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  • @indieaj7
    @indieaj7 10 месяцев назад +154

    I remember my mom had a simple routine for my sis and I along with protective style and our hair was to our butt. When we reached high school of course my sis and I explored different styles and our hair became damaged and shorter about shoulder length . In my 20s I went back to a simple old school routine and BAM length again! Keeping simple really is key. I wear mini twists and on occasion my hair is out. My hair is waist length.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +17

      Hi 👋 sis! Your testimony is everything! Am not waist length but great to hear this from someone who has achieved great length!

    • @AngelaBrookins-ry8tm
      @AngelaBrookins-ry8tm 10 месяцев назад +7

      If my hair gets any longer I may not be able to handle it because I am bra length now and it's a struggle now for me I finger detangle it's not always the best for me because if my get wet it untangled if my hair gets really bad where I can't pull the come thu I wet my whole head in order to comb it

    • @AngelaBrookins-ry8tm
      @AngelaBrookins-ry8tm 10 месяцев назад +4

      My end don't break I never clip my ends and my hair grows like crazy I have always had long hair my mom say go get your hair things I get my cup with warm water a brush and comb she say get your towel because water melts my nappy hair lol but it true

    • @AngelaBrookins-ry8tm
      @AngelaBrookins-ry8tm 10 месяцев назад +1

      😊

    • @tmichele8922
      @tmichele8922 9 месяцев назад +6

      I said the Same thing, having a simple routine even with protective styles my hair grew, now it’s growing slow, so back to basics no longer a product junkie.

  • @AntiHAES
    @AntiHAES 9 месяцев назад +76

    Once I truly understood and accepted that I was a black woman w/type 4 hair and DID NOT have to look like a woman w/type 3 hair, that was it! You wouldn’t see me buying jams/gel/hair glue or anything that slicked down my texture NO MORE😂
    I’ve been natural since I graduated high school in 2016 but my hair didn’t start growing until a little over 1.5 years ago bc I accepted my hair😅
    *I don’t even wear weave anymore*
    My hair went from ear length to shoulder to armpit length, my next goal is bra strap😂😎
    I wash my hair every month, moisturize weekly w/cheap leave in, Palmer’s olive oil grease, and a light coat of avocado oil.
    And my go to style are chunky twists (more like my only style nowadays)😂

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  9 месяцев назад +5

      Sounds like a great routine!

    • @priscillaakivie2224
      @priscillaakivie2224 8 месяцев назад +1

      Do you do diys?

    • @AntiHAES
      @AntiHAES 8 месяцев назад

      @@priscillaakivie2224 Nope, diys tend to not have the same effect on my strands when I do them

    • @priscillaakivie2224
      @priscillaakivie2224 8 месяцев назад

      @@AntiHAES thanks

  • @Loveeveryone-uu1hk
    @Loveeveryone-uu1hk 10 месяцев назад +13

    I felt so convicted when she said you don’t need full cabinets of products 😅

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +1

      😅😅😜you know it!

    • @ebonywatson9939
      @ebonywatson9939 Месяц назад

      lol me too, but I believe we try different ones until we find what works best for our hair thus making us product junkies by default. I think I’m narrowing it down with “get this” making my own hair products.

  • @WTFVIDSok
    @WTFVIDSok 8 месяцев назад +14

    OG here. I used to keep my hair in mini twists. I used to wash my hair with the mini twists in. And then do the same as you, take them out individually and comb them out on a rotation basis. What I found is that, even though I was combing them out (using a comb), I started to experience matting. I have very fine hair that matts easily and fast. Rotating taking them out was providing some of the twists the chance to start to form dred locks. Also, the shed hairs were not being combed out fast enough. We shed 100 hairs a day. Even if you shed 1/2 that amount, that 350 hairs a week.
    My strategy now is to wear large twists and comb them out at least twice a week. I now have many less tangles and I am retaining length.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  8 месяцев назад +1

      I can’t imagine combing my hair that often. the time is scanty😬. I totally understand about matting and locking though. when I feel like my hair is matting, I just redo the twists from scratch rather than recycling the same twists

    • @jasmines.2829
      @jasmines.2829 5 месяцев назад +2

      Yes this ultra fine hair likes to lock up and then break off when you try to detangle. Chunky twists are the best for these fine medium density strands.

  • @larandle
    @larandle 9 месяцев назад +21

    I learned when you stick to just a few products consistently, you train your hair and scalp to receive and respond to it. Sincerely yours, ex bald headed girl❤

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  9 месяцев назад +2

      Love that! from one ex bald head to another 😅🥰😍❤️❤️

  • @LisePlansandJournals
    @LisePlansandJournals 10 месяцев назад +31

    Prrotective styling (with hair added) doesnt equal dry hair. A spray bottle with water or rose water, glycerin and a nice penetrative oil and you can get to your hair and scalp. My hair grows wildly when I braid or crochet braid, with a consistent 2-3x a week moisturizing routine. Then again I do my own hair and I control the tightness (or lack thereof) and I moisturize every other day or so. Coily hair loves glycerin + water.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +5

      If you can effectively moisturise while in synthetic hair then great. many naturals can’t keep up with the moisture routine required to keep moisturised hair while in synthetic extensions and in my experience they can really dry your hair out especially if product is not getting through the extensions into the hair.

    • @namigates6664
      @namigates6664 10 месяцев назад +6

      I tried that, and I braided my hair myself for years, but my strands are soooooo fine that the synthetic hair just shreds my hair no matter what I do. I finally got past my hair plateau once I started just doing twists and braids with no added hair which was about a year ago.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад

      @@namigates6664 amazing!

  • @justbeuneik
    @justbeuneik 10 месяцев назад +45

    These tips are right on point. ❤ I wash my hair once a month. I'm almost waist length, so washing weekly/bi-weekly is a no-no for me. My hair lives in a protective style. Mini Twists are my go-to protective style.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +4

      Thanks for sharing! it’s great to hear this from someone who has seen the results of these habits. ❤️

    • @AntiHAES
      @AntiHAES 9 месяцев назад +4

      I wish I had the patience for mini twists, my lazy ass is lucky if I have the patience for 8 chunky twist(which I would put into a loose ponytail)

    • @justbeuneik
      @justbeuneik 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@AntiHAESIt does take a lot of patience 😫. I have to make sure I'm either watching a movie or catching up on a series this way I don't get frustrated easily.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  9 месяцев назад

      @@AntiHAES really?? What styles do you guys wear?

    • @AntiHAES
      @AntiHAES 9 месяцев назад

      @@CoilyDiaries I style my chunky twists normally into low ponytail or bun type styles (they always are in chunky twists)😂

  • @Gladiator_in_a_Suit
    @Gladiator_in_a_Suit 10 месяцев назад +20

    I agree with these tips! I’m on a length retention journey as well. And my routine is very simple. I co wash mid week every 3 weeks after wash day. And I detangle my hair doing the smoothing method in between wash days to remove shedded hair. This is something I used to used to do in the start of my natural hair journey and for some reason I stopped, and waiting entirely on pre poo day to thoroughly detangle has not benefitted me, so I’m going back to my old routine that made my regimen easier and less time consuming. Definitely leaving hair alone is a must, but in my case if I don’t get the shedded hair out after 2 to 3 weeks after wash day, my hair will be a tangled mess as I experienced recently. Thanks for sharing this!😊

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +3

      Great idea to stop the tangles in their tracks! If it’s gonna be a while before you wash it’s good idea to remove them shed hairs

  • @marianna_9487
    @marianna_9487 10 месяцев назад +11

    I was hoping you'd say NaturalAcademia and you did!! She is amazing. I adopted all of her methods on taking care of hair. The biggest one being finger detangling. Now i can't imagine ever using combs or brushes on my coils.
    And I follow every one of those tips you listed. It's spot on. 👌

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +2

      It’s so exciting once you find a routine that works. Many think growing long hair has to be completed but these women prove different.

    • @marianna_9487
      @marianna_9487 10 месяцев назад +3

      @CoilyDiaries yes. I enjoy taking care of my hair now. It's so calming.

  • @CommeLePapillon
    @CommeLePapillon 10 месяцев назад +27

    Girl thanks to you I ran out and bought some glycerin yesterday. Will be trimming my ends, washing my hair, and getting started with it today. Thank you!

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад

      You got this! welcome to the glycerin club! I will be trimming next month too😉

    • @Abena425
      @Abena425 10 месяцев назад +4

      Glycerin is the truth! Keeps my hair well moisturized for days! Thanks for sharing Sis

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +1

      @@Abena425 welcome 🤗

  • @Shaneka_Kay
    @Shaneka_Kay 10 месяцев назад +13

    Great analysis and compilation of the best hair care tips for 4C hair! I was washing weekly to every 10 days in the past. It did work for me at one point when my hair was at a certain length. But now I realize I need to wash my hair less often as I am trying to grow it back. I'm looking to wash every 3-4 weeks now. At the soonest, 2 weeks. And I think I also need to be sure to use a mild shampoo and shampoo just once for the most part. So excited for this hair journey!

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +1

      Glad it was helpful! excitforbyour hair journey too!!💕

  • @janicereese1955
    @janicereese1955 10 месяцев назад +2

    ❤❤love the video! I'm jus loving it!! Keep the hands out of the hair!.. this sounds like a vacation for me! And believe me, I'll be starting this NOW! This video has actually given me 3 benefits .... great savings money wise, time saver as well & I can concentrate more on my length & strength!! 👏👏
    Thank u

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад

      Yes sis! Hair care should be exciting not stressful

  • @loribridgett-knox2104
    @loribridgett-knox2104 10 месяцев назад +1

    🙋‍♀️Thank you so much for these tips!!❤❤

  • @peepla7
    @peepla7 10 месяцев назад +12

    I fell down the product junkie rabbit hole.... Then I looked up what am I older videos and notice how long my hair was compared to now... And decide to go back to the way I was doing my hair then it was a shampoo or conditioner and oil that I put through my braids and on occasion ...a moisturizer. And my hair was always, always, always up. So soon as I get my length back I will be why my hair down but for now up, up, up!

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +1

      Yap! Hair up club! Love it!

  • @pinkglow15
    @pinkglow15 10 месяцев назад +39

    💗💗 products start to build up on my strands and my scalp starts to smell if I go too long without washing.... three weeks is pushing it for me 😬

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +5

      I understand this.. essential oils work like magic on my scalp

    • @pinkglow15
      @pinkglow15 10 месяцев назад

      @@CoilyDiaries which ones?

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +1

      @@pinkglow15 details here ruclips.net/video/ngxZAIK-Vuk/видео.html

    • @divasstone4200
      @divasstone4200 10 месяцев назад +9

      Everyone's body chemistry is different...some people can smell after a while and some people don't 😊

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +1

      @@divasstone4200 true!!

  • @HalimatMomoh
    @HalimatMomoh 10 месяцев назад +2

    Very insightful.. I really enjoyed the video 💗

  • @JesseeAriel
    @JesseeAriel 10 месяцев назад

    thank you, this really helps me

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад

      Great to know! You are welcome 🙏🏽

  • @AmericanCopperDragonChile
    @AmericanCopperDragonChile 9 месяцев назад +1

    HI! I'm your 1Kth viewer!!! Yay! ...Currently undoing 4yo locs and finger detangling is my new superpower.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  9 месяцев назад +1

      That is awesome! you go girl 👍🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @marajones1828
    @marajones1828 10 месяцев назад +8

    It’s funny how I’ve been doing all these things ever since I did my big chop over a year ago. I went from no hair to Bob length and my hair is so healthy, my routine is shorter and simple and I feel so much more in love with my hair. I tried two strand twists for a nice temporary style and it was fun tho I mostly just wear my hair in a wash n go and my hair is thriving!

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад

      Love this!! You are off to a good start!

  • @nzingak504
    @nzingak504 9 месяцев назад +1

    Hello, I'm so agree with all the tips you gave in your video! I do a lot of them. My routine is very simple (now more than before😅). I just finger detangle my hair when i do my protective style (I love braids, no addict). Simple could be the word. Thank you very much for your video, your voice sounds peacfull and i can feel the love you have.
    BIG LOVE FROM FRANCE💖, merci beaucoup

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  9 месяцев назад +1

      Hello 👋 my French friend 😜! Thanks for your lovely comment. Keep loving your hair it will love you back❤️.

  • @lorettasofowora8603
    @lorettasofowora8603 10 месяцев назад +4

    Hi
    I’m a new subscriber. Joined 2 weeks ago. How I came across your channel was a miracle but Gurl we are here to stay! This is my second video which I’m enjoying right now but the video I watched about hydrating hair with glycerine was fire 🔥 The next wash day and I went for it I order the glycerine from uncle A and it came the next day ❗️
    After conditioning I made the potion and stretched my hair with my hands and twisted my hair with it. WOW❗️first I had hardly any knots during wash and conditioning that I was amazed at the moisture, softness and shine. I left it for 2 days before coming it and wow. I mean for me this is huge👌🏾
    I’ve gone from hating touching my hair because of pain, detangling and dryness to forging a new relationship with it. Guys watch that video again.!! Now I just sprinkle my hair once a while but keep it wrapped up in my silk scarf
    Thanku for the tips and much love to sweet baby. I know how joyful but tiring it can b💗💗💗

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +2

      Welcome to the club sis! I truly appreciate you! Glad to hear glycerin is working great for you too😍

  • @VampiiiresLOoOveuse
    @VampiiiresLOoOveuse 9 месяцев назад

    💗 💗 Thank you for the Tips. Love from Paris 💗💗

  • @ettasargent4798
    @ettasargent4798 8 месяцев назад

    love what you are doing. been doing similar and love it. will add more.

  • @Naturalhealthnaturalbeauty
    @Naturalhealthnaturalbeauty 4 месяца назад

    Great video. ❤❤❤
    Thank you.

  • @humblocd1857
    @humblocd1857 10 месяцев назад +2

    Most videos on how to retain length just say the same things over and over. But yours was so informative with new information! Thank you so much.

  • @sheilagrayman7147
    @sheilagrayman7147 26 дней назад +1

    This is incredible information, here! 🎉
    Stay beautiful.🎉

  • @destinynwaiwu8283
    @destinynwaiwu8283 Месяц назад

    I just Love watching you…. I Love that you keep it 💯 and I can totally relate. Also I’m on your 3months cornrows challenge (it’s my 6th week 🫣).

  • @angelagardener5282
    @angelagardener5282 10 месяцев назад +5

    I totally agree with everything you said. Less is more, and it's working for me. Great content!

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад

      Boom! great to know you have evidence!

  • @mya10121
    @mya10121 10 месяцев назад +11

    You're spot on about the not washing too frequently. Personally, I don't have any trouble leaving my hair and scalp alone for a month or 2. Shampoos are just too drying on my hair. My scalp and hair prefer the build up and no conditioner, moisturizer, or style could replace it. And you're not alone about the oils already in the hair being the best moisturizer, it is for me at least. I bag my hair before working out, and once I take it off, my hair is so moisturized. This is without adding anything. Just steam and whatever is already in my hair do the trick. I don't think I would've developed my scalp psoriasis if I hadn't washed my scalp once a week. I had no need to do it to begin with but I naively believed that my hair would be dirty if I didn't wash it once a week. I'm glad I tried it, but it only taught me that if what you're doing isn't broken, don't fix it; and only listen to people's advice if their hair has similar needs as your own.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад

      Well said!!! Uncommon and unpopular opinions on our hair care!

    • @fletcher373
      @fletcher373 6 месяцев назад

      Not all shampoos are drying and scalp can be cleaned without store brand shampoos.

  • @Jimmyallenbedgoid
    @Jimmyallenbedgoid 10 месяцев назад +8

    Spot on video. I was washing my 43 hair weekly. I was deep conditioning each time I washed, so I didn't see a problem. Bt the reason I was having to wash so frequently is because I wasn't adding enough oils to my hair throughout the week. Now I use jojoba oil daily. It's the closest thing to our natural sebum. I love the results.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +1

      great strategy! I haven’t really used jojoba on my hair but I know my scalp loves it!😘

    • @Jimmyallenbedgoid
      @Jimmyallenbedgoid 10 месяцев назад +2

      Yes it will. You can feel your scalp taking a deep sigh when you pour it on. lol @@CoilyDiaries

    • @jocelynford4209
      @jocelynford4209 5 месяцев назад

      @@JimmyallenbedgoidYess, I recently added Jojoba oil to my routine. My hair, scalp, and skin love it!

  • @peepla7
    @peepla7 10 месяцев назад +6

    💞🌷 congratulations on the baby!

  • @alisameireis3628
    @alisameireis3628 5 месяцев назад +1

    Great video and Well presented info. My length is bra-strap and in late-Spring and Summer, I’m all about the WnG water washing every 2 days and I “leave it alone’. Full wash day at 7 days. In Winter, my strands hibernate in twists under head wraps and I do a full wash day every 2 wks. The habits for women with long hair that you identify are dead on. I have found that the longer my hair has gotten, the more product I need to use just to cover my strands and the less likely I am to mess with it unless I absolutely have to! 🤣

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  5 месяцев назад

      love your strategies to manage your hair 🌺

  • @ebonywatson9939
    @ebonywatson9939 Месяц назад

    I have excepted my type 4 hair and I love it. When my hair isn’t tucked away I wear my fro proudly ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @consciouscrypto3090
    @consciouscrypto3090 10 месяцев назад +4

    I find my hair tangles if I don't dry it with a 'blowdryer,' though in my case a Revair which is low heat and more suction than blowing. That's great for my not getting breakage from the hair tangling on itself or knotting, but then there's a battle to keep it moisturized because moisture causes it to revert. A blowout is generally what seems like the gentlest handling for my hair, but I have to wash every 2 weeks or it gets too dry. Thanks for the things to think about if I want more length.
    Question: don't you find your hair wants to go to dread locks if you're always leaving it twisted and even washing it twisted? I had DLs for many years and all I did was that to maintain the locs. But you can come it out when you decide to and actually get a comb through it?

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +4

      Blow drying is not sustainable for me for now due to the amount of glycerin I use which just causes my hair to revert very fast!
      I have just recorded a video on how to avoid locing. I think you will find it helpful 🥰 look out for it soon

  • @goldennkem
    @goldennkem 5 месяцев назад

    I truly can relate with you eliminating your detangling to few times a year... That's what I am about...💖💖💖

  • @MicaelaPhillips-so2xo
    @MicaelaPhillips-so2xo 7 месяцев назад +1

    Yes...im takn my hair dwn watchn you! Yes..ONE MONTH WASH SOUNDS GREAT!

  • @valeriesignaturesalon
    @valeriesignaturesalon 10 месяцев назад +3

    Thank you,coily diaries. KISS KEPT IT SIMPLE S 🌻
    Your hair is so beautiful empress. I have been a Subscriber of yours for years

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +1

      You are so welcome!

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +1

      Your comment means so much sis! Thank you 😊

    • @valeriesignaturesalon
      @valeriesignaturesalon 10 месяцев назад

      @@CoilyDiaries I truly appreciate you. We need you very much in this natural hair journey. Peace 🌻

  • @iaaeottg21
    @iaaeottg21 9 месяцев назад +4

    Recently I decided to only wash my hair with a moisturizing shampoo only once per month. Not sure if my hair could go any longer yet 😂 But I also started co-washing my hair in between washes. My hair is no longer super dry the way it used to be. I now love looking at my hair ❤❤ I use a leave-in conditioner and seal with my DIY oil.😊 Also, I oil my scalp with my same DIY oil. I'm already seeing growth and my hair looks and feels so much better. I am growing my hair to my hair goal in a very short time and will continue to grow. I hope that everyone here reaches their hair goals fast also. Hey! We should have an incentive contest starting now and into 2024 and beyond.❤❤❤

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  9 месяцев назад +1

      Moisturising shampoos work best for me too!!! Love the incentive contest idea 💡! What did you have in mind?💕

    • @iaaeottg21
      @iaaeottg21 8 месяцев назад +1

      @@CoilyDiaries Where each of us says what our goal is, by a certain amount of time and then post the results by the deadline. Maybe even post one pic for the start and then one for the end (no hair is too short or too long to participate).

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  8 месяцев назад +1

      @@iaaeottg21 love this

  • @pamelabrown8467
    @pamelabrown8467 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks for sharing 😇

  • @mfeelgood7240
    @mfeelgood7240 10 месяцев назад +3

    I sadly cant use any oils my hair simply dislkes oils. Its butter for me and water. I wash my hair with clay once a week and deep conditioner every two weeks with Amla mixed with Aloe vera juice honey and Shea Moisture Deep Conditioner mask.
    This was a massive game changer for me.
    I no longer do protective styles after years of weave wigs braids my hair has had enough.
    My hair use to grow then broke now its flourishing its been the longest its ever been bra strap length.❤
    Ps yes finger detangling game changer too. Your hair is absolutely gorgeous ❤

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад

      Not sad at all!!! Butters can be very effective for hair it just depends on the regimen and what your hair likes!

  • @gloriaaiken6686
    @gloriaaiken6686 15 дней назад

    My hair is really short so I have a long way to go. Thanks for the video

  • @cathiephillaxyo232
    @cathiephillaxyo232 10 месяцев назад

    💗💗💓 my hair shrinks alot and detangling is my first option

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад

      don’t allow it to shrink! causes so much breakage. try allowing it to dry stretched

  • @mirriamkamanga6988
    @mirriamkamanga6988 10 месяцев назад +1

    Please do a video on how to omit finger detangling💗💗

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад

      wow! that will be a challenge as it’s my recommended form of detangling. you prefer to go straight ahead with a wide toothed comb?

  • @esthertjones
    @esthertjones 10 месяцев назад +40

    I would add, that all of these ladies with long hair, LOVE their hair, and speak life and health over it. Hair is like a plant in that respect! 😊
    Also, have you ever watched anything from 22ndCenturyNaturalWoman ? She's one of the OG natural hair youtubers and went from big chop to tailbone length employing some of the methods you've observed. Her channel is a fascinating deep dive if you have the time.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +3

      Great input! I have watched 22ndcenturynaturalwoman. I struggle with her delivery but will find time to watch her more closely ❤️

    • @LisePlansandJournals
      @LisePlansandJournals 10 месяцев назад +4

      "Hair is like a plant" that's true in so many ways! I've realised this and it's changed how I treat my hair in more ways than one. Also, like plants hair loves water (not overwatering of course), sunlight and air.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +1

      @@LisePlansandJournals so well said!

  • @MaryannPeele-trowska-ql7vs
    @MaryannPeele-trowska-ql7vs 10 месяцев назад +2

    My Dear ❤, without question, you remind me of Thandiwe Newton and my best friends. You have such a comfortable presentation and presence. Thank you 💕 again

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +1

      Wow, thank you honoured!!😘

  • @keisharankins6801
    @keisharankins6801 10 месяцев назад +3

    Great info thank you. I have extremely fine strands and have not found a protective style that will last besides a bun. I moisturize and put in a bun without a hair tie of any kind I tuck my ends and use a twist hairpin to secure. I use rose water, aloe Vera or plain water an oil and leave in conditioner. I need help. I am being patient and gentle.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад

      Do you mean like twists and braids won’t last either? how long do you want the style to last? check out @finenaturalhairrocks for more specialised info! also kindly share with us the type of twist hair pin you use!

  • @leslieterry5788
    @leslieterry5788 10 месяцев назад +1

    You are right I remember when young I washed my hair once every two weeks my mom straightened my hair and it stayed that way until washed day and my hair was long and I didn’t use conditioner lol couldn’t afford it so long hair natural doing it right I need to go back to old school ways and see if my hair will start growing better then it does now. Granted I am 57 that plays a part maybe lol

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +1

      Conditioners are overrated in these streets 🙀

  • @thebrilauren
    @thebrilauren 10 месяцев назад

    13:12- I will check out that video next! My only reserve is my scalp. I’m guessing your scalp doesn’t give you issues so your washing/moisture routine fits and works for you. I find that my hair retains moisture fairly well but I find that I need to wash more frequently than I would like to because of my scalp. Once a week is fine for me but when I have in styles like mini twists etc, my scalp doesn’t hold out for long so I end up pushing out wash day to preserve the style and while my strands remain moisturized, my scalp suffers 😭. Ofc this isn’t good and I need to do some adjusting but it’s tough lol.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +2

      Totally understand this! I use massage, manual removal of sebum and essential oils to keep my scalp happy. Video coming

    • @thebrilauren
      @thebrilauren 10 месяцев назад

      @@CoilyDiaries oo exciting! Manual removal of sebum will help me a lot. I produce it quickly. Interested to know how you use the essential oils as well 😊

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +1

      @@thebrilauren you can find the scalp care video here ruclips.net/video/ngxZAIK-Vuk/видео.html

    • @thebrilauren
      @thebrilauren 10 месяцев назад

      @@CoilyDiaries thank you! I’ll check it out 😊

  • @chicitysheba4409
    @chicitysheba4409 5 месяцев назад

    Shea Moisture 4c lady here as well. I dont wash my hair but once a month or less. Hair is 17 inches.. both.daughters hair is 20inches. I rarely comb our hair. protective two strand jumbo twist styles and satin.

  • @maryesther95
    @maryesther95 10 месяцев назад

    The last tip is so me and I always feel it’s the major reason my hair don’t grow well 😢mine is worse because I use my hand to pull out my hair strands and I see them falling out and even see some parts of my hair barred 😞I will try my best to stop that bad habit of mine. Thanks for the tips though ❤

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +1

      We can all do more to put things into practice.

    • @maryesther95
      @maryesther95 10 месяцев назад

      @@CoilyDiaries thanks for the reply🙏pls I would really appreciate it if you can recommend me any hair tutorial video of yours that I can follow because I just started my natural hair growth journey and my hair is still at a very small length. I mean the do and don’t to promote my hair growth🙏

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад

      @@maryesther95 styling tutorials you mean?

  • @kiaharper7172
    @kiaharper7172 10 месяцев назад +3

    I cannot wet my hair when its in twists. It just becomes locked up! But let me tell you, crochet braids have been a life saver. Better than braids for me. My hair starnds break down the shaft with braids. Ive just made it past bra strap in the back but my front is still at shoulders

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +2

      Great progress!👍🏽

  • @esakianne8430
    @esakianne8430 8 месяцев назад

    I really love it,thnk u so much,pls hw do i knw my hair type, like if it's 4c...,i just want to settle following u

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  8 месяцев назад

      Here’s an article you can start from 😀 www.allure.com/gallery/curl-hair-type-guide

  • @novatastic1111
    @novatastic1111 3 дня назад

    Started my mini twist journey today ! Tired of the wigs for now lol

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  3 дня назад

      totally get it!! welcome to the twisted lifestyle!

  • @user-kj5rx7fm3i
    @user-kj5rx7fm3i 2 месяца назад

    I use wild hair growth and keep my hair braided.My cousin cornrowed my hair .I left them in for 4 months it grew down to my shoulder

  • @sandralutete-ranger1951
    @sandralutete-ranger1951 4 месяца назад

    I like this girl-honestly one of the most realest and consistent one’s out THERE with her counsels- thanks for cooking sis! But I do have to say about “human hair” ladies just remember human hair means adding on someone else’s hair and energy unto you….Im just saying 🌻

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  4 месяца назад +1

      We need to ditch the strange hair for sure🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @pragooutube
    @pragooutube 10 месяцев назад +2

    💗💓💕💖 Yes please, i want that video. Could you let us know any drawbacks of doing so and how to counteract them. I tried washing my hair in my twists, but i felt that the conditioner didn't rinse out completely, which means that probably the shampoo didn't either. My twists ate never mini, they're usually medium twists, so about 12 to the back, 3 or 2 on the sides, 6 in the front, so max 25 twists on my head. I won't go smaller than that cuz it'll take too long to install. I also dilute the shampoo and conditioner in a dispenser bottle, yet it doesn't completely wash out of my rope twisted hair. Also, fluff at the roots are left behind, as well as any seborrheic dermatitis flakes (i have 2 spots at the back of my head that I'm trying to get rid of, the same spots that always used to burn when i used to relax 3.5 years ago. ) I also found that once water got on my twists after they've been in for 2 weeks, they will matt as though they want to loc, then detangling after causes definite breakage. If you have found measures to mitigate these issues and still save time- I NEED to hear it! 🙏😅

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +1

      I have a video lined up for preventing the locking. If you have flakes and other particles on your routs what might work for you is to a twist to rinse and retwist afterwards. I know it’s more work but tricky to remove such with twists on. More tips coming!

    • @pragooutube
      @pragooutube 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@CoilyDiaries Yes, sadly, that's what I have to do- untwist to rinse out the shampoo thoroughly, then retwist. It takes up time, but alas, it needs to be done to prevent shrinkage. 🤷‍♀️

    • @pragooutube
      @pragooutube 10 месяцев назад +1

      I did come up with a time saving solution that I've yet to try in the upcoming wash days... I've decided I'm going to use a deep conditioner that can double as a leave in, so that after I rinse the shampoo, I could get out of the shower, slather the conditioner in the twists, baggie it up, give it heat, then detangle and twist over. No need to go back and rinse out anything! That should save me about 30 minutes I think. 😉😁

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад

      @@pragooutube great if you can make it work!

  • @ramahh979
    @ramahh979 5 месяцев назад +1

    My new fav! You are beautiful with a beautiful soul 🫶🏽
    Thank You for The wonderful advice. One thing I’d add is prepooing/detangling with Ambuno (which has cleansing components) has seriously changed the game and shortened my wash day. It helps the strands glide. I See that you also have this in your Amazon storefront. ❤. My hair and scalp absolutely love ambuno.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  5 месяцев назад +1

      love Ambunu. did many videos on it in the past have a look🌺

    • @ramahh979
      @ramahh979 5 месяцев назад

      @@CoilyDiaries I’m watching them all!

  • @thecortneyb.8486
    @thecortneyb.8486 10 месяцев назад +3

    I can’t do the oils and potions all in my head bc my scalp is on fire and my hair doesn’t like to not be be blow dried. It’s too much to try to keep from tangling and matting at the roots so it will be blow dried after washing.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад

      If it’s working keep doing it!😉

  • @grace-v2d
    @grace-v2d 4 месяца назад

    Please give more info about finger detangling 💓

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  4 месяца назад +1

      Lots of videos about this on the channel. Just find the play list

  • @debragainey3231
    @debragainey3231 10 месяцев назад +2

    When my hair is washed I use scurl no drip curl activator moisturizer. Then I put my hair in cornrows. This has grown my hair out. I also use curl enhancer smoothie by Shea moisture. I use the acv detox with the Aztec clay. Talking about shiney and it grows. Check it out

  • @user-bi2th1tu5c
    @user-bi2th1tu5c 10 месяцев назад

    My problem is not having enough slip in De - Tanglers Conditioners...What can I use with alot of slip to De - Tangle my hair after washing it ??? Thanks for sharing...❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +1

      aloe, okra, Ambunu all offer great slip. Another idea is to add olive oil to on top of your conditioner. adding water will also help everything become more slippery

  • @Andiecowa3
    @Andiecowa3 10 месяцев назад +1

    Hi! New Sub🙏🏾💕

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад

      Thanks for subbing! 🩷🩷

  • @dr.carol-annsenah1522
    @dr.carol-annsenah1522 5 месяцев назад

    Thanks for this video. My challenge is keeping my grey hair clean. I live in a tropical country and exercise and sweat 6 days a week. It’s difficult for me to go more than 2 weeks maximum without washing my hair….. any advice?

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  5 месяцев назад +1

      I just encourage people to do what works for your hair. two weeks is not bad at all! have you seen my video on how I maintain my scalp for a month? scalp brushing essential oils etc?

  • @musikalessonswithdonna
    @musikalessonswithdonna 9 месяцев назад +1

    I appreciate your viewpoints in regard to embracing what God created. I also love the versatility that comes with Afro hair of all levels (3a,b,c, 4a,b,c). Not sure who created the number and letter system for our hair instead of just using the definition of each head of hair like other ethnic groups, but ok. lol. My hair is fine, wavy, kinky, and coily. High porous. It will drink in a product, and over night pour it out/evaporated ... gone! lol I love wearing my hair natural in summer months. It's pretty, and it allows me to be able to sweat, swim, play sports, and all the other outdoor activities that I love without any concern whatsoever. It goes into one or two buns, pom poms, or curly pony tails. Done. In the cooler months, I prefer it to be a bit straighter, but with minimal manipulation. So I Wow Dream Coat, RevAir and TYMO my hair every two weeks or so, and just style it in a messy bun, loose with a bang and head band, hair clip, etc. Closing out each day with bee wax and black jamaican castor oil, silk scrunchies, and wrapped in a silk scarf assures another day of easily maintained, low to no manipulation in the morning. I have to say though, I enjoy enjoying my hair, so keeping it in protective styles and not touching it is not an option for me. Why have it if I cannot enjoy it. lol. I appreciate your chanel, afro sis. God bless you!

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  9 месяцев назад +1

      love your routine and versatility with your hair! it’s true enjoying natural hair should be a given but it’s important to note that this means different and looks different for different individuals. that being said awesome hair care 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽

  • @verajones2042
    @verajones2042 9 месяцев назад

    So true....I keep it so simple after realizing those products just don't work for me.

  • @Sondersun
    @Sondersun 10 месяцев назад +3

    Remember that everyone hair is different so what she does may not work for you but you could learn something from it

  • @humblocd1857
    @humblocd1857 10 месяцев назад +2

    What about your skincare routine?

  • @LM-he7eb
    @LM-he7eb 9 месяцев назад

    love the accent

  • @janetnampokolwe7574
    @janetnampokolwe7574 9 месяцев назад

    I want length retainsion but my hair breaks alot and drys out a lot help

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  9 месяцев назад +2

      Gentleness is a must. I have posted many videos on moisture for you to check out!

  • @goddessanjanee2525
    @goddessanjanee2525 10 месяцев назад +3

    I used to get my hair done in a crochet style but I haven't had my hair done in awhile. My hair broke off and came out in spots because my braids where too tight.
    What do you recommend I use to grow my hair quickly and thicker?
    I use hair growth oil on my scalp and blue magic coconut grease on my hair. I started using this grease ovee a week ago before that i used Sulfer 8 grease.

    • @LisePlansandJournals
      @LisePlansandJournals 10 месяцев назад +2

      Hair does not grow 'quickly'. Be patient with your hair and keep it moisturized. Let go of the idea that you need tight styles because that will cause inflammation on your scalp and may also rip hair straight out your scalp. I do my own crochet braids which is my go-to protective style and I dont corn row my hair super tight. It literally makes no sense cause no one's seeing the corn rows😂Try flat twisting instead, and remember to keep your hair under the style moisturized. Water and glycerin. Maybe an oil of your choice.

    • @LisePlansandJournals
      @LisePlansandJournals 10 месяцев назад +1

      For the spots that broke off, get some vitamin E capsules and pop them to get the oil out. Use the Vit E oil on your spots, gently massaging the oil in. Do this twice a week.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +1

      Being healthy is key to make sure your hair gets all the nutrients it needs. Thyme, biotin, pumpkin seed oil are great to help give your hair a great chance at being healthy but it’s great to ensure the hair is already healthy as it comes out. Having a healthy hair routine and sticking with it is also key!

    • @goddessanjanee2525
      @goddessanjanee2525 10 месяцев назад

      Thank you

  • @melvinagdavis6870
    @melvinagdavis6870 10 месяцев назад +2

    💗

  • @ebonywatson9939
    @ebonywatson9939 Месяц назад

    I wish I could do twists in my hair they look better on me but my hair tangles and Matt’s terribly so I have to do braids

  • @matleansmart2805
    @matleansmart2805 10 месяцев назад +2

  • @MissyJ-216
    @MissyJ-216 10 месяцев назад +3

    I’m on my way to long hair. Wow. I thought that I was so boring. Wash,, condition, leave in condition and ponytail.. I’m love Shea Moisture too. 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

  • @rizzymay450
    @rizzymay450 10 месяцев назад

    What about wigs? Can i do cornrows and just wear wigs

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад +1

      You absolutely can. Two cations: I’d recommend a headband wig to protect your edges and ensure your Cornrows are not tight. Keep the hair clean and moisturized underneath and you will be good 😊!

  • @154angel154
    @154angel154 10 месяцев назад +2

    💕 💗

  • @janetmayango4491
    @janetmayango4491 10 месяцев назад

    Any products that has too much glycerin and aloe Vera it dry my hair out but a little bit it okay for. Glycerin on it own it a no no for me

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад

      interesting. glycerine should never be used on it’s own.

  • @sabinafontinelle441
    @sabinafontinelle441 9 месяцев назад

    I can not leave my hair in small twists for too long if I do my hair lock very fast and difficult to move

  • @kindy8500
    @kindy8500 10 месяцев назад +1

    Is your hair relaxed?

  • @SharlaTally
    @SharlaTally 4 месяца назад

    💗💗

  • @melissagoodwin2602
    @melissagoodwin2602 3 месяца назад

    The african threading link is not working

  • @darrionclemmings8134
    @darrionclemmings8134 10 месяцев назад

    ❤❤

  • @laurapetersen3635
    @laurapetersen3635 9 месяцев назад

    💕

  • @thankfulblessed8496
    @thankfulblessed8496 3 месяца назад

    I agree with everything but I’m going to start wash my hair every week

  • @oshundunolajumoke9387
    @oshundunolajumoke9387 9 месяцев назад +1

    Also, they usually be handling their hair themselves. No saloon visits.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  9 месяцев назад +2

      Wowwwwwwwe!!!! This is a big one! Should have been in the video! It’s so important to learn how to do your own hair

  • @LadyKarrs
    @LadyKarrs 9 месяцев назад

    True 💯💯

  • @daishamariee
    @daishamariee 10 месяцев назад +4

    I agree and disagree my hair is to my butt i wash once a month if that. I dont finger detangle i use the Wet brush. My wash day is hectic its the only time ill pull out all the stops for treatments proteins, deep conditions, oils,etc. Im a straight natural because my curly natural hair will be rittled with fairy knots immediately. Plus when its straightened i can keep it well moisturized and detangled with little to no additional manipulation for the month. Summer time ill do 2 strand twists and wash/treatments more often. I cut my hair maybe twice a year. And i literally have a small beauty supply store in my house although i only ever use a few products as i got trough it.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  10 месяцев назад

      As usual, there are no absolutes! I love to hear different routines that work for different naturals!

  • @kimberlythomas2296
    @kimberlythomas2296 9 месяцев назад

    I have of friend she has a dense head of hair at the age of 48 she has never done much to her hair almost nothing!

  • @avansutton20
    @avansutton20 9 месяцев назад

    Glycerin was a game changer for me then i ran out and started paying attention to the natural hair wave when I was already natural with a regimen I regret it so much now

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  9 месяцев назад

      😕 we live and we learn I guess… glycerin is so underrated!

  • @teachaknowles9866
    @teachaknowles9866 6 месяцев назад

    🩷💗💝💖💓
    All Pink Hearts 😂

  • @londonpurses6533
    @londonpurses6533 10 месяцев назад +1

    🩷💗🩷

  • @esthermaina8053
    @esthermaina8053 8 месяцев назад +2

    My hair is waist length...I only use water,wax and protective styles. I am trying to hit butt length.
    You don't next super expensive products. Hair will grow, it grows like nails...

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  8 месяцев назад +1

      Wow 🙌🏾🥳🥳🥳🌺🌺 congratulations! Very inspirational!

  • @keirra9110
    @keirra9110 9 месяцев назад

    I agree with this tips but for me I wash my hair every week or every other week and sometimes I do the mini twist or mini braid or braid or twist out also ponytails or buns. I am trying to leave my hair alone. I don't like doing the finger detangling but I don't like the feeling of hair. I do the washing every week or two weeks because I don't like how dry my hair feels. But for the most part I am lazy when it comes to my hair.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  9 месяцев назад +1

      my recent moisturising routine that I posted could help with dry hair. so do you hate feeling your hair in your hands? gloves?

    • @keirra9110
      @keirra9110 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@CoilyDiaries in my hand

  • @Tlite123
    @Tlite123 6 месяцев назад

    Your hair is coily & beautiful. I dont like the word kinky, they want us to think our hair is ugly.

    • @CoilyDiaries
      @CoilyDiaries  6 месяцев назад +2

      thanks hun. why is kinky a negative word to you and what do you prefer to call it

  • @bisamazajosephine3196
    @bisamazajosephine3196 8 месяцев назад

    I like u real

  • @priscillaakivie2224
    @priscillaakivie2224 8 месяцев назад

    My goal is bra strap length 🥺

  • @Dee-uy3tx
    @Dee-uy3tx Месяц назад

    Indigenous strands is knee length she probably at ANKLE LENGTH NOW😅😅😅Her HAIR IS BEAUTIFUL SHES THE REAL LIFE RAPUNZEL.😊😊😊

  • @gracepotts
    @gracepotts 2 месяца назад

    💗

  • @user-kt4pb3oj6f
    @user-kt4pb3oj6f 5 месяцев назад

  • @BelincaFerguson
    @BelincaFerguson 6 месяцев назад

    🩷🩷🩷