Adrian Thomas - better to be alone than to be with a lier or cheat who siphons off half your cash and constantly tries to make you do things that you don't want to do. The happiest men I know are single.
But are you really? The generator shall be from within brother, not external. Ya know a self sustained energy source as opposed to relying on a second or third party. The heart knows the real knowledge, except the emphasis is put on the mind. Reflect.
Also what this brother said about being guardian angels is so true, this woman left me for another dude and boy all is crumbling down... Even I can't believe It, I took the path of unconditional love through these times, I'm always happy even when faced with little misfortunes, but it's true that we are protectors and by the time they realize, it's too late. But keep building yourself up and the universe will send you someone on the same frequency in due time, it's like the old radios you gotta tune through some shitty radio stations until you find the one you were looking for all along.
There was this guy I knew at work who was very nice and quiet. He was a hard worker and would do anything to help others. But the black women there gave him such a hard time and he was always getting in trouble for little or no reason. He was shy and quiet so it was hard for him to stick up for himself. Yet no one ever called out those demons who were picking on him. Since he withdrew within himself, he was always the center of attention. It's sad that you have to be an asshole to survive in this world.
He was trying to protect his check. A black man in a professional setting can't win with a black woman if she's the supervisor. Yep, and the other black women at the job support her fuckery when they know she in the wrong.
The nice guy left a while ago for other races of women who can appreciate a nice guy and not instinctively try to take advantage of him. He's already gone.
I think what it is . . . Is that nice people think and value. They think several extra steps out so they dont act immaturely, and we observe the value, especially in people . . Sometimes we have alot of empathy too. We want to see the true person before we cut them off .
I have been there and done that. I learnt the hard way not to cast my pearls before swine. What i do now is discern the spirit of the people who i wish to be kind to BEFORE i show any kindness.
It's so crazy that a lot of our women, BW, are soooo bad! As many TV shows and talk shows show how many BW want to be married, you would think that you could find a good one, just a LITTLE easier.
Can’t believe I thought being a nice guy would be beneficial, these days I prefer being to myself, can’t even have an intelligent conversation with these leachers.
Greatness Awaits it does with the right woman. Women that say nice guys "are too nice" are fools and deserve the negative behaviour/treatment they get. Don't give up and you'll find one that appreciates the real you (the nice guy). Peace, Love and Blessings. 😊
I am a thoughtful and sensitive guy by nature. I know not everyone can be or is equipped to be this way but there are some people that think that is something to be exploited. I am still the same person but I don't have time for users anymore.
LARM!!! Another solid Teaching. They NEVER know what they have TILL IT'S gone. I've been building a Case with a few people and they wonder why I don't call or visit. NICE GUYS HAVE LEFT THE BUILDING!!!! KARMA!!! IT'S GOING TO COME AROUND AGAIN. JUST WAIT & SEE.
Facts, that's a type of understanding most of us had to live to understand! I realize I was this persons help, they could always rely on me as a friend, that is as you said. Untill I got tired of people mistaken, my kindness for being a fool! That door is shut...thanks for the great content
Im tired of being nice. People treat i bad. Id usually get out of my character but i been asshole just to see how people react and they respect that shit . Its crazy u gotta talk crazy to people for them to respect u
Love this format where men can share their thoughts and realize that we have the same issues, it’s very refreshing. The men that always talk about what they used to have and used to do were basically raised by women with no strong male role model . But some men realize they need to be stronger like when I was coming up and went into the military so that was my coming of age to become a strong man. Real men talk about what they are doing now, but even that goes so far. Real men live and let that speak for themselves.
My ex thought "Oh he's beige w/ a five o'clock shadow so Im gonna talk crazy to him and he'll write me a heartfelt song or a poem". That wasn't the case.
larmovement just expressing that these things go both ways, and like u said in the beginning of the video I'm speaking in general that woman or man if ur a giver usually you'll fall victim to users.
Nelson Mandela I don't consider myself either, now I may be bias but I try really hard to not to be the typical woman u guys talk about because that's not my natural but men are so butt hurt and think that woman are out for something they have I find myself trying to make up for all the other women before me. Just like most men claim
Destiny McKay It's a problem fam. When I talk about men people don't deflect and talk about women on a regular basis. If you keep deflecting, you're not going to change. Even if it could make you better. It's an arrogant thing to do.
Destiny McKay Well I will be 37 next month and I have never ran into a generous black woman (outside of family), they love to use nice people and then make excuses when you get in their asses about it. They have no sense of accountability. My last girlfriend I had said I was punishing her for what my exes was doing to me, but that was a lame excuse, she been using this one guy for 10 fucking years and counting and refuses to admit that she is a user, while he is paying her bills, taking her on vacations and paying for them to sleep in other rooms, and spending a lot of money on her for her birthday, Christmas and stuff, she claim that this is okay, because they are friends. Friends do not use each other, this drove me crazy especially the justification for doing it. I hated having to argue with her just for equality in the relationship (having to force her to buy me stuff and to do the things she said she was going to do ect..). The problem is that she was abused, raped, and literally used by most men in her life, I tried to change her, but her head was messed up and 2 in a half years later I finally moved on. She would spend time with me and claim we were together, just to go over another guy house and say the same thing to him. This is why nice black men like me have a hard time trusting black women. I know some of you are cool, but I have not ran into one that was not a user looking for someone to take care of them, or a black women who has their shit together and put you down for not being on their level which is tearing a man down and emasculating him. When you are struggling you want me to help you, but when I am in need of help, you want to tear me down for it, or throw it in my face, how is this love? This causes men to go talk to white women or other races, because of all the drama and stressed that comes from dealing with black women. You know how said it is, to have women tell you they do not know what do to make you happy, because they are not used to talking to someone that pulls out a chair for them, cares about the heath and well-being and overall progress in life? Most black women I talked to are scared of me, because I am very smart 3.8-4.00 college student and make me feel like something is wrong with me.
People who treat nice people bad are nice to assholes.
“Givers have to put limits on how much they give because takers don’t put limits on how much they can take.” FACTS
Too true
Story of my life and that's why I'm a loner.
I chose to be a loner and I cool with that. I'm the prize...
Adrian Thomas - better to be alone than to be with a lier or cheat who siphons off half your cash and constantly tries to make you do things that you don't want to do.
The happiest men I know are single.
But are you really? The generator shall be from within brother, not external. Ya know a self sustained energy source as opposed to relying on a second or third party. The heart knows the real knowledge, except the emphasis is put on the mind. Reflect.
Also what this brother said about being guardian angels is so true, this woman left me for another dude and boy all is crumbling down... Even I can't believe It, I took the path of unconditional love through these times, I'm always happy even when faced with little misfortunes, but it's true that we are protectors and by the time they realize, it's too late. But keep building yourself up and the universe will send you someone on the same frequency in due time, it's like the old radios you gotta tune through some shitty radio stations until you find the one you were looking for all along.
damn right
"Nice people are building a case." Well said.
If people like to be treated as shit, that's thier problem. Nice guy you keep it movin and remember you are the prize. You have to know that!
Ronald Griffin FACTS!!!!
There was this guy I knew at work who was very nice and quiet. He was a hard worker and would do anything to help others. But the black women there gave him such a hard time and he was always getting in trouble for little or no reason. He was shy and quiet so it was hard for him to stick up for himself. Yet no one ever called out those demons who were picking on him. Since he withdrew within himself, he was always the center of attention. It's sad that you have to be an asshole to survive in this world.
Eddie Walker I would have got in their ass for that.
Eddie Walker where was this?
He was trying to protect his check. A black man in a professional setting can't win with a black woman if she's the supervisor. Yep, and the other black women at the job support her fuckery when they know she in the wrong.
Ignorant niggas 101. Which is why they are always struggling. How is it that they are still able to act like children and no one call them out for it.
Eddie Walker Well said and normal and typical
It's crazy the nice guys leave forever then everybody is wondering where they are. Running nice people away is a sure way of having a miserable life.
Eli-Hu Yashar'al amen.
I have done that. I cut people off and toss them to hell.
Yup...couldn't agree more
Thank you
When they don't appreaciate the good they deserve all the negative that's comes towards their way
The nice guy left a while ago for other races of women who can appreciate a nice guy and not instinctively try to take advantage of him. He's already gone.
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Kindness is weakness, and nice means stupid.
Rick Fox said it best in He Got Game, Sisters make you work too hard
bagley232 classic movie and classic line.....
bagley232 PREACH!!!!
bagley232
Unfortunately, too many BW are just low-IQ enough to consider that a compliment. Smdh
@@nycsongman9758 I was thinking the same thing...BW think the more difficult they are the better man they will attract.
I think what it is . . . Is that nice people think and value. They think several extra steps out so they dont act immaturely, and we observe the value, especially in people . . Sometimes we have alot of empathy too. We want to see the true person before we cut them off .
I have been there and done that. I learnt the hard way not to cast my pearls before swine. What i do now is discern the spirit of the people who i wish to be kind to BEFORE i show any kindness.
Good tip 😊
It's so crazy that a lot of our women, BW, are soooo bad! As many TV shows and talk shows show how many BW want to be married, you would think that you could find a good one, just a LITTLE easier.
Can’t believe I thought being a nice guy would be beneficial, these days I prefer being to myself, can’t even have an intelligent conversation with these leachers.
And never call them ever
Take it from me nice doesn't work
Greatness Awaits it does with the right woman. Women that say nice guys "are too nice" are fools and deserve the negative behaviour/treatment they get. Don't give up and you'll find one that appreciates the real you (the nice guy). Peace, Love and Blessings. 😊
Debbie Reid Yeah right stop lying to that brother......
Dre Burks With all due respect i'm not lying.
Real talk. There's a difference between being respectful and assertive than being nice
BE yourself...don't BE nice.
I just stop caring
The nice guys leaves because most people have gone to dark side.
I am a thoughtful and sensitive guy by nature. I know not everyone can be or is equipped to be this way but there are some people that think that is something to be exploited. I am still the same person but I don't have time for users anymore.
LARM!!! Another solid Teaching. They NEVER know what they have TILL IT'S gone. I've been building a Case with a few people and they wonder why I don't call or visit. NICE GUYS HAVE LEFT THE BUILDING!!!! KARMA!!! IT'S GOING TO COME AROUND AGAIN. JUST WAIT & SEE.
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Don't make time for people that don't make time for you.
Facts, that's a type of understanding most of us had to live to understand! I realize I was this persons help, they could always rely on me as a friend, that is as you said. Untill I got tired of people mistaken, my kindness for being a fool! That door is shut...thanks for the great content
Im tired of being nice. People treat i bad. Id usually get out of my character but i been asshole just to see how people react and they respect that shit . Its crazy u gotta talk crazy to people for them to respect u
Love this format where men can share their thoughts and realize that we have the same issues, it’s very refreshing. The men that always talk about what they used to have and used to do were basically raised by women with no strong male role model . But some men realize they need to be stronger like when I was coming up and went into the military so that was my coming of age to become a strong man. Real men talk about what they are doing now, but even that goes so far. Real men live and let that speak for themselves.
Not a spades smack evidence photo! 😂😂😂😂😂 bow!!! 😩😭
Damn i felt that slap 👋🏾 all the way over here 🤕⚡️✨✨😂🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😁🤭🤭🤭🤭get the strap... Great live and you’re 💯 correct.
this video is dead on target , there are very few people that l trust, people will cause you to hurt them
this video should have been titled karma for no good women. this shit, happened to me...
This one spoke to me, much appreciated.
Ecclesiastes 7:7 KJV
Surely oppression maketh a wise man mad; and a gift destroyeth the heart.
He drop some good 💎💎💎 at that 5:00 mark...that was 💯
People like that are just part time people friends that they've where never really you're friends.
Knowledge!
Good video much needed
Good video. Nice & good men must have limits.
My ex thought "Oh he's beige w/ a five o'clock shadow so Im gonna talk crazy to him and he'll write me a heartfelt song or a poem". That wasn't the case.
That Marvin Gaye track in the background tho!!
A CLASSIC!
Spot on advice Brother....SF
Check out (love me or leave me alone) by brand nubian leave song on repeat as much as needed enjoy😁
Part time seasonal friends. We only around just for times
Story of my life.
I know what you mean
Do you refer to MGTOW?
Just being honest. People that are entitled never really see what happens in the long term sense.
como podria yo traducir esto en mi idiom youtube no lo hace friend
amigo y me gusta tus hablares ,este buena gente dice cosas que se callan
Thanks for the compliment fam.
LAR putting it down again
Thanks 4 that...
True that.
Facts
Nice Video
Lol!
What happens when ur the woman and the giver. We get played just as much
The video is about Nice guys. Why do you have to make it about women?
larmovement just expressing that these things go both ways, and like u said in the beginning of the video I'm speaking in general that woman or man if ur a giver usually you'll fall victim to users.
Nelson Mandela I don't consider myself either, now I may be bias but I try really hard to not to be the typical woman u guys talk about because that's not my natural but men are so butt hurt and think that woman are out for something they have I find myself trying to make up for all the other women before me. Just like most men claim
Destiny McKay It's a problem fam. When I talk about men people don't deflect and talk about women on a regular basis. If you keep deflecting, you're not going to change. Even if it could make you better. It's an arrogant thing to do.
Destiny McKay Well I will be 37 next month and I have never ran into a generous black woman (outside of family), they love to use nice people and then make excuses when you get in their asses about it. They have no sense of accountability. My last girlfriend I had said I was punishing her for what my exes was doing to me, but that was a lame excuse, she been using this one guy for 10 fucking years and counting and refuses to admit that she is a user, while he is paying her bills, taking her on vacations and paying for them to sleep in other rooms, and spending a lot of money on her for her birthday, Christmas and stuff, she claim that this is okay, because they are friends. Friends do not use each other, this drove me crazy especially the justification for doing it. I hated having to argue with her just for equality in the relationship (having to force her to buy me stuff and to do the things she said she was going to do ect..).
The problem is that she was abused, raped, and literally used by most men in her life, I tried to change her, but her head was messed up and 2 in a half years later I finally moved on. She would spend time with me and claim we were together, just to go over another guy house and say the same thing to him. This is why nice black men like me have a hard time trusting black women. I know some of you are cool, but I have not ran into one that was not a user looking for someone to take care of them, or a black women who has their shit together and put you down for not being on their level which is tearing a man down and emasculating him. When you are struggling you want me to help you, but when I am in need of help, you want to tear me down for it, or throw it in my face, how is this love? This causes men to go talk to white women or other races, because of all the drama and stressed that comes from dealing with black women. You know how said it is, to have women tell you they do not know what do to make you happy, because they are not used to talking to someone that pulls out a chair for them, cares about the heath and well-being and overall progress in life? Most black women I talked to are scared of me, because I am very smart 3.8-4.00 college student and make me feel like something is wrong with me.