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7 Mistakes Ladies Make When They Like a Guy | Kingsley Okonkwo
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- Опубликовано: 5 дек 2020
- I realized that many ladies have wrong ideas when it comes to meeting guys and how the process of knowing them should go.
So I decided to help out with 7 Mistakes Ladies Make When They Like A Guy.
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#1 Not doing anything
#2 doing too much
#3 not being ready to walk away
#4 fantasizing too much
#5 forgetting protocol
#6 falling in love before getting to know him
#7 cutting off accountability
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Thanks 👍
Thank you so much for saving my time not watching the whole video
Thanks for the summary
I laughed so hard when Pastor K. said don't fantasise about the wedding because some of us have fantasised to the point where we are already naming our future kids😭😭😂😂😂
True o!
All of my five kids including the twins are already named. Remains only the husband. Even him, I have already named him. Lord have mercy....
@@yiskah8467 you have already named the husband too?😂😂😂😂..I can't believe this😹😹
@@yiskah8467 LMAO
My dear😂😂😂😂
Am always ready to walk away at anytime. And I noticed guys that left me always come back to say they have never seen someone as good as me. And I do leave most of them based on character and those demanding for sex before marriage. Ladies God will keep helping us. But we should always set boundaries. The one that will stick will stick. And d ones that leaves,will still crawl back. God will keep strenghting us. Amen!
Exactly 💯, they ones that will stick will stick ,sex isn't love .This world has actually changed the way we love they think if you don't have sex with them you don't love them
This your Brochure is full ooo 😂
Ameen
Amen🙏❤
Amen
#8 Pray, you can strategize anything in life but God can only give you guidance about the things that you cannot see. Pray, pray, and pray.
Thanks Sir.
The best and final !!!
Overfantazing affects your emotions....so true!
Our men also needs to know how to manage women, all of the relationship messages from pastors are always focus on women. If we the ladies are exposed to all of this and the men are still ignorant, I feel it will still not work. Both genders needs to learn how to make a relationship work. Nice message tho.
Exactly..well said
Correct ly
Exactly. A lady is taught how to be a good wife all the time but there's little resources on how to be a good husband.
He has other messages about guys. This is simply about ladies. I understand that most of the time women are the ones being taught. But there are a lot of material on men too. They just ignored that’s why before we say yes we should know what we are getting ourselves into.
You are absolutely right.Most men end up been lazy,working on themselves.They end up been baggages you have to deal with
I love the 6th point. I always say I have never been to a wedding where the bride made vows to the man's money or the man's house or the man's car. The bride makes vows to THE MAN/GROOM. Make sure his character is what you want. Nobody eats icing without the cake but you can eat the cake without the icing. Icing can never replace the cake. So ladies we need to focus on what is important...the character.
Pastor K was speaking about me when he said don't walk too fast, I am Bolt. And when he said fantasy, who else is like me?
Lol sister bolt
U are bolt 😂😂😂
@Linda Kosi I need to start learning to walk slowly.
Same here, I walk toooo fast n my friends do complain about it.
If fantasy was a person, it would be me
I walked away from my narcissistic fiance... I never knew I could until i started listening to PK's messages...God bless you always.
Wow
Me too...His teaching helped make that decision.
@@thegreenerland9618 Great!
Ooh I'm happy for you.
Did same this year, and that's what I'm most grateful for this year.
You just saved yourself years of pain. Wish I could help spare my mum from a narcissist even if that would mean not being born 😕
So No 1 works
My friend pretended to have a meeting in Lagos so that she could meet a guy she was introduced too
He was a shy ' efiko' brother.
She dressed appropriately ,beautiful and like a smart wife material.
They are married now. If she had waited for him to chase her like in the romance novels ,she for still dey single now
That first advice is so true. I was made to believe if a guy sees you says n does nothing then he is not interested. I met a guy at a friend's party n the same night he requested me on ig n liked my pictures. I waited about a week for him to officially enter my dm but nothing happened. I decided to message him in a friendly way and initiate conversation. To my surprise we had a nice flowing decent conversation which ended up with him asking for my number and months later we are a couple. There are decent ways to start conversation with a man that will seem harmless and not desperate n not make him think u are after him romantically. For example asking him for help with something. If ur in public ask him for the time.
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Dear Pastor Kingsley, May God bless you and keep you. It’s like you were talking to me😅. I did too much with a guy I just met because I really liked him and I had been praying for a while and waiting on God so when he came, I thought he was the one. Turns out he wanted something else, never asked me about my dreams or aspirations.. God didn’t let me fall into his trap of bedding me😂😂. I found the strength and I walked away. I’m the one in control😌. I’m waiting till marriage and I’ll wait for my husband. May God bless you from Zion.
I'm with you my sister
Sylvia Ubom......awesome; wait on your king! He shall come forth! 🙏🏾👍🏾
Thank you so much. I believe in God, Chastity isn’t old fashioned ❤️
@@sylviaubom5800 You're right dear
Thought I was the only one on this table..I'm encouraged
I realize not falling in love before getting to know him is central. That way, you won't do too much or do nothing at all cos you're afraid of losing him. Also, you won't cut off accountability or fantasize to stupor; you will be ready to walk away when you have to.
I was toomuch him in my last relationship, but I am learning now not to make that mistake again, God help me.
I would think one of the mistakes would be not praying or seeking God. He alone knows the guy and what’s best for you.
Wow I really love your comments Maasha Allah 👍🏾 well said
Exactly Woman of God!!!,after doing what is needed physically,the important one is to pray for his intentions to be known and his personality been seen before any further period is built
This really works out for me I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back to me
Text him now on Wha'tsApp okay 😊🙏
How can someone who is not even a clergy frivolously miss out on your point?
"Whoever is willing to walk-away (if the mutual-interest won't align) gains the control or momentum" ✍🏽
Bless you PK 🙏
You are so right sir. More wisdom. God Bless u more sir. Thanks!
This is my first time
Word!!! It also shows the person respects themselves 💫 self love and dignity is rare!!
After the guy giving u attention and won ur heart.. He change totally expecting me to chasing him cus he knew I love him.. I'm happy for now peace of mind matter in my life..
Pastor what do we say about this😭
Forges such men they truly don’t like you from the start , all he did was just draw your attention to him
Be ready to work away when you are not getting what you want
Thank you sir , you directly talking to me
This has touched me deep
Your emotions have no self respect 🤣🤣🤣the accuracy
Honestly 😂
I was so much into him and made him aware, not knowing it was going to end in tears
Pele this advices would help for next time
Sorry dear. Like he said. Do not initiate relationship or marriage. Just initiate a conversation. If he is interested he will take it from there. If not, it ends there. Don't do too much. Just at least initiate a conversation!
My current situation right now,I made him realise how much I fell for him and now I'm in tears
Even without knowing all these, these are exactly how I operate.....I love myself and can't for any reason stay where am not enjoying.....
I make no mistake in all these..it's just automatic, if you love yourself wholeheartedly and Sincerely wants the best for your future ,you won't dare settle for less.
Lol the fantasising part😂😂 it’s so true. We’ve already done the wedding in our heads
🤣🤣🤭🤭 Don't forget about naming the kids
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I know ryt🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Ladies what’s the number one way to weed out Players , con artists, manipulators ,and men who have bad intentions? KEEP YOUR LEGS And MOUTH 👄 CLOSED! That and time reveals EVERYTHING!
I get the legs but I don't understand the mouth. How is not speaking or speaking less supposed to help?
I have a video on this on my channel! Have to learn to how let the trash take itself out!
@@stalkersty2224 let the guy speak most of the time yes she's right
@@stalkersty2224 if you limit too much talking you are giving them the lead their too much expression in talking will make them revel who they are
@@paballoncube9238 yes i agree , open mouth means disclosing too much information about yourself. They can use that information to act accordingly. Example : if you tell him the kind of a man you like, they will act accordingly until they fully get you trapped.
Sometimes I feel sorry for women sha. So many videos and posts online about what they're doing wrong. I wish there were as many for the men too. But anyway I guess it makes sense since a happy relationship/marriage is typically something that women desire more than men.
I have always shared this sentiment. It's quite sad
@rebeccamay me sef no understand o
What are you even saying?
So true how to keep a man is he a pet
Please don't feel sorry for anyone, no one is crying,
🤣🤣 don't walk too fast. Don't laugh too long. 🤣🤣Some of these tips are so hilarious but helpful. Thank you Pastor Kingsley
Love from SA🇿🇦
You are being subtle and you buy him a full car. My ribs 😂😂. As for fantasy, hmmm it is well. Very insightful and practical tips. Thank you PK ❤
I didn't do anything at first, then I did too much. 😪
I really saw this a little too late.
Same with me
Don’t laugh too much, others have finished laughing 3hours ago🤣. This is also the mistakes married women make. They let the man relax or go cold on them by giving too much and reassuring the guy man. Ladies, keep him on his toes, sometimes be unavailable. Avoid see finish. Let him chase you. That Sakara you did when you were dating continue the sakara. These guys don’t like soft landing😀.
Hmmmm “don’t give him money” noted, don’t stalk him 🤧🤭
please can you do a video on healing for heartbreaks for ladies, cos we women in faith needs to know what to do to heal
Just like mourning the death of a loved one, there is no shortcut or easy way to healing...you just have to let it hurt until it no longer hurt any more cos the more you try to avoid that pain, the more it will keep hurting, and the slower the healing comes...All one can do is pay less attention to the heartache and let time and events bring the healing.
Listen to RC Blakes here on youtube. Search: 'RC Blakes healing'
I would advise to forgive totally and let ho of bitterness...for yourself
You said "Allow your paths to cross. Ladies, you know how you do that." So funny, yet so true!
Being able to walk away !!! That’s hit deep 🙌🏾 . Honestly this really wasn’t for girls . More grace sir
Thank you pastor K! Your teachings have helped groom my life from my teenage age till this moment 🤭🤗, and i am grateful to God for sending you to this generation as a blessing .💯🙌💃💃
Before I ran away and I was advised to stop which I did. Now, I began to give a welcoming attitude and I'm being taken for granted
This message has my name written all over it! Enlightening!!
I'm here for u
Some guys too do not appreciate ladies years after coming together. Their attitude changes,starts to yell and embarrass us not remembering how comfortable we've made them years ago. This has led so many ladies grow high in temper. So, there's no longer peace in the relationship.women needs to be regard and honoured. Its like women are the ones who always strive to make a union work.But two heads are better than one
I listened to one of your videos few months ago and I must confess it was really helpful.... I'm finally healed and out of the emotional bondage... To the extent that the guy came back begging, but funny enough have moved on 😅 Thank you Pastor K for your words.
Am immaculate from Uganda, I really like your teachings ,they have changed me emotionally, physically and spiritually, more wisdom, more blessings pastor Kingsley okonkwo
Great! Thank God
This is actually my first time watching your video sir and I must confess this video is an eye opener.. It felt like you specifically made this video bcos of me. Recently I met this guy.. and I just realized I've made all 7 of these mistakes. But thank God for this message. God continue to bless you sir.
Thanks pastor... this was exactly what I needed...my sanity is back now
Great, we thank God
Thank you sir
Chasing and accepting BAD treatment. Remember...you are the Prize!
Get that Western feminist mentality out of your head
How are you the prize if you offer nothing off consequence? MOST of you feel like you deserve a man, but you do nothing to make men desire you.
Men don't need you to survive even if every women vanished like in avengers we'd be fine [until we die of course]. that doesn't make you a prize in any way., it just means you're add on content, great for an expansive experience but not needed for the main event.
@@taliwave1946 It's the exact opposite. Women can survive just fine without a Man. We want them but don't need them. Men. Without a good Women in their life...their lost. High Value Men know this and treat Women like the Prize.
This really works out for me I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back to me
Text him now on Wha'tsApp okay 😊🙏
“Don’t laugh too much”. Pastor this is how Japanese ladies show they’re interested in a guy. Otherwise the guys won’t know🤣🤣🤣
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Korean girls too! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Haha😂😂😂
Thank you Pastor, this felt like a father to a daughter. I received your counsel.
Thanks Pastor. Just what I needed. In fact I'm guilty of #1 especially living right after church service and I walk damn too fast. Mostly I'm the first to live. 🤦🤦🤦 I'm repenting already 😃😃😃
We live in the same walking zone.
Probably because I once lived in Lagos and you gotta be very smart to sustain my environment.
I walk too fast too damn 🤣🤣
I am from Kenya. And all I can say is that this messages are really helpful. Am afraid I might end up downloading all your videos.
They are very educating and inspiring.
Hahahah why are you then afraid ?
Thank you very much guys
Oh I have done too much and now he wants to be just friends... I have been friend zoned 😩😩😩 but it’s all good. Thank you sir
Do u use insta/snap?
Ahhhhhhh I was team do nothing gang oh. Chai!!! Now I have learnt something new.
I can imagine still laughing 3 hours after everyone has stopped laughing.. 😂😂😂
I just so love your teachings pastor,you have mentored me from my single status and now in my matrimony.
God bless you
"This is what they do as a hobby.. Chasing women" took me out🤣🤣🤣🤣
Someone just disliked this video...
It must be a sister who realised she messed up big time only a minute after the video official upload...
Lord have mercy
Loooooooooooool!!!
Sorry, but I found your comment hilarious. 😁
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🙄 😂😂
Falling in love with marriage and not the guy or before the guy 💯fact. One bitter truth some ladies doesn’t accept that they do it in their current relationship🤦♀️ Pastor K🙌🙌💯❤️
I'm waiting for 7 mistakes guys make when they like a girl
😂😂😂 e no go come
😂🤣😂wait forever
Hmmm should I tell you ?
He's not going to say. I have never heard him say anything to encourage guys in a relationship. In a world where women already have a strong hate for men, we still have guys like this.
@@SonofaBlacksmith actually, he is nor coming from a hate position. He is talking more to ladies because he's a man. He is literally telling ladies what mistakes men see women make. It is more realistic that way. Want to learn what mistakes men make, a woman minister will be in the best position to relate. My thoughts though.
I did what pastor is saying. I was too much into him
Can't believe one person can be guilty of all these! But yeah, I am one person 😀😀. Thank you Pastor K. This was really insightful.
This is exactly for mature ladies. Women by nature are emotional beings and that's why we get used by guys and even blame them instead of blaming ourselves for allow our emotions to control us. Men love challenges, no matter how you like this guy, keep it low, you can show few signs like you just mentioned, but don't go too much deep into it, cause, even if he likes you, he will use you, for the fact that you wanna play his role and play yours. Allow him be the man. Please ladies grow up from your emotions!
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No be easy thing abi but we'll try our best o 😅
You didn’t have to expose me like that😂😂😂am so greatful for this teaching, am guilty of all of them and am so thankful to God because my life is about to change after this❤
I really enjoyed watching this, thank you.
There's this guy I really like in my environment I thought it was just a crush or something that was a hit of the moment, not until we had a close encounter and I totally froze... like I couldn't breathe for the moment he was around me,I just literally shutdown ...
I haven't tried to be accessible because I feel there's no point, I know I first need to get a grip of my emotions if I must be accessible otherwise even a b. bat would be able to tell I like him and I will just ruin the opportunity of everything happening naturally or seamless...
PS: am not doing anything yet just observing and trying to catch my breath...
Me
@@stanleynwoke9221 me, what?
I can't do without your teachings, till the end of time, pastor K... You are a blessing to my world.. more unction to function, and more oil for wisdom, may the heavens open doors in your life and ministry Amen...
Everybody have finished smiling long ago. You are still smiling really got me o. So funny sir!
You didn't have to expose me like this now 😭😭😭 but I really needed to hear this before I make a mistake. Thank you very much.
The story of my life. Pastor K, I am really a victim of what you are just saying. I am the back bone in my marriage doing everything in my house. I even gave my husband money for business but i don't know how the business is going for one year now. Since i knew my husband, he have never buy me a gift but i have been showering him with gifts and his family with money. I am crying because i have disconnected myself from my family and friends because nobody wanted him. I made him who he is today and honestly, he doesn't love and respect me. I am really heart broken and I'm so ashamed of myself and what people will say
Pray about it
@@amewudainnocentia2556 lol
Don't consider what people will say..Focus on loving yourself more than your neighbor (husband). Pray though that he changes while you keep developing yourself and stop pampered him.
I did this too, and am ashamed of myself.
😂 😂 😂 Laughing at myself cos I'm the boss of fantasizing, I think I've married and had kids for over4 guys I never dated🤣🤣🤣🤣 But you see that character thing? I don't play with it. Thanks for this message P. K
I should have watched this when I was a teen. Quite accurate.
This is so simple yet powerful
How do you retract your steps when you've already broken one or two rules
Thank you so much for this. I actually made some of these mistakes in the past and this video has helped me to see myself like a mirror would.
Thanks sir. By the mercies of God, l won't make these mistakes again.
Awlays being ready to walk away👌 .. that is big for me. It's always a bargain.
After collecting the necessary data we finally decide whether that sits well with us.
Thankyou pastor King. I always run here for these series. They are always very liberating.
Love from Kenya 🇰🇪 🇰🇪
Thank you for this message pastor
Right Timing !! I was confuse, I Came here to listen to your advice.. am Blessed after listening to you !! More Anointing Daddy 🙏🏻🙏🏻🔥🔥🙏🏻
Overly excited 💀💀 yoh this is what I struggle with and later get disappointed when it’s not reciprocated.
When others are done laughing ur still laughing😂😂😂
Big signs !
M actually on this table.lol
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I'm in this box ooo God help me.
@@KingsleyOkonkwo please I have a question but i will like it to be private sir
Let me share this with my friend, she as fast as airplane 😂
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Please, don't kill me! 😂 😂
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Oh Lord! Deliver me from over-fantasizing🙈🤣
Ok
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This message is for me. Thank You Lord
Thank You Jesus Christ for this timely message 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
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I'm blessed by this message.
God bless you Sir.
I don't know why but your teaching Pastor Kingsley, are always timely in my life 😁😁😁
U must always act like ur willing to walk away. Simple. Also have many options. Note I didn't say sex buddies just toasters. Anyway these things will come naturally to you with time. Don't feel bad
Pastor,your opening tune says it all.Ladies get this straight:waiting for him to come and get you might not be the right thing to do after all.
Thanks for this video. Number one has been my problem for some time now. I thought doing something would make me a less valued woman.
This message was very timely... throughly blessed as always ❤️
I made the last 3 mistakes. In the process of walking out, I found this video😢. Thank you pastor. I will be more careful.
I wish this video came early before I did what ever I did
sorry Jennifer the best will surely come and he just prove too you he is not the right one
Don't worry Jennifer, the best is yet to come. Anyone who has life, has hope
Me too
I was just about to type this same comment! But it’s okay Atleast we have watched it after doing these things. Next time we will have sense 🤣
Seriously.. even me
This video was just subbing me from beginning to end... nawa ooo...Grace would you find love like this 🤣🤣😂🤣
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You will. The video is addressing you so you can be ready to attract the love that's coming to you.
@@IniWrites yeahhh😄I’m definitely going to work on it all
I have learnt a lot, will apply it where applicable, God bless you Pastor for always giving such great advice.
Thanks Pastor. How about when you've made these mistakes, and have invested in the relationship. What to do?
Also, about giving money to a guy, how about you've started giving finances since being just friends, before dating phase
Pk keeps blowing my mind each time I listen to him. How do u know women so much? 🙌
50% of this video is describing me
Thank you so much for sharing this with us
This is wonderful,but what about the 7 mistake guys do when they like a lady
THANK YOU!
This is awesome PK- Thank you!
So many notes I'm writing down like eek! When everyone's done laughing you're still laughing... (laughed so hard at that omg!), Guys can tell when you give them attention... Don't fantasize about what your babies will look like...(hmm well I may have already fantasized about being pregnant with his child lol). But that phase is over in Jesus Name!!!
Hmm got another point- #8 don't assume, ask. Sometimes we ladies assume the guy likes us because he winked at us or smiled! honey! Let me tell you it is NOT always the case! Sometimes the guy's winking because he got something in his eye!
Don't throw away protocols just because I like the guy...let me follow the process
She wants Pastor K with a touch of Burna boy😂. Ladies we are the best abeg🎊🎉🎉
Comment has to be aggressive please🤣🤣🤣
Thank you very much Pastor Kingsley. I was very blessed and I love your jovial nature. Thank you for your counsels. They bless more ladies than you can imagine.
"I'm being subtle and you buy him a full car" 🤣🤣🤣
Yes o , they still do it
hahaha ! hilarious oh !
Thank you Sir for this timely advice. It is refreshing to know that God always wants me to walk in the right direction. This sure is for me.
Great advice I do everything very very well except number one. Sometimes I’m too not involved. I’m old-fashioned I like a man to take the lead what he saying makes sense. I will put up a little bit of effort I know men are shy and they don’t like rejection either
If 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬 aren't learning we 🇰🇪🇰🇪 are learning alot from Pastor K.
Thank you Pastor Kingsley. I'm making some of these mistakes presently.. However it's never too late to retrace my steps.
Thank you brother, you gave me the right answer tonight, l am into this(walk away) was difficult for me, which lm going through at the moment. I have shown too much, and he is taken average of me. He does not appreciate my open minded, because l show and give much appreciation, but none from him in return, so today is the 9th day, we have not spoken, expecting me to call, l missed the chatting but is difficult and feels lonely, but this is the best for me, because l put more into the relationship but nothing in return than been hurt, so l appreciate your lecture it help, l think lm too submissive to him. All this point is me, but lm grateful that lm walking out.
You will be fine. Good one for taking the initiative
I hope you walked out sis
This was so good and something I really needed. Such great pointers on the common mistakes we do as women
Hi Nelisa. How possible can I DM you privately? Thanks
I'm vivian from Ghana.. I love the way you teach... I can never skip your videos.. God bless you and your family and increase your anointing.. Amen
omg #7 is such a confirmation. I've been contemplating on chatting with a close friend who's been pulling off, offering her my accountability as a friend though not sure if it's going to be welcome.
This message is particularly meant for me. Thanks for the wake-up call pastor K
When he told me can’t go continue cus he need to focus on his education, I couldn’t accept it. Because all of a sudden