What Nobody Tells You About Marriage | mildred kingsley-okonkwo

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  • Опубликовано: 4 ноя 2024

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  • @nanafosu6742
    @nanafosu6742 3 года назад +622

    Wish I had listened to this before marriage. Singles don’t take this for granted!!!….

  • @ZoeysMusings
    @ZoeysMusings 3 года назад +403

    "The only things that are hard are the things you don't know." That's a word 🙌🏽

    • @estherchima07
      @estherchima07 3 года назад +8

      That's the first point I picked 😃

    • @suzettehamiltonyearwood5414
      @suzettehamiltonyearwood5414 3 года назад +3

      Wooow

    • @sadeolaniyan6199
      @sadeolaniyan6199 2 года назад

      @@suzettehamiltonyearwood5414m9moo6j
      J

    •  2 года назад +1

      True. ruclips.net/video/yGGTj93Z29I/видео.html

    • @kinglordehud
      @kinglordehud 2 года назад

      ruclips.net/video/9hD7lFVXe7Y/видео.html

  • @Mike_Ogana
    @Mike_Ogana 3 года назад +315

    Marriage is one of those dynamics in life u can never prepare enough for. Instead you grow into it, same way water takes the shape of the bucket it fills

  • @marylyndaobioha
    @marylyndaobioha 3 года назад +583

    How not to make mistakes in choosing a life partner.
    1. Choose Well
    2. Hear God
    3. Get Counsel
    ...✍✍

  • @oliveazah8595
    @oliveazah8595 3 года назад +410

    I will get marriage to the right person in Jesus name 🙏

  • @chukwuntafavour1637
    @chukwuntafavour1637 3 года назад +229

    What hit me was when she said , "nice is not a fruit of the spirit" like that got me at a spot.
    Thank you ma🙏

    • @tearakasiyamhuru1614
      @tearakasiyamhuru1614 3 года назад +2

      Welllllllll….. isn’t nice a synonym for kindness.

    • @kinglordehud
      @kinglordehud 2 года назад

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    •  2 года назад

      @@tearakasiyamhuru1614 True. ruclips.net/video/yGGTj93Z29I/видео.html

    •  2 года назад

      @@kinglordehud True. ruclips.net/video/yGGTj93Z29I/видео.html

    • @tanyinana7013
      @tanyinana7013 2 года назад +1

      🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @troysaunders6691
    @troysaunders6691 2 года назад +54

    My mom has been married for 70 years.
    She told me to pray " ABBA Father; please bless with the man / woman that "YOU" have for me: and make that person that You will have me to be for that person , in the name of Jesus!!!! Meaning allow GOD to bless you with that relationship ( equally yoked in Him) be blessed.

  • @omoh2413
    @omoh2413 3 года назад +78

    Her joy is not only that she married well, it is that she has such beautiful relationship with God which guides her to all truth and enables her to be in the chop life gang. How wholesome. John 14:16 AMPC

  • @barbiekuganjjan5775
    @barbiekuganjjan5775 2 года назад +12

    this lady speaks to singles with love and pain of a mother to her dotas am always blessed by her teachings🙏🙏🙏blessing pastor mildred

  • @kenediii_ryan
    @kenediii_ryan 2 года назад +37

    Wow, I don't know how this ended up in my recommended videos, but I am grateful, thank you Jesus. I am not yet married, but this weighs heavy on my mind.
    Women always say, "Be with a man who loves you, more than you love him". But the Holy Spirit said to me, " You must marry a man who loves me, more than you or himself". If a man does not see himself as accountable to God for how he treats you, and conducts his household, and does not see you as precious as you are in the sight of God, he will do helter skelter all over you.

  • @TheWoolfordFamilyLove
    @TheWoolfordFamilyLove 2 года назад +148

    I am happily married and I thank God for that 🙏🏾

    • @blessedsoul949
      @blessedsoul949 2 года назад +3

      Congratulations.I pray for the same for me too

    • @TheWoolfordFamilyLove
      @TheWoolfordFamilyLove 2 года назад +2

      @@blessedsoul949 Amen 🙏🏾

    • @thebibletalesTV
      @thebibletalesTV 2 года назад +5

      I cover your marriage with the blood of Jesus😄

    •  2 года назад

      Excellent..Stay strong 💓😘💪🙏💯♥️ruclips.net/video/RoQyZRWIenY/видео.html

    •  2 года назад

      @@thebibletalesTV awesome 👍👍💓💯.ruclips.net/video/RoQyZRWIenY/видео.html

  • @fragrancedeparadis1275
    @fragrancedeparadis1275 3 года назад +179

    This video must go viral in the mighty name of Jesus.
    What a word!

    •  2 года назад

      True. ruclips.net/video/yGGTj93Z29I/видео.html

    • @virginiabenton6676
      @virginiabenton6676 2 года назад

      Awesome education

  • @jessicaamaya7492
    @jessicaamaya7492 3 года назад +675

    I didn’t marry a God fearing man, I am married less than a year and I am in agony. WALK IN OBEDIENCE SISTERS. Listen sisters, in the name of Christ, listen! I’m burdened by my marriage

    • @daphnehammond8054
      @daphnehammond8054 3 года назад +67

      Have u prayed ??? Prayed for your husband and yourself and your marriage… she just said the choice of how your marriage will turn out is up to you… your prayer can turn your husband to God and change your miserableness into happiness!!

    • @maureenmango7829
      @maureenmango7829 3 года назад +48

      I’m burdened with mine too beyond I have prayed but it’s too much

    • @Ras_Spinoza
      @Ras_Spinoza 3 года назад +13

      @@daphnehammond8054 Yes she prayed and Prayers didn't work, it has never worked..

    • @daphnehammond8054
      @daphnehammond8054 3 года назад +184

      @@Ras_Spinoza there is no such thing as the prayer didnt work… prayer always works… If you dont see an answer to your prayer … maybe you should change the prayer : instead of “Father change my husband” you could pray “Father show me how to treat and honour my husband for him to fall in love with you the way i have” “Father Show me how to humbly submit to my husband for him to see You God in me” “Father you hold the heart of the king and u order it in any direction it should go, father turn my husbands heart to you” God answers all prayers sometimes its not what we wanted to hear or wanted to see but rather what we needed. Pls dont downplay the power of prayer!!

    • @daphnehammond8054
      @daphnehammond8054 3 года назад +39

      @@maureenmango7829 my darling it is hard but God will never give u what u cant handle… the bible says pray without ceasing… meaning pray without stopping even when ur tired and u cant take it anymore keep praying.. even when it looks hopeless keep praying…. He will come through

  • @swazi4769
    @swazi4769 3 года назад +273

    Preaching with conviction and confidence. There is nothing as attractive than seeing a person who has experienced God.
    May we all reach a level of hearing God's voice.

  • @momandjas
    @momandjas 3 года назад +9

    i thank God that i married well.

  • @JK-nk9ut
    @JK-nk9ut 3 года назад +158

    Ladies, let us also not forget that for the believers as well, you shall know them by their fruits. There are very many fake brethren posing as believers in the church.

    • @treasuresofmyheartbyjesusc6554
      @treasuresofmyheartbyjesusc6554 3 года назад +1

      Sooo True

    • @henriettaifewulu7305
      @henriettaifewulu7305 3 года назад +14

      So true. Those fake brethrens are worse than those acclaimed bad guys.

    • @nikkinikki702
      @nikkinikki702 3 года назад +3

      If your real you will identify real my dear deep calleth unto deep

    • @doreenkboadu
      @doreenkboadu 3 года назад +1

      That na there real koko....so many people pose as believers only to fall hands. Truth is believers make mistake ba God dey with u.

    • @biruruth5956
      @biruruth5956 3 года назад

      I believe you 100% my lovely

  • @lucillekluivert343
    @lucillekluivert343 2 года назад +145

    AT FIRST I MARRIED MYSELF I FOUND ME AND GOD SEND ME THE SECOND ME JUST SOMEONE WHO IS MY MIRROR WHEN I STAND INFRONT OF THE MIRROR I SEE HIM WHEN I LOOK INTO HIS EYES I SEE GOD HE IS JUST THE RIGHT PERSON WHO MATCHES MY PRAYERS AND ALL I CAN SAY IS THANK U LORD AND THE BEST THING IS THAT I AM KIND AND HE IS KINDER ❤❤🙏🔥🔥

    • @GabrielDowuona007
      @GabrielDowuona007 2 года назад

      How did you married yourself

    • @Grace-to6hn
      @Grace-to6hn 2 года назад

      You are to be married to Jesus first

    • @blessedsoul949
      @blessedsoul949 2 года назад +2

      Woow great testimony.I pray to find such a man too

    • @jenniferakufo9575
      @jenniferakufo9575 2 года назад +3

      The best comment I’ve read so far. Tbh better than the video. You are to live your life & allow God to be your everything in all you do & THEN as they say when you least expect it, that person will come. I’m sorry but I’m a first generation abroad African in my immediate family & I do not like the African mentality when it comes to marriage. Nobody talks about cultivating the season before the person. That’s the most crucial moment of your life. If you don’t take care of that when you do get into a relationship and now start to work on you, that union will struggle. Don’t wait until you find love & then you haven’t dealt with your own issues during your single season. There’s a time and a place for everything. Work on NOW and be patient for when you get THERE

    •  2 года назад

      Awesome 😎👍ruclips.net/video/RoQyZRWIenY/видео.html

  • @bettygugumoyo8512
    @bettygugumoyo8512 3 года назад +56

    Much love from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼

  • @GodsFavourite2024
    @GodsFavourite2024 3 года назад +134

    "Marriage is the quality of the people in the marriage."
    "You may be great but if the person you are joining with is bad, that marriage will not work."
    "choose well" is the first secret to a great marriage.
    "If you marry wrong, na you go suffer."
    Mrs Kingsley-Okonkwo making ALL levels of sense and speaking wisdom. She surely is made for us. We Learn with each day spent with her.

    • @psritakhumalo2274
      @psritakhumalo2274 3 года назад +3

      Woow. What a message. Wisdom on two feet. That was more prophetic mighty woman. So inspirational and uplifting. May God keep you for this generation as you continually lead them on the Kings High Way.

    • @paulinewambua85
      @paulinewambua85 3 года назад

      Yes 💯♥️

  • @ezeokekeuju3246
    @ezeokekeuju3246 3 года назад +32

    honestly am 20 yrs in marriage but am just understanding marriage now. Thanks mama

    • @accolyrobinson5913
      @accolyrobinson5913 3 года назад +1

      Wow!

    • @brendawells8852
      @brendawells8852 3 года назад +4

      You don't need to know too much about marriage. Too much knowledge about marriage is one of the tricks the devil uses to destroy marriage. If you've known too much, you won't be 20 years in marriage.

    • @faithgitome9726
      @faithgitome9726 3 года назад +3

      @@brendawells8852 my people perish for lack of knowledge....

    • @maureenoluwatobi
      @maureenoluwatobi 3 года назад +3

      @@brendawells8852 I don't understand your comment, Ma'am.

    • @goabaonejudah4047
      @goabaonejudah4047 3 года назад +1

      @@maureenoluwatobi 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @chimenekendoyimga1059
    @chimenekendoyimga1059 3 года назад +189

    I'll get married to the right person in Jesus Name 🙏🏻😭

  • @GodsFavourite2024
    @GodsFavourite2024 3 года назад +258

    I can relate to the story of God not saying anything after praying. The pastor at church had even told me "my daughter do not let that (his name) plant his bad seed in you." I still went ahead with that person... Hmmmm.... The person now started showing me pepper. God saved me and set me free after fasting and praying. I am now where God had ordained me to be and I am much much happier and more productive. God sure always has better for us💃❤️🙏

    • @Nzunghe
      @Nzunghe 3 года назад +3

      Glory to God ooh 🙌🏽

    • @kossynifemigold
      @kossynifemigold 3 года назад +5

      Thank God you are happy and free.

    • @banjomodupe1023
      @banjomodupe1023 3 года назад

      0

    • @annathembani7290
      @annathembani7290 3 года назад +3

      me and you are just the same... thank God for you my sister am still single and taking care of the kids alone, oga is gone with another woman

    • @Nzunghe
      @Nzunghe 3 года назад +1

      @@annathembani7290 oh Lord!
      May God continue to grant you ladies the grace 🙏🏽

  • @damarisjeremiah9584
    @damarisjeremiah9584 3 года назад +138

    This is so true, when married to someone that doesn't have same qualities as yours it's like using basket to fetch water.

  • @chibaby0306
    @chibaby0306 3 года назад +194

    It’s how pastor k looks at his beautiful wife! Especially at the time of her testimony 💕💕💕 he is sooo proud and in love! May God bless me with a husband that looks at me the same way and treats me with so much love! Thank you so much pastor Mildred and pastor Kingsley!!! My soul has been fed!!! I am free

    • @oluwapelumiadebisi5834
      @oluwapelumiadebisi5834 3 года назад +5

      as in ehn. it is obvious that he is proud of her.

    • @ernestomekam4989
      @ernestomekam4989 3 года назад +1

      Pastor k reciprocates the love he’s wife exudes , it’s ok to want a man who loves and treasures you but do you love your selves enough to show love to some one to show that back ?

    • @beautydefined1601
      @beautydefined1601 3 года назад +3

      I was thinking the same thing!!! They are a match made in heaven and they make the kingdom of God glad

  • @joyk4408
    @joyk4408 3 года назад +119

    'Nice is not even a fruit of the Spirit.' 😭

  • @nk6631
    @nk6631 3 года назад +66

    Love from SA🇿🇦 your accent makes this message powerful and fun 😂❤️

  • @giftmuswema8111
    @giftmuswema8111 3 года назад +51

    Christianity is not about changing behaviour, but the nature is changed.

  • @jennn1404
    @jennn1404 3 года назад +31

    Many of us lie to ourselves for long and ignore the signs that we are on the wrong path, because of those flimsy things...Thank God for grace, some of us still get lucky as God pulls us to where he wants us to be, so we can fulfill destiny...strong preaching🙏🏽🥰

  • @chinwesdiary9175
    @chinwesdiary9175 3 года назад +88

    A praying person will not suffer in marriage. Those scriptures in Isaiah are eye opening. Thank you so much PM💕

    • @jennifersamlafo6364
      @jennifersamlafo6364 3 года назад

      I see the good evening uuiiiipiygfffffffffnloiutiklllplllppp

    • @lenapin6521
      @lenapin6521 3 года назад +1

      James 1 vs 3
      New International Version
      3 because you know that the testing of your faith(A) produces perseverance.(B)

    • @mbagwukingsleychibuike8617
      @mbagwukingsleychibuike8617 2 года назад

      That is were, people are getting it wrong, please let us try & understand, the difference between human nature & prayer, every thing does not done by prayer alone, non changed by prayer
      There are things u hv to changed bf praying, which helps prayers to work & attract unending blessing
      Which is CHARACTER, let's hv a wonderful & a good character bf praying, which will help prayers to work perfectly Amen!

    • @naomiaddo5636
      @naomiaddo5636 2 года назад

      My dear sister please it's not like that, most of this happens to Christian.

    • @kareizaamune429
      @kareizaamune429 2 года назад

      @@mbagwukingsleychibuike8617 The right kind of prayer will change your character.

  • @stellakamau6994
    @stellakamau6994 3 года назад +169

    I found out about you today. Much love from Kenya. Very powerful message.

    • @janetarus6602
      @janetarus6602 3 года назад +2

      🇰🇪 🇰🇪 🇰🇪 🇰🇪 🇰🇪

    • @roselinekihamba549
      @roselinekihamba549 3 года назад +2

      Team +254 representing

    • @QueenofLifeNuggets
      @QueenofLifeNuggets 2 года назад +4

      Happy here from Kenya too.....This woman is blessed....

    • @rayray8137
      @rayray8137 2 года назад +2

      Kenyans everywhere 😂😂😂

    • @pamelanafuna7082
      @pamelanafuna7082 2 года назад +1

      Am a Kenyan too, found this today
      +254 representing

  • @shannonnyakuromba2986
    @shannonnyakuromba2986 3 года назад +127

    Watching all the way from South Africa. Be blessed Pastor M. You're a sound teacher of the Word. 👏🏽

    •  2 года назад

      Awesome. ruclips.net/video/yGGTj93Z29I/видео.html

    • @mathewosayande4144
      @mathewosayande4144 2 года назад

      I really enjoyed this message

    •  2 года назад

      @@mathewosayande4144 true. ruclips.net/video/MX8yfJt88Mo/видео.html

    • @danistawondananakwaku5988
      @danistawondananakwaku5988 2 года назад

      hi

  • @hallejudy
    @hallejudy 2 года назад +41

    This is the deepest message I've heard. Thank you thank you. Don't be equally yoked with a non-believers. That's my take

  • @toniamitchell3486
    @toniamitchell3486 3 года назад +21

    The main thing: LISTEN TO SOUND ADVICE. Most people in bad relationship/marriage is bc they didnt listen to their spirit, counsel or parents/friends/family.. or even this video. To have better is to do better 🥰🥰

  • @antonettewambani805
    @antonettewambani805 3 года назад +64

    I agree a praying person cannot suffer in marriage

    • @isabellglover5217
      @isabellglover5217 3 года назад +6

      The only way a praying person won’t suffer in a marriage is not to marriage the person, or if you marry the wrong person, if you
      Marry the wrong person it will hinder your prayer life. It would have to be equally yoke

    • @yvonnenyasha5629
      @yvonnenyasha5629 3 года назад

      Amen

  • @immaculataortner772
    @immaculataortner772 3 года назад +59

    I really love your teaching, I am at the verge of marrying a nun believer, and this sermon is heading deep in my spirit

    • @xolisilemnguni1358
      @xolisilemnguni1358 3 года назад +7

      Pray about, the Bible says if a believing woman marries an unbelieving man. The believing woman might be saving her husbands soul. The verse is somewhere in the new testament.
      Maybe God sent you into that relationship for a reason.

    • @Manlyman120
      @Manlyman120 2 года назад +25

      @@xolisilemnguni1358 that verse is only applicable if you are already married and later become a believer, and your spouse isn't. That's when the Grace is there. Choose well from the start

    • @yvonnemakwala5141
      @yvonnemakwala5141 2 года назад +1

      @@xolisilemnguni1358 that scripture refers to those MARRIED already

    •  2 года назад

      @@Manlyman120 True. ruclips.net/video/yGGTj93Z29I/видео.html

    • @hallejudy
      @hallejudy 2 года назад +1

      My sister run for your life...You'll have years of tears. Look at Devon Franklin and Mega Good's marriage!

  • @danielsyesufu5605
    @danielsyesufu5605 2 года назад +35

    I will get married happily to the right person soon if JESUS says so in JESUS Mighty name, AMEN!

    •  2 года назад

      Awesome..good luck 🤞🙏💯♥️ruclips.net/video/RoQyZRWIenY/видео.html

    • @koholjoy8168
      @koholjoy8168 2 года назад

      Amen amen

  • @ekowoonyekachi8350
    @ekowoonyekachi8350 3 года назад +23

    People go into marriage thinking to GAIN. Be ready to give everything without expecting ANYTHING. If u get back that is fine. If you don't that is still fine. Give free. For God so loved his son... Nothing like choosing well. Everybody is good.

  • @krixttysimon2705
    @krixttysimon2705 3 года назад +41

    Amen, I will have a great marriage, in Christ

  • @tumerua
    @tumerua 2 года назад +20

    Her husband's eyes glows anytime he looks at her. That's the fruit of the spirit ☺️

  • @motivatedqueen7804
    @motivatedqueen7804 2 года назад +15

    I wish everyone listens to this before getting married, unfortunately it is too late for me but if u got the chance,please listen!

    • @nikkigodwin9641
      @nikkigodwin9641 2 года назад

      I wish l listened too..

    •  2 года назад

      @@nikkigodwin9641 awesome 😎 ruclips.net/video/vdHd3LRgsOU/видео.html

    •  2 года назад

      Awesome ruclips.net/video/vdHd3LRgsOU/видео.html

  • @makingofakingdommd8723
    @makingofakingdommd8723 3 года назад +7

    African American preparing to be a Naiji (yoruba) wife! Thank you for this!

  • @plubin123
    @plubin123 3 года назад +51

    I will always say work on yourself before marriage. People get married and dont even know who they are, what they like, cant even speak for themself. Selfcare is important. How can I be married and love someone when I can't do that for myself.

    • @beautydefined1601
      @beautydefined1601 3 года назад +2

      💯

    • @kellywilson3232
      @kellywilson3232 3 года назад

      Some time the Christian them worse than the unbelievers

    • @kellywilson3232
      @kellywilson3232 3 года назад

      Please some Christian in law is very wicked

    • @beautydefined1601
      @beautydefined1601 3 года назад

      @@kellywilson3232 Spirit filled believers and wicked o not mix. Many are religious people like the Pharisees in the Bible. True sons and daughters of God will display fruit

  • @mannalswell6728
    @mannalswell6728 3 года назад +23

    She explained what marriage is all about In a way I've never heard. Thks for this pastor Mildred

  • @sheenagirouard4708
    @sheenagirouard4708 3 года назад +36

    Choose well. WHO IS SINGLE? bruhh listen to this minister. It will save you from many hurt and pain. Even if you think it will work out somehow. It may take years if at all. A hardened heart can be that way for a loooooooonng time, so it's less difficult marrying someone who believes like you. 👍 flee from stubbornness, rebelliousness, lust, fornication! In Jesus mighty and precious name 🙏 ✨

  • @feliciababalola7403
    @feliciababalola7403 2 года назад +19

    If you get married to the "right person" you can work through the marriage. No marriage is perfect. However, if you are married to a broken person/ abusive person you can try everything it will not work no matter what you do. If it is two whole people and God is truly in both of you there is much hope. CHOOSE WELL OO. I knew something was wrong with my ex husband the red flags were there and I ignored it. Alot of red flags. Mistake I have to live with, but a lesson I learned and now I can help other women know the signs and save a life.

  • @joyutidofonetuk98
    @joyutidofonetuk98 3 года назад +14

    I wish I started watching her videos long before now…..😢 but I trust in God I strongly believe that there’s nothing God cannot do😇

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 3 года назад +19

    Thanks for free teachings. Watching from Kenya 🇰🇪

  • @nnennaonuorah4601
    @nnennaonuorah4601 Год назад +2

    Not the camera zooming into pastor K after pastor M said "anoint him for he is the one." The look on his face was everything 🤣

  • @rosegallus4048
    @rosegallus4048 3 года назад +57

    Choosing well is where the problem lies.
    Lets be realistic, its difficult.

    • @C.Joan25
      @C.Joan25 3 года назад +5

      Just hear God, let him choose for you.

    • @oluchukwuobioma1127
      @oluchukwuobioma1127 2 года назад +1

      very true. Develop a personal intimate relationship with God so when it comes to marriage you are already used to God's voice and He will direct you in marriage. Don't wait for marriage to want to hear God for the first time

    • @debby5026
      @debby5026 2 года назад +1

      That’s what I used to think but listening to this message it’s actually the easiest . All u have to do His pray and have a pure heart without inequities and God will guide u.

    • @Agri-prenueur
      @Agri-prenueur 2 года назад +2

      Thats why we were given a helper the Holy Spirit to help us discern and give us wisdom

    • @debby5026
      @debby5026 2 года назад

      @@Agri-prenueur exactly what truly separates us from that is Sin. As long as we abide in God and He abides in us . The Holy Spirit will always guide us

  • @naomiaddo5636
    @naomiaddo5636 3 года назад +27

    I wish I hade a mother like you before going into marriage. My mother made me choose the wrong choice and I'm going through a whole lot. She herself is also disturb by the problems, but there is nothing she can do. I'm trying to come out of it but not that easy. My fellow singles please listen ok

    • @essys1991
      @essys1991 3 года назад +3

      Listening! I’m now single after a 5 year relationship, engagement and planning a wedding for 2021.

    • @catherinesefa1154
      @catherinesefa1154 2 года назад

      Hmm.. May God give you strength

  • @chikumbimwenda9729
    @chikumbimwenda9729 3 года назад +163

    If you haven't picked anything from this message.. the best point to remember is that when choosing a husband, make sure he is in Christ, born again, spirit filled, no compromise on this part.. period !!! Other than this you will see pepper

  • @opeyemialukohiram2559
    @opeyemialukohiram2559 3 года назад +78

    God ministered to me through this message. Thanks so much ma.

  • @ceciliatembo3790
    @ceciliatembo3790 3 года назад +49

    Pastor Mildred, your story touches me. There is a certain way I connect to you when you teach❤. Getting council from you and Pastor Kingsley would be an honour🙏. I desire to listen from God and to live in accordance to His will for my life. May you continue to experience the great hand of God. Love💕 from Zambia 🇿🇲

  • @ozukalumiracle4803
    @ozukalumiracle4803 3 года назад +7

    I don't know how I got here but you just changed my life for good.
    Thank you Ma for this message.

  • @jennynenedaniels3965
    @jennynenedaniels3965 3 года назад +48

    I stumbled on this video. Hearing her speak I know I have to listen to the very end. Am richly blessed listening to you ma. God bless you in Jesus name🙏 Nothing as beautiful as hearing from God before marriage or anything we want to venture into. Its gives a beautiful experience & brings life full of bliss. Ooh singles pls don’t take this for granted. When I wanted to marry, I knew I must not marry an unbeliever. I thank God today. He lead me to the right path. Glory to God🙏

  • @lesegomoshaga1498
    @lesegomoshaga1498 2 года назад +1

    I love me some Mildred🙌 No sugar coating
    Who has the remote??? Wow!

  • @tunjibabalola1274
    @tunjibabalola1274 3 года назад +8

    It’s a great thing that someone recognised the plurality of marriage. Only two can play the game

  • @rebeccaemmanuel5402
    @rebeccaemmanuel5402 3 года назад +6

    “ Nice is not even a fruit of the spirit” Preach it mama🔥

  • @betty-annpilgrim7899
    @betty-annpilgrim7899 3 года назад +31

    "Destinies are sealed at the altar"
    Be ye not unequally yoked with unbelievers..

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 3 года назад +10

    Oyaaaaa 💃💃Pst Mildred always on point
    She mixes pidgin n English together n she still dey make sense

  • @valentinewaterera9420
    @valentinewaterera9420 3 года назад +73

    Your teachings are life changing, I appreciate you mum.

  • @betty-annpilgrim7899
    @betty-annpilgrim7899 3 года назад +39

    Excellent counsel. Thank you for being honest and straightforward. Thanks for allowing yourself to be used by God!

  • @stellaonyang7609
    @stellaonyang7609 3 года назад +20

    Testimony, pastor K and M through this counselling and coaching lam here tell Everyone listening to you that the power of prayers is true God will answer you either in a dream or scripture or a voice will talk deep within you so loud. Marriage is Gods work is only him who can repair and renew it. Continue praying even after he answer your prayer. Exodus 17 we saw the Israelites winning each time they pray and when they stop they loose carry-on with our mighty God.
    Patience pays and carry all your confusion to him he will help u to sort it well only if you are willing.

  • @ucheozoguejiofor3456
    @ucheozoguejiofor3456 3 года назад +11

    I tap into this sermon in faith to recieve my happy marriage, 2 boys abd 2 girls, Wealthy, fruitful, healthy and happy in Jesus name....AMEN!

    • @terrisungbeh7133
      @terrisungbeh7133 3 года назад

      Amen 🙏

    •  2 года назад

      @@terrisungbeh7133 True. ruclips.net/video/yGGTj93Z29I/видео.html

  • @Desertdivaqtr
    @Desertdivaqtr 3 года назад +23

    Sister, I am Muslim and enjoyed your lessons..as in Islam we women also want to marry a practicing Muslim man and choose well. Beautiful lecture sister.

    • @ebunehinmowo8610
      @ebunehinmowo8610 3 года назад +6

      Hello Sister,
      I enjoyed the teaching as well and was throughly blessed, but you have to remember that she made mentions of being born again; which means to give your life to and become a new person in Jesus Christ. It is those who are sons and daughters of God that will be led by God. Please give your heart to Jesus, He loves you and is willing to help you. Remain blessed!!

    • @tiziay
      @tiziay 3 года назад +13

      @@ebunehinmowo8610 Respectfully, she is Muslim and has her own faith tradition. She gave a nice compliment. It's wonderful you are strong in faith. I am Catholic. We don't all have to be of the SAME faith to learn lessons. That fact that our Muslim Sister is even here at all and found benefit is a GOOD THING. I'm Catholic and found benefit, also a GOOD THING. Christianity is not a forced issue. not 8n the time of Jesus and not now. As Christians let us just appreciate our Muslims Sister's interest in the subject matter. GOD bless you+

    • @tiziay
      @tiziay 3 года назад +1

      Hello Sister, You are welcome. I read a response from someone who I felt lacked sensitivity. So I made a comment. I hope that you will take aiment to read it.

    • @jummyhalimah5799
      @jummyhalimah5799 3 года назад +1

      Asalam alaikum Sis. I appreciate your religious mentality so much such that all we needed was the message and learn from it. Cos knowledge benefits the believer. Much love

    •  2 года назад

      True. ruclips.net/video/yGGTj93Z29I/видео.html

  • @mz.lanavarnerkanwei4765
    @mz.lanavarnerkanwei4765 3 года назад +18

    This is a message for all women and I have experienced nothing but heartache bc I never choose correctly

    • @user-ur7km9fx2c
      @user-ur7km9fx2c 2 года назад +1

      God will comfort you sis!

    • @thealdraforrester5086
      @thealdraforrester5086 2 года назад +2

      I wish I could concil some girl, I marry and I think I sacrifice my destiny 😪. Just realizing after 10yrs. Ladies, listen marry someone in Christ.

  • @nimawah1616
    @nimawah1616 3 года назад +36

    Believers too face a lot of difficulties being different and thinking different but the core is they can easily be caution and they will listen because they fear God

    • @graceibelegbu189
      @graceibelegbu189 3 года назад +2

      True.
      Because some people think marrying a believer is express.
      No, challenges are attached.
      Just that the God factor is there to stabilize things.

  • @essys1991
    @essys1991 3 года назад +18

    Ladies trust God in choosing a mate. I dated a man for over 5 years, got engaged and planned a wedding for October 2020, but because of the pandemic our wedding was postponed for June 2021. During the period of planning our wedding and not the marriage, we attended counseling that helped to uncover a lot of red flags that was swept under the rug. After feeling conflicted, stressed and confused, I decided not to move forward with the wedding. My sisters in Christ, trust the lord and ask the Holy Spirit for guidance. Believe what you see, don’t ignore your instincts and don’t make excuses for poor behavior. Marriage is not a race and I’m so grateful that I didn’t move forward into a commitment that I knew would cause me stress and unhappiness.

    • @amberpalmer3708
      @amberpalmer3708 3 года назад

      Thank you for this word 🙏🏾 I’m a young woman who needed to hear that

  • @solacecooper
    @solacecooper 3 года назад +11

    God will bless this woman for me oo..

  • @linnetgithuku
    @linnetgithuku 3 года назад +26

    Mama looking amazing as usual ..❤️... already 90k subscribers already congratulations

  • @uchenenyeuchenna3916
    @uchenenyeuchenna3916 2 года назад +7

    Marriage is too heavy for one person to carry 😭...my heart goes out to young widows like me. The Lord is our Help 🙏

    • @lightdesignhub
      @lightdesignhub 2 года назад

      Strength is supplied to you

    • @naamorosah
      @naamorosah 2 года назад

      Take heart dear, God is with you

  • @zamam5049
    @zamam5049 2 года назад

    This woman is attacking the devil in marriages! You’re protecting our lineage, and preserving legacies!! Ahhhh!!! Woman of God, you’re a blessing. I’m so glad I came across this page- love from South Africa:JHB.

  • @TradingNowSimplified
    @TradingNowSimplified 3 года назад +4

    its 2. am and am watching and learning from Uganda . i am blessed.

  • @matthewsuccess3005
    @matthewsuccess3005 2 года назад +2

    I love women who are this grounded in Christ!
    She understands who she is!!😭
    She knows God
    I love her 😍♥️♥️

  • @estherkluvia9625
    @estherkluvia9625 3 года назад +21

    What she did in the end of her sermon touched me greatly. 🙏🏻 She made an alter call which is not common anymore in the church. Thank you my dear sister. 🙏🏻

    • @susanimende6865
      @susanimende6865 3 года назад

      True she ensured that no bad eggs ho into relationship

  • @stellaayodeji2501
    @stellaayodeji2501 Год назад

    Of a truth this woman is bible based believer to the core. She teaches the bible raw raw. She knows who she believes. More grace ijn.

  • @lilytumisile3314
    @lilytumisile3314 3 года назад +12

    Marry a person who the person holding his remote is God🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @389wnttn74
    @389wnttn74 3 года назад +11

    Can two walk together except they agree? This is a true saying, worthy of all acceptation! We become what we give our time to! The only addiction with a positive side effect…the daily reading and obedience of God’s word! Enough said!!!

  • @ebssgang7923
    @ebssgang7923 3 года назад +11

    Please pray for me woman of God . Am one of the singles waiting on God for a spouse.

  • @emmanamukanzye2798
    @emmanamukanzye2798 3 года назад +8

    I will not marry wrong.
    I will not miss it in marriage.
    I will not be a goat but a sheep that hears God's voice in Jesus'mighty Name 🙏🏻

  • @jacobtambala8856
    @jacobtambala8856 3 года назад +12

    Honestly madam you are a blessing to the kingdom, wow... the gospel simplified!!!

  • @marycrown6529
    @marycrown6529 3 года назад +1

    I don't expect less from you Ma...
    What Daddy Okonkwo can do, Mummy Okonkwo can do better
    God bless you Ma.
    More anointing...

  • @Anabee399
    @Anabee399 3 года назад +28

    My opinion is the singles want to marry and the married single. I was engaged many times over, playing house. Now I conclude I'm good and need to get to know and appreciate myself. After accessing the past situations, I was codependent and afraid to be alone. However, I'm good, as a single independent, intelligent individual with Godly wisdom and purpose. And as a Christian, I'm not fornicating while single.

    • @eileenwatt8283
      @eileenwatt8283 2 года назад +1

      We say in my country, " Those in it want out and those not in one want to be in one".

    • @Anabee399
      @Anabee399 2 года назад

      @@eileenwatt8283 True. However, I'm not in one and don't want to be in one.💯💝😁

    • @eileenwatt8283
      @eileenwatt8283 2 года назад +1

      @@Anabee399 me too. Dont want any husband.

    • @debby5026
      @debby5026 2 года назад +2

      @@Anabee399 please don’t let this be your final decision. God said in the Bible that it’s not good for man to be alone. We have been designed for God not to be lonely. I used to think that I didn’t need a man but the truth is that deep in my heart I actually wanted someone, there’s a loneliness u feel even when God is in the picture.
      God as created a man for every woman so our prayer is that He guides us to Him, and we are able to be filled spiritually and hear what God is saying. If we can pray and hear God we won’t have to pass through the pains and troubles.
      Please don’t say u don’t want to be in one bcus it might just come true, God won’t move for u unless you call on Him and tell him what you want.
      I have seen what it feels like to grow old lonely and I don’t pray that for anyone and neither does God want that for anyone.

    • @debby5026
      @debby5026 2 года назад +1

      @@eileenwatt8283 please read my reply and don’t wish that. We have been designed by God not to be lonely. He will surely bring the right personal that will bring Joy and happiness to you

  • @benedictaglah696
    @benedictaglah696 2 года назад +2

    I think this is one of the ways God is talking to me because I just stumbled on this message and really thought provoking 🤔

  • @kat27435
    @kat27435 3 года назад +18

    This just pop up in my feed I'm so glad I listened and watched this video. " Nice is not a spirit of the fruit" I will be listening to her more often.

  • @sanyubereta332
    @sanyubereta332 10 месяцев назад +2

    I will marry the right person in the name of Jesus

  • @mantwamotaung6086
    @mantwamotaung6086 3 года назад +12

    Thank you for the reminder that I am a supernatural being & therefore cannot depend on the counsel of the wicked , what a powerful & a scarce teaching that lifts the name of Jesus ... Your sense of humour # blessed.

  • @tanyinana7013
    @tanyinana7013 2 года назад +1

    This message is doing something to my spirit, I'm not stable at all

  • @accolyrobinson5913
    @accolyrobinson5913 3 года назад +34

    Yes pastor Mildred, there's satisfaction in knowing and serving God. We prosper, whether in little or much. This joy that I have, the world didn't give it, the world can't take it! It is a chop life sontin- if you know you know😁

  • @KobusingyeIrene-w4o
    @KobusingyeIrene-w4o 7 месяцев назад

    Amen hallelujah i receive this prayer in the name of jesus , i wont marry a wrong person in the name of Jesus

  • @afunlivelylife
    @afunlivelylife 2 года назад +3

    Love it that she ended with a prayer for the unsaved. With God there is direction and peace. I was blessed by this Word.

  • @atumedivine4667
    @atumedivine4667 2 года назад +1

    This one got me you dey forbid to get your own money wow am so loving this preaching. Ride on ma

  • @lovefelix1566
    @lovefelix1566 3 года назад +13

    Madame Chairwoman and Madame Assistant of Chop Life gang lol 😆🤣😂😄. I agree!!! #WhoElseIsJoining?

  • @marywanjiru6226
    @marywanjiru6226 2 года назад

    From Kenya,I can listen to this lady,,day loooong

  • @catherinewaweru2787
    @catherinewaweru2787 3 года назад +9

    Very educative,
    God bless woman of God

  • @catemuoki8716
    @catemuoki8716 2 года назад +1

    i love you
    thank you so much

  • @hopemupether8639
    @hopemupether8639 3 года назад +17

    Stumbled upon this video and watched it till the end ,wonderful teaching ❤

  • @IAMMAYBLISS
    @IAMMAYBLISS Год назад +1

    Thank you Lord for Gifting me a God Fearing Man🙏🙌

  • @GodsPride25
    @GodsPride25 3 года назад +3

    Ohhhh what a woman........ May the Lord strengthen you Mom 😍😍🥰

  • @awake694
    @awake694 2 года назад +2

    Just come across this...Kenya is being blessed through this message 🙏 🙌. I will marry right. Glory to Jesus