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  • Iyanla travels to the Dallas area to support a couple in the midst of a serious marriage crisis. OJ and Janetria both admit that their frequent fights turn physical, but neither seems to think this is a real problem -- until Iyanla arrives on their couch and asks them to reenact their latest fight.
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  • @memebrazy2295
    @memebrazy2295 2 месяца назад +1450

    He looks like that type that if she tries to leave he will unalive her.

    • @marciasmith4812
      @marciasmith4812 2 месяца назад +62

      Straight facts 💯 smh

    • @andreasmith8509
      @andreasmith8509 2 месяца назад +49

      With the quickness

    • @krystalk8105
      @krystalk8105 2 месяца назад +32

      Even though he spoke to wanting to separate to get himself together and the wife tells him she doesn’t want him to leave…

    • @memebrazy2295
      @memebrazy2295 2 месяца назад +42

      @@krystalk8105 yea that was hard to hear because if it’s dangerous for y’all to be together then separation is needed in my opinion

    • @ruthhailu9886
      @ruthhailu9886 2 месяца назад +30

      May the Lord protect her 🥺💕

  • @Bee-lieve623
    @Bee-lieve623 2 месяца назад +957

    She is better off by herself, than with an abusive man who doesn't respect or value her

    • @missprizzy1
      @missprizzy1 2 месяца назад +22

      She definitely didn't leave him

    • @michealtyler9702
      @michealtyler9702 2 месяца назад

      Yet let that silly bih mess up her own house and not listen somewhere else....

    • @camdenhunt7565
      @camdenhunt7565 2 месяца назад

      ​@missprizzy1 then she'll be leaving in a casket. He's going to go too far one day.

    • @shortclips6288
      @shortclips6288 2 месяца назад +5

      They stayed...

    • @Zlervo
      @Zlervo Месяц назад +4

      ​@missprizzy1 , well, if anything happens to her, that's on her. She decided to stay.

  • @sincerelykj709
    @sincerelykj709 2 месяца назад +621

    " im the bad guy, I'm the big bad wolf" ummmmm you are 😂

    • @sharondalawrence3213
      @sharondalawrence3213 2 месяца назад +23

      I literally said this out loud verbatim!!

    • @sincerelykj709
      @sincerelykj709 2 месяца назад +32

      @@sharondalawrence3213 like you beating on this woman, what makes you think you not the bad guy!?😂😂

    • @myb4208
      @myb4208 Месяц назад +7

      like YES ABSOLUTELY. He’s so close yet so far away.

    • @YvetteLopez-ry2yz
      @YvetteLopez-ry2yz Месяц назад

      Waeryuioxcvbunuinkioaxz❤😅

    • @Similo
      @Similo Месяц назад +9

      People with aggressive anger issues will make up reasons to soothe them why they acted violently, especially in relationships. In his head it was her fault in the first place.

  • @theclamartin4832
    @theclamartin4832 2 месяца назад +538

    She's protecting her children from her own childhood but hurting them by exposing them to abuse

    • @wannettamoore8128
      @wannettamoore8128 2 месяца назад +1

      Facts

    • @shaeb.9627
      @shaeb.9627 2 месяца назад +1

      Amen.

    • @montrealemagee7340
      @montrealemagee7340 2 месяца назад +1

      Yes

    • @miakarakaki4062
      @miakarakaki4062 2 месяца назад

      Thank you... From me

    • @bentnotbroken4192
      @bentnotbroken4192 2 месяца назад +6

      When you’re in it you don’t realize it’s abuse at first…. For me, I was willing to “take” so the children had a 2 parent household…. Now that I left him I see that in itself was abusive parenting

  • @specialkay4329
    @specialkay4329 2 месяца назад +1122

    He reminds me of my Son's father. Size,, face. The only thing different is no marriage. Thank God. After years of telling nobody. When my Son was four, I called my Mama. She said " Come home". I did.

    • @KiaraMcFolley
      @KiaraMcFolley 2 месяца назад +111

      I’m so glad you’re still here to tell your story. ❤️

    • @iiiMUNiiiQUE
      @iiiMUNiiiQUE 2 месяца назад +125

      That ‘come home’ has saved lives… 🙏🏾

    • @froonamission1013
      @froonamission1013 2 месяца назад +94

      "Come home", deepest words we can hear in the middle of trauma

    • @MsXenyy1
      @MsXenyy1 2 месяца назад +41

      Mamas always safe us ❤ thank God you are safe

    • @sylvestergray6707
      @sylvestergray6707 2 месяца назад +23

      We love you Queen stay strong

  • @karenjumper6228
    @karenjumper6228 2 месяца назад +428

    OMG when she held her like a mother holds her baby!!

    • @GoldenRoots-qr5bs
      @GoldenRoots-qr5bs 2 месяца назад +35

      That part made my for real cry ...

    • @rethabilenxumalo9742
      @rethabilenxumalo9742 2 месяца назад +3

      🥺🥺🥺

    • @DarlingNikki2
      @DarlingNikki2 2 месяца назад +19

      @@GoldenRoots-qr5bs Lord, yes, the tears! So many have never had that and it makes me weep. So much pain and sorrow because no one cared enough to just hold someone when they needed it most...

    • @bossb8989
      @bossb8989 2 месяца назад +10

      @@DarlingNikki2I now remember faking illness multiple times as a child/young girl in order to have my mother hug me like that.

    • @685JONESY
      @685JONESY 2 месяца назад +7

      Yes it broke my heart. As a woman who has been through a lot of the same the actual heart pain ache I felt was so real.

  • @user-il2tj6px7h
    @user-il2tj6px7h 2 месяца назад +466

    This is so sad! Her self-esteem is gone! She’s so broken!!!

  • @kkain123
    @kkain123 2 месяца назад +385

    The way he re-enacted it, you can tell how he was in that moment.

  • @sandrarice4197
    @sandrarice4197 2 месяца назад +519

    He picks an argument over trivial matters!!! She was doing the cooking. If he doesn't like the fact that she took the strainer out of the kitchen sink then he needs to do the cooking!!! She needs to leave this man like yesterday!!! He needs help!!!

    • @quadrishabazz
      @quadrishabazz 2 месяца назад +89

      Agreed. I may be wrong, but it seems to me like he instigates arguments to find a "reason" to get physical with her.

    • @isidoraveronica
      @isidoraveronica 2 месяца назад +21

      And they still together smh

    • @michealtyler9702
      @michealtyler9702 2 месяца назад

      Or the silly mfer need to listen and stop having an attitude when she the one fuking up....

    • @camdenhunt7565
      @camdenhunt7565 2 месяца назад +17

      Its giving controlling, hes a control freak

    • @tracyleesmith781
      @tracyleesmith781 2 месяца назад +13

      And he should've done better communication about the pipe problem with his wife. She is not a mind reader.

  • @pinkpetals601
    @pinkpetals601 2 месяца назад +941

    He needed to be locked up!

    • @denissky3129
      @denissky3129 2 месяца назад +34

      Amen to that.

    • @NaturallyCanisha
      @NaturallyCanisha 2 месяца назад +16

      Yesssssss

    • @aliciamoore963
      @aliciamoore963 2 месяца назад +24

      He probably would've been had she reported him to the authorities.

    • @lbolton2009
      @lbolton2009 2 месяца назад +17

      That's the first thing I said when reading the title. Then she mentioned choking.... straight to jail man...

    • @PlusBeauty-vs6kt
      @PlusBeauty-vs6kt 2 месяца назад +18

      Naw jail is a temporary bandaid he need some stitches so he have a reminder to keep them hands to himself

  • @denissky3129
    @denissky3129 2 месяца назад +677

    The wife is gorgeous ❤

    • @Jai64life
      @Jai64life 2 месяца назад +16

      That's what I said

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 2 месяца назад +24

      Everyone gets the same black man even the preferences

    • @dortheamcnulty3098
      @dortheamcnulty3098 2 месяца назад +23

      Yes she is and a good man would love to have her

    • @karenearle5507
      @karenearle5507 2 месяца назад +17

      Yes she is very pretty.

    • @jeezywhiz44
      @jeezywhiz44 2 месяца назад +8

      She is!

  • @zaheerahshareef8131
    @zaheerahshareef8131 2 месяца назад +483

    Yeah getting a cat and dying alone doesn’t sound so bad after all

  • @desiree.s
    @desiree.s 2 месяца назад +430

    A man willing to go on tv to say he’s an abusive man is a scary man!

    • @jazzieladie5709
      @jazzieladie5709 2 месяца назад +28

      U ain’t never lied about that!

    • @claresehill1373
      @claresehill1373 2 месяца назад +7

      Facts. 😢

    • @TrinetteNash
      @TrinetteNash 2 месяца назад +12

      She needs help disappearing

    • @graciouslybusisiwe248
      @graciouslybusisiwe248 Месяц назад +47

      Noo he's willing to go on TV because he understood and knew that he needs help, he is hete to be helped unlike other abusers who don't understand that they are abusers and they need help

    • @Moniethemom
      @Moniethemom Месяц назад +6

      Opposite tbh he’s not hiding it

  • @teehee83
    @teehee83 2 месяца назад +412

    When she said she let him choke her just to get it over with THE SCREAM I SCRUMPT

    • @brenale_heartsJesus
      @brenale_heartsJesus 2 месяца назад +53

      It was so eerie hearing her say that 😢 like dang what if one day he stopped until she was DEAD 😳

    • @7thfret.
      @7thfret. 2 месяца назад +53

      Not "scrumpt" 😂 I scrumpted too! Ain't no hands that could choke my neck and I actively wait for the person to finish.
      Rage, hold my beer!!! 😂

    • @onthatilegenesis8952
      @onthatilegenesis8952 2 месяца назад +25

      Scrumpting over here😂

    • @7thfret.
      @7thfret. 2 месяца назад

      ​@@onthatilegenesis8952you too 😂 Chile, my rage is raging seeing his big butt choking her.

    • @umadox41
      @umadox41 2 месяца назад +30

      Scary. She was just way too calm, like it's an insignificant every day occurrence. Like wtf 🤯? And the way he wouldn't take accountability but had to rope her in for equal blame? Like, dude you choke your wife regularly!!! How does that sound normal to you? 😡😡😡😡😡

  • @ariesown40
    @ariesown40 2 месяца назад +306

    The way Iyanla looks him in his eye when she says he chokes her...whew!!!

    • @margaretjones1686
      @margaretjones1686 2 месяца назад +27

      Very powerful ‼️‼️ whew

    • @bludiva27
      @bludiva27 2 месяца назад +22

      Pure disgust.

    • @ericag.7337
      @ericag.7337 2 месяца назад +9

      Because baby! I got scared for him!

    • @Nurse_Nash
      @Nurse_Nash 2 месяца назад +5

      Whew!

    • @ariesown40
      @ariesown40 2 месяца назад +3

      @ericag.7337 Listen!! Had me scared too lol

  • @LadyTee1464
    @LadyTee1464 2 месяца назад +77

    My husband was verbally abusive I just filed for divorce this past week

    • @guineyozzy5589
      @guineyozzy5589 25 дней назад +3

      Go on u!!👏 best of luck that takes strength

    • @talcareyifill5937
      @talcareyifill5937 19 дней назад +2

      Good for you ...nothing is wrong being alone

    • @ellebailey5358
      @ellebailey5358 11 дней назад

      ❤❤

    • @tatifelton6919
      @tatifelton6919 16 часов назад

      Congrats on your first step you're going to do just fine.. God got you!❤

  • @QueenSugar72
    @QueenSugar72 2 месяца назад +105

    He scares me and I'm not even in the relationship with him! He's twice her size and acts like she has to shut up and obey! Yes man, you ARE the big bad wolf!!!

    • @sherineofficial7851
      @sherineofficial7851 2 месяца назад +4

      Listennnnnnn omg😟🥲I feel for sis and I hope she escape this with her life in tact!

    • @helpkelp3595
      @helpkelp3595 2 месяца назад +9

      The way he is talking and acting on tv, id be terrified to know how much worse it gets at home! Id be running for the hills

    • @QueenSugar72
      @QueenSugar72 2 месяца назад

      @@helpkelp3595 💯💯💯

  • @shernette32
    @shernette32 2 месяца назад +99

    This is why back in the day the elders would ask about about family when their childern start dating..

  • @zuritribe4844
    @zuritribe4844 2 месяца назад +275

    WHEN SHE HELD THAT WOMAN OH THAT FELT NICE!!!

    • @jahaanislam1256
      @jahaanislam1256 2 месяца назад +20

      When i tell you i felt that hug through the phone gave me chills

    • @van5135
      @van5135 2 месяца назад +25

      I felt like she was hugging me cause Lord I need a warm hug

    • @myb4208
      @myb4208 Месяц назад +3

      that’s what she needed. She needs a mom so bad.

  • @Tiguenation
    @Tiguenation 2 месяца назад +564

    Letting a mf choke you is mad crazy

    • @zuritribe4844
      @zuritribe4844 2 месяца назад +98

      YEA THAT HURT WHEN SHE SAID SHE JUST WAITS FOR IT TO BE OVER

    • @justlue380
      @justlue380 2 месяца назад +20

      Mad Crazy!!! 😕 And Sad!

    • @dortheamcnulty3098
      @dortheamcnulty3098 2 месяца назад +16

      Yes do not put your freaking hand on me EVER I SAID EVER my Father is DEAD and he never hit me PERIOR

    • @dcharles7712
      @dcharles7712 2 месяца назад +5

      You tell them sleep with one eye open...they don't quint...

    • @toschajeffries8833
      @toschajeffries8833 2 месяца назад +1

      So sad

  • @daughterofthemosthighgod863
    @daughterofthemosthighgod863 Месяц назад +17

    For him to be choking and she’s just waiting for it to be over tells me that happened countless times before. How can someone be use to this? Lord have mercy 👏🏽

    • @Geminicricketi
      @Geminicricketi 12 часов назад

      I don’t think so if I know someone will choke me out, I’m not going to test them by being combative. She the problem

  • @specialkay4329
    @specialkay4329 2 месяца назад +672

    Him: Hi, my name is O.J
    Me: Excuse me, "Taxi"!!!

  • @shoppersdrugmartcanuck
    @shoppersdrugmartcanuck 2 месяца назад +393

    Iyanla is a master. This episode probably helped many people.

  • @reesycasi
    @reesycasi Месяц назад +10

    "She can be lazy at times"!!?? No, she's emotionally drained because of your abusive self! Big difference, sir!

  • @user-ec5uh3qs1f
    @user-ec5uh3qs1f 2 месяца назад +131

    I bet so many women would love to have iyanla in their home to help them navigate through this abuse situation😢

    • @user-ec5uh3qs1f
      @user-ec5uh3qs1f 2 месяца назад +5

      I was saying that because this happened to me and I had to go to court seem like every other month. And I didn't get done with all of this mess until my child was 18 years old. Still trying to put me through a court situation and make my daughter choose who she want to be what it was just miserable and right now to this day she's about to be 21 and she feels like she has to choose a side all the time and I'm just working with her through this situation.

    • @randi.blue.cherai511
      @randi.blue.cherai511 2 месяца назад

      ​@@user-ec5uh3qs1f I will keep you in my prayers. God Bless!! I love you. But, God loves you BEST!! ❤❤

    • @slaughtergang.
      @slaughtergang. 2 месяца назад +1

      Yep

    • @Geminicricketi
      @Geminicricketi 12 часов назад

      They need Kevin Samuels. To teach the men not to tolerate this disrespect n never stoop so low to physical violence. N teach women how to respect n listen to their husbands. All the broken women of this comment section only have “reactive” solutions. Like leave him, he should be I. Jail, he scary. While not thinking of how to avoid conflict in the first place. Was he wrong to tell her to use a strainer?

    • @Geminicricketi
      @Geminicricketi 12 часов назад

      @@user-ec5uh3qs1fn what did u do wrong 🙄🤔

  • @dianapatterson449
    @dianapatterson449 2 месяца назад +363

    How does he NOT UNDERSTAND how he is the bad guy?

    • @ARTBYMASTERFULDESIGN
      @ARTBYMASTERFULDESIGN 2 месяца назад +16

      Crazy how we never addressed how he said in the very beginning she says things in a way that trigger him. I went thru it with my mother and she would emotionally manipulate people to that boiling point and then play innocent or victim and point the finger. Sometimes its both parties that's wrong.

    • @ARTBYMASTERFULDESIGN
      @ARTBYMASTERFULDESIGN 2 месяца назад +15

      People who are numb with unhealed trauma can have the tendency to pull emotion out of others just to feel something. Im glad he took accountability fully. Some people hurt with their words and some people hurt with their hands. Both are just as psychologically damaging.

    • @drknow1997
      @drknow1997 2 месяца назад +45

      @@ARTBYMASTERFULDESIGNhello?!!! There isn’t anything she can say that gives him the right to be triggered and then choke her. Walk out the house and leave!

    • @camdenhunt7565
      @camdenhunt7565 2 месяца назад +14

      They never do until several people that aren't their partner point it out. My ex didn't apologize until other people noticed what he was doing.

    • @camdenhunt7565
      @camdenhunt7565 2 месяца назад +16

      ​@ARTBYMASTERFULDESIGN thats not it in this case, I'm sorry. If children can have conflict without putting their hands on each other, so can grown adults.

  • @yosea8701
    @yosea8701 2 месяца назад +81

    I hope his family is watching him admit his abusive ways so they dont be in court talking about how good he is of a man, husband, etc.

    • @kayk2899
      @kayk2899 Месяц назад

      This🎯🎯

    • @akinyianderson4075
      @akinyianderson4075 Месяц назад +2

      @@kayk2899 Sadly some family will not see him as the abuser but the victim

    • @kayk2899
      @kayk2899 Месяц назад +1

      @@akinyianderson4075 Yep, it’s a losing battle.

  • @blane6592
    @blane6592 2 месяца назад +92

    His name got the Audacity to be OJ…

  • @amandameredith
    @amandameredith 2 месяца назад +84

    Seeing her embrace that woman like that brought me to tears... I could really use a hug like that. So beautiful

    • @CoutureEatzz
      @CoutureEatzz 2 месяца назад +3

      🫂🫂🤗 sending you a good virtual hug luv ❤

    • @amandameredith
      @amandameredith 2 месяца назад

      @@CoutureEatzz thank you. Thats was very sweet of you. Sending virtual hug back sis 🥰

    • @shaeb.9627
      @shaeb.9627 2 месяца назад +1

      Sending many hugs, love & prayers your way… God Bless You!❤️

    • @shanellwilliams4584
      @shanellwilliams4584 Месяц назад

      Sending you hugs sis ❤

    • @sherrellmartin458
      @sherrellmartin458 Месяц назад

      Hug! Hug! Hug, Sis! love you! 🙏🏾💜

  • @LateBloomer1111
    @LateBloomer1111 2 месяца назад +49

    Boy when she coddled the wife and allowed her to just cry like a baby I losted it 😢😭😭😭😭

    • @Geminicricketi
      @Geminicricketi 12 часов назад

      Lmao. So her husband telling her to use a strainer, then her saying no is cool ? Yall will make great wives one day 😵‍💫🙄🙄🙄

  • @rickabeauxx7420
    @rickabeauxx7420 2 месяца назад +179

    This episode is about to make me cry. If anybody HAS to speak to you disrespectfully or fight you they hate you! They want to beat you down spiritually and physically. I hope she is in a better place now.

    • @van5135
      @van5135 2 месяца назад +7

      Yes my husband does this to me

    • @natashaboyer6420
      @natashaboyer6420 2 месяца назад

      Divorce him before he unalive you ​@@van5135

    • @lorebay2593
      @lorebay2593 2 месяца назад +2

      Sir, You are absolutely correct.

    • @michealtyler9702
      @michealtyler9702 2 месяца назад

      If a bih can't listen to simple things she hates you.

    • @shandasa10
      @shandasa10 2 месяца назад +8

      @van5135 same here, but now I've decided to leave. Best decision I'm making.

  • @smilesw3712
    @smilesw3712 2 месяца назад +494

    The way he talk is scary …

    • @specialkay4329
      @specialkay4329 2 месяца назад +62

      What you hear is the watered down tv version. I can tell you that what you ain't heard, is what's said and done when visitors go home, and the " prison cell door slams shut". Trust. He becomes way more scary.

    • @blaq7892
      @blaq7892 2 месяца назад +15

      When you attach yoself to a man that you know is a life long Bully.
      His father was a Bully 24:56.
      Those bully attributes are what attracted these women.

    • @desireed3741
      @desireed3741 2 месяца назад +16

      We didnt see anything. I can only imagine how he acted towards her when the cameras left since most of the show turned out being about him and his secret abuse being exposed by her.

    • @camdenhunt7565
      @camdenhunt7565 2 месяца назад +17

      The "we have problems" NO YOU HAVE PROBLEMS to even think its ok to put your hands on her!!!

    • @tbishop2249
      @tbishop2249 2 месяца назад +22

      Yes. It brought me to tears to hear how she “causes her own abuse” by not doing things when they “should be done” or “she has a slick mouth”

  • @brooklynbeastnycforlife
    @brooklynbeastnycforlife 2 месяца назад +248

    please keep these LYANLA videos coming its so powerful to watch I've seen so many women who I now stay in a toxic relationship like this who don't tell they family or friends just fake being a happy person because they feel they can't get someone better or my favorite they do not want to start all over with someone new smh

    • @ntombisepeng8519
      @ntombisepeng8519 2 месяца назад +9

      Iyanla Vanzant.😅😅

    • @user-jn9sf7qt3h
      @user-jn9sf7qt3h 2 месяца назад +10

      It’s a very terrifying situation to try to leave. That’s why you have to have a plan or a woman can end up in a tragedy. Women still need to do what it takes to get herself and especially her children away from abuse!

    • @ambernicole1692
      @ambernicole1692 2 месяца назад +1

      😊

    • @ntombisepeng8519
      @ntombisepeng8519 2 месяца назад +7

      😢😢😢😢😢 I'm so emotional because I experienced 😭 😢 abuse in a worse form, verbally, socially, spiritually, psychologically , physically, and verbally. I stayed for 15 years thinking he would change, but he didn't.

    • @sandrafernandez3839
      @sandrafernandez3839 2 месяца назад +4

      Why did Mrs. Vanzant stop these shows? She was helping a lot of people but there were also a lot of American making noise about her being too forceful with her therapy and sometimes rushed..is that true? Because I only view her as the person that present or introduces therapy but enforces a life-time of healing. She never made it seem like she was a solution but just there to offer coping and healing .

  • @rebeccamock6308
    @rebeccamock6308 2 месяца назад +165

    She can forgive her husband but has a hard time forgiving her mother.

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 2 месяца назад +43

      Women forgive men quicker than women they make identifed

    • @vivlagabster
      @vivlagabster 2 месяца назад +41

      Well I can understand her, mothers are supposed to protect their children and her mother couldn’t do that AND never gave her an example of a good healthy relationship with men. She CHOSE to have her and failed at it. So no she doesn’t have to forgive her mother for not being a good mom

    • @vivlagabster
      @vivlagabster 2 месяца назад

      @@helena3631what

    • @chynnanicole2
      @chynnanicole2 2 месяца назад +17

      She doesn’t have to forgive either one of her. Both of them are supposed to protect her and care for her. They both failed her. But the mother one is even that more worse bc that’s her child

    • @PureNapture
      @PureNapture 2 месяца назад +12

      @@vivlagabsternonsense, the reality is mothers are still human beings.

  • @user-ew3zw8gg8y
    @user-ew3zw8gg8y 2 месяца назад +96

    I had an ex named OJ he would beat me so bad it happened from 20-21 years old I left in November 2020 and never looked back am 24 now and happily married. Ladies don’t stay leave the first time period

    • @latia7139
      @latia7139 2 месяца назад +6

      Glad you got out of that situation and found happiness ❤

    • @Polly-uj3ky
      @Polly-uj3ky 2 месяца назад +4

      So proud of you sis. I left too and I will never look back.

    • @erinjohnson4273
      @erinjohnson4273 Месяц назад +2

      I'm so proud of you for leaving and finding real love. Love does not hurt!

    • @GratitudeGriot
      @GratitudeGriot Месяц назад +2

      3 years out of an abusive relationship and married before your brain is fully developed…I pray for your continued healing ❤

    • @Geminicricketi
      @Geminicricketi 12 часов назад

      Your new husband lets u disrespect him? Y did Oj have to put hands on you. Just curious?

  • @ummzaynab7702
    @ummzaynab7702 2 месяца назад +53

    I just googled this couple. The mom was murdered about 3 years ago by a serial killer. Condolences to them for their loss. I cant imagine. Her life has so many tragedies.

    • @WilliamOgletree
      @WilliamOgletree 2 месяца назад +6

      😢🙏🙏

    • @myajanell2504
      @myajanell2504 Месяц назад +5

      so heartbreaking 🥺

    • @hahadarrie
      @hahadarrie 29 дней назад +4

      Please pray, “no weapon formed against me shall prosper”. Cover yourselves in the blood of Jesus for we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against principalities and rulers of dark places. May God rest her soul.

    • @MW-rb3ny
      @MW-rb3ny 28 дней назад +1

      What???? Omg those poor children

    • @MW-rb3ny
      @MW-rb3ny 28 дней назад +1

      I think k it was Janetria’s mom who was murdered.

  • @EssenceofCoils
    @EssenceofCoils 2 месяца назад +83

    The way Iyanla initially looked at him 😳... I couldn't WAIT for her to tear off in his behind 😅. I was so anxious.

  • @cookingwtheword1346
    @cookingwtheword1346 2 месяца назад +176

    The husband wants to go because he doesn't trust himself. And she's doesn't want him to go. Lord, I pray nothing happens to her and the kids. I wish one of them would put the kids 1st.

    • @camdenhunt7565
      @camdenhunt7565 2 месяца назад +15

      She needs to let him go or shes leaving in a casket.

    • @cynthiahayes3962
      @cynthiahayes3962 2 месяца назад +12

      He didn't want to go. He wants to stay where his behavior is acceptable because this is how he 'functions'.

    • @somarsomar5125
      @somarsomar5125 2 месяца назад +4

      She needs to put HERSELF FIRST. If she is not ok the children have no one!!

  • @mochampagnelives1793
    @mochampagnelives1793 2 месяца назад +61

    The way she stared at him when she said he chokes her.

  • @mrs.j.j.5121
    @mrs.j.j.5121 2 месяца назад +84

    This show is also for the men/husbands/BD's who are at the recieving end of DV in silence.They've been raised to not hit or disrespect any woman

    • @jayrodriguez4119
      @jayrodriguez4119 2 месяца назад +16

      You don't have to hit a woman or disrespect her to walk away and never look back.

    • @theREALESTrealistUNPOPULAR
      @theREALESTrealistUNPOPULAR 2 месяца назад +2

      Please. They can go unless they’re her dependent

    • @MimiB1974
      @MimiB1974 2 месяца назад +5

      No… it’s not. A man can literally stop a woman from choking him. In most cases a woman cannot

    • @Geminicricketi
      @Geminicricketi 11 часов назад

      @@theREALESTrealistUNPOPULARno sympathy? Yall a part of the problem

  • @tetegriffiths1956
    @tetegriffiths1956 2 месяца назад +66

    Why she only have to clean if you think the house clean. Clean your self. She is beautiful she deserves better than him

  • @azebenoit8842
    @azebenoit8842 2 месяца назад +314

    She's LAZY😮 but she's putting yr food in front of you n needs to heat it TOO if it's cold you must be kidding me!!!!

    • @user-ut5py2bv2r
      @user-ut5py2bv2r 2 месяца назад +3

      That's sad

    • @QueenSugar72
      @QueenSugar72 2 месяца назад +4

      That part!

    • @carleeb2344
      @carleeb2344 2 месяца назад +14

      That part was triggering for me. Like get up and heat it yourself

    • @shaneecuevas7990
      @shaneecuevas7990 2 месяца назад

      EXACTLY!

    • @kalimbaayinde25
      @kalimbaayinde25 2 месяца назад

      Exactly. This is BM!!! They aren’t happy with you because you aren’t a WW.

  • @yemedemure414
    @yemedemure414 2 месяца назад +42

    One thing about Iyanla she hug you real good then correct and convict you immediately after! 😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤

  • @Mom.3
    @Mom.3 2 месяца назад +108

    THIS IS MY TRUTH! And if you haven’t been through it.. you will never know and I PRAY that you never will.❤

    • @TheIslandBelle
      @TheIslandBelle 2 месяца назад +16

      It was my TRUTH 4 years ago, and I knew I would die if I didn’t get out. I had too many close calls. Glad, I did! Now, I’m in law school, building my own life, healing with my kid, and hoping to advocate for other domestic violence victims & survivors in the future!

    • @toschajeffries8833
      @toschajeffries8833 2 месяца назад +4

      Yes....I agree I survive abuse myself

    • @blckqueen6002
      @blckqueen6002 2 месяца назад +2

      This is my truth currently

    • @toschajeffries8833
      @toschajeffries8833 2 месяца назад +2

      @@blckqueen6002 Praying that you will get out that situation soon no one deserves to be abuse.

    • @truthhurts7045
      @truthhurts7045 2 месяца назад

      @@blckqueen6002you don’t deserve it sis. You can do great without him.

  • @EfuaNartekuor_3
    @EfuaNartekuor_3 2 месяца назад +34

    Dear Lord please protect this young lady! The fact that she is still married to him is bothersome 😢.

  • @immaculatenjeri6603
    @immaculatenjeri6603 2 месяца назад +34

    That hug was motherly ,she needed it💯

  • @user-tf9kv6hc5y
    @user-tf9kv6hc5y 2 месяца назад +33

    💜💜💜💜💜
    I survived Domestic Abuse I am free
    My Heart Aches for other women 😢
    Moral of the true story is that never again
    Will Any male specices cause me Hurt,
    STOP HARMING WOMAN & CHILDREN 🙌🏾

  • @enitachipoyi1377
    @enitachipoyi1377 2 месяца назад +44

    the way the mom instinctively shuffles away from OJ when he says he chokes her daughter, I felt that

  • @MichelleMarchia-fk9es
    @MichelleMarchia-fk9es 2 месяца назад +197

    The wife needed to leave the husband years ago!!!!!!

    • @ThePecanTan
      @ThePecanTan 2 месяца назад +23

      Absolutely! I imagine he's always been this way. Sadly she's used to toxicity and trauma because of her childhood. Trauma bonding is real. A man like this isn't attracted to mentally healthy women who know their worth.

    • @desij.7487
      @desij.7487 2 месяца назад +5

      They are still married

    • @blaseblasebih5706
      @blaseblasebih5706 Месяц назад

      ​@@desij.7487 please tell me that things have gotten better 😢

    • @greaterishe7197
      @greaterishe7197 27 дней назад

      ​@@ThePecanTanLove your comment ❤️

    • @Geminicricketi
      @Geminicricketi 11 часов назад

      He should have left her 2 stars for wife

  • @chi-gemini2951
    @chi-gemini2951 2 месяца назад +109

    Abusive men always try to justify their actions by saying “she was talking to me crazy with an attitude” No, you should not talk crazy to your spouse, but that does not justify you actually putting your hands on me!! Words and fist are not comparable.

    • @MrsCollins213
      @MrsCollins213 2 месяца назад +2

      Words are worse.

    • @alexzmichele
      @alexzmichele 2 месяца назад +5

      @@MrsCollins213words are worse than physically hurting your spouse?

    • @MrsCollins213
      @MrsCollins213 2 месяца назад

      @@alexzmichele I’m not talking about spousal abuse, I’m saying in general. Read correctly.

    • @CoffeeCrazy
      @CoffeeCrazy 2 месяца назад +4

      @@MrsCollins213I agree, words are worse because people never see or acknowledge the damage. When physical abuse takes place there are immediate physical results that verify the act. But words have the ability to shape our lives and stay with us much longer than a bruise. Words are so powerful they have the ability to shape nations, and laws. If you have ever been in a situation where someone verbally tears you down, every word is like a blow to the gut. It does not have to be a spouse it can be a parent. This is why I tell my children that I love them because not only do they need to feel it, it must be confessed verbally to complete the package of love.

    • @CoffeeCrazy
      @CoffeeCrazy 2 месяца назад +3

      @@alexzmichele why would you think that physical abuse is worse? So I would say the physical abuse can kill you physically, and verbal abuse can kill you emotionally and spiritually and even can in some cases kill you physically. Cause severe depression, ideation of self harm, etc. what’s interesting is that in scripture it tells us that every idle word will be accounted for, that there is power in the tongue, death and life.

  • @jaysays2642
    @jaysays2642 2 месяца назад +46

    Her mother is STUNNING !!!!

    • @hisqueenmsroyalty9890
      @hisqueenmsroyalty9890 2 месяца назад +4

      She is and unfortunately she was stabbed to death last year😢

    • @jaysays2642
      @jaysays2642 2 месяца назад +3

      @@hisqueenmsroyalty9890 omg that is awful 😞

    • @kekesdivinity9687
      @kekesdivinity9687 Месяц назад +1

      I was looking for this comment ❤

  • @mcdowellt34
    @mcdowellt34 2 месяца назад +64

    Every time they get ready to confess that it's an abusive situation they keep saying I now know as if they don't know that hitting someone is abuse

    • @aprilm4423
      @aprilm4423 2 месяца назад +4

      They DON'T realize hitting someone else is abuse. I'm only part way through. There's no telling what either of them saw growing up. Haven't seen it all...

    • @bippityboppityboo2u
      @bippityboppityboo2u 2 месяца назад +6

      I didn't realize what my cousin told me was a game was molestation until someone spelled it out for me.
      You don't know what you don't know.

    • @mcdowellt34
      @mcdowellt34 2 месяца назад +1

      @bippityboppityboo5963 but how old was you? These are adults, you mean to tell me with all the examples of domestic abuse thats out here , neither of them realized that this was abuse?

    • @bippityboppityboo2u
      @bippityboppityboo2u 2 месяца назад

      @@mcdowellt34 some of us are professionals making comments on RUclips. Trust me, the human brains doesn't work that way with most . Your lack of awareness I'm sure is why you aren't that type of professional...you don't know what you're talking about

    • @helpkelp3595
      @helpkelp3595 2 месяца назад

      @@mcdowellt34when you don't know how to love or be loved, often times you might unknowingly find yourself in an abusive relationship and think that abuse is just one of the trials and tribulations of marriage. For some people it's normal, they think it'll get better eventually

  • @breskiboo
    @breskiboo 2 месяца назад +28

    The wife’s mother has done some good work on herself; she takes accountability for her not being a mother when her daughter needed her.

    • @breskiboo
      @breskiboo 2 месяца назад

      @@loretta.o1806 yeah, I found her Instagram & has a post about service was served or is being served. I’m glad they were at least able to get their relationship back on track.

    • @x-Clover-x
      @x-Clover-x Месяц назад

      Sadly she was murdered by a serial killer. :( wow!

    • @breskiboo
      @breskiboo Месяц назад

      @@x-Clover-x yes, I heard..so sad.

  • @melindawilson4470
    @melindawilson4470 2 месяца назад +27

    I feel so sorry for this beautiful young lady. She doesn’t understand her worth and value.

    • @Geminicricketi
      @Geminicricketi 11 часов назад

      What man wants a wife that don’t listen to him? Take a survey n that will give u a real look at her worth

  • @daniellehill8040
    @daniellehill8040 2 месяца назад +25

    When she held her while she cried got me teary eyes🥺

  • @cdimplesz324
    @cdimplesz324 2 месяца назад +14

    The only way to be saved from any abusive situation is.....🥁 TO SECRETLY LEAVE AND DON'T RETURN 💯

  • @karenearle5507
    @karenearle5507 2 месяца назад +27

    He needs to be alone. She needs to go somewhere, where he can't find her.

  • @mikeanderson9613
    @mikeanderson9613 Месяц назад +4

    I hope and pray that this man get the help that he need. And that she get her self esteem back

  • @stushk9
    @stushk9 2 месяца назад +16

    That hug that Iyanla gave her, I felt that through the screen. ❤

  • @apoetsingsjonerouselacy
    @apoetsingsjonerouselacy 2 месяца назад +22

    he admitted it.. he said he doesn't know if his abuse will happen again..scarey!!!!!

  • @yvonnejohnson
    @yvonnejohnson 2 месяца назад +29

    Her self esteem is shattered because of the abuse when she was young, but she have to know that it was not her fault, she was a victim...until she stop blaming herself she will continue to allow him to talk to her and treat her like that.

  • @504girl3rd
    @504girl3rd 2 месяца назад +35

    "I was waiting for it to be over." This is so sad😢

  • @lobengone477
    @lobengone477 2 месяца назад +27

    He doesn’t have a grip on his emotions: out of control

  • @naemull2055
    @naemull2055 2 месяца назад +24

    Protect Iyanla at all cost, the world needs her rightttt now ❤

  • @WhitneyBeeLibra
    @WhitneyBeeLibra 2 месяца назад +14

    Her smiling is a defensive mechanism. Keeping the children around him whether that's dad or not isn't safe from what it looks like. Poor thing.

  • @babygroot81
    @babygroot81 2 месяца назад +89

    Why try and fix THIS?!

    • @nishamack586
      @nishamack586 2 месяца назад +9

      Amen!! Other blk women needed to c how to safely leave these dangerous situations!

    • @amandatiragalo9344
      @amandatiragalo9344 2 месяца назад +2

      She is not going to make it they are still together

    • @nishashawn2021
      @nishashawn2021 Месяц назад

      I don't think she's trying to fix the relationship but help them as individuals

  • @baby_avo
    @baby_avo 2 месяца назад +73

    An abusive two parent household is worst than a one parent household, like c’mon

    • @helpkelp3595
      @helpkelp3595 2 месяца назад +7

      Yep, thats the first place kids learn how to love

    • @charmagneq
      @charmagneq 2 месяца назад +1

      Say THAT! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @myb4208
      @myb4208 Месяц назад

      exactly my mom raised me and i loved just having her.

    • @kimberlytyler1560
      @kimberlytyler1560 Месяц назад +2

      Agreed. People don’t realize how toxic it is to have to walk on egg shells when dad is mad and mom is checked out. Nobody wins. I almost respect dead beat dads more than the ones who stay and are abusive because they are unhappy and crazy.

  • @Jai64life
    @Jai64life 2 месяца назад +51

    She is very pretty, and I think he may be insecure. You would think that because he KNOWS her past, he would do better. Yet, her own husband abuses her. Woooow!

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 2 месяца назад +5

      He probably think she wouldn’t be with someone like him smh these men sick in they head

    • @quichequiche4274
      @quichequiche4274 2 месяца назад +8

      Most times, when they know your past, they treat you worse.

    • @TheIslandBelle
      @TheIslandBelle 2 месяца назад +2

      @@quichequiche4274learned that hard way

    • @quichequiche4274
      @quichequiche4274 2 месяца назад +2

      @@TheIslandBelle Unfortunately, me too.

    • @camdenhunt7565
      @camdenhunt7565 2 месяца назад +3

      Sometimes the past gives them a guide on what they can get away with. Most recent ex knew former ex put his hands on me so he mostly just stuck to yelling and verbal abuse.

  • @HungoverInHighHeels
    @HungoverInHighHeels 2 месяца назад +17

    I really cried watching Iyanla cradle that poor woman.

  • @adlihkristopher2906
    @adlihkristopher2906 2 месяца назад +101

    He is right he is the big bad wolf 🐺heeds to be in jail

    • @Stoned4eva69
      @Stoned4eva69 2 месяца назад +1

      “He might hurt somebody” boy you choked your wife!!!

    • @timothyb3121
      @timothyb3121 2 месяца назад +2

      Spoken like someone who just reacts instead of seeing the whole picture.

    • @camdenhunt7565
      @camdenhunt7565 2 месяца назад +12

      ​@@timothyb3121Cute okay so what if you had a girlfriend that CHOKED YOU OVER FOOD IN THE DAMN SINK get a grip.

  • @donnabethea8164
    @donnabethea8164 2 месяца назад +18

    That one choke you just waiting for to be over is gonna be over for real

  • @zuritribe4844
    @zuritribe4844 2 месяца назад +69

    IYANLA FACE WHEN THEY HELD THEIR HANDS TOGETHER THAT WAS MY FACE TOO!!

    • @teehee83
      @teehee83 2 месяца назад +8

      Just PURE DISGUST

    • @shaepayne
      @shaepayne 2 месяца назад +3

      😂😂😂I went looking for this comment lmao

    • @DarlingNikki2
      @DarlingNikki2 2 месяца назад +3

      Her face said it all lol! Looking at him like, 'Niqqa, do you see this?' 😆

    • @whitneyquinn815
      @whitneyquinn815 Месяц назад +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 it messed her up!

    • @zuritribe4844
      @zuritribe4844 Месяц назад

      @@DarlingNikki2 right!!!

  • @onthatilegenesis8952
    @onthatilegenesis8952 2 месяца назад +81

    imagine being chokef for a sink prop😮. This one will beat you up for taking a bath when he is not there. They start like that, for the smallest of things

    • @Mom.3
      @Mom.3 2 месяца назад +5

      I’ve had an eardrum ruptured for wayyyy less. It happens.. more than you think.

    • @isidoraveronica
      @isidoraveronica 2 месяца назад +2

      @@Mom.3wow are you okay?

    • @michealtyler9702
      @michealtyler9702 2 месяца назад

      Imagine being too stupid to know why you need to use the sink strainer....

    • @camdenhunt7565
      @camdenhunt7565 2 месяца назад +8

      Got smacked for forgetting something from the dollar store. Its the smallest things.

    • @auzy2u845
      @auzy2u845 2 месяца назад +1

      ​@@Mom.3🙏

  • @gabbynicole2280
    @gabbynicole2280 2 месяца назад +31

    Sir…are you serious? You are abusing your wife and acting like she’s to blame, over a stopper in the sink amongst God knows what else. You knew better than to buck up on Iyanla though, you got up out that house and packed a bag like she told you to!

  • @MaterialGworlKodi
    @MaterialGworlKodi 2 месяца назад +30

    This poor woman. And she is so sweet. Hate that it's some evil people in this world.

  • @SALENATHOMAS
    @SALENATHOMAS 2 месяца назад +9

    She needs to love herself and her kids more than she loves him and that marriage

  • @thehoodxhippie
    @thehoodxhippie 29 дней назад +2

    When iyala held her, a piece of my heart shattered and healed at the same time ❤

  • @breskiboo
    @breskiboo 2 месяца назад +12

    I appreciate Iyanla telling her to look at her mother’s faults through a different prospective..that they both lead abusive lives that will affect their children.

  • @DelicaZeum
    @DelicaZeum 2 месяца назад +13

    Lord have mercy!!! Janetra is spiritually broken. It’s like her spirit is crushed from years of trauma and abandonment. Lord please heal her.

  • @Yourfavorite-cx6jz
    @Yourfavorite-cx6jz 2 месяца назад +30

    you are the bad guy sir!!! no matter why she says or how much she ignores you, you don’t have the right to abuse a woman.

  • @devion7709
    @devion7709 Месяц назад +6

    He’s so embarrassed and ashamed he can’t even reenact what he did

    • @tamaragore437
      @tamaragore437 Месяц назад +2

      Its not that he's ashamed. He's a coward and thats being revealed. He KNOWS what he's doing is wrong and he's used to getting away with it. He's not used to being held accountable. Thats why he can't reenact his abuse.

  • @aprilpolite521
    @aprilpolite521 2 месяца назад +12

    Been there with ex husband had 2 babies thank you lord I got out 25 years ago I know I would not be here if I stayed 🙏🏻 this bring back so many memories 😢

  • @natgojo
    @natgojo 2 месяца назад +62

    Iyanla is just amazing. I learn so much from these.

  • @Damnitshay
    @Damnitshay 2 месяца назад +127

    Rip to Janetria’s mother Kim who was murdered last year in Dallas I’m glad their relationship improved before this tragedy happened. Update they are still together till this day

    • @Joyce846
      @Joyce846 2 месяца назад +23

      So sad. I found the article…

    • @helena3631
      @helena3631 2 месяца назад +11

      Omg thanks for the update

    • @vivlagabster
      @vivlagabster 2 месяца назад +15

      I really hope he changed I’m feeling so sorry for janetria 😢 she going to be in my prayers today

    • @nishamack586
      @nishamack586 2 месяца назад +3

      oh no! How can I find the article please?

    • @vivlagabster
      @vivlagabster 2 месяца назад

      @@nishamack586I just looked up janetria Oliver and Kimberly Robinson and it should pop up on google

  • @jamicabagby7272
    @jamicabagby7272 2 месяца назад +7

    Please don't stay for the children because you may not be there for them after this.😢😢😢I grew up with seeing this.

  • @susiesolangesimpson2828
    @susiesolangesimpson2828 2 месяца назад +100

    For those wondering, yes they’re still married. And her mother passed away last year.

    • @user-lx3il1nj2u
      @user-lx3il1nj2u 2 месяца назад +16

      Hopefully they are in a better state then before

    • @nishamack586
      @nishamack586 2 месяца назад +3

      wasn't her mother murdered?

    • @susiesolangesimpson2828
      @susiesolangesimpson2828 2 месяца назад +2

      @@nishamack586 I’m not sure.

    • @JayNit2
      @JayNit2 2 месяца назад

      ​@nishamack586 yes

    • @prettycaramel9237
      @prettycaramel9237 2 месяца назад +5

      ​@@nishamack586 Per the comments yes. There's an article somewhere.

  • @aleciaupson9977
    @aleciaupson9977 2 месяца назад +25

    Iyanla got that Mama stare 🏃‍♀🏃‍♀

  • @Mandy8705moni
    @Mandy8705moni 2 месяца назад +8

    A FB reel brought me here... i just needed to see the full episode. I miss this show!! Iyanla fix these babies!! Come back!!!!!

  • @anjelamckenzie
    @anjelamckenzie 2 месяца назад +10

    Iyanla goes all the way in!!! When she sat that woman on her lap and let her cry, it was so moving! ❤

  • @LifesMagicalJourney
    @LifesMagicalJourney 2 месяца назад +17

    Our subconscious minds don't know the difference. All he heard was, be like your father! I'm grateful they're getting the help they need to heal! 🙏🏾

  • @chynnanicole2
    @chynnanicole2 2 месяца назад +21

    When she held her like a child I wanted to cry. She really needed that and probably still does ❤

  • @kfransissy8101
    @kfransissy8101 2 месяца назад +40

    Watching Iyanla hold that woman made me cry like a baby😢😢
    My tribe has been through sooo much

  • @BeccaMalvo
    @BeccaMalvo 2 месяца назад +13

    So touching when she had her sit on her lap.

  • @LadyLG8878
    @LadyLG8878 2 месяца назад +8

    I pray that this young lady continues to seek counseling. She really need a great amount of help! Lord protect this young lady!!!!

  • @jettiecollier7011
    @jettiecollier7011 2 месяца назад +18

    I wish i had someone to talk to just like this. Cause still to this day. I have depression and anxiety of not loving myself from a 27year relationship. And finally leave without anything. Omg 😢

  • @yoqueen6048
    @yoqueen6048 2 месяца назад +6

    I stayed in a 28yr marriage being unloved, cheated on and fought and finally got out 5yrs ago. And now I remarried after finding myself!

  • @Willahbean
    @Willahbean 2 месяца назад +26

    When I tell you I want one of them good ol mama hugs from Ms. Iyanla 🤗🤗🤗

  • @mashelbr
    @mashelbr 2 месяца назад +24

    Beloved *LOVE DOESN'T HAVE TO HURT*

  • @TaeandDes4L
    @TaeandDes4L 2 месяца назад +33

    Update, they’ve worked past it all after the show . They’re still married and she owns her own business and joined the military .

    • @pheoliasmith4325
      @pheoliasmith4325 2 месяца назад +3

      She’s in the military?

    • @danielawharton3679
      @danielawharton3679 2 месяца назад +13

      Great move for her....she needed something else to do other than crave this man