This question catches me as insincere. Any woman that claims that she can't spot a good man is basically admitting that she has zero discernment and should be a ward of the state. All she has to do is look at any relationship that she considers functional and see how that man behaves. The problem is that most women don't want to introspect and ask themselves why they find those behaviors so repugnant or low priority.
That’s false! A relationship can look functional on the outside and on the inside it’s nothing but toxic! Narcissistic men have a role they play in the beginning. And unless you dealt with one before a woman would not have discernment to differentiate if he’s just putting on an act to trap her or if he’s sincere. It’s not so black and white when you’re dealing with a con artist.
This video could have been also titled things your father should have told you (for the ladies) Thank you so much for this video I needed to hear this 🙏🏾
good one big bro.but women will date a bad boy 4 months,when he goes to jail she will go to the next.plain and simple they know what a good man is ,they just don't want one.................not yet.
Another good one Lar.I know when I've met a man. Trust me I acknowledge him. The problem is being honest & sincere about certain topic or two, not all though.
Let's just be honest a woman ask him this question really it is not interested in a good man. The truth is we have these conversations and try to be out for Mystic about it the truth is most women choose men who they think they have chemistry with. How many times have you heard the conversation where a woman is told a man is good but she says for some reason she just doesn't have any chemistry right. But they're not going to say that because that would be accountability so they're going to have these colorism arguments and men not building with your bullshit that's not how they were choosing then they were choosing man cuz he had good spinning rims on his car and dress fly and shit like that come on
just spoke to a friend tonight at a party. She's 45 w/ two kiddies and she stated that she was previously married. I asked her how long were they together..she stated 6 years. She then said she only stayed with him because he was "gorgeous" and she literally asked did I have any single good friends available because she wanted to start over....they are just as superficial as men most times. They completely throw logic out the window.
Taiysha Hobbs I mean of course any good person who would have all those character traits are ideal but that's not necessarily what men are looking for in a woman like intelligence for example he's not looking specifically for a woman who's intelligent he doesn't want her to be stupid but you understand what I'm saying we're interested in her being caring nurturing that type of deal do you get it
Keith Lamont I get it. Not the intelligence part though. There are different forms of intelligence. Most intelligent guys I have ever known, really seem to appreciate and like an intelligent woman.
Taiysha Hobbs yes we appreciate and intelligent woman that's not what I'm saying what I'm saying there are other things that are coming before that the fact that she's intelligent is further down on the list is she attractive is she supportive is she nurturing which you make a good mother does she support our dreams does she produce a sense of calm when I walk in the door sure it's nice and she's intelligent but I'm talking about context. The context was essentially are those same qualities that were named being look for in women and I'm saying yes out of context but there are other things that men are looking for first
Keith Lamont A lot of things are intertwined. I think in most instances, you would catch or notice a person’s intelligence (male or female) before you find out if they are untiring, supportive, progressive, etc.
Why did you not mention having morals, values, character, doing the right thing when nobody's looking, honesty most of the things you mentioned don't make a good man in my eyes any man can posses those things Is God the head of his life??? Does he take care of his kids??You mentioned none if that stuff ...why cause those things bm don't really posses????? I'd like to Kno???????? Please awnswer
+Re Fi I'm betting you are a woman by your talking points. Problem is, you don't get to dictate what manhood is from your point of view. You're not a man, so you really don't know what you are talking about.
larmovement no I'm not trying to dictate anything.. The things I mentioned are common character traits that makes a good person period..The stuff I mentioned is universal!! Wow you guys are lost and just don't get it.. I can agree to disagree with you on this one..Have a good day sir!!! And Yes I am a lady!!!
larmovement you don't seem to know them that's why I mentioned those things!! I guess we can agree everyone has a different view on what makes a good man !! Don't be so emotional and in your feeling dang Gina calm down... LoL it's all good!!
Good guys have a daily routine and its starts with work and character
This question catches me as insincere. Any woman that claims that she can't spot a good man is basically admitting that she has zero discernment and should be a ward of the state. All she has to do is look at any relationship that she considers functional and see how that man behaves. The problem is that most women don't want to introspect and ask themselves why they find those behaviors so repugnant or low priority.
Always Learnin' Even though it can be insincere, the question was answered. So there is less wiggle room for excuses.
That’s false! A relationship can look functional on the outside and on the inside it’s nothing but toxic!
Narcissistic men have a role they play in the beginning. And unless you dealt with one before a woman would not have discernment to differentiate if he’s just putting on an act to trap her or if he’s sincere. It’s not so black and white when you’re dealing with a con artist.
This video could have been also titled things your father should have told you (for the ladies)
Thank you so much for this video I needed to hear this 🙏🏾
good one big bro.but women will date a bad boy 4 months,when he goes to jail she will go to the next.plain and simple they know what a good man is ,they just don't want one.................not yet.
megatron exactly
Spacely Man they don’t want one till they hit the wall. And even then it’s only for survival not because of genuine attraction
Black women thinks a good black man or you may say, a confident black man. They think we are cocky..
"The scariest man, is a confident black man."
I’m going to share this video with my teenage sisters. Thx 💛.
You spit good shit.
Great video definitely sharing this one!
Another good one Lar.I know when I've met a man. Trust me I acknowledge him. The problem is being honest & sincere about certain topic or two, not all though.
What do you mean about being honest? And sincere? Why would that be an issue?
Let's just be honest a woman ask him this question really it is not interested in a good man. The truth is we have these conversations and try to be out for Mystic about it the truth is most women choose men who they think they have chemistry with. How many times have you heard the conversation where a woman is told a man is good but she says for some reason she just doesn't have any chemistry right. But they're not going to say that because that would be accountability so they're going to have these colorism arguments and men not building with your bullshit that's not how they were choosing then they were choosing man cuz he had good spinning rims on his car and dress fly and shit like that come on
just spoke to a friend tonight at a party. She's 45 w/ two kiddies and she stated that she was previously married. I asked her how long were they together..she stated 6 years. She then said she only stayed with him because he was "gorgeous" and she literally asked did I have any single good friends available because she wanted to start over....they are just as superficial as men most times. They completely throw logic out the window.
i have a sister with four small kids and she talk's about living more than once lol. logic is gone with most women.
Matthew Odom Smh. I could never be with a girl simply off of those principals alone.
Amen
Hitting nails on heads. I'm subscribing from other channel
Truth on this. On the organised one
You seem to be very intelligent
Hey fam let’s talk about fashion in regards to who a man is.
+by Kevin Samuels Okay. I'm getting off work in a few. So what time do you have in mind.
I emailed you but it got sent back. Either email me or send me your email again
@larmovement you look like a robber that's a model #thosegloves #AllBlackEverything 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
Nigga you gay. Lol
Its a East Coast thing, I actually like the gloves, could be a different color tho lol, good video message.
Good video and topic. Would you say a “good woman” has similar qualities?
Taiysha Hobbs Yeah but there are certain things that each gender specializes in.
Taiysha Hobbs I mean of course any good person who would have all those character traits are ideal but that's not necessarily what men are looking for in a woman like intelligence for example he's not looking specifically for a woman who's intelligent he doesn't want her to be stupid but you understand what I'm saying we're interested in her being caring nurturing that type of deal do you get it
Keith Lamont I get it. Not the intelligence part though. There are different forms of intelligence. Most intelligent guys I have ever known, really seem to appreciate and like an intelligent woman.
Taiysha Hobbs yes we appreciate and intelligent woman that's not what I'm saying what I'm saying there are other things that are coming before that the fact that she's intelligent is further down on the list is she attractive is she supportive is she nurturing which you make a good mother does she support our dreams does she produce a sense of calm when I walk in the door sure it's nice and she's intelligent but I'm talking about context. The context was essentially are those same qualities that were named being look for in women and I'm saying yes out of context but there are other things that men are looking for first
Keith Lamont A lot of things are intertwined. I think in most instances, you would catch or notice a person’s intelligence (male or female) before you find out if they are untiring, supportive, progressive, etc.
Why did you not mention having morals, values, character, doing the right thing when nobody's looking, honesty most of the things you mentioned don't make a good man in my eyes any man can posses those things Is God the head of his life??? Does he take care of his kids??You mentioned none if that stuff ...why cause those things bm don't really posses????? I'd like to Kno???????? Please awnswer
+Re Fi I'm betting you are a woman by your talking points. Problem is, you don't get to dictate what manhood is from your point of view. You're not a man, so you really don't know what you are talking about.
larmovement no I'm not trying to dictate anything.. The things I mentioned are common character traits that makes a good person period..The stuff I mentioned is universal!! Wow you guys are lost and just don't get it.. I can agree to disagree with you on this one..Have a good day sir!!! And Yes I am a lady!!!
Re Fi So why would I have to say "common character traits" that are "universal"? That means you already know those.
larmovement you don't seem to know them that's why I mentioned those things!! I guess we can agree everyone has a different view on what makes a good man !! Don't be so emotional and in your feeling dang Gina calm down... LoL it's all good!!
Re Fi
And I guess your man has all those qualities?