Wow, I don't know how this ended up in my recommended videos, but I am grateful, thank you Jesus. I am not yet married, but this weighs heavy on my mind. Women always say, "Be with a man who loves you, more than you love him". But the Holy Spirit said to me, " You must marry a man who loves me, more than you or himself". If a man does not see himself as accountable to God for how he treats you, and conducts his household, and does not see you as precious as you are in the sight of God, he will do helter skelter all over you.
We need more brothers in the vineyard of the Lord, so that the born-again sisters will find them because they are not many. Let the anointing of the Lord locate them in Jesus name.
Her joy is not only that she married well, it is that she has such beautiful relationship with God which guides her to all truth and enables her to be in the chop life gang. How wholesome. John 14:16 AMPC
Marriage is one of those dynamics in life u can never prepare enough for. Instead you grow into it, same way water takes the shape of the bucket it fills
I didn’t marry a God fearing man, I am married less than a year and I am in agony. WALK IN OBEDIENCE SISTERS. Listen sisters, in the name of Christ, listen! I’m burdened by my marriage
Have u prayed ??? Prayed for your husband and yourself and your marriage… she just said the choice of how your marriage will turn out is up to you… your prayer can turn your husband to God and change your miserableness into happiness!!
@@ras3054 there is no such thing as the prayer didnt work… prayer always works… If you dont see an answer to your prayer … maybe you should change the prayer : instead of “Father change my husband” you could pray “Father show me how to treat and honour my husband for him to fall in love with you the way i have” “Father Show me how to humbly submit to my husband for him to see You God in me” “Father you hold the heart of the king and u order it in any direction it should go, father turn my husbands heart to you” God answers all prayers sometimes its not what we wanted to hear or wanted to see but rather what we needed. Pls dont downplay the power of prayer!!
@@maureenmango7829 my darling it is hard but God will never give u what u cant handle… the bible says pray without ceasing… meaning pray without stopping even when ur tired and u cant take it anymore keep praying.. even when it looks hopeless keep praying…. He will come through
Ladies, let us also not forget that for the believers as well, you shall know them by their fruits. There are very many fake brethren posing as believers in the church.
That's a wrong conception ...they're many belivers who treat their spouse like dirt....on the other hand they're non believers with good character.....Just look up to the God to direct u to the right person...They're many wolves in Church....
You're getting it wrong, unbelievers can be good but the devil remains their father, on the other hand not everyone who goes to church is a Christian and it takes you been genuine to attract a genuine person as well but it's your choice, whosoever you want, Marry!
As a married woman who did marry the man God sent don't think because God sent the person it will be so smooth and without troubles at anytime your partner can change even diverting from God. At any time they can stop loving you and abandon you please don't think because God is in it it will be without terrible things. Remember your partner has free will and God will not override their choices and free will he needs their participation. Don't make your partner and idol or your marriage.
AT FIRST I MARRIED MYSELF I FOUND ME AND GOD SEND ME THE SECOND ME JUST SOMEONE WHO IS MY MIRROR WHEN I STAND INFRONT OF THE MIRROR I SEE HIM WHEN I LOOK INTO HIS EYES I SEE GOD HE IS JUST THE RIGHT PERSON WHO MATCHES MY PRAYERS AND ALL I CAN SAY IS THANK U LORD AND THE BEST THING IS THAT I AM KIND AND HE IS KINDER ❤❤🙏🔥🔥
The best comment I’ve read so far. Tbh better than the video. You are to live your life & allow God to be your everything in all you do & THEN as they say when you least expect it, that person will come. I’m sorry but I’m a first generation abroad African in my immediate family & I do not like the African mentality when it comes to marriage. Nobody talks about cultivating the season before the person. That’s the most crucial moment of your life. If you don’t take care of that when you do get into a relationship and now start to work on you, that union will struggle. Don’t wait until you find love & then you haven’t dealt with your own issues during your single season. There’s a time and a place for everything. Work on NOW and be patient for when you get THERE
Some of the most awful humans are those who hide behind the name of religion. Any religion…on the other hand I know a lot of wonderful people who do not subscribe to any religion.
My mom has been married for 70 years. She told me to pray " ABBA Father; please bless with the man / woman that "YOU" have for me: and make that person that You will have me to be for that person , in the name of Jesus!!!! Meaning allow GOD to bless you with that relationship ( equally yoked in Him) be blessed.
The only way a praying person won’t suffer in a marriage is not to marriage the person, or if you marry the wrong person, if you Marry the wrong person it will hinder your prayer life. It would have to be equally yoke
Many of us lie to ourselves for long and ignore the signs that we are on the wrong path, because of those flimsy things...Thank God for grace, some of us still get lucky as God pulls us to where he wants us to be, so we can fulfill destiny...strong preaching🙏🏽🥰
The main thing: LISTEN TO SOUND ADVICE. Most people in bad relationship/marriage is bc they didnt listen to their spirit, counsel or parents/friends/family.. or even this video. To have better is to do better 🥰🥰
I wish I hade a mother like you before going into marriage. My mother made me choose the wrong choice and I'm going through a whole lot. She herself is also disturb by the problems, but there is nothing she can do. I'm trying to come out of it but not that easy. My fellow singles please listen ok
My opinion is the singles want to marry and the married single. I was engaged many times over, playing house. Now I conclude I'm good and need to get to know and appreciate myself. After accessing the past situations, I was codependent and afraid to be alone. However, I'm good, as a single independent, intelligent individual with Godly wisdom and purpose. And as a Christian, I'm not fornicating while single.
@@Annabee399 please don’t let this be your final decision. God said in the Bible that it’s not good for man to be alone. We have been designed for God not to be lonely. I used to think that I didn’t need a man but the truth is that deep in my heart I actually wanted someone, there’s a loneliness u feel even when God is in the picture. God as created a man for every woman so our prayer is that He guides us to Him, and we are able to be filled spiritually and hear what God is saying. If we can pray and hear God we won’t have to pass through the pains and troubles. Please don’t say u don’t want to be in one bcus it might just come true, God won’t move for u unless you call on Him and tell him what you want. I have seen what it feels like to grow old lonely and I don’t pray that for anyone and neither does God want that for anyone.
@@eileenwatt8283 please read my reply and don’t wish that. We have been designed by God not to be lonely. He will surely bring the right personal that will bring Joy and happiness to you
very true. Develop a personal intimate relationship with God so when it comes to marriage you are already used to God's voice and He will direct you in marriage. Don't wait for marriage to want to hear God for the first time
That’s what I used to think but listening to this message it’s actually the easiest . All u have to do His pray and have a pure heart without inequities and God will guide u.
@@Agri-prenueur exactly what truly separates us from that is Sin. As long as we abide in God and He abides in us . The Holy Spirit will always guide us
Sounds like true..but in reality some non believers make wonderful partners. Many are traumatized for life because they fell for so called believers /pastors..(pretenders). When they are in church they seem to be perfect couples..back in the house lamentations suffering despair and trauma.Bottom line whoever yu chose pray God to guide yu.Dont rely on yur choice just becos yu have been told to chose a beliver😄
One cannot marry & yolk with non-believer. True that some non believers better than some Christians, but we all need to look at the fruits, plus each get in life what he/she deserved.
@@beautifullama9 Yes I agree, but much of it depending on how they lived their life prior & how they picked their spouse. If the person genuinely seeking Gods will or followed their own flesh desires.
Ladies trust God in choosing a mate. I dated a man for over 5 years, got engaged and planned a wedding for October 2020, but because of the pandemic our wedding was postponed for June 2021. During the period of planning our wedding and not the marriage, we attended counseling that helped to uncover a lot of red flags that was swept under the rug. After feeling conflicted, stressed and confused, I decided not to move forward with the wedding. My sisters in Christ, trust the lord and ask the Holy Spirit for guidance. Believe what you see, don’t ignore your instincts and don’t make excuses for poor behavior. Marriage is not a race and I’m so grateful that I didn’t move forward into a commitment that I knew would cause me stress and unhappiness.
I will always say work on yourself before marriage. People get married and dont even know who they are, what they like, cant even speak for themself. Selfcare is important. How can I be married and love someone when I can't do that for myself.
@@kellywilson3232 Spirit filled believers and wicked o not mix. Many are religious people like the Pharisees in the Bible. True sons and daughters of God will display fruit
Pastor Mildred, your story touches me. There is a certain way I connect to you when you teach❤. Getting council from you and Pastor Kingsley would be an honour🙏. I desire to listen from God and to live in accordance to His will for my life. May you continue to experience the great hand of God. Love💕 from Zambia 🇿🇲
Believers are no longer what you thought they were. You dont know a persons intentions whether you pray in tongues oor ears. Religion has become an escape goat to fish for innocent believers. But still marry your kind...look at the behaviour... otherwise we have unhappy pastors wives trapped in sick marriages
I can relate to the story of God not saying anything after praying. The pastor at church had even told me "my daughter do not let that (his name) plant his bad seed in you." I still went ahead with that person... Hmmmm.... The person now started showing me pepper. God saved me and set me free after fasting and praying. I am now where God had ordained me to be and I am much much happier and more productive. God sure always has better for us💃❤️🙏
I stumbled on this video. Hearing her speak I know I have to listen to the very end. Am richly blessed listening to you ma. God bless you in Jesus name🙏 Nothing as beautiful as hearing from God before marriage or anything we want to venture into. Its gives a beautiful experience & brings life full of bliss. Ooh singles pls don’t take this for granted. When I wanted to marry, I knew I must not marry an unbeliever. I thank God today. He lead me to the right path. Glory to God🙏
"Marriage is the quality of the people in the marriage." "You may be great but if the person you are joining with is bad, that marriage will not work." "choose well" is the first secret to a great marriage. "If you marry wrong, na you go suffer." Mrs Kingsley-Okonkwo making ALL levels of sense and speaking wisdom. She surely is made for us. We Learn with each day spent with her.
Woow. What a message. Wisdom on two feet. That was more prophetic mighty woman. So inspirational and uplifting. May God keep you for this generation as you continually lead them on the Kings High Way.
It’s how pastor k looks at his beautiful wife! Especially at the time of her testimony 💕💕💕 he is sooo proud and in love! May God bless me with a husband that looks at me the same way and treats me with so much love! Thank you so much pastor Mildred and pastor Kingsley!!! My soul has been fed!!! I am free
Pastor k reciprocates the love he’s wife exudes , it’s ok to want a man who loves and treasures you but do you love your selves enough to show love to some one to show that back ?
Testimony, pastor K and M through this counselling and coaching lam here tell Everyone listening to you that the power of prayers is true God will answer you either in a dream or scripture or a voice will talk deep within you so loud. Marriage is Gods work is only him who can repair and renew it. Continue praying even after he answer your prayer. Exodus 17 we saw the Israelites winning each time they pray and when they stop they loose carry-on with our mighty God. Patience pays and carry all your confusion to him he will help u to sort it well only if you are willing.
If you haven't picked anything from this message.. the best point to remember is that when choosing a husband, make sure he is in Christ, born again, spirit filled, no compromise on this part.. period !!! Other than this you will see pepper
Believers too face a lot of difficulties being different and thinking different but the core is they can easily be caution and they will listen because they fear God
Preaching with conviction and confidence. There is nothing as attractive than seeing a person who has experienced God. May we all reach a level of hearing God's voice.
You are wrong, what about born again Christians that get married and finally divorced ? There are a lot of people that are not Christians but have successful marriage.
People go into marriage thinking to GAIN. Be ready to give everything without expecting ANYTHING. If u get back that is fine. If you don't that is still fine. Give free. For God so loved his son... Nothing like choosing well. Everybody is good.
What makes marriage work is not faith ooo. It's compatibility. Born again is not a factor when it comes to marriage. Christian marraiges are the ones suffering more because they think everything is about faith. Ask for wisdom and a partner that you're compatible with. That's enough. Marriage is a Godly institute that runs on a sociological concept. That's why it's different in various countries but the structure of the institute is the same. Faith is something that you share. Apart from faith, what else do you share ??? It's not enough. Y'all pastors should preach reality and not theories.
To be a Christian is a way of life, it is not just way you say or attending church. A true Christian is incompatible with an unbeliever unless the union was led by the Holy Spirit for a specific purpose like the case of Hosea and Gomer in the old testament. True satisfaction in marriage can only occur in a Christ-centred union. Anything falling short is highly risky.
Choose well. WHO IS SINGLE? bruhh listen to this minister. It will save you from many hurt and pain. Even if you think it will work out somehow. It may take years if at all. A hardened heart can be that way for a loooooooonng time, so it's less difficult marrying someone who believes like you. 👍 flee from stubbornness, rebelliousness, lust, fornication! In Jesus mighty and precious name 🙏 ✨
Sister, I am Muslim and enjoyed your lessons..as in Islam we women also want to marry a practicing Muslim man and choose well. Beautiful lecture sister.
Hello Sister, I enjoyed the teaching as well and was throughly blessed, but you have to remember that she made mentions of being born again; which means to give your life to and become a new person in Jesus Christ. It is those who are sons and daughters of God that will be led by God. Please give your heart to Jesus, He loves you and is willing to help you. Remain blessed!!
@@ebunehinmowo8610 Respectfully, she is Muslim and has her own faith tradition. She gave a nice compliment. It's wonderful you are strong in faith. I am Catholic. We don't all have to be of the SAME faith to learn lessons. That fact that our Muslim Sister is even here at all and found benefit is a GOOD THING. I'm Catholic and found benefit, also a GOOD THING. Christianity is not a forced issue. not 8n the time of Jesus and not now. As Christians let us just appreciate our Muslims Sister's interest in the subject matter. GOD bless you+
Hello Sister, You are welcome. I read a response from someone who I felt lacked sensitivity. So I made a comment. I hope that you will take aiment to read it.
Asalam alaikum Sis. I appreciate your religious mentality so much such that all we needed was the message and learn from it. Cos knowledge benefits the believer. Much love
Am 36 and not yet married. God told me about my husband in 2017 and 2018. After praying for many years and waiting...I lost my patience and went with a Muslim man 😱😱😱. After 7 months and seeing why a believer cannot match with non believers....its very true cos av seen many things that are hurtful. Am now going back to God. Thank God I didn't have children with him.
If you get married to the "right person" you can work through the marriage. No marriage is perfect. However, if you are married to a broken person/ abusive person you can try everything it will not work no matter what you do. If it is two whole people and God is truly in both of you there is much hope. CHOOSE WELL OO. I knew something was wrong with my ex husband the red flags were there and I ignored it. Alot of red flags. Mistake I have to live with, but a lesson I learned and now I can help other women know the signs and save a life.
Pray about, the Bible says if a believing woman marries an unbelieving man. The believing woman might be saving her husbands soul. The verse is somewhere in the new testament. Maybe God sent you into that relationship for a reason.
@@xolisilemnguni1358 that verse is only applicable if you are already married and later become a believer, and your spouse isn't. That's when the Grace is there. Choose well from the start
I’ve never heard of this woman but so glad I know of her now. Powerful!!!! Thank you Jesus for this word❣️🙏🏽 Sn- I wish I understood the lingo to get the inside jokes lolz but even so I received the msg & cracked up anyways. God bless you PM. #NewSubbie
You don't need to know too much about marriage. Too much knowledge about marriage is one of the tricks the devil uses to destroy marriage. If you've known too much, you won't be 20 years in marriage.
2 Corinthians 6:14 "Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?"
Powerful message 🙏🏿. Very insightful. We must marry well. I agree about not marrying an unbeliever! It’s not about how cute or nice that person is! That’s not enough. Thank you for sharing your story. #TeamJournaling ❤️🥁. I was so blessed by this message.
That is were, people are getting it wrong, please let us try & understand, the difference between human nature & prayer, every thing does not done by prayer alone, non changed by prayer There are things u hv to changed bf praying, which helps prayers to work & attract unending blessing Which is CHARACTER, let's hv a wonderful & a good character bf praying, which will help prayers to work perfectly Amen!
Good morning. How come two thirds of your preaching is only about marriage? How come you are not preaching repentance and salvage? How come you don't preach to people how they should get close to Jesus Christ? Why don't you teach people how to have faith in Jesus Christ? Who told you as woman to.preach? Haven't you heard what the scriptures say concerning women how they should be in church? 1timothy 2: 12 & 1 Corinthians 14:33-36 Haven't you ready how women are to dress? 1timothy 2:9-10. You have covered yourself with Jezebel's property how does God draw near you? Repent and seek Jesus Christ in truth and spirit.
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Wow, I don't know how this ended up in my recommended videos, but I am grateful, thank you Jesus. I am not yet married, but this weighs heavy on my mind.
Women always say, "Be with a man who loves you, more than you love him". But the Holy Spirit said to me, " You must marry a man who loves me, more than you or himself". If a man does not see himself as accountable to God for how he treats you, and conducts his household, and does not see you as precious as you are in the sight of God, he will do helter skelter all over you.
Amen 🙏🏾
💯 the love of God restrains, I have seen that even in my life.
Someone who is accountable to God is number one for me
May God help me to find someone who loves him and fears him
Thank you very much sister
We need more brothers in the vineyard of the Lord, so that the born-again sisters will find them because they are not many. Let the anointing of the Lord locate them in Jesus name.
Her joy is not only that she married well, it is that she has such beautiful relationship with God which guides her to all truth and enables her to be in the chop life gang. How wholesome. John 14:16 AMPC
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You are very anointed, I like how you preach. May God bless you to save many souls
This message is a right one for couples in Christ though sounds like a joke but real life fulfillment.
Thank you sister, it's a God sent message.
She's right. marry someone who's a God fearing person
Educative and powerful illustration
A big Amen, Glory be to God
See my woman, I've seen you today, I'm subscribing right away😍
Thank you for this word ma.
I needed to hear this
Wow point noted🙏
This Marriage Thing Is Calculative Lol....Is Well......🙌🙌
Powerful
I love you....
What hit me was when she said , "nice is not a fruit of the spirit" like that got me at a spot.
Thank you ma🙏
Welllllllll….. isn’t nice a synonym for kindness.
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Marriage is one of those dynamics in life u can never prepare enough for. Instead you grow into it, same way water takes the shape of the bucket it fills
Good insight.
AMEN!!!
So true
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I didn’t marry a God fearing man, I am married less than a year and I am in agony. WALK IN OBEDIENCE SISTERS. Listen sisters, in the name of Christ, listen! I’m burdened by my marriage
Have u prayed ??? Prayed for your husband and yourself and your marriage… she just said the choice of how your marriage will turn out is up to you… your prayer can turn your husband to God and change your miserableness into happiness!!
I’m burdened with mine too beyond I have prayed but it’s too much
@@daphnehammond8054 Yes she prayed and Prayers didn't work, it has never worked..
@@ras3054 there is no such thing as the prayer didnt work… prayer always works… If you dont see an answer to your prayer … maybe you should change the prayer : instead of “Father change my husband” you could pray “Father show me how to treat and honour my husband for him to fall in love with you the way i have” “Father Show me how to humbly submit to my husband for him to see You God in me” “Father you hold the heart of the king and u order it in any direction it should go, father turn my husbands heart to you” God answers all prayers sometimes its not what we wanted to hear or wanted to see but rather what we needed. Pls dont downplay the power of prayer!!
@@maureenmango7829 my darling it is hard but God will never give u what u cant handle… the bible says pray without ceasing… meaning pray without stopping even when ur tired and u cant take it anymore keep praying.. even when it looks hopeless keep praying…. He will come through
Ladies, let us also not forget that for the believers as well, you shall know them by their fruits. There are very many fake brethren posing as believers in the church.
Sooo True
So true. Those fake brethrens are worse than those acclaimed bad guys.
If your real you will identify real my dear deep calleth unto deep
That na there real koko....so many people pose as believers only to fall hands. Truth is believers make mistake ba God dey with u.
I believe you 100% my lovely
How not to make mistakes in choosing a life partner.
1. Choose Well
2. Hear God
3. Get Counsel
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Amen and amen
1, Hear God
2, seek counsel
3, then choose
In that order . God bless
@@theycallmegbayi exactly, God first
1. God's counsel
Great reminder!
i thank God that i married well.
That's a wrong conception ...they're many belivers who treat their spouse like dirt....on the other hand they're non believers with good character.....Just look up to the God to direct u to the right person...They're many wolves in Church....
You're getting it wrong, unbelievers can be good but the devil remains their father, on the other hand not everyone who goes to church is a Christian and it takes you been genuine to attract a genuine person as well but it's your choice, whosoever you want, Marry!
@@bl_pan , but if God is somebody's father, how can they treat someone like trash?
@@bl_pan "devil remains their father"... wheres that written...its like you know christ more than him...
@@kamvagetyengana805 John 8:44 Ye are of your father the devil, and the lusts of your father ye will do...
You can read the whole of John 8
As a married woman who did marry the man God sent don't think because God sent the person it will be so smooth and without troubles at anytime your partner can change even diverting from God. At any time they can stop loving you and abandon you please don't think because God is in it it will be without terrible things. Remember your partner has free will and God will not override their choices and free will he needs their participation. Don't make your partner and idol or your marriage.
Great point.
AT FIRST I MARRIED MYSELF I FOUND ME AND GOD SEND ME THE SECOND ME JUST SOMEONE WHO IS MY MIRROR WHEN I STAND INFRONT OF THE MIRROR I SEE HIM WHEN I LOOK INTO HIS EYES I SEE GOD HE IS JUST THE RIGHT PERSON WHO MATCHES MY PRAYERS AND ALL I CAN SAY IS THANK U LORD AND THE BEST THING IS THAT I AM KIND AND HE IS KINDER ❤❤🙏🔥🔥
How did you married yourself
You are to be married to Jesus first
Woow great testimony.I pray to find such a man too
The best comment I’ve read so far. Tbh better than the video. You are to live your life & allow God to be your everything in all you do & THEN as they say when you least expect it, that person will come. I’m sorry but I’m a first generation abroad African in my immediate family & I do not like the African mentality when it comes to marriage. Nobody talks about cultivating the season before the person. That’s the most crucial moment of your life. If you don’t take care of that when you do get into a relationship and now start to work on you, that union will struggle. Don’t wait until you find love & then you haven’t dealt with your own issues during your single season. There’s a time and a place for everything. Work on NOW and be patient for when you get THERE
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Wish I had listened to this before marriage. Singles don’t take this for granted!!!….
Yes it's true
Yes true
No regret nana, you can still enjoy that man
Let me listen
I know hey, but I'm getting out, been separated for 3months, I've tried it's not working, he breaks my spirit because he is dead, thank you Ps Mildred
Some of the most awful humans are those who hide behind the name of religion. Any religion…on the other hand
I know a lot of wonderful people who do not subscribe to any religion.
I will get marriage to the right person in Jesus name 🙏
Me too amen 🙏🏾
Same here.AMEN
Amen
Amen 🙏 Bring it in prayer to God, Trust Him, Hope in Him, have Faith and Trust the process what I mean by this, is be patient.
Same here, me too
I'll get married to the right person in Jesus Name 🙏🏻😭
right person exist only in Heaven Not on the planet earth.
Amen
Amen
Me too. Amen
Amen
Madame Chairwoman and Madame Assistant of Chop Life gang lol 😆🤣😂😄. I agree!!! #WhoElseIsJoining?
My mom has been married for 70 years.
She told me to pray " ABBA Father; please bless with the man / woman that "YOU" have for me: and make that person that You will have me to be for that person , in the name of Jesus!!!! Meaning allow GOD to bless you with that relationship ( equally yoked in Him) be blessed.
this lady speaks to singles with love and pain of a mother to her dotas am always blessed by her teachings🙏🙏🙏blessing pastor mildred
"The only things that are hard are the things you don't know." That's a word 🙌🏽
That's the first point I picked 😃
Wooow
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Love from SA🇿🇦 your accent makes this message powerful and fun 😂❤️
Aaah sis, the accent is one of the best parts 👌🏿
@@dineosedibe8128 kere bona 🔥👌🏾
I love Nigerian accent too.love from Kenya 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
Indeed 💯👌
@@melsaotieno1234 hi
I agree a praying person cannot suffer in marriage
The only way a praying person won’t suffer in a marriage is not to marriage the person, or if you marry the wrong person, if you
Marry the wrong person it will hinder your prayer life. It would have to be equally yoke
Amen
'Nice is not even a fruit of the Spirit.' 😭
That really slapped 🙌🏼🙌🏼🔥
Much love from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼
Mama looking amazing as usual ..❤️... already 90k subscribers already congratulations
Many of us lie to ourselves for long and ignore the signs that we are on the wrong path, because of those flimsy things...Thank God for grace, some of us still get lucky as God pulls us to where he wants us to be, so we can fulfill destiny...strong preaching🙏🏽🥰
I will get married happily to the right person soon if JESUS says so in JESUS Mighty name, AMEN!
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Amen amen
Watching all the way from South Africa. Be blessed Pastor M. You're a sound teacher of the Word. 👏🏽
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I really enjoyed this message
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hi
The main thing: LISTEN TO SOUND ADVICE. Most people in bad relationship/marriage is bc they didnt listen to their spirit, counsel or parents/friends/family.. or even this video. To have better is to do better 🥰🥰
This is the deepest message I've heard. Thank you thank you. Don't be equally yoked with a non-believers. That's my take
I wish I hade a mother like you before going into marriage. My mother made me choose the wrong choice and I'm going through a whole lot. She herself is also disturb by the problems, but there is nothing she can do. I'm trying to come out of it but not that easy. My fellow singles please listen ok
Listening! I’m now single after a 5 year relationship, engagement and planning a wedding for 2021.
Hmm.. May God give you strength
My opinion is the singles want to marry and the married single. I was engaged many times over, playing house. Now I conclude I'm good and need to get to know and appreciate myself. After accessing the past situations, I was codependent and afraid to be alone. However, I'm good, as a single independent, intelligent individual with Godly wisdom and purpose. And as a Christian, I'm not fornicating while single.
We say in my country, " Those in it want out and those not in one want to be in one".
@@eileenwatt8283 True. However, I'm not in one and don't want to be in one.💯💝😁
@@Annabee399 me too. Dont want any husband.
@@Annabee399 please don’t let this be your final decision. God said in the Bible that it’s not good for man to be alone. We have been designed for God not to be lonely. I used to think that I didn’t need a man but the truth is that deep in my heart I actually wanted someone, there’s a loneliness u feel even when God is in the picture.
God as created a man for every woman so our prayer is that He guides us to Him, and we are able to be filled spiritually and hear what God is saying. If we can pray and hear God we won’t have to pass through the pains and troubles.
Please don’t say u don’t want to be in one bcus it might just come true, God won’t move for u unless you call on Him and tell him what you want.
I have seen what it feels like to grow old lonely and I don’t pray that for anyone and neither does God want that for anyone.
@@eileenwatt8283 please read my reply and don’t wish that. We have been designed by God not to be lonely. He will surely bring the right personal that will bring Joy and happiness to you
This is so true, when married to someone that doesn't have same qualities as yours it's like using basket to fetch water.
Thank you
Choosing well is where the problem lies.
Lets be realistic, its difficult.
Just hear God, let him choose for you.
very true. Develop a personal intimate relationship with God so when it comes to marriage you are already used to God's voice and He will direct you in marriage. Don't wait for marriage to want to hear God for the first time
That’s what I used to think but listening to this message it’s actually the easiest . All u have to do His pray and have a pure heart without inequities and God will guide u.
Thats why we were given a helper the Holy Spirit to help us discern and give us wisdom
@@Agri-prenueur exactly what truly separates us from that is Sin. As long as we abide in God and He abides in us . The Holy Spirit will always guide us
Sounds like true..but in reality some non believers make wonderful partners. Many are traumatized for life because they fell for so called believers /pastors..(pretenders). When they are in church they seem to be perfect couples..back in the house lamentations suffering despair and trauma.Bottom line whoever yu chose pray God to guide yu.Dont rely on yur choice just becos yu have been told to chose a beliver😄
One cannot marry & yolk with non-believer. True that some non believers better than some Christians, but we all need to look at the fruits, plus each get in life what he/she deserved.
Vision about the Beast and Tribulation
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@@beautifullama9 Yes I agree, but much of it depending on how they lived their life prior & how they picked their spouse. If the person genuinely seeking Gods will or followed their own flesh desires.
I agree with you @Kelly Lerry
Yes. You nailed it.
Ladies trust God in choosing a mate. I dated a man for over 5 years, got engaged and planned a wedding for October 2020, but because of the pandemic our wedding was postponed for June 2021. During the period of planning our wedding and not the marriage, we attended counseling that helped to uncover a lot of red flags that was swept under the rug. After feeling conflicted, stressed and confused, I decided not to move forward with the wedding. My sisters in Christ, trust the lord and ask the Holy Spirit for guidance. Believe what you see, don’t ignore your instincts and don’t make excuses for poor behavior. Marriage is not a race and I’m so grateful that I didn’t move forward into a commitment that I knew would cause me stress and unhappiness.
Thank you for this word 🙏🏾 I’m a young woman who needed to hear that
This video must go viral in the mighty name of Jesus.
What a word!
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Awesome education
I found out about you today. Much love from Kenya. Very powerful message.
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Happy here from Kenya too.....This woman is blessed....
Kenyans everywhere 😂😂😂
Am a Kenyan too, found this today
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I will always say work on yourself before marriage. People get married and dont even know who they are, what they like, cant even speak for themself. Selfcare is important. How can I be married and love someone when I can't do that for myself.
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Some time the Christian them worse than the unbelievers
Please some Christian in law is very wicked
@@kellywilson3232 Spirit filled believers and wicked o not mix. Many are religious people like the Pharisees in the Bible. True sons and daughters of God will display fruit
"Destinies are sealed at the altar"
Be ye not unequally yoked with unbelievers..
Excellent counsel. Thank you for being honest and straightforward. Thanks for allowing yourself to be used by God!
I am happily married and I thank God for that 🙏🏾
Congratulations.I pray for the same for me too
@@blessedsoul949 Amen 🙏🏾
I cover your marriage with the blood of Jesus😄
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@@thebibletalesTV awesome 👍👍💓💯.ruclips.net/video/RoQyZRWIenY/видео.html
Pastor Mildred, your story touches me. There is a certain way I connect to you when you teach❤. Getting council from you and Pastor Kingsley would be an honour🙏. I desire to listen from God and to live in accordance to His will for my life. May you continue to experience the great hand of God. Love💕 from Zambia 🇿🇲
Christianity is not about changing behaviour, but the nature is changed.
Believers are no longer what you thought they were. You dont know a persons intentions whether you pray in tongues oor ears. Religion has become an escape goat to fish for innocent believers. But still marry your kind...look at the behaviour... otherwise we have unhappy pastors wives trapped in sick marriages
I can relate to the story of God not saying anything after praying. The pastor at church had even told me "my daughter do not let that (his name) plant his bad seed in you." I still went ahead with that person... Hmmmm.... The person now started showing me pepper. God saved me and set me free after fasting and praying. I am now where God had ordained me to be and I am much much happier and more productive. God sure always has better for us💃❤️🙏
Glory to God ooh 🙌🏽
Thank God you are happy and free.
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me and you are just the same... thank God for you my sister am still single and taking care of the kids alone, oga is gone with another woman
@@annathembani7290 oh Lord!
May God continue to grant you ladies the grace 🙏🏽
I stumbled on this video. Hearing her speak I know I have to listen to the very end. Am richly blessed listening to you ma. God bless you in Jesus name🙏 Nothing as beautiful as hearing from God before marriage or anything we want to venture into. Its gives a beautiful experience & brings life full of bliss. Ooh singles pls don’t take this for granted. When I wanted to marry, I knew I must not marry an unbeliever. I thank God today. He lead me to the right path. Glory to God🙏
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She explained what marriage is all about In a way I've never heard. Thks for this pastor Mildred
I will not marry wrong.
I will not miss it in marriage.
I will not be a goat but a sheep that hears God's voice in Jesus'mighty Name 🙏🏻
Amen
"o but pastor, he's a nice person". ('NICE' is not even a fruit of the spirit!!)
Amen!
"Marriage is the quality of the people in the marriage."
"You may be great but if the person you are joining with is bad, that marriage will not work."
"choose well" is the first secret to a great marriage.
"If you marry wrong, na you go suffer."
Mrs Kingsley-Okonkwo making ALL levels of sense and speaking wisdom. She surely is made for us. We Learn with each day spent with her.
Woow. What a message. Wisdom on two feet. That was more prophetic mighty woman. So inspirational and uplifting. May God keep you for this generation as you continually lead them on the Kings High Way.
Yes 💯♥️
I wish everyone listens to this before getting married, unfortunately it is too late for me but if u got the chance,please listen!
I wish l listened too..
@@nikkigodwin9641 awesome 😎 ruclips.net/video/vdHd3LRgsOU/видео.html
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It’s how pastor k looks at his beautiful wife! Especially at the time of her testimony 💕💕💕 he is sooo proud and in love! May God bless me with a husband that looks at me the same way and treats me with so much love! Thank you so much pastor Mildred and pastor Kingsley!!! My soul has been fed!!! I am free
as in ehn. it is obvious that he is proud of her.
Pastor k reciprocates the love he’s wife exudes , it’s ok to want a man who loves and treasures you but do you love your selves enough to show love to some one to show that back ?
I was thinking the same thing!!! They are a match made in heaven and they make the kingdom of God glad
Testimony, pastor K and M through this counselling and coaching lam here tell Everyone listening to you that the power of prayers is true God will answer you either in a dream or scripture or a voice will talk deep within you so loud. Marriage is Gods work is only him who can repair and renew it. Continue praying even after he answer your prayer. Exodus 17 we saw the Israelites winning each time they pray and when they stop they loose carry-on with our mighty God.
Patience pays and carry all your confusion to him he will help u to sort it well only if you are willing.
Amen, I will have a great marriage, in Christ
If you haven't picked anything from this message.. the best point to remember is that when choosing a husband, make sure he is in Christ, born again, spirit filled, no compromise on this part.. period !!! Other than this you will see pepper
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Lol @ u willl see pepe
Noted, with concern👏
My sister better cameroon pepper o
Some born again, spirit filled husbands are worse that you can imagine 😳
Believers too face a lot of difficulties being different and thinking different but the core is they can easily be caution and they will listen because they fear God
True.
Because some people think marrying a believer is express.
No, challenges are attached.
Just that the God factor is there to stabilize things.
The sobriety of her messages. Haa, God I came across her with purpose
Preaching with conviction and confidence. There is nothing as attractive than seeing a person who has experienced God.
May we all reach a level of hearing God's voice.
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Amen
I'm blessed
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You are wrong, what about born again Christians that get married and finally divorced ? There are a lot of people that are not Christians but have successful marriage.
"Marrying nonsense..."😂😂🙈
Thanks for free teachings. Watching from Kenya 🇰🇪
People go into marriage thinking to GAIN. Be ready to give everything without expecting ANYTHING. If u get back that is fine. If you don't that is still fine. Give free. For God so loved his son... Nothing like choosing well. Everybody is good.
This is a message for all women and I have experienced nothing but heartache bc I never choose correctly
God will comfort you sis!
I wish I could concil some girl, I marry and I think I sacrifice my destiny 😪. Just realizing after 10yrs. Ladies, listen marry someone in Christ.
What makes marriage work is not faith ooo. It's compatibility. Born again is not a factor when it comes to marriage. Christian marraiges are the ones suffering more because they think everything is about faith. Ask for wisdom and a partner that you're compatible with. That's enough. Marriage is a Godly institute that runs on a sociological concept. That's why it's different in various countries but the structure of the institute is the same. Faith is something that you share. Apart from faith, what else do you share ??? It's not enough. Y'all pastors should preach reality and not theories.
Saying Christian is not being in a relationship with God. Marriages fail from failure to choose well
To be a Christian is a way of life, it is not just way you say or attending church.
A true Christian is incompatible with an unbeliever unless the union was led by the Holy Spirit for a specific purpose like the case of Hosea and Gomer in the old testament.
True satisfaction in marriage can only occur in a Christ-centred union.
Anything falling short is highly risky.
Please pray for me woman of God . Am one of the singles waiting on God for a spouse.
Choose well. WHO IS SINGLE? bruhh listen to this minister. It will save you from many hurt and pain. Even if you think it will work out somehow. It may take years if at all. A hardened heart can be that way for a loooooooonng time, so it's less difficult marrying someone who believes like you. 👍 flee from stubbornness, rebelliousness, lust, fornication! In Jesus mighty and precious name 🙏 ✨
Not the camera zooming into pastor K after pastor M said "anoint him for he is the one." The look on his face was everything 🤣
Sister, I am Muslim and enjoyed your lessons..as in Islam we women also want to marry a practicing Muslim man and choose well. Beautiful lecture sister.
Hello Sister,
I enjoyed the teaching as well and was throughly blessed, but you have to remember that she made mentions of being born again; which means to give your life to and become a new person in Jesus Christ. It is those who are sons and daughters of God that will be led by God. Please give your heart to Jesus, He loves you and is willing to help you. Remain blessed!!
@@ebunehinmowo8610 Respectfully, she is Muslim and has her own faith tradition. She gave a nice compliment. It's wonderful you are strong in faith. I am Catholic. We don't all have to be of the SAME faith to learn lessons. That fact that our Muslim Sister is even here at all and found benefit is a GOOD THING. I'm Catholic and found benefit, also a GOOD THING. Christianity is not a forced issue. not 8n the time of Jesus and not now. As Christians let us just appreciate our Muslims Sister's interest in the subject matter. GOD bless you+
Hello Sister, You are welcome. I read a response from someone who I felt lacked sensitivity. So I made a comment. I hope that you will take aiment to read it.
Asalam alaikum Sis. I appreciate your religious mentality so much such that all we needed was the message and learn from it. Cos knowledge benefits the believer. Much love
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Marry a person who the person holding his remote is God🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Your teachings are life changing, I appreciate you mum.
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Am 36 and not yet married. God told me about my husband in 2017 and 2018. After praying for many years and waiting...I lost my patience and went with a Muslim man 😱😱😱. After 7 months and seeing why a believer cannot match with non believers....its very true cos av seen many things that are hurtful. Am now going back to God. Thank God I didn't have children with him.
God ministered to me through this message. Thanks so much ma.
If you get married to the "right person" you can work through the marriage. No marriage is perfect. However, if you are married to a broken person/ abusive person you can try everything it will not work no matter what you do. If it is two whole people and God is truly in both of you there is much hope. CHOOSE WELL OO. I knew something was wrong with my ex husband the red flags were there and I ignored it. Alot of red flags. Mistake I have to live with, but a lesson I learned and now I can help other women know the signs and save a life.
I really love your teaching, I am at the verge of marrying a nun believer, and this sermon is heading deep in my spirit
Pray about, the Bible says if a believing woman marries an unbelieving man. The believing woman might be saving her husbands soul. The verse is somewhere in the new testament.
Maybe God sent you into that relationship for a reason.
@@xolisilemnguni1358 that verse is only applicable if you are already married and later become a believer, and your spouse isn't. That's when the Grace is there. Choose well from the start
@@xolisilemnguni1358 that scripture refers to those MARRIED already
@@Manlyman120 True. ruclips.net/video/yGGTj93Z29I/видео.html
My sister run for your life...You'll have years of tears. Look at Devon Franklin and Mega Good's marriage!
I’ve never heard of this woman but so glad I know of her now. Powerful!!!! Thank you Jesus for this word❣️🙏🏽
Sn- I wish I understood the lingo to get the inside jokes lolz but even so I received the msg & cracked up anyways. God bless you PM. #NewSubbie
Oyaaaaa 💃💃Pst Mildred always on point
She mixes pidgin n English together n she still dey make sense
African American preparing to be a Naiji (yoruba) wife! Thank you for this!
honestly am 20 yrs in marriage but am just understanding marriage now. Thanks mama
Wow!
You don't need to know too much about marriage. Too much knowledge about marriage is one of the tricks the devil uses to destroy marriage. If you've known too much, you won't be 20 years in marriage.
@@brendawells8852 my people perish for lack of knowledge....
@@brendawells8852 I don't understand your comment, Ma'am.
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Wow, this is the best version so far woman of God! More grace ma'am
Marriage is too heavy for one person to carry 😭...my heart goes out to young widows like me. The Lord is our Help 🙏
Strength is supplied to you
Take heart dear, God is with you
2 Corinthians 6:14 "Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?"
I don't know how I got here but you just changed my life for good.
Thank you Ma for this message.
I will marry right in Jesus name... Amen
I want to get married one day but I’ll take my time
Powerful message 🙏🏿. Very insightful. We must marry well. I agree about not marrying an unbeliever! It’s not about how cute or nice that person is! That’s not enough. Thank you for sharing your story. #TeamJournaling ❤️🥁. I was so blessed by this message.
I'm really bless with this, thank you so much Pastor Mildred Okonkwo, God bless you for this, my life has just be transformed 👌
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A praying person will not suffer in marriage. Those scriptures in Isaiah are eye opening. Thank you so much PM💕
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James 1 vs 3
New International Version
3 because you know that the testing of your faith(A) produces perseverance.(B)
That is were, people are getting it wrong, please let us try & understand, the difference between human nature & prayer, every thing does not done by prayer alone, non changed by prayer
There are things u hv to changed bf praying, which helps prayers to work & attract unending blessing
Which is CHARACTER, let's hv a wonderful & a good character bf praying, which will help prayers to work perfectly Amen!
My dear sister please it's not like that, most of this happens to Christian.
@@mbagwukingsleychibuike8617 The right kind of prayer will change your character.
Good morning. How come two thirds of your preaching is only about marriage?
How come you are not preaching repentance and salvage?
How come you don't preach to people how they should get close to Jesus Christ?
Why don't you teach people how to have faith in Jesus Christ?
Who told you as woman to.preach? Haven't you heard what the scriptures say concerning women how they should be in church? 1timothy 2: 12 & 1 Corinthians 14:33-36
Haven't you ready how women are to dress? 1timothy 2:9-10. You have covered yourself with Jezebel's property how does God draw near you?
Repent and seek Jesus Christ in truth and spirit.
Very educative,
God bless woman of God