The Real Meaning of "I Do" | mildred kingsley-okonkwo

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  • Опубликовано: 23 июл 2021
  • A lot of times it's easy to read your vows to your partner in such a loving and romantic way on your wedding day and 2 month's down the line you suddenly "Can't"! Sadly it's a thing but it can be changed if you are enlightened about the journey called "marriage".
    Join Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo as she shares "The Real Meaning of "I Do".
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Комментарии • 511

  • @christypassy
    @christypassy 2 года назад +67

    "You can't be jealous that God sent someone on errands before you" so heartfelt!👏🏾

  • @estherokoro4653
    @estherokoro4653 2 года назад +58

    This is mind renewing. Ladies be careful who you listen to because you become what you're constantly hearing. God bless you Pastor Mildred. We will not marry wrong in Jesus name. Amen.

  • @ibukunogunko1266
    @ibukunogunko1266 2 года назад +280

    You inspire me ma. You probably get that statement a lot, however, this is from the depth of my heart!❤️ May you continue to receive fresh oil

    • @faith500ful
      @faith500ful 2 года назад +1

      Amen 🙏

    • @israelolorundare6140
      @israelolorundare6140 2 года назад +1

      Amen

    • @michelle_doougbudu9294
      @michelle_doougbudu9294 2 года назад +9

      I fell in love with her the first time I met her at Holyhill church in Abuja.
      May the oil on your head never dry, the Lord renews the oil over your head daily.

    • @thaduchess242
      @thaduchess242 2 года назад +2

      Yessss....she is an inspiration!!

    • @churchinn
      @churchinn Год назад

      Amen

  • @majoriebisong6984
    @majoriebisong6984 2 года назад +53

    Chaiiiiiii this Lady have wisdom, I just discovered her.

  • @annvic3996
    @annvic3996 2 года назад +107

    We need a pastor Mildred in all churches

    • @Oreoluwabukunmi_IG
      @Oreoluwabukunmi_IG 2 года назад +7

      O God, I'm so much in love with this woman and her husband. It really really shows the love of God to us sending you both to us. Thank God I discovered you both early. Infact, I so much love you both. More grace.

    • @annvic3996
      @annvic3996 2 года назад +1

      @@Oreoluwabukunmi_IG same dear

  • @daviddantefrank
    @daviddantefrank 2 года назад +9

    Honestly, this is the first time I'm hearing "Marriages is one of the easiest things to do". I'm used to hearing it's so hard so it's like you have to be fully and utterly prepared. At the end of the day, it's not something that one wants to work towards

  • @lovefelix1566
    @lovefelix1566 2 года назад +85

    The real problem with submission is that people pick wrong! #Facts

  • @moomba9110
    @moomba9110 2 года назад +157

    My Outlook on marriage is totally different since I started listening to you. I make sure I listen to you with my husband..
    Thank Lord for the wisdom mum❤️❤️❤️

    • @shobiyeruth7960
      @shobiyeruth7960 2 года назад +3

      Hmnnn I wish my husband can listen to this message instead of protecting me he will rather call them and report every little arguement to them and condemn me before his families...

    • @yetundeafelumo8755
      @yetundeafelumo8755 2 года назад +3

      @@shobiyeruth7960 please continue praying for him, gradually he will change

    • @chiomaogbonnaya5003
      @chiomaogbonnaya5003 2 года назад +1

      @@shobiyeruth7960 honestly

    • @churchinn
      @churchinn Год назад +1

      @@shobiyeruth7960 Keep praying for him dear

  • @qolokazindzinya490
    @qolokazindzinya490 2 года назад +68

    "Man are transactional, it's only a woman who marries for love" 🥺🥺🥺
    This woman is wise 🙌🙌

  • @cynthiapatrick-okolo9777
    @cynthiapatrick-okolo9777 2 года назад +124

    Pastor M&K are the funniest pastor’s I’ve ever come across. So funny but they ensure you don’t loose the message in laughter. Everything is a perfect illustration. I loveeeeeeet!

    • @Abel.oveki-ugb
      @Abel.oveki-ugb 2 года назад +1

      I love Mama Mildred pst K I swear preaching made easy

    • @kathleenibeh6309
      @kathleenibeh6309 2 года назад

      As in...sooooooo funny lol!!!

    • @churchinn
      @churchinn Год назад +1

      They are really a blessing to this generation

  • @ingabirewinnie6916
    @ingabirewinnie6916 2 года назад +6

    Marriage is assignment, love is less factor in the marriage 🍀, partnership in fulling destiny

  • @rutendo_commentary
    @rutendo_commentary 2 года назад +73

    Keep these sermons coming. Saving so many lives and marriages.

  • @candacesmith5572
    @candacesmith5572 2 года назад +15

    I am divorced and I believe marriage is a beautiful thing. I chose wrong, but God bless me with my daughter. I pray I can teach and train her to never walk in my footsteps when it comes to love.

    • @estheraiyeniwon9551
      @estheraiyeniwon9551 5 месяцев назад +1

      It’s never to late sis! You will be blessed to with your husband. The one you will be able to build with and bring out purpose. Have faith for you, too. ❤

  • @ese77ajala39
    @ese77ajala39 2 года назад +62

    She is so full of wisdom. Such an inspiration🙌🏾

  • @wchappjumbo
    @wchappjumbo 2 года назад +79

    I wish more young girls and women can follow your teachings

    • @keraoludipe1615
      @keraoludipe1615 2 года назад +4

      Instead of those craps on social media and separate operas ...

    • @bellaisen
      @bellaisen 2 года назад +13

      And young men too!

    • @ndalamamashabele5956
      @ndalamamashabele5956 2 года назад +11

      I wish more young boys and men can listen to her teachings

    • @mirimercy975
      @mirimercy975 2 года назад +7

      Let everyone listen to her, not just men or women. We all need wisdom. Two good heads are better than one..

    • @mirimercy975
      @mirimercy975 2 года назад +4

      So as you are wishing young women and ladies should listen to her, advise men to listen to her too.

  • @audienceofone9842
    @audienceofone9842 2 года назад +126

    My life would have been more meaningful if I heard these kinds of teachings in my early days.
    I pray our kids get constantly distracted from anything contrary to these teachings in Jesus name. Amen.

  • @NanaEkua593
    @NanaEkua593 2 года назад +33

    I really thank God for exposing me to you and your husband's messages.
    I am in my early 20s and single.
    I feel blessed and privileged that God is teaching me all these before I get involved in a relationship and then marriage.
    God bless you

    • @dashelledisna6239
      @dashelledisna6239 2 года назад +2

      Amen sister!! So much to learn. We Thank God📝

  • @alicebenson8059
    @alicebenson8059 2 года назад +33

    New subscriber from 🇰🇪. Not married but learning so much from you
    Pastor Mildred.

  • @praise3700
    @praise3700 2 года назад +48

    Powerfulllll!!!!!!!!! I had to stand up at some point and walk around my chair!!!!

  • @achatwithgoitse
    @achatwithgoitse 2 года назад +30

    Shocked at how beautiful the whole message was. Utterly shocked wow wow. Truly Spirit led omg thank u so so much ma'am 4 accepting the call!

  • @abigailishaya8158
    @abigailishaya8158 2 года назад +6

    Gaskiya, i now have a mindset shift after listening to thos message. I used to think about marriage as a reward not assignment. Now i knw better.I recommend this video to every single lady and man that wld one day journey into marriage.

  • @ronnelhamiel7921
    @ronnelhamiel7921 2 года назад +40

    I just love her passion about jesus christ.

  • @josephineboglo8053
    @josephineboglo8053 2 года назад +26

    I can not tell you how grateful I am to be listening to you. I am not married yet but education myself before I enter into it. Thank you so much. God bless you. More wisdom 🙏🏾🙌

  • @apugoamy5038
    @apugoamy5038 2 года назад +6

    MARRIAGE IS A JOURNEY OF DESTINY. WORD!!!!!!

  • @joyappah3264
    @joyappah3264 2 года назад +2

    I just woke up ND d Holy spirit is telling me to listen to this message, B4 I kill myself thinking am ageing out.

  • @prciousjohn3833
    @prciousjohn3833 2 года назад +40

    This has got to be the best sermon I’ve heard about marriage since the death of bimbo odukoya of blessed memory

  • @mofeetenabe
    @mofeetenabe 2 года назад +8

    You are a tank of wisdom! What??? Thank you so much for this. MY HUSBAND SUBMITS TO GOD AND I SUBMIT TO HIM. Full stop

  • @minstreltokunbo
    @minstreltokunbo 2 года назад +3

    "You cannot be jealous they sent someone on an errand before you" Hey!

  • @mfonisourua666
    @mfonisourua666 2 года назад +5

    Pastor Mildred ooooooooo satan is in trouble..... I love your passion for truth

  • @anitamatongo8087
    @anitamatongo8087 2 года назад +4

    Am not yet married and I was very sacred of marriage because of how I have seen it through people how the divorce because of this I never wished to get married.and also I read in the Bible about marriage how to be submitted,.
    But through this I'm learning and also praying to get married now.im interested to get married but on the right 💯 time
    May God protect me and guide me in very decision I will make in my life ☺️🧬..
    Marriage is very beautiful with right 💯 partner and in involving God as well 💯🥰🙏❤️I'm learning all her video and writing praying to God to have more understanding about her preaching ❤️🙏🥰💯
    Thank you Mama love 💕😍❤️

  • @nkwochaadaugo6375
    @nkwochaadaugo6375 2 года назад +6

    I don’t even know wat to say....the kind of sense I have received through you ma...I pray everyday to apply it in my daily life because!!!!!????.....in all your preachings u just have to receive sense!

  • @nayomisiamulapani252
    @nayomisiamulapani252 2 года назад +3

    One thing I love about this woman is that she is so real.

  • @weaponXsentinel1
    @weaponXsentinel1 2 года назад +6

    I can't tell you how this video has helped me. You can basically describe me as saul before he became paul. Thanks so much for this. It has rejuvenated me to get back to God. Bless you and thank you @Mildred Kingsley-Okonkwo.

  • @omoteseirusota5712
    @omoteseirusota5712 Год назад +3

    A year later and I am still more than blessed listening to this . Thanks PST Mildred

  • @eberechiuzor9869
    @eberechiuzor9869 2 года назад +4

    God help me!
    I never want to marry wrong. Thank God I am privileged to hear this.

  • @user-cp4qp3jd4y
    @user-cp4qp3jd4y 3 месяца назад +1

    I now understand what marriage is 👏👏👏 and I will not pick wrong in Jesus name 🙏🙏

  • @ClaretWanjiku
    @ClaretWanjiku 16 дней назад +1

    Marriage is an Assignment not a Reward❤

  • @lindakalindi1697
    @lindakalindi1697 2 года назад +38

    Always blessed to hear from Pastor M and Pastor K. This mantle of family and marriage is on fire 🔥
    God bless you and keep you always! 💕

  • @EfiaO
    @EfiaO 2 года назад +13

    THE TITLE ALONE😍😍😍
    Can't wait to be blessed by this message!☺

  • @claudemj1542
    @claudemj1542 6 месяцев назад +2

    This Pastor is wonderful, my life is healed by your sermons. I see things differently in Gods way now. Be blessed, may the Lord shower you with anointing all the time, Amen

  • @ngeeegirl
    @ngeeegirl 2 года назад +26

    You’re too much ma! My goodness, authenticity at its peak!!! Pure truth. You see that submission part....ladies that is key! I can’t even shout. Marry who you can submit to 😍😍😊😊😊😍😍

  • @naomichioma9031
    @naomichioma9031 2 года назад +3

    I have not met you in person ma,but I love you deeply,you are my role model,you n your husband are perfect examples of the future I desire.Fresh oil will never be lacking in your life,in Jesus name,Amen.

  • @leteipagitonga7181
    @leteipagitonga7181 2 года назад +7

    Good job Mildred. Always watching you from KE 🇰🇪

  • @amercy5024
    @amercy5024 2 года назад +5

    "My straight shooter pastor" as I like to call her, menh !!! This message is deep!!! Thank🙏 you JESUS for this insights🤔!

  • @francisshazia3554
    @francisshazia3554 3 месяца назад +1

    As usual A woman of strength God has grown what a powerful message. Thank you thank you , thank you

  • @nsalifyemutanuka2379
    @nsalifyemutanuka2379 2 года назад +31

    Amen. Woow i have been blessed by this powerful teaching. I will Choose wisely. Marriage is an assignment and will do it well. I am a suitable helper, i will honour, submit and make him my hero and he will love me like Christ loves the church, he will lead me and commit to learn me and my love language forever
    Praise the Lord.

  • @nsangoufarida8146
    @nsangoufarida8146 2 года назад +11

    God bless you ma, i celebrate grace,and pray for more oil. I despised marriage growing up because i grew up in bad homes, but after listening to you and Rev Funke Felix Adejumo. Alot changed and am looking forward to having an examplinary home with the guide of the Holy spirit. More oil ma, i tell you, you are saving lives by answering God's call. Thank you.

    • @karenroach5171
      @karenroach5171 2 года назад

      True true ....I love ma Funke.....their heart and passion for marriage is truly transforming

  • @keraoludipe1615
    @keraoludipe1615 2 года назад +30

    Pastor M! I enjoyed this sermon, the infusion of jokes 😄 and I learned a lot too! Thank you for answering the call to ministry. God bless you richly 🙏

  • @emmaphinehairvolution9089
    @emmaphinehairvolution9089 2 года назад +3

    My husband is obviously a very good good man, cooked by the Holy Ghost. Very selfless and loving. Fully obeying the Father, the author of marriage. Lord, help me to also be the woman you want me to be to him

  • @esthermanuamankwah6235
    @esthermanuamankwah6235 2 года назад +6

    I just thank God I came across your videos on RUclips. I believe I have the same ministry as your own. You inspire me so much. I wish I can get into contact with you. I am in Ghana though. So much wisdom from your teachings. God bless you Ma

  • @carolinekusimba8154
    @carolinekusimba8154 2 года назад +19

    Wow, I was so blessed and sad it ended without you finishing all the points. I'm at a place where I'm trusting God for my Boaz so this message was right on time! Be blessed I follow you from Kenya

  • @Rose-bv2ho
    @Rose-bv2ho 2 года назад +1

    ‘Marriage is not a reward, but an assignment’

  • @DulceJose-hf6zb
    @DulceJose-hf6zb 4 дня назад

    Jesus you love me too much oooooo I am forever grateful for the life of this minister of the gospel!

  • @joshuaeseigbe9904
    @joshuaeseigbe9904 2 года назад +14

    Mama, You and PK have been a blessing to me. My concept of marriage and relationship has been transformed positively ever since i started listening to your teachings. Thanks for this bullets and nuggets again. They're like Gods voice to me.

  • @johnodey1927
    @johnodey1927 2 года назад +6

    Holy Ghost filled message with a sprinkle of humour, I love ittt.
    More anointing ma

  • @nnaetolyndalynda9731
    @nnaetolyndalynda9731 2 года назад +14

    I just love your simplified way of teaching and your smile is heart warming. More fresh oil of anointing upon you ma'am... Am blessed and believing God for my own Boaz.

  • @edukejuliet5351
    @edukejuliet5351 2 года назад +1

    Thank you so much ma,am not married and everyday am pushing friend to get married to me,with this your massage am going to pray over it yo choose well,for me to be happy in my marriage, am even a single mother with 2kids,ma'am your preaching has touch me today,thanks very much, God bless you.

  • @yaniquewilliams3248
    @yaniquewilliams3248 2 года назад +19

    I laughed through this whole msg, it as really inspired me and it as really made me realise that my conception of what marriage is, is so so so wrong

    • @julietachen887
      @julietachen887 2 года назад +4

      Pastor. M, everyday I listen to you, you open my eyes to truth ...there's no way I can make a wrong marriage choice.
      I love you from Uganda

  • @chinyereakpan7883
    @chinyereakpan7883 2 года назад +7

    Where on earth have I been 🤷‍♀️you are just a breath of fresh air in a marital value dilapidating world 🥰🥰🥰🥰! Your oil shall never run dry🙏🏼

  • @johnsontoyosi3217
    @johnsontoyosi3217 Месяц назад

    Powerful an glued forever. Am almost 10yrs in marriage and i got so confused, problems here and there seems like nothing is working, then i decided to look for marriage counselling programs on RUclips and boom this came in. I tell you i am super hyped right now. Am glued here forever and i hope am able to work things out with the help of God

  • @classicalretroback
    @classicalretroback 2 года назад +2

    God bless you and your husband ma for coming to enlighten many christian marriages with wisdom to save them from ignorance.🙌🏽

  • @chinyereirabor1897
    @chinyereirabor1897 2 года назад +12

    Pastor Mildred, This message is simply Explosive. God Bless and keep increasing his Grace upon your life in Jesus Mighty Name, Amen

  • @nancyadumera7654
    @nancyadumera7654 2 года назад +6

    Wisdom Ma,if only some of us know this long ago. Thank you soo much, as a woman leader in my church I will spread this msg to our women. God bless you!!

  • @florenceawuor-favour
    @florenceawuor-favour 2 года назад +3

    Since i knew you mum.... I've learnt alot and everyday i want to run home from work just to watch atleast one video from you thank you

  • @abieyuwaolayinka9011
    @abieyuwaolayinka9011 2 года назад +6

    I thank God for this woman of God. This is so far the most humourous message of her's that I have listened to. Thank you and your sweetie for these eye openers into relationships.

  • @glory_plus4100
    @glory_plus4100 2 года назад +3

    You reconfirmerd what I had as opinion about it. God used me to comfort me….society and especially family pressure sometime is too much,at the point you just pick anyone anyhow. I use to tell them,lemme take my time,God has to mold me and prepare for the errands,too much factors put inside. Choice of all life can not be taken just like that. Holy Spirit,thanks for the wisdom you use in your servant, may God bless you and still protect you

  • @ranelleroberts1831
    @ranelleroberts1831 2 года назад +4

    Thank God I found this woman who is full of these wisdom and understanding of the word of God. I know I'll be alright in my next relationship thanks to her teaching

  • @EfiaO
    @EfiaO 2 года назад +8

    That point on going to the mortuary to find a spouse got me🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯

  • @NYBwithC
    @NYBwithC 2 года назад +7

    Chai!!! All I can say is... God bless you ma, much ❤️❤️❤️❤️.

  • @francaneizer7129
    @francaneizer7129 2 года назад +4

    Wow...I really love you woman of God.
    You frankness is golden. May God give you more strength to do more.
    Greetings from Ghana 🇬🇭

  • @swazi4769
    @swazi4769 2 года назад +10

    The confidence and truth in this message 🙌.
    Wow listening with my husband. I'm actually happy to have him listen in, even though indirectly.

  • @titilayolawal2881
    @titilayolawal2881 2 года назад +1

    You just speak my mindset about marriage:
    **Marriage is God sending you on an assignment

  • @Elohoralago
    @Elohoralago 2 года назад +6

    First time listening to her. I love her already. God bless you ma

  • @abiolasonde5294
    @abiolasonde5294 2 года назад +1

    Marriage is not a reward but an assignment

  • @drsarahprincessmwema5398
    @drsarahprincessmwema5398 2 года назад +1

    Sign of end times
    Very true
    Marriage is still Gods will

  • @Gods_great_Joy
    @Gods_great_Joy 2 года назад +5

    It’s the end for me - “Don’t leave me” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Thanks for this powerful message, Pastor M. God bless you richly 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @priscilliawendy9584
    @priscilliawendy9584 2 года назад +7

    Am so speechless right now🙇 . it all makes sense now. Thanks Ma for the inspiration 😇

  • @cutesnubable
    @cutesnubable 2 года назад +3

    Best message on submission I’ve heard so far. Clear cut.

  • @mamahkay6960
    @mamahkay6960 2 года назад +2

    God bless you for the constant counseling maami

  • @stephanieagbonika8948
    @stephanieagbonika8948 2 года назад +1

    Just love you ma, wish I heard you b4 I entered into hell with my eyes opened. Thank God, my daughter is spared this pain.

  • @sophiagreene4535
    @sophiagreene4535 Год назад +1

    Love is The Least Factor in a marriage, Love is An Assignment! Speak Pastor! Jesus!

  • @sandraigbinoghene1650
    @sandraigbinoghene1650 2 года назад +1

    What a wisdom talk, "is this the kind of person I want to reproduce his kind"
    May God Almighty help us all in Jesus Mighty Name Amen.

  • @dtallestemmanuelidoko5778
    @dtallestemmanuelidoko5778 2 года назад +1

    You hit the point so clearly, Marriage is a sacrament of service and service to God.
    God gave us an assignment and will can do it well only when we understands the content of the assignments given to us.
    Am inspired Ma

  • @sophiagreene4535
    @sophiagreene4535 Год назад +1

    God is not about Love, it's about God's will for His Glory!

  • @Pharez85
    @Pharez85 2 года назад +2

    I beg to differ; this is not how all men are but my prayer is that, most men can understand the point and adjust accordingly 🙏🏽

  • @eikwojomomoh5048
    @eikwojomomoh5048 2 месяца назад +1

    God bless you pastor Mildred, i get to learn new things from you whenever i watch your videos.

  • @Listentomusicist
    @Listentomusicist 2 года назад +2

    Powerful teaching, amen!

  • @lilmandasamuel8490
    @lilmandasamuel8490 2 года назад +2

    Don't Leave Me 😂
    Deep Teachings
    God Bless Your Ministry 🔥

  • @UK-sm4co
    @UK-sm4co 2 года назад +1

    Blessed be the name of the lord 🙏
    Dear lord, thank you for your word

  • @lauriedjossou1212
    @lauriedjossou1212 2 года назад +8

    I thank God for your life and i can't wait to hear this message woo....

  • @ruthmaseme
    @ruthmaseme 2 года назад +1

    Where was I all these years? My goodness 🤦..I would have made proper decisions, what's left now is to learn from my previous mistakes and do it right now and in years to come.Thankyou Ma, you are blessing to me

  • @clairevernyuy5827
    @clairevernyuy5827 2 года назад

    OH LORD I AM BLESSED. THANK YOU MA

  • @mycityofpraise
    @mycityofpraise 2 года назад +4

    EXCELLENCE!! I CELEBRATE YOU PASTOR!! MORE GRACE!!!

  • @GraceThrone5
    @GraceThrone5 2 года назад +1

    Facebook brought me here💜, this minister is so natural GOD bless you ma

  • @marycris4222
    @marycris4222 2 года назад +17

    I just stumbled into you!i know its not by chance!i listened to "what to do when waiting "n i am so happy for the hope n strength you've given me ma'am.am really grateful

  • @jessyrolly9918
    @jessyrolly9918 2 года назад

    Awesome message. Thank you pastor Mildred. More grace and anointing upon your life. God bless you.

  • @aderonkesamuel6319
    @aderonkesamuel6319 2 года назад +2

    Thank you Mama. You nailed it. Love you!

  • @ibudemercy7807
    @ibudemercy7807 2 года назад +6

    Good evening pastor m you look stunning in this outfit its a privilege listening to you thanks God bless you 🙏

  • @justmo6896
    @justmo6896 2 года назад

    Loove this woman of God🔥❤great sermon😁😁😁

  • @Gladcorner
    @Gladcorner 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this message pastor Mildred