Her Boyfriend Left For A YOUNGER WOMAN! I Steve Harvey

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  • Опубликовано: 27 ноя 2024

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  • @magdabadrena2836
    @magdabadrena2836 5 месяцев назад +201

    Four months into dating my husband I asked him what his intentions were. I was 23 and he was 28. And I was willing to walk away if his intentions weren’t marriage. We spoke. Six months later he asked me to marry him and we have been married 39 years. He is a spectacular husband and father and I couldn’t ask for more.

    • @9to5MillionaireMindset
      @9to5MillionaireMindset 5 месяцев назад +14

      Being intentional matters!

    • @travguru8
      @travguru8 5 месяцев назад +9

      Exactly. Too many women waste their youth waiting around on a man to decide if "he " wants to get married. There is a timeline and expiration date on everything. If you're dating someone and there's no conversation about taking things to the next level after 6 months, keep it movin. This poor lady was basically hanging around for 12 years for nothing, probably could've met a man when she was younger and gotten married to someone else, sad.

    • @angelahall7147
      @angelahall7147 5 месяцев назад +1

      Congratulations 🎉❤🎉

    • @PatriciaGrady-tl5qh
      @PatriciaGrady-tl5qh 5 месяцев назад +1

      That's awesome you are a great example for young women. ❤💯🙏

    • @normathompson5743
      @normathompson5743 4 месяца назад +1

      CONGRATULATIONS 🎊

  • @MyWayWendy
    @MyWayWendy 5 месяцев назад +283

    "Never assume that someone likes you by their sweetness, Sometimes you're just an option when they're bored" Quotes.

  • @GoldenLady1007
    @GoldenLady1007 5 месяцев назад +93

    He left, let him stay gone. The fact that he had the audacity to ask to come back tells the story. She doesn't need a man, she needs a therapist to help her love herself. 💛

    • @centenoj85
      @centenoj85 3 месяца назад +3

      Doesn't matter the age of a person.
      Some people don't know how to set boundaries in their relationship.
      She wasted 12 years of her life.

    • @finally97
      @finally97 11 дней назад

      It's not about loving herself. It's about setting boundaries. She can absolutely love herself and still not know how to set and maintain boundaries. Accepting unwanted behavior does not equal not loving yourself. That's a myth.

    • @GoldenLady1007
      @GoldenLady1007 11 дней назад

      @finally97 I disagree. IMHO, when you love YOU, certain behavior is simply unacceptable. Period. Self-love, a serious sense of self-worth sets the boundaries. I am 61 years old and I don't know a lot. However, I do know a little. I know, for me, because of how much I love and respect ME, certain behaviors are unacceptable. This is from my own experience and seeing other people over the years. May you and anyone else reading this ALWAYS be blessed with good health, happiness, love, peace and prosperity. ✨️😊💛

  • @nothgir
    @nothgir 5 месяцев назад +38

    💯 My wife certainly asked me 3 mos into dating, “What are we doing?” She held me accountable and protected her time. She still doesn’t like wasting time, money, and anything.

  • @TheGoodnews7328
    @TheGoodnews7328 5 месяцев назад +65

    Never double back.. NEVER!!

  • @esau5530
    @esau5530 5 месяцев назад +35

    I used to work with a girl, her boyfriend didn’t respect her, treated her like a doormat, he had a bad temper, screamed at her, she was my kids age and she asked my advice what should she do, because he promised her marriage and he keeps making excuses, I told her to leave him, for one the way he treats her. I told her she will find the right guy and she did, he’s a teacher and she is a teacher assistant, god fearing man and she’s a real nice girl, they got married after 8 months.

  • @Jewels0007
    @Jewels0007 5 месяцев назад +199

    DO NOT SLEEP WITH THEM BEFORE MARRIAGE YOU'LL FIND OUT HIS INTENTIONS FASTER

    • @ImOnAJourney
      @ImOnAJourney 5 месяцев назад +9

      Amen!!

    • @OneWomanMan888
      @OneWomanMan888 5 месяцев назад +2

      How can she find out his intentions if she allowed him to.

    • @hawaiianrussian1047
      @hawaiianrussian1047 5 месяцев назад +2

      …and take some accountability as well 😬😂

    • @elizafelz
      @elizafelz 5 месяцев назад +2

      Very true

    • @PamBeesly9545
      @PamBeesly9545 5 месяцев назад +8

      @@hawaiianrussian1047 yall love throwing out that word when it’s not needed. Vocabulary is like 5 words and one of them is accountability but never applied to yourselves. Men 😂

  • @kornaxon3522
    @kornaxon3522 5 месяцев назад +35

    'Listen' to actions, not to words.

  • @defenderofdecency7218
    @defenderofdecency7218 5 месяцев назад +61

    12 years? Wow. Hope the 53 year old woman heeds to Steve's advice and makes changes in moving forward with her love life. Good luck

    • @tamitatangoto5134
      @tamitatangoto5134 5 месяцев назад +3

      If you ask me she gave him her BEST YEAR'S. MY best years of my entire life so far was my 40s.
      I looked the best ever, I felt the best ever.
      I tell you she gave that away to him and when he felt like she was starting to get old he left her for someone younger.
      If they had at least been married it might have been a little bit harder for him to walk away, MAYBE.😮

    • @defenderofdecency7218
      @defenderofdecency7218 5 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@tamitatangoto5134
      Yeah, you are right. I feel sad for her. She looked good for a 53 years old woman though. Guess Blacks don't crack (don't age/wrinkle as fast) as the saying goes. Anyhow, I hope she finds a man who would treat her better.

  • @Jewels0007
    @Jewels0007 5 месяцев назад +136

    A man wont stay unless he wants to PERIOD!

    • @OneWomanMan888
      @OneWomanMan888 5 месяцев назад +6

      If you allowed him to have it, he will be back for more.

    • @hawaiianrussian1047
      @hawaiianrussian1047 5 месяцев назад +3

      Maybe she gave him a reason to leave and not settle 🤷🏽‍♂️😏😬😂

    • @teresaevans4840
      @teresaevans4840 4 месяца назад

      Absolutely!!!!

  • @msblessedIAM
    @msblessedIAM 5 месяцев назад +64

    Dont allow him back, people will onlybdo what you allow. 12 years and he didnt marry you. Move on Queen, You deserve better. 12 yrs hes's not planning to marry you

    • @lastdragonx
      @lastdragonx 4 месяца назад +1

      @@msblessedIAM she aint no queen. She washed up.

    • @msblessedIAM
      @msblessedIAM 4 месяца назад +3

      @@lastdragonx She definitely A Queen.

    • @lastdragonx
      @lastdragonx 4 месяца назад

      @@msblessedIAM Lol queen of what? Getting played?

  • @msblessedIAM
    @msblessedIAM 5 месяцев назад +51

    Social media will ruin your relationship / marriage.

  • @MerelynMontheith
    @MerelynMontheith 5 месяцев назад +39

    Women we need to value our selves people will treat you the way you allowed them to.

    • @hawaiianrussian1047
      @hawaiianrussian1047 5 месяцев назад

      …huh? We live in the generation with the most conceited ass women walking round whatchu talking about ? You mean women need to take accountability and stop blaming every other adult but themselves 😬😂

  • @Qvotes
    @Qvotes 5 месяцев назад +19

    I remember I told my partner (cause we've been good friends before we got attracted to each other) that we'll date temporarily for a year to see if our feelings are fleeting; if there are differences too great to say it won't work then after that, we decide if we'll continue or not. Bless his heart, it wasn't even on 10th month, he proposed.

  • @PurePosey44
    @PurePosey44 5 месяцев назад +25

    Don’t wait on him! Move on with your life! Why are you allowing him to decide for you how your life is going to go??!!

  • @OneWomanMan888
    @OneWomanMan888 5 месяцев назад +53

    If the man wants you, he will do what a man suppose to do, married to you and you should have grown up kids by now.

  • @teresakelton8286
    @teresakelton8286 5 месяцев назад +14

    Run! Don’t take him back!

  • @DeliveranceHealingMiracles222
    @DeliveranceHealingMiracles222 5 месяцев назад +55

    I AINT SLEEPING WITH NOBODY BEFORE MARRIAGE BEEN THERE DONE THAT COME CORRECT OR DONT COME AT ALL

    • @tjaspire
      @tjaspire 5 месяцев назад +11

      Right. If you're not sleeping with him, ain't no "girlfriend of 12 years." He'll make his mind up REAL quick if wants to be with you, or just waste your time.

    • @darnellrhodes6174
      @darnellrhodes6174 5 месяцев назад +1

      Unfortunately, many women give their virginity/wombs away prior to marriage and expect good quality men to accept that!! Nope!! 👎🏾

  • @DeliveranceHealingMiracles222
    @DeliveranceHealingMiracles222 5 месяцев назад +60

    I have no desire at 47 to be a girlfriend at this age

    • @BlessedToATee
      @BlessedToATee 5 месяцев назад +3

      Whew Chile, Tell me about it!

    • @kfmeighty9
      @kfmeighty9 5 месяцев назад

      How about a 54 year old living in a house but sleeping in different rooms for 10 years with a man as a girlfriend and step mom of his kid.

    • @darnellrhodes6174
      @darnellrhodes6174 5 месяцев назад +3

      40+ year old women who are seeking serious relationships are not desirable for marriage and motherhood for virtually ALL good quality men!!

    • @fashion1198
      @fashion1198 5 месяцев назад +4

      😂 because you know every man. I am African American and got married to a black Cardiologist at the age of 44. Oh and let me add that I was a single mom to a young adult. Btw this woman never said she wanted to get married. A lot of women are opting out of marriage and dating all together. And before I sign off stats show that you all don’t marry women at any age hence the reason most women in our community no matter the socioeconomic status have babies out of wedlock…I forgot to add moms of biracial kids are quickly joining this group…….

    • @darnellrhodes6174
      @darnellrhodes6174 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@fashion1198 You speaking as though old middle aged women have leverage when it comes to relationships with men. WRONG 😑 old women are broken, tainted, many come with baggage, damage, drama and trauma from failed relationships and life experiences. So, good quality men aren’t checking for those women anyway!!

  • @flutterbyenthusia
    @flutterbyenthusia 5 месяцев назад +5

    That's what I did. I told my (then) boyfriend "if we are not engaged in one year from now, I'm moving out of this town." I had moved TO the town for school, met him, and didn't like the town or the school, but I loved HIM. 1 year later we were married. We've been married 13 years now, and will always be.

  • @ForMySoulSistas
    @ForMySoulSistas 5 месяцев назад +37

    ↪️Not only did you leave once after 12 years for a younger woman but you came back and had the same inconsistent behavior
    ↪️Set the standards in the very beginning
    ↪️It sounds like she's still hopeful for that relationship...When ppl show us who they are: believe them.

    • @rashardstallworth9240
      @rashardstallworth9240 5 месяцев назад

      You have no idea why he left. You can’t just assume that he’s the problem.

    • @palmiduby1561
      @palmiduby1561 5 месяцев назад +1

      I Would have never left him back in heck nah.

    • @ForMySoulSistas
      @ForMySoulSistas 5 месяцев назад

      @@palmiduby1561 💯

  • @Roda45Crossfit
    @Roda45Crossfit 5 месяцев назад +9

    I see fear, doubt and low self esteem…love yourself more than you romanticize the idea of being in love. Make room for the one who will love you the way you deserve to be loved.

  • @zinachristie8052
    @zinachristie8052 5 месяцев назад +14

    Amen if a man loves you. Great answer!

  • @tiffanywarfield9375
    @tiffanywarfield9375 5 месяцев назад +69

    "What 53 yr old woman needs a boyfriend?" 😮😢

    • @tyecampbell1762
      @tyecampbell1762 5 месяцев назад +18

      Some people dont want to get married and age has nothing to do with it!

    • @OneWomanMan888
      @OneWomanMan888 5 месяцев назад +15

      ​@@tyecampbell1762Did you watch the video.

    • @shema02
      @shema02 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@OneWomanMan888 😂😂

    • @tiffanywarfield9375
      @tiffanywarfield9375 5 месяцев назад +3

      @@tyecampbell1762 I posted that "particular" quote for a purpose and reason....
      Did you watch the entire MESSAGE ?

    • @reahleneroberts7791
      @reahleneroberts7791 5 месяцев назад

      @@tyecampbell1762 my uncle did when he died left her looking with a lot money but she only want him back

  • @redgurl60
    @redgurl60 5 месяцев назад +6

    Don't ever let someone occupy that much of your time without getting what you want out of the deal.

  • @arlenelovelace18
    @arlenelovelace18 4 месяца назад +3

    I am in a new dating relationship with a chivalrous man. He makes sure I am not walking close to the street, opening car doors, building doors, always having me enter first, etc… and I make sure to acknowledge this. A soft stroke of my hand against his cheek, a sugar smack on the lips, a smile, a wink, a squeeze of his hand, a blown kiss or I tell him how sweet he is. It is so simple to express gratitude to him for who he is and how he treats me. After a few toads, I think I’ve finally found my Prince. Ladies, if you have a gem like this, please express your appreciation. For the ladies still looking; don’t give up, chivalry is not dead, but it is a rare gem. He and I are both 63 yrs old, but we act like teenagers. And for the younger ladies with kids at home, it’s never too late to teach your sons this gift, and never too late to teach your daughters to expect it and appreciate it.

  • @ChantelWhitley-rs3uu
    @ChantelWhitley-rs3uu 5 месяцев назад +8

    The first lady in the red blouse and the weave is a beautiful dark lady I hope you find someone who is genuine..

  • @Jewels0007
    @Jewels0007 5 месяцев назад +26

    My ex husband promised me a to go on a Cruize Ship. My So called Best Friend stole him away from me and now they broke up he been through a bunch of woman since I been staying by myself. Heck with men. Im Happy

    • @Apocol
      @Apocol 5 месяцев назад

      Should of paid a visit to your “friend “

    • @reahleneroberts7791
      @reahleneroberts7791 5 месяцев назад +3

      She wasn’t no friend only why hanging around with you let have him she see gonna do same to her

    • @kimhunter2532
      @kimhunter2532 5 месяцев назад +3

      Your so-called Best Friend did you a favor.

    • @kimhunter2532
      @kimhunter2532 5 месяцев назад +1

      53? I was dumb like that. Then I smartened up. Wake up ladies

    • @billspike2723
      @billspike2723 5 месяцев назад

      Why didn't you to depend the cruise

  • @BigDaddy_BHJ1977
    @BigDaddy_BHJ1977 5 месяцев назад +50

    Maybe she needs to ask herself am I the problem.

    • @BlaqueRose23
      @BlaqueRose23 5 месяцев назад +12

      Doing so will DEFINITELY help!

    • @hawaiianrussian1047
      @hawaiianrussian1047 5 месяцев назад +5

      Exactly!!!

    • @ayalibra
      @ayalibra 5 месяцев назад +6

      I agree. And heal herself before she moves onto another relationship

    • @josp7502
      @josp7502 5 месяцев назад +1

      Many people in general & women in particular don't know this question.

    • @tamitatangoto5134
      @tamitatangoto5134 5 месяцев назад +1

      I'm a woman, but I'm getting older, a little bit wiser and more mature, and I have to agree with you, A woman has to ask herself, with all sincerity, AM I THE PROBLEM? Oftentimes the answer will be YES; YES SHE IS!!

  • @bradleycampbell245
    @bradleycampbell245 5 месяцев назад +3

    She needs to hold herself accountable and let that man go. 12 years of being a girlfriend while not having any requirements is insane

  • @CrystalSicily
    @CrystalSicily 5 месяцев назад +7

    20. 30. But after 40. NO TIME TO WASTE!! ❤

  • @lisaanneaster3095
    @lisaanneaster3095 5 месяцев назад +12

    He didn't marry you in 12 years??? You should have left LOOOOOOOONG ago

    • @travguru8
      @travguru8 5 месяцев назад

      Thank you! She should've been left if after 6 months or a year, they weren't married. Wasted over a decade of her life!!

  • @CherylJackson-yo5qu
    @CherylJackson-yo5qu 5 месяцев назад +9

    He doesn't want her.12years, !!.

  • @StanTheBrand
    @StanTheBrand 5 месяцев назад +5

    6 months is not a long time. Get to know a person, go through some cycles(holidays, birthdays, etc.) and get to know a person. Quit going to celebrities for advice on life.

  • @JamesGreenier
    @JamesGreenier 5 месяцев назад +37

    Women in this situation passed on 99% of the men who wanted them because they were too “nice” and marriage-minded. Don’t make that mistake.

    • @palmiduby1561
      @palmiduby1561 5 месяцев назад +1

      oop- lol

    • @PamBeesly9545
      @PamBeesly9545 5 месяцев назад

      You don’t know anything about this women or 99% of women😂 you must get rejected a lot

    • @Josie3387
      @Josie3387 5 месяцев назад +2

      How would you know if you're not a nice guy yourself?

    • @Ali.electra
      @Ali.electra 5 месяцев назад +6

      @@Josie3387these types of guys are always the ones that end up being the scariest bc they have a vendetta against women 😭

    • @Josie3387
      @Josie3387 5 месяцев назад +6

      @@Ali.electraYou're right. Self proclaimed nice guys are unhinged and worst than the bad boys they cry women chase after.

  • @sinavaitululeupolu1455
    @sinavaitululeupolu1455 5 месяцев назад +5

    Girl u deserve better. Let him go

  • @delmahnori1582
    @delmahnori1582 5 месяцев назад +3

    Man always love the look of woman. Some may look for true love. Never marry a man you don't know his going out and his coming in. Know a man background before taking another step. Sometime love can blind a woman to make wrong decision without realising it. True love is all about honest, trust, patient, kindness, never jealous, never envy, never agressive. That is true love.

  • @deborahwilliamson5655
    @deborahwilliamson5655 5 месяцев назад +3

    You should NOT have let him back into your life!!! He showed you that he had zero respect for you the first time. Mind you, I had to learn many lessons the hard way also. Highly-educated about men now!!!

  • @debbieechiribel1860
    @debbieechiribel1860 5 месяцев назад +5

    I was w my ex 24 years, took him back 3 times, the same story as this woman in the red dress. Like Steve Harvey has said "never look back thru your rear view mirror"

  • @Ghostbusters341
    @Ghostbusters341 5 месяцев назад +1

    Focus on yourself, hun, and watch your life bloom like a field of 🌼 #SelfLoveIsKey #MeMyselfAndI #LivingMyBestLife #SelfCareSunday #FulfillmentGoals #HappinessIsKey #LoveYourselfFirst .

  • @msblessedIAM
    @msblessedIAM 5 месяцев назад +10

    Men love calling womwn insecure when they tell them about liking others women pictures.

  • @TheRichardMorse
    @TheRichardMorse 3 месяца назад +1

    She was with him for 12 years and they never got married says it all

  • @realmommee8093
    @realmommee8093 5 месяцев назад +1

    Hope she’s in better place. She seems so sweet and pitiful at same time. Love self first.

  • @DeliveranceHealingMiracles222
    @DeliveranceHealingMiracles222 5 месяцев назад +10

    Chivalry is not dead

  • @African.Diaspora.InLondonUK
    @African.Diaspora.InLondonUK 5 месяцев назад +2

    😮 She been a placeholder 4 12 years. its a woman job to set the standard from Day 1.

    • @darnellrhodes6174
      @darnellrhodes6174 5 месяцев назад +1

      No, its the man who sets the standards for relationships!

  • @thewise2443
    @thewise2443 25 дней назад

    I needed this… don’t even get me started on this ! Some guys just want you for convenience, let him go !!

  • @annpinheiro2918
    @annpinheiro2918 3 месяца назад +1

    Please let him go you could have dodged a bullet...only God knows you not you

  • @Athenaforever2308
    @Athenaforever2308 5 месяцев назад +1

    A lot of these comments make sense....hope this lovely lady reads them. And never dates a guy for 12 years ...with no ring on her fingers!

  • @shan9479
    @shan9479 5 месяцев назад +2

    I just received an engagement ring 1 year and 0 days in my current relationship.

  • @MightwonamofGod123
    @MightwonamofGod123 5 месяцев назад +2

    That man came dancing down them steps like ELLEN 😂😂😂

  • @rossanalombardo6271
    @rossanalombardo6271 4 месяца назад +1

    She dodged a bullet....Break up's are easier than a divorce...............

  • @rainacherienne1010
    @rainacherienne1010 5 месяцев назад +3

    I don’t agree that women should be asking. Just don’t sleep with them and THEY will be asking you very quickly.

    • @travguru8
      @travguru8 5 месяцев назад +1

      Yep, don't play house, don't move in, don't have sex, don't cook for him, none of that, you are Not his wife until after you're married.

  • @gloriabaylor882
    @gloriabaylor882 5 месяцев назад +2

    They will lie when they need to... 😮

  • @MaryRodgers-v4d
    @MaryRodgers-v4d 5 месяцев назад

    If a man leaves you for a younger woman after 12 years. He is a man you do not want. I do not believe she took him back. He was going to leave again. Steve was just being nice. He could tell her what he really thought. He was just there for the convenience. I hope she find someone. We must respect ourselves. ❤❤

  • @tjaspire
    @tjaspire 5 месяцев назад +4

    Steve that is not good advice. ATP, there are no more "requirements." He already walked out twice. That's like making a deal with the devil. We don't negotiate with demons. If he leaves, tell him to stay over there and don't come back. Even YOU told us years ago that if a man leaves, he's leaving to be with another woman. There's nothing appealing about Community D. A man like that will lead a woman to poverty, AND hell. He has no self-control.

  • @hellosunshine3304
    @hellosunshine3304 5 месяцев назад +1

    Don't give wife benefits to a "boyfriend".

  • @A_Notes
    @A_Notes 5 месяцев назад +2

    One thing I disagreed with red pill and manosphere sectors on Steve Harvey was he never held women accountable and always painted to their feelings. I used to watch his talk show and he did Pander at times to women, there was also times he called women out on their BS. This video was one of many instances in which he told women the problem is not the man it's you

    • @PamBeesly9545
      @PamBeesly9545 5 месяцев назад +7

      It’s wrong to use someone, waste their time, cheat, and try to come back to use them. If you don’t wanna call that a bad person just because it’s a man that does it, then that says a lot about you

  • @Favoritedahmi
    @Favoritedahmi 5 месяцев назад +1

    The true of the matter is once a man meet you, he already knows what he want. But if he said nothing from 6 months till 1 years, sis ask him what are his intentions if he is not sure, let him go sbd move on. 12 years for what?

  • @jonathanfactor6688
    @jonathanfactor6688 5 месяцев назад +4

    Great video thanks

  • @nightlady2001
    @nightlady2001 4 месяца назад +2

    I say, sounds like the trash done took itself out. Good

  • @emmahwonder9161
    @emmahwonder9161 5 месяцев назад +1

    Love yourself first..

  • @patriciagurwitz509
    @patriciagurwitz509 4 месяца назад +2

    First woman…She’s too old to be settling for these losers. She lacks confidence 🥴

  • @luganoessom1464
    @luganoessom1464 4 месяца назад

    "She probably watching" 😂😂 we understand you bro, yeah we got you!😂

  • @Latifahgarba
    @Latifahgarba 5 месяцев назад +1

    You have to look within sometimes…. The issue is not with the man but with you

  • @veeli626
    @veeli626 4 месяца назад

    I dont Usually agree with Steve but he's 100% Correct, men will do what you allow them to do.

  • @bskillshare808
    @bskillshare808 5 месяцев назад

    Exactly Steve. I am not sitting down in any children relationship for so long and talking about boyfriend.. big women don't do boyfriend.

  • @KimberlyEder-uw7te
    @KimberlyEder-uw7te 5 месяцев назад

    Steve is giving good advice that their parents should teach them.

  • @MrBeautiful2908
    @MrBeautiful2908 5 месяцев назад +1

    I asked my wife to marry me six months after we met. We married six months later.

  • @beckykaye7414
    @beckykaye7414 Месяц назад

    Don't answer don't take them back

  • @christine8203
    @christine8203 5 месяцев назад +8

    Did she say she was 53? Wow!!! She looks 28, 29! Beautiful lady.

  • @almaidajohn4594
    @almaidajohn4594 5 месяцев назад +6

    Steve i thought you were a spiritual man, why at six months you're sleeping together? Fornication as well as adultery is sinning (not my words).

    • @tjaspire
      @tjaspire 5 месяцев назад +2

      Right. That advice will lead people straight to the lake of fire. This is not a game!

    • @tjaspire
      @tjaspire 5 месяцев назад

      People need to read their Bible. It's all in there. Especially those who claim to be "Christians," but never read the Word.

  • @nyd2021
    @nyd2021 5 месяцев назад +1

    ACTIONS.

  • @AkireMaru
    @AkireMaru 4 месяца назад

    Tale as old as time, true as it can be…

  • @caseynoel2202
    @caseynoel2202 5 месяцев назад +7

    Lady at Beginning: I’m 53
    Me: Woman, no you not. You 33. 🥰

  • @positivevibe7346
    @positivevibe7346 5 месяцев назад +3

    Love her top

  • @cwhite8860
    @cwhite8860 5 месяцев назад +1

    Let him go! He's not for you because if he wanted to, he would be a man, not a grown male

  • @FourSeasons04
    @FourSeasons04 5 месяцев назад

    Wowza...twelve years and she was still a "girlfriend" and she let him back in only to boot her again. Tell me you don't value yourself without telling me you don't value yourself. Poor thing reeks of desperation.

  • @angelus0975
    @angelus0975 4 месяца назад

    I learnt GCC Gentlemen Code of Conduct long before I was married. Married 15 years now. I still practice it.

  • @esintial
    @esintial 5 месяцев назад +2

    12 years??😮

  • @intentionalgreatness
    @intentionalgreatness 4 месяца назад +1

    12 years boyfriend?!

  • @bobbiejackson732
    @bobbiejackson732 4 месяца назад

    Thank u Steve

  • @Observer100-cn7gv
    @Observer100-cn7gv 19 дней назад +1

    Your problem. You gave him a second chance.

  • @SaggiesWorld
    @SaggiesWorld 4 месяца назад

    The had a trauma bond. She doesn't know her worth. She TAUGHT that man that she will always be waiting for him. He only came back at this point because he looking for a "nurse /purse"....He found out quick these young women got requirements too, and taking care of an elderly guy is NOT one of them😂. She needs to heal inner child trauma first of abandonment issues and self love... After she does that, I PROMISE you, she won't want him back. We attract people based on our psychological wounds... We finally LEAVE when one decides to heal and thus repel each other because you are no longer a vibrational match to that person. You can only love someone to the extent that you love yourself.

    • @SaggiesWorld
      @SaggiesWorld 13 дней назад

      @clearsky4003 She should've left 11.5 years ago... Women gotta stop allowing men to determine when it's time for a commitment... She overstayed

  • @debbieechiribel1860
    @debbieechiribel1860 5 месяцев назад

    Right! Asked for certain demands, altimadem

  • @sheldonsmith3680
    @sheldonsmith3680 5 месяцев назад +2

    Steve has all the answers. When he's hen picked my his 3rd wife. Did all his other wives wrong...but he's blessed he says

    • @MSG515
      @MSG515 5 месяцев назад

      I assume that he’s learnt lessons from his past relationships.

  • @crystal9626
    @crystal9626 5 месяцев назад +1

    Women wake up!

  • @AnitaCole-ug6nq
    @AnitaCole-ug6nq 5 месяцев назад

    Is so irritating when the audience is all calling out numbers at the same time nobody can understand them trying to concentrate on what numbers to choose

  • @seritawilkins1058
    @seritawilkins1058 5 месяцев назад

    Ayeeee Jonesboro Ga!!!

  • @kashmirirose3733
    @kashmirirose3733 2 месяца назад

    As soon as I hear healing proce.....

  • @hillieduvalier
    @hillieduvalier 5 месяцев назад

    Played like a boss , Kyron

  • @BillWilton
    @BillWilton 5 месяцев назад

    I really want to meet this man his a man of advices

  • @danielalovejesus7912
    @danielalovejesus7912 4 месяца назад

    I like the question on the first date: Are you looking for somebody to marry or is a long-lasting relationship enough?
    I am looking for sb to marry. Full stop.

  • @yogib8
    @yogib8 4 месяца назад +2

    We teach people how to treat us. You have 6 months, especially at a certain age to know what your plans are with me.
    And you are lucky if I even give you 6 months , you don’t get to live with me either, you must have a place as a man to bring me to…

  • @Moiselle555
    @Moiselle555 5 месяцев назад

    Old School Love does still work but chivalry is outdated. Chivalry doesn't work for me

  • @seritawilkins1058
    @seritawilkins1058 5 месяцев назад

    This was real. Fr

  • @nathaniaonyeagoro3895
    @nathaniaonyeagoro3895 21 час назад

    12 years??!!!

  • @jasminehouston-burns1691
    @jasminehouston-burns1691 5 месяцев назад +2

    It's hard ro stop "liking" pictures?

  • @Mr_UAE.Official
    @Mr_UAE.Official 5 месяцев назад +5

    😂😂😂😂 12 years GF 1:35

    • @ImOnAJourney
      @ImOnAJourney 5 месяцев назад

      My sister waited longer than that. They dated for 14 years before he finally asked her to marry him. In my book, no man is worth waiting that long for. But they had a really good marriage for over 40 years until she passed a year ago.

    • @PamBeesly9545
      @PamBeesly9545 5 месяцев назад +1

      Some women don’t want marriage and there’s nothing wrong with that. Married so men live shorter while married men live longer, make more money and benefit from being married.

  • @bvp4575
    @bvp4575 4 месяца назад

    Ladies, stay celibate! Do *not* sleep with a man until *after* he commits to you! If he isn’t willing to date you and get to know you for you without sex, that’s a red flag. Walk away. But if he’s willing to date you without sex but won’t commit, guess what? You haven’t invested in him in a deep, emotional way. You’ve learned he is not the one, while protecting your heart.

  • @AliciaSade-uu3xz
    @AliciaSade-uu3xz 5 месяцев назад

    How can you require any man to do anything. He knows when. I hate when he says that.