My Sister Died Of Cancer / An End Of Life Story
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- Опубликовано: 7 июн 2023
- There's so many ways to approach telling Naomi's end of life story; but I'll be true to what we always said we'd do and make the content we'd have wanted to hear. Honest and Open stories that help us prepare for what we were living through. I searched for stories that would make what came ahead easier for us; since she died I've listened to podcasts and watched all the TV Shows. She'd have wanted you to know how wonderful Hospice Care is. How much it was the piece of the puzzle we were struggling to fathom; it's life care, family care, your needs and things you couldn't do before are possible. They told me over 50% of people are there to go home again with a medical reset. But hospital isn't the best place, home isn't the best place - I wish I'd heard this story 2 years ago as it's not a sad story. It's a love story, and real love stories don't have endings. SJ xxx
* hopefully you understand more people were involved in this story including her husband and her daughters and my parents. This is my story only so I only want to tell my part and what Naomi and I had shared for thoughts for this video in anticipation.
We will welcome donations to St Richards Hospice in preference of flowers in Naomi's name: www.strichards.org.uk/support...
This was a wonderful tribute to a clearly incredible human being. Sitting here ugly crying and wondering how you're so eloquent in your grief. I'm so sorry for your loss.
I’m so sorry to hear of your losing your beautiful sister. I’m sobbing right now. Thank you for sharing her life, your lives together, and all of the love for her!
Crying is never ugly when a loved one dies.
Not only was Naomi so wonderful and proud but SJ you should be so proud of handling this incredibly difficult situation with such grace. You’re so very brave! ❤
boo hoo
@@christhomson8924you are a disgrace
Although the curtain has been drawn on this life Naomi will be waiting on you in the next life. Keep strong you had a e tra special bond and your brzve beautiful sister loved you zs you did her. . Xxxx
You helped us name our children. We helped give her hope with the immunotherapy. We are forever in each other's lives. I think of you two often when I say my daughter's name, Aspen Noelle. I'm so glad I got to know Naomi, even if it was online and from across the pond. You both have enriched my life more than you know. Your love is contagious and tangible! Thank you for sharing it with us. We love you both forever ❤️
I'm so sorry for your loss, I wanted to let you know Naomi's journey encouraged me to finally get a colonoscopy, after years of IBS symptoms and next week I have a small operation to remove a growth in my colorectal area, which needs to be removed as it could turn cancerous. It was too big to remove at colonoscopy. I used to be embarrassed talking about these things but now I don't care. Thank you ❤
That's brilliant ❤
Sending lots of 🙏🏼 your way! 🤍
You’re so precious and I’m sorry your dear sister had to go so soon. Praying for your peace.
Sending positive vibes and wishing you all the best.
Wow this is what she wanted - I’m so amazed you found it and understand the courage it took. I’ll high five my sister tonight and she’s be smiling so so much to hear she had a part xxxxx
Whenever I don't want to get out of bed and go to work, rush around do chores, I remember what Naomi said in one of your videos. That she would give anything just to have a normal boring day. To get up and go to work. SJ you too should be proud of yourself for walking through this with such humility and strength, and love. Thank you for sharing.
Agree, you were / are , a loving loyal devoted sister x
My heart breaks for you. You should be so proud of yourself and Naomi for the awareness and information you’ve given others about end of life care. It’s so true that there isn’t enough conversation about it. A persons last steps are just as important as their first. Their last words just as important as their first. Sending so much love to you and your extended family 💞
My stomach did a "hard cringe" when this just popped up in my feed. Having lost 4 siblings (2 to terminal illnesses) now I feel I know what you are going through. Your sis was so brave & having you by her side must have really helped her. Sending you many hugs.
I’m so devastated to hear what you’ve been through. I know the pain of the nights and the hard days that floor us. Thinking of you xxxxxx
"everyone needs a purpose" ... I'll keep Naomi's words with me, she is such an inspiring lady and it's been a privilege to have a tiny peak into her world through the podcasts , you tube and Instagram. All I feel from your words in the video is so much love and peace and I know so many will draw comfort from this now, or in the future when they need it 🕊️💖 thinking of you so much and lifting you up as you go through this journey of grief xxxx
I’ve worked as a hospice doctor and I’m so pleased to hear you speak so beautifully and eloquently about end of life care. Thank you. I’m so sorry for your loss ❤
It’s the most incredible occupation - thank you for doing it. I know you have changed end of life for so so so many patients who represent the 1000’s of people who love them xxxxx
I'm so sorry to hear that Naomi passed away. As a fellow stage 4 colon cancer patient, I was praying for a miracle for her. My heart breaks for you and the whole family. Sending love and prayers.
I'm praying for you as well.
Sending you love.❤🙏
@@sawdust2556 Thank you so much!
@@solarqueen2555 Thank you!
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What a tremendous gift you gave to your sister to help her feel proud of her life. That was a selfless and courageous act of love.
I'm so so sorry. I lost my little sister when I was 28 and she was 25. It's a loss that's just unlike anything else. One thing that helps me is to know that my grief and sadness is a reminder of how much I loved her. It's how I love her now that she's gone. It sounds like Naomi died with such dignity which is all we can hope for. Sending you healing
Yes I feel like we’re inseparable- even in death. As our love was so strong. I’m sorry you carry this grief too - thanks for sharing as it’s an isolating grief being an only sibling xxxxx
Thank you for sharing the end of Naomi’s journey. What a wonderful and eloquent tribute to your lovely sister. She was clearly so very loved and will live on through her girls and through your memories. X
couldn't put it better. thank you SJ and may you be blessed x
I am incredibly sorry for your loss. I lost my sister, very unexpectedly on May 10th. Just 2 days after that, my beloved Mom passed away. My heart goes out to you.
I'm so sorry for your losses 😢
Sending prayers of comfort and peace 🙏
Hugs❤
All my love to you. She was a soul that would brighten up any room and you have been the most amazing sister to her. Until you meet again 🤍💫
I lost my momma to lung cancer when I was 18 months old and she was only 32. Every day I feel such a massive hole in my heart because of everything she misses out on; my daughter growing up, watching me turn into the momma I’m so proud to be. But now, as I reach almost the age she lost her life to cancer… I stop and think of what I’d give to be with my momma in those last moments holding her hand, reminding her how loved she is. I can’t explain to you what this video did for me but I felt so much of my mommas essence in this: this was her reminder to me that just because cancer is horrific doesn’t mean her last moments had to be that way too. Thank you, SJ. The strength it took to share this is so admirable. I’ll carry this with me forever. Rest in peace to your beautiful soul and from one kiddo who last their mom to another, always remind them that their momma is always in their heart.
Your love for Naomi shines through every moment. You left no stone unturned to help her and she received the best care. Thousands of us will remember Naomi in this online community. You have helped so many people by sharing your experiences, especially hospice care. Sending so much love to you and your family in this difficult time x
SJ, I dont know what to say to you other than my sincerest condolences. I started following you because my dad also has terminal cancer and I came across your videos because of the youtube algorithm. I am very close to my own sister also and it breaks my heart that you lost yours. Just know that you have become somewhat of a role model to me, especially as I am currently pregnant with my first child and admire you so much as you are being the best mom despite the absolute most difficult obstacles life is throwing at you. I have watched many of your videos on parenting since discovering your channel and I have gained so much knowledge already. I thank you for being so open about topics ranging from baby names to parenting to cancer and even to death. It is everything that preocupies my mind currently yet so few people (let alone youtubers/influencers) talk about it. I think I will follow you for a very long time as I believe that you have what counts in life and what so many influenceres and so called role models lack: true character!!!
Again, I don‘t know what to say to you other than that I am thinking of you you and wishing for peace and love for you and your family ❤
Thank you sarah: I’ll probably read this 100 times as it’s so heartfelt and lovely. When you walk things, you just know how it is and sounds like we share a lot of the same things. It’s so hard when no one close knows. Then you find someone who does - maybe so far away, thank you so much for taking the time to message me xxxxxxxxxxx
My sister was dx with Hodgkin's Lymphoma at the age of 18yrs old. She fought it until she was 22yrs old. I was her stem cell donor in 2004 and she passed in 2005. I didn't get to say my last goodbye. She was my only sibling. The pain 18yrs later is still there. The emptiness and the oddness of looking back of my childhood. It seems like my childhood was a dream, like it was not real. She is the reason I am a Patient Advocate. I am so sorry for your pain and grief.
How do you become a Patient Advocate?
Xo.😢
A terrible and probably true quote "Childhood ends when grief starts". You didn't get to take your sister with you into adulthood, no wonder it feels like a dream. You will always be with her.
My mom passed from Glioblastoma in February. It still feels so unreal. I’m so sorry Sarah. I wouldn’t wish this pain on anybody ❤
Oh my gosh - the pain is so strong and we just carry it day to day. I don’t think it will get easier as much as life will get easier - if that makes sense - sending so much love to you tonight xxxx
I lost my older sister to cancer when I was 12 and the way you depict that specific grief spoke to my heart. She was my best friend. Thinking of you and your family. I’m so sorry ❤️
I have stage 4 colon cancer and I have two sisters and although mine isn’t terminal, I’m so scared it will become terminal and I’ll have to leave them. This video had me sobbing at your experience. I’m so so sorry what you’ve been through. She clearly had so much love and shouldn’t have been taken so soon. I’m sending you love and healing energy and thank you for sharing your experience.
I’m so so happy to hear yours isn’t terminal - your sisters will keep you and accept all the care and love you give our normally; it’s your time to be looked after - so you have a lifetime together xxxxxx
GRIEF NEVER ENDS BUT IT CHANGES. ITS A PASSAGE, NOT A PLACE TO STAY. GRIEF IS NOT A SIGN OF WEAKNESS NOR A LACK OF FAITH. IT IS THE PRICE OF LOVE🙏🏻💙🙏🏻💙
Yes it is - it’s love finding a place ❤❤❤❤❤
Naomi forever! How fun and kind she seemed, and how admirable in her approach since her diagnosis. We’re lucky you shared her with us, and she was lucky to be supported so beautifully through her end of life. You’ve both done a ton to spread awareness and make folks feel less alone - really amazing stuff. Wishing you more of the strength and resilience you’ve exhibited over the last years as you adjust to life without your sister earthside, SJ. Love to all those who knew and loved her.
I've been following and commenting on Instagram since you first announced her diagnosis, but I still wanted to say here how deeply sorry I am. Your loss is tangible; you're so articulate and considerate in how you share. I hope you feel our love SJ. I hope Naomi felt it. All across the world; she truly has impacted people. She has changed us. I'm so glad there was so much joy; even at the end. She deserved nothing less than endless joy ❤️ Love and support to you, and the whole family
This is lovely to hear. She felt it I’m sure and it means so much to me to hear xxxz
@@SJ_Strum sending hugs 😢 sj love the baby name videos
@@SJ_Strum how old was Naomi
Oh SJ. An amazing tribute to your wonderful sister. I’m so glad you had the hospice experience. I lost my mum to cancer and unfortunately it was only 12 weeks from diagnosis to death. She stayed at home with me the entire time because it was impossible to get any external help in such a short timeframe, at least in our area. And while I’m grateful for that time when she entered the true end of life stage, I was absolutely lost as to what to do for the best. We had emergency doctors call out to us but that was all. No Marie Curie nurse or anything. And at the very end she needed a lot of suction (no need to go into that, deeply unpleasant) and we were lucky to get help from 2 angels of paramedics who stayed with her way beyond the time constraints they were under as we were told that the local hospital were too overloaded to do anything other than put her on a trolley in a corridor somewhere. Thankfully she was too far gone to be aware of the trauma of the situation but for those of you with loved ones who do have time to put these things in place, please listen to SJ. The very least anyone deserves is dignity and peace in their final hours and I’m so thankful that Naomi got those two things. Sending love to you all. You’ve been so strong and now you all need to grant yourselves the time to regroup and heal together x
I lost my sister too. Your story reminded me a lot of mine. My sincere condolences ❤
I’m so sorry SJ. We lost my mum to bowel cancer 20 years ago, aged 59, and I have to echo your sentiments about the hospice. My mum went into our local hospice in the hope of them managing her pain and never left. I will never forget his kind the staff were, to Mum, and to her family. Truly amazing people. ❤
I lost my sister 3 years ago. She was my best friend. It was so traumatic. We really didn’t talk about death in my family and made it so confronting. Sending love to you
I’m so, so sorry to hear that Naomi’s journey has come to an end. My husband’s a doctor and often talks about the concept of “dying well” and it’s always been a tricky concept for me to understand - but hearing you tell the story of Naomi’s final chapter, I think you and your family, as well as Naomi, should feel so very proud of yourselves for taking the end of her life so seriously and helping her to complete her time here on earth so beautifully. Thinking of you all now as you start this new and difficult journey of life without your precious sister, wife, daughter and mum. Bless you all x
SJ, I am so, so sorry! You and Naomi were very brave to share her story with us. I feel like I got to know Naomi through her journey. My sister was killed when she was 19. I was 18. I will never be the same. My father had Lymphatic Lymphoma starting when I was 14. It was so hard for him and our entire family. Cancer is ugly, mean, and unpredictable! My thoughts are with you.
How was your sister killed?
What a lovely story. My husband passed away 10 years ago. After my son and I got through the grieving process we began to talk about him often. The sweet memories that were made in the past never leave you. And she will be back in the most unexpected ways. For instance I just made a major move to rebuild my life and a single red rose bloomed right outside my door. I knew is was a sign from my husband that he was glad Im happy in my new surroundings. May you and your family find peace.
Wow goosebumps ❤❤❤
I have absolutely NO idea how you managed to stay so composed, speaking so clearly and eloquently throughout all your agonising grief.
You have more strength in you than you even realise SJ and I’m so sorry that you’ve lost your beautiful Naomi. What a lovely tribute and your video of Naomi’s story will help others in this situation. ❤
I’m so sorry for your loss!
My sister died of breast cancer in 2012 when she was 41 so unfortunately I know how you feel and what you’re going through. 😔
This was a beautiful way to honor your sister. I very unexpectedly lost my Mom a year ago. She had a leukemia and lymphoma. Was doing great. Then she took a sudden turn.
I understand that feeling of what happened. You were planning one thing. Because your loved one is doing great. And then something out of nowhere changes everything.
I'm praying for you and your family. Grief is hard to shoulder. Especially if you aren't prepared to say goodbye. I pray that you can find some comfort. Hold your memories tight. That way, you'll always have your sister. 🤍
I’m so sorry. My dad went into hospice care the same day the cancer spread to his brain. Which was his birthday. We lost him 8 days later, May 3. It is unreal and unfair. My heart breaks for you and your family.
Thank you for recording this. You have helped more people than you will ever know with this. I'm so sorry for your loss. ❤
SJ
I don’t know if this the first time you are dealing with grief or if this your 100th time dealing with grief but what I do know is I hope you don’t let ANYONE tell you how to do it. This is a very personal journey and it’s amazing that you have chosen to share your pain with us in the hopes that someone else feels less alone but remember at the end of the day it’s okay not to be okay.
You and your family are so loved and it will get easier…I promise
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@@SJ_Strum. I have stage 4 non small cell lung cancer Adenocarcinoma ,,no pain meds ,, in three weeks I go for my second pet scan to find out if it metastasized I’m sorry for everything that you’re going through. Breaks my heart to see somebody like you sad and you’re too young and your sister looked very young. I’m very sorry. 🌹
Beautiful. My sister died in a hospice. I did her nails, I slept there, we watched the television, I sang to her - badly!
It was a relief to be there. She wanted to die at home but got admitted.
I recall all the good and difficult times.
Thank you for sharing x
You both did absolutely everything you possibly could to prolong her life and fought hard to self advocate. You should be so proud you were such a credit to your sister and I bet she appreciated you so much and you were the reason that helped her to keep fighting. Thanks for sharing your story it’s raised awareness to me of how important it is re health stuff and I’m sure her story has helped other people to go and book an appointment or have knowledge incase. She’s saving lives, and her legend will live on through her children. Much love x
This video moved me so much. I am so so sorry but what a wonderful tribute I can’t explain how proud I am of people I haven’t even met. Sending you all love and strength x
I’m so sorry for the loss of your beautiful sister. Thank you for telling us about her last days. Knowing she was still happy, helps. I’m not at EOL just yet, but due to my Hickman line and no immune system, I end up getting sepsis and the last one was touch and go again. They’ve said if it happens again, I won’t be able to fight it. So I worry the end will be really scary and me fighting, will be so hard for my boys. So hearing how Naomi managed to still be happy, fills me with calm. For the first time, I feel calm about it, rather than stressing for everyone else.
Your sisters beautiful heart will never be forgotten. Sending all my love to you all as you walk the difficult path of grief. ❤️
Sleep tight, Naomi 🤍🕊️ fly high and continue to be proud of yourself in heaven. You made a big difference to more lives than you’ll ever know ♥️ xo
That’s the most amazing thing; I’m so glad she gave you that calm and please do feel her with you and her experience I’m sure has been heard because it will help heal the hard times xxxxxxx
@@SJ_Strum I absolutely will. ♥️ You both have made a really positive impact on my journey. I just needed you to know. ❤️❤️ xx.
I’m so sorry for your immense loss. I have a twin sister as well. They say that the bond between twins is closer than “Mother and Child “. I feel it would be loosing half of myself.💔💔💔💔🤷♂️♥️🙏🏼. No words😢😢😢‼️
I could listen you talk about Naomi forever, it’s lovely. How lucky you both were to have each other. I never met Naomi but I’m sure her remember her guts, grace and gratitude always. So much love to you all x
Sorry for your loss! Sending support! Thoughts are with you and your family!
Oh SJ my heart breaks for you all but I know she couldn’t have wished for a better sister. May she be in your heart and with you every day in the little signs and signals always. She was such a special person and this was a wonderful and eloquent tribute to your beautiful sister. You haven’t been far from my thoughts daily the last few weeks. So much love. Xx
My son in law died at the age of 34 from cancer. Whilst the hospital support was awful the hospice end of life care was amazing - the whole family were supported including his two very young children. I cannot praise them enough. Sending you love and hugs as you walk through the grief process. Be kind to yourself and walk your own path xx
I’m so, so sorry for what you’re going through. I actually found your channel because RUclips recommended an update video you’d made with your sister. I was in awe of how positive her demeanor was when discussing something so serious. She seemed to have a friendly energy and it’s terrible she had to go through this. I hope you and your family can find peace.
SJ I’m so so sorry for your loss. Your sister was such a beautiful soul and I know she’s still here with you 🩷
I’m so sorry SJ. What a beautiful end of life tribute. I’m so glad you recorded this while you remember everything from those weeks. Not only for you to look back on but also for the girls. I’m certain this will be a huge comfort to them in years to come when they have questions and are ready to process this part of losing their mum. Sending you all so much love 💕
Hospice is absolutely a blessing. My daughter passed last September from colon cancer. I know your pain, Sweetheart. Keep walking and go at your own pace with Grief..it is a brutal thing..Do not push yourself….I believe our Loved Ones are always with us and are waiting for us on the Other Side. Glad to know you have “signs” as well. May God give you Peace❤❤❤
The Creator is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.
Psalm 34:18
SJ, I came across your channel when I was pregnant with my now 2 year old son. I'm not one to comment on many channels, I have been following your journey with your sisters diagnosis and I'm so sad to hear that she has passed. As difficult as this is, we all must go through it and it seems like you and your family made this experience so beautiful for Naomi. She was a beautiful, wonderful woman and my thoughts and prayers are with you. Thank you for sharing this hard time with us. Please take time for yourself and give so many hugs to Naomi's girls! Lots of love!
I will, I can’t wait to see them this weekend x
I’m so sorry SJ, I can see how close you were and how much you adored her. She was a tough cookie, she fought as long and hard as she could, and I hope she was so proud of herself for everything she achieved. Sending lots of love ❤
Thank you so much for sharing. It’s so clear that you and Naomi had a bond stronger than just the physical being. I’m sure your souls will reconnect again one day. May she rest in eternal peace and I hope that your whole family knows that you are in all our prayers 🙏🏾
I am so sorry for your loss!! Finding the strength to continue sharing Naomi’s story to help and support others is exactly what she would’ve wanted. She will be with you whenever you need her most❤ You have all shown such great strength at such a terrible time xx
I am so sorry sweetie. I hope you and your family are okay.. I will forever be thankful to you, I named my lovely beautiful daughter because of one of your videos. Your sister seemed like a fantastic woman, and you know how much she LOVED you... And always remember that wherever she is now.... She's missing you just as much. 💓
My heart goes out to you and your family. It’s so beautiful to see just how much Naomi is loved. I’m a hospice nurse and you explained hospice care just perfectly. Sending you love and strength x
Thanks you so so much for sharing this. Your Sisters journey with bowel cancer and hospice care mirrored my husband who I lost in September 22. The grief journey is very long and hard, it is also one that will stay with you forever. Hospice care is amazing, my husband wanted to die at home but this wasn’t possible, however his last month in our local hospice was truly something else. The team were amazing and enabled me to spend all the time I needed with Simon. Sending you and your family much love xx
I am so sorry for your loss SJ. Thank you for sharing your story. It’s never easy to lose a loved one, I lost my dad when I was very young. You did your sister Naomi proud and she will continue to live in the hearts of her dear ones.
Much love and best wishes
This is just so heartbreaking but so beautifully said, it is so unfair and I am devastated for you all. You’re right Naomi should be so proud of her life, she has more love than others could ever dream of it just shows what an amazing lady she was and is xxx
I'm so sorry to hear of Naomi’s passing. Sending condolences to you and your family 🙏🏽💐
This was incredibly beautiful. Your video just came up in my feed today, so I haven't known about you or your sister's journey. I wish you peace and healing. You are a very eloquent woman, with visible strength.
Thank you so much SJ for sharing this video with us and invited us in to hear the stories of the end of Naomi’s life. I feel like I can picture the 2 of you laughing in the hospice together, like a beautiful film you watch and cry along to. Your sisterly bond is so special and you two were both so lucky to have each other. I have been keeping you and your family in my prayers over the past few months and will continue to do so. ❤❤
So sorry for the tragic loss of beautiful Naomi. Sending so much love and light to your family every day ❤
Oh Sj 😢. Long term follower here, back to your amazingly helpful speech videos. It’s so easy to feel the love you have for Naomi. It’s utterly cruel and pointless that she’s gone, but from someone who has no sister and only sons, I can’t imagine the comfort and peace she must have felt being cared for so beautifully by you, and also knowing you’re here to love her daughters. I can only imagine how deep your loss is. Lean on your people, let them carry you and you’ll somehow meander through the snow, wearing your cloak of grief and none of you will ever stop talking of her and she’ll be a part of you all, every day, forever. She’s just slipped into the next room. Xxxx
This was honestly the most beautiful tribute to a beautiful person. From your words you can tell how loved Naomi was and how much she loved you and all of her family. Grief is such a personal thing and everyone deals with it differently so don't put too much pressure on yourself because you're healing and you're learning to be able to carry on without her. You kept mentioning how proud you were of her but I couldn't imagine how proud she was of you; you were her rock and the person who stayed by her side through everything not matter how hard it got. She would be so proud of how far you've come since her passing. You're strong, you're brave and Naomi's life and legacy will live because of you and the stories you will tell to anyone who will listen. I know how hard it can be to think of a loved one who has passed but after time you find yourself smiling at the memories, the funny conversations you had and the way she walked through life with a smile on her face even when she was struggling. Remember to be kind to yourself as you will have bad days where all you want to do is cry, validate those feelings because it shows how loved she was. My love and thoughts are with you and your family x❤
Thanks for the update SJ. Although I’m heartbroken, I know Naomi is so proud of you for sharing this final chapter in her life and for giving her a voice, even beyond death. You are both so powerful 💕
I know your sister was so proud of herself but I must say how really proud i am of you and all your loved ones. You speak so lovingly, eloquently and wisely. I have learned so much. Sending you love and strength. Thank you so much for sharing this wonderful tribute. xxxxx
SJ, you are one in a million, as was Naomi. This was such a wonderful tribute to your beautiful sister.
Grief is so hard, I lost my mum and dad by 36, its bloody hard! However their memories, kindness and love carry us through.
Sending you all the love, so sorry.
Never forget how strong you are, even at times when you don't feel it. ❤️ ❤
Sounds like Naomi had a beautiful passing. I’m so happy this was the case. SJ, I am so so sorry that you’re all going through this, but I hope you can find solace knowing that she left this earth in peace. I lost my Dad to pancreatic cancer and his passing was very difficult and traumatic. Sending you all the love! And thank you for sharing - you’re very brave and Naomi is proud of you; like you are of her! x
Sj this is such a beautiful tribute to that part of Naomi's story. I'm sure it will alleviate some of the fears of others who are walking the same path. Naomi's death sounds as happy & beautiful as her life was, surrounded by love. The podcast gave me hope through my trying to conceive journey and pregnancy and I know Naomi will have gave that same hope and strength to others by documenting her illness. Sending love ❤
I am so sorry for your loss. Naomi was an admirable person, showing so much strength through her awful time, and this was a lovely tribute. Sending love💗
So sorry for you loss, SJ! I’ve followed yours and Naomi’s journeys since before her diagnosis and you both handled everything that was thrown at you with such positivity and grace. I’m so glad she was proud of herself, you should be proud of yourself for your bravery in continue to educate people and tell your story, I’m sure Naomi would be eternally proud of you too 🌻
My deepest and most heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Thank you for taking time during your grief to let us know whats going on and try and help others letting them know about hospice care.
Your sister always seemed like a bright cheerful soul and you both have such caring hearts. She will always be there when you need her. Sisters are bonded at the soul. God bless you all.
Naomi’s story has touched so many hearts, but what has also touched so many hearts is being allowed to see your beautiful bond as sisters going through this journey together. Naomi was so privileged to have such a supportive, relentlessly caring and loving sister like you during her time of need. Thank you so much for bringing us along with you both and raising so much awareness, Naomi will no doubt continue to save lives and make people feel less alone in their own journeys with cancer, long into the future 🤍 take all the time you need to grieve and start healing, we will all be here for you xx
Deepest condolences to you and family. The way you’ve extended yourselves to uplift, support, and save others through this devastating journey is a testament to your beautiful, loving, good souls. Naomi was really such a delightful woman with such a bright, warm spirit. I see so much of her in you. Your sisterly bond transcends space and will always exist. 🤍🤍
SJ, yours and Naomi giggles and laughs are forever etched into my heart and memory. I have a distinct memory of listening to the first podcast episode with you two and thinking “wow this is special, what they have is special” and it is. I’m so thankful to have heard your laughs and feel your bond through my headphones every week. I’m so sad that she is no longer here with us but I’m so glad you were able to experience the life you did with her. Thank you for sharing her story. Sending love and light xx
Yes it was. I’m so happy we got to share it and everyone knew her and how special she was. It will be something I will treasure forever and her girls I know will love listening x
I am so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing Naomi’s story. I’m so sorry you didn’t make it at the end. I lost my Nan, my best friend, very suddenly in January. We didn’t get to even say goodbye. I hadn’t seen her in a year as she moved into a home far away from me, I didn’t get to hug her and say goodbye. Grief is the hardest, I hope you and your family all work through it together. Your sister will always be by your side xxx
You & Naomi are so graceful and generous ❤ both an incredible example of how to handle the most massive life moment. Sending peace ❤
I am so profoundly sorry for your loss SJ. Your family are in my thoughts and prayers x I absolutely loved listening to the podcast, particularly the daft games and how seriously Naomi took them! Xxx
I am so sorry for all the pain you and your family are going through and right now.
Naomi’s death is so incredibly sad but wow, what an inspirational woman. Also, seeing two sisters (just like me and my sister) battling through the worst of times together, making the most of every day was so beautiful to watch.
I so hoped that Naomi’s death wasn’t the outcome of your story, life is cruel.
I wish you all healing and strength in the grieving process. You will get through it somehow.
I'm so sorry for your loss, SJ. The conversations between you and Naomi on the podcast always showed what an incredible relationship the two of you had. Thank you for sharing about end of life care & how to accompany someone you love through their last days. Thinking of you and your family.
This is a very beautiful and honest tribute that you gave to your sister. I listened to every single word you said, and while my heart breaks for you, this message will go farther than you know and reach deeper than you thought possible. Thank you for sharing❣💙
I have been so amazed to see such an authentic story of a family and sisters who love each other the way you all do. Because I didn’t have that in my family and when I see it in other families I think ‘wow’ Although I’m raising my daughters to love each other like you and Naomi and I think they will. I love your gentle parenting advice. There are no words that I can say except that I wish you all strength. RIP Naomi ❤
Wow. You worded all of this so beautifully. I lost my dad last year under complete different circumstances to your beautiful sister. However watching the pain behind your eyes of the grief of losing someone so close pained my own heart. What a beautiful video I didn’t know your sister but undoubtedly she would be so proud of you and how strong you’ve remained in this video and the awareness you continue to spread to help others. I wish you lots of love to you and your family on this very long grief journey. There is no words to how it feels and the constant ache but it’s only representative of the love we had for those we lost. You’ve got this 💜
I'm so sorry for your loss SJ. Naomi was a wonderful woman. I know the grief will be so overwhelming but thank you so much for sharing your and Naomi's story. As a nurse I hope one day to work in a hospice and help provide the kind of care that Naomi and your family received. Sending so much love.xx
❤️ thank you for being so honest and vulnerable!!!
Your love for your sister is beyond inspiring and will live forever no matter what. It sounds like Naomi understood life, it’s complexities but also it’s many joys more than many of us ever will. Her life may have been too short but it sounds like it was abundantly rich. Love to you. ♥️
I’m heartbroken to read this news. You are two beautiful and brave sisters and nothing, not even death, can ever take the love and devotion away. Sending healing thoughts across the pond. xx
you shared this so beautifully and bravely. i’m so sorry to hear of naomi’s passing, she was clearly such a strong and kind and loving and intelligent person who was loved by so many. i was rooting for her & i’m rooting for you 🩷🩷
This is heartbreaking but thank you for sharing, and what a wonderful tribute to your amazing sister and her amazing life xx
Im so sorry to hear you lost your sister but so glad she had a peaceful transition. You are a beautiful sister and so was she. It really got to me when you spoke about shared memories 😢 ... I feel that about my parents let alone a sibling. Im proud of the two of you ... thank you so much for sharing. 👱♀️❤👱♀️ Sisters Forever.
I am so so sorry for your loss, thank you so much for sharing Naomi’s story ❤️ I absolutely loved your podcast together- she was wonderful!! Definitely something to feel proud of ❤️❤️
My heart breaks for you. Thank you for sharing your journey with us, I am so grateful for Naomi’s hospice journey-they are angels on this earth. Cancer is the very very worst but there is still beauty in it all. Holding you and your family and everyone who loved her close to my heart.
Oh SJ you had me crying 😢❤ You and Naomi are the epitome of sister love that many don’t experience in their lifetime. Naomi was such a ray of sunshine, strength and love, from the little we had the privilege to know her. You were both so strong through all of this and such an incredible inspiration. I also am one of two girls, and can only imagine the utter heartbreak of losing your one and only sister that you’ve been with your whole life and who knows you better than anyone ❤ It’s so beautiful that you can feel her with you at different times ❤ Sending you and your family, especially her husband, daughters and your parents so much love and strength at this incredibly sad time. Thank you for helping Naomi share her incredibly personal and touching story with us and spreading that awareness. Death is definitely not something we think about until it directly affects us.
So much love to you all from Australia ❤ xxx
My tears are falling listening to your story. You were incredibly lucky to have that sister bond and the love shared. My Dad passed away after a short but harrowing 5 week cancer illness three months ago. He died in the hospice. I can't say I found the peace there you did but I try and make peace with it and how he passed. Sending you healing hugs x
You just did your sister so proud❤What a perfect video SJ. True and authentic and real and composed and graceful and emotional. You, and Naomi, have been excellent models of how to navigate such a trauma. My heart breaks for you and your loss❤ it must feel so overwhelming. But this was so lovely🌹 sending love and strength ❤
SJ, you and Naomi have been in my prayers. Holding space for you to grieve and hold your loved ones close. You and your sister are such kind souls. Thanks for sharing her story- I agree, hospice is a blessing to so many during end-of-life. May her memory be a blessing. ❤
I am so sorry for your loss. I wish there was more that I could say. When I lost my grandmother this year, someone told me that they hoped her memory would be a blessing to me and I felt that was a beautiful sentiment. May Naomi’s memory be a blessing to you all ❤