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7 Mistakes Single Ladies Make | Kingsley Okonkwo | Part 1

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  • Опубликовано: 15 авг 2024
  • Over time single ladies have tried many ways to keep their relationships long enough to lead to marriage, however in the bid to finding "the right man/relationship" many mistakes are made out of desperation, immaturity, lack guidance, etc.
    Join Kingsley Okonkwo as he shares 7 Mistakes Single Ladies Make and their solutions.
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  • @KingsleyOkonkwo
    @KingsleyOkonkwo  3 года назад +192

    This is my only RUclips channel " Kingsley Okonkwo".
    I will not message you or reply to your comment requesting funds for prophecies or anything at all, please beware of scammers.
    Also, my account is verified so take note.

    • @mkatekomnukwa3479
      @mkatekomnukwa3479 3 года назад +1

      Shoo I almost send money to these people thank you pastor 😂

    • @blessingsfavor6903
      @blessingsfavor6903 3 года назад

      You saved me too thank you pst

    • @cynthiasmith6913
      @cynthiasmith6913 3 года назад +2

      They are always seeing prophecy for me in your name and I should send money to orphanage home but I know it’s not you

    • @susan8576
      @susan8576 3 года назад +1

      I was about to do a screen shot of the message I got and send to pastor Mildred on IG. Hmm! It is well

    • @eunicembangweta1595
      @eunicembangweta1595 3 года назад

      Thank you sir

  • @ruthdianamomodu7808
    @ruthdianamomodu7808 4 года назад +159

    "Stop giving to boy friend what belongs to your husband". Thank you Pastor K

    • @rachelbaruga4885
      @rachelbaruga4885 3 года назад +2

      Does he deserve it.?

    • @waibeah2257
      @waibeah2257 3 года назад +2

      And is the husband not also given to girlfriend what belongs to the wife?

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo5865
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo5865 3 года назад +1

      She actually kept me so sad ever since I could not hear from you I was so boringI went to your store to see if I could see you there but I could not I have to come to your street nobody no you there what happened for so long

  • @TS-jb5il
    @TS-jb5il 3 года назад +115

    I made all these mistakes and I’m currently paying for it. I wish I heard this message much earlier. A man should earn everything about you.

  • @honeydropz3259
    @honeydropz3259 3 года назад +369

    It’s like relationship is about playing mind games. This life is just stressful. Why can’t someone just love you without playing all this games

    • @agodifaith7097
      @agodifaith7097 3 года назад +18

      For once someone is sane enough

    • @queenshasha6596
      @queenshasha6596 3 года назад +9

      I tirer oooo my dear

    • @doraho669
      @doraho669 3 года назад +6

      Exactly my thoughts

    • @rosemaryng8438
      @rosemaryng8438 3 года назад +3

      I hear you.....my exact thought @Honey Dropz

    • @feranmi1395
      @feranmi1395 3 года назад +6

      yes, that's exactly what I was thinking. 😆 acc don't know why EVERY area of life has to be stressful.

  • @ifeoluwafriendlywole-adewu3741
    @ifeoluwafriendlywole-adewu3741 4 года назад +327

    1. Being too available
    2. Not defining the relationship
    3. Giving too much too soon

    • @lydiakuffour996
      @lydiakuffour996 3 года назад +3

      Hmm mm l did same n it couldn't help at alll

    • @annmete866
      @annmete866 3 года назад

      @@lydiakuffour996 same here

    • @akpulounlilian3471
      @akpulounlilian3471 3 года назад +1

      Me too

    • @bossb1195
      @bossb1195 3 года назад +17

      I beg to differ. Love is not something that you cook. You just happen to enjoy each other's company and the connection you guys have.... If a man loves you and see you as a woman who awken something in them, hey will marry you. There's no formula to marriage. Some had sex the same day they met and today they are happily marriage. Only God is the one who has a power to bless your relationship and only if you pray about it.. We are not robots. 🤦‍♀️

    • @Aritul
      @Aritul 3 года назад

      Thank you.

  • @dnicety3964
    @dnicety3964 4 года назад +84

    No I'm not ashamed to say marriage before sex. This how you weed out the bad guys.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo5865
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo5865 3 года назад

      She actually kept me so sad ever since I could not hear from you I was so boringI went to your store to see if I could see you there but I could not I have to come to your street nobody no you there what happened for so long

  • @ewuresisampson894
    @ewuresisampson894 4 года назад +150

    No. 2 saved me!!! And in less than 4 months I met the man God had created for me. Literally! The first guy just wanted to play around and waste my time. And I'm so glad I asked because he answered that his feelings had changed right after i told him i didn't want a sexual relationship ( well, not literally but he told me to forget everything he said about his feelings for me and was suddenly unavailable). By God's grace i was confident enough to walk away (it was hard I won't lie but definitely worth it) and now I'm in a dreamy Christian relationship.
    Never settle for less, God loves you and He has prepared the best for you. You might just have to wait.
    And sometimes you need to encounter the fake people to recognise the genuine ones.

    • @TheOlgad
      @TheOlgad 4 года назад +3

      Wow.. Ill wait

    • @ewuresisampson894
      @ewuresisampson894 4 года назад +2

      @@TheOlgad Please do. It'll be worth it

    • @TheOlgad
      @TheOlgad 4 года назад

      @@ewuresisampson894 thank you

    • @itohowobassey3624
      @itohowobassey3624 4 года назад

      Waoh

    • @lucyirogue9847
      @lucyirogue9847 4 года назад +2

      Very true ✅💯
      Do not settle for less
      And u encounter the wrong people to meet the Good ones
      Especially when u have faith and work with God ✅💯........

  • @naomiuyi8548
    @naomiuyi8548 4 года назад +265

    I'm 16, I started watching
    pastor k when I was 15
    My mummy Neva tells me anything about marriage/relationship. but since I started watching pastor k, 😊😊 I think I have a very wide knowledge of how it goes

    • @roylnekanaga2775
      @roylnekanaga2775 4 года назад +9

      We are together 😁😁 am 17 too

    • @emmanuellajaja3086
      @emmanuellajaja3086 4 года назад +3

      Me tooo

    • @graceibelegbu189
      @graceibelegbu189 4 года назад +17

      Very good for you.
      Wished I knew some things as a teenager.

    • @reshpresh987
      @reshpresh987 4 года назад +10

      Good for you young lady that's smart

    • @maziugochukwu6167
      @maziugochukwu6167 4 года назад +10

      You're luck to have this opportunity at this young age. When you think it's the time, show your mum this video. It will create that opportunity so you talk more about woman health, relationship and marriage with her.
      Shalom!

  • @salomekalu9032
    @salomekalu9032 3 года назад +126

    "You need a life before you can have a life partner" uhhhh that hit me right in the spinal cord!🙌🏼

    • @salomekalu9032
      @salomekalu9032 3 года назад +1

      @@kevinzadai1254 I REJECT IT IN JESUS NAME,AMENNN

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them +2348157400444 )tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.......

    • @nwaguchizoba4730
      @nwaguchizoba4730 3 года назад

      Don't be too available for a man ,l love that, some girls are like being too available will make a man love you more NO

  • @Blackquennie91
    @Blackquennie91 Год назад +15

    I'm now realizing that I always made almost all of these mistakes and most of the time, ended up being taken for granted! I'm glad to learn how I can better myself and build a healthier relationship.

    • @beckylove5023
      @beckylove5023 Год назад

      Same here but I never regret it because we are still together and I didn't care again because it pain me so bad

  • @obiebuka1152
    @obiebuka1152 4 года назад +77

    Thanks Pastor Kingsley for these wise counsels, but guys don't miss the point he said that this applies mainly to people who are not in a serious relationship. Don't injure your relationship trying to act unavailable when you know this guy truly loves you.

  • @maamejoannagh6240
    @maamejoannagh6240 4 года назад +123

    Don't give too much too soon, this one hit my heart so hard😭😭😭

    • @maamejoannagh6240
      @maamejoannagh6240 3 года назад

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo6242 God bless you Man of God, they've been so much of set backs, delay and a whole lot, I will be glad if i get your contact or e-mail.
      My time is now, I give God the glory.

    • @anitaoriakhi5084
      @anitaoriakhi5084 3 года назад

      Same here.

    • @osamafaith9335
      @osamafaith9335 Месяц назад

      Me too

  • @Jaycycar
    @Jaycycar 4 года назад +161

    I was a too fast, too soon kind of person and the results kept me devastated but this class has been more than helpful. God bless you pastor

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634 3 года назад +2

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them +2348157400444 )tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @luciasebastiao1751
      @luciasebastiao1751 3 года назад +1

      Thank you very much Pastor. God bless you for sharing the message im Blessing because i was giving too much too soon,
      I will follow your powerfull message

    • @agwuchinwe7333
      @agwuchinwe7333 3 года назад +1

      Exactly my sister and I think God just wanted me to see where I have made mistakes. I really bless God for you sir, for this piece.

    • @odudufavour1614
      @odudufavour1614 3 года назад

      Surely God will bless you sir, for helping me out🙏

    • @aanutosinbello4621
      @aanutosinbello4621 3 года назад +2

      Was that way too. Thank God I found God in a new dimension

  • @chidinmaobiekwe4192
    @chidinmaobiekwe4192 3 года назад +51

    I have been making horrible mistakes all these while, my heart is broken. may I find the right man . Amen

    • @henrywilson9022
      @henrywilson9022 3 года назад

      +2;3:4;9;0;5;6;5;3;9;0;0;1;whatsup her for any kind of help she can help you because I was once like that to and she help me out ,,,,,,,,

    • @jessicaoiuchiemmanuelleyou6754
      @jessicaoiuchiemmanuelleyou6754 2 года назад +1

      Sure sis, you'll definitely find the right person just don't forget to apply these wisdom tips here.

    • @dwightwhitaker1635
      @dwightwhitaker1635 2 года назад +1

      Jeremiah 29:11i know the thoughts I have for you not to harm but to give you hope and an expected end in Jesus name amen

  • @mamahkay6960
    @mamahkay6960 4 года назад +15

    I'm glad I listened to you before I got married now I have been married for over 5yrs and I'm enjoying my marriage. Your seminars amd mentoring has groomed me to be who I am. Thank you dadthy

  • @lucyirogue9847
    @lucyirogue9847 4 года назад +70

    Don’t open too much of your life to a Guy 👍💯✅( powerful point )
    Thanks for this sir
    👍🙏🏼💯

    • @kathrynk9231
      @kathrynk9231 4 года назад +1

      Mistake I made. The guy said sorry.. WOW I was shocked.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo5865
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo5865 3 года назад

      She actually kept me so sad ever since I could not hear from you I was so boringI went to your store to see if I could see you there but I could not I have to come to your street nobody no you there what happened for so long

  • @cynthiannamani5763
    @cynthiannamani5763 3 года назад +24

    "Be disciplined and remember what you want" this is for me

  • @marysonia6351
    @marysonia6351 4 года назад +70

    Can I say I'm stupid since all this while??
    Heaven knows I'm blessed with this words

    • @nerpaypayne9244
      @nerpaypayne9244 4 года назад +6

      No you're not stupid, however every mistake/mishap is a great time to renew one self and another chance to make your misopportunity a better one.

    • @chinyeregrace9706
      @chinyeregrace9706 2 года назад

      Your not stupid my dear,nobody is above mistakes

    • @henricavecham9260
      @henricavecham9260 2 года назад

      One of the greatest mistakes I made was `` being too available and given too much very soon"

    • @henricavecham9260
      @henricavecham9260 2 года назад

      God bless you pastor, I believe this words will change my life.

  • @datesquare8805
    @datesquare8805 Год назад +9

    God bless the relationship of anyone reading this message..

  • @funmiAire
    @funmiAire 4 года назад +68

    PK I am blessed. Thank you very much sir for blessing me with these words. I'm 27 and single and I feel like nothing is going on well for me, but I have come to realise that this is the time I should know myself well, trust me I am begining to know myself and love myself more and with this, I am indeed blessed and it will help me to grow more. I have obviously not been too behaved in my previous and hopefully in my next one I would have grown and i do better God's willing. Thank you and God bless you sir.

    • @KingFridayetal
      @KingFridayetal 4 года назад

      0Can8 we11 talk2 Olufunmilayo000? 179.

    • @winnieaisabor3825
      @winnieaisabor3825 3 года назад

      @@KingFridayetal smart one. Did you talk?

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634 3 года назад +2

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them +2348157400444 )tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634 3 года назад

      @@KingFridayetal Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favour with Anything you can afford or give to these motherless foundation (Godstime MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in kebbi state nigeria before 2DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them call the MD in charge of the orphanage to get their details on (WhatsApp or call them +2348157400444 )tell him I sent you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (zechariah 4:6). You shall testify to the Glory of God in your life. God bless you.

    • @beautyrevelation7940
      @beautyrevelation7940 3 года назад

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo8634 good morning pastor
      I just came across these video although ave been watching some of ur video. Pls is it possible to send u message on your watsapp line

  • @dnicety3964
    @dnicety3964 4 года назад +59

    When a guy said we are just friends. I reminded him daily when he wanted wifely duties from me. Then when he said lets take it slow as friends. I found myself on other dates and he became jealous. I ask him how can you be jealous if we are only friends. When i ask him to define our relationship, he called me a player so i blocked him. Eh imagine him calling me a player when he is dinning and impregnated others ladies. I beg

    • @deardiadem
      @deardiadem 3 года назад +7

      Smart move👏. He was the player btw. He got pissed cos you mirrored his behavior. Well done abeg🙌♥️

    • @antitonysmith
      @antitonysmith 3 года назад +1

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @angelamaxwell3111
    @angelamaxwell3111 4 года назад +29

    I thought i was ready for marriage, i thought i knew all i had to know before getting married but i realised i knew nothing since i started watching your videos😩 i always pray to God that i want to be a good wife and told Him to help me. I believe God made me came across your videos so i can be educated🙏 i have learnt a lot and still learning🤗 God almighty bless you sir🙏

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2368
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2368 3 года назад

      THE LORD BE WITH YOU CHILD OF GOD I DON'T KNOW YOU IN PERSON, BUT GOD KNOWS YOU MORE, GOD SHOWED ME A REVELATION WHEN I WAS ON YOU PROFILE TO SEE THINGS AROUND YOU MY DEAR, I SAW GOD'S FAVOUR, SUCCESS, JOY, BREAKTHROUGH, BEHIND THAT, I SAW MORE SPIRITUAL ATTACKS FROM THE ENEMIES, WORKING ON HOLDING SUCH BLESSINGS CAUSING YOU SET BACK M, BUT MY DEAR YOU ARE LIFTED ABOVE ANY SPIRITUAL TOWERS.SO THE LORD INSTRUCT ME TO TELL YOU TO SOW A SEED INTO A MOTHERLESS HOME (GOD'STIME MOTHERLESS BABY'S HOME). AND YOU SHOULD NOT LET ANY ONE KNOW ABOUT YOUR SEED SOWING, BECAUSE IS A CONVENANT SEED BETWEEN YOU AND GOD. THE LORD ASKED ME TO TELL YOU BEFORE THE END OF (3) THREE DAYS TO SOW INTO GOD'STIME MOTHERLESS BABY'S HOME (ORPHANAGE) SOME WHERE IN NIGERIA KEBBI STATE TO BRING SPIRITUAL AND DIVINE BREAKTHROUGH IN YOUR LIFE AND THAT OF YOUR FAMILY BECAUSE THERE I POWER IN SOWING,(DEU. 28:15) CONTACT THE M.D OF THE FOUNDATION ON WHATSAPP OR CALL (+2349055405979) DON'T JOKE WITH THIS PROPHECY, GOD BLESS YOU MY CHILD..

    • @angelamaxwell3111
      @angelamaxwell3111 3 года назад

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo2368 hmmmm I hear

    • @seyiademoye7828
      @seyiademoye7828 3 года назад

      Pastor Kingsley Okonkwo 🙄🙄🙄

  • @mbalosengoma4554
    @mbalosengoma4554 3 года назад +11

    Thank you for this Sir... I was in relationships where I gave too much too soon.. I thought being open, being there for a man and doing things for him was loving him and showing him I support but truly it has worked against me but now I know better cause Ive seen it all... I used to be pushed sometimes to do certain things to keep a man but now Ive set boundaries and standards and will stick by them...

  • @tee1736
    @tee1736 3 года назад +15

    i love how graceful he speaks such a sweet gentle voice no blaming no bashing just speaking gentle

  • @oyindamolaoyinloye7546
    @oyindamolaoyinloye7546 3 года назад +9

    Walahi! This relationship thing is tiring. It's like it's all about playing mind games..
    At the same time, I remember my last relationship at the beginning, and for a long while before everything went down south I was doing all of the things he listed without even realizing I was...
    I am here now watching all these videos because I was in that relationship for a long time and I don't know how to do it again( relationships)...
    Well, the best I can do for myself, for now, is to reevaluate my life(e.g. Invest in my appearance, mental stability and growth), focus on God and grow your faith in him because by so doing, makes you a high-value woman automatically and you will also attract a high-value man who will know what to do when he wants you...
    Cheers ladies!!!
    The wait will soon be over... let's keep faith 🤗

  • @opokuvictoria661
    @opokuvictoria661 4 года назад +65

    Who is here with me?

  • @jariatumconteh1159
    @jariatumconteh1159 2 года назад +5

    I made all this mistakes i wish I've heard this long before now but thanks be to God almighty for this wonderful massage

  • @Mex91
    @Mex91 4 года назад +43

    This message is very timely. It's exactly what I needed to hear. Pastor K, you answered all the questions I had in mind. Thank you so much.

  • @LoriasKitchen
    @LoriasKitchen 2 года назад +3

    “Stop giving husband benefits to your boyfriends” very good point 👌

  • @bestofmylovewhoahwhoah3239
    @bestofmylovewhoahwhoah3239 3 года назад +17

    Sadly, I have done all these mistakes...Praise God for the blood...and second chances...

  • @giftyagbodjan9400
    @giftyagbodjan9400 4 года назад +56

    We are here to learn another new thing in our lives. God bless u daddy

    • @esserenewalker4582
      @esserenewalker4582 4 года назад +2

      Good advice,.I like your counseling. Very knowledgeable

    • @charitydennisdennis1567
      @charitydennisdennis1567 3 года назад

      Am indeed bless with this message,I pray God give me the grace not to make a mistakes again 😭😭😭

  • @thembinkosimahemu223
    @thembinkosimahemu223 4 года назад +78

    I needed to hear this 😩😩😩😪💔😭
    I have acted desperate So many times

  • @TheOlgad
    @TheOlgad 4 года назад +13

    You have opened my eyes Pastor.
    There's too many mistakes we make as single women

    • @judgejaffett8751
      @judgejaffett8751 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you,Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you,.,

    • @doraho669
      @doraho669 3 года назад

      @@judgejaffett8751 may God punish you scammer

  • @preciousnwiyor9731
    @preciousnwiyor9731 3 года назад +10

    You are too good sir.
    This is one of the best relationships talk I have ever listened to.
    More grace to you sir

  • @graceg1844
    @graceg1844 3 года назад +12

    Who is still here to watch with me
    Dnt give too much
    Dnt be too available
    Be ready to walk away 😔😔😔
    Dnt be desperate
    Has hited so badly
    Thnks Pastor
    ☺️☺️new subbie

  • @NanaEkua593
    @NanaEkua593 3 года назад +8

    God bless you Sir.
    I'm a woman but I relate more with wanting my time alone. Instead of being the type who would want all the company and attention, i usually desire to have my time one,not talk all the time, have time to think about myself....
    Wow! I thought to myself " Why do I have the attributes of the man Pastor is describing"😂😂

    • @Minex_020
      @Minex_020 Год назад

      This actually relates to my case too.

  • @Enemart_4u
    @Enemart_4u 4 года назад +13

    Wow!! All this seems to be about me. Especially when you said we should let them earn the level of whatever we have to tell them. I do that a lot thinking that I’m being sincere
    but most times the end is tragic! Thank God I’ve learned this today. Thank you Sir for this teaching 🙏

  • @jeniferkpundeh8679
    @jeniferkpundeh8679 3 года назад +5

    True talk man of God sir ... men in fact takes advantage of being too available . May God have mercy and locate me with a God fearing husband

  • @anitaizontimi6852
    @anitaizontimi6852 Год назад +5

    Thanks pst K . I believe this could be applicable to most men too. I dated a man who called 5 to 6 times a day, wants me to tell him my schedules for the day, and comes to my place once he can't reach me on the phone. I was so suffocated, i was quickly walking into depression coz I had to explain every single tin. It only lasted a month, I had to end it for my sanity. Just coz we're togeda doesn't mean we have to be in each odas space all the time.

    • @Ad-Lo
      @Ad-Lo 11 месяцев назад

      That sounds scary!

  • @nkemontohpefu5759
    @nkemontohpefu5759 4 года назад +7

    God sent me here on time , thank you pastor , it's but true that what works for A might not work for B ,but it doesn't and shouldn't stop Us from learning . Thank you PK, God bless you and us all . Amen

  • @augustinaanthony2890
    @augustinaanthony2890 3 года назад +3

    Don't be too available is the point that hits me... sir am very blessed to be in this class.. my past relationships I was too available thinking I was being a caring .. but end up loosing the relationship.. now I have learned not to be too available..am sure in my next relationship I will be much better and matured enough... God bless you pastor

  • @efuaedjeani
    @efuaedjeani 4 года назад +73

    Point 1 alone has soo many lessons 🔥. God bless you, Pastor K

    • @herbee703
      @herbee703 4 года назад +4

      I tell you, that first one almost all women have made that mistake.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo5865
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo5865 3 года назад

      She actually kept me so sad ever since I could not hear from you I was so boringI went to your store to see if I could see you there but I could not I have to come to your street nobody no you there what happened for so long

  • @blessingifesinachi1406
    @blessingifesinachi1406 Год назад +4

    Pk is so right, thank God I listened to this now , would have fallen into his trap ... Thank you pastor 🙏 God bless you for this 💯

  • @lucycharles7316
    @lucycharles7316 3 года назад +1

    I am super bless today with this word,...stop giving a boyfriend what belongs to ur husband

  • @ewiemelda9251
    @ewiemelda9251 4 года назад +4

    I feel so comfortable now listening to you Pastor. God bless, I want to thank you so much. Am just experiencing heart broke right now, I pray for God's strength to move on.

  • @susan8576
    @susan8576 2 года назад +3

    Thank you Jesus for delivering me from situationships. Hallelujah 💃💃💃

  • @chidimmambonu6201
    @chidimmambonu6201 3 года назад +3

    I'm so glad I clicked on this particular topic because this explains everything that has been going on in my life for almost 2yrs in the name of relationship. Watching this gave me inner peace, and to know that me walking away was actually a right decision I made. God bless you sir.

  • @jenniferazuogbo7261
    @jenniferazuogbo7261 4 года назад +5

    Sir I can give him space for as long as I want,but I can't stop hearing from him when I want.

  • @judgeright2292
    @judgeright2292 3 года назад +2

    I gave too much too soon because I love to give and as your 7 tips says, he because unmounted cos there was nothing to chase
    I because desperate
    He overlooked my values
    But I give God the glory for destroying the relationship and letting him walk off why?
    Because he didn't deserve me and I indeed needed to learn and mature
    So something God uses these people to reveal Himself and purpose to us , once they gave disappointed us.
    Out if that relationship I learned how to get closer to God, I used to be naive and I no longer am , I am aware that I cannot take anyone to God and ask God to confirm them. I came at the end of myself n realised that scriptures that reads "there is a way that looks right onto a man but in the end leads to distraction ".
    I almost picked the wrong partner if it wasn't for God's intervention. Dibden I have been delivered, I have told God that until He reveals who my partner is to me, I would just assume that maybe I wasn't called to have a partner n I have different purpose to my desire. His will not mine. I do not trust my choice no longer. God has to decide for me now. N either way I feel satisfied with God. No matter how much tips we watch, and knowledge we consume , anything can happen. Everything is in God's hands, even after having to maintain the relationship Is a battle of its own.

  • @OmobolaOkeowo95
    @OmobolaOkeowo95 4 года назад +5

    Pastor...I’ve been listening to your sermons and relationships advice for a couple months now and wow!!!! You are so real, so helpful and so anointed. 🙌🏾This video in particular really cautioned and made me consider my ‘strategy’ with guys that show interest in me and of course, if the feeling is mutual. It’s so true that women can make themselves available too much and too soon! But it never gets a woman anywhere with their relationship with a man. Because of the way we are both designed. Man and woman are wired differently!!! Many blessings to you and your family. 🙏🏾❤️

  • @victoryukpong5847
    @victoryukpong5847 4 года назад +3

    So true sir, being too available makes men ignore, neglect and underrate women. True experience. I guess men comply and authenticate the law of utility.

  • @edowayeadenaiya685
    @edowayeadenaiya685 4 года назад +10

    I'm a single lady and I am like Adam to be honest. Even me I need my space sometimes. I understand your points sir and they're very much valid but why all these "games"? If you love each other or are aligned, why not just be?

    • @chikauzor6950
      @chikauzor6950 4 года назад

      Same thing I'm thinking o....I thought I was the only one uncomfortable about this...but I mean, he's experienced, so I won't throw anything he has said away.

    • @hannahafia1484
      @hannahafia1484 4 года назад

      I think it's more of a good strategy and less of a game.
      One of the reasons could be everyone doesn't think like you, even if it appears to be so on the surface. Just like any business, things may be superficially good at first but it doesn't mean they work out in the little details. Things may look harmless on the surface but are different as time passes. Emotions are simply just not enough. Ask anyone who has been hurt 😊
      I think it's just a way to secure your valuable time and emotions and to do your due diligence, as you would with a business. Saves everyone time and energy.

    • @IphieTheSlickBoss
      @IphieTheSlickBoss 4 года назад +1

      My dear, that's women think until their relationship hits the rock. Even while cooking, there are processes and procedures although all the ingredients are edible. Emotions need to be managed also. If you treat it anyhow, you will reap anyhow results.
      Rather than call it games, see them as strategies/ways of making the best out of your relationships.

    • @frodobaggins9474
      @frodobaggins9474 4 года назад +1

      Men or women, there are differences, just try understand your man, is he the type that likes distancing a while or is he the type that will think the distancing means you have someone else or not love him, and might not talk but silently decides to go away. Make the man to open up to his genuiness.

  • @akosuabaayeh3641
    @akosuabaayeh3641 4 года назад +6

    God bless you richly sir for sharing. Many mistakes has been made but thank God they don’t define us. There’s a change.

  • @RelationshipBuildersForum
    @RelationshipBuildersForum 4 года назад +11

    Great points you have made but it does not work exactly the same for some guys. A lady who is forthcoming with questions on why the relationship needs to be defined may be seen as desperate and too forward about the relationship.The main issue is that some ladies start relationship the wrong way; everything needs to be defined from the start before emotions are involved. Thank you for sharing.

    • @rehemambike6932
      @rehemambike6932 4 года назад

      Point one only have make me learn a lot thank you so much Pastor God bless you... ..

  • @jessicaoiuchiemmanuelleyou6754
    @jessicaoiuchiemmanuelleyou6754 2 года назад +3

    God bless you pastor K, I'm really a victim of these mistakes and I've really learnt my lessons. I wasn't this way all along but I just saw myself doing the opposite of me in my last relationship 🤦 and I regret everything.

  • @espoir3842
    @espoir3842 3 года назад +1

    Preach PK!!!!!
    You said it all. Points taken. This is not for people already in a serious relationship, It's for singles who already have someone they are interested in. Ladies don't give husband benefits to passers by, hungry broke ass boys and boyfriends! Lesson learnt!!😡

  • @chinesewithsarah8761
    @chinesewithsarah8761 2 года назад +1

    You are so right Sir, men like space, they get curious and try to do better when they notice some distance, most times he pissed you off and you come shouting, he will only tag you nagging but sometimes giving space is the best way to solve this because it gives him time to realize he hurts you and process on how to apologize.

  • @olayinkaestherbabalola5462
    @olayinkaestherbabalola5462 3 года назад +3

    Wow! Thank you so much sir. You just saved me from a great mistake. Overavailability is truly dangerous.

  • @chisomihuakuakakuru5861
    @chisomihuakuakakuru5861 4 года назад +5

    "Patience and process is the master of deception", too true. I once asked a "brother", who said he wanted a relationship, to come meet and know my parents. He broke Usain Bolt's 100m World record in the course of running 🤣🤣

    • @hazeltruth1044
      @hazeltruth1044 4 года назад +1

      May I say that if he was serious about you, he would be the one wanting to meet your parents before you even asked. But either way, his true intention was revealed.

    • @chisomihuakuakakuru5861
      @chisomihuakuakakuru5861 4 года назад +1

      @@hazeltruth1044 that's exactly the idea behind the invitation to sift the chaff from the wheat ASAP.

  • @edithwatetu1513
    @edithwatetu1513 4 года назад +9

    Woow this is the best relationship advice i have ever heard be blessed

  • @nanbyenpondun7074
    @nanbyenpondun7074 4 года назад +13

    Thank you so much sir,am still single but i know I'll find the right one cause am still young,i love those tips,I've made mistakes but I'll correct them by God's grace,is better late then never.

    • @lizbisieri4949
      @lizbisieri4949 4 года назад

      You are very deep
      I like the teaching pastor

  • @tawahtamba6838
    @tawahtamba6838 4 года назад +3

    Thanks pastor, this is my first time watching your movies, but to be frank with you, I really loved your advice and encouragement. I hope and pray we as single young ladies learned from this. Much love from my end pastor.

  • @opeyemieniolasanni2927
    @opeyemieniolasanni2927 3 года назад +8

    Thank you so much Pastor Kingsley this video made my day. I just got an encounter.

  • @aliciauzor9249
    @aliciauzor9249 2 года назад +1

    Pastor Kingsley, Your gift is truly a ministry!!! My prayer is that our faithful God, continues to Bless you, Your beautiful wife Pastor Mildred, and your entire family tremendously!!! You have no idea, or perhaps you do. The wisdom that you and your wife are sharing, is necessary for the Kingdom of God!! Continue enlightening and sharing your wisdom on marriage, relationships and the importance of prayer!! Blessings and favor to you always.

  • @masivuyenodali8622
    @masivuyenodali8622 3 года назад +1

    Outer and Inner Court. People must qualify for certain details in a relationship. Give details bit by bit. This has been really good.

  • @princessparagon5957
    @princessparagon5957 4 года назад +8

    Where have you been all my life.😩🙌 Am really blessed🙇‍♀️

  • @lucyirogue9847
    @lucyirogue9847 4 года назад +7

    Don’t be too available ✅💯 (Powerful point 🔥)

    • @lucyirogue9847
      @lucyirogue9847 3 года назад

      @@pastorkingsleyokonkwo6242 scammer .... whatever u said here is for you not me
      I’m covered with God’s Amor
      So go elsewhere

  • @BrittneyOputa
    @BrittneyOputa 4 года назад +4

    For long distance relationships help us pastor K... I know you don’t like ldrs BUT you’re an international pastor sure you have the anointing to help us in long distance relationships LDR

    • @omasheyeangela3271
      @omasheyeangela3271 4 года назад +1

      We sure do need it.

    • @beatricejackson399
      @beatricejackson399 4 года назад +1

      Sure we need it

    • @blessingsunday7704
      @blessingsunday7704 4 года назад +3

      I am in a long distance relationship and one thing I have come to understand is that you and the person you are dating should have one faith. Believe in Christ and once that is certain, then the next is, what is the foundation of your relationship? The bible says that THE LOVE OF CHRIST IS SHED ABROAD IN OUR HEART also GOD IS LOVE and who are you? YOU ARE MADE IN THE IMAGE OF GOD which means YOU ARE LOVE. When the Foundation of your relationship is the love of Christ, trust me, your relationship will go smoothly. Forgiveness, planning, communication, etc. will be easy. Communication is key. Strive to communicate everyday if possible, make plans together and always talk about them, pray and study together, etc. Build your relationship on God's word and all that will be filled on your lips is testimonies.
      I hope I was able to answer this question 😊

  • @rashidatukamara8182
    @rashidatukamara8182 3 года назад +2

    Oh my goodness! I can't believe that I am getting vital experience tonight, the second advise is what I am going to do exactly, because honestly I don't know where my relationship is going. I need to be confident, logical and bold in giving out what I needed from my relationship.

  • @obaapamargiesvlogs
    @obaapamargiesvlogs 3 года назад +4

    Can't stop crying 😭😭 I have done a big mistake 😭😭😭

    • @chinyeregrace9706
      @chinyeregrace9706 2 года назад +3

      Don't cry my sister,everybody have mistake including me so chill up and learnt from your mistakes ok

    • @katarzynalindner594
      @katarzynalindner594 2 года назад

      Exactly. Learn from life and proceed better netto time.

    • @n.vvernon9596
      @n.vvernon9596 2 года назад +1

      We women think with our hearts and not our heads it’s ok to cry lots of us are crying with you . We learn by experience

  • @ritaekpeyo5439
    @ritaekpeyo5439 4 года назад +5

    Hmm... This is too deep!!! Seeing Mistakes and taking correction. Thank you Pastor. God bless you.

    • @judgejaffett8751
      @judgejaffett8751 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you.Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you,

  • @tyowuaann5982
    @tyowuaann5982 3 года назад +2

    I'm going through a rough patch because I fell victim of all 4 and he still felt I didn't do enough. Walked away 3 days back, it's hard but I'm still walking and focusing more on self growth.

    • @zawadishiga1123
      @zawadishiga1123 3 года назад +1

      Same story...we will get there one day

    • @henrywilson9022
      @henrywilson9022 3 года назад

      +2;3:4;9;0;5;6;5;3;9;0;0;1;whatsup her for any kind of help she can help you because I was once like that to and she help me out ,,,,,,,,,,,

  • @Zoe-oe7wp
    @Zoe-oe7wp 2 года назад +1

    Oh lord help me apply this in my life,I recently went through something similar to what you are saying ,and I can attest to the fact you loose your value the moment you avail urself 2 much and surely they will take advantage.

  • @jeccym8715
    @jeccym8715 4 года назад +15

    After all I did for you killed me🤣🤣🤣🤣 , oh women, we suffer too much in the hands of men☺️

  • @vuyiemdlalose4865
    @vuyiemdlalose4865 3 года назад +3

    Thanks for that. I am so clingy and I am always available. But I have learned something new thanks for the information.

  • @beckykisaakye7593
    @beckykisaakye7593 3 года назад +1

    Thanks alot mr i was that fast but i ended up single with two kids on my own account but I don't blame anyone enven my kids dad because it was me who was stupid but i thank God 🙏🙏🙏 now i have time to know myself and my worth am about two years to make 30 but all i can say that being single and discovering your self and setting up your own rules makes you a better person

  • @Miraclemarriage
    @Miraclemarriage 4 года назад +2

    Wow !!!!!!!pastor k inspires me alot....He has even inspired me to have my own RUclips CHANNEL. ..God bless u for being a blessing to me and the society at large.

  • @samuellaantwi8059
    @samuellaantwi8059 4 года назад +3

    Manage your presence and remember what you want.

  • @GodsLady
    @GodsLady 4 года назад +1

    If only we ladies will heed to this voice... we would not be victims at all....God bless u Man of God

  • @ademolaayomikunbola9751
    @ademolaayomikunbola9751 4 года назад +2

    Be disciplined and remember what you want, don't get carried away

  • @irene19641
    @irene19641 4 года назад +7

    Appreciate these teachings and have shared with my daughter. Thank you for sharing Pastor.

    • @sylviemorgan9770
      @sylviemorgan9770 4 года назад

      It’s good that you shared with your daughter

    • @judgejaffett8751
      @judgejaffett8751 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you,Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you,.,

  • @abenaagyeiwaaacquah7671
    @abenaagyeiwaaacquah7671 4 года назад +7

    Ahhh as a woman to be frank this is difficult especially where you have to give space chai it makes you think about the guy too much even if you have something going in your life

    • @ntsakomavunda54
      @ntsakomavunda54 4 года назад

      so so true Lala😎 we need more grace_oo....I like wisdom number 3 that he gave us ..."Be disciplined' not easy but pays off

    • @fridayteresateresa8647
      @fridayteresateresa8647 4 года назад

      *_I was going through same thing but I decided to go God about everything when I am Alone I always Read Bible and and study it play worship songs and pray it doesn't matter if how feel like Read Bible or not just do it and your feelings will follow along_* be completed by yourself and not others learn to complete you be someone who makes you happy don't expect too much sometimes I turn off my phone just to

    • @ThestorytellerofKatunga
      @ThestorytellerofKatunga 4 года назад

      You better grow up and get busy with a hobby or something

  • @estherkando7932
    @estherkando7932 4 года назад +1

    Let people qualify for each level you open for them,that hit me on a different level.

    • @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2368
      @pastorkingsleyokonkwo2368 3 года назад

      THE LORD BE WITH YOU CHILD OF GOD I DON'T KNOW YOU IN PERSON, BUT GOD KNOWS YOU MORE, GOD SHOWED ME A REVELATION WHEN I WAS ON YOU PROFILE TO SEE THINGS AROUND YOU MY DEAR, I SAW GOD'S FAVOUR, SUCCESS, JOY, BREAKTHROUGH, BEHIND THAT, I SAW MORE SPIRITUAL ATTACKS FROM THE ENEMIES, WORKING ON HOLDING SUCH BLESSINGS CAUSING YOU SET BACK M, BUT MY DEAR YOU ARE LIFTED ABOVE ANY SPIRITUAL TOWERS.SO THE LORD INSTRUCT ME TO TELL YOU TO SOW A SEED INTO A MOTHERLESS HOME (GOD'STIME MOTHERLESS BABY'S HOME). AND YOU SHOULD NOT LET ANY ONE KNOW ABOUT YOUR SEED SOWING, BECAUSE IS A CONVENANT SEED BETWEEN YOU AND GOD. THE LORD ASKED ME TO TELL YOU BEFORE THE END OF (3) THREE DAYS TO SOW INTO GOD'STIME MOTHERLESS BABY'S HOME (ORPHANAGE) SOME WHERE IN NIGERIA KEBBI STATE TO BRING SPIRITUAL AND DIVINE BREAKTHROUGH IN YOUR LIFE AND THAT OF YOUR FAMILY BECAUSE THERE I POWER IN SOWING,(DEU. 28:15) CONTACT THE M.D OF THE FOUNDATION ON WHATSAPP OR CALL (+2349055405979) DON'T JOKE WITH THIS PROPHECY, GOD BLESS YOU MY CHILD...

  • @ayandantisana9945
    @ayandantisana9945 3 года назад +1

    Wow what a great teaching
    Be scarce ,dont be too available ...
    God bless u Ps K

  • @estherkabwe2739
    @estherkabwe2739 3 года назад +6

    Awesome.
    The only relationship you can ever have with someone is one you already have with yourself. What you can't do when you're single, you can't do in a relationship.
    This is a very poweful message.
    Now my question is, when you do all this, and you get into a relationship and you apply these principles and it works out.... what happens when you are married? As a woman, how do you make yourself relatively scarce to your husband without tempting him to cheat on you? Or does he not get emotionally drained no more once you're married?

    • @henrywilson9022
      @henrywilson9022 3 года назад

      +2;3:4;9;0;5;6;5;3;9;0;0;1;whatsup her for any kind of help she can help you because I was once like that to and she help me out ,,,,,,,,,

    • @ezemicaiah333
      @ezemicaiah333 3 года назад +2

      Good question ma.Being married differs from being in a relationship or being single.You don't make yourself "practically scarce" FOR YOUR HUSBAND.You only spice it up as you now belong to him totally.Firstly I believe our thoughts can become reality,never breed cheating thoughts,they will come,but target on building up your relationship with your husband sincerely without having "cheating" as the foundation.Marriage is a beautiful house,the only difference is the materials we all use to build it.Success ma.🎉❤

    • @estherkabwe2739
      @estherkabwe2739 3 года назад

      @@ezemicaiah333 thank you @eze micaiah

  • @muendanyisinthumule8403
    @muendanyisinthumule8403 4 года назад +6

    I am guilty of some things mentioned in this video. I lost a good man because of ignorance

    • @sylviemorgan9770
      @sylviemorgan9770 4 года назад +2

      Sorry about that,but we will learn from this platform

    • @judgejaffett8751
      @judgejaffett8751 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you.Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you,

    • @abenabecks
      @abenabecks 3 года назад

      @@judgejaffett8751 SCAMMER

  • @katekate7622
    @katekate7622 4 года назад +1

    Too much of anything is not good, neither extreme is good, being unavailable at crucial times will do as much damage as being too available. It all boils down to regulation, knowing when to stay away and when to move close, knowing when the closeness is just enough and then retreating and knowing when staying away will be interpreted as lack of care.

  • @deeron1554
    @deeron1554 3 года назад +2

    So good to hear a man's perspective. You have made so many valid points.

  • @winnersmiles5455
    @winnersmiles5455 3 года назад +7

    This was the right medicine I needed , thanks pastor K u really injected the facts & iam so grateful... Wow wow I pray this new year iam able to work with this teachings while hoping for the right partner.. Setting boundaries & defining what iam going into, not giving food made for kings to dogs, hmmmmm giving too much soon really hit me & this msg is an eye opener, help us lord

  • @eunicembangweta1595
    @eunicembangweta1595 4 года назад +18

    Hmmmm powerful learning is taking place thank you Sir may God increase you and give you more wisdom

    • @judgejaffett8751
      @judgejaffett8751 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you,Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you,.,

    • @eunicembangweta1595
      @eunicembangweta1595 3 года назад

      @@judgejaffett8751 you are a liar and a fraudster you are not pastor Kingsley

  • @mbolebridget121
    @mbolebridget121 4 года назад +4

    I bless God for your life and thanks for answering God's call. Through you, my life and mind has taken a new turn.

    • @judgejaffett8751
      @judgejaffett8751 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you,Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you,.,

  • @lusiamatavesi1177
    @lusiamatavesi1177 3 года назад +1

    I have been with a man like this way too needy and text me first thing in the morning through out his day and at work all day. Then he wanted to come to my place every weekend! I felt so suffocated by him and I got bored from him , he was way too needy and obsessed. I had to leave him , he still calls me but I've blocked worse person I've ever met!!

  • @digitalbimpetv
    @digitalbimpetv 4 года назад +8

    I needed this message . God bless you Sir

    • @judgejaffett8751
      @judgejaffett8751 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you,Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you,.,

  • @christabellmoses1068
    @christabellmoses1068 4 года назад +8

    Right timing Pastor !! I needed this🙏🏻🙏🏻 God Bless you 🔥🔥🙌🏻

    • @judgejaffett8751
      @judgejaffett8751 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you

  • @saimaanisshaikh7487
    @saimaanisshaikh7487 3 года назад +1

    And be yourself, whoever you are-as you are. And learn from self and others.

  • @joyceerusiafe6321
    @joyceerusiafe6321 4 года назад +7

    This is beautiful, I recently started watching your video's, wisdom every time especially for singles like me

    • @judgejaffett8751
      @judgejaffett8751 3 года назад

      Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you.Beloved, I don't know you in person but God knows you. God ministered to me in a revelation when I was on your profile to see things around you,I saw blessings but spiritual attacks holding onto them,in prayers,i saw a woman in the realm of the spirit monitoring and plotting delay in your life, with an evil mirror, and with a motive to destroy your future. But as I speak to you now her time is up, Render hand of favor with Anything you can afford or give to these New motherless foundation (Gods-TIME MOTHERLESS FOUNDATION) in Kebbi state Nigeria before 2 DAYS with faith, as I Rise my hands towards heaven and pray for you they shall serve as point of contact wherever you are, you will receive double portion of grace to excel and total restoration of breakthrough in your life and in the life of your family. Ask for their acct details and help them. Call the MD in charge of the orphanage (+234 807 051 4086) to get their details on (Whats-app or call them now on (+234 807 051 4086) or mail @: motherlessfoundation.115@gmail.com tell him I sent an you. For it is not by might nor by in power but of the spirit saith the lord (Zechariah 4:6). You shall testify the Glory of God in your life. God Bless you.

  • @umunyananicky9336
    @umunyananicky9336 3 года назад +8

    I feel very strong after hearing this 💕 you are millions time right sir 💕

  • @oluwabukunmimodupe9869
    @oluwabukunmimodupe9869 3 года назад +6

    if she is not too available, he is not too available, how will you spend time together and get to know each other well?

  • @abenjrpongen9429
    @abenjrpongen9429 3 года назад +1

    Was listening close to my ear and the first point making yourself too available what hit me.....no words to describe the truth

    • @anneamanda5766
      @anneamanda5766 3 года назад

      Wow l got this on the right time💪💪💪

  • @fabolousgaga3535
    @fabolousgaga3535 Год назад

    My Brother_______That's then and not now.
    New Generation new lifestyle that suits them