The Secret to A Successful Marriage! 💍 II STEVE HARVEY

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  • @KelzBernard
    @KelzBernard Год назад +866

    Me and my wife are newlyweds. Whoever reads this comment, could you please pray for me (Kelsey-Bernard) that I am a Godly husband to my wife. I desire to display the love of God to her and be an example of His love to those who witness our marriage. I want to make it to the 20, 30, 40, 50+ years.

    • @Carol_shirley
      @Carol_shirley Год назад +44

      I declare in the name of Jesus Christ you are and will continually be a good husband throughout your marriage . Follow the guidance of the Holy Spirit and it shall be well with your marriage.

    • @KelzBernard
      @KelzBernard Год назад +14

      @@Carol_shirley Thank you sister! ❤️🙏🏽 ❤️

    • @levernedujon6609
      @levernedujon6609 Год назад +11

      Praying for you bro

    • @maputakamulete2276
      @maputakamulete2276 Год назад +6

      All best. You will make it

    • @camillejames4900
      @camillejames4900 Год назад +8

      May God bless you rooting for your blessing

  • @mrsbrownsugarsweetz
    @mrsbrownsugarsweetz Год назад +361

    My husband and I have been together for 14 yrs and we don’t argue. We always discuss everything. If he makes me mad I pray about it then talk to him.

    • @flowforever9084
      @flowforever9084 Год назад +4

      Awesome 👌

    • @aisha2luv464
      @aisha2luv464 Год назад +7

      Yes prayer always change the other person for the better

    • @estherwayua3210
      @estherwayua3210 Год назад

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    • @Abbyszedkitchen
      @Abbyszedkitchen Год назад +2

      Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾

    • @awalker3636
      @awalker3636 Год назад +4

      Wow… that takes discipline

  • @drcyume
    @drcyume Год назад +118

    One thing that is clear from here is that successful marriages are of two people genuinely ready and committed to making it work.

  • @daphneclarke8694
    @daphneclarke8694 Год назад +309

    My husband and I celebrated 61 years anniversary wasn't perfect had some real trying times but thank God for his goodness and his grace that kept us

    • @LEWASTREAT
      @LEWASTREAT Год назад +7

      Wow... 61years in marriage... That's really awesome... I celebrate you both sir/ma

    • @ST4
      @ST4 Год назад +3

      Glory to GOD. May GOD continue to Bless you and your marriage 🙏🏾

    • @giftoma
      @giftoma Год назад

      Wow. Congratulation

    • @namtrader9674
      @namtrader9674 Год назад +1

      Amazing!!

    • @larryqueen
      @larryqueen Год назад

      Woowwwwww

  • @face2faceyouth
    @face2faceyouth Год назад +360

    This video should be mandatory for all couples to watch before marriage. Great video. 20 years here!

    • @isabellajones7644
      @isabellajones7644 Год назад

      Hi marcus

    • @estherwayua3210
      @estherwayua3210 Год назад

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    • @ahanachauhan1210
      @ahanachauhan1210 Год назад +1

      Very good Bro !! Go on , respect for your personality

    • @careerscoop5241
      @careerscoop5241 9 месяцев назад

      simple...b4 marrying....just ask...if i had a million dollars, will i marry the same person....if your answer is ..YES...go ahead marry that person....if no....dont do it...simple.

  • @MyWayWendy
    @MyWayWendy Год назад +229

    "A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person" : Mignon McLaughlin..

    • @alaaal-torabi2982
      @alaaal-torabi2982 Год назад +2

      I never knew that a successful marriage requires falling in love many times always with Ella.
      WTH

    • @estherwayua3210
      @estherwayua3210 Год назад

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  • @caisey27
    @caisey27 Год назад +401

    Saying what you want,no secrets,no agendas and never going to bed mad at each other 👌🏾 great lessons.

    • @estherwayua3210
      @estherwayua3210 Год назад

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    • @kossynifemigold
      @kossynifemigold Год назад +2

      That never going to bed mad, that number one thing people should emulate.God it what I say to my self I will do with Help of God. The thing is that we can forgive but we cant forget that's just the truth but whenever we remember the past we just smile.

    • @ahanachauhan1210
      @ahanachauhan1210 Год назад +1

      Absolutely, true

    • @mariafriedly
      @mariafriedly Год назад +1

      And it seems so impossible to execute! Some spouse like to maintain the anger for months over any small detail. And that is a killer of the relationship. One month later you don’t even remember what was the topic you were fighting over! But the love is permanently damage for the long duration of the anger

    • @careerscoop5241
      @careerscoop5241 9 месяцев назад +1

      simple...b4 marrying....just ask...if i had a million dollars, will i marry the same person....if your answer is ..YES...go ahead marry that person....if no....dont do it...simple.

  • @fatuumahmed588
    @fatuumahmed588 Год назад +52

    " Everybody you attracted to you aint compatible with. Cause it look good to you, don't mean it's going be good to you." Love this.

    • @pocahontas6381
      @pocahontas6381 Год назад +1

      🙁. I know but that ones I’m not attracted too usual be okay guys but the problem is I’m not physically attracted to them 😟

  • @raqi3425
    @raqi3425 Год назад +150

    There is no secret. You must keep GOD in your marriage and let HIM lead, guide and direct your marriage. #33years

    • @hotmail906
      @hotmail906 Год назад +1

      If only Jesus guides and leads ur couple , you ,you will do what ? 😂😂 u will stay there doing nothing? Hhhhhh

    • @serious7179
      @serious7179 Год назад +4

      And that right there is the secret to happiness into a great marriage. God has to be part of your marriage.

  • @johnsonfamilyvidsvlogs3745
    @johnsonfamilyvidsvlogs3745 Год назад +1346

    My hubby and I will be married 34 years next month. It hasn't always been perfect but it's pretty darn close. Putting Jesus first is our Great help 🙏.

    • @joanfrancois9942
      @joanfrancois9942 Год назад +7

      The secret is plenty money and wealth

    • @justice7268
      @justice7268 Год назад +25

      Jesus first always! Amen 🙏

    • @Ms.Poullard
      @Ms.Poullard Год назад +12

      Glory Hallelujah 🙌🏽

    • @CharCharJars
      @CharCharJars Год назад +7

      Come on Somebody!!!
      CONGRATULATIONS!!

    • @JC-du6sn
      @JC-du6sn Год назад +7

      Amen.Love it.Look up Andrew Wommack's A Better Way To Pray and How To Hear God's Voice series on RUclips.Two of the greatest gifts Jesus ever gave me.😇

  • @sweetov5
    @sweetov5 Год назад +1219

    Biggest mistake people make BEFORE getting married... not spending enough time alone to figure out who you are. Have your own likes and dislikes. You need to be happy on your own. You do not need another person all the time to be happy. Some people get married and are way too clingy. We all need space... especially in a marriage. Stay busy ladies... let that man miss you. If he needs you all the time and doesnt allow you to have time time yourself that's a red flag of someone who is possesive.

    • @intentionalgreatness
      @intentionalgreatness Год назад +33

      Yes let him miss you and enjoy your own "me time". I say that all the time!

    • @YourHighness8888
      @YourHighness8888 Год назад +9

      This is a good tropic to discuss, the biggest mistake Steve Harvey make was whenever he sees a red flag he just ignored it.

    • @YourHighness8888
      @YourHighness8888 Год назад +33

      Not a good idea, I'm a man, I will find someone else to spend time with me.

    • @YourHighness8888
      @YourHighness8888 Год назад +47

      My advice for you would be "stay single" if you want to spend time alone.

    • @michelle-zd2nc
      @michelle-zd2nc Год назад +33

      @@YourHighness8888 I think she just means you don't have to be together every minute. If your partner is away ex: work, out of town or where ever, then you will be ok until they return.

  • @RealUgochukwu_Obioha
    @RealUgochukwu_Obioha Год назад +108

    The biggest note I'm taking away is "everyone you're attracted to, you're not compatible with" 🔥

    • @n.m6249
      @n.m6249 Год назад +5

      That hit me deep as well

    • @blomobloom9639
      @blomobloom9639 Год назад +1

      True

    • @teresagreene9679
      @teresagreene9679 Год назад +1

      Agree

    • @jwh648
      @jwh648 Год назад

      Real talk

    • @mariafriedly
      @mariafriedly Год назад

      Once you are married it doesn’t matter anymore if you are compatible or not. You are married and you need to make it work

  • @blessingmunyaradzi1552
    @blessingmunyaradzi1552 Год назад +251

    I'm not yet in marriage but lm taking advantage of this platform to learn and prepare myself to be a better husband..thumbs up..NO to lies,be truthful and currently working on anger issues .

  • @rvail136
    @rvail136 Год назад +31

    I like about how these couples don't talk over one another... Even if they sound like they're going interrupt...they do it politely.

  • @eboniclarke177
    @eboniclarke177 Год назад +39

    I ask my husband questions that would normally cause arguments and we discuss them honestly. No attitude, no feelings, just an objective honest discussion.

  • @lisaingram785
    @lisaingram785 Год назад +108

    Love the no secrets, no lies, communication, willingness to compromise, having a mindset of serving, loyalty, respect, appreciating one another, always be teachable and so on and so forth

    • @estherwayua3210
      @estherwayua3210 Год назад

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  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 Год назад +156

    Before you get married
    Put everything on the table
    No secrets
    First talk about Faith
    Let me hear what you believe about God
    Talk about money
    Talk about family
    Talk about everything
    NO SECRETS
    NO BIG BLOW UP

    • @damiphilip4286
      @damiphilip4286 Год назад +6

      Hmmmm. I have had uncountable talks! All positive responses, with attitude that are completely opposite 4 months down... I have learnt to keep my mouth shut, eyes and ears open... Pay attention to the actions, talk is cheap 💯

    • @jessyjonas4988
      @jessyjonas4988 Год назад +5

      @@damiphilip4286 pay attention to the action talk is cheap 💯

    • @msgailz01
      @msgailz01 Год назад +1

      100% agree

  • @KamisKisses
    @KamisKisses Год назад +80

    We made a promise never to give up on each other. We had so many changes in the 1st year of marriage including undiagnosed health problems. Our rules: always respect each other, there is no topic off limits, be gentle and intentional with feedback, always give each other space to settle down before discussing the issues and most importantly we check in with each other everyday because it's the little things that can breed resentment. Be honest and choose to be adults and not maliciously petty

    • @estherwayua3210
      @estherwayua3210 Год назад

      Wonderful Kid Taking Kenya By Surprise. ruclips.net/video/S4RLgUhYB8U/видео.html

  • @rebeccacasey9419
    @rebeccacasey9419 Год назад +35

    I love my family or was my family before my divorce but it's okay, I will be fine .
    Am going through early stages of divorce right now, but I will try and be myself

    • @alvarezvanessa2248
      @alvarezvanessa2248 Год назад

      Be strong my Love it's ain't easy trust me I've been there and what helped me was my intuition and I acted aright.
      Made some connections with people with value and one was exceptional, she open my eyes her name is *Kara Daly Sherman* cheer up ❤️

    • @rebeccacasey9419
      @rebeccacasey9419 Год назад

      @@alvarezvanessa2248 Thanks so much ❤️ this is comforting, although I got a good share of money but I don't know exactly what I should do, I am actually a mother of 2 ATM and I love them so much and want the best for my kids, and I will love to get in contact with your comforter too Kara, how can I?

    • @grachirussel1805
      @grachirussel1805 Год назад

      @@rebeccacasey9419 is that how bad he treated you? What happened what did you do to him in the first place but still so sorry 😐

    • @alvarezvanessa2248
      @alvarezvanessa2248 Год назад

      @@rebeccacasey9419 Yes sure Kara can be more than a friend, you can chat her up Anything you wanna know about family, investment and advice she is definitely the one Bunny 🐰. Just say hi on

    • @alvarezvanessa2248
      @alvarezvanessa2248 Год назад

      *Instagram*

  • @thisiswhoiam102
    @thisiswhoiam102 Год назад +173

    I always say dating is a "job interview," engagement is the "training", and marriage is the "JOB"

  • @temitopeadun
    @temitopeadun Год назад +11

    "Everyone attracted to you are not compatible with u"
    "BCS they look good to you doesn't mean they will be good to you "
    🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @jabulanisena6288
    @jabulanisena6288 Год назад +11

    "Alot of people say I do but what they really mean is I will try"and when they are hit with the reality they backoff

  • @cassieblack1776
    @cassieblack1776 Год назад +26

    I just got married at 33 . We have known each other sense I was 13 . We dated And he proposed and I said no the first time. We split and now we’re together and married. Communication is everything! Honestly.

    • @Taylorand
      @Taylorand 9 месяцев назад

      Oh I understand

  • @Mamabear_of2
    @Mamabear_of2 Год назад +136

    My husband and I have been together for about 15 years and married for 10. We just went to the court house and got married. We both knew we wanted to be together and knew we wanted to be life long partners. We still had obstacles to over come and lots of learning of one another. I used to always have an issue talking to him, and I used too always hold onto things. We would start a fight and all of a sudden I’m still mad about something from months or a year ago. We had to both learn how to grow and to let things go! Today we have two beautiful kids, and we are stronger than ever! We are one another’s best friends!

    • @estherwayua3210
      @estherwayua3210 Год назад

      Wonderful Kid Taking Kenya By Surprise. ruclips.net/video/S4RLgUhYB8U/видео.html

    • @safiyyahsulaiman7420
      @safiyyahsulaiman7420 Год назад

      That's really beautiful, that's how you learn and grow as a couple.

    • @ahanachauhan1210
      @ahanachauhan1210 Год назад

      Absolutely beautiful!!! RESPECT mam

    • @reubenanthony5479
      @reubenanthony5479 8 месяцев назад

      Being best friends before getting married helps to reduce the misunderstanding and issues one will face in marriage. Being friends will always birth understanding, trust and will help you let go of things or issues that may want to pop up in the nearest future. You made a good decision to become besties ma'am. God bless your home.

  • @blubberbooty
    @blubberbooty Год назад +16

    My wife and have been married 36 years! We got married in Hawaii (we live in Ohio) then we went back 30 years later for our 30th anniversary. That was 6 years ago! My tip is, if your wife leaves you, go with her!

    • @diananyawanda1950
      @diananyawanda1950 Год назад +1

      Sounds funny but true. Till death do us part.

    • @thomasagorhom1139
      @thomasagorhom1139 Год назад

      Does it not matter where she leaves to? ....lol

    • @blubberbooty
      @blubberbooty Год назад +4

      @@thomasagorhom1139 ha! No! And if she moves in with another man, you sleep on the couch! LOL!

  • @moonspace_3355
    @moonspace_3355 Год назад +7

    I have struggled in my marriage for six years going to seven. As I write this, I am in my daughter's room following a difficult two days. Please pray for me if you are reading this 🙏

  • @shawanamrhodes
    @shawanamrhodes Год назад +15

    I love the older couple. Wisdom speaking... Good advice from the other couples, as well.

  • @kameroncarr5878
    @kameroncarr5878 Год назад +16

    All the comments are so helpful, my mind is not in a good place right now as I was just told from my wife that she wants a separation..if you all could pray for my marriage

  • @xKouture
    @xKouture Год назад +87

    Watching this after going through a breakup hurts💔💔 . These couples look really happy I hope they continue to prosper ❤️

    • @ayeeshahm9078
      @ayeeshahm9078 Год назад +12

      Sorry about that. I pray you heal and find your forever person

    • @xKouture
      @xKouture Год назад +3

      @@ayeeshahm9078 thank you so much ❤️

    • @zikhonagaleni3818
      @zikhonagaleni3818 Год назад +7

      @@ayeeshahm9078 Girrrrl, I'm with you, but our men will find us, don't worry. 💕

    • @trynatural23
      @trynatural23 Год назад +3

      Don’t allow the pain to dwell. Use this as a manifestation tool to design the life/love you desire❤

    • @thegracefullwoman9725
      @thegracefullwoman9725 Год назад +2

      God bless you and heal your heart

  • @ezarra6347
    @ezarra6347 Год назад +6

    A good marriage long last when the couple lives as a friend each other....

  • @jasmainjasmain2906
    @jasmainjasmain2906 Год назад +10

    My biggest mistake was marrying after only 3 mths of knowing the person... highly recommend waiting at least a yr seeing the person is in all aspects of his/her life along with premarital counseling to learn conflict resolution skills. And discuss things that matters to you... kids, religion, finances (current debts, expectations, and how it will be jointly managed). Also do a background chk... later found out my ex (stbxh) also went to jail for domestic violence before me and that info wouldn't saved me... life goes on... may your journey end in happiness.

  • @PRJohn-mz1je
    @PRJohn-mz1je Год назад +18

    For a long lasting marriage...it's all about Trust, understanding, Love, loyalty and communication. Once you have these all will be ok. Was married for 37 yrs till death do us part. I'm a widow now at the age of 59...my beloved husband my best friend passed away 4 years ago of diabetic complications...I missed him dearly 😭💔.

    • @johnsonjay1159
      @johnsonjay1159 Год назад +1

      Be strong, he is always with you

    • @ceceliadiaz8989
      @ceceliadiaz8989 Год назад +2

      Sorry for your loss, you all will always be joined together spiritually 🙏❤

  • @misskaykay1856
    @misskaykay1856 Год назад +5

    Caprice is very talkative 😂😂😂.. she’s so beautiful though

  • @EdnasHouse
    @EdnasHouse Год назад +6

    Anyone who is reading this, I pray that whatever is hurting or whatever you are constantly stressing about gets better. May the dark thoughts, overthinking and doubt exit you mind. May peace and calmness fill your life 💕

  • @victorkolo5142
    @victorkolo5142 Год назад +34

    When you're dating you're dating that person's representative; when you get married you marry that person real self...

    • @jackie1540
      @jackie1540 Год назад +7

      When I got married, the representative was so far from the real self; I had to get out of there fast, sad but true.

  • @DarrellGrainger
    @DarrellGrainger Год назад +68

    I've had a few girlfriends and married once. I wasn't completely honest when we started dating. I wanted to be the best person I could. After decades of failed relationships and a divorce I realized I should be my authentic self. I start off slow and let my date see the good side. But after a few dates, when I decide to be exclusive, I start letting her know the bad side. Now I just tell her things that come to mind. Sometimes it is something most people like. Sometimes it is something most people dislike. But if she doesn't like the honest, authentic me then i want to know before we get married. I want her to do the same for me. If I feel she is hiding anything and she isn't okay with telling me and losing me then I'd leave her.

    • @MyVlogTherapy
      @MyVlogTherapy Год назад +19

      Just curious why you don’t tell the bad side while dating, instead of waiting until your exclusive? Seems its best to be 💯 real from jump.

    • @DarrellGrainger
      @DarrellGrainger Год назад +7

      @@MyVlogTherapy I don't want to scare someone off with all negative at first. I usually want to have 3 to 4 dates before I want to start talking about my negatives. I suspect my timeline is different from most people. I will have maybe 4 dates before being exclusive. Within usually 1 or 2 dates I can see reasons I don't want to date someone. If I can't see any reason to stop dating you after 3 or 4 dates then I'll give you 100% of my focus and stop dating anyone else, i.e. exclusive.
      So for me, we go on 1 or 2 dates. If either of us see red flags, we part ways. If we seem compatible, we might go on 1 or 2 more dates. At this point, I will be exclusive with her. We will then get to know everything about each other. It might take months but during that time, if I really like you and see nothing I can't live with, we keep dating. Essentially, I like to focus on one person at a time. I know most people like to date multiple people but I don't. If we've had a few dates and I think there is potential, I work on us and stay exclusive. Until there is a deal breaker, I do not date anyone else. And if there is a deal breaker, I let you know and we agree to go our separate ways.

    • @zraj3433
      @zraj3433 Год назад +9

      Do you work on your bad sides/ red flags/negatives? Why would you not want to improve yourself?

    • @DarrellGrainger
      @DarrellGrainger Год назад +7

      @@zraj3433 I do work on my red flags. I agree with you that you always want to improve yourself. I am constantly working on my financial, mental and physical health.
      I didn't word things correctly. When I said "red flags" it included things that another person might see as a red flag but that is not a red flag for me. Different people will have different values. I prefer to be on time or early for important events. If you hate this about me and feel it is fine to be fashionably late, this would be a red flag to me. There are probably hundreds of little things which could expose values I disagree with.
      The big ones like politics, religion, kids, family, money, etc. should be talked about right away. Essentially, I will tell a woman I'm dating my core values right away. I actually put my core value in my online dating profile so women won't swipe right on me.
      Bottom line, if a red flag for you might be normal for me. In that case, I'm not going to change. If it is something which is preventing me from loving myself then I'm going to work on it.

    • @isabellajones7644
      @isabellajones7644 Год назад +1

      Hi darrell

  • @SteveMK
    @SteveMK Год назад +7

    This is a heavy duty talk. Just in time.

  • @ismailmaeen8111
    @ismailmaeen8111 Год назад +79

    These couples are giving some treasure advice... One of the best honestly ❤️❤️

    • @sarahrean7174
      @sarahrean7174 Год назад +2

      it's not gonna work for evrybody though because after many years of crap they understand by themselves

    • @ismailmaeen8111
      @ismailmaeen8111 Год назад +1

      @@sarahrean7174
      If they understood that late they wouldn't have been together for 40+ or even 20+ ... Strong fundamental means strong building

    • @YourHighness8888
      @YourHighness8888 Год назад +4

      There's always ups and downs in a marriage, they're only telling the good part.😂

    • @ismailmaeen8111
      @ismailmaeen8111 Год назад +1

      @@YourHighness8888
      Of course they are and as long as you are picking up the good base of it you can at least try to use it and it may workout... doing is so different from just talking

    • @YourHighness8888
      @YourHighness8888 Год назад +1

      How about telling your spouse, sorry 😔 "I slept with who and who" Don't ever tell this to your spouse.

  • @gracewangare8966
    @gracewangare8966 Год назад +4

    This has taught me conflicts are normal in a relationship it's how you handle it with love 🥰

  • @stephie7015
    @stephie7015 Год назад +5

    Well, people bring up the past when the issues from the past are still unresolved and haunting.

  • @abdul-rahmansudaismohammed3699
    @abdul-rahmansudaismohammed3699 Год назад +6

    Wow, I just forward a link to my girlfriend to watch the video. We share a lot together and I believe this piece of saying from the marriage moguls is going to strengthen our relationship and marriage life. In Sha Allah.

  • @mickeylove5897
    @mickeylove5897 Год назад +4

    All I am hearing is communication, respectfully, n disagree respectfully❤

  • @alaaal-torabi2982
    @alaaal-torabi2982 Год назад +61

    I want a successful marriage 😌
    I came here after i find the successful marriage. I saw that i am a famous. 😻

  • @diniadem7852
    @diniadem7852 10 месяцев назад +2

    Wow steve please take more time in these program that gone helps the whole world please I just really love it

    • @DavidMalcolm-nm2gf
      @DavidMalcolm-nm2gf 8 месяцев назад

      I was just going Thru the website hoping to meet someone nice and I came across your profile and I decided to say Hi

  • @mercy_c7526
    @mercy_c7526 Год назад +22

    Everything is so true. Wish everyone watching this learns something.
    I'm just grateful i have watched this clip, so phenomenal. ❤️❤️

  • @sisds
    @sisds Год назад +28

    I think it’s important not to too attached to the person you are dating cos it makes harder to leave him/her when you see the red flags. You tend to justify and rationalise those points.

    • @YourHighness8888
      @YourHighness8888 Год назад +2

      Then what's the point of dating?

    • @zhamasworld3084
      @zhamasworld3084 Год назад +1

      So very true, cause I use to do it as well.

    • @sisds
      @sisds Год назад +4

      @@YourHighness8888 It means get to know each other. It doesn’t have to end in a commitment if you realise he/she is not the one for you. Becoming emotionally attached to the other make things overlook. Either you won’t see the red flags or you rationalise them.

    • @YourHighness8888
      @YourHighness8888 Год назад +1

      @@sisds So you're not serious from the beginning.

    • @sisds
      @sisds Год назад +4

      @@YourHighness8888 I’m serious in finding out he’s the right one but I need to have room to fall out in case I have to. I did the opposite and got married to him but I couldn’t take it anymore when he started controlling me, trying to isolate me from my family and try to manipulate me to have access to my finances. I later realised I saw the red flags before marriage but I ignored them. I’ve learnt the lesson hard way. I won’t let my heart totally fall in to the person until I feel I’m safe and comfortable. Every mistake is a lesson learned.

  • @gilbertmuthoka
    @gilbertmuthoka Год назад +31

    This is so awesome. The show should be casted in all TV stations. Thanks Steve. Watching all the way from Kenya 🇰🇪.

  • @eulal8809
    @eulal8809 Год назад +7

    I strongly agree that couples must watch this before marriage and married must watch this to resolve conflicts. Very helpful video ❤️❤️❤️

  • @beautifulbutterfly2046
    @beautifulbutterfly2046 Год назад +15

    My husband was a good man but couldn’t control his tongue when he got angry. What broke our marriage was when he said ‘you are a woman who can not satisfy a man’. That was the end. We got separated after 12 years of marriage and then I went for a divorce. I could never forgive those words until he passed away…. All men should know that ‘happy wife is happy life’.

    • @thomasagorhom1139
      @thomasagorhom1139 Год назад +2

      Happy wife is not always happy life ma'am! I think society forgets that a lot of wives are happy with that saying while their husbands are going through hell emotionally. How about we try the other way and happy husband happy life and then find a common ground to exist. If most men in marriage want to take the demeaning words their wives use on them, a lot, and I mean a lot of marriages would be gone. Marriage is about two imperfect human beings with flaws committing to live together in forgiveness and falling in love everyday of their lives. No one is and will ever be perfect.

    • @oliverjoel5901
      @oliverjoel5901 Год назад +1

      I believe you ALSO do offend God almighty and ask for forgiveness?

    • @kalom6133
      @kalom6133 Год назад

      You have forgiveness issues

    • @nunuflower5915
      @nunuflower5915 Год назад

      i have had enough words shared by my husband were now we are so toxic eachother,we call eachother words that after the argument am extremely exhausted and i honestly dont know why am even still here,am scared what society will say and my baby to grow without her father😩,i can feel am losing myself

  • @michelleyota7899
    @michelleyota7899 Год назад +7

    Last week I decided not to kiss my husband goodbye and wish him a wonderful day like I usually do. I woke up mad at him because I felt ignored on the bed; I didn't get to sleep in his arms or make love to him like I wanted to because he was tired and slept off. He went to bed early and didn't even kiss me good night so I told myself if he doesn't want to kiss me at night, why should I kiss him in the morning?
    Sounds silly right?
    He tried to kiss me but I avoided it and he said:
    "What's wrong baby? Don't you know that I may leave and not come back? This may be the last time you're seeing me you know."
    I felt so bad and ran to him outside and kissed him passionately.
    Never leave angry or with an unresolved problem.
    This is a very interesting video. I love everything they said.

  • @soar1091
    @soar1091 Год назад +2

    Great show. Biggest point that stood out.. "alot of ppl say I Do but mean I'll try"

  • @zoefornoff8884
    @zoefornoff8884 Год назад +7

    I would recommend taking the same time you spend planning your wedding day, which often amounts to many months of preparation, to planning your actual marriage. I have been with my husband for almost 20 years now and those questions of where to live, how many kids, which denomination to follow, finances, buying a house or not, career planning and so on and so forth are crucial. As are rules of communication, how to spend your spare time, how to deal with your in-laws etc. etc. Unfortunately, many young brides devote their time mainly to picking out the wedding dress and the cake and many young grooms cannot be bothered - they are forgiven, but I strongly believe this should be practised going into the biggest deal of your lives. Many people who get married for a second time will then take these matters much more seriously as those above mentioned issues, if not addressed prior and left unresolved, may have led to marriage breakups.

  • @ShortCakeBrat2422
    @ShortCakeBrat2422 Год назад +6

    It’s the dishwasher argument for me. 🤣 it’s my way and it’s the right way. I can teach you! Lmao

  • @pawannatak7909
    @pawannatak7909 Год назад +9

    Hey Steve, thank you so much for the beautiful experiences, I'll make every single day my best day.
    I'm engaged 💍 ☺️

  • @georgekiilu
    @georgekiilu Год назад +1

    "The best thing about arguing is that we make up".. That's some beautiful stuff that I agree with right there

  • @elizabethabimbola4719
    @elizabethabimbola4719 Год назад +16

    Steve thanks alot for this. Thanks to the amazing couples you brought on the show.

  • @robbyefulghum2038
    @robbyefulghum2038 Год назад +5

    This segment was so good...thanks to Steve Harvey and the four amazing couples...👍🏽

  • @AdekunleLawal
    @AdekunleLawal Год назад +13

    This better to watch that all the modern day garbage that makes Marriage look awful. You get what you focus on. Thanks to all the lovely couples. ❤

  • @benjaminbenjamin8219
    @benjaminbenjamin8219 11 месяцев назад +1

    One of the best videos I've ever watched on YT. So helpful.

  • @francessregione5111
    @francessregione5111 Год назад +27

    THANK YOU.
    I'm not married yet and all the advice given here are helpful. I know now what I need to do when my time comes. BTW, love your shows.

    • @uchennachibueze6772
      @uchennachibueze6772 Год назад

      Hello pretty lady you look stunning I must confess... I feel lucky running into a beautiful angel such as yourself on here ☺ 😘 and please forgive me if I bumped into your privacy, I just couldn't help it cos your beauty is so charming ☺🌹💋😘😍

  • @a_83567
    @a_83567 Год назад +23

    This video was perfect timing. I was watching a video about someone that is getting ready to be proposed to and she was saying she hasn’t fully told her partner how much she makes because she’s scared he’ll be insecure and I think that woman needs to see this video. How can you marry someone without telling them all the things that will be crucial to the marriage?

  • @andrewr.2114
    @andrewr.2114 Год назад +24

    Hello Mr. Harvey I just want to say thank you. Thank you for all these years of laughs advice and every thing. This past week I have been sick as a bastard your show is the only thing that I enjoy watching. So thank you Mr. Harvey have a wonderful day sir.

  • @rachellebrown2411
    @rachellebrown2411 Год назад +1

    “Put everything on the table”
    Amen

  • @sissykuey917
    @sissykuey917 Год назад +6

    I have watched this video soo many times and nothing else comes close to it. ❤️❤️

    • @uchennachibueze6772
      @uchennachibueze6772 Год назад

      Hello pretty lady you look stunning I must confess... I feel lucky running into a beautiful angel such as yourself on here ☺ 😘 and please forgive me if I bumped into your privacy, I just couldn't help it cos your beauty is so charming ☺🌹💋😘😍

  • @MsJPrecious
    @MsJPrecious Год назад +6

    Great points here. But realistically, there will be some things you dont forget even though you have chosen to forgive and continue to love that person.... the healing of what they did will take time and that person needs to understand and act accordingly.

  • @teresakelton8286
    @teresakelton8286 Год назад +5

    We do that my husband and I. We have been married 20 years.

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 Год назад +2

    Being friends
    Being your authentic self

  • @xoxo_sis
    @xoxo_sis 3 месяца назад

    I'm 25 years old and I been married to my wonderful husband for 6 years and we been apart of each other's lives since I was 14. I pray we stay married happily for our entire life. So far doing very well and still happy as ever. We practice not having pride in marriage. I pray we both continue learning about one another everyday. ❤❤❤❤ hope yall have a great life 💐

  • @Tinytots1426
    @Tinytots1426 Год назад +6

    The one thing we have to keep remembering is both are on the same team not in the opposite team that clears half of the problem..and to keep ur spouse as priority.. because whether it's a successful life or shaky life that person is the first person to deal with it

    • @Tinytots1426
      @Tinytots1426 Год назад

      @Steve Harvey 🙏🙏🙏 my pleasure sir.. It's an wonderful idea.. Love to.. We enjoy every episode of ur shows...

  • @dallasfan2212
    @dallasfan2212 Год назад +4

    We are not allowed to leave angry or w/o saying I love you. When we call each other we say hey baby, you okay? I've been married 7 years.

  • @marciareid3722
    @marciareid3722 9 месяцев назад +1

    I agree no secrets, but trust ❤

    • @DavidMalcolm-nm2gf
      @DavidMalcolm-nm2gf 8 месяцев назад

      I was just going Thru the website hoping to meet someone nice and I came across your profile and I decided to say Hi

  • @abdosaid2222
    @abdosaid2222 Год назад +4

    Steve this is a very good topic. This type of discussion about maraage is not only good for American but all over the world. Steve thanks for bringing this topic.

  • @rosej5029
    @rosej5029 Год назад +13

    Another mistake is not looking at each other's credit report before marriage to how each other handles money

  • @daveeraps
    @daveeraps Год назад +11

    I know this comment will go unnoticed but keep me in your prayers please. I used to have 5 brain tumors, but now I have only 1 left to go. In the past I became deaf, and also started having seizures. If you’re reading this I hope things get better for you and your family. One luv

  • @taraolson6508
    @taraolson6508 Год назад +2

    Just made it 25 years thanks to the Lord! These people had wonderful advice.

  • @dalmaingrant2470
    @dalmaingrant2470 Год назад +6

    Be right or be happy,don't involve friends and family,don't call each out of their names

  • @augustayarteh633
    @augustayarteh633 Год назад +7

    Mr. Harvey you are so dynamic to your personalities. That teaching is for some of us to work on it. The young lady in the red ♥️ said the right thing . In their relationship they don't bring up old talked in their arguments. In any relationships couples don't need to bring old stuff that have past. I personally don't go over a spill milk. The milk that has been spill it has alreadyspill When lover discover this true they will not have any problems in their relationship. Don that advice is some how hard to tell your partners about the man or woman that they slept with, that one is not easy to confessed to your partners. It takes the grace of God to relate it to each other. Mr. Karen said it takes the grace of God for the will of God to be done in their martial home. Nice story discussion. Mr. Harvey to married to the wrong person is like lifting burdens on your head. Some partners sounds so negative to each other. Some are positive that you will ever remain to live your life for them. Nice discussion show

  • @crystalnelson1775
    @crystalnelson1775 Год назад +13

    Putting God 1st in every thing you serving, praying and work together as a team and team is about 2 or more person or people working together allowing God to guides us froward with him covering in your union and business with blessings . Without God None of us would be successful and be living in and on this world 🌍

  • @maggieedwards3951
    @maggieedwards3951 Год назад +3

    Some great couples with great wisdom, thank you for your pearls.
    Steve Harvey bless

  • @lydiamesfin2139
    @lydiamesfin2139 2 месяца назад

    it's important to say i love you before you go to sleep and before you go anywhere.

  • @TheChande
    @TheChande Год назад +4

    Very good advise. Thanks. I’ve been married for a year now, i needed this

  • @pr_gucci3604
    @pr_gucci3604 Год назад +6

    Yes Sir, you hit the nail right on its head. I do just the same but most people think I am an idiot. But this makes me happy. Avoid conflicts are the best idea if you are looking for life longdivity and happiness.

  • @mytriton54
    @mytriton54 Год назад +2

    This is a GREAT video!!! People should heed ALL of this advice.

  • @giftancycouture6574
    @giftancycouture6574 Год назад

    Marriage is a good thing.
    May the universe be kind to me

  • @annieportier3584
    @annieportier3584 Год назад +6

    Really enjoyed this segment. Very informative!

  • @MsJPrecious
    @MsJPrecious Год назад +10

    Facts marriage and babies dont solve your relationship problems!!💯👌🏾 Hence 50% of people end up marrying people they had no business being in a relationship with, let alone being married too!! This is why the divorce rate is so high, don't get married just to tick the status book or because of society/family pressures.

  • @brandontomlinson6549
    @brandontomlinson6549 Год назад +1

    These people are a good example in life and I believe younger people will look up to them I'm happy for them

  • @msgailz01
    @msgailz01 Год назад +4

    Thank you Steve Harvey for this show. I was married for 25 years and it didn't work out. However, I'm thankful for the more wisdom, knowledge and understanding. Sometimes we have to work on ourselves in order to be ready for a successful relationship. Steve I love seeing you and Marjorie together (great couple) and you make it known that you love your wife and the great thing about it she loves ❤️ you back. Communication is an important part of any relationship and when you have friends of the opposite sex (some same sex) the wife and husband should make it known that how much you love each other. Steve you just so down to earth. Pray that God keeps elevating you and your family in every area of your lives. God Bless - Wanda

    • @g_mason8867
      @g_mason8867 Год назад

      If you don’t mine me asking, what happened after 25 yrs that changed?

    • @morgan_dominik7
      @morgan_dominik7 Год назад

      Hello Gail, how are you doing today, I hope you had a pleasant day?

  • @Without_any_editing.
    @Without_any_editing. Год назад +6

    हमारे भारत मे तो साल गिनते ही नहीं❤
    "जब तक जीवन है तब तक एक दूसरे का साथ देते है"🥺
    भारतीय होने पर गर्व है 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @clementjerry7264
    @clementjerry7264 Год назад +17

    Amazing conversation,thumbs up 👆, to all the couples 👫,#Steve Harvey.

  • @johnsonquinn6455
    @johnsonquinn6455 Год назад +4

    Of course, each sacrifice and effort for each other followed, but the most important thing here is the luck and fate of each man and woman.
    There are many people who work as hard as those couples and love their partner, but the relationship ends and breaks down.
    I support those couples emotionally and rationally. There are no negative feelings towards them.
    However, what I want to say is that a marriage or a love relationship cannot be achieved through simple efforts between people.

  • @carlettethomas5252
    @carlettethomas5252 Год назад +7

    Absolutely awesome 💯. Thanks for sharing this episode. Very helpful and inspiring ✨ love this ❤❤❤❤

  • @truthseeker4460
    @truthseeker4460 Год назад +16

    Marriage is so beautiful 🥰

    • @uchennachibueze6772
      @uchennachibueze6772 Год назад

      Hello pretty lady you look stunning I must confess... I feel lucky running into a beautiful angel such as yourself on here ☺ 😘 and please forgive me if I bumped into your privacy, I just couldn't help it cos your beauty is so charming ☺🌹💋😘😍

    • @truthseeker4460
      @truthseeker4460 Год назад

      @uchenna chibueze stfu ur leaving this post to every woman on RUclips. Be original and stop trying to be a player

  • @patticiarose4526
    @patticiarose4526 Год назад +5

    I pray God to give me a Husband 🙏🏿 just watching these couples make me feel all things can work if u trust each other and prayers .

    • @sharonchepkorir3571
      @sharonchepkorir3571 Год назад

      Amen

    • @sweetman5249
      @sweetman5249 Год назад

      Are you still single Patticia ? I am here single man looking for wife . Where do you live?

  • @jaidenchuwa6055
    @jaidenchuwa6055 9 месяцев назад

    Steve you're life changer for bringing this, I appreciate you

  • @chimakalu5195
    @chimakalu5195 Год назад +13

    The secret of good marriage is let go minor failings and deal with serious failings without blaming. Just peacefully set matters straight.

  • @laquetaworley4791
    @laquetaworley4791 Год назад +6

    Oooo I absolutely love 💓 this episode 💞
    I really appreciate particular 1
    Right here, Right now this is on point for me 👰🤵

  • @KXNGBANNXXOFFICIAL
    @KXNGBANNXXOFFICIAL Год назад +9

    I really do want a sucessful marriage. Planning to propose to my girlfriend.

    • @ceceliadiaz8989
      @ceceliadiaz8989 Год назад +1

      Wish you the best sir, be blessed 👍🥰

  • @nathansodja
    @nathansodja 10 месяцев назад

    We need more talkshows like this

  • @zoeracheal6643
    @zoeracheal6643 Год назад +6

    If God is not in it then higher chances are you will struggle…His the only one who can actually show you what Love is to be able to give it to your partner. And this kind of love is not bound to change regardless of what they do or do not do!
    We tend to love according to what the other person is doing for us forgetting love is not a reward! It’s just Love!

    • @joycefaltzhall9529
      @joycefaltzhall9529 Год назад

      Love is sacrifice to/for each other.
      A commitment so both can be there for each other, a safe support where a family can thrive thru the wonderful & the very difficult times, always choosing to respect & willing to forgive with grace which makes every impossible mountain to be possible to be climbed because you're determined to always lift up not to leave the other behind. This builds strong unity where you can laugh & cry together with no shame; where an uncommon
      💞 LOVE
      BLOOMS 💐 & keeps on growing! 🌱🌱🌱
      ("May it ever be thus")🎚"This is how we know what love is..."
      😘.