If you have lost a loved one, Pastor Josh has created a Guide to Grief workbook to help you process some of the concepts in this message. Download it for free at www.seacoast.org/grief/.
I just lost my dad tonight due to a chronic medical condition. Never felt this deep sorrow. We already knew this was coming a few months back. He is ready to be with the Lord. We thought we are ready. Still it hit me hard. Came across this message and comforted me. Browsed the comments and found I am not alone. The Lord led me here. Thank you.
My father died today. Im 22. I feel so lost, empty, broken and confused. He was my best friend and he gave me the best of life advice. It came out of nowhere. Two days ago he was fine. I pray those reading this keep their parents close, and i pray for my father to make it safely to heaven. God bless you and your family Edit: Thank you everyone for the kind words! ❤️ And for those hurting, im praying for you and your families as well
I recently lost my father the 5th of this month and he was the best. He died suddenly also and im still in shock. It hurts and I dont wanna feel it. My emotions are up n down. I just started searching for info about grief. I know my dads with the lord but the fact he's not around is really hitting me now. I hope you find the peace and grace you need to get thru this tough time 🙏❤
sorry for your loss. i know no words can be of comfort except for the word of God. i lost my mother last year, it was so sudden. it broke me. i just had a good cry, i miss her so much.. that is why i searched for a video that can help me and found this.. the Lord bless us and heal us 🙏
its only a month , hurts dont it. shows none if us were designed to loose each other, we just cant belive it. stay strong as you can and dont be on ya own too much
I had been married to my beloved soulmate for 56 precious years ago and cancer took her two year and three months ago and it has gotten worse. We were together ever day after retirement and if you saw one of us you would see the other. Grieving is so bad but we know where she is and it has made me a lot better Christian and looking for our reunion before long.
44 years 4 days married she died 3 months ago after 15 months battling cancer I now understand grief and it is tough. I to know where she is but for me a loss is a loss and with god’s help I’ll get through this but now it is difficult . Thank you for your comment
Lost my high school sweetheart to cancer after 33 years of marriage. Very lonely and lost bit I have no regrets and Im thankful we had time together for many meaningful discussions concerning my future without her. She had some very adamant demands that I remarry. She even had a woman picked out for me. Turns out the woman has already been taken. Im not actively dating nor do I want to. If someone comes along great bit there will be some pretty solid criteria and at 53 I realize the options will be slim. Im really not worried about it. It has been three months since she passed and Im still dealing with red tape, two adopted kids, 11 grandkids with two on the way. Lots of great family to give me support and I them.
I am praying for every single person in this comment section. In Jesus name I pray for the healing and comfort of your hearts, as well as mine. My dad passed away August 2, 2023 and I spent his last 2 and a half weeks with him in the hospital. He was my role model and best friend. The best dad in the entire world and I am heartbroken and lost without him. He was 75. He loves Jesus and he loves God and I know where he is, but boy does it hurt bad. Leukemia and Lung cancer 😔😭 I hate cancer.
my wife of 41 years just died of cancer so i feel your pain.I am ex-military but this is the hardest pain i ever felt and i been through some psychical pain.My guts are on fire.i was the muscle of the marriage and she was the smart one(brains).Now i am lonely and scared because i don't have all the answers to life problems that she did in seconds.I am left every month with a pile of doctor bills and she is gone.Had a gun in my hands few days ago,but i'm still here.May God give us all strength!
I loss my brother last Friday 🙏two weeks ago he mentioned that he went heaven and he saw our mother and she was calling him and he heard a voice saying do not go yet After two weeks he passed away May 19 2023 Rest in peace my brother John with Jesus Amen 🙏 God will bring peace and comfort to all our family Amen 🙏
I lost my mom two months ago from metastatic breast cancer. She was my best friend. I have no siblings and no family. Please pray for me. Thank you and God bless.
Praying for God’s peace that surpasses understanding to guard your heart and mind in this time (Philippians 4:6-7), and praying God is the absolute friend to you that you need in this time. His grace is surely sufficient 💛
@Holly_77 on the 29th of October 2024. My mom will make a year. Im the only child. Just know you’re not alone. Im also the black sheep in my family. So I’m trying to not be suicidal. Cause my best friend died April 2023 and then October 2023. The police came to my house at 7:52am to tell me my mom died. So now I’m grieving two people that i had left in my life. God bless us
I lost my wife 3 weeks ago. Im lost, broken, deeply saddened, and confused. How can i be widowed at 49? I feel like my life is over. I miss her so much. This house is so empty. I love God and he is still first in my life. Im praying for all the other people who are hurting from loss. Thank you for this video.
I lost my uncle about five-and-a-half years ago followed by my cousin then my mom and 11 months later my dad. I had friendships that would destroyed because people did not want to offer their condolences or have their lives interrupted in anyway. My neighbor's only contacted me when they wanted something out of me. Ulterior motives only. I also lost my job. And no family immediate or extended. It's by the grace of God that I am here but I continue to mourn and grieve. Praying for everybody reading this.
My husband left me for alcohol and loose women. So many people act like it's no big deal. People have grown cold and uncaring. I admit I am better off without him, but it has thrown my life into a tale spin. Death is easier for me to deal with than betrayal. I have been betrayed by so many people lately. We are definitely close to Jesus return. I am praying He holds you in His arms and we both get through this soon.
Grief is so so painful. And the deeper the bond the deeper the pain.. this time of year especially can be very difficult for anyone who has lost a loved one.. ❤ what we can do for one another is be kind, help each other and don’t judge. Be like Jesus and ❤️ love
My brother passed from this life a few weeks ago. I found him and was in disbelief and shock. It’s been hard but I know he is with GOD , at peace, no more pain or discomfort or disappointment or mental anguish. This is what gives me joy.
I grieve people who are alive due to estrangement. It's a grief that is never ending because they are living their lives without you & you are reminded of it every day. Holidays can be tough.
Lost my son a month ago to a fentanyl overdose he was 22 leaving behind his 1 year old baby girl… This has rocked me to my core… only place I find total peace is seeking Jesus pressing into him and worshiping my creator.. I’m still walking through this pain and will continue to no doubt but God has already used so much of it for his glory
Just lost my only brother on sept 17 to the same. He was 23 years old. He was my moms favorite and I thought this would crush her spirit but she has been doing better than me because she says she knows she will be with him again as is promised in the Bible. I miss my brother so much sometimes I feel like I literally can’t breathe. I’m so sorry to hear about your son. It’s devastating.
I just lost my wife of 41 years and i feel this young man's story as my own.My guts are on fire,can't sleep,eat,and even had a gun in my hand a few days ago.God please give me strength to go on.
I'm so, so sorry for your devastating loss! I lost my son to suicide just weeks before he would've turned 30 on Christmas Eve. My guts are still on fire many days. May the Lord hold you close always. ❤
I lost my 16yr daughter 12/29/21 . It’s been so rough on me and my wife . This def help but most days , we feel as if the pain will never go away . It’s hard to wake up each morning knowing my daughter isn’t with us anymore . I’m almost at my end .
I am with you my daughter passed away 4 months ago, it felt like my heart was ripped out, and its so lonely, I cry it out and yes you think how will I ever get through this heart wrenching pain. I asked Jesus to help me everyday abd just trust HE will do that. Sending you all my hugs from one parent to another ❤
I lost my daughter too. Nov 15, 2023 - She was my only child. She was only 19 yrs old. I hope you’re okay now. I cant fathom how I’m going to continue. Are you doing okay now?
I lost my beloved dad 11 weeks ago. I am so heartbroken and miss him so much. He had been sick for awhile but passed from a heart attack. He was 94. He had a good life, worked very hard all his life. He was my whole world . My parents were married 58 years but knew each other 61 years. Thank God my mother is still living. She is 76. It was Father’s Day today. 🇮🇪☘️
My 31 year old sister died yesterday in a car accident, my heart is broken and I need the Lord to help me. I miss her so much and I need prayers and help
I hope God has given you peace in the midst of your suffering. I myself am getting ready to lose my beloved Father, who is 77 now. Im hurting pretty bad already. It doesnt make it any easier that I've been backsliding for awhile now. I need to seek God, Please pray for me.
I lost my dog of 12 years a month before Lost my ex spouse. I loved for 22 yrs . Then covid happened and I have grieved/cried for three years.. It feels as though part of my heart has being taken along with their passing. Thank God. I had lots of faith. Many prayers for all that grieve🙏🌻🌞😭
I lost my fur baby in August. She was 17 . I loved her so ,so, much!!! She had a cancerous tumor & she could no longer walk. I did not want to let her go. The HolySpirit Spoke to my spirit & let me know she was going to be able to run & play & be healthy in heaven with him .That is the only way I had peace , knowing I will be with her throughout eternity!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
true ..i feel my heart is taken ..so painful... i cried many times..my fiance is passed away 11 days already... i m looking people with the same ex[eriences in this youtube to motivate me to be strong
I know your pain Just Buried my Father . I’m 54 and lost and I am now losing my Best little Friend my Little Raven she is 15 and my father gave her to me when she was just a puppy now her Heart is starting to fail . I am so Broken and Grieving so bad . So so sorry for your loss their are no words to comfort you . I am praying that Christ will comfort you in your days ahead. God bless you and we will be with them again one day .!!!
@@patriciapate8090 dear Beautiful Soul I just lost my little baby boy Saturday3-26-22 he was my best friend, family and soulmate. For 15 years. Sending love and light from my heart to yours❤🙌🌈💜
Lost my dad day before christmas. Lost mum as 16 Yr old. Very traumatising. My beloved daughter moved out yesterday am gutted. This popped up. Thank u Jesus 🙏
I’ve been grieving for for almost three years for my wonderful husband & friend and two months later I lost my son 😢😢 it’s been so hard for me everyday. Please pray for me and my family. Thank you ❤
My husband went to heaven on 12/22/19. Working on being strong, but even after two years, I struggle. We were together 50 years. Thank you for this message.
I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from..?.:…
I just lost my wife to breast cancer. Its only been a day I keep waiting for her to come in the house and say how are you doing pumpkin butt. I prayed and prayed for the lord to heal her. I lost without her.
I lost my wife and best friend of 49 years . First time in my life i have a longing to get to heaven. Just hearing the word love is painful.I too am lost without her. I found that praying out loud has helped me. Will pray for all like us. Be blessed
I lost my mother on April 12, 2021 at 5:15pm EST. I’m so glad my mother was a praying woman. She believed in God. She spent her last days on earth watching Gospel praise and worship. She was the best mother in the universe. I miss her, but I release her. Grief leaves to misery. I can’t let her death destroy my life. I refuse it. She would want me to accomplish my goals, which we spoke about. She would want me to find happiness and peace. I receive it.
@@Rose_budd I’m so sorry for your loss. Unfortunately, I understand what you are going through. I’m giving myself 12 months to grieve and deal with everything.
My sister forwarded this video to me praise God. I lost my wife a few weeks ago and I never could imagine how painful a broken heart could be. But I trust in God to walk with me.
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!! I hope it helps you, too!!!
That's all that keeps me going lost my daughter of 42 Yr half after lost my son of 32 I will either meet them or not then I won't know I will be rid of this pain either way god bless u xx
@@brendadrumm9451 you will meet them again. If you’re still not sure. Pray that the Lord strengthen your faith. My dad died last week pretty young. That’s what I’ve been doing whenever I don’t feel certain.
Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Pastor!!! On Saturday, March 19, 2022, we buried our “Queen” our Beautiful Mother, Matriarch of our Family, and my Favorite Girl!! Pastor, Your Testimony is my Testimony. This exact story happened to our Mom. On February 24, this year, I drove my Mom to have a 2hr procedure, 51/2 hrs later we would learn that my Mom would not wake up, and almost 2 wks later, we had to make the most painful decision to let her go. There was nothing else man could do to reverse what happened to Mom, so we moved forward, and @ 9:10 p.m. on March 8, 2022, our Beautiful Light was gone!! I Thank You for sharing Your Grief. 4 years later my Sister found this sermon, and Shared it with me, and another sister, and after I viewed this sermon, I shared it with all those around who needed to hear this sermon. Your words have brought me Great Comfort, and Peace. Your sermon made my pain a little bit more easier to bare! I’m curious about how you and your family are 4 years later. I would love to hear how you survived. Did Your Joy come back? Can you breathe easier? Dose the pain ever subside? So many questions, I wish I can have answered from you. Somehow, I feel like Knowing Your outcome, will give me Hope for my tomorrow. You may never read this comment, but I want You to know how this heartfelt sermon pulled me from the edge. Your healing words of God’s word, has given me purpose for tomorrow. May God Continue to Bless and Keep You, and Your Beautiful Family, and Your Faithful Ministry🙏🏽 Thank You for this Sermon, that 4 years later has reached my heart, when my heart had been broken into pieces. Thank You!! God Bless🙏🏽 Ramona Roberts
I lost my son my on December 23, 2021 . He was my first born that was loved the moment I was expecting a baby. He has struggled for years with his ex- wife taking off with his 2 year old som. He hadn’t seen him in 35 years but he was able to spend time & receive calls from his son the last 2 years. In the struggles he had heart, diabetes, back problems, neuropathy. The past 2 years the my son suffered so much pain, depression. Then to make everything so much worse he became double amputated . He was admitted to the hospital with terrible stomach pains a week before he passed. He was doing okay at first but then his organs started to shut down. He passed at 12:30am on December 23, 2021. I definitely know he spent Christmas Day with Jesus, both set of grandparents, his brother, his Dad, aunt, uncles , cousins & friends. I have no doubt he now is well, happy & running through the hills of flowers. I will see him again when I am called Home. ❤️
Thank you for the teaching. I lost my mother on the 16th of May 2021. Yes am sad but am glad she had a relationship with God. I believe she is in a better place. She used to always share that we on a journey, we pilgrims and we passing through this earth.
Thank u for the beautiful service u gave. I lost my mom on March 3rd 2021. She was my rock!!! She was an AMAZING mother as well as person. To say I was very close to her is an understatement. I was her caregiver as she was bedridden for 16 years of her life. At the end of her life she suffered terribly. She was in complete agony. I'm happy that she's not in anymore pain, and that she is home with JESUS. Her suffering is over and now mine has started. It's been pure agony without her everyday. But hearing thing's like this video helps. It shows me that I'm not alone. Thank u for that. I'm sorry for ur loss. We will see our parents and loved one's again one day. That's what I hold on too.
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!! I hope it helps you, too!!!
I lost my mom to Covid a little over 2 weeks and she live with me all my life, even after I got married we took her with us and my son is devastated as well. I still can’t believe she’s gone. I know she’s with the Lord but I feel confused and so sad, everything looks so unreal and I miss her so much. Please pray for us.
I lost my precious brother to Covid , He was in the hospital 20 days and the last 3 days he was well enough to go to rehab and they told him and my family we could visit him once he gets in rehab , but they changed their visitation policy to 7 days , he passed on the third day , I think he just gave up , he called me 3 times in 15 minutes begging me to come after him , I will feel guilty the rest of my life that I didn’t go after him . My family members was afraid he would pass at home . I’m thinking at least I would have been with him and he would have been with us . He also passed all alone and passed with a broken heart . I have to pray everyday to ask God to help me to make it through each day . He was my best friend . I miss him so much and haven’t walked in his house since his passing. I don’t know if I will ever be able to . He lived by hisself . I live only 13 miles from him . I need Prayers I enjoyed the video it just popped up from nowhere .
@@joanmcgraw6528 I’ll be praying for you I know how you feel my dad passed away August 26,2021 also alone in the hospital because we were not allow to be with him. I still cant go inside his bedroom or see his pictures because it breaks me. Out only hope is in Jesus Christ, He’ll give us the strength to carry on 🙏🏻
I lost my mom on the 27 August 2021 and she was my best friend .I miss her so much too and has been very difficult for me. My son is finding it hard too .She is with the Lord however I miss her everyday and find it so difficult
I lost my grandma on October 30th. She was so caring, thoughtful, kind and loving and I miss her a lot. I was just talking to her a couple days before she passed. she had health problems but it was still very unexpected. This video brought me some comfort and looking at the comments Iknow I’m not alone and Iknow everything happens in Gods timing and in His plan.
I lost my sole mate. In March 2022 56yrs. Miss him so much. They are so many people going thru some greaf prayers to all going through this. I'm not alone.
I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from..?.:…
Our mom just got called home to heaven. She was 83. Amazing woman with amazing life. We will all miss her dearly. The grief is real and deep even though we knew this was coming.
I’m so very sorry about your Mum. But in saying that, your Mum would say she’s happy, pain free and in the presence of her Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. My Husband went home 9 weeks ago and it comforts me knowing where he is. He was 86 and we knew it was coming but that doesn’t lessen the pain. We have to now live in world without them. It’s a new life in a way but with the help of The Lord we will cope. Sending love and big hugs ❤️
I lost my uncle 1/19/24 and 3/2 was his funeral and 3/3 was his 54th birthday… my uncle was like a father to me. He was the foundation of our household and seeing him the way he was and what he was going through was just not him. The home feels empty and vulnerable… my family is going through such a grief I never thought we’d have to go through. Feels like my security and guidance has been ripped from me. It’s so hard… However, I know God is with us and keeping us strong through this hard time. Our days of mourning will come to an End. I know my uncle is watching over us. ❤
I lost my 28 year old son he was shot to death in a heroic act. He died saving someone that was not his family member and left 2 kids, one 5 and the other 3. He was my only son it’s been 6 months of severe suffering for me and our family and his two boys. This Thanksgiving and Christmas was devastated.
@@theresadavis-bowling2808 I’m so sorry for your loss also but we have in Christ that we’ll be together again. I know there are no words I could tell you yo ease the pain because I have gone through it I can understand you but the only thing I can tell you is trust God if he has allowed this to happen and caused us so much pain he knows why and one day we will know why to every question. One thing that comforts me is that the rapture is so near and we’ll be re-United and this time fovetdver. 🙏♥️✝️😭😭
@@ileanabonilla1361 thank you so much for talking to me and giving encouraging words. I’m trying to figure out where to start in prayer. I just keep asking God to help me please.
I lost my Mom, my best friend, a little over 6 months ago to Cancer. I have had ups and downs emotionally since the loss. I really needed to see your message today. Thank you and God bless.
I lost my mom in February to Cancer also and yes it is difficult at times. When I came across this message it really helped me tremendously because this month my Godmother passed and I had to find a way to comfort my Godsister and niece and once I watched this video multiple times I was able to give some comfort as well as receive some for my self. I send my condolences and remember John 16:16-24, God Bless.
I am really sorry to hear of your loss. I pray for your healing. I recommend this book available on Amazon, "Lessons From a Place of Pain: An Account of God's Healing Power and Restoration after a Great Loss"
I just lost my son to a overdose my pain cannot be measured my soul is empty. I just want to hold him 1 more time and say I love you. Never again will I feel his touch, hugs, hear I love you mom! It hurts so, so much. I'm broken...
I lost my husband 1/12/13, I'm still struggling and have not been able to move forward!! We were married 32 years, 3 months, and 24 days. The holidays are the hardest for me. We didn't have children, so I have no one to laugh or cry with. My health is suffering. I'm isolated and envy my siblings and friends who have families. I have no one!!!!! Please pray for me.I know I didn't grieve initially, I was too busy being strong. So I thought!!!! My late husband died suddenly one Saturday morning. Time doesn't heal the heart. I want to live again.😢 YES, he was my Best friend, fishing buddy, protector, lover, camping partner, my best competitor in the kitchen!!he was my everything- I felt so safe with him. My grief has gone beyond a season. I've tried counseling but it's very expensive. I am a BELIEVER IN CHRIST JESUS!! IM STUCK!!!😭😭😭😭
I feel your pain. I've been there as well. I'm still grieving since 2018. Lost my Dad, then my brother, then my Mom. Then my spouse and then my dog's. I'm struggling every day. Please pray for me. Thank you and God bless 🇺🇸
Thank you for the message. I lost my husband just month a ago … but seems like yesterday unbelievable! my heart is so broken into pieces. I missed him so much
I am also a widow. You are walking a very tough journey. I suggest books of other widows stories. A good book but not by a widow is: Please Be Patient I’m Grieving As Fast As I Can by Gary Roe. A Widow’s Journey by Gayle Roper Grief Works by Julia Samuel One of my favorites The Widowers Notebook by Jonathan Sandlofer God Bless as you walk through confusion, sadness and so many other emotions and changes. Losing Dwight has changed who I am and how I view life. ❤️
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!! I hope it helps you, too!
@@wcgl5595 Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!! I hope it helps you, too!
I lost my Mother in 21 and my Dad in 22....lm lost, lm stagnant, and it's literally effecting my health.....this is the most gut wrenching pain that I've ever felt...no physical pain can come close to this...they were my everything...at times it's almost unbearable 😞
Five years in after my husband passed. I'm not the same I'm still grieving. I look for him every day. I am struggling not to make bad decisions. I struggle everyday. I have tried grief counseling, I found I'm not consumable for public appearances. I rather stay home and pray.
I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from..?.:..
This preacher omits to include in his words or advice for those who don’t have six children, a wife, a mother etc remaining to love and be loved by after their particular recent loss. Circumstances mean that some people have no remaining family at all nor any close friends. I am sending my prayers for those people in particular.
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!! I hope it helps many people you meet and you, too!
My dad just died today so I looked this up. Went the same way with the hospital saying he was good for the procedure. They took him early before scheduled time for lung drain tube and he died with no one there. I needed this video and thank you for it from the bottom of my heart.
I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from..?.:…
My mother passed away 2 weeks ago. This is the most painful experience of my life, I feel like I don't know what to do with my life, I don't feel like living anymore. I pray for God's help, my mom was my best friend. The pain is overbearing.
I feel the same way after losing my mom. on 2/14 . I don’t wish to wake up and I can’t even sleep more than 2 hrs . and more things and people I must face when I face the day or her funeral . I can’t describe how painful it is for me but I still pray and hope you are feeling much better by now .
@@rebecca2950 I am so sorry for your loss. May her soul rest in peace. To be honest, it still hurts, but I thank God for strength so far for me and my family. He has helped us through this horrible moment, I give him the glory. If you want to talk to anyone, I am here. You can talk to me.
I just found out my grandma passed away yesterday. She raised me and I am who I am because of the things she taught me. It’s still unbelievable but this sermon helped me tonight.
The only thing that gives me peace is knowing my brother gave his life to God, he was too young but he's in a better place. This world has nothing to offer its full of sin we're in pain physically emotionally and he won't have to deal with that anymore.
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!! I hope it helps you, too!!!
This is what i wanted to hear as I am grieving the loss of my husband of 44 years. You are so right, just because we are alive doesn't mean we're free from pain and sufferings. It gives so much solace to know our dear ones are not in pain anymore. This helps you to move on although the grief will never go away.
@@SUJAMUK Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!! I hope it helps you, too!!!
@@SUJAMUK my deepest condolences it definitely doesn't go away, it's been 4 months and I'm still shocked to know I'll never see him or hear him. I find peace in knowing he's in paradise with our heavenly father my hope is that one day I'll see him again 🙏 I pray God sends you comfort and peace . Strength each day and just know that your husband is in God's hands 🙏🤍🕊
Appreciate this Word. Not many talk about Grief but this was needed. I've lost 3 of my immediate family members within a period of 2 years. This Word is needed.
Unexpectedly lost my mom 2 weeks ago. Completely devestated. She was healthy caught and pneumonia 1/8/22. In hospital 2 months spent the last month and half on ventilator for no reason. My family members are separating. Division, greed has come upon this family. Mom could of lived another 20 years. In disbelief I feel angry it’s not fair she’s the sweetest, most generous, caring person, humble person i ever knew. Thank you for this video. Sharing with my family
God bless you all my heart is with you and your pain we lost my husband June 2020 and my dad Oct 2021 we have 5 children and I miss them both still very much🥺🙏🏻❤️
I feel like it’s on a whole another level when u lose someone while trying to resuscitate them and you fail as with my husband tried to give him cpr after he collapsed while waiting for paramedics ❤️🙏🏻june 2020
I lost 4 family members in 12 months. It’s been very hard dealing but I try to keep busy and do a lot of praying and I receive prayers from my church family and kin and do and watch positive things and get physically active to help with my mental. And been trying to read the Bible more. Thank you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
My grandmother was my Best friend and my mother after losing her my world spiraled out of control I can’t even wrap my mind around it I miss her everyday.
Just lost my father on 4 June while in hospital care after a long battle with Parkinson's disease and associated complications. I am bereft very deeply, but I am comforted that he had faith in Christ. I have some feelings of guilt that I didn't visit my father often enough in his final months. The timing of the passing was sudden and unexpected. Can you please pray for our family, that we will find comfort in the Lord Jesus as we go through this season of grief. Bless you all. ❤
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!! I hope it helps you, too!!!
I am so sorry for you loss. My son was laid to rest Saturday. The pain is excruciating. I have opted for meds for depression and grief counciling. Tomorrow is his 36th birthday. He donated his organs, saved 5 people. That is some comfort to me. He embraced Christianity after years of having nothing to do with religion. God bless you.
I am so very sorry! I lost my husband three months ago. First love of 41 years ago. Married 24. When I read you lost your love just four nights ago, my heart sank for you. That wound is deep. I am so sorry. Stay close to Jesus and your community around you. 🙏🏻✝️💔
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!! I hope it helps you, too!!!
I so applaud you for broaching a "negative" subject. This society rejects any positive talk. So our grief is prolonged by peoples platitudes that only feels like a dagger through the soul. I have longed to address this among the church members so that we can be authentic with each other.
My brother died 2 weeks ago from overdose and he was also 23. Praying for you and yours, I know the serious toll this has taken on my family. Take care 🤍🙏🏼
@@P.optar.t OH sweetie! I'm so so sorry! Yes, it's so shocking and horrible. It's hard to deal with. Like me, for instance, I'm used to taking care of things. Anytime a problem arises, I do my best to handle it but when she died I felt so helpless. There was NOTHING I could do about it. Not only am I hurting but my family is as well. I will pray for peace and comfort for you and your family. Once the shock wears off, you'll be better able to come to terms with his passing. Neither one of them are in pain any longer. God bless you sister!
So very sorry for this tough loss. I Lost my sweet nephew who was 24 on July 30 and it has been the toughest loss to say the least. My heart is breaking for my sister and her two other boys. He died suddenly in a swimming accident. 💔
I lost my grandpa early this am. He was my father figure. Pastor Josh, your words and past experience with grief has blessed so many of us. Thank you for sharing
Pastor Thankyou My husband committed suicide 2017. I moved cross country transferred jobs and COVID happened. I'm so isolated and lonely . I know God has me covered. This is a very long season. And you actually resemble my husband it's perfect I foubd this video. God bless you and your beautiful family
Oh Susan!!!! I'm so sad for you, I'm praying right after I've wrote this for you that Jesus will bring people into your life to help support you and carry you right now, please keep asking him for his comfort and peace also he will give you it and strengthen you through this, life can be so cruel and painful, 😭, I send you a million hugs, and I'll be praying over you 🙏😘💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
I feel your pain. I lost my wife in 2018, and I miss her so very much. I pray for all suffering loss at this time. Jesus Christ's love will pull us through.
God be with you Susan and I’ll keep you in my prayers. You are sooooo much stronger than you think. God gives his hardest battles to his strongest warriors. I cannot imagine what it would be like in your place but I sympathize for you. I am here with you even though you don’t know me . Gods people will give you strength and courage. My dear Susan you are a beautiful soul and God has a special place for you in heaven.
I lost my only son. No family, no help from the church. Nobody cared. Just on my own now no family. Most Christians don't understand how hard life is on your own with no family at all. Still believe in God but don't go to any uncaring Church anymore. I just have to put my trust in God alone.
One thing that has rung true for me is how deeply grief effects you. Just like you said it causes so many ups and downs, I lost my father to a cancer he didn't even know he had. Within a few months he went from joking and playing ball in the yard with me to being on his death bed in hospice and having our family talk to him through the window and only having two people allowed in at a time. My mother watching outside and just deeply wanting to be with her husband. After losing my dad my feelings went to sorrow and anger and frustration. Why my dad? Why me? Why my family? Why was God doing this? I started to slowly lose my faith and feel numb. He passed over a year ago but I today I have just had so many ups and downs. From all of this my one year old son was born, and I will have to tell him one day about his grandpa and how incredible was. He was a pastor and I know he would be proud of his grandson and his sons and how they still follow the Lord. While we aren't perfect we certainly try our hardest to honor him in his legacy. All this is to say that now I am back with the Lord but I'm still struggling. Grief carries its demons with it, attacks from the enemy while we are weary and heavy laden.. but our father says come to me those who are weary and heavy laden and I never truly understood that verse until now. In our darkest moments he is still with us. Thank you so much for this Pastor Josh. I live across the country in Washington state but I really appreciate you posting this. God really is using this to reach so many people including myself. After watching the whole sermon I just wanted to say that I believe God led me here today to listen to this. Literally EVERYTHING you said resonated with me. As if I am meant to hear this today. God wants us all to know that he is near to us in every emotion and season of grief and your message helped me so much tonight. I'm not perfect and nobody is but I now am ready to heal and to let go. To run to the father who will never leave us, who will never forsake us. With the hope that one day I will see my earthly father and heavenly father one day. Where I will worship the Lord forever. God is INCREDIBLE.
Your 1st paragraph to 'Grief carries demons' describes my last 3yrs (wife). I believe I still carry it and he (God) knows it as well. I've been moving forward (first two years stayed away from God and Church), but inside I don't have Acceptance or willing to negotiate Time to Heal. I know she very much alive and Heaven is real. But I told God, Im unable and unwilling to put her passing in that 'natural' perspective and may he instead be here to me in the 'super natural'. And not that he was not there in the first place. Im defiant on it (no acceptance or time to heal,) for it's not the same like any other hardships in the world (lossed foreclosure home, repossessed vehicle, lost career/job or money). For the Love of our Life are irreplaceable. Regarding darkness, I know his awesomeness and power, but until that time again (reunion in Heaven or millennial period) - I stay away from riches of this world even though it (her Loss) beats on me daily.
Watching this tonight after suddenly losing two friends in one week. Thank you for this encouragement and for emphasizing with us through your own testimony with your dad. Thank you so much.
My husband crossed over to heaven from lung cancer..I am still thankful for my family and church family. My community helped me get through the grief of my dear husband. Thank you for this message.
Im sorry about your husband, my condolences goes out to you, hopefully you're better now ? It's nice talking to people with similar experience likewise, I lost my late wife to a horrible car wreck four years ago it was a terrible experience for me, but I kept strong for my teenage daughter hoping for the best future for her, it'd be nice to talk to you more maybe have a great conversation, if you don't mind sending me your gmail address so I could reach out on you ?.
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!! I hope it helps you, too!!!
Its 2 am in Nigeria and i am lossing my braids while wondering how to help a loved one and his family through grief. Thank you for sharing. I am grateful I found this resource.
This was important that I watch and hear this tonight. I am so pleased that you had your dad in your life and had spent quality time with him. You have been blessed by his life. Now, as an old man and a father and grandfather, I want to share some important advice to you, and at some time you can share it with your sons. Never let a day go by without telling your sweet wife how much you love her and how much she means in your life. Be sincere and specific. She will know. Do this every day. We can get in the habit of letting life get in the way of these small but very important things we do with our spouse. This same advice go with all of those in your family. Let hour wife know you LOVE her. There may be a day she may not be there to hear that. Yesterday has happened and passed. Today is hear and now, so Cherish the Moment. Don't worry about tomorrow - Tomorrow you will be looking back at Yesterday (which is Today), so make sure you know that you cherished the moments. Tell her right now that you love her. . . .
My father died when I was a small child and every birthday, Father's Day, Christmas, Thanksgiving, etc., there is always that empty chair at the table. It's a lifetime of mourning.
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!! I hope it helps you, too!
Thank you soooo very much for this message. I have been in a season of loss for the past 3 years and it has jolted my life. I have been trying to comfort everyone else and just have become numb. I came across this message and watched it multiple times and it resonated in my spirit and gave me great revelation about grief and death. Again thank you so very much. God bless you and your family.
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!! I hope it helps you, too!
Thank you for this message. You enlightened me. Two years for the season of grief. Going 3rd year now. I am able to once more express this grief with my community with hope! I isolated myself from our common friends .That suppressed grief. I can now process my grief with full acceptance and hope. My beloved ♥ husband,Earl. Forever in my heart! Enjoy heaven.
Yep. Especially when God knows our motives we had thankful and looking forward 'to twilight years with our beloved Love of Our Life'. LIfe and it's hardships is bad enough - but this bloodgeon my soul and faith.
My best friend and housemate died in August '23, we had known each other since 1989, I am devastated, sad and really lonely. She was unconscious for the last two days save for some time in the mornings when she tapped my hand with hers. I spoke the Lord's prayer, the 23rd psalm and other Christian things into her ear and hope beyond hope that she put her faith completely in Jesus before she died in the evening of 16th.
I lost my beloved hubby and soul mate to Covid 19 on July 22, 2021. We both contracted Covid 19 Category 5 and this is the most difficult times of my life. Am still having the pain, struggling everyday, feeling lost, empty and grieving. I pray to god to give me the strength and take away my pain! But I know my husband is now in heaven rejoicing with god. This video helps comfort me alittle. TQ
I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from..?.:…
I lost my grandson age 25, through tragic circumstance in August 2023. Please pray for my family and Myself as we are all struggling to come to terms with this. Most of our family are Christians. Thank you for the vision, I will remember all who commented in my prayers too
I lost my brother 2 months ago to suicide and since have been so rocked I struggle to leave my room. I’ve started smoking again, I’ve been drunk and hide away. My heart was completely broken. I stopped praying, stopped going to church, stopped working. I stopped everything and now I feel completely lost. Im ashamed because I overlooked Jesus the whole time through my grieving, I prayed again for the first time lastnight and again this morning because I want to return home and I don’t know how to return to who I was before all of this when I was putting Christ first. I can’t bare the thought of my brother not being in heaven (he didn’t believe) and it holds me back from everything. He was my little brother and I just want to protect him. And somehow I have to try and let all of that go. Im sorry for anyone going through anything similar and I’m here if you’d like to talk ❤
You will never be the same person you were before you lost your brother. But you can heal and become an even better person. It’s never too late with Jesus. He will always take you back. That’s a good start to be praying. Read your Bible and aim to get back to church. There is a great program called Griefshare that is faith based & a wonderful support group. Can’t find them in person or online. May God bless you💜🙏
I lost my only brother/sibling to suicide too. Then my parents stopped talking to me for 15 yrs. (Suicide brings families closer or tears them apart) & never told me why. I wrote them 15 yrs & just got silence, but I always told them my door was always open & I'd always love them. Finally I went thru 2 yrs of therapy & gave them up to The Lord! I had 1 truly happy yr out of 15. THEN my parents showed up @ my door. Little did I know I would end up being their ONLY caregiver for 8 long years as they both slowly died from different dementias & cancer. And I'm disabled! No1 helped! I lost dad 6-23 & mom 4-2024. A few days ago (7-2024) I FINALLY took my 1st day to start cleaning out my "parents' office" & ran across things from the past 8 yrs that made me cry. My 40 yr old maid happened to be here & trying (I guess) to be kind said "it's ok, as long as we don't get stuck in our grief." I've been grieving watching BOTH parents dying & then dying for 8 yrs! Statements like that show me they don't get it & have not "walked a mile in my shoes." I've been married to my sweet hubby for 21 yrs & loved his family as my own. None OF THEM have done ANYTHING except send flowers. No hugs, no meals, nothing! My parents were very dysfunctional & one family member - AS I WAS WATCHING MOM DIE - texted me & SHAMED me for "caring for my f*c*ed up parents!" Dad had just been dead for 10 months! Mom died 2 DAYS LATER & I was ALONE w/her at the end for 19 hours straight!! Not one person came! This "family" member is also 40. I know @ 40 most haven't been thru what seniors have...some have....but are few. All these people are supposed to be Christians! He & his wife were to be my PoA's & caregivers & I am removing them from EVERYTHING as what he said AFTER THE FACT was beyond CRUEL!! They're my husband's family...I have no children. So I am done with these who've sucked everything out of me, but when I (me 100% disabled) needed help & asked - no one came! Especially when I was grieving horrifically!! 20+ years I WASTED my life being kind, giving, loving to this family of my hubby's. I'm done! Why are people so cruel? My heart goes out to all who've lost someone to suicide! It is TERRIBLE! Even when I try to help people can be cruel. So I only help strangers now! God bless you who lost your brother! Life is so hard! Take care of yourself as you have a 60% higher risk of suicide. Stay safe plz!❤
My son passed away on March 13 of 2021, im still grieving and holidays are coming and it's not easy. 😭 Then going through a divorce to. I pray or listen to prayers.
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!! I hope it helps you, too!
I lost my son February 11th 2021 22 years old we both had given are hearts to the Lord 3 years prior we God baptized together it was so unexpected and sudden in a fetal car accident I’m so sad I stand on Gods promises I have to keep going so I can see my son again one day oh yes it’s been so heartbreaking 💔days I feel like I can’t breathe every day My father God gives me strength daily to keep me going my son just went a head of me I Love you Jesus and too all mothers who have lost a child I can understand your pain you are all in my prayers 🙏🙏🙏God Bless you all stay focused on Jesus I’m done sorry for your losses 💔😭
Thank you so much for your comment, Dorely. I lost my 29 year old son on December 2nd, 2021, and I'm still in so much pain. I know exactly what you mean about feeling like you can't even breathe. I still scream his name into my pillow or into the air, looking for him everywhere. I beg God to just kill me, but I have to keep going for my youngest son. We will see them again, I just know it. ❤
@36:40 Came here searching for that hope in my life. I was never religious much, but every time I'm in my greatest sorrows/ distress I find myself speaking to God. I don't know how to pray, so I came here in my grief. Through these words in this video I was able to find comfort knowing that these trials of sorrow are MEANT to bring me closer to god, meant to remind me of His unconditional comfort.. and here on earth, It's comforting to hear others describe grief exactly how it is- feeling like a death sentence to our souls. The lord let me here, thank you.
Really really agree with your perspective on mourning. I nursed my husband until his death and i do believe i had started to grieve before he died but listening to your talk I'm so glad that you discussed that part of mourning before the person has actually dies never discussed it with anyone afraid that i might sound stupid. Thank You Sending you Irish Blessings.
I lost my daughter 42 yrs old. The day after Thanksgiving, she battled menistatic breast cancer for 10 yrs. Her estranged husband, took My grandson to live out of state,, with him, girlfriend and his daughter. I (we)wasn't (weren't) allowed to see/talk to my grandson upon his departure. It's a heart wrenching situation. Every day is new grieving period. Those that haven't endured such a situation, can't fathom what grieving is.
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!! I hope it helps you, too!
❤💪, a buddy of mine, has same mom (mum) as yours. But Ive been unable to comfort him on this truth: 'she's very much alive and Heaven is real' For he's strong bull street fighter and in his continuous grief tears he keeps repeating 'I just wish to know she's fine?'😰I told him he shocks me.
I lost my sister to COPD. My heart is broken. She was always my favorite sibling. Be with Jesus my sister.. I can't wait to see you again without oxygen. I love you sis.
i lost my unborn son, left with only 3 weeks to birth him. it felt surreal, just yesterday, i had performed a scan that showed his vibrant heart beating and a day after, he was gone. TERRIBLE PAIN!. but i know he is in a better place.
I really needed this video's message. I'm having a incredibly difficult time with my dad's death. It will be a year and nine months Thursday since my dad passed away. I'm just now getting to where I feel like my feet are on a semi solid ground. I feel my actions and behavior were a direct result of his death. I also feel my dad died protecting me. No, I dont feel that way. I know those two things to be true. I was so caught up in my own self that I failed my daddy. I ignored things he said to me at the time. The guilt I have with it is all consuming and apparently never ending. I've learned I dont like change in my life. My beautiful ex wife pointed it out to me when i was married to her. My divorce, lol that's a whole another chapter of grief for me too. Which apparently is also never ending. Life is nothing but change and I'm not really good with it. Anyhow. Thank you. This video was help for me and I appreciate that Sir.
I just lost my husband after 39 years. 3month in hospital. Covid then to liver failer. Its just not real.we were never apart over these years.had 5 wonderful children.all have their own families. I just don't want to cry as I'm scared I won't stop. But I am at peace. I trust God new what was best for my husband.x
I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from..?.:.:..
If you have lost a loved one, Pastor Josh has created a Guide to Grief workbook to help you process some of the concepts in this message. Download it for free at www.seacoast.org/grief/.
Thankyou so much 😊 I just lost a lovely parent
Thank you ❤️🩹
Thankyou i will definatley go to this ❤️ i lost my daughter Lisa-Marie 28.12.2019 aged just 38 yrs old 💔🙏💔 i am sure it will help so Thankyou ❤️
@@susanpower9620so sorry to hear about your loss. ❤
My husband passed on 15 September 2024
My dad passed away 4 days ago. He was my world. This pain is almost unbearable. My prayers are with everyone ❤
I just lost my dad tonight due to a chronic medical condition. Never felt this deep sorrow. We already knew this was coming a few months back. He is ready to be with the Lord. We thought we are ready. Still it hit me hard. Came across this message and comforted me. Browsed the comments and found I am not alone. The Lord led me here. Thank you.
I'm so sorry 😞 🙏
You are not alone and will never be alone. Even now, I am with you. I pray that you have found peace, in Jesus' name.
My heart hurts for you. My sister is battling cancer. This message comforted me.
I’m sorry for your loss, I’m so thankful he is resting with the Lord. How are you doing?
I lost my father 5/17. I’m in a fog of grief. I feel sometimes dread.💔
I lost my son on April 13th 2023 the worst day of my life.
..please keep me and my family lifted up in prayer 🙏 🙌
Yes you are in my prayers and thoughts
.May you find some peace from your heart ache.
I lost my daughter (only child) too. She was only 19 yrs old.
I am so sorry. I know your pain. Praying for you.
I just lost my 27yo son to a car crash on April 13 2024.
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My father died today. Im 22. I feel so lost, empty, broken and confused. He was my best friend and he gave me the best of life advice. It came out of nowhere. Two days ago he was fine. I pray those reading this keep their parents close, and i pray for my father to make it safely to heaven. God bless you and your family
Edit: Thank you everyone for the kind words! ❤️ And for those hurting, im praying for you and your families as well
So sorry for your pain and loss
I recently lost my father the 5th of this month and he was the best. He died suddenly also and im still in shock. It hurts and I dont wanna feel it. My emotions are up n down. I just started searching for info about grief. I know my dads with the lord but the fact he's not around is really hitting me now. I hope you find the peace and grace you need to get thru this tough time 🙏❤
Sorry for your loss 🙏🏾
sorry for your loss. i know no words can be of comfort except for the word of God. i lost my mother last year, it was so sudden. it broke me. i just had a good cry, i miss her so much.. that is why i searched for a video that can help me and found this.. the Lord bless us and heal us 🙏
its only a month , hurts dont it. shows none if us were designed to loose each other, we just cant belive it. stay strong as you can and dont be on ya own too much
I had been married to my beloved soulmate for 56 precious years ago and cancer took her two year and three months ago and it has gotten worse. We were together ever day after retirement and if you saw one of us you would see the other. Grieving is so bad but we know where she is and it has made me a lot better Christian and looking for our reunion before long.
44 years 4 days married she died 3 months ago after 15 months battling cancer I now understand grief and it is tough. I to know where she is but for me a loss is a loss and with god’s help I’ll get through this but now it is difficult . Thank you for your comment
sorry for your loss, the best thing to do is to allow yourself to feel all the emotions and put them in God's hands. Sending prayers your way
I was in terrible grief until the scripture 'do not lean on your own understanding' helped me hand over my grief to God!
Lost my high school sweetheart to cancer after 33 years of marriage.
Very lonely and lost bit I have no regrets and Im thankful we had time together for many meaningful discussions concerning my future without her.
She had some very adamant demands that I remarry.
She even had a woman picked out for me.
Turns out the woman has already been taken.
Im not actively dating nor do I want to.
If someone comes along great bit there will be some pretty solid criteria and at 53 I realize the options will be slim.
Im really not worried about it.
It has been three months since she passed and Im still dealing with red tape, two adopted kids, 11 grandkids with two on the way.
Lots of great family to give me support and I them.
I am praying for every single person in this comment section. In Jesus name I pray for the healing and comfort of your hearts, as well as mine. My dad passed away August 2, 2023 and I spent his last 2 and a half weeks with him in the hospital. He was my role model and best friend. The best dad in the entire world and I am heartbroken and lost without him. He was 75. He loves Jesus and he loves God and I know where he is, but boy does it hurt bad. Leukemia and Lung cancer 😔😭 I hate cancer.
Praying for your comfort. Lost mine 9/13/23. Devastating.
my wife of 41 years just died of cancer so i feel your pain.I am ex-military but this is the hardest pain i ever felt and i been through some psychical pain.My guts are on fire.i was the muscle of the marriage and she was the smart one(brains).Now i am lonely and scared because i don't have all the answers to life problems that she did in seconds.I am left every month with a pile of doctor bills and she is gone.Had a gun in my hands few days ago,but i'm still here.May God give us all strength!
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I loss my brother last Friday 🙏two weeks ago he mentioned that he went heaven and he saw our mother and she was calling him and he heard a voice saying do not go yet After two weeks he passed away May 19 2023 Rest in peace my brother John with Jesus Amen 🙏 God will bring peace and comfort to all our family Amen 🙏
I lost my mom two months ago from metastatic breast cancer. She was my best friend. I have no siblings and no family. Please pray for me. Thank you and God bless.
Holly, I am so sorry for the loss of your mother 😢
@@janiceflores2468 Thank you ❤️
Praying for God’s peace that surpasses understanding to guard your heart and mind in this time (Philippians 4:6-7), and praying God is the absolute friend to you that you need in this time. His grace is surely sufficient 💛
I hope you find comfort I'm so sorry
@Holly_77 on the 29th of October 2024. My mom will make a year. Im the only child. Just know you’re not alone. Im also the black sheep in my family. So I’m trying to not be suicidal. Cause my best friend died April 2023 and then October 2023. The police came to my house at 7:52am to tell me my mom died. So now I’m grieving two people that i had left in my life. God bless us
I lost my wife 3 weeks ago. Im lost, broken, deeply saddened, and confused. How can i be widowed at 49? I feel like my life is over. I miss her so much. This house is so empty. I love God and he is still first in my life. Im praying for all the other people who are hurting from loss. Thank you for this video.
I just lost my wife 2 days ago and am feeling all of this. Can we connect to each other ?
Praying for you guys! Sorry for your losses!
God bless you
@@httcpham717 thank you
@@thehomestudionerd I'd be willing to help in any way I could. Sorry for your loss.
Lost my father today !!!!! I'm so sad but I thank God for giving me such a kind loving dad!!! Please pray for me and my family
I lost my uncle about five-and-a-half years ago followed by my cousin then my mom and 11 months later my dad. I had friendships that would destroyed because people did not want to offer their condolences or have their lives interrupted in anyway. My neighbor's only contacted me when they wanted something out of me. Ulterior motives only. I also lost my job. And no family immediate or extended. It's by the grace of God that I am here but I continue to mourn and grieve. Praying for everybody reading this.
My husband left me for alcohol and loose women. So many people act like it's no big deal. People have grown cold and uncaring. I admit I am better off without him, but it has thrown my life into a tale spin. Death is easier for me to deal with than betrayal. I have been betrayed by so many people lately. We are definitely close to Jesus return. I am praying He holds you in His arms and we both get through this soon.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I loss my daughter 2 years in November God bless
Jesus loves u okay stay strong in your faith and keep your eyes focused on heavenly things he will guide your step and keep you comforted
Amen to that brotha stay strong 💪
I am here too. Feeling loss with you. I love you
Grief is so so painful. And the deeper the bond the deeper the pain.. this time of year especially can be very difficult for anyone who has lost a loved one.. ❤ what we can do for one another is be kind, help each other and don’t judge. Be like Jesus and ❤️ love
My brother passed from this life a few weeks ago. I found him and was in disbelief and shock. It’s been hard but I know he is with GOD , at peace, no more pain or discomfort or disappointment or mental anguish. This is what gives me joy.
My son died yesterday in Christ. So grateful he has salvation. Thank you Jesus I will see him again in Eternity 😅😅😅
So very sorry for your loss. God bless you. You have the blessed hope. 🤍
I grieve people who are alive due to estrangement. It's a grief that is never ending because they are living their lives without you & you are reminded of it every day. Holidays can be tough.
I totally get it becca hang in there !
I know this grief as well.
I understand your grief in many ways
I also know this grief. It’s excruciating. Possibly worse than death.
Worse than death
Lost my son a month ago to a fentanyl overdose he was 22 leaving behind his 1 year old baby girl… This has rocked me to my core… only place I find total peace is seeking Jesus pressing into him and worshiping my creator.. I’m still walking through this pain and will continue to no doubt but God has already used so much of it for his glory
Just lost my only brother on sept 17 to the same. He was 23 years old. He was my moms favorite and I thought this would crush her spirit but she has been doing better than me because she says she knows she will be with him again as is promised in the Bible. I miss my brother so much sometimes I feel like I literally can’t breathe. I’m so sorry to hear about your son. It’s devastating.
Sorry for your sad news deepest sympathys to you all x🙏🙏🙏
Continue to hold on to GOD'S UNCHANGING HANDS.
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@@shayluv73 God mind you always and your family 🙏🙏
I lost my mom on 10/31/2023, and it has been unbelievable hard. Please pray for me.
Sending lots of love ❤️
I lost my 35 year old soulmate 4 days ago. We have a 4 month old. Love to you. It's the worst pain I've ever felt.
May God heal you.❤
I am in South Africa and I don't know if you will receive my text...God bless you
I just lost my wife of 41 years and i feel this young man's story as my own.My guts are on fire,can't sleep,eat,and even had a gun in my hand a few days ago.God please give me strength to go on.
I'm so, so sorry for your devastating loss! I lost my son to suicide just weeks before he would've turned 30 on Christmas Eve. My guts are still on fire many days. May the Lord hold you close always. ❤
Please look into Griefshare. It’s a faith based healing and support group.
I am so sorry for you both 😢. @newyork6437 I hope you are ok. Thinking of you. Sending prayers.
My wife of 46 yrs left me. My grief is immense.
I lost my mum 4 days ago ...the pain feels unbearable....i feel so heavy inside ...i love you mum ❤
I lost my 16yr daughter 12/29/21 . It’s been so rough on me and my wife . This def help but most days , we feel as if the pain will never go away . It’s hard to wake up each morning knowing my daughter isn’t with us anymore . I’m almost at my end .
I am with you my daughter passed away 4 months ago, it felt like my heart was ripped out, and its so lonely, I cry it out and yes you think how will I ever get through this heart wrenching pain. I asked Jesus to help me everyday abd just trust HE will do that.
Sending you all my hugs from one parent to another ❤
I lost my daughter too. Nov 15, 2023 - She was my only child. She was only 19 yrs old. I hope you’re okay now. I cant fathom how I’m going to continue. Are you doing okay now?
Im so sorry..
I lost my beloved dad 11 weeks ago. I am so heartbroken and miss him so much. He had been sick for awhile but passed from a heart attack. He was 94. He had a good life, worked very hard all his life. He was my whole world . My parents were married 58 years but knew each other 61 years. Thank God my mother is still living. She is 76. It was Father’s Day today. 🇮🇪☘️
My 31 year old sister died yesterday in a car accident, my heart is broken and I need the Lord to help me. I miss her so much and I need prayers and help
Thats tough Im sorry. Thats how i lost my Brother many years ago. Now the rest of my peeps. My husband. Im so vurnerable. I felt safe with him..
Praying for you in the loss of your sister my love❤
God bless you.
This is tragic. I'm praying for you a year on. X
I hope God has given you peace in the midst of your suffering. I myself am getting ready to lose my beloved Father, who is 77 now. Im hurting pretty bad already. It doesnt make it any easier that I've been backsliding for awhile now. I need to seek God, Please pray for me.
I lost my dog of 12 years a month before Lost my ex spouse. I loved for 22 yrs . Then covid happened and I have grieved/cried for three years.. It feels as though part of my heart has being taken along with their passing. Thank God. I had lots of faith. Many prayers for all that grieve🙏🌻🌞😭
I lost my fur baby in August. She was 17 . I loved her so ,so, much!!! She had a cancerous tumor & she could no longer walk. I did not want to let her go. The HolySpirit Spoke to my spirit & let me know she was going to be able to run & play & be healthy in heaven with him .That is the only way I had peace , knowing I will be with her throughout eternity!❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
true ..i feel my heart is taken ..so painful... i cried many times..my fiance is passed away 11 days already... i m looking people with the same ex[eriences in this youtube to motivate me to be strong
I know your pain Just Buried my Father . I’m 54 and lost and I am now losing my Best little Friend my Little Raven she is 15 and my father gave her to me when she was just a puppy now her Heart is starting to fail . I am so Broken and Grieving so bad . So so sorry for your loss their are no words to comfort you . I am praying that Christ will comfort you in your days ahead. God bless you and we will be with them again one day .!!!
Dear Beautiful Soul. Sending love and light from my heart to yours❤🙌🌈💜
@@patriciapate8090 dear Beautiful Soul I just lost my little baby boy Saturday3-26-22 he was my best friend, family and soulmate. For 15 years. Sending love and light from my heart to yours❤🙌🌈💜
Lost my dad day before christmas. Lost mum as 16 Yr old. Very traumatising. My beloved daughter moved out yesterday am gutted. This popped up. Thank u Jesus 🙏
I’ve been grieving for for almost three years for my wonderful husband & friend and two months later I lost my son 😢😢 it’s been so hard for me everyday. Please pray for me and my family. Thank you ❤
My husband went to heaven on 12/22/19. Working on being strong, but even after two years, I struggle. We were together 50 years. Thank you for this message.
I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from..?.:…
I had to let go of my Mother 3years ago.... today, I’m struggling still. My best friend, my mother 🌹Please pray for me.... 🙏🏽
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My prayers are with you💕 you are loved
God bless you loss my daughter in 2020 so so so sorry for your loss
@@mylissialawrence2464 🙏🏾
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I just lost my wife to breast cancer. Its only been a day I keep waiting for her to come in the house and say how are you doing pumpkin butt. I prayed and prayed for the lord to heal her. I lost without her.
I'm so sorry for your devastating loss, Tony.
I lost my wife and best friend of 49 years . First time in my life i have a longing to get to heaven. Just hearing the word love is painful.I too am lost without her.
I found that praying out loud has helped me. Will pray for all like us.
Be blessed
I lost my mother on April 12, 2021 at 5:15pm EST. I’m so glad my mother was a praying woman. She believed in God. She spent her last days on earth watching Gospel praise and worship. She was the best mother in the universe. I miss her, but I release her. Grief leaves to misery. I can’t let her death destroy my life. I refuse it.
She would want me to accomplish my goals, which we spoke about. She would want me to find happiness and peace. I receive it.
I'm sorry for ur loss... i lost my mom on nov 13th and ur absolutely right! We can't let the pain ruin us! Thats what the devil wants, not God
@@Rose_budd I’m so sorry. How are you dealing with it?
@@Rose_budd I’m so sorry for your loss. Unfortunately, I understand what you are going through. I’m giving myself 12 months to grieve and deal with everything.
My sister forwarded this video to me praise God. I lost my wife a few weeks ago and I never could imagine how painful a broken heart could be. But I trust in God to walk with me.
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!!
I hope it helps you, too!!!
@@sarahg3500 I will listen to it. Thank you for telling me about it.
@@slaughtfunk1393 God bless you and I hope you find it inspiring!
God is Faithful...3 years and God has been my Go To..
What gives me comfort is knowing I’ll be with my mum after she left me and my dad. That day can’t come quick enough for me
I can relate. Only thing that keeps me somewhat together.
That's all that keeps me going lost my daughter of 42 Yr half after lost my son of 32 I will either meet them or not then I won't know I will be rid of this pain either way god bless u xx
@@brendadrumm9451 you will meet them again. If you’re still not sure. Pray that the Lord strengthen your faith. My dad died last week pretty young. That’s what I’ve been doing whenever I don’t feel certain.
It will!- It will! (ReUnion in the natural of course). But of course that PAIN - I begged he'd just come now. (Lost my Wife)
Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Pastor!!!
On Saturday, March 19, 2022, we buried our “Queen” our Beautiful Mother, Matriarch of our Family, and my Favorite Girl!!
Pastor, Your Testimony is my Testimony. This exact story happened to our Mom. On February 24, this year, I drove my Mom to have a 2hr procedure, 51/2 hrs later we would learn that my Mom would not wake up, and almost 2 wks later, we had to make the most painful decision to let her go. There was nothing else man could do to reverse what happened to Mom, so we moved forward, and @ 9:10 p.m. on March 8, 2022, our Beautiful Light was gone!!
I Thank You for sharing Your Grief. 4 years later my Sister found this sermon, and Shared it with me, and another sister, and after I viewed this sermon, I shared it with all those around who needed to hear this sermon. Your words have brought me Great Comfort, and Peace. Your sermon made my pain a little bit more easier to bare!
I’m curious about how you and your family are 4 years later. I would love to hear how you survived. Did Your Joy come back? Can you breathe easier? Dose the pain ever subside? So many questions, I wish I can have answered from you. Somehow, I feel like Knowing Your outcome, will give me Hope for my tomorrow. You may never read this comment, but I want You to know how this heartfelt sermon pulled me from the edge. Your healing words of God’s word, has given me purpose for tomorrow.
May God Continue to Bless and Keep You, and Your Beautiful Family, and Your Faithful Ministry🙏🏽
Thank You for this Sermon, that 4 years later has reached my heart, when my heart had been broken into pieces.
Thank You!!
God Bless🙏🏽
Ramona Roberts
I lost my son my on December 23, 2021 . He was my first born that was loved the moment I was expecting a baby. He has struggled for years with his ex- wife taking off with his 2 year old som. He hadn’t seen him in 35 years but he was able to spend time & receive calls from his son the last 2 years. In the struggles he had heart, diabetes, back problems, neuropathy. The past 2 years the my son suffered so much pain, depression. Then to make everything so much worse he became double amputated . He was admitted to the hospital with terrible stomach pains a week before he passed. He was doing okay at first but then his organs started to shut down. He passed at 12:30am on December 23, 2021. I definitely know he spent Christmas Day with Jesus, both set of grandparents, his brother, his Dad, aunt, uncles , cousins & friends. I have no doubt he now is well, happy & running through the hills of flowers. I will see him again when I am called Home. ❤️
God bless him. I lost my dad on 23 Dec 2021. Still very very tough. God bless you
MY husband of 24 awesome years passed on 12 August 23, l am still grieving miss him so much.🙏🙏🇧🇸
Thank you for the teaching. I lost my mother on the 16th of May 2021. Yes am sad but am glad she had a relationship with God. I believe she is in a better place. She used to always share that we on a journey, we pilgrims and we passing through this earth.
I’m so sorry for your loss I hope all is well
I'm sorry for your loss, l lost my dad on the 21st and l'm finding it difficult to deal with atm. How you coping?
I agree. I also lost my husband May 16th of 2021. 😢🙏
Thank u for the beautiful service u gave. I lost my mom on March 3rd 2021. She was my rock!!! She was an AMAZING mother as well as person. To say I was very close to her is an understatement. I was her caregiver as she was bedridden for 16 years of her life. At the end of her life she suffered terribly. She was in complete agony. I'm happy that she's not in anymore pain, and that she is home with JESUS. Her suffering is over and now mine has started. It's been pure agony without her everyday. But hearing thing's like this video helps. It shows me that I'm not alone. Thank u for that. I'm sorry for ur loss. We will see our parents and loved one's again one day. That's what I hold on too.
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!!
I hope it helps you, too!!!
I lost my mom to Covid a little over 2 weeks and she live with me all my life, even after I got married we took her with us and my son is devastated as well. I still can’t believe she’s gone. I know she’s with the Lord but I feel confused and so sad, everything looks so unreal and I miss her so much. Please pray for us.
Same with me my dad passed 3 weeks ago, we miss him so much my teenage daughter os devastated too 😢😢
@@miki8a God bless🙏🏼will pray for comfort.
I lost my precious brother to Covid , He was in the hospital 20 days and the last 3 days he was well enough to go to rehab and they told him and my family we could visit him once he gets in rehab , but they changed their visitation policy to 7 days , he passed on the third day , I think he just gave up , he called me 3 times in 15 minutes begging me to come after him , I will feel guilty the rest of my life that I didn’t go after him . My family members was afraid he would pass at home . I’m thinking at least I would have been with him and he would have been with us . He also passed all alone and passed with a broken heart . I have to pray everyday to ask God to help me to make it through each day . He was my best friend . I miss him so much and haven’t walked in his house since his passing. I don’t know if I will ever be able to . He lived by hisself . I live only 13 miles from him . I need Prayers I enjoyed the video it just popped up from nowhere .
@@joanmcgraw6528 I’ll be praying for you I know how you feel my dad passed away August 26,2021 also alone in the hospital because we were not allow to be with him. I still cant go inside his bedroom or see his pictures because it breaks me. Out only hope is in Jesus Christ, He’ll give us the strength to carry on 🙏🏻
I lost my mom on the 27 August 2021 and she was my best friend .I miss her so much too and has been very difficult for me. My son is finding it hard too .She is with the Lord however I miss her everyday and find it so difficult
I lost my grandma on October 30th. She was so caring, thoughtful, kind and loving and I miss her a lot. I was just talking to her a couple days before she passed. she had health problems but it was still very unexpected. This video brought me some comfort and looking at the comments Iknow I’m not alone and Iknow everything happens in Gods timing and in His plan.
I lost my sole mate. In March 2022 56yrs. Miss him so much. They are so many people going thru some greaf prayers to all going through this. I'm not alone.
What happened to him?
7 months ago
My husband died
Its a, struggle
Grief is so not easy.. I miss him so so much... 😭😭😭😭😭😭
❤😰, he was your honey and sweetheart. His LOVE is present in you and will be carried.
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I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from..?.:…
Our mom just got called home to heaven. She was 83. Amazing woman with amazing life. We will all miss her dearly. The grief is real and deep even though we knew this was coming.
I’m so very sorry about your Mum. But in saying that, your Mum would say she’s happy, pain free and in the presence of her Lord and Saviour, Jesus Christ. My Husband went home 9 weeks ago and it comforts me knowing where he is. He was 86 and we knew it was coming but that doesn’t lessen the pain. We have to now live in world without them. It’s a new life in a way but with the help of The Lord we will cope. Sending love and big hugs ❤️
I lost my uncle 1/19/24 and 3/2 was his funeral and 3/3 was his 54th birthday… my uncle was like a father to me. He was the foundation of our household and seeing him the way he was and what he was going through was just not him. The home feels empty and vulnerable… my family is going through such a grief I never thought we’d have to go through. Feels like my security and guidance has been ripped from me. It’s so hard… However, I know God is with us and keeping us strong through this hard time. Our days of mourning will come to an End. I know my uncle is watching over us. ❤
I lost my 28 year old son he was shot to death in a heroic act. He died saving someone that was not his family member and left 2 kids, one 5 and the other 3. He was my only son it’s been 6 months of severe suffering for me and our family and his two boys. This Thanksgiving and Christmas was devastated.
So sorry....lost my son just in October..to gun violence....its hurts bad
@@montrishabethea331 sorry for your loss it hurts so much to loose a child ; even though he was 28 he was still my baby.
I’m so sorry for your loss. My son was murdered 2 weeks ago. The pain that I feel is unbearable and I feel so lost.
@@theresadavis-bowling2808 I’m so sorry for your loss also but we have in Christ that we’ll be together again. I know there are no words I could tell you yo ease the pain because I have gone through it I can understand you but the only thing I can tell you is trust God if he has allowed this to happen and caused us so much pain he knows why and one day we will know why to every question. One thing that comforts me is that the rapture is so near and we’ll be re-United and this time fovetdver. 🙏♥️✝️😭😭
@@ileanabonilla1361 thank you so much for talking to me and giving encouraging words. I’m trying to figure out where to start in prayer. I just keep asking God to help me please.
I lost my Mom, my best friend, a little over 6 months ago to Cancer. I have had ups and downs emotionally since the loss. I really needed to see your message today. Thank you and God bless.
I lost my mom in February to Cancer also and yes it is difficult at times. When I came across this message it really helped me tremendously because this month my Godmother passed and I had to find a way to comfort my Godsister and niece and once I watched this video multiple times I was able to give some comfort as well as receive some for my self. I send my condolences and remember John 16:16-24, God Bless.
I am really sorry to hear of your loss. I pray for your healing. I recommend this book available on Amazon, "Lessons From a Place of Pain: An Account of God's Healing Power and Restoration after a Great Loss"
I lost my mom but you know they still with us
It's funny because I just left a comment saying that they are still with us
Sorry for the loss. May she rest in peace
I just lost my son to a overdose my pain cannot be measured my soul is empty. I just want to hold him 1 more time and say I love you. Never again will I feel his touch, hugs, hear I love you mom! It hurts so, so much. I'm broken...
Oh my word, that is devastating. I’m so sorry, I’m thinking of you ❤️🩹 x
I lost mine the same way and I’m just lost, numb and broken.
I lost my husband 1/12/13, I'm still struggling and have not been able to move forward!! We were married 32 years, 3 months, and 24 days. The holidays are the hardest for me. We didn't have children, so I have no one to laugh or cry with. My health is suffering. I'm isolated and envy my siblings and friends who have families. I have no one!!!!! Please pray for me.I know I didn't grieve initially, I was too busy being strong. So I thought!!!! My late husband died suddenly one Saturday morning. Time doesn't heal the heart. I want to live again.😢 YES, he was my Best friend, fishing buddy, protector, lover, camping partner, my best competitor in the kitchen!!he was my everything- I felt so safe with him. My grief has gone beyond a season. I've tried counseling but it's very expensive. I am a BELIEVER IN CHRIST JESUS!! IM STUCK!!!😭😭😭😭
I feel your pain. I've been there as well. I'm still grieving since 2018. Lost my Dad, then my brother, then my Mom. Then my spouse and then my dog's. I'm struggling every day. Please pray for me. Thank you and God bless 🇺🇸
Thank you for the message. I lost my husband just month a ago … but seems like yesterday unbelievable! my heart is so broken into pieces. I missed him so much
I am also a widow. You are walking a very tough journey. I suggest books of other widows stories. A good book but not by a widow is:
Please Be Patient I’m Grieving As Fast As I Can by Gary Roe.
A Widow’s Journey by Gayle Roper
Grief Works by Julia Samuel
One of my favorites The Widowers Notebook by Jonathan Sandlofer
God Bless as you walk through confusion, sadness and so many other emotions and changes. Losing Dwight has changed who I am and how I view life. ❤️
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!!
I hope it helps you, too!
@@wcgl5595 Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!!
I hope it helps you, too!
My son died 2 months ago, I don’t know what I will do without him😭
I'm sorry for you loss and my heart aches with yours. I lost my wonderful son 7 months ago... and I don't know how to be without him, a loving son.
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I lost my Mother in 21 and my Dad in 22....lm lost, lm stagnant, and it's literally effecting my health.....this is the most gut wrenching pain that I've ever felt...no physical pain can come close to this...they were my everything...at times it's almost unbearable 😞
I am so very sorry for your loss. You were blessed to have two loving parents.
Five years in after my husband passed. I'm not the same I'm still grieving. I look for him every day. I am struggling not to make bad decisions. I struggle everyday. I have tried grief counseling, I found I'm not consumable for public appearances. I rather stay home and pray.
I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from..?.:..
This preacher omits to include in his words or advice for those who don’t have six children, a wife, a mother etc remaining to love and be loved by after their particular recent loss. Circumstances mean that some people have no remaining family at all nor any close friends.
I am sending my prayers for those people in particular.
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!!
I hope it helps many people you meet and you, too!
Yes, I feel completely alone! Thank you!
Thank you for leaving this comment. It means a lot to be recognized and appreciated in spite of things.
I just lost my mom October 5th a little over a week ago. I'm lost broken and still in shock. This is a kind of pain I've never felt😢
My dad just died today so I looked this up. Went the same way with the hospital saying he was good for the procedure. They took him early before scheduled time for lung drain tube and he died with no one there. I needed this video and thank you for it from the bottom of my heart.
Im sorry Jim ❤😰
I lost my husband 12 years now , and was the primary care giver . You have to go through to get through 🙏🏻😢
I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from..?.:…
My mother passed away 2 weeks ago. This is the most painful experience of my life, I feel like I don't know what to do with my life, I don't feel like living anymore. I pray for God's help, my mom was my best friend. The pain is overbearing.
Sorry for your loss
I feel the same way after losing my mom. on 2/14 . I don’t wish to wake up and I can’t even sleep more than 2 hrs . and more things and people I must face when I face the day or her funeral . I can’t describe how painful it is for me but I still pray and hope you are feeling much better by now .
@@rebecca2950 I am so sorry for your loss. May her soul rest in peace. To be honest, it still hurts, but I thank God for strength so far for me and my family. He has helped us through this horrible moment, I give him the glory. If you want to talk to anyone, I am here. You can talk to me.
I share your pain, I lost my mother recently and lived with her my whole life until God took her. 😢
You got kids? Live for them
I just found out my grandma passed away yesterday. She raised me and I am who I am because of the things she taught me. It’s still unbelievable but this sermon helped me tonight.
I’m so sorry for your loss, Praying for you
same for me this day...
My situation is exactly the same as yours, I know my grandma is with Jesus with no pain.
i’m so sorry :( i lost my grandma last year-a month ago. i’m praying for you
@@StephenJosiahh thank you, I really appreciate it
The only thing that gives me peace is knowing my brother gave his life to God, he was too young but he's in a better place. This world has nothing to offer its full of sin we're in pain physically emotionally and he won't have to deal with that anymore.
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!!
I hope it helps you, too!!!
Letty Z. God bless you and God brings you peace and comfort Amen 🙏
This is what i wanted to hear as I am grieving the loss of my husband of 44 years. You are so right, just because we are alive doesn't mean we're free from pain and sufferings. It gives so much solace to know our dear ones are not in pain anymore. This helps you to move on although the grief will never go away.
@@SUJAMUK Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!!
I hope it helps you, too!!!
@@SUJAMUK my deepest condolences it definitely doesn't go away, it's been 4 months and I'm still shocked to know I'll never see him or hear him. I find peace in knowing he's in paradise with our heavenly father my hope is that one day I'll see him again 🙏 I pray God sends you comfort and peace . Strength each day and just know that your husband is in God's hands 🙏🤍🕊
Appreciate this Word. Not many talk about Grief but this was needed. I've lost 3 of my immediate family members within a period of 2 years. This Word is needed.
Unexpectedly lost my mom 2 weeks ago. Completely devestated. She was healthy caught and pneumonia 1/8/22. In hospital 2 months spent the last month and half on ventilator for no reason. My family members are separating. Division, greed has come upon this family. Mom could of lived another 20 years. In disbelief I feel angry it’s not fair she’s the sweetest, most generous, caring person, humble person i ever knew. Thank you for this video. Sharing with my family
I'm sorry for your loss. I just lost my mother 💔😭. I'm single and she was my mother, companion, best friend, confidant. I'm so devastated!
So sorry for your loss I feel the exact same .
I really needed this. I lost my dad almost a year ago. We are followers of Christ, but the grief just destroys me at times. I miss him so much.
I lost my Dad 23 years ago and it still hurts just as much now
So difficult to adjust without, personally doing poorly.
I miss my dad so bad ! 💔
God bless you all my heart is with you and your pain we lost my husband June 2020 and my dad Oct 2021 we have 5 children and I miss them both still very much🥺🙏🏻❤️
I feel like it’s on a whole another level when u lose someone while trying to resuscitate them and you fail as with my husband tried to give him cpr after he collapsed while waiting for paramedics ❤️🙏🏻june 2020
I lost my dad. And everything has changed. I just want to go back in time :( and be with my dad
I lost my dad two weeks ago. I wish I could go back in time too 💔Sorry for you loss
I lost my dad to and I just don’t know what i’m going to do.
Same . My only hope is that a time machine will be invented soon .
I lost my dad over a month ago. I want to rewind everything when he was still alive. I love you dady💔
I lost my dad two weeks ago and the pain is unbearable. I have a 2 year old and a newborn. He was 55 and had so much life left to live 💔
So sorry 😪😪
I lost 4 family members in 12 months. It’s been very hard dealing but I try to keep busy and do a lot of praying and I receive prayers from my church family and kin and do and watch positive things and get physically active to help with my mental. And been trying to read the Bible more. Thank you🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Ayyo what happened
I’m so sorry for your loss 😢 I’m praying for you
My grandmother was my
Best friend and my mother after losing her my world spiraled out of control I can’t even wrap my mind around it I miss her everyday.
Just lost my father on 4 June while in hospital care after a long battle with Parkinson's disease and associated complications. I am bereft very deeply, but I am comforted that he had faith in Christ.
I have some feelings of guilt that I didn't visit my father often enough in his final months. The timing of the passing was sudden and unexpected.
Can you please pray for our family, that we will find comfort in the Lord Jesus as we go through this season of grief.
Bless you all. ❤
I needed this… my mom passed and I couldn’t stop thinking about bad times and remember the good times… I’m lost but this gives me hope
He will see you through and remember her beautiful life continues in Heaven, eternal. My mom passed in 2016
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!!
I hope it helps you, too!!!
I lost my mate of 37 years 4 nights ago & the grief is overwhelming. Thank you for this video. God Bless You & Yours & I am sorry for your loss
I hope you're doing okay now. They say time heals. I don't know about that but I want you to know, there's someone who cares. God bless you!
I am so sorry for you loss. My son was laid to rest Saturday. The pain is excruciating. I have opted for meds for depression and grief counciling. Tomorrow is his 36th birthday. He donated his organs, saved 5 people. That is some comfort to me. He embraced Christianity after years of having nothing to do with religion. God bless you.
May God continue to comfort you. It’s VERY difficult.
I am so very sorry! I lost my husband three months ago. First love of 41 years ago. Married 24. When I read you lost your love just four nights ago, my heart sank for you. That wound is deep. I am so sorry. Stay close to Jesus and your community around you. 🙏🏻✝️💔
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!!
I hope it helps you, too!!!
I so applaud you for broaching a "negative" subject. This society rejects any positive talk. So our grief is prolonged by peoples platitudes that only feels like a dagger through the soul. I have longed to address this among the church members so that we can be authentic with each other.
My niece died the other day. She was only 23 years old. I'm devastated. Please pray for our family.
My brother died 2 weeks ago from overdose and he was also 23. Praying for you and yours, I know the serious toll this has taken on my family. Take care 🤍🙏🏼
@@P.optar.t OH sweetie! I'm so so sorry! Yes, it's so shocking and horrible. It's hard to deal with. Like me, for instance, I'm used to taking care of things. Anytime a problem arises, I do my best to handle it but when she died I felt so helpless. There was NOTHING I could do about it. Not only am I hurting but my family is as well. I will pray for peace and comfort for you and your family. Once the shock wears off, you'll be better able to come to terms with his passing. Neither one of them are in pain any longer. God bless you sister!
@@P.optar.t I hope you're doing okay. Praying for you!😪
So very sorry for this tough loss. I
Lost my sweet nephew who was 24 on July 30 and it has been the toughest loss to say the least. My heart is breaking for my sister and her two other boys. He died suddenly in a swimming accident. 💔
I'm so sorry for your loss
I lost my grandpa early this am. He was my father figure. Pastor Josh, your words and past experience with grief has blessed so many of us. Thank you for sharing
Pastor Thankyou
My husband committed suicide 2017. I moved cross country transferred jobs and COVID happened. I'm so isolated and lonely . I know God has me covered. This is a very long season. And you actually resemble my husband it's perfect I foubd this video. God bless you and your beautiful family
Oh Susan!!!! I'm so sad for you, I'm praying right after I've wrote this for you that Jesus will bring people into your life to help support you and carry you right now, please keep asking him for his comfort and peace also he will give you it and strengthen you through this, life can be so cruel and painful, 😭, I send you a million hugs, and I'll be praying over you 🙏😘💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
I feel your pain. I lost my wife in 2018, and I miss her so very much. I pray for all suffering loss at this time. Jesus Christ's love will pull us through.
@@jamjoh64 relentless xo
So sorry for your loss Susan. May God be close to you and send people around you and may your life be filled with love.
God be with you Susan and I’ll keep you in my prayers. You are sooooo much stronger than you think. God gives his hardest battles to his strongest warriors. I cannot imagine what it would be like in your place but I sympathize for you. I am here with you even though you don’t know me . Gods people will give you strength and courage. My dear Susan you are a beautiful soul and God has a special place for you in heaven.
this is crazy my mom just passed of the same exact thing. im glad I clicked on this video. thank you.
I lost my only son. No family, no help from the church. Nobody cared. Just on my own now no family. Most Christians don't understand how hard life is on your own with no family at all. Still believe in God but don't go to any uncaring Church anymore. I just have to put my trust in God alone.
I lost my mother 2 weeks ago . Never thought I would feel that type of pain.
I recommend this book available on Amazon, "Lessons From a Place of Pain: An Account of God's Healing Power and Restoration after a Great Loss"
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@@kimmylee1085 sorry:(
One thing that has rung true for me is how deeply grief effects you. Just like you said it causes so many ups and downs, I lost my father to a cancer he didn't even know he had. Within a few months he went from joking and playing ball in the yard with me to being on his death bed in hospice and having our family talk to him through the window and only having two people allowed in at a time. My mother watching outside and just deeply wanting to be with her husband. After losing my dad my feelings went to sorrow and anger and frustration. Why my dad? Why me? Why my family? Why was God doing this? I started to slowly lose my faith and feel numb. He passed over a year ago but I today I have just had so many ups and downs. From all of this my one year old son was born, and I will have to tell him one day about his grandpa and how incredible was. He was a pastor and I know he would be proud of his grandson and his sons and how they still follow the Lord. While we aren't perfect we certainly try our hardest to honor him in his legacy. All this is to say that now I am back with the Lord but I'm still struggling. Grief carries its demons with it, attacks from the enemy while we are weary and heavy laden.. but our father says come to me those who are weary and heavy laden and I never truly understood that verse until now. In our darkest moments he is still with us. Thank you so much for this Pastor Josh. I live across the country in Washington state but I really appreciate you posting this. God really is using this to reach so many people including myself.
After watching the whole sermon I just wanted to say that I believe God led me here today to listen to this. Literally EVERYTHING you said resonated with me. As if I am meant to hear this today. God wants us all to know that he is near to us in every emotion and season of grief and your message helped me so much tonight. I'm not perfect and nobody is but I now am ready to heal and to let go. To run to the father who will never leave us, who will never forsake us. With the hope that one day I will see my earthly father and heavenly father one day. Where I will worship the Lord forever. God is INCREDIBLE.
Yesss, amen!! Beautifully said! ❤🙏
Your 1st paragraph to 'Grief carries demons' describes my last 3yrs (wife). I believe I still carry it and he (God) knows it as well.
I've been moving forward (first two years stayed away from God and Church), but inside I don't have Acceptance or willing to negotiate Time to Heal. I know she very much alive and Heaven is real. But I told God, Im unable and unwilling to put her passing in that 'natural' perspective and may he instead be here to me in the 'super natural'. And not that he was not there in the first place.
Im defiant on it (no acceptance or time to heal,) for it's not the same like any other hardships in the world (lossed foreclosure home, repossessed vehicle, lost career/job or money). For the Love of our Life are irreplaceable.
Regarding darkness, I know his awesomeness and power, but until that time again (reunion in Heaven or millennial period) - I stay away from riches of this world even though it (her Loss) beats on me daily.
Watching this tonight after suddenly losing two friends in one week. Thank you for this encouragement and for emphasizing with us through your own testimony with your dad. Thank you so much.
My husband crossed over to heaven from lung cancer..I am still thankful for my family and church family. My community helped me get through the grief of my dear husband. Thank you for this message.
Im sorry about your husband, my condolences goes out to you, hopefully you're better now ? It's nice talking to people with similar experience likewise, I lost my late wife to a horrible car wreck four years ago it was a terrible experience for me, but I kept strong for my teenage daughter hoping for the best future for her, it'd be nice to talk to you more maybe have a great conversation, if you don't mind sending me your gmail address so I could reach out on you ?.
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!!
I hope it helps you, too!!!
Its 2 am in Nigeria and i am lossing my braids while wondering how to help a loved one and his family through grief. Thank you for sharing. I am grateful I found this resource.
This was important that I watch and hear this tonight. I am so pleased that you had your dad in your life and had spent quality time with him. You have been blessed by his life. Now, as an old man and a father and grandfather, I want to share some important advice to you, and at some time you can share it with your sons. Never let a day go by without telling your sweet wife how much you love her and how much she means in your life. Be sincere and specific. She will know. Do this every day. We can get in the habit of letting life get in the way of these small but very important things we do with our spouse. This same advice go with all of those in your family. Let hour wife know you LOVE her. There may be a day she may not be there to hear that. Yesterday has happened and passed. Today is hear and now, so Cherish the Moment. Don't worry about tomorrow - Tomorrow you will be looking back at Yesterday (which is Today), so make sure you know that you cherished the moments. Tell her right now that you love her. . . .
My father died when I was a small child and every birthday, Father's Day, Christmas, Thanksgiving, etc., there is always that empty chair at the table. It's a lifetime of mourning.
I lost my mom on August 17th thank you for teaching about grief 😔 I needed to hear this..I'm so lost and sad
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!!
I hope it helps you, too!
Thank you soooo very much for this message. I have been in a season of loss for the past 3 years and it has jolted my life. I have been trying to comfort everyone else and just have become numb. I came across this message and watched it multiple times and it resonated in my spirit and gave me great revelation about grief and death. Again thank you so very much. God bless you and your family.
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!!
I hope it helps you, too!
Thank you for this message.
You enlightened me.
Two years for the season of grief.
Going 3rd year now.
I am able to once more express this grief
with my community with hope!
I isolated myself from our common friends .That suppressed grief.
I can now process my grief with full acceptance and hope.
My beloved ♥ husband,Earl.
Forever in my heart!
Enjoy heaven.
My grandmother has passed away. Please pray for our family.😢
This was encouraging. I lost my husband June 10, 2021 suddenly. Left with 3 kids, and it feels like death to our lives. It’s awful.
Yep. Especially when God knows our motives we had thankful and looking forward 'to twilight years with our beloved Love of Our Life'. LIfe and it's hardships is bad enough - but this bloodgeon my soul and faith.
My best friend and housemate died in August '23, we had known each other since 1989,
I am devastated, sad and really lonely. She was unconscious for the last two days save
for some time in the mornings when she tapped my hand with hers. I spoke the
Lord's prayer, the 23rd psalm and other Christian things into her ear and hope beyond
hope that she put her faith completely in Jesus before she died in the evening of 16th.
Praying for you angel, I hope you ok ❤
I lost my beloved hubby and soul mate to Covid 19 on July 22, 2021. We both contracted Covid 19 Category 5 and this is the most difficult times of my life. Am still having the pain, struggling everyday, feeling lost, empty and grieving. I pray to god to give me the strength and take away my pain! But I know my husband is now in heaven rejoicing with god. This video helps comfort me alittle. TQ
I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from..?.:…
I lost my grandson age 25, through tragic circumstance in August 2023. Please pray for my family and Myself as we are all struggling to come to terms with this. Most of our family are Christians. Thank you for the vision, I will remember all who commented in my prayers too
I lost my brother 2 months ago to suicide and since have been so rocked I struggle to leave my room. I’ve started smoking again, I’ve been drunk and hide away. My heart was completely broken. I stopped praying, stopped going to church, stopped working. I stopped everything and now I feel completely lost. Im ashamed because I overlooked Jesus the whole time through my grieving, I prayed again for the first time lastnight and again this morning because I want to return home and I don’t know how to return to who I was before all of this when I was putting Christ first. I can’t bare the thought of my brother not being in heaven (he didn’t believe) and it holds me back from everything. He was my little brother and I just want to protect him. And somehow I have to try and let all of that go. Im sorry for anyone going through anything similar and I’m here if you’d like to talk ❤
You will never be the same person you were before you lost your brother. But you can heal and become an even better person. It’s never too late with Jesus. He will always take you back. That’s a good start to be praying. Read your Bible and aim to get back to church. There is a great program called Griefshare that is faith based & a wonderful support group. Can’t find them in person or online. May God bless you💜🙏
I lost my only brother/sibling to suicide too. Then my parents stopped talking to me for 15 yrs. (Suicide brings families closer or tears them apart) & never told me why. I wrote them 15 yrs & just got silence, but I always told them my door was always open & I'd always love them. Finally I went thru 2 yrs of therapy & gave them up to The Lord! I had 1 truly happy yr out of 15. THEN my parents showed up @ my door. Little did I know I would end up being their ONLY caregiver for 8 long years as they both slowly died from different dementias & cancer. And I'm disabled! No1 helped! I lost dad 6-23 & mom 4-2024. A few days ago (7-2024) I FINALLY took my 1st day to start cleaning out my "parents' office" & ran across things from the past 8 yrs that made me cry. My 40 yr old maid happened to be here & trying (I guess) to be kind said "it's ok, as long as we don't get stuck in our grief." I've been grieving watching BOTH parents dying & then dying for 8 yrs! Statements like that show me they don't get it & have not "walked a mile in my shoes." I've been married to my sweet hubby for 21 yrs & loved his family as my own. None OF THEM have done ANYTHING except send flowers. No hugs, no meals, nothing! My parents were very dysfunctional & one family member - AS I WAS WATCHING MOM DIE - texted me & SHAMED me for "caring for my f*c*ed up parents!" Dad had just been dead for 10 months! Mom died 2 DAYS LATER & I was ALONE w/her at the end for 19 hours straight!! Not one person came! This "family" member is also 40. I know @ 40 most haven't been thru what seniors have...some have....but are few. All these people are supposed to be Christians! He & his wife were to be my PoA's & caregivers & I am removing them from EVERYTHING as what he said AFTER THE FACT was beyond CRUEL!! They're my husband's family...I have no children. So I am done with these who've sucked everything out of me, but when I (me 100% disabled) needed help & asked - no one came! Especially when I was grieving horrifically!! 20+ years I WASTED my life being kind, giving, loving to this family of my hubby's. I'm done! Why are people so cruel? My heart goes out to all who've lost someone to suicide! It is TERRIBLE! Even when I try to help people can be cruel. So I only help strangers now! God bless you who lost your brother! Life is so hard! Take care of yourself as you have a 60% higher risk of suicide. Stay safe plz!❤
My son passed away on March 13 of 2021, im still grieving and holidays are coming and it's not easy. 😭 Then going through a divorce to. I pray or listen to prayers.
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!!
I hope it helps you, too!
I lost my son February 11th 2021 22 years old we both had given are hearts to the Lord 3 years prior we God baptized together it was so unexpected and sudden in a fetal car accident I’m so sad I stand on Gods promises I have to keep going so I can see my son again one day oh yes it’s been so heartbreaking 💔days I feel like I can’t breathe every day My father God gives me strength daily to keep me going my son just went a head of me I Love you Jesus and too all mothers who have lost a child I can understand your pain you are all in my prayers 🙏🙏🙏God Bless you all stay focused on Jesus I’m done sorry for your losses 💔😭
Thank you so much for your comment, Dorely. I lost my 29 year old son on December 2nd, 2021, and I'm still in so much pain. I know exactly what you mean about feeling like you can't even breathe. I still scream his name into my pillow or into the air, looking for him everywhere. I beg God to just kill me, but I have to keep going for my youngest son. We will see them again, I just know it. ❤
@36:40 Came here searching for that hope in my life. I was never religious much, but every time I'm in my greatest sorrows/ distress I find myself speaking to God. I don't know how to pray, so I came here in my grief. Through these words in this video I was able to find comfort knowing that these trials of sorrow are MEANT to bring me closer to god, meant to remind me of His unconditional comfort..
and here on earth, It's comforting to hear others describe grief exactly how it is- feeling like a death sentence to our souls. The lord let me here, thank you.
Really really agree with your perspective on mourning. I nursed my husband until his death and i do believe i had started to grieve before he died but listening to your talk I'm so glad that you discussed that part of mourning before the person has actually dies never discussed it with anyone afraid that i might sound stupid. Thank You Sending you Irish Blessings.
I lost my daughter 42 yrs old. The day after Thanksgiving, she battled menistatic breast cancer for 10 yrs. Her estranged husband, took My grandson to live out of state,, with him, girlfriend and his daughter. I (we)wasn't (weren't) allowed to see/talk to my grandson upon his departure.
It's a heart wrenching situation. Every day is new grieving period. Those that haven't endured such a situation, can't fathom what grieving is.
I lost
My Mum in law a month ago. I’ve never experienced this loss. She had a strong faith and is with our Lord. That does bring me peace. ❤️
Please listen to the interview that Pegi did with a mother who lost her child, and had an amazing near-death-experience together with her child! Her name is Alba Monn and the interview is brand-new, it is online maybe for two days or so!! Many people have commented that it's life-changing!!!
I hope it helps you, too!
❤💪, a buddy of mine, has same mom (mum) as yours. But Ive been unable to comfort him on this truth: 'she's very much alive and Heaven is real'
For he's strong bull street fighter and in his continuous grief tears he keeps repeating 'I just wish to know she's fine?'😰I told him he shocks me.
I lost my sister to COPD. My heart is broken. She was always my favorite sibling. Be with Jesus my sister.. I can't wait to see you again without oxygen. I love you sis.
i lost my unborn son, left with only 3 weeks to birth him. it felt surreal, just yesterday, i had performed a scan that showed his vibrant heart beating and a day after, he was gone. TERRIBLE PAIN!. but i know he is in a better place.
Oh wow. Im sorry for your pain..
I really needed this video's message. I'm having a incredibly difficult time with my dad's death. It will be a year and nine months Thursday since my dad passed away. I'm just now getting to where I feel like my feet are on a semi solid ground. I feel my actions and behavior were a direct result of his death. I also feel my dad died protecting me. No, I dont feel that way. I know those two things to be true. I was so caught up in my own self that I failed my daddy. I ignored things he said to me at the time. The guilt I have with it is all consuming and apparently never ending. I've learned I dont like change in my life. My beautiful ex wife pointed it out to me when i was married to her. My divorce, lol that's a whole another chapter of grief for me too. Which apparently is also never ending. Life is nothing but change and I'm not really good with it. Anyhow. Thank you. This video was help for me and I appreciate that Sir.
I just lost my husband after 39 years. 3month in hospital. Covid then to liver failer. Its just not real.we were never apart over these years.had 5 wonderful children.all have their own families. I just don't want to cry as I'm scared I won't stop. But I am at peace. I trust God new what was best for my husband.x
I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from..?.:.:..
My mom passed away 5 months and 3 days ago. This sermon is helping! Thank God I found this! ❤️