Some women will never be happy and will always look beyond the good black man. They are always trying to find something you don't do for them. I asked an ex of mine to write down 10 things that would make her happy in our relationship. I met all 10 things she listed in over a two month period. I waited 6 months later, told her that I misplaced the list, and to rewrite the list for me. She wrote an entirely different list of things that would make her happy. I cut her off because she will never be happy. I took a marriage and family therapy class in college. My professor told me that if a woman writes a totally different list the 2nd time, she is ungrateful and will never be happy. She should have said, "there is no need to write another list because you met the needs from my previous list." Great job brother.
I cut the bullshit now. I am direct, "Are you attracted to me?". Yes? This is where I'm going in life. No? Have a good day! A woman will get 1 chance with me!
The 2 main reasons good black men are overlooked is 1 women want men other women want. Whatever is populare amongst other women. 2 to fit in. To have a functional reltionship amongst dysfunction doesnt allow them to fit in with their sister's dialogue.
I agree I treated her like a queen so she treated me like her servant instead of her king love the hat my brotha da bears but foreal though y'all listen to this man he spitfire
Isaiah Taylor imagine if Asian women acted like that. Asian Americans would be living in similar conditions. Productive men can't save a community of women who want unproductive men.
I don't think so either but because of how men view African American women I'm stuck with these sterotypes because I'm black. It's really not fair to us, ppl here look at race and not culture. It's so unfortunate.
2 yrs larmovement you put this video out and with all the information that has been put out for us to study and abide. we are still dealing with the same issues today.
I feel you talked about this before... but you keep uncovering layers on this subject. Keep peeling these layers man. P.S. Thank you for not looking at the clock. Keep making videos the length you want them to be.
Brother I'm just seeing this! Man you just Hit the Nail on the Head!! its %100 fair,honest and real.keep building up this Minisrty bro.You just put All of this stuff into its proper perspectives,I will pass this around to all that I can,our community needs this,God'lyWisdom man.👍👍👍😐
I remember back in high school even though it was primarily white I went to school with kids who were school choice. These two black kids now they are young men were in the grade above me but they helped me out as a freshman in school just get regulated and stuff in a new school and we were friends and it was just awesome to talk to them after school and in the hallway and they would check in on me and as someone one who never knew a black man before it made a positive impression for how I see black men because just them talking to me for a few minutes made my day better. I remember a lot of black girls when they would try and talk to them see them as lame and boring and for me I liked these guys. To me it seemed like they were really going places in life and they are and I even asked one of them out for coffee but even he wanted a black woman so it’s not them rejecting black women it’s black women rejecting them a lot of the time when they are clean cut and stuck in the books they are seen as lame. To me they seemed and were and are great people who I liked to be around.
I've long considered that one of our major problems is when the arguments of the rightous, intelligent,resposible,capable ones is mimicked by the unworthy.just like what you are doing now with seemingly good intentions from hopefully sincere motives and observations, the problem is always when the unworthy take over the discourse then it gets more difficult for the untrained eye tobdistinguish and all get lumped together. No diferent than when we. Went from free politicalnprisoners to free everyone. Just an example. Now that the undesirables are having there time and run i just pray we survive the savage mentallity. Dont. Get me wrong m not discrediting necessary evils m just eyeing the balance and recognize all deeds and intents arent equal
plus black women can attract way more and date way more than any average black man. they can get a new guy every day of the week if they wanted to!!! what black man you know that can get a woman any given time he steps out the house(without flashing or advertising that you have money). bout to watch theres nothing in it for good black men
mrjonathanjackson89 this is true. Plus black women who take care of themselves age really well. I'm 29 and my boyfriend who is 46 and Argentinian swears that I'm in my late teens. He even showed up to my job once unannounced just to make sure I'm really an adult with a career and he's not some perv robbing the cradle.
Over looking a good man worked for me,women who overlooked me afew years for getting dogged,kids,hanging guts, you get to see and over look that,as men we like good looking,tight kats,we learn looks and ass don't pay bills
It's scary how you are literally describing my life in realtime I'm 25... Literally even with the older women statement. I'm already planning to date younger, but insight as to when would be more appreciated than you will ever know. Question how far apart? Like as in what age should her and I be?
All Good black women are overlooked as well due people holding the next person accountable for what the last person did and putting folks in these categories. If you stop carrying baggage and give the person a fair chance then maybe they could see how genuine that person is instead of bailing out at a slight sign of an “issue”
Beautiful Neah, that's bullshit you talking. I can bet money that you walk past good brothas every day like they're invisible. No one is ignoring good black women, you are just chasing the same men that the dimes are after.
What about the good men who get tricked into loving a woman who at first seems to be everything you wanted then got married had kids then she went bat shit crazy mad disrespectful and made my life miserable
Yo Jamal the thugs. Even though their behavior is defined as hyper masculine, it’s actually feminine because it’s very emotionally driven. They get that from being raised by single mothers. Most of these women don’t know what true masculinity is because they’ve never been around it. Either that or they’re intimidated by it because it will require submission and cooperation from them and they’d rather drink motor oil than submit. They won’t have control so they’ll find a way to shit on true black male masculinity. For all sistas talk about not being able to “handle” a strong (read bitchy and argumentative) black woman, it’s projection for their inability to handle and submit to a strong masculine black man.
All the time...that's why they had the whole deal talking about down low men. Its always right out in the open. LoL the man that loves shoe shopping more than women has WOMEN plural. ...and probably men.
Some women will never be happy and will always look beyond the good black man. They are always trying to find something you don't do for them. I asked an ex of mine to write down 10 things that would make her happy in our relationship. I met all 10 things she listed in over a two month period. I waited 6 months later, told her that I misplaced the list, and to rewrite the list for me. She wrote an entirely different list of things that would make her happy. I cut her off because she will never be happy. I took a marriage and family therapy class in college. My professor told me that if a woman writes a totally different list the 2nd time, she is ungrateful and will never be happy. She should have said, "there is no need to write another list because you met the needs from my previous list."
Great job brother.
Good stuff, I take that nugget and put it in my information bank.
lol...
Derrick Evans AWESOME STORY! I certainly can't disagree, but it is far from limited to black woman.
Derrick Evans
Damn!
So true !
Damn that’s deep
It takes 10 to 30 years for a good man to reach a certain point in his life. Most black women cannot see further than two weeks into the future.
Truth
They want fast money
Black women want to meet the winners at the finish line. There is something good about being with a woman when you are on your way up.
You know a guy can get tired of many of these gals knuckle heads 😐
Not only black women let me bust that myth these type of broads are in every race 😅😅😅
I cut the bullshit now. I am direct, "Are you attracted to me?". Yes? This is where I'm going in life. No? Have a good day!
A woman will get 1 chance with me!
spot on brother.. They want us to play the clean up man ....No thx ..
GHXST GXD you smart lol i aint cleaning up no mans mess
This why they love Russel Wilson
@@BluEx22329 yup simp
The 2 main reasons good black men are overlooked is 1 women want men other women want. Whatever is populare amongst other women. 2 to fit in. To have a functional reltionship amongst dysfunction doesnt allow them to fit in with their sister's dialogue.
Aaron Johnson so true
Amen to that, I totally agree with you.
I can relate to what hes talking about here, as a good man who is almost always overlooked. Real talk LAR
Alotta black women have terrible judge of character
Isaiah Taylor Because the women have poor character. It's as simple as that!
Can't expect women to use much logic. They're emotional bro
just because he made her laugh so she gone let him f#ck foh
Daniel Porter 😂😂😂😂
Black women goes with black men that's like themselves, phucked up
I agree I treated her like a queen so she treated me like her servant instead of her king love the hat my brotha da bears but foreal though y'all listen to this man he spitfire
I don't think other ethnic groups have this problem to this extreme.
Chocolate Giddy Up youre right
Isaiah Taylor imagine if Asian women acted like that. Asian Americans would be living in similar conditions. Productive men can't save a community of women who want unproductive men.
Lmao no they don’t
I don't think so either but because of how men view African American women I'm stuck with these sterotypes because I'm black. It's really not fair to us, ppl here look at race and not culture. It's so unfortunate.
Pretty much they don't.
Got to definitely share this truth. If this aint 100% fact I don't know what is .
TRUTH at its FINEST!!!!!!!! 👏👏👏👏
2 yrs larmovement you put this video out and with all the information that has been put out for us to study and abide. we are still dealing with the same issues today.
PhuckUMean 3 years now...
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The more I listen to your channel, the more I like your content/style. 👌✌💪🔥💯
Glad you enjoy the content
I feel you talked about this before... but you keep uncovering layers on this subject. Keep peeling these layers man. P.S. Thank you for not looking at the clock. Keep making videos the length you want them to be.
Good stuff as usual, my brother...
Brother I'm just seeing this! Man you just Hit the Nail on the Head!! its %100 fair,honest and real.keep building up this Minisrty bro.You just put All of this stuff into its proper perspectives,I will pass this around to all that I can,our community needs this,God'lyWisdom man.👍👍👍😐
Good black men are overlooked because a good black is not her perfrence.
Real spill , keep up the good work G
I remember back in high school even though it was primarily white I went to school with kids who were school choice. These two black kids now they are young men were in the grade above me but they helped me out as a freshman in school just get regulated and stuff in a new school and we were friends and it was just awesome to talk to them after school and in the hallway and they would check in on me and as someone one who never knew a black man before it made a positive impression for how I see black men because just them talking to me for a few minutes made my day better. I remember a lot of black girls when they would try and talk to them see them as lame and boring and for me I liked these guys. To me it seemed like they were really going places in life and they are and I even asked one of them out for coffee but even he wanted a black woman so it’s not them rejecting black women it’s black women rejecting them a lot of the time when they are clean cut and stuck in the books they are seen as lame. To me they seemed and were and are great people who I liked to be around.
Love the diving analogy lmao.
Yet another excellent video. Preach.
Great video.
keep doing good work
Nice diving analogy you're talking nitrogen gathering in the lungs and causing suffocating
I've long considered that one of our major problems is when the arguments of the rightous, intelligent,resposible,capable ones is mimicked by the unworthy.just like what you are doing now with seemingly good intentions from hopefully sincere motives and observations, the problem is always when the unworthy take over the discourse then it gets more difficult for the untrained eye tobdistinguish and all get lumped together. No diferent than when we. Went from free politicalnprisoners to free everyone. Just an example. Now that the undesirables are having there time and run i just pray we survive the savage mentallity. Dont. Get me wrong m not discrediting necessary evils m just eyeing the balance and recognize all deeds and intents arent equal
In a world where perception becomes more factual than reality only well trained eyes can see pastnthe smokescreens
Real shit bro
TSU alum '97 ...to the day I die.
Amen to that, Brother! 3:53
.L.A.R. outstanding video, thanks...pacthes tyron harwell
Truth
📢 Real Red 💊
I Just Say It Nice.
Then I Move Cold& Quick!!
You'll get Bends doing that
plus black women can attract way more and date way more than any average black man. they can get a new guy every day of the week if they wanted to!!! what black man you know that can get a woman any given time he steps out the house(without flashing or advertising that you have money). bout to watch theres nothing in it for good black men
mrjonathanjackson89 this is true. Plus black women who take care of themselves age really well. I'm 29 and my boyfriend who is 46 and Argentinian swears that I'm in my late teens. He even showed up to my job once unannounced just to make sure I'm really an adult with a career and he's not some perv robbing the cradle.
@@reclaimedandrested 😆😂🤣😅 You ain't got no damn Argentine. 😂🤣 you are too funny. I'm laughing so hard my brain hurts. 😂🤣
Curtchrisdagod 😂 😂 they be lying bro
the Empress I’ve never read so much bullshit in my life 🤣🤣
@@Curtchrisdagod lol
Amel Larrieux. 🎶🎶
Over looking a good man worked for me,women who overlooked me afew years for getting dogged,kids,hanging guts, you get to see and over look that,as men we like good looking,tight kats,we learn looks and ass don't pay bills
back then they didnt want me now im hot they all on me.... not really but i get it
Classic
It's scary how you are literally describing my life in realtime I'm 25... Literally even with the older women statement. I'm already planning to date younger, but insight as to when would be more appreciated than you will ever know. Question how far apart? Like as in what age should her and I be?
Bear down, #already
💯💯💯💯
U cute .... who overlooked u ? Come to London u won't be overlooked over here 😍
I've noticed this in non black woman, mgtow lifestyle.
😂😂😂 it’s called “the bends” 😂😂😂😂 you funny but you not lying tho 🤷🏾♀️
You find that funny? What did he say was funny?
You and your voices (how women talk) lolololololol
Lmao @ HELP ME!
All Good black women are overlooked as well due people holding the next person accountable for what the last person did and putting folks in these categories. If you stop carrying baggage and give the person a fair chance then maybe they could see how genuine that person is instead of bailing out at a slight sign of an “issue”
Thank you. I have no kids and no man. I'd love to be in a relationship. But I'm the corny black girl while men want the IG girls.
Not all. You know how hard it is for me to find a cool woman without kids. I don't have any baggage. I take care of myself. Im almost ready to give up
Beautiful Neah, that's bullshit you talking. I can bet money that you walk past good brothas every day like they're invisible. No one is ignoring good black women, you are just chasing the same men that the dimes are after.
What about the good men who get tricked into loving a woman who at first seems to be everything you wanted then got married had kids then she went bat shit crazy mad disrespectful and made my life miserable
That's a deflection. The subject is about black men. You make it about you. And good women still date riff raff.
When do women choose the Effeminate guy? Never heard of that one lol
Yo Jamal the thugs. Even though their behavior is defined as hyper masculine, it’s actually feminine because it’s very emotionally driven. They get that from being raised by single mothers. Most of these women don’t know what true masculinity is because they’ve never been around it. Either that or they’re intimidated by it because it will require submission and cooperation from them and they’d rather drink motor oil than submit. They won’t have control so they’ll find a way to shit on true black male masculinity. For all sistas talk about not being able to “handle” a strong (read bitchy and argumentative) black woman, it’s projection for their inability to handle and submit to a strong masculine black man.
All the time...that's why they had the whole deal talking about down low men. Its always right out in the open. LoL the man that loves shoe shopping more than women has WOMEN plural. ...and probably men.
Lol .. this came on again 😂 auto play 😝
Stop trying to act lighthearted about the inferiority of black woman.....
Sadly the woman that like nice brothers our white woman or latina woman. I say that bad because want a bw.
what a great metaphor LAR bottom dwellers catching the bends sickness from trying to move up to the surface too fast. HA HA!
I think its not many guys or women color struck anymore within the black community.... or maybe i don't pay attention...
Great Video