Yes! This happened to me. It was so confusing at the time. He didn't want a relationship at the moment but maybe in the future. He told me that he was with his ex-girlfriend and met new people but he wanted to be with me too if I accepted him for who he was. I felt ao brainwashed. It was like he was at least being honest with me. But I finally left him. I couldn't take it anymore. This is the first time that I heard this that they tell the truth. I am narc free now for over a year and a half. Thank you for the explanation. This video helps me see the clarity, thank you!🙏🏻❤️🌹
There are lies by omission, there are lies they tell, and there's the carefully constructed life they select several people in different places and ways. They future fake you as well.
Listening to this and thinking back to the beginning of me meeting my ex narcissist, he was honest upfront, and I received it as wow he really likes me. He told me about his exes all "cheating on him while he was being this loyal faithful person to them and it hurt him to his core" and he had to put his hands on them even broke one of their jaws and my thought at the time was well he don't have to worry about me doing that to him cause I'm not a cheater. I never cheated on him, but it didn't stop him from abusing me physically, emotionally, or mentally. And he was doing all the above to me
Ya that's what happened to me my wife played me like a fiddle and we got along GREAT until we got married and then it was like someone flipped a switch on her and everything changed so we ended up having a very rocky marriage but I did not put up with her toxic possessed narcissist behavior and she even ended up buying me a shirt with ANGEL WINGS on it and it said UNBREAKABLE but she is not being a narcissist anymore because it all caught up with her and she died of cancer back in 2012. It was a sad deal but she brought it upon herself but remember what they hate in you is MISSING in them KEEP SHINING chosen ones ❤😊❤😊❤😊❤
They lie when the true will do. It's sad and laughable at the same time. Keep informing us, Lee. NPD relationship is like living in the matrix. You crack me up while telling the truth.😊
Yeah - the last narcissist I was with tried to manilla me up front by doing that but I cabby be manipulated. Trust makes people blind, but his honesty just made me suspicious as to what he WASN'T telling me, what he was trying to detract suspicion from by telling me that most people don't tell people stuff like that when they've only known them for like an hour..or even a week or maybe even a month. He told me he's bad at relationships, and someone who's bad at relationships and who's interested in someone without ulterior motives probably wouldn't tell the person that right away - or at all because they probably wouldn't even pursue them out of fear of hurting them.
My ex did that with a woman after we broke up, and within 2 weeks they got married. And she put up with him out right cheating on her in front of her. Took her 2 years to let him go. OMG
Lee you're hilarious 😂 😂 but yeah ex narc said I'm not good in relationships. Another told me a psychic told him he would neva get married....but doing relationship things wholeheartedly up front! They say all the up front stuff followed by a sob story. So we get hooked....moved to pity for them all in several months of the situationship. But great video 💯💯💯💣
😅 this happened to me he baited me made me feel special...and boom downgraded from sky to ground.😢 My husband told me before getting married im v bad guy you dnt know me...i didnt understand because he was laughting. After we got married he told me many people want our marriage doomed dnt listdn and dnt trust anyone. Lee mentioned excat stuff.❤
Thank you for sharing and helping us all. My ex told me in the beginning few true things, I have had no contact with my ex-narcissist for 2 months now for the fourth time so far, I miss him, I know is crazy, but feeling him is constant in my mind.
Nah what’s crazy is when I look back my kids father & others were narcissist but nvr knew anything about narcissist in the 90s wasn’t nobody talking about narcissist it’s mostly these 80s babies
In the beginning he told the truth a lot which lulled me into thinking that he always told the truth. Little by little he would incorporate lies with truth and then just started all lies all the time. Once in a while throwing in some truth. Got real confusing having any convo with him.
The most cowardish ones will lie by omission and claim that "I didn't lie, I didn't tell you , so I litterally said nothing, so I couldn't lie." When asking my Ex why he didn't tell me certain things which would have at least given me the chance to decide if I wanted to be with him, he said: "If I had told you, ylu wouldn't have wanted to be with me." So-not just that he KNEW, because I told him of my trauma and biggest fears, HE decided that my issues were not important, that I was oversensitive, that HE wouldn't do this while at the same time triggering my biggest fear day after day after day for more than two years until I was more depressed and suicudal than ever before. Just for comparison: I have Cptsd and had depressiond and suicidal thoughts for all.my life due to parental abuse since I was very young and he managed to make it all even worse.
As a former narcissist magnet who dealt with them at a lot of levels... The more you move up the income bracket, the less they lie. Actually, many very wealthy narcissists percieve their bad traits as good things that are working well for them. They also are aware that you can do less to them, and there is less to lose. This doesn't mean you should deal with them at all, tho. My dumb rear end was like "aha! A truthful man! Plus money!" Nah, you still keep a degree of seperation betwixt ya. Them being truthful about devaluing you is not the same as valuing you. I am substantially less terrified of these ones, tho, as they are boring and I have never invited one into my personal life. There's no way NOT to do business with them when millions are on the table, tho. So, you just grind your teeth and run
I would ask him what are you having for dinner and he said oh I'm having fried Chicken and I was thinking yeah I know cuz I just saw you with another girl downtown San Jose eating and getting drunk with her hmmmm. Lying about the big things and denying them or justifying it while truth telling about the small things. 😂🤣
You will never gain the whole truth out of them. I don´t write that those people just always lie but clearly they tell you a lot of half truths... You can only guess in fact... I gave it up after one weeking asking about the truth (it didn´t get it and I know I will never get it). For me that was the end - really it was.
I wish I could've got any of this info. Him being honest n phone calls but he just blamed all his ex's saying they cheated on him n he left. He was married for less than 2 years an let her saying she was cheating n I can say she was but I can't speak on the others cause she came out dating his cousin n I was like wow. And once he saw them together he was like I was the best thing since cotton candy all kinds of attention n he made a stupid remark one day after seeing them together kissing n lost his mind n the light switch flipped on me cause I said dog who would've thought she was in a full blown relationship with your cousin. That's the day I should've left n tried after that n here's Mr nice I was drunk I didn't know what I was saying. I told him my mom said drunk men don't tell lies they tell you exactly what is on their mind. He looked n said that's a lie n me being stupid n blind told him proof it once again I'm the best thing since cotton candy some time later his cousin informed me that they were messing around once I got that 411 I decided to leave he was blowing my phone up left n right until we had a face to face cause I refuse the calls. I got bamboozle into going back he had to cut contact with her n little did I know he was working on a new supply to throw me off of her. Lesson learned the hard way never again
Lee you love your wife right !!! Why wouldn't you want to go to therapy for her. lol. But really though. Aren't you going for you and her though ? I love your support.
So how are you still a narcissist if you do all these videos? I mean don’t you feel like this is the opposite of what a narcissist does, self improving, helping others, providing information, not being right all the time. I argue every single person around the world is basically bred to be in narcissist in this day and age… Think about it
Yes! This happened to me. It was so confusing at the time. He didn't want a relationship at the moment but maybe in the future. He told me that he was with his ex-girlfriend and met new people but he wanted to be with me too if I accepted him for who he was. I felt ao brainwashed. It was like he was at least being honest with me. But I finally left him. I couldn't take it anymore. This is the first time that I heard this that they tell the truth. I am narc free now for over a year and a half. Thank you for the explanation. This video helps me see the clarity, thank you!🙏🏻❤️🌹
There are lies by omission, there are lies they tell, and there's the carefully constructed life they select several people in different places and ways. They future fake you as well.
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If you can lie to a person's face it means you don't value them.They are just an accessory in your life.
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They would tell the truth for you to trust them at the begining/ love bombing. Throughout the relationship they would lie.🙏
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Listening to this and thinking back to the beginning of me meeting my ex narcissist, he was honest upfront, and I received it as wow he really likes me. He told me about his exes all "cheating on him while he was being this loyal faithful person to them and it hurt him to his core" and he had to put his hands on them even broke one of their jaws and my thought at the time was well he don't have to worry about me doing that to him cause I'm not a cheater. I never cheated on him, but it didn't stop him from abusing me physically, emotionally, or mentally. And he was doing all the above to me
My narc ex mixes lies with the truth at first and then he finally discarded me.
God, this is so true. Mine told me he was a bum. He couldn't understand what I saw in him. He was right, he was a bum. He offered nothing.
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The nasally narc voice brings me immeasurable joy
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The Roundhouse kick sent me! Lee you’re crazy as hell!
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It’s the demonstration for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Thank You @Mental Healness. I do try to watch every one of your videos but it is impossible. ❤🔥
I literally used to Roundhouse kick all of my exes when they came to the door Lee you are too much I’m dead right now 😂😂😂😂😩💀
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Ya that's what happened to me my wife played me like a fiddle and we got along GREAT until we got married and then it was like someone flipped a switch on her and everything changed so we ended up having a very rocky marriage but I did not put up with her toxic possessed narcissist behavior and she even ended up buying me a shirt with ANGEL WINGS on it and it said UNBREAKABLE but she is not being a narcissist anymore because it all caught up with her and she died of cancer back in 2012. It was a sad deal but she brought it upon herself but remember what they hate in you is MISSING in them KEEP SHINING chosen ones ❤😊❤😊❤😊❤
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They lie when the true will do. It's sad and laughable at the same time. Keep informing us, Lee. NPD relationship is like living in the matrix. You crack me up while telling the truth.😊
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They certainly do, to keep your trust
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Deja Poo, lol. Looking back, makes sense.🤣
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Yeah - the last narcissist I was with tried to manilla me up front by doing that but I cabby be manipulated. Trust makes people blind, but his honesty just made me suspicious as to what he WASN'T telling me, what he was trying to detract suspicion from by telling me that most people don't tell people stuff like that when they've only known them for like an hour..or even a week or maybe even a month. He told me he's bad at relationships, and someone who's bad at relationships and who's interested in someone without ulterior motives probably wouldn't tell the person that right away - or at all because they probably wouldn't even pursue them out of fear of hurting them.
My ex did that with a woman after we broke up, and within 2 weeks they got married. And she put up with him out right cheating on her in front of her. Took her 2 years to let him go. OMG
Wow
Lee you're hilarious 😂 😂 but yeah ex narc said I'm not good in relationships. Another told me a psychic told him he would neva get married....but doing relationship things wholeheartedly up front! They say all the up front stuff followed by a sob story. So we get hooked....moved to pity for them all in several months of the situationship. But great video 💯💯💯💣
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Wait! What? You mean I wasn’t special? 🤣🤣🤣 I love your channel, btw.
😅 this happened to me he baited me made me feel special...and boom downgraded from sky to ground.😢
My husband told me before getting married im v bad guy you dnt know me...i didnt understand because he was laughting.
After we got married he told me many people want our marriage doomed dnt listdn and dnt trust anyone.
Lee mentioned excat stuff.❤
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Thank you for sharing and helping us all. My ex told me in the beginning few true things, I have had no contact with my ex-narcissist for 2 months now for the fourth time so far, I miss him, I know is crazy, but feeling him is constant in my mind.
you’re welcome
Nah what’s crazy is when I look back my kids father & others were narcissist but nvr knew anything about narcissist in the 90s wasn’t nobody talking about narcissist it’s mostly these 80s babies
In the beginning he told the truth a lot which lulled me into thinking that he always told the truth. Little by little he would incorporate lies with truth and then just started all lies all the time. Once in a while throwing in some truth. Got real confusing having any convo with him.
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The most cowardish ones will lie by omission and claim that "I didn't lie, I didn't tell you , so I litterally said nothing, so I couldn't lie." When asking my Ex why he didn't tell me certain things which would have at least given me the chance to decide if I wanted to be with him, he said: "If I had told you, ylu wouldn't have wanted to be with me." So-not just that he KNEW, because I told him of my trauma and biggest fears, HE decided that my issues were not important, that I was oversensitive, that HE wouldn't do this while at the same time triggering my biggest fear day after day after day for more than two years until I was more depressed and suicudal than ever before. Just for comparison: I have Cptsd and had depressiond and suicidal thoughts for all.my life due to parental abuse since I was very young and he managed to make it all even worse.
I was nvr told the truth upfront teenagers didn’t tell the truth upfront in the 1990s😂 💯
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The fake crying 🔥🔥🔥🔥🤣🤣🤣🤣
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As a former narcissist magnet who dealt with them at a lot of levels... The more you move up the income bracket, the less they lie. Actually, many very wealthy narcissists percieve their bad traits as good things that are working well for them. They also are aware that you can do less to them, and there is less to lose.
This doesn't mean you should deal with them at all, tho. My dumb rear end was like "aha! A truthful man! Plus money!" Nah, you still keep a degree of seperation betwixt ya.
Them being truthful about devaluing you is not the same as valuing you.
I am substantially less terrified of these ones, tho, as they are boring and I have never invited one into my personal life.
There's no way NOT to do business with them when millions are on the table, tho. So, you just grind your teeth and run
❤lol way too funny love watching these on my drives. Can relate to the stories and this was hella funny
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I would ask him what are you having for dinner and he said oh I'm having fried Chicken and I was thinking yeah I know cuz I just saw you with another girl downtown San Jose eating and getting drunk with her hmmmm. Lying about the big things and denying them or justifying it while truth telling about the small things. 😂🤣
I’m going lol don’t think I’m stay
This is stuff you are not supposed to know, right !!! lool. They never admit anything do they.
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@@MentalHealness 😘 Bees with Honey. I'm teasing. Bless your Soul though. 🕊 sry
He told me he had a lying problem…
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Hi-yah!! 🤺 🤣🤣🤣
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😍😍😍😍 Yes Yes .
The organized narcissistic abuse in the church is so scary because of how many enablers there are😢
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Good Evening Lee have a Bless Evening 🌆🌆🌆🌆🌆
Good evening
You will never gain the whole truth out of them. I don´t write that those people just always lie but clearly they tell you a lot of half truths... You can only guess in fact... I gave it up after one weeking asking about the truth (it didn´t get it and I know I will never get it). For me that was the end - really it was.
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😂 u ain’t lyin
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You make me laugh. 😆
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I was 16 I didn't know any better. 😂😢
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Thank you for explaining this ❤❤❤-Xclusyph Icon
I wish I could've got any of this info. Him being honest n phone calls but he just blamed all his ex's saying they cheated on him n he left. He was married for less than 2 years an let her saying she was cheating n I can say she was but I can't speak on the others cause she came out dating his cousin n I was like wow. And once he saw them together he was like I was the best thing since cotton candy all kinds of attention n he made a stupid remark one day after seeing them together kissing n lost his mind n the light switch flipped on me cause I said dog who would've thought she was in a full blown relationship with your cousin. That's the day I should've left n tried after that n here's Mr nice I was drunk I didn't know what I was saying. I told him my mom said drunk men don't tell lies they tell you exactly what is on their mind. He looked n said that's a lie n me being stupid n blind told him proof it once again I'm the best thing since cotton candy some time later his cousin informed me that they were messing around once I got that 411 I decided to leave he was blowing my phone up left n right until we had a face to face cause I refuse the calls. I got bamboozle into going back he had to cut contact with her n little did I know he was working on a new supply to throw me off of her. Lesson learned the hard way never again
"Smelling like a used condom "😂😂😂😂
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Like Jim jones😮
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Lee, Lol
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Lee you love your wife right !!! Why wouldn't you want to go to therapy for her. lol. But really though. Aren't you going for you and her though ? I love your support.
Im going for me lol. It works out for us all.
@@MentalHealness tha's hot 🔥
So how are you still a narcissist if you do all these videos?
I mean don’t you feel like this is the opposite of what a narcissist does, self improving, helping others, providing information, not being right all the time.
I argue every single person around the world is basically bred to be in narcissist in this day and age… Think about it
Why when you change your voice to mimic a narcissist you sound just like my Ex🥴😭
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