    @isabelburrows7555 Год назад +1

    Even in the midst of such suffering, you are so beautiful! ❤️ Praying for you! 🙏🏼

  • @sandranorum6125
    @sandranorum6125 Год назад +5

    I’m so, so sorry. I deeply wish you didn’t have to go through this, and I wish you all the love and happiness ❤️

  • @leahciothhenrici7205
    @leahciothhenrici7205 Год назад +2

    I’m so incredibly sorry you are going through this. It’s clear Naomi and you have such a beautiful bond and that she is surrounded by so much love. Sending best wishes and praying for brighter days ahead. ❤️

  • @Ash-cw8dy
    @Ash-cw8dy Год назад +1

    You are so strong and loved. I am sending you all my positive energy x

  • @LittleLightOfMine341
    @LittleLightOfMine341 Год назад +50

    Don't ever give up! My mother has had 3 primary cancers in the last 10 years (rectal, kidney, and lung) and I myself have Stage 4 kidney disease. I was told just this week that I would need a transplant within 5 years (I'm 53 years old). I'm praying for you and that you can get the immunotherapy treatment. I missed your raffle, but gave to the gofundme. I will keep cheering you on!!! Sending love from Maryland, US.

  • @saraaahreeed
    @saraaahreeed Год назад +1

    Well done for being so brave and sharing your story. So pleased you raised enough! Praying for you and your family x

  • @aslack6624
    @aslack6624 Год назад +7

    My heart is breaking for you. Wrapping you both in a loving hug. You’re brave and strong. Sending you so much love ❤

  • @Meggreene1111
    @Meggreene1111 Год назад +2

    Naomi you are amazing! Thank you for these very important lessons in hope and powerful strength! The raffle looks great, will enter now. Love to you all.

  • @claudiamarshall9857
    @claudiamarshall9857 Год назад +3

    Much love and strength to your family. So sorry for what you’re going through ❤️

  • @RoseMatthews90
    @RoseMatthews90 Год назад +2

    Donated! Praying for you ❤ sending all the love and hope your way x

  • @heartwoodhomeschool
    @heartwoodhomeschool Год назад +2

    We’re in it with you on the hope front, Naomi and SJ! Sending so much love!

  • @almatedder2911
    @almatedder2911 Год назад +3

    I’m so sorry, for all of you, but you’re strong, brave people and I’m sending love and strength.

  • @maggieriley3453
    @maggieriley3453 Год назад +5

    Naomi and SJ, I am learning from you, and grateful for your bravery in sharing this important information over the months. I am praying for you and sending strength and hope from the US.

  • @em28145
    @em28145 Год назад +7

    Wishing you love and light on this difficult journey, Naomi, I’ve been so touched by your courage and dignity. Praying for a miracle for you ❤️

  • @meaghanredahan4041
    @meaghanredahan4041 Год назад +9

    Keep that hopeful spirit going ladies!! You are doing incredibly! Unbelievable bravery and selflessness. Big hugs for you both.

  • @Rs-vk7ij
    @Rs-vk7ij Год назад +2

    I am so sorry that ur going through this. I wish you some light in this dark time. Your children can only feel proud about how hard you have fought it. ❤

  • @emileighmichael5847
    @emileighmichael5847 Год назад +2

    So so sorry!!! You are brave and strong. All the prayers and good vibes coming your way. 😘😘😘

  • @TheLovelypecan
    @TheLovelypecan Год назад +5

    Keeping your family in my prayers, keep strong ❤

  • @madeleinehenry6893
    @madeleinehenry6893 Год назад +2

    This is heartbreaking. I’m so sorry been thinking about you lots. Will keep praying for you and your family and donate xxx

  • @shanialynn8671
    @shanialynn8671 Год назад +5

    Holding you in prayer Naomi 🙏 ❤️ and your family walking with you through this.

  • @g00dnightmorning
    @g00dnightmorning Год назад +3

    Your love radiates. Wishing you both peace and as much time as possible. ❤️

  • @melissaf3018
    @melissaf3018 Год назад +5

    You two are such strong women and the bond you have as sisters shines so bright. I am so sorry and send you all the love on the world ❤️

  • @carolinelvsewe
    @carolinelvsewe Год назад +7

    Beautiful hope is how I see two sisters here. Such strength and courage. Thank you for sharing. ❤😊😊

  • @victoriairemonger3624
    @victoriairemonger3624 Год назад +5

    I can't watch and not send my love, prayers, hope and strength to you all. Beautiful inside and out. X

  • @elliekitchener3339
    @elliekitchener3339 Год назад +29

    Sending love, you and your family are in my thoughts. You’ve made an amazing contribution to humanity so far, sharing your experience, inspiring people to go to the doctors and get checked themselves, giving people a sense of companionship when they’re in the same boat as you, sharing your loving family bond with us. I have donated to your gofundme - we are all going to work together to get you the funding for your treatment. We’re with you ❤

  • @jesshollister1339
    @jesshollister1339 Год назад +2

    You are such an inspiration to your girls as to what bravery and courage is. You are always in my prayers ❤

  • @canadianchick888yazz
    @canadianchick888yazz Год назад +1

    Sending you both so much love! Naomi, you are so incredibly loved and so many people are here to support you. Keep going xo

  • @MsDick-rz7ne
    @MsDick-rz7ne Год назад

    Naomi you are such an amazing, brave lady. Thank you for sharing with us. ❤

  • @carysthomas3795
    @carysthomas3795 Год назад +7

    Don't loose hope Niomi! There is always hope. You are doing so amazingly well! x

  • @goldacristine
    @goldacristine Год назад +9

    I'm feeling so deeply for the both of you, all the way from Utah in the United States. I've love your podcast - the sisterly banter, the gorgeous names, and the fun games. The relationship you have built with each other throughout your entire lives brings so much joy and inspiration to people all over the world. We're holding onto all the hope along with you. 💗

  • @marneylinsell7499
    @marneylinsell7499 Год назад +1

    I'm so so sorry Naomi. Your so fiercely brave and courageous to be so open and honest with your journey! Your whole family must be so proud of you and your fighting spirit. Sending you so much love and strength. My prayers and hope are with you lovely 💕

  • @susanr791
    @susanr791 Год назад +5

    Love and light - I send healing hope to you and your family!

  • @lori2010cancan
    @lori2010cancan Год назад +3

    Sending so much love, strength and hope your way ❤

  • @rebeccajm
    @rebeccajm Год назад +8

    This is so heartbreaking. I hope you get your miracle. You have so much love surrounding you and your girls will be so proud of everything you have gone through to spend a little more time with them. I hope your days ahead are filled making memories with those that you cherish. Sending love and strength.

  • @themripley
    @themripley Год назад +10

    I have no words. What an incredible pair of women you are. X

  • @racheljones7550
    @racheljones7550 Год назад +3

    Sending you so much love and light. How lucky you are to have each other- sisters are so precious.

  • @rachaelr5134
    @rachaelr5134 Год назад +5

    Thinking you all. Love and absolute best wishes to you Naomi ❤️❤️❤️

  • @smirwinina
    @smirwinina Год назад +5

    You have much love coming to you from Arizona, Naomi and SJ. We always think of you and send you love and love ♥️

  • @chontellemica
    @chontellemica Год назад +1

    Sending so much love, strength & hope to you Naomi, SJ & your family ❤ xx

  • @emmacharlotte6538
    @emmacharlotte6538 Год назад +1

    Oh I'm so sorry to hear this news. You're such a beautiful soul Naomi, this isn't fair. Sending so much love your way x

  • @kirstycat
    @kirstycat Год назад +3

    I am praying for an abundance of HOPE. Much love light, Naomi x

  • @lynnirwin6034
    @lynnirwin6034 Год назад +6

    I'm so so sorry. My sister went through cancer, its such an awful thing. You're amazing to be able to speak so bravely about everything you're going through. Wishing for recovery and peace for you all

  • @laurenboyd7199
    @laurenboyd7199 Год назад +6

    The fact you are still finding positives amidst this horrible demonstrates just how amazing you are 😢❤ there are no words , in my thoughts xxx

  • @katielouise1419
    @katielouise1419 Год назад +5

    Naomi sending so much love and positive thoughts ❤ from one Swindon girl to another, we’re made of strong stuff love ❤️

  • @LaurenWithoutFear
    @LaurenWithoutFear Год назад +5

    Sending you so much love, Naomi ❤️

  • @alisona8732
    @alisona8732 Год назад

    So sorry Naomi, wishing you all the hope and strength in the world. Good luck with the immunotherapy. Will check out the raffle x

  • @kayleighorris
    @kayleighorris Год назад

    I have just supported your gofundme page. You can do this Naomi, never lose hope ❤️

  • @Bibliobelle_
    @Bibliobelle_ Год назад

    Sending love and positive energy…. I am so sorry you are going through this. You have so much courage and dignity. You are a bright light! ❤