Why Rejection is Awesome | Jia Jiang | Talks at Google
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- Опубликовано: 26 ноя 2013
- Why Rejection is Awesome: Master the art of rejection to desensitize your greatest fears
All of us can identify with the fear of rejection. Why is rejection feared? What does it mean? Why are we so afraid of rejection? Jia Jiang has mastered the art of rejection, and lives day in and day out trying to get rejected as much as possible.
In this Talk, you'll learn to master your own fear of rejection and how to make it your advantage, how to turn rejections into opportunities, how to say 'NO' and make me a fan --
and why rejection is your best friend.
Based on Jia's life story, entrepreneurial journey and 100 Days of Rejection Therapy, Jia has spoken to numerous organizations and thousands of people on different topics. Jia's life goal is to build a world without the fear of rejection. Speaking to live audiences will be a big part of achieving this goal. He is currently authoring his book about the Fear of Rejection that will be out in spring 2014.
More info at: www.entresting.com/blog/100-da...
“I don’t care about win or loss, I care about making the right decision.” Profound
Joe Rogan has a great perspective on this subject. To paraphrase: "Show me a man who's never failed and I'll show you a a man that's never done anything".
I got to this link randomly browsing on youtube. Gave it 5 minutes and then 10 and then time got unnoticed. An awesome video on Rejection. Glad came through it.
The guy is sharp. Most prizes hide on the other side of the limiting factor.
Is that his quote???
i saved this on my mobile and listening every day i'm out..
helped me a LOT
He went from wanting to conquer the world to being successful and deciding it's better to fulfill Others lives and empower other People.
That's beautiful Human evolution riright there!
he is very genuine, and articulate. He's like the guy next door.
I loved your speech, out of the many public speakers with logical idea here, your video is different in that strong impact of a true personal experience of an everyday man who DID manage to cross, Best of luck :)
It's better to conquer yourself than to conquer the world
Great point when he says rejection is more about the other person and their opinion
Rejection is better than getting girls. I promise you.
Juarez Silva - did you do rejection therapy?
LOL .....Rejection Is a single lesson for self.....Not the blame on either sex..... Its a personal learning.... Jung, have a look at his theory ..think it will interest yourself....xx
Looking back I remember a lot of key times in my development that pushed me to fear rejection rather than openly talking with people.
A great talk. This was even better than the previous one I'd watched on Tedx. Love the question & answer session at the end and the finishing point on being left out from the tribe - it made a lot of sense.
This was an excellent speech Jia Jiang! You have to fail before you succeed.
Not just another motivational speech. He connects. How does the saying go? He talks the walk and walks the talk ... :D
I watched his All his 100 day rejection therapy videos...he is truly inspiration💗
What makes this talk so interesting and popular is Jia's genuine and open attitude .... actually he has become spiritual by going through 100 days challenge and deep research on human psychology.
very helpful speech, this video is very helpful for most of the people in our society who afraid of REJECTION
Awesome! Thanks for sharing your story with the World! I am very impressed with your actions what you've done! I am from Turkey and I am going to share your lovely, encouraged story with my family members and friends. You are also going to touched to all of us! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
Love this video. I really needed it. Thank you!
Thank you! Help me see rejection in another light. Much appreciated.
I have been to China..making Business.I have lived quite some time in the region. My report home to my head quarter was.. we can not make business with these guys, since they are so different and do not work to our European Business Codex. But this contribution ..made me remember what I liked so much meeting this people..experiencing this way of life and this way of feeling and communicating it. So different to my European Culture and Business world... but so human and so nice.
Dude, you are GREAT! =) Thanks for that talk!
Great ideas. Positive thinking. Thanks for sharing.
Perspective is a powerful thing
Awesome talk! Really inspiring ...
I wish Google could arrange for higher audio quality.
Great video thank you for sharing
Great talk Jia. Thank you for sharing this with us! I wish you success with your future projects!
Awesome speech!
Very Inspiring!
Excellent Video Jia!! I needed to see this ;-)
Nice post Cuz, Thanks.
So great lecture ,proud of you!
i need this guy to motivate me after every rejection i get. i get rejection from my lecturers like everyday ... now i know its not a bad thing right
I appreciate this thank you
Very good advice!
Thanks for sharing your prospective and experience of being rejected
Very inspiring video, it change people's life by watching your video.
I will share it accross, thanks and godspeed.
Such an amazing talk
Great video
May I ask for 50 minutes of your precious time ? This request will probably get rejected by quite a lot of people. Nevertheless I just have to ask you.
"Rejection is Awesome" hit me with a lot of familiar stories and situations; inspirational and encouraging ...
May I know the reason?
Jia Jiang thanks to share with us it makes us better I am very sure
@@JiaJiang WOW I never thought you would respond to that. Question: do you still run that company before you started the challenge?
To be rejected by one's kindred spirit/s is sad, of which a possible cause could be the anti-social in our midst, who turn decent, albeit naïve people, against each other.
However, to be rejected by proactive miss-fits themselves, is truly a blessing, because, it leads to the joy of freedom from pathological conflict, now THAT is surely Awesome.
I feel inspired to do this 100 days of documented rejection...
He had such a great relationship with his wife.
Amazing
You do learn something about yourself. Not everyone and many will not like you, but the answer to rejection is Hypnosis. It sounds cuckoo and whack but being reprogrammed is key to facing life more optimistically. USA. 2022.
Cool talk- I have a question about it! What % of the interactions did you videotape, and/or what % did you explain why you were asking?
For those interested, I compiled Jia Jiang's 100 Days of Rejection Therapy into a playlist: ruclips.net/p/PLCWEbQ-Tyu0RwyJo_NYrkGWC-BnojZNQT
If rejection is awesome then my life is sunshine and roses ☀
Just ask!
I am not going to ignored by world
Nice message.
the donuts made me cry
ME TOOOOOOO
Awesome delivery
i would love to reject you Jia! very inspiring. i hope i can be rejected soon.
Well... it is tough especially for highly emotional people.
For me, I would tell myself to not expect too much out of something, be it job application, dating, sports, etc., so the rejection doesn't hurt that bad.
Microsoft was the company that said "No" to him?
For the record, it doesn't count if it is recorded and a public spectacle.
Rejection is AWESOME . . . .and women avoid approaching men .You cannot have this both ways.
To have someone accountable. If you can build a platform where I can call after and share the experience, where sales people, entrepreneurs, join to hold each other accountable for their frustrations, ideas. Most of the people do not want to share this, but maybe a place where everyone can go and share that exactly
That would be maybe adding technology Jia Jiang
Hey Joe
Hey, you should know God, you should know Jesus. Please read the bible. Jesus was rejected so that you could be accepted. Life is not about financial succes. Good luck to you.
+10 shes using a Mac
you tell me how Awesome Rejection is when you been going though it your whole life.
No it is not especially on a dating app hahahaha
38:00
"Talks at Google"
*Macbook Pro on podium*
Something weird about that?
Yeah - I figured they would have a nice Chromebook or something. Google and Apple aren't exactly corporate partners . Why am I having to explain this?....
Ryan Donaldson Because you imply that they are rivals or that it is odd that Google employees would tolerate Apple electronics in their workspace.
:P!! LOL this is a super weird video because I expected he asked 1 or so waman(RESPEC WAMAN!)or dude out on a date 100 days in a row THAT makes WAY more sense since he jibber jabbers so much about pain and shame!! Why fear it?! HMM maybe because the person on the other end of the suicide prevention hotline phone CAN END UP NOT HELPING!!
I've been rejected by every girl I've talked to. And I attest that rejection is indeed not awesome.
how do you even approach them? i literally cant even look a girls. i have no confidence
You need to start small. Trust me try just talking to anyone, like old people in the grocery store, guys, once you do this a few times your confidence meter will be high. Then it will be easy to approach a girl. Try first by just saying hi to a few then actually try to spark up a conversation.
Stephen B. Smith you need to try more ☝️👌
I don't think asking someone to play basketball in their back yard counts as a real rejection experience, b/c 99.9% of people would refuse entry to a madman. What would count is a request that's reasonable, but embarrassing;for example being on foot & asking for directions to a far off street/monument in a different part of the city & pretending that you've checked it in the map, or asking in a train if the next stop is going to be one that was passed half an hour ago. Also having to spend time with those people & experiencing the contempt/pitty/
superiority they treat you with, goes a long way towards making this a genuinely intimidating/rejecting experience.
☼ *Our minds make it impossible to see reality and be fulfilled by it. The present moment with the mind distorting it is not fulfilling at all. It leaves you empty.* ☼
_To get control of your thoughts and negative emotions, be sure to open the present at truthcontest►com as soon as possible. This is the get-away from the illusions..._
Thank you for this amazing truth!
I am already astonished!
Phil Carter I've seen three people advertising this website TODAY ALONE with all of the comments being from over a year ago. I've been to the site twice today and am convinced it's the work of satan.
18.47 photoshop..nah?..
The real take away is people in Texas are generally nicer than you think. Especially if you are an Asian. If you are black and in another State, and tell a cop "can I drive your car?" See what happens.
You are very wrong.
Rejection could be very expensive, blanket check rejection is not wise, we should always calculate the risks.
May I ask for 50 minutes of your precious time ? This request will probably get rejected by quite a lot of people. Nevertheless I just have to ask you.
"Rejection is Awesome" hit me with a lot of familiar stories and situations; inspirational and encouraging ...