@@bleudiamondbleu yeah I can kinda agree with that. I really enjoyed the casual girl chat but they were a huge let down when it came to politics. I think Amanda Seals was the only one who truly kept it real
@dalsangha40 it was Amanda who started the whole racial thing, always saw everything through racial and gender lenses. It used to be a fun show where they made even serious topic light
My current boyfriend is shorter than me and let me tell you, he’s the love of my life. It’s my first time dating someone shorter than me and I’m loving it. He treats me like a queen and I treat him like a king. Update: he cheated on me and I left him.
Coya Darling This is encouraging... I just recently started dating a shorter guy than me and it’s my first time ever dating someone shorter plus I swore I never would lol. I’m freaking out coz he treats me so good but I’m still a bit uncomfortable with the height 🤦🏾♀️ I do hope I get over it soon Lord!
@@Winterof84 girl I swore I'd never date anyone taller than me too, but then came him. I used to feel uncomfortable with the height difference at first too but now I'm over it. All that matters to me now is our love for each other.
Coya Darling omg girl! I met my husband a month ago! We just couldn’t be away from each other and he is super short! And I LOVE it ! It never was appealing to me! But idk I just love him so much and he puts my heels on like Cinderella and Prince Charming when we go anywhere. We’re so in love! It’s crazy! I never thought I would go for someone like him but 🤩🤩🤩 lol
Here's the thing: if a guy kisses you or touches you and you didn't actually want him to, then after you say "Hey i really wasnt ok with that" if he says sorry or feels really bad and you can tell it was innocent, then don't go around telling people it wasn't. There's a difference between genuinely not knowing, and doing something that is uncalled for.
Don’t get me wrong, I don’t dislike Amanda. It’s just these ladies are the originals (minus Tamar) and they have a much closer connection (which is expected) they work so well together and you can feel that.
When it was just the 4 if them they did full segments about fat people sex and dating short guys🙄 Amanda brings more substance to the show and brings a deeper perspective. I love these ladies but the show was starting to feed the stereotype that this is all that young women of color talk about. We have intelligent conversations too!
i feel like there needs to be a destigmatization of communication during sexual encounters. there’s nothing wrong with having an open and truthful conversation before a sexual encounter discussing ones kinks, how you can please your partner, what they are comfortable/uncomfortable with, etc. don’t expect romcom sex where you just fall into bed and have passionate sex. speak to your partner!
I don't know if it's just me, but I don't think it takes away from the moment at all if you just take a breather and ask if everything is good. Every guy I have dated after college has always asked me "Can I kiss you?" before the first kiss. And If we are getting a little frisky a "you good?" "is this okay" "do you like that" before going all the way to me is sweet. You don't need to do every step of the way, but communicating and making sure everyone is enjoying themselves is something I like and prefer.
My boyfriend told me before the first date that he would prefer for me to take the lead on physical contact because he didn’t want to make me feel uncomfortable. I thought that was sweet.
Loni was way more relaxed,Funny, genuine,warm,and enjoyable. Every since Amanda got on Everyone seems so defensive Especially Jeannie and Loni I've noticed A HUGE SHIFT.
I'm so tired of Loni's MUA. Like for real. You gone send her out like that. The whole staff need to be fired for allowing her to go out like that. RIDICULOUS!!! And her seatmates need to speak up too. SMH.
Tiff Dawn I’m not surprised where at this point where now we don’t know where the line is drawn, like you said there should 100% consent but contracts and stuff makes it not worth thr trouble. The MeToo era has definitely made an impact of the dating scene
I’m with Loni on this one. The Me Too movement brought back the fear(respect) for women’s rights and I like that men wait for their cue or ask before doing anything.
Who else misses these types of topics? I feel everything has been so serious on the show lately... I love serious discussions, but I miss the funny, slightly naughty talk!
Whoever did Loni's makeup did her dirty. Get someone who knows how to do dark skin girls right. She's beautiful, and that makeup is hiding her beauty, not bringing it out.
Loni love, no girl your make up artiste did you wrong. And no, I wouldn't have sex on the first date. You literally just met this person. You gotta build the connection before getting connected.
I LOVE EVERY BIT OF THIS SHOW!!! It’s so real. I love watching it on RUclips. ROCK ON LADIES!!! Please try to stay together and keep having real fun. I love you all. 🥰
I'm taller and weigh more than my husband. We have known each other 20 years, been together 10+ years and married for almost 2 years. He has known me a big since day one and he loves me for me!
I personally wouldn’t. The first date you’re just getting to know the person. No size shouldn’t matter when it comes to love. Why do people care? They’re not in the relationship. I never understood people who care about something that has absolutely nothing to do with them.
Sex is one of the most important things in a relationship. You can have a connection and they can be the best person ever but you dont hit it off in the bedroom, you will be SO unsatisfied as a woman
Shayna Dorsey I agree with you .but sometimes l get so horny ..like on holiday ..l banged the waiter at my hotel . My passions were running high .So were his . .
@@cathyb2967 wow. Nice. Lol. Ive had a one night stand before too. I have not done it ever since because of the negative stigma and because of the risk of the guy being a stalker or if I catch an incurable disease.
Don't knock the one night stands! In my freshman year of college I went or with this guy I met and he was finer than frog hair! That man had me doing things we should have went to jail for!! He had me talking in tongues like it was the third Sunday! The next morning I was walking to class thinking about our night and my knees literally buckled from under me! Help me Peter and don't tell Paul! That's why I was a pregnant junior in college. We married,had a beautiful baby girl, I eventually finished law school and we were married for twenty six years. No, he didn't die. I divorced his cheating ass and now I'm living my happily ever after! Take my advice and DON'T HAVE ONE NIGHT STANDS!!!!!
Let's see... I earned a law degree raised a daughter who's a civil engineer, not to mention two college educated sons, all while being pregnant in college. Your takeaway was my daughter wasn't wanted? Bitch, please don't get it twisted! My daughter, as all my children, are very much loved. I was raised with strength, courage and compassion, as were my children.You sound like a.less than successful jealous bitch. It took eight years for your parents to have you because they knew you were probably going to be a failure. That's what usually happens when siblings procreate. I bet you're a beautiful princess..a la` Fiona!
Had sex on our first date. We celebrated our four year anniversary this past February and we have a beautiful almost two year old daughter. We’re very happy!
This is how it should always be. Just THESE FOUR beautiful open minded loving women on The Real. This show really doesn’t need a fifth woman. Love you girls!
@Jamilla Dobson that's fine. That is why we as individuals have our personal opinions and answers. It may not be your preference or make sense to you, but it does to me. To each it's own.
In this clip from right to left I'm getting, Latino flight attendant, Black Mulan, Asian "she wore an itsy bitsy teenie weeny...", and a Biracial spider web lmfao. I love them though. Seriously though, I love Tam's outfit.
I agree with Adrienne. I am not dating a guy shorter than me. I’m 5’2 and that would just look really crazy. I dated a guy the same height as me and it just didn’t work out not just because of his height. I just love tall men!!!!!!
Please keep it this way with the 4 ladies!! I miss when J has her voice and amazing input in the convo! We don't need and they don't need the 5th girl.
The love of my life was a hook up. We're in love now. The key is not the physical but the nonchalant attitude. I wasn't trying to trap my man and I made it clear that I was dating others and didn't want a commitment. He wanted that challenge and stole my heart. The challenge is not always sex.
That’s absolutely beautiful. I really think it depends on the person and how they were raised . I agree some hook ups turn into loving fulfilling relationships. It’s ok to hook up if the person likes you and wants to move forward with you then awesome and if not it’s ok. Just be safe. What someone does is there business.
I've dated tall guys, my height, and literally a head shorter than me, and I always told myself I'd go for someone like 6 inches taller than me. In the end, I was talking to a guy without knowing he's shorter than me, and imma tell you, him in general is what I fell for that when we're together, it doesnt even matter, and it doesn't matter to him either cause he was calling all the shots hahaha Who cares about a number, you'll miss out on that guy/girl you are looking for.
It’s not May! I wish they would post the full episodes at least if they aren’t going to post recent ones. Not everyone has a tv! Put the full episodes on Netflix or on here! I’m happy for this 14 min clip tho! Thank youuuuu
I’ve dated multiple men shorter than me it wasn’t a problem for me because I liked them for who they were and eventually it became a problem for them and became self conscious from people saying he was not man enough for me “I am more than my body” I love that
Any man that admits he’s in a relationship with x other people is not going to be serious with you now or ever. No man who is seriously interested will risk losing you by making you feel you are just one of many even if he is dating others.
Not true, he's honest. Think about it this way, would you rather have a guy say "I'm looking for love, and that's why I'm date multiple people, to find the right one for me" or someone who doesn't say it, but is still looking around.
People are not islands. Guys will have friends and deeper relationships before they meet you. If a guy approaches me and tells me he is single, when he is not, I can work with that. Because I know he is trying to impress me and if he likes me as a person, the other women will fall off his radar. It’s guys that approach you and could care less about impressing you and reveal they are sleeping and talking to others that you should run away from. Because any man who is properly chasing you, wants to really impress you and will not risk it by offering up such info. It’s likely he just wants sex and doesn’t see you as gf material. Women will always have competition, but let a man chose you and earn you. Don’t worry about other women. Honestly, I don’t believe in sleeping with a man either before marriage. That keeps your mind clear and your options open if he’s not actively pursuing you.
Mogens Linnet and Loni has low self esteem. No woman should come on TV and brag about her sexual escapades like she is a dude. She acts low value and cheap, so men see her as such.
Mogens Linnet Think about it like this: if you were the most beautiful woman in the world, and you had rich men from the world pursuing you for marriage, which one of the stupid suitors would risk losing his chance to be with you by telling you “oh btw. I’m seeing other women”? Zero. Any guy that says that to you believes you’re average, at best, and you should view it as an insult. Who is pursuing who?
@@AkireMaru you have a point. But women want what other women want. There a reason, that men in a relationship get hit on constantly and single men don't.
I can so relate cause my boyfriend is a foot taller than me and he’s on the thin side but he’s fit as hell and I’ve always gotten people who act like such a struggle to kiss or complain that they couldn’t date a thin guy. Honey that’s why I’m dating him and you’re not cause I CAN make it work.
Ok I honestly have to say... true love should outweigh ( no pun intended ) the other stuff such as weight... my mom and dad have been married for 15 years together 20 years and my mom has always been the beautiful curvaceous, plus-sized one in her relationships but the one thing I have to give props to my dad is he never made her feel as if she's less beautiful just because she happens to be a big woman... he loved her just way she was and is and that's all that matters
This is coming from a lady: don’t ever have sex on the first date. Don’t ever have sex before a man commits to you 100%. If you have sex before commitment, I promise you he will get bored, get up, and leave right after. A man doesn’t respect a woman who has sex too soon and men don’t get attached after sex like us women do. Save yourself the heartache and only please yourself until commitment, or hopefully marriage. If you wouldn’t give the person the number to your phone, don’t give them your body
@@czarinaczar people like you make my heart smile!!! I'm so grateful for people like you that are thoughtful enough to think of others safety. We're all in this together. Ijs
To be fair you say it sucks that the guy isnt making the first move but it isnt, it only sucks if you like the guy. If it stops a guy you dont like from making a move then it’s great
y’all just didn’t learn about consent. That’s why jeannies saying her guy friends are “scared” to make the first move. They don’t understand how to ask for consent. If they did they wouldn’t be scared.
J P I think the reason jeannie’s guy friends are afraid to ask because if alcohol is involved on the date they have sex the woman doesn’t remember consenting to sex then presses charges on the guy that’s why the guys are afraid
Love isn’t always looks it’s whats inside You want someone that going to “do you” & leave. Or Have someone that going to show you passion and show you love
Back when the real was fun and "lighter"...I get it they want to evolve but now its only about race.. Amanda is stucked with what she has learned in collège and the others are followers except for Jeannie!!
Stuck with what she learned?? ... about her..... heritage and culture? Think like a business man for a second.... Amanda brings a different kind of demographic to the show which puts more money in their pockets. I’m sorry, but race and oppression is all up and through America. It’s good that we speak on it. It doesn’t come up every show... and if the talk about it is some you don’t like maybe you should check yourself...
Thelondonbadger What does this fact have to do with what I’m saying. I’m saying that Amanda is a good addition to the show. Make it make sense love bug, and go about your day. Talking about issues surrounding the oppressed is ALWAYS a good thing to talk about BECAUSE HUMANITY WILL START TO UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER MORE ! ... idk even know why you wanted to come for me today LOL! peace and love ♥️
Thelondonbadger At least they didn’t have to die in bondage from white supremacy 🤷🏽♀️... Anybody who is woke would know that living in bondage is terrible. As the great Killmonger from Black Panther said, “ Bury me in the sea with my ancestors that jumped from the ships because they knew that death was better than bondage”. PERIOD. NOW HAVE A GOOD DAY! BOOP BOOP😂
So..... Loni's make up artist really let her walk out looking like cake face....? like maybe it looks good in person but under these studio lights......huuuuuuuuney no!
If this line-up was still together and the show still had a live audience…100% this show would still be going
Disagree, the second they started spewing misinformation regarding politics they killed their own show.
@@bleudiamondbleu yeah I can kinda agree with that. I really enjoyed the casual girl chat but they were a huge let down when it came to politics. I think Amanda Seals was the only one who truly kept it real
@@dalsangha40but everybody would be mad at her
@@dalsangha40nope , couldn’t watch her on Tv she was annoying
@dalsangha40 it was Amanda who started the whole racial thing, always saw everything through racial and gender lenses. It used to be a fun show where they made even serious topic light
My current boyfriend is shorter than me and let me tell you, he’s the love of my life. It’s my first time dating someone shorter than me and I’m loving it. He treats me like a queen and I treat him like a king.
Update: he cheated on me and I left him.
Coya Darling This is encouraging... I just recently started dating a shorter guy than me and it’s my first time ever dating someone shorter plus I swore I never would lol. I’m freaking out coz he treats me so good but I’m still a bit uncomfortable with the height 🤦🏾♀️ I do hope I get over it soon Lord!
@@Winterof84 girl I swore I'd never date anyone taller than me too, but then came him. I used to feel uncomfortable with the height difference at first too but now I'm over it. All that matters to me now is our love for each other.
Coya Darling thank you for sharing ♥️
Coya Darling omg girl! I met my husband a month ago! We just couldn’t be away from each other and he is super short! And I LOVE it ! It never was appealing to me! But idk I just love him so much and he puts my heels on like Cinderella and Prince Charming when we go anywhere. We’re so in love! It’s crazy! I never thought I would go for someone like him but 🤩🤩🤩 lol
Correcting myself : "anyone taller than me" should be "anyone shorter than me"
Here's the thing: if a guy kisses you or touches you and you didn't actually want him to, then after you say "Hey i really wasnt ok with that" if he says sorry or feels really bad and you can tell it was innocent, then don't go around telling people it wasn't. There's a difference between genuinely not knowing, and doing something that is uncalled for.
I know this is old but I really miss when it was just 4🥺
VV I was going to say that
Yes 100%
Me too :/
I second that 😒😔
VV honestly same, amanda don’t fit the damn table 😭
I miss when the real was like this
Sasha Jolie me too but Ashley is not THAT bad lol
Oops Amanda I mean 😂😂😂 didn’t even know her name
Dru Fonseca lmaooo😂 she’s not horrible but I don’t feel warm energy from her like I feel from the other girls. Also the seating arrangement is weird
Dru Fonseca 🥴🥴 Amanda 😂😂😂
@@sashajolie8995 good point
Don’t get me wrong, I don’t dislike Amanda. It’s just these ladies are the originals (minus Tamar) and they have a much closer connection (which is expected) they work so well together and you can feel that.
Queen Amaya I couldn’t agree more!!
I agree 100%
Yes!!!!!!
Who did their makeup on this day...
Ashes to ashes... dust to dust
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Cold 🤣🤣
screaming
Lmao.....it's the lightening though and coz she's dark skinned
I think it’s mostly just the lighting...but Loni’s concealer and setting powder is just trifling 💀
Miss this type of energy. I love when it was just the 4 of them.
They should have just stayed with the original 4 ladies a Tamar replacement wasn't needed.
She was more than needed
Agreement
Totally agree.
When it was just the 4 if them they did full segments about fat people sex and dating short guys🙄 Amanda brings more substance to the show and brings a deeper perspective. I love these ladies but the show was starting to feed the stereotype that this is all that young women of color talk about. We have intelligent conversations too!
AT ALL
i feel like there needs to be a destigmatization of communication during sexual encounters. there’s nothing wrong with having an open and truthful conversation before a sexual encounter discussing ones kinks, how you can please your partner, what they are comfortable/uncomfortable with, etc. don’t expect romcom sex where you just fall into bed and have passionate sex. speak to your partner!
Exactly
Lord why they gave Loni the Morticia Adams makeup look
🤣🤣🤣
Jeannie’s make up is pretty light too
😂😂💀
Hey. I love Loni. Leave her alone!
She's beautiful no matter what.
They just went a little too light around the eyes. That's all. 😁
xxx@@RycN2Fu
I don't know if it's just me, but I don't think it takes away from the moment at all if you just take a breather and ask if everything is good. Every guy I have dated after college has always asked me "Can I kiss you?" before the first kiss. And If we are getting a little frisky a "you good?" "is this okay" "do you like that" before going all the way to me is sweet. You don't need to do every step of the way, but communicating and making sure everyone is enjoying themselves is something I like and prefer.
Agreed
That’s honestly a really hot thing to do.
My boyfriend told me before the first date that he would prefer for me to take the lead on physical contact because he didn’t want to make me feel uncomfortable. I thought that was sweet.
Ngl that’s really sweet, any Update?
@@itachi4839 😂😂
@@itachi4839 They broke up 😂
First date sex is too random for me.
I'm a germaphobe.
I don't touch random doorknobs, and I don't touch random eggplants.
Deshauna Harper 😂😭
Lol😂
Sexsi you
All one night stands don't mean you just met the person. Speaking for myself, it was our first official date.
@@evanescenteuphoria8126 in that case was the beginning of a relationship. That’s different and it what I consider one night stand
Loni was so much nicer when Amanda wasn’t there
I glad Amanda is there
Idk if nicer is the word...maybe more reserved of her responses but with Amanda she states straight facts
@@TEE_SUNSHINE exactly
Loni was way more relaxed,Funny, genuine,warm,and enjoyable. Every since Amanda got on Everyone seems so defensive Especially Jeannie and Loni I've noticed A HUGE SHIFT.
@@Lyomama22 Agreed.
Really miss these 4. The show will never be the same again
I love all the ladies! But I gotta be honest! I just want them to them four! On the show!!! It’s just better energy!!!
Irais Rodriguez yesssss, no hate towards Amanda, but she doesn’t fit the vibe. She was good as a guest host
Amanda made the show 100x better
Ever since Amanda came the topics have been more outside of the box and more interesting
Irais Rodriguez four is better than more.
@@karij8197 I like Amanda.
I'm so tired of Loni's MUA. Like for real. You gone send her out like that. The whole staff need to be fired for allowing her to go out like that. RIDICULOUS!!! And her seatmates need to speak up too. SMH.
Tell ittyt
What are you talking about what in the world Is mua?
agreee
@@MarilynBarragánNovelo this is so late but, mua means makeup artist
There’s a way to ask for consent and still be in the moment 😂😂 it doesn’t have to be contractual
Tiff Dawn exactly! if people spoke during sex there would a lot less misunderstandings
Tiff Dawn I’m not surprised where at this point where now we don’t know where the line is drawn, like you said there should 100% consent but contracts and stuff makes it not worth thr
trouble. The MeToo era has definitely made an impact of the dating scene
plusjongin that’s literally all you have to do. Communicate. What a concept 😂
I’m with Loni on this one. The Me Too movement brought back the fear(respect) for women’s rights and I like that men wait for their cue or ask before doing anything.
Who else misses these types of topics? I feel everything has been so serious on the show lately... I love serious discussions, but I miss the funny, slightly naughty talk!
Me too
You sexy af, Do you have Instagram?
Ya’ll never thank the person who made ya drinks!! 😭 they’re so beautiful all the time give the person some creds ! 🙌🏼🍹🍸🥂
Whoever did Loni's makeup did her dirty. Get someone who knows how to do dark skin girls right. She's beautiful, and that makeup is hiding her beauty, not bringing it out.
Loni love, no girl your make up artiste did you wrong. And no, I wouldn't have sex on the first date. You literally just met this person. You gotta build the connection before getting connected.
What in the casket ready is going on?! 😬
you wrong for that one LOL
I- 💀💀💀😂
😂😂😂😂
funny not funny
Ahh mannnn 😂😂😂😂😂
I LOVE EVERY BIT OF THIS SHOW!!! It’s so real. I love watching it on RUclips. ROCK ON LADIES!!! Please try to stay together and keep having real fun. I love you all. 🥰
I'm taller and weigh more than my husband. We have known each other 20 years, been together 10+ years and married for almost 2 years. He has known me a big since day one and he loves me for me!
I personally wouldn’t. The first date you’re just getting to know the person.
No size shouldn’t matter when it comes to love. Why do people care? They’re not in the relationship. I never understood people who care about something that has absolutely nothing to do with them.
Sex is one of the most important things in a relationship. You can have a connection and they can be the best person ever but you dont hit it off in the bedroom, you will be SO unsatisfied as a woman
@Kirsty Birsty YES! Bad sex will never be overlooked. You'll eventually take out your frustration in other aspects of the relationship.
@Kirsty Birsty exactly
Shayna Dorsey
I agree with you .but sometimes l get so horny ..like on holiday ..l banged the waiter at my hotel . My passions were running high .So were his . .
@@cathyb2967 wow. Nice. Lol. Ive had a one night stand before too. I have not done it ever since because of the negative stigma and because of the risk of the guy being a stalker or if I catch an incurable disease.
Don't knock the one night stands! In my freshman year of college I went or with this guy I met and he was finer than frog hair! That man had me doing things we should have went to jail for!! He had me talking in tongues like it was the third Sunday! The next morning I was walking to class thinking about our night and my knees literally buckled from under me! Help me Peter and don't tell Paul! That's why I was a pregnant junior in college. We married,had a beautiful baby girl, I eventually finished law school and we were married for twenty six years. No, he didn't die. I divorced his cheating ass and now I'm living my happily ever after! Take my advice and DON'T HAVE ONE NIGHT STANDS!!!!!
Wow
😂😂😂😂😂 well that took a turn
@@shylabennett8407 ...after 25 big ones.
So should your parents. lol
Let's see... I earned a law degree raised a daughter who's a civil engineer, not to mention two college educated sons, all while being pregnant in college. Your takeaway was my daughter wasn't wanted? Bitch, please don't get it twisted! My daughter, as all my children, are very much loved. I was raised with strength, courage and compassion, as were my children.You sound like a.less than successful jealous bitch. It took eight years for your parents to have you because they knew you were probably going to be a failure. That's what usually happens when siblings procreate. I bet you're a beautiful princess..a la` Fiona!
Had sex on our first date. We celebrated our four year anniversary this past February and we have a beautiful almost two year old daughter. We’re very happy!
That’s incredible ❤
Loni looks like she is about to audition for Rule Pauls drag race....
Story Daniels and now she’s actually on Rupauls drag race
Miss them only four :( the new girl does nothing for the show 😩
This is how it should always be. Just THESE FOUR beautiful open minded loving women on The Real. This show really doesn’t need a fifth woman. Love you girls!
They ain't always open minded...
Adrienne said " Maybe you know what you're doing "....she so funny !!
This is when they actually used to give each other a chance to speak😏
They seemed so much happier back then
Haven't noticed that but so true
All love but, Loni’s makeup....
Is it a different mua everytime?
Dara Taylor I really don’t know
Ashy? Jizz stains from
James?
Um..... who cares 😂
Coco _ 😂😂😂
Nah fat guys do be suffocating me. Every time he thrusted it was too much pressure . I tried fat guys twice and I don’t like it
lolol girl chilll out im weak
I'm a fat bitch ND I don't like fat men 🤣🤣🤣
TMI
Me too lol
Girl I love it. Might be the only one
I wonder where Tamera got her outfit it's cute❤
Gross. You don't know their sexual HX, hygiene practices, do they floss. It's a no for me.
@Jamilla Dobson I said what I said. Period. The end.
@Jamilla Dobson that's fine.
That is why we as individuals have our personal opinions and answers. It may not be your preference or make sense to you, but it does to me. To each it's own.
Lies.
In this clip from right to left I'm getting, Latino flight attendant, Black Mulan, Asian "she wore an itsy bitsy teenie weeny...", and a Biracial spider web lmfao. I love them though. Seriously though, I love Tam's outfit.
shamonica stanfield i cant stand you🤣🤣 i love all the names you gave them very great names😭
@7:40
I agree, the concept of a "safe word" offers a great deal of value!
that's a no no for me you gunna have to marry me first
That’s ok. But sexual compatibility is really important in a marriage.
Kudos to you! There's nothing like a woman who knows her worth👍☺
So do you want him to screw other women while he's waiting lmao
@@lindat.7520 No if he's not willing to wait he can move on
@@shantell4847 they definitely should.... But most don't I believe.
I agree with Adrienne. I am not dating a guy shorter than me. I’m 5’2 and that would just look really crazy. I dated a guy the same height as me and it just didn’t work out not just because of his height. I just love tall men!!!!!!
Good morning, the black beautiful baby, how are you doing,
I'm the same height I have never been attracted to anyone shorter but the truthbis that would be rare anyway.
😂😂😂
Whoever did lonis makeup needs to rethink their career .
Please keep it this way with the 4 ladies!! I miss when J has her voice and amazing input in the convo! We don't need and they don't need the 5th girl.
The love of my life was a hook up. We're in love now. The key is not the physical but the nonchalant attitude. I wasn't trying to trap my man and I made it clear that I was dating others and didn't want a commitment. He wanted that challenge and stole my heart. The challenge is not always sex.
Wow.
Wow
Preach👍
That’s absolutely beautiful. I really think it depends on the person and how they were raised . I agree some hook ups turn into loving fulfilling relationships. It’s ok to hook up if the person likes you and wants to move forward with you then awesome and if not it’s ok. Just be safe. What someone does is there business.
Adrienne SURE DID keep Loni acting young w the seating arrangement.
i had no idea tamera went to the same college as me
Just found this show and I sooo in love with it.
I miss just the 4 of them. Amanda kills the vibe 🤷🏼♂️
Love these ladies. Like the aunties I always needed.💖
I honestly think the real works just fine with just these 4 women.
I've dated tall guys, my height, and literally a head shorter than me, and I always told myself I'd go for someone like 6 inches taller than me. In the end, I was talking to a guy without knowing he's shorter than me, and imma tell you, him in general is what I fell for that when we're together, it doesnt even matter, and it doesn't matter to him either cause he was calling all the shots hahaha
Who cares about a number, you'll miss out on that guy/girl you are looking for.
Its like Zach and Tori Roloff. She is "normal" height and he has dwarfism and their marriage is beautiful.
It’s not May! I wish they would post the full episodes at least if they aren’t going to post recent ones. Not everyone has a tv! Put the full episodes on Netflix or on here! I’m happy for this 14 min clip tho! Thank youuuuu
I’ve dated multiple men shorter than me it wasn’t a problem for me because I liked them for who they were and eventually it became a problem for them and became self conscious from people saying he was not man enough for me “I am more than my body” I love that
"True love doesn't see size" ✊✊
I love Tam's dress 😍
Any man that admits he’s in a relationship with x other people is not going to be serious with you now or ever. No man who is seriously interested will risk losing you by making you feel you are just one of many even if he is dating others.
Not true, he's honest. Think about it this way, would you rather have a guy say "I'm looking for love, and that's why I'm date multiple people, to find the right one for me" or someone who doesn't say it, but is still looking around.
People are not islands. Guys will have friends and deeper relationships before they meet you. If a guy approaches me and tells me he is single, when he is not, I can work with that. Because I know he is trying to impress me and if he likes me as a person, the other women will fall off his radar. It’s guys that approach you and could care less about impressing you and reveal they are sleeping and talking to others that you should run away from. Because any man who is properly chasing you, wants to really impress you and will not risk it by offering up such info. It’s likely he just wants sex and doesn’t see you as gf material. Women will always have competition, but let a man chose you and earn you. Don’t worry about other women. Honestly, I don’t believe in sleeping with a man either before marriage. That keeps your mind clear and your options open if he’s not actively pursuing you.
Mogens Linnet and Loni has low self esteem. No woman should come on TV and brag about her sexual escapades like she is a dude. She acts low value and cheap, so men see her as such.
Mogens Linnet Think about it like this: if you were the most beautiful woman in the world, and you had rich men from the world pursuing you for marriage, which one of the stupid suitors would risk losing his chance to be with you by telling you “oh btw. I’m seeing other women”? Zero. Any guy that says that to you believes you’re average, at best, and you should view it as an insult. Who is pursuing who?
@@AkireMaru you have a point. But women want what other women want. There a reason, that men in a relationship get hit on constantly and single men don't.
I’m tryna figure out why tameras drink is darker than the rest of the ladies
Hey babe
Loni’s hands and chest vs her face? Woah.
🥺
Clown
Everyone’s drink looks different
😁🤣🤣🤣🤣
Diversity is our strength lol
Rice Waster Aleks lmaooo
Lol
When ade was talking about the nibbling... that ish was hilarious
Ya’ll, her make up looks fine. Quit being cats and listen to what they’re saying.. rude comments really arn’t wanted or necessary
Lies.
You guys are so negative, omg
I can so relate cause my boyfriend is a foot taller than me and he’s on the thin side but he’s fit as hell and I’ve always gotten people who act like such a struggle to kiss or complain that they couldn’t date a thin guy. Honey that’s why I’m dating him and you’re not cause I CAN make it work.
Dont be comin up on my ig mad at me
I gotta hold his stomach, l gotta hold my stomach
Loni is hilarious.
😂😂😂
Adrienne spoke facts!!
Ok I honestly have to say... true love should outweigh ( no pun intended ) the other stuff such as weight... my mom and dad have been married for 15 years together 20 years and my mom has always been the beautiful curvaceous, plus-sized one in her relationships but the one thing I have to give props to my dad is he never made her feel as if she's less beautiful just because she happens to be a big woman... he loved her just way she was and is and that's all that matters
Myronn Coleman this is beautiful! Love is love.
This is coming from a lady: don’t ever have sex on the first date. Don’t ever have sex before a man commits to you 100%. If you have sex before commitment, I promise you he will get bored, get up, and leave right after. A man doesn’t respect a woman who has sex too soon and men don’t get attached after sex like us women do. Save yourself the heartache and only please yourself until commitment, or hopefully marriage. If you wouldn’t give the person the number to your phone, don’t give them your body
The lady @ 12:20 who was gonna clap but stopped when she realized no one else was clapping lmao
Y'all look beautiful!!! Thank you for doing mocktails too because I don't drink!!!
I found out they are just as tasty. I've tried them the times I was the driver, coz I do not touch alcohol when I'm going to drive..
@@czarinaczar people like you make my heart smile!!! I'm so grateful for people like you that are thoughtful enough to think of others safety. We're all in this together. Ijs
@@ttstephanie0629 💜
At 12:20, that lady at the back was about to clap but when she saw nobody was clapping, she rubbed her neck instead 😂
Loni's highlight is distracting but I love her though
I've never asked a man how tall he is before meeting him. I married a man that's shorter than me and I'm 5' 8"
To be fair you say it sucks that the guy isnt making the first move but it isnt, it only sucks if you like the guy. If it stops a guy you dont like from making a move then it’s great
They are all so beautiful
You are sexy af, do you have Instagram?
love it when Amanda isnt there
y’all just didn’t learn about consent. That’s why jeannies saying her guy friends are “scared” to make the first move. They don’t understand how to ask for consent. If they did they wouldn’t be scared.
J P I think the reason jeannie’s guy friends are afraid to ask because if alcohol is involved on the date they have sex the woman doesn’t remember consenting to sex then presses charges on the guy that’s why the guys are afraid
Sex on the first date is not for me but I wont judge anyone else for it. Do what works for you!!!
Loni's makeup wow😂
They should not bake her face
Floral Gin still makes me bust out in laughter. I want them to say ‘Potatoey Vodka’ next time 😂
😂whoever baked Loni forgot to take off the rest of the power 😂_ ❤️ love you girl
Did Adrienne say May at the beginning? 😅
Loni's dress!😍😍 I cannot see all of it, but love it! 😍😍
This is really interesting and I’m an new watcher of the real
"It is the last friday in May" huh?
It is a replay this came out a year ago
I was lost there for a sec too😂😂😂
GIRL CHAT VAULT
@@Lydiaohlydiaa It's amazing how people can't even read ALL CAPITAL LETTERS.
Lol same I just woke up from a nap I was scared for a min😂
I love how Loni says “breave’ 😂
Y’all know y’all wrong for that thumbnail 🤣🤣🤣
Loni looks gorgeous as always
What Jeannie is saying at 4:05 is SO FREAKING spot on yo
Love isn’t always looks it’s whats inside
You want someone that going to “do you” & leave.
Or
Have someone that going to show you passion and show you love
Sometimes consent gets muddled. Because its harder to find yourself in a good relationship right now.
Back when the real was fun and "lighter"...I get it they want to evolve but now its only about race.. Amanda is stucked with what she has learned in collège and the others are followers except for Jeannie!!
Stuck with what she learned?? ... about her..... heritage and culture? Think like a business man for a second.... Amanda brings a different kind of demographic to the show which puts more money in their pockets. I’m sorry, but race and oppression is all up and through America. It’s good that we speak on it. It doesn’t come up every show... and if the talk about it is some you don’t like maybe you should check yourself...
Thelondonbadger What does this fact have to do with what I’m saying. I’m saying that Amanda is a good addition to the show. Make it make sense love bug, and go about your day. Talking about issues surrounding the oppressed is ALWAYS a good thing to talk about BECAUSE HUMANITY WILL START TO UNDERSTAND EACH OTHER MORE ! ... idk even know why you wanted to come for me today LOL! peace and love ♥️
Thelondonbadger At least they didn’t have to die in bondage from white supremacy 🤷🏽♀️... Anybody who is woke would know that living in bondage is terrible. As the great Killmonger from Black Panther said, “ Bury me in the sea with my ancestors that jumped from the ships because they knew that death was better than bondage”. PERIOD. NOW HAVE A GOOD DAY! BOOP BOOP😂
Where can I get adrian's outfit??? 😩😩
Try Fashion Nova she loves them😍
So..... Loni's make up artist really let her walk out looking like cake face....? like maybe it looks good in person but under these studio lights......huuuuuuuuney no!
Ladies I don't know what I'm doing wrong I've been married 3 times and I don't see any change
I can't get the 3rd one to leave
How do you get a guy to propose? I need help. I want to get married.
Stillll not adding the original air date in the description
Guess what if a man is having a one night stand.....= A woman having some night stand too. But ppl act like men do it more often.
This was a good segment
this lighting wasn’t it