Married soon to be 19 yrs same woman 1 kid a daughter..Being a nice guy in THIS world is DOUBLE edged sword. You HAVE TO turn that ON AND OFF..I had To learn that myself as a teen in the 80s and in different ways in the 90s and into this new era..When it comes to these females TO ME OLDER women respect a nice guy..younger its 50/50..But women from other countries respect that 100% because especially as a BLACK AMERICAN man they dont expect that from us.
Damn, you got my full attention on this one! Had to turn off my jam to hear all of this very immaculate message. Love how this just flowed so nicely. Hope I meet this nice guy soon, I could use a true friend. Super job! 😊💯👍
That statement you made LAR was profound when you said your niceness doesn't mean anything to a heathen I will be purchasing your book much respect my bruh
The old "I don't wanna finish my enlistment but I don't wanna go back to my shit hole town" fuck it I'll get married to this lame who don't know I was a hoe before he got here.
When I was a kid it was really hard for me to understand pretty much what you're saying. But now being a grown adult it's so easy to be nice and also be aware of the Sharks out here in these Wicked Waters and put your foot down. Putting your foot down and being nice are like parallel, they're not the same but the kind of are. For some reason most guys believe if you are a "nice guy" that you have to be a pushover. That is definitely not the case!
I think we all appreciate the nice guys - even the bad guys. Nice guys want sss too though. And usually, if the nice guy has been really, really nice, he doesn't like rejection moreso. But overall, the basic nice guy is the one you want around you in most situations. Just adding to the conversation. Like that topic!
Good video and commentary LAR. However, I have been put on notice by life that being nice is absolutely wrong. It makes me cringe when I hear the word nice because it is wrong. The appropriate word I have found is kind hearted or kind. Which leads into sadly kindness being a weakness. The true original definition of nice means stupid, foolish, and unaware. Which is exactly what they raised us to be, which is the central problem in all this back and forth with the two groups of men here in this country. It is a sad circumstance that we must become hard to stay alive and prosper in this life. Nice guys finish last is the prevailing lesson taught to us by life.
Married soon to be 19 yrs same woman 1 kid a daughter..Being a nice guy in THIS world is DOUBLE edged sword. You HAVE TO turn that ON AND OFF..I had To learn that myself as a teen in the 80s and in different ways in the 90s and into this new era..When it comes to these females TO ME OLDER women respect a nice guy..younger its 50/50..But women from other countries respect that 100% because especially as a BLACK AMERICAN man they dont expect that from us.
True, older women like nice guys. I'm 29 and I notice this as well.
Basically being nice to a dysfunctional person is like garlic to a vampire. Bruh, I been there.
Lord have mercy, that is so true.
Brah, excuse my ignorance but I never heard that analogy concerning a vampire. What does your comment actually mean?
@@spacelyman9482 Garlic repels vampires in the movies. Likewise, good or functional treatment of a dysfunctional person repels them.
@@kamala80 Oh ok I got you. Thank's my dude.
Real is rare fake is everywhere
@Alonzo Carter nino brown said that
Amen. I had to learn to do this, to show kindness with good judgement. My heart was cold for years until I met someone nice who melt my heart.
Damn, you got my full attention on this one! Had to turn off my jam to hear all of this very immaculate message. Love how this just flowed so nicely. Hope I meet this nice guy soon, I could use a true friend. Super job! 😊💯👍
Have balance in everything and u will be fine
I've learned to spend my niceness like money. I want something in exchange most of the time.
David Monroe
PREACH!
That statement you made LAR was profound when you said your niceness doesn't mean anything to a heathen I will be purchasing your book much respect my bruh
Seen alot of this while in the military, the nice guys were used as a "in case of emergency" safety plan.
The old "I don't wanna finish my enlistment but I don't wanna go back to my shit hole town" fuck it I'll get married to this lame who don't know I was a hoe before he got here.
@@dominiqueosorio-davis6781 TRUE👍👍👍👍👍
@@dominiqueosorio-davis6781 Bro these women out here really thinking and doing that?
@@prid6427 There's men that latch onto woman in the Military they're lames too.
Thank you i will continue to be a nice guy but now I'll do it on the move. Much needed message
When I was a kid it was really hard for me to understand pretty much what you're saying. But now being a grown adult it's so easy to be nice and also be aware of the Sharks out here in these Wicked Waters and put your foot down. Putting your foot down and being nice are like parallel, they're not the same but the kind of are. For some reason most guys believe if you are a "nice guy" that you have to be a pushover. That is definitely not the case!
Thank you for this video Lar. I hope you make more videos about this specific topic.
Dayum this is a really good video! Thanks, LAR.
Yes sir, this ladys man! Was hurt early in oife. It didn't kill me, so it made me alert, aware, and strong...
I needed this thanks
Thank you for this video bruh
I think we all appreciate the nice guys - even the bad guys. Nice guys want sss too though. And usually, if the nice guy has been really, really nice, he doesn't like rejection moreso. But overall, the basic nice guy is the one you want around you in most situations. Just adding to the conversation. Like that topic!
Good stuff, LAR.
Great video it’s hard being a nice guy
Bro, I was very inspired by this post
Good video and commentary LAR. However, I have been put on notice by life that being nice is absolutely wrong. It makes me cringe when I hear the word nice because it is wrong. The appropriate word I have found is kind hearted or kind. Which leads into sadly kindness being a weakness.
The true original definition of nice means stupid, foolish, and unaware. Which is exactly what they raised us to be, which is the central problem in all this back and forth with the two groups of men here in this country. It is a sad circumstance that we must become hard to stay alive and prosper in this life. Nice guys finish last is the prevailing lesson taught to us by life.
Facts!
Good content but your audio is too low can barley hear you on most of your videos
Hmm