Men Dealing With a Miscarriage - What To Do & How To Support Her | Dad University
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- Опубликовано: 1 апр 2021
- In this video we go over a very difficult and sensitive subject: miscarriage. Men dealing with a miscarriage is not something that is often (if ever) discussed. It's important we end the stigma associated with miscarriage and allow men to know they no longer need to live in silence.
Men are often surprised to learn that many couples experience a miscarriage and they are not alone in their feelings and thoughts about it. It can feel isolating and difficult to deal with when you feel like you are going through it alone.
This video talks about multiple ways you can help yourself deal with the miscarriage but also help and support your partner through the difficult time.
If you are needing help, reach out to friends, family, support group or even a professional.
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Dealing with a miscarriage was the hardest thing my wife and I dealt with. 3 yrs later we have our first son. It's been an amazing first 3 months and your advice videos definitely helped me prepare.
Kudos
I'm glad things have worked out. No doubt going through all of that is tough. Thank you for sharing your comments.
My wife literally learned she miscarried today. This video is just in time. Thank you
Your awesome for being there for her and not letting her cry alone
Me and my exgf suffered a miscarriage in 2018. We had broken up by the time we found out about the baby but we were determined to be good parents. And then March 2, 2018, we lost the baby... To this day I still mourn the loss of my little girl. I sometimes look in the back seat and think "Saoirse should be back there asking to get McDonald's." Shed be turning 4 this year (2022). I never met her but now that it's over, I just wanna hold her. I wouldn't have been the best dad, but I would've given my damnedest best effort. I even made drawings of my little girl.
I had a miscarriage, my husband is taking it harder than I am. Watching these videos helps give me his perspective.
Thank you for this. My wife had a miscarriage on Thursday. We had to do a D&C prodcedure yesterday. I’ve been trying to stay strong for her but at times I’ve failed and broken down. I truly appreciate this video so it can help me be there for my wife.
Its hard for both husband and wife, both deal with grief differently. We had 2 miscarriages, its not easy. For guys, please seek someone to talk to as its not easy supporting your wife and yourself
why cant he get support from the wife
Seeing so many men are grieving about the miscarriage,I am more convinced my ex was a demon ,he went for drinking till midnight while I was having threatened abortion。and during that period of time ,he was picking up fights with me and ghosted me almost everyday . On the day I was confirmed by the doctor that I could not keep the baby ,I was bleeding in hospital,the first thing he called for was asking me to admit that I should apologize for what I have said to him ,and said I was asking for pity from him when I told that I am in hospital
Dealing with my first one today. We announced we were expecting publicly two days ago, and then this hit today. Even worse that I was 10 hours away when it happened since I drive OTR for a living. It's the largest roller coaster of emotions I've ever been on. I was just watching your other videos a few days ago in excitement. But I'm glad I could still find you to help with the sadness. Thanks DU.
Yes, thank you for creating a video about this. My partner and I had one at the beginning of the year, but this morning we went to our first ultrasound for our current baby! The loss was very difficult, and we definitely grieved differently but ultimately came out stronger.
If the man is not 100% there he will never know the way us woman feel. All we want and need in a time like is support and a hug to let us know that we aren’t alone and be there for what we need.
My wife's miscarriage broke me. I supported her, and she recovered well. I never have. Even 2 kids later, and I'm still crying every few days in private because we lost out daughter. I can't get past it completely. I just can't. She's always there, always in the faces I see every day. In my dreams, in my thoughts. When we lost her a part of me died, and it's gone forever.
I'm sorry you have gone through this. Have you considered going to a therapist? They may be able to help you through the feelings and thoughts you are experiencing.
I sat next to my wife two times in a row on the toilet trying to be strong and supportive for her during two miscarriages. it broke our hearts but the third time was a charm and our beautiful daughter was able to come into this world. It's not something I think about everyday but when I do, it reminds me of how strong we are. When I think about it, it makes me cry and I realize how damaging it was. but we're past that now and it's time to move on and focus on the beautiful children that we made.
This is just too much. It happens more often than people think, in fact, one in every four women will have a miscarriage at some point in their life. It’s not a reason to be killing yourself like you do. Focus on your kids that are alive
My girlfriend and I miscarried 12 years ago and it's been eating me up lately, I never talked about it. Thanks
Thank you.
Before even watching this video, thank you for creating it
Yeah it's a tough topic but important to tackle
I’m 11 months late for this video, my misses and I had to say goodbye to our little Prince. There’s other complications to this pregnancy as well but it don’t take away the pain. I’m so down
At the time it's hard to see past the pain for the woman as she is going through it physically and mentally. Its only after it really sank in for me. Over a prolonged period. I'm not sure it's something you ever really fully get over
I just found out today, that my x had a miscarriage, and I had no idea, not was I in the picture, I am a Father of a four year old daughter, and I have no idea what to do, I've cried, but it does not feel good, I'm 27, and I just want some advice
Me and my son's mother just broke up a couple weeks ago and she found out she had a miscarriage a couple days ago and just told me today i dont know what to do i love her so much and want to be there for her and be with her im hurting so bad right now I can only imagine what she feels like right now I just want to be able to hold her and tell her everything will be alright and we'll get thru this hard time. But its so hard because she left me were peaceful no fighting or anything like that were trying to get out lives together but it seems like its one thing after another and this was the topper of it all i lost the woman ive loved the most the only woman for me and a baby this is so messed up i told her ill be there for her but she doesn't seem to want my help im devastated
Idk what hurts more honestly. The silence feels like I’m talking to a wall. When he does speak on it, it’s cruel. I’m not sure why he’s so cold. We planned this baby
This is my first time ever having the possiblity of being a dad . I feel so sad and angry that it happened. I blamed myself and she blamed herself. We found out yesterday she miscarried the baby . It was very early in the pregnancies . I was so excited and I already loved this child. We didn't get to even a gender. But I'm pretty sure I was going to have a son . She was convinced we were having a girl . We even had a little bet on who was right .
My partner walked out on me and isn't answering his phone, it's been a week today since I miscarried I'm broken n j know he is, but why walk away from me
Me and my fiancé had been trying for a baby for years and then we finally conceived one but just yesterday we learned that the doctor didn’t check her RH negative and positive so she lost another baby. This has been hard on us
I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how hard it is.
I can't do anything or say anything
Greaving for a miss carriage is so different from greaving for a love one, a love one you have memories to cheris, with a miss carriage it mor about what could have been. My life would be completely different now if my missus hadn't miss carried. Apologies for the spelling.
Greetings, from brazil I Don't even have a girlfriend, however, I am studying hard marriage, to become a great husband.
Thank you.
It happened this week and I don’t know what to do. I feel broken.
I'm sorry you are going through this.
So I'm just num
What about sex after miscarriage it’s bin like two months and i tried to romance my Wife i tried to turn her on but she is not in the mood what is your advice 🙏🏼😕
And what if he just don’t talk to you at all of he leave you to deal with it your self
It’s hard. Our baby was planned. But he acted cold once I told him I was pregnant & even worse when it was gone. I just watch these videos & read things online about men who actually feel something about their partners having a miscarriage. I don’t talk about it to anyone. Just myself really. Trying to forget it happened but it’s hard.
This is where I’m at
I'm just num
🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💚👶🏻
My partner stepped out for his social dancing event the day I took misoprostol after a missed miscarriage.
Girl I know the feeling of been left alone in a time like this. Hope you’re feeling better!! May God be with you !