This is my only RUclips channel " Mildred kingsley-okonkwo". I will not message you or reply to your comment requesting funds for prophecies or anything at all, please beware of scammers.
I cant believe someone has tried scamming me hardly an hour ago with a false prophesy using apparently Pastor Kingsley Okonko's account. Thank you for this disclaimer.I almost fell victim.
The pain in my heart is unbearable, my husband leaving our marriage have put a ton in my heart, I have been telling myself am strong enough but am not sure I am, I haven’t been able to get him of my mind, I just want him back
By choosing marriage, we "decided to dedicate our lives to partner with God to make one man's life special". This one hit me. I gotta work on keeping that commitment.
Hey, Mrs Ore. I just came across your comment and curious to know how far in your marriage. have the lessons worked to your satisfaction?. Will be good ton have feedback. Church and media place can be a plane out there.
i loved!!!!! it. please what about the 7 mistakes we men make. so as i'm forwarding this link to my wife i need to learn my own side too. equation must balance.
My mum was so blessed she said this generation is so blessed and would hardly make mistake if they follow you, she said I now know why you don't joke with this woman😍😍😍😍
Wow, this is amazing! I got rebuked a lot but this is going to help my marriage so much! Thank you 🙏🏽 by the grace of God I will grow and change into the wife God called me to be
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
I almost didn’t want to play this video, but thank You Holy Spirit for making me press the ‘play button’ am Blessed! Thank God for your wisdom and I tap into it. God bless you ma ❤️
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Very informative. My husband is still the same from day 1 (thank God)! I must say we are a very good team and support system for each other and I pray it just keeps on getting better 😇🙏
So far so good with you, and I call you blessed vetuose woman of honour. May you continue staying blessed now and forever more iJCMn amen.Pleasr thanks so much for sharing!
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........
Loving this. The PAUSE part was needed, Watching at 10am and I was still in bed, hubby at work. I quickly got up to have my shower and brush my teeth, ready for part 2! THANK YOU so much for this. Your ministry has been a huge blessing to me. I met my husband at the conference Pastor K and you did in London last year. May the anointing and grace on you and Pastor K continue to overflow IJN. We will def be visiting your church whenever we travel to Lagos to thank you in person.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 why are you impersonation a man of God and using God's for falsely gain? Repent from your mendacious ways, or hell awaits you. Satan is the father of liars.
Yho, u know watching this video I become emotional, because I'm married n I'm 31years of age, n now I didn't see the wrong things that I was doing to my husband, disrespect is the only thing that breaks things and lead our husband to cheat n change towards us, n I salute you, every thing you said it's true need to stand up and start making right things, thank you for the good tips or can I say advice, dankie 🙏
Let's teach men to be teachable and leave ego. Some will either be threatened, feel proud or say women talk too much. That is why some women take that standpoint for their mental health. :) Great watch.
Powerful teachings indeed have learnt alot m married for 7 years with 3 children..and on the 7 mistakes we make have noticed some mistakes l personally make..😍
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you....
Grassland & merged together 🤣🤣I can't. I'm not married yet but learning alot. This respect thing alot of us don't understand it. I'm reading a book called "Love & Respect" by Dr. EMERSON EGGERICHS and it opened my eyes to alot. Men definitely need respect and women should even respect thier husbands more than pastors. His grace is sufficient 🙌🏾. GOD BLESS YOU PASTOR M
Sholz TV Yeah, but these guys don’t respect their woman back. And that’s a big problem. I believe that a man deserves exactly what he dishes out. If he is disrespectful to his woman it is dead wrong for her to respect him. Dissing him back is the way. If he is free to express himself than so is she. I think of the old TV sitcom Honeymooners with Ralph and Alice as the model. Ralph was disrespectful to Alice and Alice dissed him back.
@@bc1248 what you say here about disrespect goes back to the foundation of the relationship. Was he respectful of you at the start of the relationship? A lot of women forge ahead in bad relationships choosing to overlook bad behaviours telling themselves he will change once we are married. Have you heard the saying, Love is blind, Marriage is the eye opener? The truth is that it only gets worse. You cannot change what you choose to tolerate. I say to the young ladies I mentor, to always very carefully scrutinise how the man in your life behaves around his sister, his aunties, his mother and his grandmother as well as other women in general. Yiu can almost be certain that how he treats other women in his life, is how he will treat you. If you are not comfortable with how he responds to other women, do not tolerate it. Walk, because if you choose to ignore it, you will soon discover that you already saw the warning signals but chose to ignore it.
diaspora voice I understand what you’re saying and you are right. But I was just saying that a woman shouldn’t respect a man who doesn’t respect her. I believe that people are best suited to their kind. Sometimes two people love each other but they on a different level in being. They may be disrespectful to each other but still love each other like Ralph and Alice really loved each other but dissed each other. So I do not believe that a woman should be sentenced to respect when a man does not respect her. If he disses a woman she should diss him back. A man might actually a respect a woman who socks him with truth. Knowing that she’s not dumb enough to respect him when is blunt to her. Never mind that respect foolishness bcuz he’s not on that level. Wallop him left and right with truth. Be as blunt to him as he is to her.
thanks alot for this video I always disrespect my husband but from today I promise I will be a good wife in Jesus name I will learn to respect him Lord Jesus strengthen me as I apologise to my husband please as I go out with my hubby pray for me.
Your husband truely loves you. U said u disrespect him, meaning u do it knowingly. Count yourself lucky that upon the disrespect he's still there for and with you. Most men in this generation will just dump u or even if there are still there, their mind is somewhere else. It's very good u are amending it ways. Please don't try it and do your best to respect him. The world we are living going crazy. If u have a good man never ever take it for granted. Because even the most submissive and humble women are being mishandled and maltreated by horrible men who can't appreciate what they have.
I am a man listening to your advice to women, I think we men should also listen to this message because you’re a good mentor. Husbands should be referring their wives to you for mentoring. God bless.
Thank you maam .. am currently going through a rough patch in my marriage and am glad I found this video ... I trust God will help me through these difficult times...
I’m happy in my relationship.. we planning to get married one day. It’s sad that we have friends and family that are always discouraging us, telling us it’s not easy, if they knew it would be hard they wouldn’t have gotten married. InJesus name I pray my marriage goes well. I pray everyday that God be the center of my relationship. I’m here unmarried, I want to learn how I can met God half way. Prayer plus effort/ hard work equals to good results 🙏🏼
I am speachless. In this day and age I thought that there are no longer any women who speak such unreproachable wisdom. Your words of wisdom remind me of the story of the Prophet Elijah when he told God that all Israel has forsaken God such that there were no longer any people of God on earth but God assured him that He had in fact reserved for Himself seven thousand more(1 kings 19:18). Therefore it still remains that no matter how much we can believe that women who believe and speak godly truths are finished the truth is that the Lord God will always reserve a few for Himself at any given point no matter the level of influence Satan has exerted on this world which is now nothing but a Devil's workshop where truth is abhorred and falsehood is elevated at a scale never seen before! God bless you sister.
1. Thinking that you are the project - men are project oriented. Once he completed the project he moves on to the next project. 2. Support wrong decision 3. The state of familiarity which makes you forget to honor him. 4. Not taking care of ourselves. God looks at the ❤ but men are moved by outward appearances.
Love n Light Yeah, but men don’t take care of themselves. They age too and it shows. They let themselves go too, unkempt, and with their beer bellies standing out a yard in front of them. So what about that?
@@bc1248 oh ok. Got confused because you replied under my comment. Usually ppl just start their own thread when stating their own views. I like the comment though, it brings a balance to the discussion.
Thank you Pastor Mildred. You really hit the nail on the head. We are guilty of almost, if not all that you have talked about. One concern I have is the second mistake you mentioned. Women should not support their husbands' wrong decisions. This has caused a lot of problems in marriages. Most men don't see it this way. They feel they are not being supported by their wives. My advice most times to women is that they should air their views respectfully but shouldn't stop there: rather, they should also go on their knees and pray for their husbands. God always honours our prayers when we're sincere. May God continue to bless you as you bless others.
Offlate been learning much on marriage ...not married,hence am glad am getting prepared before the time...things the spirit has been talking to me and making me land on platforms I can learn...these are things my marital mom may not teach me,not even my mom.... God bless you WOG....Born again women got alot to learn ..they always complain our marriages end in doom...and glad we are sharpening each other... kindly,release a book well published ..am here to buy...God's grace is sufficient 🧡💜
When you show a woman “affection and attention “ she sees love. When you show a man “ humility and respect” he sees love. Men need RESPECT... Women need ATTENTION
I love this ,, but then i think that the whole relationship should be based on respect from both side .. maybe maybe you mean allow HIM to feel like he is on charge of things!
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you....
Chai the familiarity part thank God for the Holy Spirit that teaches all the time, because most of the time we are tempted to disrespect our husbands maybe when they get on our nerves.
Pastor Mildred, I am a relationship coach from Kenya and because I have listened to you and all that you have said is truth 100% from a woman perspective I have decided to subscribe in support of your mission. I will also ask many other kenyans to subscribe to your channel. For 18yrs I have tried to tell women these same same facts and truth but they sting and call me judgemental. 90% of women hate the truth world-wide especially when it comes from a man. One key aspect of women that they don't buy is; 1. Touching on their pride 2. Telling a woman to be submission 3. To be hygienic-washing well below and underneath or mouth 9r excess chemical makeups 4. Speaking about their size or poor delivery These 4 stings women and grounds their pride to the ebb. I am happy for you and shall always be watching you ma sista
I loved your talk, but there was something you said that caught my attention, I quote "he his my pastor first of all before he is my husband." I feel its suppose to be the other way round, that's me anyway. I will really like to hear mistakes married men make too.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........
I been married for 5 years and you will never learn nor know it all...... If you want to be the best wife / husband possible then never stop learning, never stop studying about marriage and the opposite sex and don't just study and learn, but applied to your everyday life as much as you possibly can what...... And by the way I love your accent so much I have always loved that accent and I wish I could speak the way you do without sounding crazy 🤭💕
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
She is so real, it hurts💔😂😂.. But this is what we needed to hear, y'all😂. Bless you Pastor Mildred❤️. I love your bluntness👏. I couldn't stop laughing cause I could so relate. Here's to learning and improving to be the best versions of ourselves 🥂
Vasti U..😆😄😄🤣🤣love it..U couldn't have explained it better..I am a young wife N young in marriage..best advise I gotten EVER!!! u r Blessed!! God bless U!!
Ive learnt a lot..... familiarity want to kill my marriage oooh and not takimg care of myself.....even as a young marriage and young pastor wife jajajajja Thank you Jesús...the explanation is very simple and understandable
I'm in love with you mama 💜💜. Your bluntness and sense of humour is on another level. I also love the way you use scriptural backups. Ma please when can we press the play button 😂.....I'm not married but I'm enjoying this and learning a lot.
I wanted to scroll down when I saw the topic, but was like let me hear what she has to say😁 I was just few few minutes into the msg when I clicked like😁listening to half of the msg, I subscribed to your channel. By the time I finished. You have already deposited so much in me. Now am in love with you. As you are watering other people's lives, your life also shall be watered. You are moving from wisdom to wisdom in Jesus name
1. I am not the project. Marriage is never about what I can get but it is always about what I can give. I am to help him achieve his other projects. 2. Supporting the wrong decisions. Being the voice of reason in my husband's life. Acts 5:1-11 Stand up for the truth. I determine the legacy my husband leaves for the children. Tell him the truth prayerfully and respectfully 3. Familiarity. Respect is the major need of a man. He is to be treated with honor and respect. 4. Not taking care of myself. Looks: Men are moved by what they see.
Often times I come across your post I always I don't know but I font click it I clicked on it today I I am wawwwwwed am blessed Ma. I love your voice you are so real no pretense its just soon raw I wish I could talk to you one on one I sincerely wish, this message has solved some problems that has kept me depressed for long. I Love You Ma, Your Oil will not dry.
You are doing a nice work! I believe every wife should be a "major project" of the husband. Other projects become "their" project because they are now one. She is a major project because as a groom the bridegroom must continue to groom till death do them part. Amongst the things that make the love go cold in the marriage is because, we stop "dating" after the marriage. If we put the same love/doting we did in while courting, marriage will be heaven on earth. I think that's God's desire for our marriage. God bless you.
I am listening to your talk on rightly advising your husband in making decisions that will not hurt people and it came to my mind that how is it possible to advise a man who does not communicate with you about anything.
DO NOT SUPPORT YOUR HUSBAND IN WRONG DOINGS......my sister, I wish this message can get out to more Nigerian women. What a change of heart will come to our politicians if their wives at home are not telling them the truth about their wrongs doings.
It will interest you to know that most men when they are doing something evil or bad, their wifes will never know until they are caught. Just like cheating
my husband and i watch your husband a lot and then i came across your channel and i’m glad that i did. I decided to check it out and i don’t regret it. you are as amazing! i appreciate you guys! thanks for telling us the truth. i am guilty as well when it comes to some of these mistakes you have highlighted and i intend to change them. thanks for the guidance. I think God put this channel on for me for a purpose cos i did not. i held my phone between my legs cos i was busy with my hands and your video started playing. I decided to keep watching when i saw the name and i’m glad i did. Amazing right?!😃
Stand up. Yes you. Stand up go and brush your teeth. Oooooooo she's really talking to me. I was a pretty damsel 🤩 b4 marriage. From today I will so take care of my self like never b4. Thank you so much Ma. I appreciate 🌹
@Gods child N Quran as a holy book also never burns in the fire, that is why God's words and his holyness can never be compared to the word of man. Stop making it about religion to be a good or a better person, following Christ does not make anybody a Christian, accepting others, and loving your neighbors as yourself is being a Christian. I observe many Christian that follow only the words of their pastors not the teaching of Christ and they think all pastors represent Christ, it is not so, I have met and seen a lot of fake pastors. Jesus Christ doesn't discriminate and doesn't preach against any group of people, he only shows them the love of God and teaches them right from wrong. Many Cristian thinks being a Christian is the ticket to heaven but it is not so. Because Jesus Christ says they will perform a miracle in his name but on that judgment they he will say he did not know them. I was a Muslim for 25 years and 25 years as a Christian and married for 25 years and I have come to realize is people that name religion what is most important is you are a child of God and your action and the words that come out of your mouth show your fear and love of God. People discriminate about religion God just sees us as all his children, how you worship him is your choice but what is in your heart he sees. All the Christians in the world appreciate and acknowledge Isreal as a nation of Godchildren and yet Israelite never accept Christ as their messiah or son of God till this day, yet the same hypocrites Christian want the Muslims to acknowledge Jesus as the son of God, the dishonesty in Christendom to stand in unison and defend Jesus Christ is the savior and son of God to Isreal nation is startling but always demand and expect the Muslims to acknowledge Jesus Christ as the son of God, I believe charity begins at home, how many churches or pastors have even spoken out in world forum for the Israel nation to accept Christ? You may be a Christian and a worshiper of God but the spiritual realm of building one on one relationship with God many Christian do not have and that is why their knowledge and understanding lack wisdom
@@sidicniy874 Please understand that most of the people you refer to as Christians are actually not Christians. The word "Christian" means "Christ-like". Therefore if one doesn't walk, talk, behave etc like Christ he/she is not Christian even if he/ she says he is a Christian.
@Gods child N But why?🤷🏾♀️what happened to free will. Why can’t we let people of other belief systems just be. I find that quite arrogant and disrespectful. This the reason why there is religious strife. Respect the faith others have chosen to follow. So long as they believe in a higher power that holds them to good principles and morals. Gbam✊🏿#OneLove ❤️💚💛🖤
@@sidicniy874 Jesus said to the people who believed in him, “You are truly my disciples if you remain faithful to my teachings". "If you love me, you will keep my commandments." That is his standard. People claim they know God, but they deny him by the way they live. They are detestable and disobedient, worthless for doing anything good. It doesn't matter how many pastors speak on how many forums, we all have been given the choice as humans, not as Jews, Muslims, etc. Jesus said “I am the way, and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." Jesus didn't force anyone, not the Jews nor us to follow him. He just stated the Truth. Blessings sister.
Hello I recommend you to Dr James he helped me reconnected back my broken relationship and made my home secured from third parties within 2 days,and he can also save your marriage from divorce I advice you seek help from him.
I love this, I pray God continue to bless your ministry. I pray also that I will not make these mistakes in my upcoming marriage. Thank you for this information.
Beautiful message Mildred!! you have found your purpose God be with you! while you help people discover their weakness & strengthen themselves. good job
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you...........
Thank God for this message. Thank you for the wisdom! I learned how to solve a major problem my husband always complained about. Looking forward to more of this....
This is my only RUclips channel " Mildred kingsley-okonkwo".
I will not message you or reply to your comment requesting funds for prophecies or anything at all, please beware of scammers.
Interesting.
I learnt alot
I cant believe someone has tried scamming me hardly an hour ago with a false prophesy using apparently Pastor Kingsley Okonko's account. Thank you for this disclaimer.I almost fell victim.
Matilda Namboozo it’s not pastors account it’s a fake account using his name. I got the same copy and paste message lmao
I just saw one imposter asking me to pay money into an orphanage Acct. Even before I finished reading I knew it was scam lol
I have received 4 scam messages in one week. Wetin I do wrong? 😅
The pain in my heart is unbearable, my husband leaving our marriage have put a ton in my heart, I have been telling myself am strong enough but am not sure I am, I haven’t been able to get him of my mind, I just want him back
This is a very familiar pain. I know how unbearable it feels
Did you go through similar situation and how did you deal with it?
Do you think he can help me?
I’m sure he can. You can find him online he’s a very powerful spiritualist
By choosing marriage, we "decided to dedicate our lives to partner with God to make one man's life special". This one hit me. I gotta work on keeping that commitment.
I watched this when I was single, I newly got married so I’m watching again 😁😁😁
Congratulations. Hope you are enjoying the marriage journey. I wish you many blissful years
Congratssss
Hey, Mrs Ore. I just came across your comment and curious to know how far in your marriage. have the lessons worked to your satisfaction?. Will be good ton have feedback. Church and media place can be a plane out there.
God bless your union
I watch this video every 3 months jut to remind myself of all the wisdom shared here. Thank you Pastor M
There's no marriage without God.
But with God it moves smoothly.
May the Lord Jesus Christ grant us the grace to make things right in marriage.
i loved!!!!! it. please what about the 7 mistakes we men make. so as i'm forwarding this link to my wife i need to learn my own side too. equation must balance.
You are a smart man. Many blessings on your love and marriage.
🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Pastor Kingsley did that one, check him out on RUclips as well. The Lord will make your home heaven on earth in Jesus's name amen
Very good one sir
beautiful man....kudos
This lady's husband is one of the luckiest people on the face of the earth
My mum was so blessed she said this generation is so blessed and would hardly make mistake if they follow you, she said I now know why you don't joke with this woman😍😍😍😍
👍🏽My mum said almost the exact same thing.
Wow, this is amazing! I got rebuked a lot but this is going to help my marriage so much! Thank you 🙏🏽 by the grace of God I will grow and change into the wife God called me to be
I'm not married as yet but I learnt a lot. God bless you Pastor, I love your spirit. Thanks to youtube for recommending this video for me.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
I almost didn’t want to play this video, but thank You Holy Spirit for making me press the ‘play button’ am Blessed!
Thank God for your wisdom and I tap into it.
God bless you ma ❤️
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Same
Now I see
Too much familiarity is the problem...
By God's grace I will get it right dis time..Amen
Very informative. My husband is still the same from day 1 (thank God)! I must say we are a very good team and support system for each other and I pray it just keeps on getting better 😇🙏
Lucky you. May God continues to bless u guys
So far so good with you, and I call you blessed vetuose woman of honour. May you continue staying blessed now and forever more iJCMn amen.Pleasr thanks so much for sharing!
@@magnusemori4266 yes luv. Thank you😇🙏
You are one lucky gal 😚
May God continue to bless your marriage
One year later,I am newly married and I find this to be so helpful, thank you
I am a muslim but enjoying your advices.beautiful words .thank you
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........
God bless you 🙏
@@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 haba !!
Married for 3 years and I pray for more blissful years ... loved this video.
God bless you and your family.
B OK Amen
Amen
@@GeorginaEsiTakyiAnnanAmeeen hun
@@dorcasboakye-acheampong7957 🥰🥰🥰
Loving this. The PAUSE part was needed, Watching at 10am and I was still in bed, hubby at work. I quickly got up to have my shower and brush my teeth, ready for part 2! THANK YOU so much for this. Your ministry has been a huge blessing to me. I met my husband at the conference Pastor K and you did in London last year. May the anointing and grace on you and Pastor K continue to overflow IJN. We will def be visiting your church whenever we travel to Lagos to thank you in person.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
@@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 why are you impersonation a man of God and using God's for falsely gain? Repent from your mendacious ways, or hell awaits you. Satan is the father of liars.
@@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2218 llllllll
I'm a newly wed and I'm glad I found this in my reccommendations. These points are so important.
Amhlophe
Yho, u know watching this video I become emotional, because I'm married n I'm 31years of age, n now I didn't see the wrong things that I was doing to my husband, disrespect is the only thing that breaks things and lead our husband to cheat n change towards us, n I salute you, every thing you said it's true need to stand up and start making right things, thank you for the good tips or can I say advice, dankie 🙏
Let's teach men to be teachable and leave ego. Some will either be threatened, feel proud or say women talk too much. That is why some women take that standpoint for their mental health. :) Great watch.
Powerful teachings indeed have learnt alot m married for 7 years with 3 children..and on the 7 mistakes we make have noticed some mistakes l personally make..😍
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you....
My prayer is to be part of this special group of women. I'm 33 years and still single. Lord show me mercy......😔Amen
Amen
From your mouth to God's ears..may you celebrate soon.
I can refer you to someone who helps people in relationships through social media, he gives splendid topics and advise
Amen
May God show me mercy too
Clicking on this video was the best thing I’ve ever done I am guilty of all of these things. Thank you for this, you are amazing ❤️❤️❤️
Mama you are a blessing to this generation
Wow .....i have learnt alot ....i am glad to have watched this 🙌🏻🙌🏻 i got engaged 2 weeks ago and i am learning thanks 🧡💛💚💙
Grassland & merged together 🤣🤣I can't. I'm not married yet but learning alot. This respect thing alot of us don't understand it. I'm reading a book called "Love & Respect" by Dr. EMERSON EGGERICHS and it opened my eyes to alot. Men definitely need respect and women should even respect thier husbands more than pastors. His grace is sufficient 🙌🏾. GOD BLESS YOU PASTOR M
Sholz TV Yeah, but these guys don’t respect their woman back. And that’s a big problem. I believe that a man deserves exactly what he dishes out. If he is disrespectful to his woman it is dead wrong for her to respect him. Dissing him back is the way. If he is free to express himself than so is she. I think of the old TV sitcom Honeymooners with Ralph and Alice as the model. Ralph was disrespectful to Alice and Alice dissed him back.
@@bc1248 what you say here about disrespect goes back to the foundation of the relationship. Was he respectful of you at the start of the relationship?
A lot of women forge ahead in bad relationships choosing to overlook bad behaviours telling themselves he will change once we are married.
Have you heard the saying, Love is blind, Marriage is the eye opener?
The truth is that it only gets worse. You cannot change what you choose to tolerate. I say to the young ladies I mentor, to always very carefully scrutinise how the man in your life behaves around his sister, his aunties, his mother and his grandmother as well as other women in general. Yiu can almost be certain that how he treats other women in his life, is how he will treat you. If you are not comfortable with how he responds to other women, do not tolerate it. Walk, because if you choose to ignore it, you will soon discover that you already saw the warning signals but chose to ignore it.
diaspora voice I understand what you’re saying and you are right. But I was just saying that a woman shouldn’t respect a man who doesn’t respect her. I believe that people are best suited to their kind. Sometimes two people love each other but they on a different level in being. They may be disrespectful to each other but still love each other like Ralph and Alice really loved each other but dissed each other.
So I do not believe that a woman should be sentenced to respect when a man does not respect her. If he disses a woman she should diss him back. A man might actually a respect a woman who socks him with truth. Knowing that she’s not dumb enough to respect him when is blunt to her. Never mind that respect foolishness bcuz he’s not on that level. Wallop him left and right with truth. Be as blunt to him as he is to her.
thanks alot for this video I always disrespect my husband but from today I promise I will be a good wife in Jesus name I will learn to respect him Lord Jesus strengthen me as I apologise to my husband please as I go out with my hubby pray for me.
Your husband truely loves you. U said u disrespect him, meaning u do it knowingly. Count yourself lucky that upon the disrespect he's still there for and with you. Most men in this generation will just dump u or even if there are still there, their mind is somewhere else. It's very good u are amending it ways. Please don't try it and do your best to respect him. The world we are living going crazy. If u have a good man never ever take it for granted. Because even the most submissive and humble women are being mishandled and maltreated by horrible men who can't appreciate what they have.
@@Ginettensoh Yes, YES, so true. You worded this very well!
@@rxnees ❤❤
@@Ginettensoh True, though sometimes we disrespect our husbands without knowing. Information is power...... I appreciate Mildred for empowering us
So me, I’m less than a year and honestly I’m not giving him the respect he deserves
Omg🤣🤣 Pastor M, please resume from ⏸ and keep spilling the ☕ . I love your honesty!
I am a man listening to your advice to women, I think we men should also listen to this message because you’re a good mentor.
Husbands should be referring their wives to you for mentoring. God bless.
Thank you maam .. am currently going through a rough patch in my marriage and am glad I found this video ... I trust God will help me through these difficult times...
Well l call a spade a spade. And my husband can testifly to that. Thank for the information. Esther
I love you already... So candid, pure tough love to us married women. I appreciate that I got to see your channel. God bless you. Love from Kenya 🇰🇪
Am a newly married.... The gray of God brought me here.... Am about to subscribe 🙏🙏🙏🙏
I’m happy in my relationship.. we planning to get married one day. It’s sad that we have friends and family that are always discouraging us, telling us it’s not easy, if they knew it would be hard they wouldn’t have gotten married. InJesus name I pray my marriage goes well. I pray everyday that God be the center of my relationship. I’m here unmarried, I want to learn how I can met God half way. Prayer plus effort/ hard work equals to good results 🙏🏼
I am speachless. In this day and age I thought that there are no longer any women who speak such unreproachable wisdom. Your words of wisdom remind me of the story of the Prophet Elijah when he told God that all Israel has forsaken God such that there were no longer any people of God on earth but God assured him that He had in fact reserved for Himself seven thousand more(1 kings 19:18).
Therefore it still remains that no matter how much we can believe that women who believe and speak godly truths are finished the truth is that the Lord God will always reserve a few for Himself at any given point no matter the level of influence Satan has exerted on this world which is now nothing but a Devil's workshop where truth is abhorred and falsehood is elevated at a scale never seen before!
God bless you sister.
1. Thinking that you are the project - men are project oriented. Once he completed the project he moves on to the next project.
2. Support wrong decision
3. The state of familiarity which makes you forget to honor him.
4. Not taking care of ourselves. God looks at the ❤ but men are moved by outward appearances.
Love n Light Yeah, but men don’t take care of themselves. They age too and it shows. They let themselves go too, unkempt, and with their beer bellies standing out a yard in front of them. So what about that?
@@bc1248 I was just listing what the video says.
Love n Light I know. But I was just stating my view of it.
@@bc1248 oh ok. Got confused because you replied under my comment. Usually ppl just start their own thread when stating their own views. I like the comment though, it brings a balance to the discussion.
Love n Light You are right. I should have put it in the general comment section.
This video is very powerful. When women begin to cheat, they begin to show concern about their looks and that is how experienced men catch them.
I stumbled on this teaching, I was totally hooked on it. My wife and I learnt a lot. Thank you!
Thank you Pastor Mildred. You really hit the nail on the head. We are guilty of almost, if not all that you have talked about. One concern I have is the second mistake you mentioned. Women should not support their husbands' wrong decisions. This has caused a lot of problems in marriages. Most men don't see it this way. They feel they are not being supported by their wives. My advice most times to women is that they should air their views respectfully but shouldn't stop there: rather, they should also go on their knees and pray for their husbands. God always honours our prayers when we're sincere. May God continue to bless you as you bless others.
I just love her realness. Pastor M you are now my mentor. God bless you.
I tell you oooo my sister
Offlate been learning much on marriage ...not married,hence am glad am getting prepared before the time...things the spirit has been talking to me and making me land on platforms I can learn...these are things my marital mom may not teach me,not even my mom.... God bless you WOG....Born again women got alot to learn ..they always complain our marriages end in doom...and glad we are sharpening each other... kindly,release a book well published ..am here to buy...God's grace is sufficient 🧡💜
When you show a woman “affection and attention “ she sees love. When you show a man “ humility and respect” he sees love.
Men need RESPECT...
Women need ATTENTION
Very true
Well said dear
I love this ,, but then i think that the whole relationship should be based on respect from both side .. maybe maybe you mean allow HIM to feel like he is on charge of things!
True
My brother may God bless u. Amen! U really have wisdom this is only what a man and a woman need in marriage! Thanks
Great Video Thanks so much.
Will watch once again
Im not married yet but this is eye opening! Glad to be learning this at this time! Thank you for sharing!
I have heard people speak but this lady has an anointing... Mmmmm I'm even crying listening to this
This is my Mama Ohhhhh. World hear her. Some of us owe her everything. Chai P.M your making my marriage sweet....thankyou Ma
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you....
Chai the familiarity part thank God for the Holy Spirit that teaches all the time, because most of the time we are tempted to disrespect our husbands maybe when they get on our nerves.
I’m glad I came across this message. I’m a new wed and this is a very wise massage that will go with me forever
I am from Jamaica 🇯🇲 and this help me a lot
More single and married people need to watch these videos. Not just for marriage but pastor KM keep dropping Godly nuggets
Pastor Mildred, I am a relationship coach from Kenya and because I have listened to you and all that you have said is truth 100% from a woman perspective I have decided to subscribe in support of your mission. I will also ask many other kenyans to subscribe to your channel.
For 18yrs I have tried to tell women these same same facts and truth but they sting and call me judgemental. 90% of women hate the truth world-wide especially when it comes from a man. One key aspect of women that they don't buy is;
1. Touching on their pride
2. Telling a woman to be submission
3. To be hygienic-washing well below and underneath or mouth 9r excess chemical makeups
4. Speaking about their size or poor delivery
These 4 stings women and grounds their pride to the ebb.
I am happy for you and shall always be watching you ma sista
Am not married, but am here watching the video again and again. Thanks Mildred
I loved your talk, but there was something you said that caught my attention, I quote "he his my pastor first of all before he is my husband." I feel its suppose to be the other way round, that's me anyway.
I will really like to hear mistakes married men make too.
I noted that too but I'll just pick what's important and leave the rest.
Interesting, however the statement emphasized, could encourage women to see the pastor first before the husband. Her massage was ok. Nice job to her.
According to the Bible she is correct ❤️
There's no first or last. These things run as a package. We must learn to see this as a package.
You're truly a gift to women in this generation. Any woman that takes your advice must surely be a good married woman
Hmm marriage is not about what you can get but about what you can give 👍❤️😘
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..
Yaaaaaay😍... women who have dedicated their lives to partner with God to make one man special
Less than 3months here🥰
This message was really timely to save my marriage, I thank God for it BSE it's highlights all the 7 issues that were almost tiring us apart.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..
Ohhh 😮 my God I love ❤️ this woman 👩 lord who’s she oooo I love ❤️ your message
You just make me remember late pastor Mrs odukoya who was an inspiration to lots during her time.. God bless you for all you do
I love you pastor M, a woman that speaks the Truth!!! God bless you
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you..........
I been married for 5 years and you will never learn nor know it all...... If you want to be the best wife / husband possible then never stop learning, never stop studying about marriage and the opposite sex and don't just study and learn, but applied to your everyday life as much as you possibly can what...... And by the way I love your accent so much I have always loved that accent and I wish I could speak the way you do without sounding crazy 🤭💕
The world needs women like u. GOD bless u.
Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them now on +2347049035529) tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you
Wooow, am single mum but I was in marriage for 7 years, good massage mum I got something!!..
She is so real, it hurts💔😂😂..
But this is what we needed to hear, y'all😂. Bless you Pastor Mildred❤️.
I love your bluntness👏. I couldn't stop laughing cause I could so relate.
Here's to learning and improving to be the best versions of ourselves 🥂
PastorM its okay Ma, please off your mic God Bless you Ma 😁❤️
Uloma Chukwu lol 😂
Oh Yes,She is sooo real ,it hurts🤩🥰
Vasti U..😆😄😄🤣🤣love it..U couldn't have explained it better..I am a young wife N young in marriage..best advise I gotten EVER!!! u r Blessed!! God bless U!!
Ive learnt a lot..... familiarity want to kill my marriage oooh and not takimg care of myself.....even as a young marriage and young pastor wife jajajajja Thank you Jesús...the explanation is very simple and understandable
Awwwww!!! Glad you picked something from it
This is so practical and rich, thank you
I'm in love with you mama 💜💜. Your bluntness and sense of humour is on another level. I also love the way you use scriptural backups. Ma please when can we press the play button 😂.....I'm not married but I'm enjoying this and learning a lot.
I wanted to scroll down when I saw the topic, but was like let me hear what she has to say😁 I was just few few minutes into the msg when I clicked like😁listening to half of the msg, I subscribed to your channel. By the time I finished. You have already deposited so much in me. Now am in love with you. As you are watering other people's lives, your life also shall be watered. You are moving from wisdom to wisdom in Jesus name
1. I am not the project.
Marriage is never about what I can get but it is always about what I can give.
I am to help him achieve his other projects.
2. Supporting the wrong decisions.
Being the voice of reason in my husband's life. Acts 5:1-11
Stand up for the truth.
I determine the legacy my husband leaves for the children.
Tell him the truth prayerfully and respectfully
3. Familiarity.
Respect is the major need of a man. He is to be treated with honor and respect.
4. Not taking care of myself.
Looks:
Men are moved by what they see.
Often times I come across your post I always I don't know but I font click it I clicked on it today I I am wawwwwwed am blessed Ma. I love your voice you are so real no pretense its just soon raw I wish I could talk to you one on one I sincerely wish, this message has solved some problems that has kept me depressed for long. I Love You Ma, Your Oil will not dry.
I'm single, but I'm watching for my future marriage.
Yes o...you're not alone sis
Me too sis!
Haha welldone sis
Nice one
Me too 🙆🏽♀️😁
This woman is glowing oooooooh❤❤
God bless you and your family this year. This is very very very grateful. Thanks
I love u Ma, I'm happy I listened to this before I got Married...you are very wise
You are doing a nice work! I believe every wife should be a "major project" of the husband. Other projects become "their" project because they are now one. She is a major project because as a groom the bridegroom must continue to groom till death do them part. Amongst the things that make the love go cold in the marriage is because, we stop "dating" after the marriage. If we put the same love/doting we did in while courting, marriage will be heaven on earth. I think that's God's desire for our marriage. God bless you.
Strange that some people have pressed 'dislike'...such beautiful, realistic teachings, disliked??? They surely need deliverance!
...wow! Am not the project chai ! Lord help me to support my husband in every way in Jesus name. Amen. God bless and increase you ma.
Waow. This is so great a reminder. You brought the message home with love at the same time hitting the nail on the head. God bless you.
this hits hard on the side of men as well... mama your word hits differently
I am listening to your talk on rightly advising your husband in making decisions that will not hurt people and it came to my mind that how is it possible to advise a man who does not communicate with you about anything.
DO NOT SUPPORT YOUR HUSBAND IN WRONG DOINGS......my sister, I wish this message can get out to more Nigerian women. What a change of heart will come to our politicians if their wives at home are not telling them the truth about their wrongs doings.
Correct. They’re too busy enjoying the spoils of corruption.
It will interest you to know that most men when they are doing something evil or bad, their wifes will never know until they are caught. Just like cheating
Ok
My husband is cheating known and again
@@angelinaserwaa1436 trust me they know.
Pastor M, have just kukuma scattered the table. I learnt very well Ma, thank you.
my husband and i watch your husband a lot and then i came across your channel and i’m glad that i did. I decided to check it out and i don’t regret it. you are as amazing! i appreciate you guys! thanks for telling us the truth. i am guilty as well when it comes to some of these mistakes you have highlighted and i intend to change them. thanks for the guidance. I think God put this channel on for me for a purpose cos i did not. i held my phone between my legs cos i was busy with my hands and your video started playing. I decided to keep watching when i saw the name and i’m glad i did. Amazing right?!😃
My sister Pastor, you are speaking wisdom for all woman. Yes, humility and respect draws LOVE from man.
Thank 👍 you,so much for this counseling, you are 'God sent' , every women should listen 👂.
Am guilty on all 10 counts 😭😭😭😭. But am working on myself now. Am praying about it, I know I will get better
Stand up. Yes you. Stand up go and brush your teeth. Oooooooo she's really talking to me. I was a pretty damsel 🤩 b4 marriage.
From today I will so take care of my self like never b4. Thank you so much Ma.
I appreciate 🌹
Not married or in any relationship but i so much love your channel because am learning allot and preparing myself for the future my love ma
Such a lovely message,,, I love the way you teach calmly ,ur accent and your lively smile ma,, more grace 😍
The truth is always bitter, but it’s needs to be told. Thanks for the reminder Pastor M.
U just should spoke to me. though I am a Muslim, and i am so subcribing to ur channel. I pray God forgives me and make me a better person
@Gods child N Quran as a holy book also never burns in the fire, that is why God's words and his holyness can never be compared to the word of man. Stop making it about religion to be a good or a better person, following Christ does not make anybody a Christian, accepting others, and loving your neighbors as yourself is being a Christian. I observe many Christian that follow only the words of their pastors not the teaching of Christ and they think all pastors represent Christ, it is not so, I have met and seen a lot of fake pastors. Jesus Christ doesn't discriminate and doesn't preach against any group of people, he only shows them the love of God and teaches them right from wrong. Many Cristian thinks being a Christian is the ticket to heaven but it is not so. Because Jesus Christ says they will perform a miracle in his name but on that judgment they he will say he did not know them. I was a Muslim for 25 years and 25 years as a Christian and married for 25 years and I have come to realize is people that name religion what is most important is you are a child of God and your action and the words that come out of your mouth show your fear and love of God. People discriminate about religion God just sees us as all his children, how you worship him is your choice but what is in your heart he sees. All the Christians in the world appreciate and acknowledge Isreal as a nation of Godchildren and yet Israelite never accept Christ as their messiah or son of God till this day, yet the same hypocrites Christian want the Muslims to acknowledge Jesus as the son of God, the dishonesty in Christendom to stand in unison and defend Jesus Christ is the savior and son of God to Isreal nation is startling but always demand and expect the Muslims to acknowledge Jesus Christ as the son of God, I believe charity begins at home, how many churches or pastors have even spoken out in world forum for the Israel nation to accept Christ? You may be a Christian and a worshiper of God but the spiritual realm of building one on one relationship with God many Christian do not have and that is why their knowledge and understanding lack wisdom
@@sidicniy874 Please understand that most of the people you refer to as Christians are actually not Christians.
The word "Christian" means "Christ-like".
Therefore if one doesn't walk, talk, behave etc like Christ he/she is not Christian even if he/ she says he is a Christian.
@Gods child N But why?🤷🏾♀️what happened to free will. Why can’t we let people of other belief systems just be. I find that quite arrogant and disrespectful. This the reason why there is religious strife. Respect the faith others have chosen to follow. So long as they believe in a higher power that holds them to good principles and morals. Gbam✊🏿#OneLove ❤️💚💛🖤
@@sidicniy874 Jesus said to the people who believed in him, “You are truly my disciples if you remain faithful to my teachings". "If you love me, you will keep my commandments." That is his standard.
People claim they know God, but they deny him by the way they live. They are detestable and disobedient, worthless for doing anything good. It doesn't matter how many pastors speak on how many forums, we all have been given the choice as humans, not as Jews, Muslims, etc.
Jesus said “I am the way, and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." Jesus didn't force anyone, not the Jews nor us to follow him. He just stated the Truth.
Blessings sister.
@@sisey99 seriously makes me stray away from organized religion. But spirit is in me
OMG I couldn’t help, but 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 this cut with truth, but it was so sweet!!! And real!!!
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WOW!!!! I NEED TO LISTEN TO THIS ONCE A WEEK AS A REFRESHER COURSE!!! THIS BOUT TOOK ME OUT!!! YOU HAVE NEW SUBSCRIBER!!!!🔥🔥🔥
Please how do I get to see her one on one?
I love this, I pray God continue to bless your ministry. I pray also that I will not make these mistakes in my upcoming marriage. Thank you for this information.
Wow these Counseling sessions are very powerful and is required for our females to the Queen they are created to Be!!
"Cornrows that has turned into grassland" 😂😂 Thank you for saying it like it is. I'm learning.
Lolz
She is making her point in a funny way😂
Remain blessed and a blessing
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I wish every women like you marriage is going to be a place of EDEN GARDEN . BE BLESSED
😂😂😂😂 grassland. Love her!
Beautiful message Mildred!! you have found your purpose God be with you! while you help people discover their weakness & strengthen themselves. good job
I can listen to you all day
I'm single, but this goes a long way
Thank you
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So much wisdom in this Pst Mildred.🙏🏾
"They will Vashti you" Got me giggling 😂
Thank God for this message. Thank you for the wisdom! I learned how to solve a major problem my husband always complained about. Looking forward to more of this....