How To Cope With Grief After Miscarriage | What To Expect After A Miscarriage

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  • Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024
  • 25% of pregnancies end in miscarriage. In this video, I'm talking about how to cope with miscarriage, or how to cope with pregnancy loss or baby loss - even if your loss was years ago. I also talk about the stages of grief, and describe why your grief experience might feel completely different than what you expect.
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Комментарии • 18

  • @Lolee56
    @Lolee56 3 года назад +8

    I deeply grieved my miscarriage so when I got pregnant again I thought I’d be more grateful to be pregnant the second time but shockingly I found this pregnancy to be harder than my miscarriage was. I think not enough people talk about miscarriage but ALSO not enough people talk about how hard and crappy pregnancy can be

  • @ThatElfTorunn
    @ThatElfTorunn Год назад +7

    I needed this video right now. Currently just finished bleeding (mostly) from a miscarriage at 6 weeks 1 day. I am struggling.

    • @Buttercup1992
      @Buttercup1992 Год назад

      Can I ask how long you bled for please? I miscarried on Friday exactly 6 weeks but still bleeding and I don’t think I can cope with it much longer

    • @ThatElfTorunn
      @ThatElfTorunn 10 месяцев назад

      @@Buttercup1992 I was bleeding for around a week. My body hadn't realised I had miscarried til 4 weeks after it happened and that's when the bleeding started. It went on for around 8 days. Worst 8 days of my life.

  • @julylugo4354
    @julylugo4354 6 месяцев назад +1

    I feel like i could have done something different, i thought I was in a safe place cause I was taking care of me with the tools I have, i wish I could had have more tools, and be near my family, i want my baby back, i was dreaming my life with it, i always wanted a baby boy and and i know he was going to be a boy, i wasn’t even able to know the sex😢 i talk to him all the time, i ask him to forgive me, he was such a surprise for me and my partner, and i wish I could bring him back as soon as possible, we were waiting for him with too much love, hundreds of people were excited about him coming into our lives, but we aren’t in a position to bring another baby yet, i know I have to wait, and i was so prepared to have my baby by this summer, i want him back so bad,

  • @TalithaTheHun
    @TalithaTheHun 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this video. I have been trying to cope with the grief from my miscarriage in May, and finding it much more difficult than I would have expected to heal and feel hopeful, meanwhile the process of trying again has begun and that has also been very hard. There aren't a lot of videos I have found on this subject that acknowledge the experience so well and gently. I appreciate you making this.

    • @tyekarson
      @tyekarson 3 месяца назад

      i am deeply sorry for you. i am only 16 and ive had 4 miscarriages.... trust me it gets better. it might not feel like it ever, but surrounding yourself with people that light up your life makes a huge difference. i am thinking of you, sending you so much light and positivity. when i get sad, i think of my kiddos all playing in the great beyond, waiting for me. you got this. ❤

  • @jazminemorel-gallo3367
    @jazminemorel-gallo3367 5 месяцев назад

    I loved this thanks so much. I loved that you said your emotions are valid that really helped me with people in my life not thinking it’s a big deal. This made me emotional because I felt like you heard me and allowed me to feel what I’m feeling. Thanks again.

  • @Ministry_withTee
    @Ministry_withTee 3 месяца назад

    Thanks I will understand my emotions make sense my baby has a place in mh heart

  • @teresastramandinoli6629
    @teresastramandinoli6629 Год назад

    This is a great video thank you so much ❤

  • @maddiefranken8896
    @maddiefranken8896 5 месяцев назад

    I have had my first miscarriage and felt so sad about it

  • @lauratong2938
    @lauratong2938 8 месяцев назад

    I miscarried a week today, n my partner says get over it, he really hurt me with his comments

  • @shanigayle3637
    @shanigayle3637 11 месяцев назад +1

    I lost my 21 weeks twins on 5th of September 2023 and am taking it very Hard...

    • @lulub9421
      @lulub9421 10 месяцев назад +2

      I am so very sorry 😢. I have had 6 miscarriages, most of them very early, but one in my second trimester and that’s the one that stands out to me. It’s a different process - a different experience - to lose your baby when you’ve delivered them just as you would have at full term, seen them and held them. My grief was overwhelming for quite sometime. I was not only deeply sad, but I was mad. It wasn’t fair. None of it was fair and I was livid at the world. Everyone grieves differently, mine came with anger. I hope you have someone who understands what you’re going through, who you can talk with about your babies. I’m just a stranger on RUclips, but I’ve been through this. If you’d like to talk with me, I’m here for you. Again, I’m sorry. It’s not fair ….

    • @Iamgojey
      @Iamgojey 10 месяцев назад

      @@lulub9421Please I'll like to talk to you

    • @shanigayle3637
      @shanigayle3637 10 месяцев назад

      @@lulub9421 My heart goes out to you hon I feel the same way, the only support i have through this is one of my colleagues. She has been my rock she was in the hospital with me going through the same exact thing I am so glad I have some who feels how I am feeling . I have friends too but they haven't been through it like we did

    • @pamelabartelle5285
      @pamelabartelle5285 9 месяцев назад

      Praying God will walk with you as you go through this sad time & I pray your joy will return! 🙏🏽❤️

    • @jesusfollower6685
      @jesusfollower6685 6 месяцев назад

      I am so sorry dear friend . Praying for you all women who have went through this in Jesus name ! 🙏