This hits me really hard 😭"I never knew how much I wanted to be a mom till it happened 💔💔" that is exactly how I feel and it hurts a lot not hearing the heartbeat when you u expected one😭😭
Girl it really does it's been 4 years and I'm still empty on the inside it's like I came to terms with it but hasn't accepted it ion think I ever will I been praying but it's mainly unbearable sometimes 💔🥺😢 I'm grateful for the 3 babies I have now and I can only the pain the next woman feel in regard because they make us feel miscarriages is less than which don't make it better
I just experienced a miscarriage. I lost my baby at 6 weeks. He stopped growing . I wasn't ready for a baby at all but it still hurts me mentally the fact that my body wasn't strong enough to keep the baby alive and growing , it hurts that I had absolutely no support whatsoever when I announced my first pregnancy
I lost mines at 5 weeks on July 17,my first pregnancy too I know exactly how you feel . I keep trying to get myself back to normal I feel like I shouldn’t be as sad as I am. But I am. I wish you well in the future and just know you’re not alone.
@@nickkiataylor946 I'm coming up on a year since I lost my baby this December 15th. and I won't sugar coat it and act like the odds are you're almost done weathering the storm. some women are able to pick up the pieces quite quickly - and there's nothing WRONG with this. these parents are LUCKY. but for very very many of us... the process takes MUCH longer. I think one of the worst parts about our society's stigmas and the inappropriate attitudes towards and treatment of bereaved parents of pregnancy loss is that unlike the loss of any other child (or even if you're just comparing this to the loss of other post-birth infants) is that whereas its treated as "acceptable" and the norm for most grieving parents to take YEARS or at least quite a few months to begin to pick up life again in any real way beyond just mourning. but parents of pre-born children who pass away are expected to "move on" completely in a matter of DAYS (if that... tbh... many people won't even be understanding / considerate enough to "allow" you to get upset AT ALL over these losses). almost ALL of us need more than that much time. the vast majority of us need MUCH longer! I felt the need to say this here because I don't want you (or anyone else reading this) to think there's anything wrong (or even unusual) with needing to take some time to recover. and just like other forms of grief or recovery... its not a clean neat linear black and white transformation from sad to back to your former self before this ever happened. (I have found comfort in thinking of what they say of those recovering from a substance addiction... specifically in that "relapses are a normal part of the process". that's rang true in a way to my experience.... as time has past... I've healed enough that I've gotten to a place where I have some very good and hopeful days where I am at peace and positive. but there are STILL a lot of days that are NOT like that. and that's OKAY! I now know that the more time that passes the more and more of my days will be these good ones.) I also really really love the perspective and explanations that isis gave here about how you'll never be your "old self" again - but she brings light to something SO important... which I've been working on learning too. is that this change isn't necessarily all going to be a BAD thing. yes... it is colored by quite a bit of pain and sorrow. but there's many ways that this experience can make your life... and YOU... actually BETTER than the you that you used to be. this is already a long comment... so I won't go into too much more detail about my own experience... but I WILL say that I have already started to come to grasp this... and I know I'll only continue to improve myself and my world as I continue to heal. before chance (that was my child's name)... I really didn't have much faith. to be quite frank... the life I was leading was full of behaviors that were not the greatest - both towards myself and towards others. having chance in my life (and yes... he is still VERY much a part of my life... even though he is an angel now) has helped me to find God and organized religion and improve my character and treatment of others. I have been working towards channeling the negativity of this experience into positivity... particularly in working towards devoting my time and money to helping other bereaved parents and into preventing other potential victims by trying to solve the problems that lead to the deaths of children. I've not only put extensive work into spreading awareness and social activism for these causes.... I've also already fundraised $3500+ (and I'm just getting started!) I've becoming active in politics... campaigning and petitioning and protesting. before chance... I had never even voted. so to get back to my first point... like I said.. I won't lie... this year has been brutal. in ways I never would have thought possible. but rather than cursing the world or God or fate or coincidence or WHATEVER for "ruining" my life and causing so many "horrible things"... I am GRATEFUL for chance. for his life on this earth... although far too short. I am grateful for the time we DID get to share together. and more importantly... I thank him for in so many ways SAVING my life... I have no doubt that chance and his legacy will undoubtedly prove to be a WONDERFUL happenstance to not only me... but this WORLD. and if you're a mother who's lost reading this right now... I have no doubt either that your baby's life was WONDERFUL and their legacies will be POSITIVE! you will emerge STRONGER AND BETTER THAN EVER BEFORE (but DONT ever ever try to rush it!!). hang in there.... YOU GOT THIS LADIES !!
Livvy Coseriu I tea do appreciate that message so much and what you said is very much. My little foot has made a huge impact on me I’ve grown into a better part of myself in many ways. And sometimes I still think about it and cry and other days I just remember the strength it have given me to become better. It take time for all us women and we must allow ourselves the time 💖
i had a miscarriage at 8 weeks of my pregnancy... i am still hurting even though it was three months ago... i still miss my baby... my mental health wasn't good... nor was my physical health... my body was weak... my boyfriend at the time wasn't around when i needed him... even after the miscarriage... the pain is still there... i pushed back the pain for so long... i wish that i could have my baby back... hold your babies close every one...
I miss my baby too. Before I got pregnant, it never really bothered me to see a pregnant woman. But after getting pregnant and miscarrying, it made me realize how amazing it is to have a baby in your womb. I miss that feeling and it seem like it's taking forever to happen again
I lost my baby at 7 weeks as well. and I'm keeping my faith in god as well. But I'm struggling with the heartache becuase I have endometriosis which makes getting pregnant harder and after trying for years, I was so happy only to have it taken from me.. I pray that you are blessed with a family, please pray for me as well.may god bless us all that want a family
I’ve never felt so alone and I never knew there was so many women who felt the same way. Sometimes I don’t think I’m going to be able to continue my life but so many people have reassurance to offer.
I've just lost my first baby at 19 weeks and I feel like I'm going out of my mind. I feel like this grief won't end , I just want a healthy baby and a happy life. I'm looking forward to the future and having a successful pregnancy.
Miscarriage is death. It brings with it all the agonizing grief that comes with losing a loved one. But miscarriage is also a taboo topic. It’s the very reason that we hide our pregnancies during those first dicey months. Fretfully waiting for the danger to abate before making any announcements. When bad news comes. Couples that lose a pregnancy tend to mourn in secret. Telling only close friends and family about their loss. In fact, the only tradition our society does have regarding miscarriage is that you’re not supposed to talk about it. We expect grieving couples to buck up and pretend that the little life lost never existed in the first place. We reduce a miracle to a topic not fit for polite conversation. As with so many verboten topics. Perhaps the answer is simply for people to be more open. Like in my case I went to my clinic in Bio tex to get more assistance. To stop pretending that if we ignore miscarriage, it won’t hurt. Because the only thing worse than losing something that meant the world to you is pretending that you lost nothing.
Thats a very nice name. I was only 4 weeks and 3 days and its my second day today going threw the miscarriage. Didnt even get close to finding out the gender but if i was a boy we were naming it Micheal Alexander. Its just backwards from yours
@@NiecyEnMediasRes we found out after I gave birth to him. My birth was extremely traumatic. I went to the hospital and they wouldn’t do anything for me so I ended up having Alexander alone in the hospital bathroom. 😔😔
Thank you, I’d a two miscarriage one last January at 8weeks, it’s so hard to come to terms with, I have good and bad days, feel alone some days and that no one understands 😢 my husband is great but I feel man just don’t experience the lost like woman do. I’m 40 and hope we do get blessed again 🍼 to all who have lost angels my prays are with you x
🙏 💕. I understand you more then you know. 35 with it being my first p. With it ending after 3 months, a little over a month ago. Lots of hurt, lots of grace, lots of love.
I just had a miscarriage at midnight last night. It was my first pregnancy and caught it and my heart broke, it turns out I have RH negative blood and was reacting to the babies different blood type, causing a miscarriage and I didn’t know this and now know I need the RH shot. My husband was broken but having him is helping me the most right now. Thank you for sharing because I was afraid of being a mother with no purpose
My wife and I just went through this as she was 8 weeks. We found out the baby did not have a heartbeat. You are right, the hardest thing for me to understand is how powerless you can feel when you find out there is absolutely nothing you could have done. The scar will be there for ever . It's hard to watch someone be that sad and not be able to change anything. A lot of things have to be absolutely perfect to have a baby. God doesn't always come for older roses. Sometimes he picks a rose bud for his plan and I have to trust that he did what he did for a reason. To anybody who does go through this close your eyes and accept that it's not ok and there is nothing wrong with that.
Daniel, you’re such a wonderful husband. Everyone deals with grief differently. You stood by your wife and that’s what you both needed the most. May your marriage be blessed for many years to come.
I lost my first baby 4 days ago. I was 8 1/2 weeks at the time. The main thing I’ve felt is anger and hurt but I’ve also felt quite lost because no one in my family has experienced it. Thank you so much for making these videos! You’re really helping me to feel less alone❤️❤️
i just lost my twin boys at 20 weeks and im only 15 years old. my cervix wasn’t developed and ready to hold one let alone two babies i had two hours w them each before they passed away in my arms .. stay strong fellow angel mommas, thank you for this video 🥺❤️
Thanks for sharing ...I've had a miscarriage just 5 days ago...its all fresh for me...I'm crying all the time...its heavy on my heart...i feel heart broken...i call my baby...Angel baby
Going through it right now. Is been two weeks since I naturally miscarry at 12 weeks. I had to go through the labor pains for more than 10 hours followed by a D&C procedure. I still very fresh. First two weeks had been about healing physically and emotionally. Today I breakdown crying but at least is not like before where I cried for hours every day. I'm still grieving and I pray God every day for healing in my heart. I try to not cry in front of my husband. This pain makes me feel so lonely. I know I will be fine and I know God will bless us again with a healthy pregnancy beautiful healthy baby but I'm alouding myself go grieve and cry n pour it all out at the present time.
I went through the exact same experience. Happened yesterday, my husband and I cried together... having someone there to share the pain of losing ur baby, helps a lot ❤️
I lost my baby my first trimester do to stress and other problems concerning my body ....I never had time to mourn over what could have been ..thank u this video really helps me and hopefully help millions of women that has lost there baby
I've had two miscarriages and one was last year it was so hard. I lost it at 3 months. and the second was just a few minutes ago and I was only 4 weeks almost a month. This video helped me find ways to help me and my partner be calm during this time.
I had two early miscarriages this year. One in February and one last month. Life feels so dull, thank you for opening up. I’ll think I’m fine and then I burst into tears. Miscarriage is the worst pain I’ve felt, thank you 💛
Glad to hear you're feeling better, Frankie. I think just being there for her is the best thing you can do. Give her space if she needs it and ask her how you can help her. Everyone copes with grief after baby loss so differently, so it's hard to list things that will help. Some people find that talking about it helps, others prefer not to talk. The thing she needs the most right now is support and love and it sounds like she has that from you. Take care and I wish you both all the best in life. ❤️
I just had a miscarriage last night February 7th and i was almost 3 months pregnant. I can not get over my loss. Watching this has helped a lot because I know so many people go through this so thank you. The part of you saying you didn’t realize how much you wanted to be a mother after the loss... hit me so hard
I’ll be 3 months next week... and idk it’s like I just feel my child dying inside of me... I spend most of my days sick and in a lot of pain vaginally and sharp stabbing pains to my abdomen... sometimes I’m so miserable I can’t do a thing.
Dear Ysis, i lost my first baby 3 days ago, i was in 5 week.... my world ended at that point.... now i saw your video and you gave back my faith in life. Thank you very much for your calmness and positive thoughts. Be blessed my dear :)
Thank you, I have now had 5 miscarriages.. most of them early and one a bit longer and that was the hardest as my body was feeling very pregnant.. I wish all the best for everyone, don’t give up, just take good care of yourself ❤️
Thank you so much I I had a miscarriage in November 2019 and it's been hard because there's no help from family and friends I've been searching for videos like these to help me thank you for that.
I just lost my baby at almost 21 weeks.. I had a preterm birth.. it's been so traumatic. I feel empty and lost.. I pray that my baby is comfortable in heaven and I hope he knows how much we love him.. I pray that my next pregnancy in the future is successful 🙏
I lost my baby Violet 2 days ago, we had her for four days, best four days of my life. We found out at 36 weeks she had trisomy 13. I'm trying everything I can to continue on living without her, I just miss my Violet so much.
I am currently going through a miscarriage with my first pregnancy. I was 10 and a half weeks pregnant and went for an early scan to see that there was no baby. I was advised that it was likely just a fertilised egg that never developed so I can 100% relate to point 4, I feel a but like my grief is invalid as there was never really a baby there to begin with. However I found out when I was just over 3 weeks pregnant and to me there was a baby there from day 1 until that scan that confirmed the pregnancy wasn’t viable. Thank you for sharing your story, this video has been reassuring that things will get better for me.
I found out today that I lost my baby. I had bleeding and had tried to hold on hope that everything would be okay..it was my first pregnancy and my mind just is racing and I don't even know how to process everything. Thank you so much for sharing this
Im 16. My abusive household lead to my miscarriage. I feel... Empty. So empty. So sad. I wasnt even this depressed when i lost my best friend of 8 years to a car crash 10 months ago. Im so...done. Ive stopped doing my work in school, ive lost all hope and drive in life. I loved my baby. My ray of sunshine. My sweet, sweet bundle of hope.
Thank you so much for recording this video! I felt alone on that feeling for so long 😢 I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks; As soon as I found out, I started bleeding. I didn't know it wasn't normal, everyone I asked said it was normal, and my city doesn't have a hospital. Once I felt deep down it wasn't normal even though people said it was, I went to a hospital. At exactly 3 days into finding out I was pregnant, and they did an ultrasound, but there were no signs of baby anymore. I know that I was pregnant, I did a blood test and felt every symptom that I was supost to feel, even could feel my belly rougher. Even tough it was only 3 days, it's the worst pain I ever felt, but they were the happiest 3 days in my entire life, cause I always dreamt of being a mother 🥹 I also wanted to share, I think it was a boy 🤭 they say the mom always feels what is going to be Anyway, thank you again for sharing your story❤️❤️
Just lost twins today at 9 weeks 1 day. I was going to be a 1st time father.. I dedicated all my time in the last month to researching pregnancy, fatherhood tips. My depression had seemingly been cured and I'd felt better than I have in a long long time. I'm absolutely devastated.
I am currently going through the loss of my first child due to an ectopic pregnancy. I am grieving and feeling so much pain but this helped so much. I'm not alone. My significant other and I can use all the prayers we can get through the darkest part of our lives. I just wish I had my baby back. But we will have a healthy baby one day. I haven't lost my faith.
I am a transman who just found out about the loss of my baby today and I can not express enough how grateful I am not just for this video but for mentioning that men experience miscarriage too. Thank you so much
My baby girl Nevaeh Faith was due today and it hurts so bad to think today would have been the day I would have hold her and loved her But this video really helped me realize that I’m not alone and people are here for me and I just wanna thank you for making this video because people are finally talking about it and that makes me feel amazing that we are bring awareness to this because it can happen to anyone!
I just went through a miscarriage a few days ago. I found out I was 4 weeks pregnant and then just lost it three days later. It hurts and it’s still not done and over with yet. The pain I’ve been feeling is horrible. I know this is something that so many people cope with so I’m so happy you created this video to start the conversation.
Anyone who blames themselves for baby loss should seriously get over this!!! I just got the news that I'm going through a threatened misscariage and let me tell you it is NOT you!!! It can be chromosal or hormonal or whatever anything but our fault and we should be happy and celebrate our body for bearing this much!! No regrets
Thank you Lorenna for the tips. After a miscarriage or stillbirth, your grief may be so overwhelming that you wonder if you will ever be happy again. You may never truly “get over” your loss, but know that your grief will become more manageable over time especially if you recognize your feelings as valid and accept that you may need time to work through them. Immediate Aftermath of Miscarriage. The falling hormone levels in your body after a miscarriage might magnify your sad feelings into full-blown depression, but this effect should fade within a few weeks. Your feelings may range from sadness to anger to depression. You may feel as if your body failed you, especially if you had wanted the baby for a long time. You may even feel guilty, wondering if something you did caused the miscarriage. You may feel a temptation to review your entire medical history and everything you did during the pregnancy in order to find a reason why it happened, but try to resist the temptation. I remember in my case I had to seek some therapist intervention in Bio tex clinic and it did help. Perhaps that could be the best option for people to take.
Thankyou so much for sharing this. I have recently experienced a miscarriage and it was my first pregnancy. Me and my partner are absolutely heartbroken, but this video has helped me see that we’re not alone in this ❤️
I lost my Baby on 17 oct 2019. The pain of loosing my Baby is killing me everyday. At work and home i act like the happiest person but asa i get in my car i cry my way to work and back home.
Thank you for this video! My husband and I just went through a miscarriage this week . . . I'm young and healthy and the loss took us by surprise. So comforting to hear about a loss from someone who has also experienced it.
Thank you so much for sharing! It's certainly a lonely place and so many confused emotions. I am so hopeful for the future but I'm also so sad about the loss i've had this week. It's certainly the hardest week Ive been through but I know it will eventually make me stronger.
I’ve wanted to make this video for others too but I can not seem to talk for more than 15 seconds without breaking down. Your healing and strength are so beautiful.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I went through m/c a couple of months ago. It was devastating. I'm feeling so sad all the time. It still hurts. People say ‘let it go’ or ‘you will eventually get pg, don’t overthink’. My response to them is if you been ttc as long as we have you'll be devastated too. Everyone deals with grief differently. If you want to cry go ahead and do that. Only you know how you feel and what you need. No one can tell you there will be other times. The only thing which helps me now is thinking about my next cycle. I'm getting ready for ivf with donor eggs. I hope it will work... Bc I'm so tired of this struggle. Hang in there!
Sorry for your loss. That is something I don’t think you will ever get over. You will survive through it, but the pain will always be there... Sometimes it will get worse before it gets better. I had 2 mcs. Just when I thought I had put it past me, I see u/s of friend’s pregnancy. Then I find out more friends have become pregnant. Even though I am happy for each one of them I go home and cry... because it isn’t me. I wish them all healthy pregnancies. I just wish they would understand... I just wish they would be more sensitive. I feel like my mom is the only one in this battle with me. My dh thinks I will get pregnant just like that. He thinks we just had a bump in the road. But I don’t think what I went through was a bump... It happened to be a huge ditch that hurt a lot!
Me and my husband had no clue I was pregnant. Ive never been pregnant before and we werent trying. I lost them yesterday. We had no idea. I am in such a state of shock and grief. This video was so calm and everything I needed to hear. Thank you so much, so much. I needed this more than I knew. Thank you, God bless ❤
Hello! I'm from UK.We especially moved to Europe for surrogacy purpose.Than we came to know about this clinic and we moved to Ukraine.There we contacted this clinic.With the help of this clinic we have our two beautiful twin daughters.We are so thankful to the clinic that i can't tell you. I hope one day I can move forward like you have. I also love that you said "move forward", that was really compelling. I knew that is how this process was going to be but I just didn't know how to express it. You put everything so perfectly. BioTexCom is a very good clinic. And to the surrogate mother too who gave us so much happiness.We will never forget the clinic and the mother.
I'm sorry for your loss. I will never forget the moment the sonographer told us our baby didn't have a heartbeat. It was our first scan. I was 7 weeks pregnant. My husband and I were excited about seeing our little one for the first time. We've been trying for 5 years. It was our first pregnancy after 3rd IVF cycle. I had a small bump. I'd been feeling sick. We'd discussed baby names. I'd been reading pregnancy books. In our minds, there were already three of us. We believed there was no reason to suspect anything was wrong... I mean, we had 2 failed cycles and we were finally pg after 3rd one... We had to break the news to family and friends. Phrases such as "At least you know you can get pregnant", "You can try again", "Imagine how much worse it would be if it happened later" offered little consolation. Actually, I didn't know if I could get pregnant again. If I did, would I miscarry again? Would I ever go full-term? The answer turned out to be "No". We had 4th cycle, which ended up with m/c... again.
Thank you for sharing this video. I just had my second miscarriage in a year and it has been really hard. I especially appreciate you sharing how to talked to your partner about it. We have been struggling with communicating.
Thank you for this video. I just had a miscarriage 4 days ago. I was also told by doctors that it wasn't meant to be a baby. Maybe that's why most of my family members didn't think of it a loss.. watching your video makes me feel so much lighter. Thank you
Manevinsan Pasion I’m sorry this happened to you. I just went through one a few days ago and I understand what you mean about feeling as though your pain is not valid. Please remember that it is.
I've been researching about baby loss/miscarriage videos because I feel lost. I lost my baby at 8 weeks and it's been over around 4 months. The pain and loss still has not gotten any better. My husband wants to try again and I just don't think I'm in the right mind. I keep hoping I'm pregnant. Taking up to 20 tests every month hoping to see the positive signs again. Thank you for this video. It helped me feel a little better and have hope that things will be okay.
I just lost my little sibling. I don’t think I can recover really fast. This rips apart my heart and stomps on it, I never heard them cry, never fed them with a spoon, never changed it’s diaper, never bathed it, and never loved it outside the womb. I love the bean and I miss the bean.
I feel you. Ive lost 6 siblings in total and those are all things i miss. I know how hard it can be. I hope you have someone to talk to and if not im here. Ill gladly listen and try to help even if its a lil bit. Stay strong ❤
I feel you. Ive lost 6 siblings in total and those are all things i miss. I know how hard it can be. I hope you have someone to talk to and if not im here. Ill gladly listen and try to help even if its a lil bit. Stay strong ❤
I lost 2 babies 1st one ectopic baby was outside to womb and i lost one of my tube but i was glad to be alive and now my second one at 8 week after 2 years of my first one. The first one was scary. Home now after my D & C today 18 February 22.The doctor and nurse are so lovely nice and caring this help a lot.I don't ever want to get pregnant again. I can't go through this again. These video help so much. Thank you for tell us your story.
I have recently lost my baby at 13 weeks. 6 weeks after the loss I have needed to return to hospital for surgery. The whole experience has been devastating and it feels like I will constantly be sad. But thankyou for sharing this video, it has made me realise I need to talk more about my feelings more and that there are so many other women that have been through this. Love to you all x
It will be 5 months since my miscarriage in 3 days. Today has been an emotional day. This was our first pregnancy and we lost the baby at 6 weeks. It wasn’t growing correctly is what the doctors told me.Thank you for sharing. This has helped me so so much!!❤️
i lost my baby at 5 weeks pregnant. i found out i was pregnant a few days before i lost her, so she didn't even have the chance to meet her wonderful daddy (we both work a lot so i was planning to tell him in our anniversary dinner). i hope one day this grief doesn't feel so overwhelming, but right now i don't even want to speak to anyone
So grateful that your shared your story. I had two miscarriages and it is truly painful. All of your tips are really good. Thank you!! So grateful you have had children afterwards. Gives me hope 💜
Thank you Yais for opening up. Coping with miscarriage entails understanding the myths surrounding pregnancy loss. Many miscarriage myths cause a grieving mother to believe she is to blame for the death of her developing child. The woman, then, must suffer a heavy burden-one which she should not carry because miscarriage usually does not occur as a result of a woman's actions. It is important to dispel these myths to alleviate undue feelings of guilt a woman may feel because of her loss. Some of the miscarriage myths most worrisome to women are those that blame a woman's physical activity for the loss of a pregnancy. Activities such as exercise, sexual intercourse, horseback riding, and airplane trips are generally believed to cause miscarriage. Such myths also inherently suggest that bed rest will help prevent miscarriage. Therefore, when a woman miscarries, she is bombarded with feelings of inadequacy. Like she is a woman who cannot carry a pregnancy to term and guilt (for supposedly causing the miscarriage). However, it is important to remember that during a healthy first-trimester a woman may continue with her normal physical activities without the risk of losing her developing child. Get much insights on the same will be more beneficial. Like in my case with my doctor in Bio tex.
Needed this video so much. Found out at dating scan that my baby passed away 3 weeks earlier. Had no signs or symptoms. 4 days post op and I'm struggling loads 😞😞 after googling and going on RUclips I found your video, thank you x x x
I really feel sorry for doctors who care for women who experience miscarriage .The key is validation of feelings and empathy , brilliant doctors are pragmatic and they will never win when they deal with highly charged patients.
Going through a miscarriage right now at 8 weeks 4 days pregnant. We’ve struggled for almost 3 years to conceive this child. My heart feels like it will never heal, you give me so much hope.
Thank you so much for sharing 😢 I’m going through this as we speak and from the moment I saw that faint pink line and all the other pregnancy tests get darker and darker as the days went by, that was my baby. I am blessed to have a 6 year old right now and she is my reason for being on this planet. And like you, my husband was heartbroken just like me and we needed each other. I’ve always known I wanted to me a mother since I was a little girl. This was the worst kind of blow after having a beautiful healthy pregnancy before loosing this one. I didn’t expect it at all and I thought I was doing all the right things and then boom. This awful bomb was dropped on our lives and I’m just numb at this point and don’t know what to do so just started searching. It’s not a clump of cells. It’s a part of me and a part of him and already loved as a human being from a mother, father, sister, aunties, uncles, nanas and grandpas. Not a clump of cells. And all that love doesn’t just go away. We aren’t giving up. We will keep going and trying at least 1 more time. Again thank you so much!❤️🩹🫶🏻
I lost my twins at 7 weeks 2 days on June 5 and I’m completely torn I’m trying to be okay they where my first so i appreciate you posting this video thank you 😔🙏🏾
Thank you for this. I just went through a miscarriage. It has been difficult for both my husband and I. We were so hopeful, and it broke our hearts to lose the potential baby. I'm still afraid to try again, but this video really helped. Thank you for being so honest and thoughtful.
Stay strong... recently did a video myself about my wife and I's loss this May... Nothing ever eases the pain however I would have to say that inner strength and not letting your mind focus on negative, stay positive and you will be happy you did
Thanks so much for this video i am currently having a misscrriage and i am having so many different emotions and physically so tired, but i am seeing things from a higher perspective and i feel the soul will return, i was early and so many are saying lucky its now and i have two kids but im sp grateful to find this and hear its okay to grieve because i was feeling guilty for feeling so sad x i can feel the soul so strong around love to you all x thank you so much
I lost my baby on November 23, 2023. I was 10 weeks pregnant after a round of IVF and a life of infertility. I was alone as my partner was traveling for work. I never felt so alone in my life after that, specially when he travels again. I feel that the pain will never stop
I was 15 weeks along and lost my baby. It was a week ago, and I’m really looking for support and ways to heal. My husband has been so supportive and I just want to heal from this.
Hello dear🌟, if you have been trying to conceive or you're likely having miscarriage all the times. I can recommend you to Dr Chris🌀 an extra ordinary man who does extra ordinary things, I strongly believe he can help you too..
I just found out I had a miscarriage. I don’t know how to get over it. My emotions are everywhere. I keep crying not having no motivation to wake up. It’s super hard to get over this. I just hope everything that I’ve seen in this video helps me and become a better mom for my kids as well too
Thank you for sharing these tips. About a month and a half ago I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks. I’m still coping with it. My grief comes in waves and I’m trying to learn how to cope with it.
It's been only 12 days ... I too had different condition. placenta was developed at side of my baby and it also had an extra lobe which was near the cervix. And any activity would cause heavy bleeding .Throughout the pregnancy I was bleeding. And we tried a lot to save the baby but we did not succeed. Doctors said it is a happiness in disguise because I was at risk . Thank you for this video. I don't know how will I cope up with this loss but sharing my story here I feel lighter!
Thanks for sharing, Sanyukta. I'm so happy to hear that this made you feel a bit better. This is such a difficult and sensitive time for you. Be kind to yourself and take all the time you need to heal. ❤️ xx
thanks for this motivational video.. we lost our 3rd baby... sad thing about it was we lost him on his 9months... all was set, from clothes, accessories, strollers etc., we even read bible every night and pray the rosary but then this happened to us... Maybe as most advices us, Lord has a plan for ua why this happened. Again thank you... GodBless...
I am currently sitting in shower, I just lost my baby at 8 weeks pregnant. My dating scan was due tomorrow. I feel so broken. Thank you for your video. Its helping in this dark day.
Thank you I'm 19 and almost a month ago I found out I was expecting I was scared (because I was going to be doing it all on my own) but I was starting to get excited 3 days later I was at work and all the sudden I started cramping and bleeding I went to the hospital and found out that I was in fact 4 weeks pregnant and I haven't been able to focus on it because of how strong the grief was. So thank you for this video I deal with grief daily and I wish more people spoke about this
Thank u for sharing your story as I sit here crying trying to get over the guilt phase of what I did wrong. I was 10 weeks when I went for my check up and they did not find a heart beat on the baby😢😢 I'm still in disbelief💔💔😢😢😢. I'm getting the D&C procedure done next week and I can't get over this pain of losing a baby that I so much wanted and planned. I hope I can look back one day and just remembered this as a bad nightmare.
I just lost my 2nd last month, it was early almost 7 weeks. It was an unexpected pregnancy and we had really had to adjust and plan our lives so it hit me like a ton of bricks afterwards. I ended up almost bleeding to death and having emergency surgery so my take on life and feeling our kids are our blessing...we have 2 together, is stronger than ever. We have both decided that we are done, (I had a very difficult 1st birth, ending with my baby having heart issues, plus this life threatening miscarriage) but I am having alot of depression.
I've lost 2 babys in last 2 years. Im 41 years old. Im so afraid that its not in cards for me and it makes me so sad every day but I won't give up. Please pray for me 🙏
Thank you so much for posting this video. I was struggling to come up with words to describe my feelings and my sense of loss, you’ve really helped me verbalizing it. Thank you 💕.
I lost my baby Calie 3hrs after delivery through c.sectio @ 41weeks, l cry everyday and l miss her so much ...she is my first babie and will awaz love her...
I just found out my baby did not survived this past Wednesday. I was fine yesterday during my procedure. Today I woke up crying and I realized I was holding it all in. I think the hardest part is remembering the baby ultrasound. The baby face and body. The baby had a 171 heartbeat the first doctor appointment. We didn’t expect losing this child on our second appointment. I’m crying my eyes out. I am blaming myself
Still in the hospital and search a video about miscarriage cause I just had one right now. Thankyou for the video. I'm still crying but I know I can handle this.
This hits me really hard 😭"I never knew how much I wanted to be a mom till it happened 💔💔" that is exactly how I feel and it hurts a lot not hearing the heartbeat when you u expected one😭😭
Same here. And it didn’t matter that it wasn’t planned.
Girl it really does it's been 4 years and I'm still empty on the inside it's like I came to terms with it but hasn't accepted it ion think I ever will I been praying but it's mainly unbearable sometimes 💔🥺😢 I'm grateful for the 3 babies I have now and I can only the pain the next woman feel in regard because they make us feel miscarriages is less than which don't make it better
I just experienced a miscarriage. I lost my baby at 6 weeks. He stopped growing . I wasn't ready for a baby at all but it still hurts me mentally the fact that my body wasn't strong enough to keep the baby alive and growing , it hurts that I had absolutely no support whatsoever when I announced my first pregnancy
It hurts, doesn’t it? Losing a baby, ready or not, still hurts. Be kind to yourself and take all the time you need to heal. ❤️
I lost mines at 5 weeks on July 17,my first pregnancy too I know exactly how you feel . I keep trying to get myself back to normal I feel like I shouldn’t be as sad as I am. But I am. I wish you well in the future and just know you’re not alone.
@@nickkiataylor946 I'm coming up on a year since I lost my baby this December 15th. and I won't sugar coat it and act like the odds are you're almost done weathering the storm. some women are able to pick up the pieces quite quickly - and there's nothing WRONG with this. these parents are LUCKY. but for very very many of us... the process takes MUCH longer.
I think one of the worst parts about our society's stigmas and the inappropriate attitudes towards and treatment of bereaved parents of pregnancy loss is that unlike the loss of any other child (or even if you're just comparing this to the loss of other post-birth infants) is that whereas its treated as "acceptable" and the norm for most grieving parents to take YEARS or at least quite a few months to begin to pick up life again in any real way beyond just mourning. but parents of pre-born children who pass away are expected to "move on" completely in a matter of DAYS (if that... tbh... many people won't even be understanding / considerate enough to "allow" you to get upset AT ALL over these losses).
almost ALL of us need more than that much time. the vast majority of us need MUCH longer! I felt the need to say this here because I don't want you (or anyone else reading this) to think there's anything wrong (or even unusual) with needing to take some time to recover.
and just like other forms of grief or recovery... its not a clean neat linear black and white transformation from sad to back to your former self before this ever happened. (I have found comfort in thinking of what they say of those recovering from a substance addiction... specifically in that "relapses are a normal part of the process". that's rang true in a way to my experience.... as time has past... I've healed enough that I've gotten to a place where I have some very good and hopeful days where I am at peace and positive. but there are STILL a lot of days that are NOT like that. and that's OKAY! I now know that the more time that passes the more and more of my days will be these good ones.)
I also really really love the perspective and explanations that isis gave here about how you'll never be your "old self" again - but she brings light to something SO important... which I've been working on learning too. is that this change isn't necessarily all going to be a BAD thing. yes... it is colored by quite a bit of pain and sorrow. but there's many ways that this experience can make your life... and YOU... actually BETTER than the you that you used to be.
this is already a long comment... so I won't go into too much more detail about my own experience... but I WILL say that I have already started to come to grasp this... and I know I'll only continue to improve myself and my world as I continue to heal.
before chance (that was my child's name)... I really didn't have much faith. to be quite frank... the life I was leading was full of behaviors that were not the greatest - both towards myself and towards others. having chance in my life (and yes... he is still VERY much a part of my life... even though he is an angel now) has helped me to find God and organized religion and improve my character and treatment of others. I have been working towards channeling the negativity of this experience into positivity... particularly in working towards devoting my time and money to helping other bereaved parents and into preventing other potential victims by trying to solve the problems that lead to the deaths of children. I've not only put extensive work into spreading awareness and social activism for these causes.... I've also already fundraised $3500+ (and I'm just getting started!) I've becoming active in politics... campaigning and petitioning and protesting. before chance... I had never even voted.
so to get back to my first point... like I said.. I won't lie... this year has been brutal. in ways I never would have thought possible. but rather than cursing the world or God or fate or coincidence or WHATEVER for "ruining" my life and causing so many "horrible things"... I am GRATEFUL for chance. for his life on this earth... although far too short. I am grateful for the time we DID get to share together. and more importantly... I thank him for in so many ways SAVING my life...
I have no doubt that chance and his legacy will undoubtedly prove to be a WONDERFUL happenstance to not only me... but this WORLD.
and if you're a mother who's lost reading this right now... I have no doubt either that your baby's life was WONDERFUL and their legacies will be POSITIVE!
you will emerge STRONGER AND BETTER THAN EVER BEFORE (but DONT ever ever try to rush it!!).
hang in there.... YOU GOT THIS LADIES !!
Livvy Coseriu I tea do appreciate that message so much and what you said is very much. My little foot has made a huge impact on me I’ve grown into a better part of myself in many ways. And sometimes I still think about it and cry and other days I just remember the strength it have given me to become better. It take time for all us women and we must allow ourselves the time 💖
@Ashley Moore ive had the same exact thing happen to me last week.
i had a miscarriage at 8 weeks of my pregnancy... i am still hurting even though it was three months ago... i still miss my baby... my mental health wasn't good... nor was my physical health... my body was weak... my boyfriend at the time wasn't around when i needed him... even after the miscarriage... the pain is still there... i pushed back the pain for so long... i wish that i could have my baby back... hold your babies close every one...
I'm so sorry. Sending so much love to you. ❤️
I miss my baby too. Before I got pregnant, it never really bothered me to see a pregnant woman. But after getting pregnant and miscarrying, it made me realize how amazing it is to have a baby in your womb. I miss that feeling and it seem like it's taking forever to happen again
I just loss my baby today at 7 weeks... I'm devastated, but my trust is in God..
I lost my baby at 7 weeks as well. and I'm keeping my faith in god as well. But I'm struggling with the heartache becuase I have endometriosis which makes getting pregnant harder and after trying for years, I was so happy only to have it taken from me.. I pray that you are blessed with a family, please pray for me as well.may god bless us all that want a family
I lost my baby at 7wks it's hard because I only get info and comfort from RUclips than from family and friends
I lost mine as well
I’m so sorry
I lost myn 7 dayz ago..it hurts me alot i can't copy with it..
I’ve never felt so alone and I never knew there was so many women who felt the same way. Sometimes I don’t think I’m going to be able to continue my life but so many people have reassurance to offer.
I've just lost my first baby at 19 weeks and I feel like I'm going out of my mind. I feel like this grief won't end , I just want a healthy baby and a happy life. I'm looking forward to the future and having a successful pregnancy.
I feel you, I lost mine at 19 weeks too in November last year, it's the worst thing I've ever been through. Did you go on to have another baby?
I lost mine at 19 weeks too and I just want him back
Miscarriage is death. It brings with it all the agonizing grief that comes with losing a loved one. But miscarriage is also a taboo topic. It’s the very reason that we hide our pregnancies during those first dicey months. Fretfully waiting for the danger to abate before making any announcements. When bad news comes. Couples that lose a pregnancy tend to mourn in secret. Telling only close friends and family about their loss. In fact, the only tradition our society does have regarding miscarriage is that you’re not supposed to talk about it. We expect grieving couples to buck up and pretend that the little life lost never existed in the first place. We reduce a miracle to a topic not fit for polite conversation. As with so many verboten topics. Perhaps the answer is simply for people to be more open. Like in my case I went to my clinic in Bio tex to get more assistance. To stop pretending that if we ignore miscarriage, it won’t hurt. Because the only thing worse than losing something that meant the world to you is pretending that you lost nothing.
Noreen Wawuda This was beautifully said and exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you!
Thanks for saying that 😭😭 it hurts when people expect to just get over it..
I lost my baby on the 17th at 16 weeks. Found out it was a boy. We named him Alexander Micheal James! Rip baby boy!
Thats a very nice name. I was only 4 weeks and 3 days and its my second day today going threw the miscarriage. Didnt even get close to finding out the gender but if i was a boy we were naming it Micheal Alexander. Its just backwards from yours
I’m so sorry for you lost😢. Did you find out the gender after miscarriage?
I lost my baby at 29 weeks, it was a boy and i still feel the pain
@@NiecyEnMediasRes we found out after I gave birth to him. My birth was extremely traumatic. I went to the hospital and they wouldn’t do anything for me so I ended up having Alexander alone in the hospital bathroom. 😔😔
Thank you, I’d a two miscarriage one last January at 8weeks, it’s so hard to come to terms with, I have good and bad days, feel alone some days and that no one understands 😢 my husband is great but I feel man just don’t experience the lost like woman do. I’m 40 and hope we do get blessed again 🍼 to all who have lost angels my prays are with you x
Sending lots of love, Rachel. ❤️
🙏 💕. I understand you more then you know. 35 with it being my first p. With it ending after 3 months, a little over a month ago. Lots of hurt, lots of grace, lots of love.
It hurts 💔.....like after the second time it's like I want to give up
@@melissacornelius9372 don’t hun as I had a beautiful baby girl who will turn one on Thursday ❤️❤️ I’ll be thinking off you
I just had a miscarriage at midnight last night. It was my first pregnancy and caught it and my heart broke, it turns out I have RH negative blood and was reacting to the babies different blood type, causing a miscarriage and I didn’t know this and now know I need the RH shot. My husband was broken but having him is helping me the most right now. Thank you for sharing because I was afraid of being a mother with no purpose
RH negative blood..wow
My wife and I just went through this as she was 8 weeks. We found out the baby did not have a heartbeat. You are right, the hardest thing for me to understand is how powerless you can feel when you find out there is absolutely nothing you could have done. The scar will be there for ever . It's hard to watch someone be that sad and not be able to change anything. A lot of things have to be absolutely perfect to have a baby. God doesn't always come for older roses. Sometimes he picks a rose bud for his plan and I have to trust that he did what he did for a reason. To anybody who does go through this close your eyes and accept that it's not ok and there is nothing wrong with that.
I'm so sorry, Daniel (hugs)
Sorry daniel..it happened to me too twice..no heartbeat am really sad and down
Daniel, you’re such a wonderful husband. Everyone deals with grief differently. You stood by your wife and that’s what you both needed the most. May your marriage be blessed for many years to come.
I lost my first baby 4 days ago. I was 8 1/2 weeks at the time. The main thing I’ve felt is anger and hurt but I’ve also felt quite lost because no one in my family has experienced it. Thank you so much for making these videos! You’re really helping me to feel less alone❤️❤️
i just lost my twin boys at 20 weeks and im only 15 years old. my cervix wasn’t developed and ready to hold one let alone two babies i had two hours w them each before they passed away in my arms .. stay strong fellow angel mommas, thank you for this video 🥺❤️
Oh my God, I've been through miscarriage a week ago and I was upset and down. Thanks for sharing this.
Thanks for sharing ...I've had a miscarriage just 5 days ago...its all fresh for me...I'm crying all the time...its heavy on my heart...i feel heart broken...i call my baby...Angel baby
My eldest sibling didn’t make it because he was a stillborn😣 But he/she is safe in heaven☺️
Going through it right now. Is been two weeks since I naturally miscarry at 12 weeks. I had to go through the labor pains for more than 10 hours followed by a D&C procedure. I still very fresh. First two weeks had been about healing physically and emotionally. Today I breakdown crying but at least is not like before where I cried for hours every day. I'm still grieving and I pray God every day for healing in my heart. I try to not cry in front of my husband. This pain makes me feel so lonely. I know I will be fine and I know God will bless us again with a healthy pregnancy beautiful healthy baby but I'm alouding myself go grieve and cry n pour it all out at the present time.
I went through the exact same experience. Happened yesterday, my husband and I cried together... having someone there to share the pain of losing ur baby, helps a lot ❤️
I lost my baby my first trimester do to stress and other problems concerning my body ....I never had time to mourn over what could have been ..thank u this video really helps me and hopefully help millions of women that has lost there baby
I've had two miscarriages and one was last year it was so hard. I lost it at 3 months. and the second was just a few minutes ago and I was only 4 weeks almost a month. This video helped me find ways to help me and my partner be calm during this time.
I had two early miscarriages this year. One in February and one last month. Life feels so dull, thank you for opening up. I’ll think I’m fine and then I burst into tears. Miscarriage is the worst pain I’ve felt, thank you 💛
It’s even much worse when you have no one to talk to
I lost my pregnancy but I am scared that It will happen again😭💔
Same
This is the worst feeling ever
Me too
I know this feeling 😔
Me too 😔
In the hospital right now, waiting on my fiance to come out the operation room from a miscarriage. The pain Is so damn much!!! 😭😭😭
My heart goes out to you. Take the time you both need to process it all and heal. Things will get better. Sending lots of love ❤️
@@YsisLorenna Thank you so much. I'm doing much better, but It's definitely harder in her emotionally. Any pointers on how to help her?
Glad to hear you're feeling better, Frankie. I think just being there for her is the best thing you can do. Give her space if she needs it and ask her how you can help her. Everyone copes with grief after baby loss so differently, so it's hard to list things that will help. Some people find that talking about it helps, others prefer not to talk. The thing she needs the most right now is support and love and it sounds like she has that from you. Take care and I wish you both all the best in life. ❤️
I just had a miscarriage last night February 7th and i was almost 3 months pregnant. I can not get over my loss. Watching this has helped a lot because I know so many people go through this so thank you. The part of you saying you didn’t realize how much you wanted to be a mother after the loss... hit me so hard
I’ll be 3 months next week... and idk it’s like I just feel my child dying inside of me... I spend most of my days sick and in a lot of pain vaginally and sharp stabbing pains to my abdomen... sometimes I’m so miserable I can’t do a thing.
Dear Ysis, i lost my first baby 3 days ago, i was in 5 week.... my world ended at that point.... now i saw your video and you gave back my faith in life. Thank you very much for your calmness and positive thoughts. Be blessed my dear :)
Thank you, I have now had 5 miscarriages.. most of them early and one a bit longer and that was the hardest as my body was feeling very pregnant.. I wish all the best for everyone, don’t give up, just take good care of yourself ❤️
Thank you so much I I had a miscarriage in November 2019 and it's been hard because there's no help from family and friends I've been searching for videos like these to help me thank you for that.
I too lost my baby in November 2019.... It's still unbearable to feel but sometimes all I do is cry because I want my baby back 💔
I just lost my baby at almost 21 weeks.. I had a preterm birth.. it's been so traumatic. I feel empty and lost.. I pray that my baby is comfortable in heaven and I hope he knows how much we love him.. I pray that my next pregnancy in the future is successful 🙏
I lost my baby Violet 2 days ago, we had her for four days, best four days of my life. We found out at 36 weeks she had trisomy 13. I'm trying everything I can to continue on living without her, I just miss my Violet so much.
I was just told At 11 weeks my baby has trisomy 18. Prayers, this pain is heartbreaking.
I’m so sorry for your loss ❤😔
I am currently going through a miscarriage with my first pregnancy. I was 10 and a half weeks pregnant and went for an early scan to see that there was no baby. I was advised that it was likely just a fertilised egg that never developed so I can 100% relate to point 4, I feel a but like my grief is invalid as there was never really a baby there to begin with. However I found out when I was just over 3 weeks pregnant and to me there was a baby there from day 1 until that scan that confirmed the pregnancy wasn’t viable. Thank you for sharing your story, this video has been reassuring that things will get better for me.
I found out today that I lost my baby. I had bleeding and had tried to hold on hope that everything would be okay..it was my first pregnancy and my mind just is racing and I don't even know how to process everything. Thank you so much for sharing this
Im 16. My abusive household lead to my miscarriage. I feel... Empty. So empty. So sad. I wasnt even this depressed when i lost my best friend of 8 years to a car crash 10 months ago. Im so...done. Ive stopped doing my work in school, ive lost all hope and drive in life. I loved my baby. My ray of sunshine. My sweet, sweet bundle of hope.
Shrek Once told me keep you head up I know your pain ❤️
Thank you
It's really help me
I just lost my baby 4 weeks
I was very sad but after watching your vedio
I felt much much better...
Thank you so much for recording this video!
I felt alone on that feeling for so long 😢
I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks;
As soon as I found out, I started bleeding. I didn't know it wasn't normal, everyone I asked said it was normal, and my city doesn't have a hospital. Once I felt deep down it wasn't normal even though people said it was, I went to a hospital. At exactly 3 days into finding out I was pregnant, and they did an ultrasound, but there were no signs of baby anymore. I know that I was pregnant, I did a blood test and felt every symptom that I was supost to feel, even could feel my belly rougher. Even tough it was only 3 days, it's the worst pain I ever felt, but they were the happiest 3 days in my entire life, cause I always dreamt of being a mother 🥹 I also wanted to share, I think it was a boy 🤭 they say the mom always feels what is going to be
Anyway, thank you again for sharing your story❤️❤️
Just lost twins today at 9 weeks 1 day. I was going to be a 1st time father.. I dedicated all my time in the last month to researching pregnancy, fatherhood tips. My depression had seemingly been cured and I'd felt better than I have in a long long time. I'm absolutely devastated.
Thanks I just lost my son Tuesday at 15 weeks. I had to deliver him so he was a developed. I'm grieving.. I wouldn't wish this on no one.
I am currently going through the loss of my first child due to an ectopic pregnancy. I am grieving and feeling so much pain but this helped so much. I'm not alone. My significant other and I can use all the prayers we can get through the darkest part of our lives. I just wish I had my baby back. But we will have a healthy baby one day. I haven't lost my faith.
I am a transman who just found out about the loss of my baby today and I can not express enough how grateful I am not just for this video but for mentioning that men experience miscarriage too. Thank you so much
My baby girl Nevaeh Faith was due today and it hurts so bad to think today would have been the day I would have hold her and loved her But this video really helped me realize that I’m not alone and people are here for me and I just wanna thank you for making this video because people are finally talking about it and that makes me feel amazing that we are bring awareness to this because it can happen to anyone!
I just went through a miscarriage a few days ago. I found out I was 4 weeks pregnant and then just lost it three days later. It hurts and it’s still not done and over with yet. The pain I’ve been feeling is horrible. I know this is something that so many people cope with so I’m so happy you created this video to start the conversation.
Thank you. I made this video for that exact reason. I’m glad it reached you at a time when you needed it the most. Sending love ❤️
Anyone who blames themselves for baby loss should seriously get over this!!! I just got the news that I'm going through a threatened misscariage and let me tell you it is NOT you!!! It can be chromosal or hormonal or whatever anything but our fault and we should be happy and celebrate our body for bearing this much!! No regrets
Thank you Lorenna for the tips. After a miscarriage or stillbirth, your grief may be so overwhelming that you wonder if you will ever be happy again. You may never truly “get over” your loss, but know that your grief will become more manageable over time especially if you recognize your feelings as valid and accept that you may need time to work through them. Immediate Aftermath of Miscarriage. The falling hormone levels in your body after a miscarriage might magnify your sad feelings into full-blown depression, but this effect should fade within a few weeks. Your feelings may range from sadness to anger to depression. You may feel as if your body failed you, especially if you had wanted the baby for a long time. You may even feel guilty, wondering if something you did caused the miscarriage. You may feel a temptation to review your entire medical history and everything you did during the pregnancy in order to find a reason why it happened, but try to resist the temptation. I remember in my case I had to seek some therapist intervention in Bio tex clinic and it did help. Perhaps that could be the best option for people to take.
To the people that put thumbs down obviously don’t know about baby loss
Thankyou so much for sharing this. I have recently experienced a miscarriage and it was my first pregnancy. Me and my partner are absolutely heartbroken, but this video has helped me see that we’re not alone in this ❤️
I lost my Baby on 17 oct 2019. The pain of loosing my Baby is killing me everyday. At work and home i act like the happiest person but asa i get in my car i cry my way to work and back home.
Thank you for this video! My husband and I just went through a miscarriage this week . . . I'm young and healthy and the loss took us by surprise. So comforting to hear about a loss from someone who has also experienced it.
Thank you so much for sharing! It's certainly a lonely place and so many confused emotions. I am so hopeful for the future but I'm also so sad about the loss i've had this week. It's certainly the hardest week Ive been through but I know it will eventually make me stronger.
i was crying before watching ur vedio, but now feeling relieved, thanks a lot.
I’ve wanted to make this video for others too but I can not seem to talk for more than 15 seconds without breaking down. Your healing and strength are so beautiful.
I'm so sorry for your loss. I went through m/c a couple of months ago. It was devastating. I'm feeling so sad all the time. It still hurts. People say ‘let it go’ or ‘you will eventually get pg, don’t overthink’. My response to them is if you been ttc as long as we have you'll be devastated too. Everyone deals with grief differently. If you want to cry go ahead and do that. Only you know how you feel and what you need. No one can tell you there will be other times. The only thing which helps me now is thinking about my next cycle. I'm getting ready for ivf with donor eggs. I hope it will work... Bc I'm so tired of this struggle. Hang in there!
Sorry for your loss. That is something I don’t think you will ever get over. You will survive through it, but the pain will always be there... Sometimes it will get worse before it gets better. I had 2 mcs. Just when I thought I had put it past me, I see u/s of friend’s pregnancy. Then I find out more friends have become pregnant. Even though I am happy for each one of them I go home and cry... because it isn’t me. I wish them all healthy pregnancies. I just wish they would understand... I just wish they would be more sensitive. I feel like my mom is the only one in this battle with me. My dh thinks I will get pregnant just like that. He thinks we just had a bump in the road. But I don’t think what I went through was a bump... It happened to be a huge ditch that hurt a lot!
Me and my husband had no clue I was pregnant. Ive never been pregnant before and we werent trying. I lost them yesterday. We had no idea. I am in such a state of shock and grief. This video was so calm and everything I needed to hear. Thank you so much, so much. I needed this more than I knew. Thank you, God bless ❤
Hello! I'm from UK.We especially moved to Europe for surrogacy purpose.Than we came to know about this clinic and we moved to Ukraine.There we contacted this clinic.With the help of this clinic we have our two beautiful twin daughters.We are so thankful to the clinic that i can't tell you. I hope one day I can move forward like you have. I also love that you said "move forward", that was really compelling. I knew that is how this process was going to be but I just didn't know how to express it. You put everything so perfectly. BioTexCom is a very good clinic. And to the surrogate mother too who gave us so much happiness.We will never forget the clinic and the mother.
I'm sorry for your loss. I will never forget the moment the sonographer told us our baby didn't have a heartbeat. It was our first scan. I was 7 weeks pregnant. My husband and I were excited about seeing our little one for the first time. We've been trying for 5 years. It was our first pregnancy after 3rd IVF cycle. I had a small bump. I'd been feeling sick. We'd discussed baby names. I'd been reading pregnancy books. In our minds, there were already three of us. We believed there was no reason to suspect anything was wrong... I mean, we had 2 failed cycles and we were finally pg after 3rd one... We had to break the news to family and friends. Phrases such as "At least you know you can get pregnant", "You can try again", "Imagine how much worse it would be if it happened later" offered little consolation. Actually, I didn't know if I could get pregnant again. If I did, would I miscarry again? Would I ever go full-term? The answer turned out to be "No". We had 4th cycle, which ended up with m/c... again.
Thank you for sharing this video. I just had my second miscarriage in a year and it has been really hard. I especially appreciate you sharing how to talked to your partner about it. We have been struggling with communicating.
Thank you for this video. I just had a miscarriage 4 days ago. I was also told by doctors that it wasn't meant to be a baby. Maybe that's why most of my family members didn't think of it a loss.. watching your video makes me feel so much lighter. Thank you
Manevinsan Pasion I’m sorry this happened to you. I just went through one a few days ago and I understand what you mean about feeling as though your pain is not valid. Please remember that it is.
I've been researching about baby loss/miscarriage videos because I feel lost. I lost my baby at 8 weeks and it's been over around 4 months. The pain and loss still has not gotten any better. My husband wants to try again and I just don't think I'm in the right mind. I keep hoping I'm pregnant. Taking up to 20 tests every month hoping to see the positive signs again. Thank you for this video. It helped me feel a little better and have hope that things will be okay.
Thank you for your talk. I have lost my first baby at 12 weeks. This is very helpful.
I just lost my little sibling. I don’t think I can recover really fast. This rips apart my heart and stomps on it, I never heard them cry, never fed them with a spoon, never changed it’s diaper, never bathed it, and never loved it outside the womb. I love the bean and I miss the bean.
I feel you. Ive lost 6 siblings in total and those are all things i miss. I know how hard it can be. I hope you have someone to talk to and if not im here. Ill gladly listen and try to help even if its a lil bit. Stay strong ❤
I feel you. Ive lost 6 siblings in total and those are all things i miss. I know how hard it can be. I hope you have someone to talk to and if not im here. Ill gladly listen and try to help even if its a lil bit. Stay strong ❤
I just found this video I lost my baby 10-11-2019 I didn’t know it was baby loss awareness month sorry for your loss love I’m a new subscriber❤️❤️❤️
DeeDeeLove & Bryce that’s the exact date I found out I was pregnant and a couple weeks later I miscarried😞😞
I lost 2 babies 1st one ectopic baby was outside to womb and i lost one of my tube but i was glad to be alive and now my second one at 8 week after 2 years of my first one. The first one was scary. Home now after my D & C today 18 February 22.The doctor and nurse are so lovely nice and caring this help a lot.I don't ever want to get pregnant again. I can't go through this again. These video help so much. Thank you for tell us your story.
Literally just went through a miscarrage last week. Words can't explain the way that I'm feeling.... This hurts so bad.... This video helped.
I have recently lost my baby at 13 weeks. 6 weeks after the loss I have needed to return to hospital for surgery. The whole experience has been devastating and it feels like I will constantly be sad. But thankyou for sharing this video, it has made me realise I need to talk more about my feelings more and that there are so many other women that have been through this. Love to you all x
It will be 5 months since my miscarriage in 3 days. Today has been an emotional day. This was our first pregnancy and we lost the baby at 6 weeks. It wasn’t growing correctly is what the doctors told me.Thank you for sharing. This has helped me so so much!!❤️
Thank you for making this video. I just loss my first baby at 6 weeks. This pain is indescribable. 😭🥺
I recently lost my baby at 13 weeks, just had the procedure D&C performed on me 2 days ago. This video is helping me . Thank you 🙏 ❤️😢
Miscarriage hurts. Too much pain never goes away. Never.
Thank you for bringing awareness to this issue, as many of us have suffered in silence, including myself.
i lost my baby at 5 weeks pregnant. i found out i was pregnant a few days before i lost her, so she didn't even have the chance to meet her wonderful daddy (we both work a lot so i was planning to tell him in our anniversary dinner). i hope one day this grief doesn't feel so overwhelming, but right now i don't even want to speak to anyone
So grateful that your shared your story. I had two miscarriages and it is truly painful. All of your tips are really good. Thank you!! So grateful you have had children afterwards. Gives me hope 💜
Thank you Yais for opening up. Coping with miscarriage entails understanding the myths surrounding pregnancy loss. Many miscarriage myths cause a grieving mother to believe she is to blame for the death of her developing child. The woman, then, must suffer a heavy burden-one which she should not carry because miscarriage usually does not occur as a result of a woman's actions. It is important to dispel these myths to alleviate undue feelings of guilt a woman may feel because of her loss. Some of the miscarriage myths most worrisome to women are those that blame a woman's physical activity for the loss of a pregnancy. Activities such as exercise, sexual intercourse, horseback riding, and airplane trips are generally believed to cause miscarriage. Such myths also inherently suggest that bed rest will help prevent miscarriage. Therefore, when a woman miscarries, she is bombarded with feelings of inadequacy. Like she is a woman who cannot carry a pregnancy to term and guilt (for supposedly causing the miscarriage). However, it is important to remember that during a healthy first-trimester a woman may continue with her normal physical activities without the risk of losing her developing child. Get much insights on the same will be more beneficial. Like in my case with my doctor in Bio tex.
Needed this video so much. Found out at dating scan that my baby passed away 3 weeks earlier. Had no signs or symptoms. 4 days post op and I'm struggling loads 😞😞 after googling and going on RUclips I found your video, thank you x x x
This has been the most helpful video I’ve watched since. I need this and you. Thank you so much!
I really feel sorry for doctors who care for women who experience miscarriage .The key is validation of feelings and empathy , brilliant doctors are pragmatic and they will never win when they deal with highly charged patients.
Going through a miscarriage right now at 8 weeks 4 days pregnant. We’ve struggled for almost 3 years to conceive this child. My heart feels like it will never heal, you give me so much hope.
I went through exactly the same think ,23 of March. I am devastated, my baby died week 8 and one day 😪
I just lost a baby. I cannot grief normally, but my anxiety is over the moon. I want to grief healthily. Thank you
Thank you so much for sharing 😢 I’m going through this as we speak and from the moment I saw that faint pink line and all the other pregnancy tests get darker and darker as the days went by, that was my baby. I am blessed to have a 6 year old right now and she is my reason for being on this planet. And like you, my husband was heartbroken just like me and we needed each other. I’ve always known I wanted to me a mother since I was a little girl. This was the worst kind of blow after having a beautiful healthy pregnancy before loosing this one. I didn’t expect it at all and I thought I was doing all the right things and then boom. This awful bomb was dropped on our lives and I’m just numb at this point and don’t know what to do so just started searching. It’s not a clump of cells. It’s a part of me and a part of him and already loved as a human being from a mother, father, sister, aunties, uncles, nanas and grandpas. Not a clump of cells. And all that love doesn’t just go away. We aren’t giving up. We will keep going and trying at least 1 more time. Again thank you so much!❤️🩹🫶🏻
I lost my twins at 7 weeks 2 days on June 5 and I’m completely torn I’m trying to be okay they where my first so i appreciate you posting this video thank you 😔🙏🏾
I lost a baby when I was a teenager. the loss was tremendous and I have such a fear of trying again. Rest beautifully sweetheart
Thank you for this. I just went through a miscarriage. It has been difficult for both my husband and I. We were so hopeful, and it broke our hearts to lose the potential baby. I'm still afraid to try again, but this video really helped. Thank you for being so honest and thoughtful.
Stay strong... recently did a video myself about my wife and I's loss this May... Nothing ever eases the pain however I would have to say that inner strength and not letting your mind focus on negative, stay positive and you will be happy you did
Thanks so much for this video i am currently having a misscrriage and i am having so many different emotions and physically so tired, but i am seeing things from a higher perspective and i feel the soul will return, i was early and so many are saying lucky its now and i have two kids but im sp grateful to find this and hear its okay to grieve because i was feeling guilty for feeling so sad x i can feel the soul so strong around love to you all x thank you so much
I lost my baby on November 23, 2023. I was 10 weeks pregnant after a round of IVF and a life of infertility. I was alone as my partner was traveling for work.
I never felt so alone in my life after that, specially when he travels again.
I feel that the pain will never stop
Had my miscarriage at 14 weeks 4 days ago.. this video really helped.. thank you.
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I just found out I had a miscarriage. I don’t know how to get over it. My emotions are everywhere. I keep crying not having no motivation to wake up. It’s super hard to get over this. I just hope everything that I’ve seen in this video helps me and become a better mom for my kids as well too
Thank you for sharing these tips. About a month and a half ago I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks. I’m still coping with it. My grief comes in waves and I’m trying to learn how to cope with it.
Sorry for your loss
It's been only 12 days ... I too had different condition. placenta was developed at side of my baby and it also had an extra lobe which was near the cervix. And any activity would cause heavy bleeding .Throughout the pregnancy I was bleeding. And we tried a lot to save the baby but we did not succeed. Doctors said it is a happiness in disguise because I was at risk . Thank you for this video. I don't know how will I cope up with this loss but sharing my story here I feel lighter!
Thanks for sharing, Sanyukta. I'm so happy to hear that this made you feel a bit better. This is such a difficult and sensitive time for you. Be kind to yourself and take all the time you need to heal. ❤️ xx
thanks for this motivational video.. we lost our 3rd baby... sad thing about it was we lost him on his 9months... all was set, from clothes, accessories, strollers etc., we even read bible every night and pray the rosary but then this happened to us...
Maybe as most advices us, Lord has a plan for ua why this happened.
Again thank you... GodBless...
I am currently sitting in shower, I just lost my baby at 8 weeks pregnant. My dating scan was due tomorrow. I feel so broken. Thank you for your video. Its helping in this dark day.
Happened to me too at week 8
Thank you I'm 19 and almost a month ago I found out I was expecting I was scared (because I was going to be doing it all on my own) but I was starting to get excited 3 days later I was at work and all the sudden I started cramping and bleeding I went to the hospital and found out that I was in fact 4 weeks pregnant and I haven't been able to focus on it because of how strong the grief was. So thank you for this video I deal with grief daily and I wish more people spoke about this
Thank u for sharing your story as I sit here crying trying to get over the guilt phase of what I did wrong. I was 10 weeks when I went for my check up and they did not find a heart beat on the baby😢😢 I'm still in disbelief💔💔😢😢😢. I'm getting the D&C procedure done next week and I can't get over this pain of losing a baby that I so much wanted and planned. I hope I can look back one day and just remembered this as a bad nightmare.
I just lost my 2nd last month, it was early almost 7 weeks. It was an unexpected pregnancy and we had really had to adjust and plan our lives so it hit me like
a ton of bricks afterwards. I ended up almost bleeding to death and having emergency surgery so my take on life and feeling our kids are our blessing...we have 2 together, is stronger than ever. We have both decided that we are done, (I had a very difficult 1st birth, ending with my baby having heart issues, plus this life threatening miscarriage) but I am having alot of depression.
I've lost 2 babys in last 2 years. Im 41 years old. Im so afraid that its not in cards for me and it makes me so sad every day but I won't give up. Please pray for me 🙏
This is so beautiful! Thanks for posting this! ❤️
Thank you so much for posting this video. I was struggling to come up with words to describe my feelings and my sense of loss, you’ve really helped me verbalizing it. Thank you 💕.
Thank you for this video.
Thank you for this ❤
I lost my baby Calie 3hrs after delivery through c.sectio @ 41weeks, l cry everyday and l miss her so much ...she is my first babie and will awaz love her...
I just found out my baby did not survived this past Wednesday. I was fine yesterday during my procedure. Today I woke up crying and I realized I was holding it all in. I think the hardest part is remembering the baby ultrasound. The baby face and body. The baby had a 171 heartbeat the first doctor appointment. We didn’t expect losing this child on our second appointment. I’m crying my eyes out. I am blaming myself
Still in the hospital and search a video about miscarriage cause I just had one right now. Thankyou for the video. I'm still crying but I know I can handle this.