9 Months on Estrogen! : MAJOR ANNOUNCEMENT | Stef Sanjati

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  • Опубликовано: 27 июл 2024
  • Hi everyone! Thank you for visiting my video - I no longer do work like this but wanted to let you know I now stream on Twitch and make RUclips videos about gaming!
    You can find me live on Twitch here: / thestefsanjati
    And you can find my new RUclips videos here: / @stephaniepeloza5450
    I no longer produce content about beauty or fashion, or produce educational content around my own transness or traumas, as I have learned I need boundaries for my own well-being. However, my new work is dedicated to creating safe, inclusive, cozy spaces for folks of all backgrounds with a zero tolerance policy towards bigotry.
    Please join me in my new work if you like gaming, stories, game development, game history, sci-fi or fantasy, or you just want to hang out in a cozy place with cozy folks. It would mean the world to me.
    Thank you!
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  • @pinkweaselgirl
    @pinkweaselgirl 8 лет назад +758

    I literally cannot even comprehend how someone could call you a sir...

    • @lionelheisler4887
      @lionelheisler4887 8 лет назад +1

      me too. 💚

    • @pinkweaselgirl
      @pinkweaselgirl 8 лет назад +24

      +oliviaisonyoutube she's obviously so feminine if just baffles me how someone could be so rude. Like I'm cis and I look manlier than her😂

    • @OkamiSamaa
      @OkamiSamaa 8 лет назад +13

      Sounds like they did it just to be facetious

    • @pinkweaselgirl
      @pinkweaselgirl 8 лет назад +2

      +Okami Samaa that breaks my heart tbh

    • @charlottelake966
      @charlottelake966 8 лет назад

      I really don't get it either

  • @oathboundsecrets
    @oathboundsecrets 7 лет назад +174

    Hey, don't be ashamed of having NORMAL arms!!!!! The idea that your arms should be perfectly toned like some kind of robot, and not soft and wobbly like a human being.... It's a fucking lie! Don't buy into it!!!!

    • @StefSanjatiOfficial
      @StefSanjatiOfficial  7 лет назад +26

      I would love for my arms to be either soft or wobbly - they're muscular. :p I appreciate it though, the same thing applies 💕

    • @ravenna9969
      @ravenna9969 7 лет назад

      madonna is a muscular woman too

    • @GeorgiosD90
      @GeorgiosD90 7 лет назад +2

      You mean toned like sexy not like some kind of robot. Although I agree, for example muscular toned arms are the most attractive because they are the healthiest kind of arms.

    • @angiet7380
      @angiet7380 7 лет назад

      Someone's jealous

    • @ashleylong4737
      @ashleylong4737 7 лет назад

      Scho0rschi Q&A.

  • @leoniesauter2248
    @leoniesauter2248 7 лет назад +301

    I don't understand how anyone could misgender you. You just DON'T look like a Sir ^^ If I saw you shopping for earrings why would I think you were male? Why? 😂😳

    • @leoniesauter2248
      @leoniesauter2248 7 лет назад +5

      I just got to the point of the video where you talk about your FFS. I'm so happy for you!!! You go girl! 🎉🎉🎉

    • @leoniesauter2248
      @leoniesauter2248 7 лет назад

      *****
      You misspelled she ;)

    • @quandmeme7200
      @quandmeme7200 7 лет назад +1

      no more than a natural-born Cartesian myself, while children don't want to grow up and like to stay stuck in their fairytale, period.

    • @kittiblu7343
      @kittiblu7343 7 лет назад +4

      tbf, some males do shop for earrings. Stef isn't male, obvi. But, a lot of Transgender and cisgendered ppl shop for earrings.

    • @leoniesauter2248
      @leoniesauter2248 7 лет назад +4

      *****
      I absulutely agree, I don't think it was on purpose, either. And I think transgender people should tell others when they're misgendering them, that's the only way we can learn from our mistakes.

  • @rosalina4852
    @rosalina4852 7 лет назад +73

    tbh, you don't even look like a sir at all??? You literally look like a fairy princess! (not about the surgery, the sir thing)

    • @rosalina4852
      @rosalina4852 7 лет назад +1

      you can think whatever you want, but its rude anyway.

  • @catherinetrewhella5133
    @catherinetrewhella5133 8 лет назад +164

    I feel like misgendering someone when you work in retail is this double edged sword. On the one hand, you don't want to misgender someone who's trans, and on the other you don't want to imply that beauty standards or the product your selling is confined to one binary gender. If they're doing it with cruel intent, that's a whole other story. And I'm not trying to invalidate the hurt being misgendered can cause someone. It's just a tricky topic, when you're paid / demanded to be as customer pleasing as you humanly can.

    • @catherinetrewhella5133
      @catherinetrewhella5133 8 лет назад +15

      *Regardless, I hope you get the comfort from the procedures that you're looking for. It's been so wonderful to see you become more and more comfortable / happy as these videos progress.

    • @lyradicalunderscore3311
      @lyradicalunderscore3311 8 лет назад

      Valid point.

    • @madiis18account
      @madiis18account 8 лет назад +34

      you could just like, not used gendered language at all

    • @jenaya632
      @jenaya632 8 лет назад +19

      in some places you're trained to use words like sir and ma'am though, and you can get in trouble if you don't use them. ridiculous, i know, but it does happen.

    • @SamiHottChick123
      @SamiHottChick123 8 лет назад +10

      If you're not sure then don't use gendered language. Even if you're "trained" to use certain words, no employer will be upset with you for not offending a customer.

  • @brendanbush2174
    @brendanbush2174 7 лет назад +267

    How does she get misgendered? She looks very feminine

    • @brendanbush2174
      @brendanbush2174 7 лет назад +4

      Go for that surgery! You can do it!

    • @GeorgiosD90
      @GeorgiosD90 7 лет назад +10

      Well, you cannot tell just by looking at her face in a video.

    • @azhrayharris8
      @azhrayharris8 7 лет назад +7

      The woman was probably going off of body shape more than makeup and hair. Nine months is a long time, but it won't get rid of the "v" guys have.

    • @cdickenson64
      @cdickenson64 7 лет назад

      From the pictures on this channel, she has always looked feminine.

  • @echervey
    @echervey 7 лет назад +109

    I'm so happy for her! Such a gorgeous face and now she's just gonna feel even more confident I'm so happy

    • @boyfriend23
      @boyfriend23 7 лет назад +9

      I'm happy she's happy and your happy. YAAY for happy! ^^

    • @55nova
      @55nova 7 лет назад +2

      1buffyhutch she's not but ok

    • @futurezawyer8422
      @futurezawyer8422 7 лет назад

      well born yes lookin no

    • @echervey
      @echervey 7 лет назад +2

      1buffyhutch well biologically male yes but she's a girl and I'm not having this discussion lmao. If you don't believe in GID then why are you watching her videos

  • @dreamsicle3113
    @dreamsicle3113 7 лет назад +8

    what gets me is that I'm sure the hot topic employee was looking crusty and Stef was looking like class.

  • @eveashbrook9151
    @eveashbrook9151 8 лет назад +114

    Oh my gosh you are so beautiful, gorgeous, and you are such a HUGE role model for me. I am so so proud of you! I've been watching you for just about 9 months and to be able to be here while you have gone through this journey. Again I am proud of you and love you girl!!!!!!!!!

  • @AngelinaKlair
    @AngelinaKlair 8 лет назад +84

    Congrats! So happy for you!!

  • @TheBowTieCat
    @TheBowTieCat 7 лет назад +29

    why don't people just avoid gendered terms in customer service period.

    • @gollyanger9193
      @gollyanger9193 7 лет назад +5

      it's a formal thing. but otherwise i do agree.

    • @Camopartykei
      @Camopartykei 7 лет назад +3

      when I worked in retail, if I had any doubt whatsoever I wouldn't use gendered terms. its simple but people do it anyway????

  • @smolsquirrel
    @smolsquirrel 7 лет назад +6

    If you are nervous about bra shopping, a way to find out your size is to take measuring tape, and measure around your rip cage and along your back... the inches would be your band size. To find out your cup size, measuring tape around your chest and back *MINUS* the measurement of your rip cage. Do the same measurement on your chest leaning forward, and minus the rib cage measurement. The average between the two will be your cup size 1 inch difference is A, 2 inch difference is B, 3 inch difference is C... and so forth.
    Example: my rib cage is 28. Measurements around my chest are 32, but leaning forward, the measurement around my chest is 33. Average is 32.5, then! So 32.5- 28 = 4.5. 4 inches means D, half an inch means DD. Therefore - I am 28DD.
    Hopefully this information helps, or eventually helps C:

  • @Ahsan-RN
    @Ahsan-RN 7 лет назад +123

    and I am here tryna get rid of estrogen 😛

    • @torifletcher474
      @torifletcher474 7 лет назад +25

      And then you got the gender fluid over here like WHAT IS HAPPENING WHAT AM I SOMEONE SEND HELP

    • @thing7269
      @thing7269 7 лет назад +1

      loll same

    • @jacerlab
      @jacerlab 7 лет назад

      Same 😂

    • @dashah9
      @dashah9 7 лет назад +4

      give me yours dude literally 😭😭 I'll love you my testosterone

    • @finnsuglycorner2099
      @finnsuglycorner2099 7 лет назад

      Sameeee

  • @JupiterJulia
    @JupiterJulia 7 лет назад +163

    I don't think she looks like a man at all tbh

    • @brit8737
      @brit8737 7 лет назад +34

      For real though. She looks pretty feminine to me. Idk how someone would misgender her.

    • @torrisimon4315
      @torrisimon4315 7 лет назад +13

      seriously tho.... I keep forgetting she is in transition .... there are times where I'm listening to her and I'm like WHY IN THE FUCK DO YOU NEED THIS? lol
      but I'm so happy that she's happy.
      I can't wait to see the results and see how happy she is with them!!!! I'm so excited for her!!!

    • @kitten_purrrs73
      @kitten_purrrs73 7 лет назад +2

      +friendly egg me either .. i think the person was just being an *** ..

    • @xjustmekaileyx14
      @xjustmekaileyx14 7 лет назад +2

      i know him and he was always weird...

    • @GeorgiosD90
      @GeorgiosD90 7 лет назад

      Because you can really tell just by looking at her face in a video. LOL

  • @KarliAnderson05
    @KarliAnderson05 7 лет назад

    I'm so beyond excited for you!! As someone who is struggling through my own battles (chronic 24/7 pain, likely for rest of life), I've enjoyed watching your videos and keeping up with your progress. It helps to bring me out of my world. It's awesome to see such happiness!

  • @diannplautz1321
    @diannplautz1321 7 лет назад

    I'm soon super excited for you. I'll be watching and praying for you. for a swift recovery, and that you have as little pain as possible. I love you for your courage and strength. never lose that!

  • @ab3978
    @ab3978 8 лет назад +65

    OK your camera is hella out of focus and I can't see how cute you look if it's blurry. Ps. If I knew you as a friend like in real life, I'd go bra shopping with you. Don't be scared to go in! Everyone gets scared going in to a bra store (like young girls who are getting their first bras always do!) once you're in, you go back with more confidence! Love you~

    • @nekkobat6876
      @nekkobat6876 7 лет назад +10

      That's a problem with your own device then, because the video is crispy clear for me. Don't blame her when it was probably your wireless connection

    • @LibraHellreader
      @LibraHellreader 7 лет назад +6

      Nah, me too, it blurs a bit at a point in the video

    • @filoral
      @filoral 7 лет назад +9

      i thought i was the only one who noticed

    • @sarahlouise6776
      @sarahlouise6776 7 лет назад +7

      Nope, definitely out of focus.

  • @courtneylee2187
    @courtneylee2187 7 лет назад +164

    baby girl... all girls hate their arms if they aren't stick thin.... your not alone. I haaaaaate mine lol. tis life.

    • @matuballon
      @matuballon 7 лет назад +1

      true

    • @KC-pp8xd
      @KC-pp8xd 7 лет назад +5

      I hate my arms because they're stick thin xD

    • @courtneylee2187
      @courtneylee2187 7 лет назад +7

      +Kai Senpai we can't win lmao

    • @jessicapayne6552
      @jessicapayne6552 7 лет назад

      OOOKAAYY!! That's what I was sayin' I friggin hate my arms from the side LOL

    • @uglydawgy
      @uglydawgy 7 лет назад

      My arms are stick thin and it makes my torso look fat so idk

  • @otakub3atz2397
    @otakub3atz2397 7 лет назад

    I'm so excited and worried for you. I hope the procedure goes well!!! Good Luck!

  • @lauralboney4504
    @lauralboney4504 7 лет назад

    I haven't seen you since your 4 months on estrogen update.... I've always thought you were beautiful and amazing long before you started the stuff. But I can't believe the changes you've made. I'm so proud of you. I'm so immensely happy for you to get the things you've always wanted done. It's been really awesome and a privilege to follow you and watch you become who you've always been..... I really hope you let us take this journey with you leading up to the surgery and postop the healing I want to see it all be there for it all. Wishing you the best. Xoxo

  • @lorigirl65
    @lorigirl65 8 лет назад +217

    What??? You DO NOT look like a SIR! DUH!!

    • @meganelizabethgarwood3990
      @meganelizabethgarwood3990 8 лет назад +50

      That's what I thought. If I had not watched her videos and saw her in a shop I would have no idea she was trans.

    • @BaconBabe87
      @BaconBabe87 8 лет назад +12

      The girl was probably jealous of how fabulous stef looks ;)

    • @deadcarnivora8648
      @deadcarnivora8648 8 лет назад +7

      she probably made an honest mistake knowing Stef was a girl but accidently saying sir I've accidently said sir once or twice I wouldn't assume the girl was trying to diss Stef

  • @delaneym.7412
    @delaneym.7412 7 лет назад +15

    I don't even know how anyone could misgender you unless they knew exactly who you are or didn't realize you were a girl if you were wearing masc clothes and they saw you from behind and you had a masc haircut. So ridiculous that people are like this. I love you so much and I'm so excited that you're getting your FFS, keep it going!

    • @delaneym.7412
      @delaneym.7412 7 лет назад +4

      BTDubs, it's totally okay to be a muscular girl! As a Pre-T trans man I genuinely understand the dysphoria that can come from having arms that don't match the rest of you, but there are so many strong women out there like Kacey Katanzarro (I hope I spelled her name at least half right) who are American ninja warriors. I know this won't alleviate dysphoria but I just wanted you to know that your arms are great no matter what, as silly as that sounds. I don't remember exactly how I got my arms "feminine," I guess mostly just through kind of cruddy genetics, but if I find any ways I'll absolutely tweet them to you because I want you to be as comfortable in your body as you possibly can be. So so so much love

  • @iggystardustt6943
    @iggystardustt6943 7 лет назад

    I am so, so happy for you! I love seeing your updates and I love knowing that things are going relatively smoothly with your transition! You're beautiful and ily!

  • @lesisalwaysmore
    @lesisalwaysmore 7 лет назад

    I am so happy for you! I have watched you before you started your transition. I have always loved your personality. also we have from what I learned similar interests, and are both from the same area from what I have learnt. I hope everything goes smoothly and with the doctor you have found there is no doubt in that! your fan base will be with you 100% and we all can wait to see the results!

  • @starrats444
    @starrats444 8 лет назад +134

    YESSSSSS MOMMMMMMM

  • @nixiberry
    @nixiberry 8 лет назад +86

    When you said 'I really want fifty pounds of underwear' I was like 'yeah Victoria's Secret is really expensive' but then I remembered you're not English so you meant 50lbs not £50. Still tru tho..

    • @mariekt313
      @mariekt313 8 лет назад

      😂!

    • @fionapeddie9825
      @fionapeddie9825 8 лет назад

      Ikr!!!

    • @21MaMaBeAr22
      @21MaMaBeAr22 8 лет назад +1

      Being from England I too thought she ment £50 not 50lb lol

    • @charlee2149
      @charlee2149 8 лет назад +1

      +RainbowKittyy 95 I'm from England and thought that too lol

  • @roorooroo368
    @roorooroo368 7 лет назад +3

    Smiled all the way through this video. Your excitement for the surgery is getting me so so excited!!

  • @danahayes07
    @danahayes07 7 лет назад

    AIIEEEE!!! Stupid excited for you! Yes, PLEASE leave the crowd funding open, I want to help! I was wondering how you were doing this month and I am so happy to see your excitement (although less excited knowing that surgery is gonna be a major PAIN). I hope you get a little chance to explore Boston too- great city and super fun.
    PS- as usual, thanks for that little rapid-fire pep talk at the end! Sometimes it's just really nice to hear that. Back at you, your rock star goddess!

  • @EvalineBelle
    @EvalineBelle 8 лет назад +87

    i am SO happy for you! Boston is only an hour away from me, do you think you'd have time for a quick meetup?!

    • @StefSanjatiOfficial
      @StefSanjatiOfficial  8 лет назад +21

      I hope so! I would like to, but we'll see~

    • @kylieadams1634
      @kylieadams1634 8 лет назад

      Im confused i literally want to get everything you want to get but, do you have to take the Estrogen? Im also transgender im just wondering

    • @emmaversace4329
      @emmaversace4329 8 лет назад

      +Kylie Summers im not an expert dont take my word i might be wrong but i dont think you need hrt for ffs, hrt might help but i dont think its mandatory.

    • @kylieadams1634
      @kylieadams1634 8 лет назад

      Ok thanks for the help! Queen Emma​

    • @JulieUlie
      @JulieUlie 8 лет назад +2

      HRT Changes the fat redistribution of your face, this means it will look more rounded and cute.
      Whether you have HRT or not, you can have these surgeries done. HRT Doesn't affect bones.
      (Probably wanna wait for HRT though before you make decisions like surgery)

  • @50sRockChick
    @50sRockChick 8 лет назад +86

    Congratulations on your surgery date. As for the woman in shop how bloody rude. You look female and why would she even say that. :(

    • @wowazowgirl
      @wowazowgirl 8 лет назад +4

      i thought the same thing. she is 100% female, no doubt.

    • @emilyhancock3456
      @emilyhancock3456 8 лет назад +13

      And even if she didn't necessarily pass, the woman still shouldn't have assumed

    • @leviadams6587
      @leviadams6587 8 лет назад

      because people are mostly out with good intentions and make mistakes. now days we have plenty of males walking around in full faced make up because society has opened up a lot and most people are thankful for that. she called her sir because she made a mistake. it was an accident

    • @leviadams6587
      @leviadams6587 8 лет назад +2

      I'm sure Stef nicely corrected her and the girl understood and most likely said sorry.

    • @emilyhancock3456
      @emilyhancock3456 8 лет назад +2

      Levi Adams I'm sure you're right and that the girl didn't mean to be rude and probably had good intentions, I just think it's best to always just avoid using gendered pronouns until you're absolutely sure

  • @bunnychick725
    @bunnychick725 7 лет назад

    I'm very happy for you. Best wishes on the surgery and recovery. Thanks for sharing and being so candid, I'm sure this is much needed for those who are going through a similar struggle.

  • @AnniesNight
    @AnniesNight 7 лет назад

    I'm so excited and happy for you! I love how honest and clear you are with your fans!
    Can't wait for the surgery video, we're all excited for you!

  • @meowmew444
    @meowmew444 8 лет назад +29

    I'm so excited and happy for you! I've watched you for years so it's amazing to see you grow into who you really are as a person. Also, your surgery is happening on my birthday! That day is going to be amazing for sure 😊💕

  • @petalynch2312
    @petalynch2312 8 лет назад +56

    honestly how could someone misgender you if they didn't know you? when I first found your videos ages ago I didn't realise you were trans until I saw you had videos about being trans.
    love ya!

    • @rainbowshankii
      @rainbowshankii 8 лет назад +2

      by them asduming she was a he. Not hard?

    • @petalynch2312
      @petalynch2312 8 лет назад +15

      +Clyde okay, but why would anyone assume she is a he? she looks far more feminine than masculine.

    • @nekkobat6876
      @nekkobat6876 7 лет назад +1

      +Peta Lynch Yeah and if you aren't sure if they're male or female, why not just leave out pronouns and say "Hello, can I help you?"

    • @rainbowshankii
      @rainbowshankii 7 лет назад

      Peta Lynch thats the whole discourse, They assumed stef wasn't

  • @paintedbunting83
    @paintedbunting83 7 лет назад +5

    people like you make me want to give up less. its so hard but thank you

  • @carmenc4926
    @carmenc4926 7 лет назад +1

    So excited for you! I just moved out of Boston. I wish I could have offered you a place to stay while you recover.

  • @kittysunflower4811
    @kittysunflower4811 8 лет назад +107

    is it messed up that when im at work, and I can't figure out what some people's pronoun are, I'll just not say anything like sir or ma'am at all?

    • @StefSanjatiOfficial
      @StefSanjatiOfficial  8 лет назад +89

      No that's actually a good practice.

    • @kittysunflower4811
      @kittysunflower4811 8 лет назад +4

      +Stef Sanjati ooo I'm so happy you replied. I love you girly. and I loved going through your experience together.

    • @QuadiePoo
      @QuadiePoo 8 лет назад +5

      Good luck with that. As a human you make connections and try to communicate efficiently and sincerely. You usually do say things like he, she, him, her, sir, ma'am, etc. If you misgender then apologize but dont use pronounce like it or things as such. But I mean Stef, even if I didn't know of her, I'd still call her ma'am or she. She doesn't even look like a man.

    • @kittysunflower4811
      @kittysunflower4811 8 лет назад +5

      +Quade Carter it is hard to take words like that out of your vocabulary. but if I saw stef I would proudly say ma'am. but some people look very androgynous, so I don't know what to say. I don't want to rude obviously. especially with customers.

    • @KimmyElHornoBimbo
      @KimmyElHornoBimbo 8 лет назад +3

      Yea it's much easier to avoid it if you can to save embarrassment and offending someone.

  • @greyescale
    @greyescale 8 лет назад +14

    I smiled so big when you announced your surgery!!!! I'm so happy for you!!! It might be weird but over the course of the year I've been watching you you've become like my RUclips big sister and hearing all this good news makes me so happy for you. I love you Stef!!!

    • @greyescale
      @greyescale 8 лет назад

      & you're getting it the day after my birthday!!!! That makes me so happy!!!!

  • @sourkiddo2470
    @sourkiddo2470 7 лет назад

    Oh my god I am so so happy for you

  • @ravenofroses
    @ravenofroses 7 лет назад

    oh, that's wonderful. i just found your channel, but i love it when folks can take steps to be more comfortable in their skin. here's hoping everything goes smoothly and that recovery is quick and painless as possible. much love.

    • @ravenofroses
      @ravenofroses 7 лет назад

      ah, saw your "dear cis people vid," and i just wanted to clarify the whole "more comfortable in your skin" comment. cos you are you, but i know that cosmetic-type surgeries can help folks, well, feel more comfortable. and i'm happy that you've been able to schedule this surgery. (i'm not cis myself, but i try to be mindful of my language and try to make sure i articulate my thoughts clearly.) again, much love.

  • @maurosanchez1987ify
    @maurosanchez1987ify 8 лет назад +42

    Could of just said may I help you .

  • @GreenTea_98
    @GreenTea_98 8 лет назад +25

    I'm a cis female and i struggle with my arms too. my shoulders are pretty broad and my arms are huge to me. maybe you just have naturally broad shoulders which also affects your arms. i am more accepting of myself now though. i hope once you've finished transitioning you'll be able to love yourself even more too 😊

    • @GreenTea_98
      @GreenTea_98 8 лет назад +1

      also congratulations on raising the money for your ffs! i hope it goes amazingly 💜

    • @fruitbat1600
      @fruitbat1600 8 лет назад

      dude i'm relatively thin but i put my arms on my side and i feel like my upper arms look like a wad of dough was slapped against a flat surface and flattened. it sux

    • @kimberly_erin
      @kimberly_erin 8 лет назад

      Me too my arms are terrible. It's genetic :/

    • @fruitbat1600
      @fruitbat1600 8 лет назад

      Kim Urciuolo is it actually genetic? just curious, where did you hear that or are you speaking from experience with your own family...? i hate it so much, i swear it gets worse if i gain a measly 5 pounds >:[

    • @KawaiioHimeSama
      @KawaiioHimeSama 8 лет назад +1

      Holy you look stunning :O

  • @sotahuuto
    @sotahuuto 7 лет назад

    So happy that you can get your operation done and so soon! :) You look beautiful but you're going to look even more so after your operation, no doubt! Looking forward to your process and hopefully you'll recover quickly

  • @lilyalejandro1350
    @lilyalejandro1350 7 лет назад

    watching you develop from the start of estrogen and though out is really great and watching you change and grow is so very lovely

  • @livvy833
    @livvy833 8 лет назад +3

    I get really nervous about hearing anyone is having any kind of surgery at all.. I know everything will be okay, but I'm worried about you. still, I know it'll be okay and I'm excited for you!!!! im excited to see the results too, you make me so happy and you're such an encouragement thank you for being you and being here

  • @kuhriynuh
    @kuhriynuh 7 лет назад +202

    you should have just called her sir/used male pronouns back. that would have been super funny!

    • @CharlieFox2015
      @CharlieFox2015 7 лет назад

      that's exactly what I was thinking :D

    • @annakirwan783
      @annakirwan783 7 лет назад +5

      You shouldn't purposely misgender ANYONE.

    • @CharlieFox2015
      @CharlieFox2015 7 лет назад +18

      Anna Kirwan there is a difference in calling someone who is mtf "sir" and calling the offender "sir". The effects are absolutely different.

    • @ursie1986
      @ursie1986 7 лет назад +2

      But that would be deliberately malicious. I think a shop girl in Hot Topic is probably on a path to openmindedness herself (the "alt" lifestyles) and simply made a wrong guess, in place of her other option which would've been "excuse me - are you a man or a woman? - can I help you?"

    • @CharlieFox2015
      @CharlieFox2015 7 лет назад +3

      +cx1735 are you really not understanding what the point of the reply would be? to show the girl, who is clearly not open-minded when it comes to being trans, that Stef is definitely not
      a "sir". it's sarcasm. it works this way. As for the "I'm sorry, are you a woman or a man?" - Jesus Christ, NO, please, never ask this anyone. I don't know you, but chances are you don't have first-hand experience in being asked this. I do. Please, just don't. You can ask if a person needs help without knowing their gender. If they are comfortable, they will tell you themselves.

  • @werewolfbitevictim
    @werewolfbitevictim 7 лет назад

    I'm so excited for you to have the procedures done! I cannot wait to see you the way you wish to be seen as you already are gorgeous now! My Birthday is the 15th of December and I feel this is the Best birthday present ever to have you more comfortable in your own skin. I cannot wait! :)

  • @kiwiholmes3587
    @kiwiholmes3587 7 лет назад +1

    My birthday is Dec 17! I'm so excited for you. Transformation is such a beautiful thing you're like a butterfly. Or a gem taking the perfect physical form suited for you (Steven Universe reference). I just can't express how pumped I am for you Steph.

  • @eleazaleaza
    @eleazaleaza 8 лет назад +6

    you seem so much happier. I'm happy for you 💕

  • @mechantechatonne
    @mechantechatonne 7 лет назад +170

    That person may have misgendered you because they were trying not to make assumptions. There are some men that choose to present themselves in an androgynous way, and she might have assumed you would have been offended if she used female pronouns. I know men that wear makeup and hairstyles and clothing associated with women but go by male names and pronouns and do not identify as trans. It's impossible to guess by looking at a person if they are trans or simply gender non-conforming. Maybe you were a dude who just liked makeup and would have been like "I'm obviously a man. Quit playing just because I'm in lipstick." She couldn't have possibly known without knowing you.

    • @imafreakingmuffin
      @imafreakingmuffin 7 лет назад +17

      I see your point. The worker could have had good intentions.

    • @monicamazurkiewicz2707
      @monicamazurkiewicz2707 7 лет назад +2

      Great comment.

    • @chevvy427
      @chevvy427 7 лет назад +1

      That does make sense though

    • @sarahperterson2412
      @sarahperterson2412 7 лет назад

      Maybe

    • @limealemur
      @limealemur 7 лет назад +10

      mechantechatonne if they were trying not to make assumptions they shouldn't have said any gender centered words. It would have been easy to say 'can I help you?' end. Done. Not hard.

  • @Thegupy1
    @Thegupy1 7 лет назад

    This is so exciting! I have a friend working on his transition too and it makes me happy to see people becoming who they want to be and who they are on the inside as well as the outside (he hates social media but he watches videos on RUclips and he mentioned how you were very inspiring to him and since he doesn't have a Gmail he won't say it for himself lol) so just congrats and I'm so excited to see the future you and what you will achieve in 9 more months! so keep going and all my good vibes to you!

  • @ChaosKastife
    @ChaosKastife 7 лет назад

    Just subscribed!
    My girlfriend wants to go through her transformation in the near future, and I have been helping her research what is going to be involved. I look forward to seeing you after the procedure! Good luck!!

  • @kcdarla
    @kcdarla 7 лет назад +5

    I hope you corrected that rude person in Hot Topic. Wear your health earrings for a speedy recovery after the surgery.

  • @joywalsh6150
    @joywalsh6150 8 лет назад +10

    Ah good for you hun well done on getting the surgery booked, sounds soooo painful though! Yikes!!!

    • @joywalsh6150
      @joywalsh6150 8 лет назад +1

      Wow just looked at the Drs transformations, I'm gobsmacked at his work!! Amazing!!! 😊

  • @lucymackie9261
    @lucymackie9261 7 лет назад

    I just watched one of your old videos and I'm so proud of how far you've come, you are a beautiful confident woman and I'm so glad you are on RUclips. You are a amazing role model, thank you

  • @whatzittooya3873
    @whatzittooya3873 7 лет назад

    I'm so happy that you got the surgery booked! It has been wonderful to see you light up every time you tell us about your journey closer to what you've dreamed of. You are such a beautiful person.

  • @rushfan2112_
    @rushfan2112_ 8 лет назад +4

    Try Aerie for bras! They have so many different styles and they are a lot more inclusive

    • @jrenee1040
      @jrenee1040 8 лет назад

      I just wish aerie carried my actual size though :(

  • @Thereaperofcrows
    @Thereaperofcrows 8 лет назад +3

    Wow! This is amazing! You're finally getting the FFS! :0
    I started watching your estrogen process from month 4 and this is just exciting! (I'm late, I know...)
    I can't wait till I even start my transition. Thanks for letting me see your journey and I hope more wonderful things happen! You inspire this little bun. :3

  • @kaydenlyric6605
    @kaydenlyric6605 7 лет назад

    I am so happy for you! YOU are a beautiful soul congrats and the best of wishes for your surgery!💞💘 confidence is coming

  • @finne0n
    @finne0n 7 лет назад

    I'm indescribably happy for you!! I'm so glad that you can be happier and more secure about yourself. You deserve all the love in the world. 💞

  • @PucchoPanda
    @PucchoPanda 7 лет назад +4

    I work in retail and I make a point to not end questions in 'sir' or 'ma'am' because I'm terrified of mis-gendering someone and hurting their feelings...works for me XD

  • @Hannisnannis
    @Hannisnannis 8 лет назад +18

    so happy for you!!! ❤❤❤

  • @D.G.00000
    @D.G.00000 7 лет назад

    I'm so excited for you!!! I hope you have a great recovery, babes

  • @jackowyn1114
    @jackowyn1114 7 лет назад

    You're getting your FFS on my birthday! So happy for you gal, can't wait to see how you go.

  • @nikitheghoul
    @nikitheghoul 8 лет назад +3

    I started tearing up watching this. I'm so happy for you!!

  • @poohbear539100
    @poohbear539100 8 лет назад +25

    WOW IM SOO SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!!!

  • @cattymingdu4151
    @cattymingdu4151 7 лет назад

    Gonna be hard waiting until December to see the results but I'll be patient! so excited for you Congratulations Steph!!!!

  • @miriambutcher2544
    @miriambutcher2544 7 лет назад

    I'm so happy that you're finally able to live with the face that you want! You're going to be having your procedures on the same day that I will be taking my violin exam. We must be brave!

  • @missFindlesticks
    @missFindlesticks 8 лет назад +34

    Your voice is lighter too

    • @nikkismall1589
      @nikkismall1589 8 лет назад +41

      She trains her voice. Estrogen doesn't change your voice.

    • @nikkismall1589
      @nikkismall1589 8 лет назад

      Yes, but it takes voice training and readjusting your voice to the softness, pitch, tone, etc that you desire. It takes a lot of time, like she says in her Vocal Training video. Either way, i just meant that purely estrogen alone wouldn't change her voice as drastically as it has been trained to be. Ya know?

    • @nikkismall1589
      @nikkismall1589 8 лет назад

      yeah, yeah definitely!

  • @7ab3tha
    @7ab3tha 8 лет назад +11

    I've been called sir, I'm not trans. It happens. I wouldn't let it bother you too much.

    • @7ab3tha
      @7ab3tha 8 лет назад

      Also, this may be a stupid question our considered rude for some reason please don't take it as such. But, listening to you talk about why you want ffs why isn't that considered bdd? or is it?

    • @charlottelake966
      @charlottelake966 8 лет назад +14

      You also don't suffer from gender dysphoria. So...

    • @7ab3tha
      @7ab3tha 8 лет назад +8

      +The Transgender Personal Trainer thank you for the positively displayed helpful information.

    • @mariekt313
      @mariekt313 8 лет назад +1

      when you constantly get misgendered and are already feeling dysphoric AND you have to be worried about weirdo ignorant people literally willing to go out of their way to make your life bad (even up to murder), it gets to you and you as a cis person honestly have no right to tell us trans people "to not let it bother us, cuz it happened to you once."

    • @kittysunflower4811
      @kittysunflower4811 8 лет назад

      +mariekt they aren't trying to be malicious. sometimes people accidently say the wrong gender and it has nothing to do with how you look. obviously its going to bother trans people. I mean sometimes it even bothers me and I'm cis gender. we aren't trying to say that just because a person misgenders you, doesn't mean they were trying to be rude.

  • @Ylluria
    @Ylluria 7 лет назад

    Gurl, I would so go with you to shop for lacies. I took a friend to her first bathingsuit shopping excursion and we had SO much fun! She never got shite for going into her appropriate changing room, and if she had, I'd have been ALLLL over anyone that gave her even the stink eye like white on rice. I hope you have someone to stand- and shop with you, and that you have SCADS of fun when you finally go. Blessings on your journey, and be safe, mama! ♥♥

  • @HollyKarnes
    @HollyKarnes 7 лет назад

    congrats girl!!!! I'm so excited to be along on this journey with you. we love you and support you thru this process!!!

  • @shaniamcadoo7048
    @shaniamcadoo7048 8 лет назад +15

    I might dye my hair green and white because of this

    • @nekkobat6876
      @nekkobat6876 7 лет назад +1

      Green is hard to pull off but I really want to do green too 😂

    • @AngelXDTaty2
      @AngelXDTaty2 7 лет назад

      I had my hair "Harley Quinn Style" for a month more or less, and then it turned green. It's not THAAAAAT hard to pull off. If you use purple you absolutelly pull it off. That's what I did and worked perfectly. So now you can use green without fear^^

    • @AngelXDTaty2
      @AngelXDTaty2 7 лет назад

      The blue part turned green, I mean.

    • @roguesirena
      @roguesirena 7 лет назад +2

      her white blaze is natural. you won't get whiter than silvery-white out of a bottle.

    • @roguesirena
      @roguesirena 7 лет назад +9

      her white blaze is natural. you won't get whiter than silvery-white out of a bottle.

  • @benski98
    @benski98 7 лет назад +3

    "Can I help you sir?" The amount of times I've said that at work to people who are women because I'm dreaming of being at home is insane, she probably just waned to go home, but if she never apologised after, then that's not nice.

  • @wrenmorningstar5246
    @wrenmorningstar5246 7 лет назад

    Soooo proud of you Stef!! I'm so happy I've been a dedicated follower of your videos and your life, Your the best

  • @aryannatate4318
    @aryannatate4318 7 лет назад

    I'm so proud of you! You've come so far! You're such an inspiration

  • @literallyaaliyah
    @literallyaaliyah 7 лет назад +3

    Good luck bby girl!!!!

  • @alyogagames
    @alyogagames 8 лет назад +28

    Do we need to send you bras baby gorl?!?!

    • @eddyandgoliath6469
      @eddyandgoliath6469 8 лет назад

      she's not a gorl, she's a girl. not a mix between a boy and a girl, a girl. always has been and always will be.

    • @alyogagames
      @alyogagames 8 лет назад +35

      Kennedy Welker Hey just fyi its a playful, slang term for girl just exaggeration. Pro tip gorl also means gurl girl guuuurl giiiiirl. How about not coming for me when you clearly dont understand this aspect of the slang word? I adore Stef and I'm sure she isnt taking it the same way you are lol.

    • @nejdalej
      @nejdalej 7 лет назад +9

      If Alycia wanted to suggest the mix between boy and girl, she would have said "birl" or "goy".
      In the words of Ethan Klein: "Being outraged isn't a hobby."
      Chill out gorl.

    • @lucianotapia840
      @lucianotapia840 7 лет назад

      +Alycia R roasted them.

  • @chloehammon5086
    @chloehammon5086 7 лет назад

    oh my Lord you are gorgeous! in the transitions ive seen they were nowhere near where you are in 9 months, so stunning! cant wait to see more of your progress!

  • @obsessedwithapps18
    @obsessedwithapps18 7 лет назад

    I just wanted to say that even though I identify as a straight, cisgender female, but I think that you are unbelievably inspirational and I LOVE watching your videos because you are super confident and beautiful and you are such a great example of how important it is to love yourself and be who you want to be. Thank you for putting out such amazing videos and I love you lots!!!

  • @laurel_bee
    @laurel_bee 8 лет назад +4

    I feel bad about the hot topic thing... at mine they're very accepting, they have 2 beautiful Trans women working there and many of them wear pride pins and stuff.

  • @AliciaChenaux
    @AliciaChenaux 8 лет назад +3

    Okay seriously? HOW could anyone mistake you for a SIR?? LOL! That person must have been blind or not thinking. And OMG. I am SO excited for you!!! I cannot wait to see how you look when everything is done and I hope you think you are as beautiful afterwards as we think you are now.

    • @christinam6663
      @christinam6663 8 лет назад

      Even if they do mistake someone's gender, why even say "sir"? Just leave it at, "May I help you?" and don't add a gendered word onto it..

  • @MI-gu8lq
    @MI-gu8lq 7 лет назад

    Stef I'm so proud and happy for you! Literally teared up when you announced you'll be getting your SRS before the year is done! I've watched you come so far through your videos and I hope life keeps treating you kindly - you deserve it :) Much love!

  • @erin9868
    @erin9868 7 лет назад

    I have a short, small nose and I want to get a lip lift to shorten my philtrum, too. It's not a very common surgery, so I'm really excited to see your results and hear about your experience.

  • @seppukuchuan5608
    @seppukuchuan5608 7 лет назад +4

    I'm glad ukeeping ur nose cause it's so cute 💞

  • @OkamiSamaa
    @OkamiSamaa 8 лет назад +3

    I'm jealous. I want surgery. I fucking hate my face and body. You don't know how lucky you are stef. I'm so glad you got it though and I'm so happy for you that it's so soon and you're able to do it, props to you honey I love you

    • @OkamiSamaa
      @OkamiSamaa 8 лет назад

      I'm envious * not jealous

  • @KarlijoP
    @KarlijoP 7 лет назад

    I'm so excited for you! I hope all goes well and you'll finally feel like you're true self ❤️😊

  • @ericabonsai5510
    @ericabonsai5510 7 лет назад

    I'm so happy you're leaving your noes natural, it is the cutest thing and my favourite feature of your face.
    You're so beautiful and good luck moving forward!

  • @emiilyy4165
    @emiilyy4165 8 лет назад +2

    I'm up at 1 am on the 1st day of school waiting for this, #worthit

  • @darky8904
    @darky8904 7 лет назад +5

    This is the first video I watch of you and I subscribed right away!

  • @redsquirrel6131
    @redsquirrel6131 7 лет назад

    I just busted into tears when you said you were getting ffs!!! Be safe! And be happy love. I'm so excited for you, love!!

  • @kristins.4022
    @kristins.4022 7 лет назад

    I can't wait to see how it all turns out. So excited for you :)

  • @TwinklingDK
    @TwinklingDK 8 лет назад +14

    Can someone link me to her merch? It looks amazing!

    • @StefSanjatiOfficial
      @StefSanjatiOfficial  8 лет назад +35

      The merch is presently discontinued! I really need to make a new outro banner so people aren't disappointed D: As soon as I have new merch, you will know about it!

    • @TwinklingDK
      @TwinklingDK 8 лет назад +13

      You actually responded.. Fangirling quite hard, omg xD
      And I'm looking forward to it! I have a hard time finding merch I would actually wear, so I got sooo excited! ^.^

    • @anthozoaz
      @anthozoaz 8 лет назад +5

      +Stef Sanjati I can't wait for it to be back! 💜

    • @Wowzawhy
      @Wowzawhy 8 лет назад +1

      Omg you are so cute! No surgery would make you look bad only more cute!

  • @BS-eq9eg
    @BS-eq9eg 7 лет назад +5

    She's funny and reminds me of bunny / graveyardgirl

  • @kimbobimify
    @kimbobimify 7 лет назад

    I had to get off my phone to go on my laptop just so I could comment on this. I am so excited for you Stef!!! You're so inspirational your videos uplift me. Thank you for spreading your positivity to us and telling us that being ourselves is perfect.

  • @megk3562
    @megk3562 7 лет назад

    Stef I'm crying right now, I am so so sooooo happy for you! You've brought so much joy and happiness to me and I'm so incredibally happy you'll finally get to experience the same back you deserve it!!!

  • @crazyfrogenthusiast
    @crazyfrogenthusiast 7 лет назад +7

    Is it just me or was this kinda blurry

  • @LMoon20
    @LMoon20 8 лет назад +4

    Get yourself to the lingerie store girl! If they are doing their job properly they would love to help you. Go, enjoy and buy a million bras in every colour.

  • @Luna-ef8jz
    @Luna-ef8jz 7 лет назад

    This video made me so happy. I don't know why, but it just made me so happy to watch you get so excited about your progress and it's wonderful and you're wonderful and I hope all your dreams come true

  • @higoaway
    @higoaway 7 лет назад

    Amazing!! You must be so excited. I hope you have a speedy recovery when the time comes. I'm probably getting upper jaw surgery in the next few months and I'm both terrified and happy about it. (mostly terrified at this point) :) xoxo --Clare