Surviving A Breakup: Your Ultimate Guide (No B.S.)

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Комментарии • 88

  • @_TheIlluminator_
    @_TheIlluminator_ 23 дня назад +118

    The fact that I’m still alive after all my failed relationships is good enough.

  • @mrstone645
    @mrstone645 23 дня назад +38

    This video couldnt more on point with timing, just broke up yesterday. Thank you.

    • @babyyoda4942
      @babyyoda4942 10 дней назад

      how u doing bro

    • @mrstone645
      @mrstone645 10 дней назад

      @@babyyoda4942 Taking one day at a time, depression is still there but getting better. using this breakup to become the 2.0 version on myself like Clark says. Quit smoking weed for good because of it so i guess its a blessing in disguise, im not understanding totally what went wrong. you just cant actually and thats ok we should not ruminate on what could be and what we did wrong. a breakup doesnt mean youre less than. Smile because it happened. Its better to have loved and experience loss than to not have loved at all.

    • @aidanmohrman9493
      @aidanmohrman9493 7 дней назад

      Good luck dude, we’re right there with you.

  • @jennyhaytch
    @jennyhaytch 22 дня назад +19

    I’ve got an ex I call “Asteroid Boy” because our collision sent me off on a trajectory I could never have imagined. Led to a complete change and total fucking growth.

    • @jennyhaytch
      @jennyhaytch 22 дня назад +2

      “Write out what you would be willing to commit to in a partner in the future”.
      I did this a couple a years back : ) Awesome thing to do. It made me realise how little the “dream” ex was actually giving. And what I was capable of instead.

  • @TreblePvP
    @TreblePvP 18 дней назад +9

    3:44 "Did you sit there and judge yourself for getting sick."
    Me: yes actually, every time. *laughs in c-ptsd*

  • @SerpentStar_
    @SerpentStar_ 23 дня назад +5

    Needed this in my teens and early 20s. Lost a coworker and friend in 2011 because her husband shot her, then himself because she wanted a divorce. We got to LEARN about our emotions or be controlled by them.

  • @11duckedoff1
    @11duckedoff1 23 дня назад +12

    Your personal anecdotes are as insightful as your advice, Thanks Good Buddy

  • @bigpapa2195
    @bigpapa2195 23 дня назад +14

    Did i miss the how to get a girlfriend guide?

  • @masonsmyth147
    @masonsmyth147 18 дней назад +3

    the universe always provides. Currently heart broken, hadn't been on your channel In a little.. and what do you know. A video just for me. Thanks man, I appreciate you

  • @angelvides9158
    @angelvides9158 22 дня назад +5

    Bro I’m goin through it rn, I wanna go back and try to fix things and break no contact but I’m just trying to fix myself first. Shits tuff fr

    • @SonLamTran-ho5su
      @SonLamTran-ho5su 2 дня назад

      you got this bro 🤝 focus on building yourself first then eventually you'll be in a better place

  • @jrjraid9713
    @jrjraid9713 22 дня назад

    great video thanks for the information , very useful

  • @LeaChea
    @LeaChea 21 день назад +1

    Thank you for this. Betrayal blindside of is hurtful. Thank you for this video.

  • @anthonyredden9373
    @anthonyredden9373 23 дня назад +6

    I was good then had a dream, and now I relapsed.😢

    • @matthewjohnson375
      @matthewjohnson375 23 дня назад +1

      Keep going, I'm in pain, so much, I just want a particular person to make it better. They won't do it

    • @JeremyHausser
      @JeremyHausser 20 дней назад

      those dreams really set you back right.. I know them really well too.

  • @CichlidCharmer
    @CichlidCharmer 3 дня назад +1

    Great GREAT video. I am going through a breakup and I feel like I just went through every stage emotionally because of your presentation. Thank you

  • @NeanderthalNatty
    @NeanderthalNatty 3 часа назад

    Completely agree with all of this. I got yoked after I was dumped and now I love training hard. Even though it was the most painful time of my life, I look back on it and feel extreme pride and it's one of the best memories I have.

  • @teresacarapeto7490
    @teresacarapeto7490 20 дней назад +1

    Thank you Clark for sharing this video. You have put a lot of time, energy and effort in this. This will help a lot of people. You are amazing! Thank you for being You!! 😺

  • @SiTao_Huang
    @SiTao_Huang 22 дня назад +2

    Thank u Clark,, very helpful ❤

  • @SaarLeestMee
    @SaarLeestMee 10 дней назад

    Very good advice thank you ❤

  • @alezmbgt
    @alezmbgt 23 дня назад +1

    Love your videos, as always you're incredibly wise and you know how to speak in an amazing engaging manner. And it is cute how when you will share a personal story you ask if it's ok with us. Thanks for sharing all your knowledge, stay safe

  • @Lovereems
    @Lovereems 3 дня назад

    This is incredible thank you!

  • @deliamaria4220
    @deliamaria4220 21 день назад +1

    This video îs the best from the best! I am so lucky that i found you❤

  • @bitman32x
    @bitman32x 23 дня назад

    I didnt see this coming. But as always your content have valuable information everytime.

  • @themotive7502
    @themotive7502 12 дней назад +1

    Well said thank you 😊

  • @seagoddesshealingarts
    @seagoddesshealingarts 22 дня назад +1

    Good Timing. We always appreciate you 🙏🩷✨

  • @greymatters14
    @greymatters14 День назад

    Good advice. Thx man.

  • @nathantrudgill5057
    @nathantrudgill5057 20 дней назад +2

    Use this to realise that this is the nature of life for things in life. They come and they go. Impermanence

  • @michaeljeacock
    @michaeljeacock 23 дня назад +13

    to a much lesser degree you also have to deal with electronic ghosts when people are not metaphorically but actually dead to you. I had to deal with stuff like that after my mother died a few years ago. removing her number from my contacts archiving message threads removing buy gifts reminders from my google calendar etc. obviously this is not someone I am trying to forget but cutting down on the little electric jabs that she isn't here anymore helps a little with the grieving.

    • @yzma6142
      @yzma6142 8 дней назад

      Wow. I have never thought about this. I’m sorry for your loss 🙏

  • @imronlevi
    @imronlevi 4 дня назад +1

    The example with the trash is awesome

  • @BillykOTW
    @BillykOTW 9 дней назад +1

    Thanks… my dumb ass is going on vacation with my ex in October smh

  • @natalieschannel7675
    @natalieschannel7675 7 дней назад +1

    I just had a break up and I accepted he wanted to end our relationship. I just want to stop missing him.

  • @ppt1969scorpio
    @ppt1969scorpio Час назад

    Ur AWESOME ✨️

  • @luissol3964
    @luissol3964 22 дня назад

    Now that I know Monday is Break up day I feel relieved...

  • @lexione14
    @lexione14 23 дня назад

    I need a min by min, day by day guide for my daughter's boyfriend!

  • @Xiviuz
    @Xiviuz 23 дня назад +1

    7:31 and I'm literally listening to "Dead to Me by Palaye Royale" on repeat atm lmao

  • @rockiie09
    @rockiie09 15 дней назад +1

    Please do a video for folks with kids.

  • @sennaalaerts
    @sennaalaerts 19 дней назад +3

    Lol broke up some minutes ago real life saver

  • @TheAverageGam3r
    @TheAverageGam3r 2 дня назад

    Hard to block and remove all that stuff when we have kids..

  • @Shuvangi2001
    @Shuvangi2001 3 дня назад

    50 percent happen on MONDAY! YES YES YES.

  • @11duckedoff1
    @11duckedoff1 13 дней назад +2

    Going back to your ex is like taking a shower and putting dirty underwear on after

  • @anthonyman8008
    @anthonyman8008 23 дня назад +2

    Is your name written in the lambs book of life?

  • @henrivacas36
    @henrivacas36 9 дней назад

    I agree with everything but…deal with an ex-wife after 23 years of marriage and two children in common. I ‘ll survive surely but it will be not easy to struggle. Cheers from Switzerland!

  • @thechzwun
    @thechzwun 22 дня назад

    why you had to call me out sir 😭

  • @sharma3226
    @sharma3226 3 дня назад

    REQUEST - Sir i believe healthy society can only be sustained by healthy family but relationships and cheating is becoming so obvious than we as man unable to commit completely to relationship causes lesser fire for purpose in life. Could you please make all the masculine qualities every man must must have and how to completely stop relationship breakup and cheating. Love from India ❤

  • @prico3358
    @prico3358 4 дня назад

    Bro, 0:45 that was exactly what i was thinking.

  • @paddyfrx
    @paddyfrx 21 день назад

    How did you know I am going through this right now lmao

  • @starryskies1370
    @starryskies1370 16 дней назад +1

    Great, now do one for co-parenting 😊lol

  • @robturner7024
    @robturner7024 8 дней назад

    But she is my next door neighbor. What do I do now?

  • @KritmayPachaury
    @KritmayPachaury 20 дней назад +2

    I had a break up last month
    We had a 4 year long Relationship she said she doesn't love me anymore

    • @drivethrufilmzz
      @drivethrufilmzz 3 дня назад

      yeah, it’s a nightmare. I went through it 4 months ago and I’m barely feeling better. We broke up after 5 years. You’re gonna randomly start feeling okay.

    • @KritmayPachaury
      @KritmayPachaury 3 дня назад

      @@drivethrufilmzz I feel better buddy thanks for your reply

  • @Meeeeeeeee377
    @Meeeeeeeee377 11 дней назад +1

    It’s been 14 months and he is now married…I still can’t move on….what should I do?

    • @aidanmohrman9493
      @aidanmohrman9493 7 дней назад

      Did you make mistakes and push him away or did he just not value you?

  • @jamielle5168
    @jamielle5168 7 дней назад

    Im preparing for a break up 2:40 ;’) I just can’t anymore

  • @raquels4330
    @raquels4330 18 дней назад +4

    I'm confused because in the beginning of the video you say pretending they don't exist is bad. However, mid-way through this is the advice you give -pretend they don't exist. Maybe I'm not understanding.

    • @FernWillow555
      @FernWillow555 17 дней назад

      Okay I noticed that too like what’s happening 😂

    • @SaarLeestMee
      @SaarLeestMee 10 дней назад +3

      Emotionally they existed so don't pretend the feelings didn't exist actually later he means practically in your house and behaviour with Internet erase it so you can heal without reminders all de time

    • @gabe.6273
      @gabe.6273 2 дня назад

      I think he meant having no contact. But I agree he should’ve been much more straightforward.

  • @LindsaySatmary
    @LindsaySatmary 23 дня назад +1

    It's so hard to be sentimental in a superficial world. The memories are hard.

  • @luelmezmure8902
    @luelmezmure8902 23 дня назад

    I thought I would be the first to comment 😭😭😭😭

  • @chrispy7469
    @chrispy7469 23 дня назад +2

    good timing

  • @nerd26373
    @nerd26373 23 дня назад

    Surviving a breakup meant having to break up with your job as well. But for other reasons.

  • @rb70383
    @rb70383 22 дня назад

    Not exactly a breakup. More of a separation, caused by my girl dying.

  • @jpjp9111
    @jpjp9111 23 дня назад +1

    Meh. It's just a breakup. So what. The real hard part is getting a new girl.

  • @user-ii2zr2ho3h
    @user-ii2zr2ho3h 23 дня назад +1

    This is wonderful for young and middle aged people. For older people a breakup is a farewell to romantic relationships 😢

    • @SerpentStar_
      @SerpentStar_ 23 дня назад +2

      What you think you become
      What you feel, you attract
      What imagine, you create
      The Buddha

  • @bummyforeign
    @bummyforeign 4 дня назад

    Thai not Korean😂 ig ask Asian sounds the same

  • @nicholasbrajkovic1710
    @nicholasbrajkovic1710 22 дня назад

    Too much fluff. You need to simplify.

    • @andyxbox1
      @andyxbox1 19 дней назад +1

      He doesn't need to do anything, you're the one who needs to extract what's useful for you

    • @nicholasbrajkovic1710
      @nicholasbrajkovic1710 19 дней назад

      @@andyxbox1 true but I’d do my viewers the gold standard

    • @andyxbox1
      @andyxbox1 19 дней назад

      @@nicholasbrajkovic1710 this is relative. I'm going through a breakup rn and I could get valuable information for every point he made. So think about others as well