Marriage is one of those dynamics in life u can never prepare enough for. Instead you grow into it, same way water takes the shape of the bucket it fills
Her joy is not only that she married well, it is that she has such beautiful relationship with God which guides her to all truth and enables her to be in the chop life gang. How wholesome. John 14:16 AMPC
My mom has been married for 70 years. She told me to pray " ABBA Father; please bless with the man / woman that "YOU" have for me: and make that person that You will have me to be for that person , in the name of Jesus!!!! Meaning allow GOD to bless you with that relationship ( equally yoked in Him) be blessed.
Wow, I don't know how this ended up in my recommended videos, but I am grateful, thank you Jesus. I am not yet married, but this weighs heavy on my mind. Women always say, "Be with a man who loves you, more than you love him". But the Holy Spirit said to me, " You must marry a man who loves me, more than you or himself". If a man does not see himself as accountable to God for how he treats you, and conducts his household, and does not see you as precious as you are in the sight of God, he will do helter skelter all over you.
Preaching with conviction and confidence. There is nothing as attractive than seeing a person who has experienced God. May we all reach a level of hearing God's voice.
AT FIRST I MARRIED MYSELF I FOUND ME AND GOD SEND ME THE SECOND ME JUST SOMEONE WHO IS MY MIRROR WHEN I STAND INFRONT OF THE MIRROR I SEE HIM WHEN I LOOK INTO HIS EYES I SEE GOD HE IS JUST THE RIGHT PERSON WHO MATCHES MY PRAYERS AND ALL I CAN SAY IS THANK U LORD AND THE BEST THING IS THAT I AM KIND AND HE IS KINDER ❤❤🙏🔥🔥
The best comment I’ve read so far. Tbh better than the video. You are to live your life & allow God to be your everything in all you do & THEN as they say when you least expect it, that person will come. I’m sorry but I’m a first generation abroad African in my immediate family & I do not like the African mentality when it comes to marriage. Nobody talks about cultivating the season before the person. That’s the most crucial moment of your life. If you don’t take care of that when you do get into a relationship and now start to work on you, that union will struggle. Don’t wait until you find love & then you haven’t dealt with your own issues during your single season. There’s a time and a place for everything. Work on NOW and be patient for when you get THERE
I can relate to the story of God not saying anything after praying. The pastor at church had even told me "my daughter do not let that (his name) plant his bad seed in you." I still went ahead with that person... Hmmmm.... The person now started showing me pepper. God saved me and set me free after fasting and praying. I am now where God had ordained me to be and I am much much happier and more productive. God sure always has better for us💃❤️🙏
"Marriage is the quality of the people in the marriage." "You may be great but if the person you are joining with is bad, that marriage will not work." "choose well" is the first secret to a great marriage. "If you marry wrong, na you go suffer." Mrs Kingsley-Okonkwo making ALL levels of sense and speaking wisdom. She surely is made for us. We Learn with each day spent with her.
Woow. What a message. Wisdom on two feet. That was more prophetic mighty woman. So inspirational and uplifting. May God keep you for this generation as you continually lead them on the Kings High Way.
Ladies, let us also not forget that for the believers as well, you shall know them by their fruits. There are very many fake brethren posing as believers in the church.
It’s how pastor k looks at his beautiful wife! Especially at the time of her testimony 💕💕💕 he is sooo proud and in love! May God bless me with a husband that looks at me the same way and treats me with so much love! Thank you so much pastor Mildred and pastor Kingsley!!! My soul has been fed!!! I am free
Pastor k reciprocates the love he’s wife exudes , it’s ok to want a man who loves and treasures you but do you love your selves enough to show love to some one to show that back ?
You don't need to know too much about marriage. Too much knowledge about marriage is one of the tricks the devil uses to destroy marriage. If you've known too much, you won't be 20 years in marriage.
The main thing: LISTEN TO SOUND ADVICE. Most people in bad relationship/marriage is bc they didnt listen to their spirit, counsel or parents/friends/family.. or even this video. To have better is to do better 🥰🥰
Many of us lie to ourselves for long and ignore the signs that we are on the wrong path, because of those flimsy things...Thank God for grace, some of us still get lucky as God pulls us to where he wants us to be, so we can fulfill destiny...strong preaching🙏🏽🥰
That is were, people are getting it wrong, please let us try & understand, the difference between human nature & prayer, every thing does not done by prayer alone, non changed by prayer There are things u hv to changed bf praying, which helps prayers to work & attract unending blessing Which is CHARACTER, let's hv a wonderful & a good character bf praying, which will help prayers to work perfectly Amen!
People go into marriage thinking to GAIN. Be ready to give everything without expecting ANYTHING. If u get back that is fine. If you don't that is still fine. Give free. For God so loved his son... Nothing like choosing well. Everybody is good.
very true. Develop a personal intimate relationship with God so when it comes to marriage you are already used to God's voice and He will direct you in marriage. Don't wait for marriage to want to hear God for the first time
That’s what I used to think but listening to this message it’s actually the easiest . All u have to do His pray and have a pure heart without inequities and God will guide u.
@@Agri-prenueur exactly what truly separates us from that is Sin. As long as we abide in God and He abides in us . The Holy Spirit will always guide us
I wish I hade a mother like you before going into marriage. My mother made me choose the wrong choice and I'm going through a whole lot. She herself is also disturb by the problems, but there is nothing she can do. I'm trying to come out of it but not that easy. My fellow singles please listen ok
The only way a praying person won’t suffer in a marriage is not to marriage the person, or if you marry the wrong person, if you Marry the wrong person it will hinder your prayer life. It would have to be equally yoke
Choose well. WHO IS SINGLE? bruhh listen to this minister. It will save you from many hurt and pain. Even if you think it will work out somehow. It may take years if at all. A hardened heart can be that way for a loooooooonng time, so it's less difficult marrying someone who believes like you. 👍 flee from stubbornness, rebelliousness, lust, fornication! In Jesus mighty and precious name 🙏 ✨
I will always say work on yourself before marriage. People get married and dont even know who they are, what they like, cant even speak for themself. Selfcare is important. How can I be married and love someone when I can't do that for myself.
@@kellywilson3232 Spirit filled believers and wicked o not mix. Many are religious people like the Pharisees in the Bible. True sons and daughters of God will display fruit
If you get married to the "right person" you can work through the marriage. No marriage is perfect. However, if you are married to a broken person/ abusive person you can try everything it will not work no matter what you do. If it is two whole people and God is truly in both of you there is much hope. CHOOSE WELL OO. I knew something was wrong with my ex husband the red flags were there and I ignored it. Alot of red flags. Mistake I have to live with, but a lesson I learned and now I can help other women know the signs and save a life.
Pray about, the Bible says if a believing woman marries an unbelieving man. The believing woman might be saving her husbands soul. The verse is somewhere in the new testament. Maybe God sent you into that relationship for a reason.
@@xolisilemnguni1358 that verse is only applicable if you are already married and later become a believer, and your spouse isn't. That's when the Grace is there. Choose well from the start
This woman is attacking the devil in marriages! You’re protecting our lineage, and preserving legacies!! Ahhhh!!! Woman of God, you’re a blessing. I’m so glad I came across this page- love from South Africa:JHB.
I didn’t marry a God fearing man, I am married less than a year and I am in agony. WALK IN OBEDIENCE SISTERS. Listen sisters, in the name of Christ, listen! I’m burdened by my marriage
Have u prayed ??? Prayed for your husband and yourself and your marriage… she just said the choice of how your marriage will turn out is up to you… your prayer can turn your husband to God and change your miserableness into happiness!!
@@Ras_Spinoza there is no such thing as the prayer didnt work… prayer always works… If you dont see an answer to your prayer … maybe you should change the prayer : instead of “Father change my husband” you could pray “Father show me how to treat and honour my husband for him to fall in love with you the way i have” “Father Show me how to humbly submit to my husband for him to see You God in me” “Father you hold the heart of the king and u order it in any direction it should go, father turn my husbands heart to you” God answers all prayers sometimes its not what we wanted to hear or wanted to see but rather what we needed. Pls dont downplay the power of prayer!!
@@maureenmango7829 my darling it is hard but God will never give u what u cant handle… the bible says pray without ceasing… meaning pray without stopping even when ur tired and u cant take it anymore keep praying.. even when it looks hopeless keep praying…. He will come through
Sister, I am Muslim and enjoyed your lessons..as in Islam we women also want to marry a practicing Muslim man and choose well. Beautiful lecture sister.
Hello Sister, I enjoyed the teaching as well and was throughly blessed, but you have to remember that she made mentions of being born again; which means to give your life to and become a new person in Jesus Christ. It is those who are sons and daughters of God that will be led by God. Please give your heart to Jesus, He loves you and is willing to help you. Remain blessed!!
@@ebunehinmowo8610 Respectfully, she is Muslim and has her own faith tradition. She gave a nice compliment. It's wonderful you are strong in faith. I am Catholic. We don't all have to be of the SAME faith to learn lessons. That fact that our Muslim Sister is even here at all and found benefit is a GOOD THING. I'm Catholic and found benefit, also a GOOD THING. Christianity is not a forced issue. not 8n the time of Jesus and not now. As Christians let us just appreciate our Muslims Sister's interest in the subject matter. GOD bless you+
Hello Sister, You are welcome. I read a response from someone who I felt lacked sensitivity. So I made a comment. I hope that you will take aiment to read it.
Asalam alaikum Sis. I appreciate your religious mentality so much such that all we needed was the message and learn from it. Cos knowledge benefits the believer. Much love
Believers too face a lot of difficulties being different and thinking different but the core is they can easily be caution and they will listen because they fear God
My opinion is the singles want to marry and the married single. I was engaged many times over, playing house. Now I conclude I'm good and need to get to know and appreciate myself. After accessing the past situations, I was codependent and afraid to be alone. However, I'm good, as a single independent, intelligent individual with Godly wisdom and purpose. And as a Christian, I'm not fornicating while single.
@@Anabee399 please don’t let this be your final decision. God said in the Bible that it’s not good for man to be alone. We have been designed for God not to be lonely. I used to think that I didn’t need a man but the truth is that deep in my heart I actually wanted someone, there’s a loneliness u feel even when God is in the picture. God as created a man for every woman so our prayer is that He guides us to Him, and we are able to be filled spiritually and hear what God is saying. If we can pray and hear God we won’t have to pass through the pains and troubles. Please don’t say u don’t want to be in one bcus it might just come true, God won’t move for u unless you call on Him and tell him what you want. I have seen what it feels like to grow old lonely and I don’t pray that for anyone and neither does God want that for anyone.
@@eileenwatt8283 please read my reply and don’t wish that. We have been designed by God not to be lonely. He will surely bring the right personal that will bring Joy and happiness to you
I stumbled on this video. Hearing her speak I know I have to listen to the very end. Am richly blessed listening to you ma. God bless you in Jesus name🙏 Nothing as beautiful as hearing from God before marriage or anything we want to venture into. Its gives a beautiful experience & brings life full of bliss. Ooh singles pls don’t take this for granted. When I wanted to marry, I knew I must not marry an unbeliever. I thank God today. He lead me to the right path. Glory to God🙏
Pastor Mildred, your story touches me. There is a certain way I connect to you when you teach❤. Getting council from you and Pastor Kingsley would be an honour🙏. I desire to listen from God and to live in accordance to His will for my life. May you continue to experience the great hand of God. Love💕 from Zambia 🇿🇲
Yes pastor Mildred, there's satisfaction in knowing and serving God. We prosper, whether in little or much. This joy that I have, the world didn't give it, the world can't take it! It is a chop life sontin- if you know you know😁
Can two walk together except they agree? This is a true saying, worthy of all acceptation! We become what we give our time to! The only addiction with a positive side effect…the daily reading and obedience of God’s word! Enough said!!!
Young ladies listen to this message very well,it has great impact in your life ,she is telling you the right thing, don't grow inside marriage, choose wise for your life partner for your own good.
Testimony, pastor K and M through this counselling and coaching lam here tell Everyone listening to you that the power of prayers is true God will answer you either in a dream or scripture or a voice will talk deep within you so loud. Marriage is Gods work is only him who can repair and renew it. Continue praying even after he answer your prayer. Exodus 17 we saw the Israelites winning each time they pray and when they stop they loose carry-on with our mighty God. Patience pays and carry all your confusion to him he will help u to sort it well only if you are willing.
What she did in the end of her sermon touched me greatly. 🙏🏻 She made an alter call which is not common anymore in the church. Thank you my dear sister. 🙏🏻
Thank you for the reminder that I am a supernatural being & therefore cannot depend on the counsel of the wicked , what a powerful & a scarce teaching that lifts the name of Jesus ... Your sense of humour # blessed.
Jes! You don’t have to beat yourself up🙏 you were meant to work through this to come out strong. Many pastors home are on fire and a lot are broken up. Jesus loves you and I love you too😍 it’s God that knows the end from the beginning.
very inspirational and many truths ..we are all in different situations and only hope that we can have the oppounity to make things right and give HIM the praise ..its great to hear this couple experience and they are truly blessed as many are not including myself with such bad choices and even now i pray i dont ruin the one i love ..thx for this sharing blessing to you both
My eyes re open, Lord help me to marry someone who knows You in Jesus Christ name Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏... Thank You pastor Mrs Okonkwo..... How did I get here.... Thank You Lord.
Wish I had listened to this before marriage. Singles don’t take this for granted!!!….
Yes it's true
Yes true
No regret nana, you can still enjoy that man
Let me listen
I know hey, but I'm getting out, been separated for 3months, I've tried it's not working, he breaks my spirit because he is dead, thank you Ps Mildred
Marriage is one of those dynamics in life u can never prepare enough for. Instead you grow into it, same way water takes the shape of the bucket it fills
Good insight.
AMEN!!!
So true
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How not to make mistakes in choosing a life partner.
1. Choose Well
2. Hear God
3. Get Counsel
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Amen and amen
1, Hear God
2, seek counsel
3, then choose
In that order . God bless
@@theycallmegbayi exactly, God first
1. God's counsel
Great reminder!
What hit me was when she said , "nice is not a fruit of the spirit" like that got me at a spot.
Thank you ma🙏
Welllllllll….. isn’t nice a synonym for kindness.
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@@tearakasiyamhuru1614 True. ruclips.net/video/yGGTj93Z29I/видео.html
@@kinglordehud True. ruclips.net/video/yGGTj93Z29I/видео.html
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"The only things that are hard are the things you don't know." That's a word 🙌🏽
That's the first point I picked 😃
Wooow
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Her joy is not only that she married well, it is that she has such beautiful relationship with God which guides her to all truth and enables her to be in the chop life gang. How wholesome. John 14:16 AMPC
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I am happily married and I thank God for that 🙏🏾
Congratulations.I pray for the same for me too
@@blessedsoul949 Amen 🙏🏾
I cover your marriage with the blood of Jesus😄
Excellent..Stay strong 💓😘💪🙏💯♥️ruclips.net/video/RoQyZRWIenY/видео.html
@@thebibletalesTV awesome 👍👍💓💯.ruclips.net/video/RoQyZRWIenY/видео.html
This video must go viral in the mighty name of Jesus.
What a word!
True. ruclips.net/video/yGGTj93Z29I/видео.html
Awesome education
My mom has been married for 70 years.
She told me to pray " ABBA Father; please bless with the man / woman that "YOU" have for me: and make that person that You will have me to be for that person , in the name of Jesus!!!! Meaning allow GOD to bless you with that relationship ( equally yoked in Him) be blessed.
I will get marriage to the right person in Jesus name 🙏
Me too amen 🙏🏾
Same here.AMEN
Amen
Amen 🙏 Bring it in prayer to God, Trust Him, Hope in Him, have Faith and Trust the process what I mean by this, is be patient.
Same here, me too
Wow, I don't know how this ended up in my recommended videos, but I am grateful, thank you Jesus. I am not yet married, but this weighs heavy on my mind.
Women always say, "Be with a man who loves you, more than you love him". But the Holy Spirit said to me, " You must marry a man who loves me, more than you or himself". If a man does not see himself as accountable to God for how he treats you, and conducts his household, and does not see you as precious as you are in the sight of God, he will do helter skelter all over you.
Amen 🙏🏾
💯 the love of God restrains, I have seen that even in my life.
Someone who is accountable to God is number one for me
May God help me to find someone who loves him and fears him
Thank you very much sister
Preaching with conviction and confidence. There is nothing as attractive than seeing a person who has experienced God.
May we all reach a level of hearing God's voice.
Amen
Word🙌🙌
Amen
I'm blessed
Amen 😢
This is so true, when married to someone that doesn't have same qualities as yours it's like using basket to fetch water.
Thank you
Much love from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼
this lady speaks to singles with love and pain of a mother to her dotas am always blessed by her teachings🙏🙏🙏blessing pastor mildred
AT FIRST I MARRIED MYSELF I FOUND ME AND GOD SEND ME THE SECOND ME JUST SOMEONE WHO IS MY MIRROR WHEN I STAND INFRONT OF THE MIRROR I SEE HIM WHEN I LOOK INTO HIS EYES I SEE GOD HE IS JUST THE RIGHT PERSON WHO MATCHES MY PRAYERS AND ALL I CAN SAY IS THANK U LORD AND THE BEST THING IS THAT I AM KIND AND HE IS KINDER ❤❤🙏🔥🔥
How did you married yourself
You are to be married to Jesus first
Woow great testimony.I pray to find such a man too
The best comment I’ve read so far. Tbh better than the video. You are to live your life & allow God to be your everything in all you do & THEN as they say when you least expect it, that person will come. I’m sorry but I’m a first generation abroad African in my immediate family & I do not like the African mentality when it comes to marriage. Nobody talks about cultivating the season before the person. That’s the most crucial moment of your life. If you don’t take care of that when you do get into a relationship and now start to work on you, that union will struggle. Don’t wait until you find love & then you haven’t dealt with your own issues during your single season. There’s a time and a place for everything. Work on NOW and be patient for when you get THERE
Awesome 😎👍ruclips.net/video/RoQyZRWIenY/видео.html
I can relate to the story of God not saying anything after praying. The pastor at church had even told me "my daughter do not let that (his name) plant his bad seed in you." I still went ahead with that person... Hmmmm.... The person now started showing me pepper. God saved me and set me free after fasting and praying. I am now where God had ordained me to be and I am much much happier and more productive. God sure always has better for us💃❤️🙏
Glory to God ooh 🙌🏽
Thank God you are happy and free.
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me and you are just the same... thank God for you my sister am still single and taking care of the kids alone, oga is gone with another woman
@@annathembani7290 oh Lord!
May God continue to grant you ladies the grace 🙏🏽
"Marriage is the quality of the people in the marriage."
"You may be great but if the person you are joining with is bad, that marriage will not work."
"choose well" is the first secret to a great marriage.
"If you marry wrong, na you go suffer."
Mrs Kingsley-Okonkwo making ALL levels of sense and speaking wisdom. She surely is made for us. We Learn with each day spent with her.
Woow. What a message. Wisdom on two feet. That was more prophetic mighty woman. So inspirational and uplifting. May God keep you for this generation as you continually lead them on the Kings High Way.
Yes 💯♥️
Ladies, let us also not forget that for the believers as well, you shall know them by their fruits. There are very many fake brethren posing as believers in the church.
Sooo True
So true. Those fake brethrens are worse than those acclaimed bad guys.
If your real you will identify real my dear deep calleth unto deep
That na there real koko....so many people pose as believers only to fall hands. Truth is believers make mistake ba God dey with u.
I believe you 100% my lovely
It’s how pastor k looks at his beautiful wife! Especially at the time of her testimony 💕💕💕 he is sooo proud and in love! May God bless me with a husband that looks at me the same way and treats me with so much love! Thank you so much pastor Mildred and pastor Kingsley!!! My soul has been fed!!! I am free
as in ehn. it is obvious that he is proud of her.
Pastor k reciprocates the love he’s wife exudes , it’s ok to want a man who loves and treasures you but do you love your selves enough to show love to some one to show that back ?
I was thinking the same thing!!! They are a match made in heaven and they make the kingdom of God glad
honestly am 20 yrs in marriage but am just understanding marriage now. Thanks mama
Wow!
You don't need to know too much about marriage. Too much knowledge about marriage is one of the tricks the devil uses to destroy marriage. If you've known too much, you won't be 20 years in marriage.
@@brendawells8852 my people perish for lack of knowledge....
@@brendawells8852 I don't understand your comment, Ma'am.
@@maureenoluwatobi 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The main thing: LISTEN TO SOUND ADVICE. Most people in bad relationship/marriage is bc they didnt listen to their spirit, counsel or parents/friends/family.. or even this video. To have better is to do better 🥰🥰
I'll get married to the right person in Jesus Name 🙏🏻😭
right person exist only in Heaven Not on the planet earth.
Amen
Amen
Me too. Amen
Amen
Many of us lie to ourselves for long and ignore the signs that we are on the wrong path, because of those flimsy things...Thank God for grace, some of us still get lucky as God pulls us to where he wants us to be, so we can fulfill destiny...strong preaching🙏🏽🥰
Christianity is not about changing behaviour, but the nature is changed.
Not the camera zooming into pastor K after pastor M said "anoint him for he is the one." The look on his face was everything 🤣
A praying person will not suffer in marriage. Those scriptures in Isaiah are eye opening. Thank you so much PM💕
I see the good evening uuiiiipiygfffffffffnloiutiklllplllppp
James 1 vs 3
New International Version
3 because you know that the testing of your faith(A) produces perseverance.(B)
That is were, people are getting it wrong, please let us try & understand, the difference between human nature & prayer, every thing does not done by prayer alone, non changed by prayer
There are things u hv to changed bf praying, which helps prayers to work & attract unending blessing
Which is CHARACTER, let's hv a wonderful & a good character bf praying, which will help prayers to work perfectly Amen!
My dear sister please it's not like that, most of this happens to Christian.
@@mbagwukingsleychibuike8617 The right kind of prayer will change your character.
Love from SA🇿🇦 your accent makes this message powerful and fun 😂❤️
Aaah sis, the accent is one of the best parts 👌🏿
@@dineosedibe8128 kere bona 🔥👌🏾
I love Nigerian accent too.love from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
Indeed 💯👌
@@melsaotieno1234 hi
People go into marriage thinking to GAIN. Be ready to give everything without expecting ANYTHING. If u get back that is fine. If you don't that is still fine. Give free. For God so loved his son... Nothing like choosing well. Everybody is good.
This is the deepest message I've heard. Thank you thank you. Don't be equally yoked with a non-believers. That's my take
Choosing well is where the problem lies.
Lets be realistic, its difficult.
Just hear God, let him choose for you.
very true. Develop a personal intimate relationship with God so when it comes to marriage you are already used to God's voice and He will direct you in marriage. Don't wait for marriage to want to hear God for the first time
That’s what I used to think but listening to this message it’s actually the easiest . All u have to do His pray and have a pure heart without inequities and God will guide u.
Thats why we were given a helper the Holy Spirit to help us discern and give us wisdom
@@Agri-prenueur exactly what truly separates us from that is Sin. As long as we abide in God and He abides in us . The Holy Spirit will always guide us
I wish I hade a mother like you before going into marriage. My mother made me choose the wrong choice and I'm going through a whole lot. She herself is also disturb by the problems, but there is nothing she can do. I'm trying to come out of it but not that easy. My fellow singles please listen ok
Listening! I’m now single after a 5 year relationship, engagement and planning a wedding for 2021.
Hmm.. May God give you strength
Watching all the way from South Africa. Be blessed Pastor M. You're a sound teacher of the Word. 👏🏽
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I really enjoyed this message
@@mathewosayande4144 true. ruclips.net/video/MX8yfJt88Mo/видео.html
hi
I wish I started watching her videos long before now…..😢 but I trust in God I strongly believe that there’s nothing God cannot do😇
I found out about you today. Much love from Kenya. Very powerful message.
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Team +254 representing
Happy here from Kenya too.....This woman is blessed....
Kenyans everywhere 😂😂😂
Am a Kenyan too, found this today
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I agree a praying person cannot suffer in marriage
The only way a praying person won’t suffer in a marriage is not to marriage the person, or if you marry the wrong person, if you
Marry the wrong person it will hinder your prayer life. It would have to be equally yoke
Amen
I wish everyone listens to this before getting married, unfortunately it is too late for me but if u got the chance,please listen!
I wish l listened too..
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Choose well. WHO IS SINGLE? bruhh listen to this minister. It will save you from many hurt and pain. Even if you think it will work out somehow. It may take years if at all. A hardened heart can be that way for a loooooooonng time, so it's less difficult marrying someone who believes like you. 👍 flee from stubbornness, rebelliousness, lust, fornication! In Jesus mighty and precious name 🙏 ✨
I will get married happily to the right person soon if JESUS says so in JESUS Mighty name, AMEN!
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Amen amen
African American preparing to be a Naiji (yoruba) wife! Thank you for this!
Her husband's eyes glows anytime he looks at her. That's the fruit of the spirit ☺️
I will always say work on yourself before marriage. People get married and dont even know who they are, what they like, cant even speak for themself. Selfcare is important. How can I be married and love someone when I can't do that for myself.
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Some time the Christian them worse than the unbelievers
Please some Christian in law is very wicked
@@kellywilson3232 Spirit filled believers and wicked o not mix. Many are religious people like the Pharisees in the Bible. True sons and daughters of God will display fruit
Amen, I will have a great marriage, in Christ
God ministered to me through this message. Thanks so much ma.
If you get married to the "right person" you can work through the marriage. No marriage is perfect. However, if you are married to a broken person/ abusive person you can try everything it will not work no matter what you do. If it is two whole people and God is truly in both of you there is much hope. CHOOSE WELL OO. I knew something was wrong with my ex husband the red flags were there and I ignored it. Alot of red flags. Mistake I have to live with, but a lesson I learned and now I can help other women know the signs and save a life.
Of a truth this woman is bible based believer to the core. She teaches the bible raw raw. She knows who she believes. More grace ijn.
I really love your teaching, I am at the verge of marrying a nun believer, and this sermon is heading deep in my spirit
Pray about, the Bible says if a believing woman marries an unbelieving man. The believing woman might be saving her husbands soul. The verse is somewhere in the new testament.
Maybe God sent you into that relationship for a reason.
@@xolisilemnguni1358 that verse is only applicable if you are already married and later become a believer, and your spouse isn't. That's when the Grace is there. Choose well from the start
@@xolisilemnguni1358 that scripture refers to those MARRIED already
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My sister run for your life...You'll have years of tears. Look at Devon Franklin and Mega Good's marriage!
This woman is attacking the devil in marriages! You’re protecting our lineage, and preserving legacies!! Ahhhh!!! Woman of God, you’re a blessing. I’m so glad I came across this page- love from South Africa:JHB.
She explained what marriage is all about In a way I've never heard. Thks for this pastor Mildred
I love me some Mildred🙌 No sugar coating
Who has the remote??? Wow!
i thank God that i married well.
Thanks for free teachings. Watching from Kenya 🇰🇪
'Nice is not even a fruit of the Spirit.' 😭
That really slapped 🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥
I didn’t marry a God fearing man, I am married less than a year and I am in agony. WALK IN OBEDIENCE SISTERS. Listen sisters, in the name of Christ, listen! I’m burdened by my marriage
Have u prayed ??? Prayed for your husband and yourself and your marriage… she just said the choice of how your marriage will turn out is up to you… your prayer can turn your husband to God and change your miserableness into happiness!!
I’m burdened with mine too beyond I have prayed but it’s too much
@@daphnehammond8054 Yes she prayed and Prayers didn't work, it has never worked..
@@Ras_Spinoza there is no such thing as the prayer didnt work… prayer always works… If you dont see an answer to your prayer … maybe you should change the prayer : instead of “Father change my husband” you could pray “Father show me how to treat and honour my husband for him to fall in love with you the way i have” “Father Show me how to humbly submit to my husband for him to see You God in me” “Father you hold the heart of the king and u order it in any direction it should go, father turn my husbands heart to you” God answers all prayers sometimes its not what we wanted to hear or wanted to see but rather what we needed. Pls dont downplay the power of prayer!!
@@maureenmango7829 my darling it is hard but God will never give u what u cant handle… the bible says pray without ceasing… meaning pray without stopping even when ur tired and u cant take it anymore keep praying.. even when it looks hopeless keep praying…. He will come through
I don't know how I got here but you just changed my life for good.
Thank you Ma for this message.
Oyaaaaa 💃💃Pst Mildred always on point
She mixes pidgin n English together n she still dey make sense
Sister, I am Muslim and enjoyed your lessons..as in Islam we women also want to marry a practicing Muslim man and choose well. Beautiful lecture sister.
Hello Sister,
I enjoyed the teaching as well and was throughly blessed, but you have to remember that she made mentions of being born again; which means to give your life to and become a new person in Jesus Christ. It is those who are sons and daughters of God that will be led by God. Please give your heart to Jesus, He loves you and is willing to help you. Remain blessed!!
@@ebunehinmowo8610 Respectfully, she is Muslim and has her own faith tradition. She gave a nice compliment. It's wonderful you are strong in faith. I am Catholic. We don't all have to be of the SAME faith to learn lessons. That fact that our Muslim Sister is even here at all and found benefit is a GOOD THING. I'm Catholic and found benefit, also a GOOD THING. Christianity is not a forced issue. not 8n the time of Jesus and not now. As Christians let us just appreciate our Muslims Sister's interest in the subject matter. GOD bless you+
Hello Sister, You are welcome. I read a response from someone who I felt lacked sensitivity. So I made a comment. I hope that you will take aiment to read it.
Asalam alaikum Sis. I appreciate your religious mentality so much such that all we needed was the message and learn from it. Cos knowledge benefits the believer. Much love
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Believers too face a lot of difficulties being different and thinking different but the core is they can easily be caution and they will listen because they fear God
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Because some people think marrying a believer is express.
No, challenges are attached.
Just that the God factor is there to stabilize things.
It’s a great thing that someone recognised the plurality of marriage. Only two can play the game
I think this is one of the ways God is talking to me because I just stumbled on this message and really thought provoking 🤔
“ Nice is not even a fruit of the spirit” Preach it mama🔥
My opinion is the singles want to marry and the married single. I was engaged many times over, playing house. Now I conclude I'm good and need to get to know and appreciate myself. After accessing the past situations, I was codependent and afraid to be alone. However, I'm good, as a single independent, intelligent individual with Godly wisdom and purpose. And as a Christian, I'm not fornicating while single.
We say in my country, " Those in it want out and those not in one want to be in one".
@@eileenwatt8283 True. However, I'm not in one and don't want to be in one.💯💝😁
@@Anabee399 me too. Dont want any husband.
@@Anabee399 please don’t let this be your final decision. God said in the Bible that it’s not good for man to be alone. We have been designed for God not to be lonely. I used to think that I didn’t need a man but the truth is that deep in my heart I actually wanted someone, there’s a loneliness u feel even when God is in the picture.
God as created a man for every woman so our prayer is that He guides us to Him, and we are able to be filled spiritually and hear what God is saying. If we can pray and hear God we won’t have to pass through the pains and troubles.
Please don’t say u don’t want to be in one bcus it might just come true, God won’t move for u unless you call on Him and tell him what you want.
I have seen what it feels like to grow old lonely and I don’t pray that for anyone and neither does God want that for anyone.
@@eileenwatt8283 please read my reply and don’t wish that. We have been designed by God not to be lonely. He will surely bring the right personal that will bring Joy and happiness to you
its 2. am and am watching and learning from Uganda . i am blessed.
"Destinies are sealed at the altar"
Be ye not unequally yoked with unbelievers..
Marriage is too heavy for one person to carry 😭...my heart goes out to young widows like me. The Lord is our Help 🙏
Strength is supplied to you
Take heart dear, God is with you
This is a message for all women and I have experienced nothing but heartache bc I never choose correctly
God will comfort you sis!
I wish I could concil some girl, I marry and I think I sacrifice my destiny 😪. Just realizing after 10yrs. Ladies, listen marry someone in Christ.
I stumbled on this video. Hearing her speak I know I have to listen to the very end. Am richly blessed listening to you ma. God bless you in Jesus name🙏 Nothing as beautiful as hearing from God before marriage or anything we want to venture into. Its gives a beautiful experience & brings life full of bliss. Ooh singles pls don’t take this for granted. When I wanted to marry, I knew I must not marry an unbeliever. I thank God today. He lead me to the right path. Glory to God🙏
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Pastor Mildred, your story touches me. There is a certain way I connect to you when you teach❤. Getting council from you and Pastor Kingsley would be an honour🙏. I desire to listen from God and to live in accordance to His will for my life. May you continue to experience the great hand of God. Love💕 from Zambia 🇿🇲
Your teachings are life changing, I appreciate you mum.
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God will bless this woman for me oo..
Yes pastor Mildred, there's satisfaction in knowing and serving God. We prosper, whether in little or much. This joy that I have, the world didn't give it, the world can't take it! It is a chop life sontin- if you know you know😁
I don't expect less from you Ma...
What Daddy Okonkwo can do, Mummy Okonkwo can do better
God bless you Ma.
More anointing...
Excellent counsel. Thank you for being honest and straightforward. Thanks for allowing yourself to be used by God!
I love women who are this grounded in Christ!
She understands who she is!!😭
She knows God
I love her 😍♥️♥️
Can two walk together except they agree? This is a true saying, worthy of all acceptation! We become what we give our time to! The only addiction with a positive side effect…the daily reading and obedience of God’s word! Enough said!!!
Young ladies listen to this message very well,it has great impact in your life ,she is telling you the right thing, don't grow inside marriage, choose wise for your life partner for your own good.
Testimony, pastor K and M through this counselling and coaching lam here tell Everyone listening to you that the power of prayers is true God will answer you either in a dream or scripture or a voice will talk deep within you so loud. Marriage is Gods work is only him who can repair and renew it. Continue praying even after he answer your prayer. Exodus 17 we saw the Israelites winning each time they pray and when they stop they loose carry-on with our mighty God.
Patience pays and carry all your confusion to him he will help u to sort it well only if you are willing.
What she did in the end of her sermon touched me greatly. 🙏🏻 She made an alter call which is not common anymore in the church. Thank you my dear sister. 🙏🏻
True she ensured that no bad eggs ho into relationship
This just pop up in my feed I'm so glad I listened and watched this video. " Nice is not a spirit of the fruit" I will be listening to her more often.
Fruit of the spirit
Honestly madam you are a blessing to the kingdom, wow... the gospel simplified!!!
Thank you for the reminder that I am a supernatural being & therefore cannot depend on the counsel of the wicked , what a powerful & a scarce teaching that lifts the name of Jesus ... Your sense of humour # blessed.
I tap into this sermon in faith to recieve my happy marriage, 2 boys abd 2 girls, Wealthy, fruitful, healthy and happy in Jesus name....AMEN!
Amen 🙏
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Love it that she ended with a prayer for the unsaved. With God there is direction and peace. I was blessed by this Word.
This one got me you dey forbid to get your own money wow am so loving this preaching. Ride on ma
Marry a person who the person holding his remote is God🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
i just came across you,just now , u so funny, practical and very wise. I love u already
Ohhhh what a woman........ May the Lord strengthen you Mom 😍😍🥰
I feel like liking this message as many times as I stare at the like button. Only that it won't reflect. God bless you ma for this message.
I wish I saw this before entering things would have been different…..tears have been food ..I pray 🙏🏼 that one day I will be happy again
Jes! You don’t have to beat yourself up🙏 you were meant to work through this to come out strong. Many pastors home are on fire and a lot are broken up. Jesus loves you and I love you too😍 it’s God that knows the end from the beginning.
I pray for happiness for you.
Sis,If only you can pray. Go on your knees and fight it out in the place of prayer. God is set to answer your prayers
@@bestchristopher thank You sorry it took me a while to reply…honestly I haven’t been myself but I’m getting better God is showing me mercy
@@maryslifestyletv what can I say honestly I appreciate you God bless
May God give us listening ears and seeing eyes. Amen!!!
At 22:42 absolutely love the way Pastor K looked at his wife! Love to see it 👌
very inspirational and many truths ..we are all in different situations and only hope that we can have the oppounity to make things right and give HIM the praise ..its great to hear this couple experience and they are truly blessed as many are not including myself with such bad choices and even now i pray i dont ruin the one i love ..thx for this sharing blessing to you both
Nice is not a fruit of the spirit. Wow! Thank you so much Ma. Taking notes....
It made me laugh so hard. She is telling the truth though 😂
My eyes re open, Lord help me to marry someone who knows You in Jesus Christ name Amen 🙏🙏🙏🙏... Thank You pastor Mrs Okonkwo..... How did I get here.... Thank You Lord.
Madame Chairwoman and Madame Assistant of Chop Life gang lol 😆🤣😂😄. I agree!!! #WhoElseIsJoining?
I just found this man and woman of God and I am so grateful for this wisdom... Blessings on Blessings upon you both
Stumbled upon this video and watched it till the end ,wonderful teaching ❤
Thank you Lord for Gifting me a God Fearing Man🙏🙌
I will not marry wrong.
I will not miss it in marriage.
I will not be a goat but a sheep that hears God's voice in Jesus'mighty Name 🙏🏻
Amen
This message is doing something to my spirit, I'm not stable at all