Why Shaming Black Men Won't Work

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  • Опубликовано: 7 фев 2025
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  • @MikeNice4Ever
    @MikeNice4Ever 6 лет назад +45

    Just saw a sister say that bw don't want protection(preventive measures)they really want rescue(save me after I fucked everything up).

    • @jjredwood2059
      @jjredwood2059 6 лет назад +12

      Mike Nice pretty much

    • @leoscarpoli1nonly
      @leoscarpoli1nonly 6 лет назад +6

      Bingo

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 6 лет назад +8

      Whenever they complain about lack of protection, I tell them to get a husband. That's his job. They want men whom they've rejected and dismissed to rush to their rescue to neutralize situations that they created. Smh. Like Obsidian says, black women want "community eunichs."

  • @saxh00
    @saxh00 6 лет назад +21

    I use to be a professional photographer, had top notch setup. tried to do the black business and EVERY TIME IS WAS THAT give me the hook up.

    • @leoscarpoli1nonly
      @leoscarpoli1nonly 6 лет назад +3

      saxh00 So many low level thinkers in the "community"

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 6 лет назад +3

      I deal with the same thing as an accountant and self-employed tax preparer.

    • @lorenl6406
      @lorenl6406 6 лет назад

      Dont pander your business to all black community because it's just going to be a mess.

  • @riddickj16
    @riddickj16 6 лет назад +13

    The false sense of entitlement from these women is LAUGHABLE. I honestly can’t put the full blame on women because women in general have been taught not to be accountable for their bad life decisions. From a very young age women are told that men are SUPPOSED to provide a safety net no matter how dysfunctional they are. Men have been conditioned to believe this very same lie.

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 6 лет назад +6

      I refuse to treat women like children. Patriarchy is dead. Women have agency. They are owners of their fate.

  • @lsporter88
    @lsporter88 6 лет назад +4

    That's right. More hard ass truth. It need to be said. Great video.

  • @Marc_B
    @Marc_B 6 лет назад +4

    Quote of the year. "You can't fix you, you don't see anything wrong with you". Great content brother, btw I have the same Muhammad Ali poster on my wall. Appreciate the work you're doing.

  • @TheImplerazure
    @TheImplerazure 6 лет назад +3

    LAR it is like every time I think something you make a video about exactly what I am thinking LOL! Thank you as always for telling the truth.

  • @alvinhollingeriii2562
    @alvinhollingeriii2562 6 лет назад +28

    Alot of men are backing away from the epicenter and doing their own thing....for now.Trust issues between most men and women too low. Now what I think will happen is there will be smaller tribes in Black culture that form first, thats where power will re-concentrate. These groups will be very cooperative and they will focus their finances together for their families and small community. The overall Black Community is done, Its a reluctant and imbalanced Matriarchy because the women are in Survival mode and our general sexual and relational dynamic is ineffective in creating strong yet balanced people. All thats going to be left in the Greater Black Collective are masculine natured women, overly submissive men, and a small number of community organizing men who are passionate about seeing black community come back on major scale but may find later all of that reorganaton isnt sustainable if the basic relationship dynamics are off. This thing will start with small Groups first. The bigger community stuff will degenerate itself further and burn its chaotic self out. All of this is my opinion.
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    • @redlionesv
      @redlionesv 6 лет назад +1

      Alvin Hollinger III bingo

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 6 лет назад

      What do you mean by "power reconcentrating?" What power does the black community have now, other than getting white people fired for saying the N-word? I'm just curious.

  • @mentalog6018
    @mentalog6018 6 лет назад +13

    You can't save them from themselves brothers. Women want temporary fixes. You're only there to fix her problems. You're a prop for her independence. Intelligent black men are tired of being utilities.

  • @FreethemGuyz
    @FreethemGuyz 3 года назад +1

    6:05 ... we grew up in the same house wit yall... duhhh ladies 🤣🤣😂🤣🤦🏾‍♂️

  • @seananderson2506
    @seananderson2506 6 лет назад +2

    Keep on dropping these truth bombs. Learn more and more everytime I listen to you.

  • @jon23t
    @jon23t 6 лет назад +1

    LAR always preaching the truth. This video was on point as always.

  • @abdiellawrence397
    @abdiellawrence397 6 лет назад +2

    You are wise beyond your years. Thank you brotha. Greeting from Camp Humphreys, Korea.

    • @larmovement
      @larmovement  6 лет назад +2

      Greetings to you. Take care of yourself soldier. Enjoy as much as you can and come home to your family.

  • @TheOshayVlogCast
    @TheOshayVlogCast 6 лет назад +8

    You off today!!

    • @alvinhollingeriii2562
      @alvinhollingeriii2562 6 лет назад +1

      Oshay Vlogcast Channel @AHAHAAHAH!!

    • @larmovement
      @larmovement  6 лет назад +4

      Yes sir!

    • @TheOshayVlogCast
      @TheOshayVlogCast 6 лет назад

      Alvin Hollinger III Big Alvin!!!

    • @william123362
      @william123362 6 лет назад

      +Oshay Vlogcast Channel He not off.didn't you hear at the end.WE OUT.that was it right there.you off O.

  • @cjones5258
    @cjones5258 6 лет назад +1

    LAR you are on fire today! Keep up the good work Brother. At the same time you must be careful "some women can't handle truth".
    '97 Alumnus of TSU

  • @cbrath01
    @cbrath01 5 лет назад

    I peep the song in the background. Nice...Boomerang vibes

  • @artbunker
    @artbunker 6 лет назад +3

    Damn insightful video. Another truth bomb+1

  • @theluckylefty3486
    @theluckylefty3486 6 лет назад +4

    Great video LAR. You always have good points in your video. Keep up the good work.

  • @rctecopyright
    @rctecopyright 6 лет назад +5

    Footsteps in the dark.
    You set up these playlists on purpose?
    Anyways, great message

  • @mikev6046
    @mikev6046 6 лет назад +1

    You stay putting out fire! 🔥👍

  • @thinkingblack4035
    @thinkingblack4035 6 лет назад +3

    #Not4Free
    Well said, sir!

  • @RealMNeutral31
    @RealMNeutral31 6 лет назад +2

    Amen bro!

  • @TheUneducatedTeacher
    @TheUneducatedTeacher 3 года назад

    The catalog is deep
    KM Hemmans The RUclipsr

  • @TheMidniteSon
    @TheMidniteSon 6 лет назад +4

    💯💯💯✌🏾

  • @paulevans6773
    @paulevans6773 6 лет назад +1

    LAR in most cases in the black community 70% of Black Heterosexual productive Men are viewed and Labeled as" boring non select clean up Men"nothing more nothing less.HunDun➕M😎!!M😎!! Chi-Raq!!🤙🏽..

  • @william123362
    @william123362 6 лет назад +4

    why don't these Old women say something about these women.because the old ones ain't nothing either.Girls it's getting real close Now.like he said.We Out.

  • @lynnjones6630
    @lynnjones6630 5 лет назад

    Good message brother,women aren't listening i hope young men are,black women know what's about to happen,white men have an unlimited supply of you,your value of my 10.00 ho,has went south,he dying off,his woman got an itch he can't scratch., things are changing ladies and you are now at the bottom

  • @willbaggiins9441
    @willbaggiins9441 6 лет назад +2

    LARmovement still moving

  • @saxh00
    @saxh00 6 лет назад +7

    BINGO , Id rather watch it burn down to the ground

  • @fullcircleessentials
    @fullcircleessentials 6 лет назад +4

    🤜🤛

  • @ariesruehl8856
    @ariesruehl8856 6 лет назад +6

    I agree with what you are saying somewhat, a man has no responsibility to another mans kids, and if he's out of the black community he is under no obligation to return to it. But I will say this black men with this mentality, should have that same respect for black women that choose to divest from black communities and black men. I don't have children and I live in a mixed community, so I would not want to take care of someone else's kids either. But if black men and women are content to leave black communities, we also shouldn't complain about them seeing that we have chosen to bow out. So let each black man, woman take care of his or her own and to hell with the rest of them.....right?

    • @larmovement
      @larmovement  6 лет назад +11

      I get what you are saying. But I don't think you ladies have the same culture. Because you girls will be a support system for your female counterparts. Which allows them to continue to make poor decisions. We don't do that.

    • @msj9097
      @msj9097 6 лет назад +3

      Aries Ruehl black community is perfectly happy with successful black women as long as you stay and be used by them. ESPECIALLY if you're childless black woman. Then its up to us to pay everyone's bills, help take care of their kids and deal with all their issues. This includes parents, grandparents, siblings and their kids. And thats just the family members! The friends are a whole seperate issue.
      Only solution is doing like youve done and move to a mixed or nonblack communities and limit contact cause if you are around majority black folks they never stop bleeding you dry unfortunately. Of course you'll get called a bedwench or feminist and worse but Im starting to see its better than being a 3rd generation sucker. This video was great to hear because we really shouldnt allow this community to shame us into dealing with their idiotic dysfunction. Let the chips fall where they may and let the bodies hit the floor!

    • @ariesruehl8856
      @ariesruehl8856 6 лет назад +2

      Ms J Well stated, and I can't count how many times I've been called a BEDWENCH, but that's okay because I am going to live my life the way I wish, and I don't care who it offends. As I previously stated, Iam young, childless, and I have a very good job ( Air Hostess) So to each his or her own. Make a life for yourselves and be happy. And if that happiness is found outside the black communities with someone nonblack......so be it. Thanks for the comment.

    • @msj9097
      @msj9097 6 лет назад +2

      Aries Ruehl nice to see another black women not buying that black first bs and seeing reality for what it is.....sometimes it gets lonely out here!

    • @ariesruehl8856
      @ariesruehl8856 6 лет назад +2

      Ms J Yes it is, and yes it does. But I see more black women channels that are stepping out of that proverbial black box, not catering to black men and advising women such as myself not to do it either. I love it!!!

  • @datbruvaful
    @datbruvaful 4 месяца назад

    I... for one refuse to help those who refuse to help themselves, nor learn when I'm taking my time out to teach cha. You want someone to do it for you, without you havin' to do a goddayum thang. Fuck dat.🤔 No thanks! #goodluckwitthat

  • @5720jenny
    @5720jenny 6 лет назад

    Hmm...I dont need that thank goodness

  • @ellergilliom1175
    @ellergilliom1175 6 лет назад

    We did not push black men away we simply said go get a job and take care of thes kids.

  • @refi6438
    @refi6438 6 лет назад +1

    This video is all over the place and a mess.

    • @larmovement
      @larmovement  6 лет назад +9

      If everyone else can grasp it and keep up. Why can't you?

    • @refi6438
      @refi6438 6 лет назад

      Lol... I get it ..you just have a lot going on in that head of yours and it all came out in this video that's all..Lol

  • @T3TheHighPriestingEmpress
    @T3TheHighPriestingEmpress 11 месяцев назад

    Stop referring to me as your sister and we'll be fine. I don't care about what you say or do as long as your doing it for you. It's never worth the energy I personally believe it's overdue the time of letting y'all go in peace. Race is a social construct so let's all get it right and move on. Every individual on this planet matters as themselves. Bye!