I lost my daughter to trisomy 13. She was alive for about an hour before she passed. The hardest thing about the grieving process is the lack of empathy from those closest to you essentially behaving as if you should “be over it by now”. That truthfully really hurt. I think it’s important to know this as a support person for anybody grieving any loss of life. It’s alright to be sad from time to time because of those 4th trimester moments. It’s not a sin to have loved someone deeply and miss them.
Understandable. One of our lil ones had trisomy x. That was found out by lab and it is a strange way of losing one. Yes the hardship of close friends n family being unempathetic is hurtful but know there are those of us whove gone thru it too and push thru with the Lords help and being there for us men/husbands/fathers grieving in silence.
Today i Found out my ex had a miscarriage about a year ago the news initially made me hysterical until the blame came there was so much irrefutable pain i felt broken, numb, and i stopped caring about my livelihood for a second it would have been my first born if it weren’t for our faults and she hid it from me for so long to see her moved on and grieved to start this process now feels so unfair
We are so sorry you and your wife are experiencing this, David. Please know that we are praying for you both. We'd love to come alongside you in any way we can. If you’d like to talk with one of our counselors (at no cost to you), call 855-771-HELP (4357) weekdays between 6 A.M. and 8 P.M. (MT). May God's peace wash over you and your wife!
I just found early this morning that my ex had a miscarriage with my child and I feel like sh i t tbh but not depressed just feel like I fcked up a lot and that’s why I’m not going be able to hold my child im 17 nearly 18 I didn’t just lose one person that I care about I lost somone that I didn’t even get to meet my little one I made a promise to my child that I will see them one day that’s what’s going to keep me going ❤️🕊️
CHECK OUT TWO SONGS... 1) Glory Baby by Watermark and 2) Thy Will by Hillary Scott Both Christian Songs are about Miscarriage. Perhaps you will find encouragement....
I'm sorry for you. I hope ya'll are doing ok. I know it's been 3 months since you posted this but my wife and I miscarried twice last year and even now, it still hurts from time to time. I hope you are able to prosper in your live from now on and I wish you the best.
I lost my daughter to trisomy 13. She was alive for about an hour before she passed. The hardest thing about the grieving process is the lack of empathy from those closest to you essentially behaving as if you should “be over it by now”. That truthfully really hurt. I think it’s important to know this as a support person for anybody grieving any loss of life. It’s alright to be sad from time to time because of those 4th trimester moments. It’s not a sin to have loved someone deeply and miss them.
Understandable. One of our lil ones had trisomy x. That was found out by lab and it is a strange way of losing one. Yes the hardship of close friends n family being unempathetic is hurtful but know there are those of us whove gone thru it too and push thru with the Lords help and being there for us men/husbands/fathers grieving in silence.
Today i Found out my ex had a miscarriage about a year ago the news initially made me hysterical until the blame came there was so much irrefutable pain i felt broken, numb, and i stopped caring about my livelihood for a second it would have been my first born if it weren’t for our faults and she hid it from me for so long to see her moved on and grieved to start this process now feels so unfair
Found out today at my wife’s ultrasound we lost one of our twins. Would’ve been my second set. My emotions are all over the place
Wife and i have had 8miscarriages in a row. It has done hurt in our marriage which has been under turmoil lately
We are so sorry you and your wife are experiencing this, David. Please know that we are praying for you both. We'd love to come alongside you in any way we can. If you’d like to talk with one of our counselors (at no cost to you), call 855-771-HELP (4357) weekdays between 6 A.M. and 8 P.M. (MT). May God's peace wash over you and your wife!
I am just beginning to wade into the waters of dealing with the 2 miscarriages my wife (more intimately) and I have experienced.
I just found early this morning that my ex had a miscarriage with my child and I feel like sh i t tbh but not depressed just feel like I fcked up a lot and that’s why I’m not going be able to hold my child im 17 nearly 18 I didn’t just lose one person that I care about I lost somone that I didn’t even get to meet my little one I made a promise to my child that I will see them one day that’s what’s going to keep me going ❤️🕊️
CHECK OUT TWO SONGS...
1) Glory Baby by Watermark
and
2) Thy Will by Hillary Scott
Both Christian Songs are about Miscarriage. Perhaps you will find encouragement....
Recovering from my seventh miscarriage. I'm so tired of this pain. I'm worried about my husband.
I'm sorry for you. I hope ya'll are doing ok. I know it's been 3 months since you posted this but my wife and I miscarried twice last year and even now, it still hurts from time to time. I hope you are able to prosper in your live from now on and I wish you the best.
I wished my (now) ex would have talked about our losses (one from a miscarriage) and the other as a toddler 😢I grieved alone
I lost my baby this weekend 6wks in 😔👼🏼first pregnancy ever after 2 years of trying.