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  • @jodylarson4697
    @jodylarson4697 2 года назад +2364

    Solar panel sales guy said, "We can cut your electric bill in half!" My electric bill is $110 per month. I said, "So you're going to save me $55 a month? That's $660 a year, and at that rate it will take 30 years to recoup my investment." He hung up.

    • @drprofessorpowersport
      @drprofessorpowersport 2 года назад +40

      how long does it take to recoup your investment on your home?

    • @coniccinoc
      @coniccinoc 2 года назад +149

      @@drprofessorpowersport Solar panels leak. Anyone who tells you different is either trying to sell solar panels or trying to sell their leaky roof solar panel house.

    • @rayjgold
      @rayjgold 2 года назад +96

      @@drprofessorpowersport You recoup as soon as you sell.... and in most cases, you get more than you invested. The only other option is to rent, and your rent is never recouped.

    • @JON-hb1mv
      @JON-hb1mv 2 года назад +31

      @@rayjgold You'd have to pay off your mortgage first so on average it would take over 30 years to recoup your principal investment... not even talking about interest

    • @drprofessorpowersport
      @drprofessorpowersport 2 года назад +19

      @@rayjgold how is that different from solar? Aside from the fact it might not appreciate. The only other option is to "rent" from the utility company, which you never see a return on.

  • @PristinePerceptions
    @PristinePerceptions 2 года назад +952

    She's not laughing because she thinks it's a joke. It's her defense mechanism. Good thing Dave put her on the plan. They need it.

    • @stellarocquie7957
      @stellarocquie7957 2 года назад +25

      He "put" her on nothing. She isn't going to follow through.

    • @brockreynolds870
      @brockreynolds870 2 года назад +28

      Yes.... Dave and many other people are too stupid to recognize nervous laughter.

    • @kishaanderson2947
      @kishaanderson2947 Год назад +27

      Exactly.. She's nervous and anxious for sure. Sometimes I laughed under pressure because you fell guilty airing your faults, especially on national radio! I hoped she started the plan and continues to follow through.

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 Год назад +8

      Ya she’s nervous.

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 Год назад +1

      Ben- she has a child.

  • @Shoeslyyork
    @Shoeslyyork Год назад +56

    A few years ago my home caught fire. The fire department was able to save my home thank God but as I was helpless watching my roof burn I had an epiphany, "it's just stuff!!" You don't need stuff to make you happy. The moment you stop wasting money on "stuff" your financial worries get less and less.

    • @dianehess5520
      @dianehess5520 4 месяца назад

      I agree but we all need a roof over our heads. Can’t afford to buy? then rent. Life is pretty simple until we take big stupid steps in the wrong direction.

    • @pb577
      @pb577 3 месяца назад +1

      I say that line also: "it's just stuff" ever since a huge tree fell on our house. No one was killed or injured and that's all that matters. The rest is covered by insurance and it's replaceable.

  • @truegrit7697
    @truegrit7697 Год назад +207

    I've been in financial trouble before. Now, I own my car, I own my house and I have zero debt. I don't have a ton of money, but it is cheap to live if you have no debt. My rule of thumb, don't jeopardize my savings, and if I can't easily pay cash for it, I can't afford it. Also, just because I can afford it doesn't mean I need it; needs v. wants. The only bills I get are utilities; I can't tell you how good that feels.

    • @darabowen8077
      @darabowen8077 Год назад +6

      We are.right with you!!! It's great to not have the burden of debt!! 20+ years ago were my debt battles!

    • @andrewt9521
      @andrewt9521 Год назад +5

      No debt is awesome but only bills are utilities? What about property taxes, insurance, phone bill, car insurance, internet, Netflix…. I would love no debt and am working on it but living a “normal” life in the US is expensive.

    • @southernbelle2478
      @southernbelle2478 Год назад +2

      You dont have phone bill or car insurence

    • @peartfaldo
      @peartfaldo Год назад +4

      wants mean you're bored. go for a walk.....that "thing" you think you want will be sitting in the corner in a month gathering dust....

    • @cafsixtieslover
      @cafsixtieslover 11 месяцев назад +2

      @@andrewt9521 I have a friend who calls me greedy because I am still working full time at pension age. According to her I because I have no mortgage and "your only other bills are utilities" I can afford to cut my income in half. I said what about everything else not to mention saving for emergencies?

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 2 года назад +538

    Solar panel with a loans and house debt is literally the epitome of debt on top of debt.

    • @joanmvalentine
      @joanmvalentine 2 года назад +10

      😆😆😆

    • @barrycook8116
      @barrycook8116 2 года назад +11

      Fact!

    • @TimeisUp22
      @TimeisUp22 Год назад +4

      My dad was able to get them for free through insurance, I’m curious why they weren’t offered that route as well.

    • @barrycook8116
      @barrycook8116 Год назад +5

      @@TimeisUp22 how was he able to get them for free from insurance? The insurance doesn’t just hang out free money…

    • @TimeisUp22
      @TimeisUp22 Год назад +1

      @@barrycook8116 I have no idea. It had to be either home owners or life insurance. But thats my assumption, I assumed thats what everyone was doing at that time. Ill ask him tomorrow.

  • @2023Red
    @2023Red 2 года назад +439

    This lady is wise to have called into the show. She is not stupid just afraid and has a way out. The question is does she and her husband have the willingness to make change. Change is hard.

    • @vickieclark5931
      @vickieclark5931 2 года назад +18

      At least in this situation they have quite a bit of equity in their home. So if worse came to worse, they can sell their house and start over. Most don't have that ability. This couple is far from being bankrupt.

    • @DNA350ppm
      @DNA350ppm 2 года назад +9

      I wonder why the husband didn't call in - why did he let her do it, is he angry at her for impulse-spending, does he feel ashamed for buying the solarpanels, is he reluctant to admit they need to start anew? Such emotional aspects need to be discussed kindly, unjudgementally, and come up on the table and be solved together.

    • @theoriginallewbert
      @theoriginallewbert 2 года назад

      Lady is pretty dumb. Math is hard for them.

    • @FR-tb7xh
      @FR-tb7xh Год назад +6

      Drinking the coolaid to buy Solar panels was stupid.

    • @FancyRPGCanada
      @FancyRPGCanada 3 месяца назад

      I love that the guys on this show understand that people get overwhelmed and stressed and stop thinking logically. They’re in fight or flight. Dave and co are here to help literally knock some sense into people, with love of course

  • @vjs4539
    @vjs4539 2 года назад +198

    Definitely don't sell the house. Rent will cost more than your house payment. And they are going to raise the rent so high that noone can afford to live.

    • @nicholegallo1090
      @nicholegallo1090 2 года назад +9

      Yep. My parents rented all while my mom was alive till 2013, and in those 25 years they were together (they met in their 20s and 30s) - the rent went up 65% a joke. Now my dad is a single father living with us and owns his fathers old house.

    • @leadnsteel1428
      @leadnsteel1428 2 года назад +11

      It's sad. Renting in a big city is just too expensive

    • @bik3r230
      @bik3r230 2 года назад +1

      No it wont lol

    • @original8616
      @original8616 2 года назад

      Yeah Dave shouldn't have said that

  • @fueledgaragetv1212
    @fueledgaragetv1212 4 месяца назад +3

    Selling the house is rarely the answer anymore. I sold my house in 2010 and started from scratch and for 10 years my rent increased literally more than my annual pay increase. Now bought another house, I’d rather be broke with a roof and equity than broke and covering landlords increase each year.

  • @andreaj8319
    @andreaj8319 2 года назад +160

    I don’t know if selling their house is the right idea with the rising rent in America. I think their house will help shield them.

    • @sobeliever1638
      @sobeliever1638 2 года назад +10

      Agreed rheny need more income

    • @sarahmc8309
      @sarahmc8309 2 года назад +8

      Yep ! More income and budget and get rid that 15k debt for a start !

    • @matthewgardner2144
      @matthewgardner2144 2 года назад +8

      If caller got a job making 40K or so a year they'd have the debt taken care of in a few months. Plus invest and plan for the future and build equity in their house. The husband has a child support obligation, this all should have been in their long-term planning when they got together and had a kid. And having the other kid is fine, and he will also be fine in daycare/preschool. They also need to go through their budget. line item by line item. "Breathe" is the best advice. Dave & Co. were spot on with this caller.

  • @franknberry333
    @franknberry333 Год назад +96

    I've been debt free since 2005 and it feels wonderful!

    • @turtleanton6539
      @turtleanton6539 5 месяцев назад

      I get thst 😊

    • @JeffThompson-ny8ih
      @JeffThompson-ny8ih 3 месяца назад +2

      Not really you still pay a electric bill and pay for gas and pay taxes we are all in debt too the very end of are lives I have 300k put away and I still feel like I'm in constant debt when I open the mailbox

    • @ElJefe360
      @ElJefe360 3 месяца назад

      Are you a Millionaire now?

    • @BillyTimes-dw7vs
      @BillyTimes-dw7vs 2 месяца назад +1

      If your not free and clear on your mortgage your not debt free but you are congratulations 👏

    • @bonin8448
      @bonin8448 2 месяца назад

      im 34 and have like 55k in debt
      ive been young and dumb
      i know ive was spending more than i made
      now i know better and can get out of this quickly
      i can imagine how nice it feels dwbt free
      before i came to USA from Mexico i was debt free

  • @vangtk10
    @vangtk10 2 года назад +198

    Dave: “Better than I deserve. How are you?”
    Caller: “I’m great! We’re broke and don’t know what to do!”

    • @karlabritfeld7104
      @karlabritfeld7104 Год назад +2

      Hahaha

    • @okiebrown6201
      @okiebrown6201 Год назад +5

      My first thought when I heard it!!

    • @FancyRPGCanada
      @FancyRPGCanada 3 месяца назад +1

      It’s so weird how we default to say we’re okay isn’t it? She’s probably meaning her health

    • @pl9915
      @pl9915 5 дней назад

      My health ain’t even ok . Good news is all they want to hear . They don’t like it when I’m down .

  • @Mrs-yt9ox
    @Mrs-yt9ox 8 месяцев назад +12

    She need to go to work and help her husband. These times require a two-income household. You should never let our spouses struggle to pay bills. Even if she works part time ; it’s better than nothing.

  • @gracelikerain5039
    @gracelikerain5039 2 года назад +129

    She reminds me of myself I'm very unorganized I thought I was broke till I looked at my income taxes WHERE DID ALL THAT MONEY GOOO but I've been learning about managing my money being more organized and thanks to shows like these I've given up the monthly payments lifestyle and I'm about to pay off all my debt little by little and after I will invest !

  • @savebees
    @savebees 2 года назад +232

    A rental at this point would probably be more expensive than staying in the house.

    • @leadnsteel1428
      @leadnsteel1428 2 года назад +16

      I'm Canadian and house prices are ridiculous here. I bought cheap don't know how future generations will afford it

    • @bobs182
      @bobs182 2 года назад +7

      @@leadnsteel1428 I suspect housing will become a bit lower within the next few years. People's incomes aren't going up at the rate that housing is going up which will soften demand.

    • @kcblues2sherwood652
      @kcblues2sherwood652 Год назад +1

      exactly!

    • @marcelosantana9311
      @marcelosantana9311 Год назад +6

      I feel sorry for anybody renting. It is just crushing.

    • @toddmaek5436
      @toddmaek5436 Год назад +1

      All depends on where you are renting

  • @danielle228512
    @danielle228512 Год назад +122

    Honestly just sitting down and making a weekly/monthly budget on a simple Excel sheet makes such a difference! It helps you to have a visual of how much is going in and out, and you can see what you can cut back on/how much you can spend. It has been a life saver for me.

    • @toddprater14
      @toddprater14 Год назад +16

      Excel sheet,that’s advanced.I used a good old mead spiral notebook paper 😊

    • @mow_1073
      @mow_1073 Год назад +2

      Well said !

    • @reginacameron3011
      @reginacameron3011 8 месяцев назад

      yes it really helps I love mine and have shared it with friends.

    • @losmit2194
      @losmit2194 7 месяцев назад

      Im.going to implement this

    • @bia_dev
      @bia_dev 7 месяцев назад +1

      I've been doing this for about 2 years and it brings so much peace of mind! I know where every Real goes and so far I've accomplished lots of things.

  • @Swedetwin
    @Swedetwin 2 года назад +111

    "Of course I don't want to resent my stepdaughter".....and Dave talked right over this sad, yet revealing comment. It clearly shows that she does not hold herself accountable for failing to control her spending.

    • @rayhill5767
      @rayhill5767 2 года назад +31

      She resents her stepdaughter

    • @Sasha0406
      @Sasha0406 2 года назад +26

      THIS!! That’s exactly what I heard too! She resents the step-daughter. Why even mention “after child support” in the very beginning? I knew right then and there she resents the step-daughter.

    • @cloudedcolour5329
      @cloudedcolour5329 Год назад +11

      @@Sasha0406 probably because his net pay would be maybe double, then CS takes a chunk of change out of it

    • @karlabritfeld7104
      @karlabritfeld7104 Год назад +8

      She blames the kid for their problems.

    • @melissab0515
      @melissab0515 Год назад +2

      @@cloudedcolour5329 no way. My ex makes about what this guy does and I receive $100 per week to support our son.

  • @mominthe209
    @mominthe209 3 месяца назад +6

    If you’re not in California, buying solar may not be a good idea.

  • @slf5141
    @slf5141 7 месяцев назад +4

    If you dont have cash for it dont pay for it !

  • @mystico21p
    @mystico21p 2 года назад +206

    How can people live like this? What boggles the mind is that most people live this way and think it's normal. This is freaking crazy!

    • @christophermartin972
      @christophermartin972 2 года назад +21

      As a reformed liver of this type of lifestyle I can only say that it kindve creeps up on ya and slowly becomes normal. I can only see it clearly now through the benefit of hindsight.

    • @scottgould6590
      @scottgould6590 2 года назад +8

      Christopher Martin, experience is often the best teacher.

    • @VHale-yz7hc
      @VHale-yz7hc 2 года назад +14

      It’s like anything the craziest stuff seems normal if you’re in it long enough

    • @bobs182
      @bobs182 2 года назад +19

      They just keep buying one more thing that they "need". American garages are full of things that people could live without and leaving no protected place for their cars.

    • @princessvivianna
      @princessvivianna 2 года назад +10

      You have to live within your means.

  • @barryf5479
    @barryf5479 3 месяца назад +5

    $30,000 to "save money on electricity"????
    There's your problem.

  • @profitmix441
    @profitmix441 2 года назад +183

    She agrees with everything but doesn’t seem like they will do it. I meet ppl like this all the time.

    • @nomadshomestead4009
      @nomadshomestead4009 2 года назад +9

      I know some of them

    • @drewdelaney4166
      @drewdelaney4166 2 года назад +13

      Sometimes depression is so powerful you can’t create any reason to change

    • @bluegillmich
      @bluegillmich 2 года назад +16

      Before i read your comment , i thought the same thing. Lots of laughter in this caller. Giggle,giggle..

    • @joeltroughton3021
      @joeltroughton3021 2 года назад

      Lol yup

    • @kristinab1078
      @kristinab1078 2 года назад +9

      She took the initiative to call. That's something. So yes, I think she will try.

  • @matthewgardner2144
    @matthewgardner2144 2 года назад +92

    "We don't owe anything on cars. One is rent-to-own." How is this not a debt? These people are a laughing mess.

    • @karlabritfeld7104
      @karlabritfeld7104 Год назад +21

      Americans are car crazy but don't own houses. Id rather drive a clunker so I can have a paid off place to live and not worry.

    • @Liv2Pnt
      @Liv2Pnt Год назад +5

      I think she meant it as there wasn't a loan with interest for it. She can give it back to the friend they're renting it from and not have a loan balance to pay off, or penalties, or anything like that.

    • @matthewgardner2144
      @matthewgardner2144 Год назад +2

      @@Liv2Pnt Here's how to make it do: save $$ for a replacement car and pay in cash, not wacky rent-to-own schemes with friends (which will fall apart) or financed through a car dealership. That's how it's done.

    • @benkelley6561
      @benkelley6561 Год назад

      Yeah. A friend of mine recently bought a new home theater system and stand. I thought it was really cool until he said the whole setup is $179 per month. I think from a rent a center. In ten months you would have paid off your TV if it's a nice one.

    • @imnitguy
      @imnitguy 8 месяцев назад

      @@benkelley6561 dude, I buy TCL Roku TVs from Walmart for my furnished rental homes. *I literally paid $248 for 65" TVs during black Friday last year. That people with no means will spend almost $2000 on a 12 months commitment for a lesser TV than Walmart sells for under $250 I will never understand.* Of course I'm 50 and drive a Honda Fit so clearly I don't care what people think about me. At all!

  • @bobbytatum84
    @bobbytatum84 2 года назад +73

    There is someone always in our neighborhood trying to sell solar panels. I tell them through my ring doorbell to keep it moving.

    • @jesuslovesyou916
      @jesuslovesyou916 2 года назад +5

      Thanks for the laugh

    • @johnnyanderson3287
      @johnnyanderson3287 2 года назад +6

      Did he look like the Monorail Guy from The Simpsons?? 😂😂

    • @littlebob1261
      @littlebob1261 2 года назад

      Imagine mocking someone that will save more money than you, while you pay a power bill until you die to ERCOT which left you in the cold while your lawmakes flew to Cancun

    • @BunkMasterFlex77
      @BunkMasterFlex77 2 года назад +5

      I say I'm going with a windmill in my backyard.

    • @brianparrett114
      @brianparrett114 2 года назад +3

      With Texas in your name, I assume you are from Texas... did you lose power during the winter storm of 2021?

  • @slamdunkslamdunk6995
    @slamdunkslamdunk6995 2 года назад +87

    The caller sounds so sweet. I wish her all the best .........and the strength to run off the ‘double-pane-window’-sales guy!

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 2 года назад +7

      She’s not sweet. She needs to work and she won’t

    • @slamdunkslamdunk6995
      @slamdunkslamdunk6995 2 года назад +1

      @@dcg590 Don’t be jelly. jk. She sounded sweet. IDK if she truly is.

    • @kristinab1078
      @kristinab1078 2 года назад +1

      ​@@dcg590 She would like to work from home because she has a young child at home. If she did work outside the home, it may not make that big of a dent after all the related costs with transportation and the cost of child care.

  • @captainkrunch6372
    @captainkrunch6372 Год назад +34

    Dave should tell every caller to Never ever buy a timeshare.

  • @santo9032
    @santo9032 2 года назад +21

    And just like that I feel BETTER about my life and finances.

  • @autistic-lutheran-carnivore
    @autistic-lutheran-carnivore 2 года назад +168

    I believe most people think "If I can afford the payment, I can afford it." Change your thinking! "If I cannot purchase it in cash in full, I cannot afford it."
    Another thing about purchasing stuff with debt is if it can legally be taken away from you for any reason (i.e. failure to make payments) is it REALLY yours?

    • @brianparrett114
      @brianparrett114 2 года назад +24

      Here in Texas if you don't pay your property tax bill the county can take your house even when you own it free a d clear without any mortgage or other liens on it. So is it ever really your house?

    • @johnSmith-uz8nl
      @johnSmith-uz8nl 2 года назад +20

      Purchasing in cash in full does not mean you can afford it. You need to save and put away money for retirement. Just buy what you need and live below your means and take your savings and invest it wisely. I will tell you that my co-workers have made fun of me due to how frugal I am.... now they don't laugh at me anymore and I am twice or ten time more wealthy then any of them including my boss and my bosses boss.

    • @bobbyb7672
      @bobbyb7672 2 года назад +1

      💯💯💯

    • @andrewneilson227
      @andrewneilson227 2 года назад +2

      DING DING DING we have a winner

    • @stevenporter863
      @stevenporter863 2 года назад +3

      @@brianparrett114 To answer your question about a house, not really. Even if paid off there is always a 'lein' on it because of taxes. Most people miss that, thinking the paid off house is theirs no matter what.

  • @vindoodles7346
    @vindoodles7346 4 месяца назад +3

    I hope that "home business" isn't an MLM, cuz if it is.. giiiirl drop that thing like a bad habit, it's only stealing your money.

  • @cutehumor
    @cutehumor 2 года назад +98

    When Dave said "better than I deserve".. caller laughed. She is broke

  • @wallflower1852
    @wallflower1852 2 года назад +187

    Golden rule:
    If you can't buy it twice, then you shouldn't buy it.

    • @flaqko5686
      @flaqko5686 2 года назад +18

      Doesn't work with houses

    • @ericdahl2915
      @ericdahl2915 2 года назад +21

      Works with toasters. Not cars

    • @jinzukinoha7424
      @jinzukinoha7424 Год назад +2

      @@ericdahl2915 😆

    • @jeffjurasek6656
      @jeffjurasek6656 Год назад +1

      works with everything
      use to buy cheap car parts and regretted it each time
      now i do it right the first time
      i step back look at the situation my money my time lines
      for all things

    • @emanuelriquelme1133
      @emanuelriquelme1133 Год назад

      Only buy wants with passive income 🤴🤴🤴

  • @Asif24960
    @Asif24960 2 года назад +235

    Her laughing annoyed me initially but then realised it’s actually her natural defence when nervous.
    The salesman who sold them the $30k solar panels must be a genius because they might be saving maximum $100 a month!

    • @bobs182
      @bobs182 2 года назад +7

      Yes, not only are the cost of the solar panels not cost effective in reducing their power bill but they have to be removed to replace or fix the roof. At $100 a month it would take 300 months to pay for the panels not counting interest. There are also repair bills during the life of the panels. Also, when you sell your house the panel debt comes out of the proceeds from the sale.

    • @w.andrewmeloni4723
      @w.andrewmeloni4723 Год назад +3

      Yes, almost as crazy a financing $300K for a home when you can rent for $1300 / month

    • @mitchhedberg4415
      @mitchhedberg4415 Год назад +20

      @@w.andrewmeloni4723
      Except a 1 bedroom apartment is 1300 a month, A 300k home is $3k to rent.
      They have equity in their home already, you never get any in an apartment.
      If they keep the home they will have a nearly free place to live come retirement time.

    • @skylarmartin2050
      @skylarmartin2050 Год назад +4

      Where are you renting where you can find an apt for 1300 - my area you can’t

    • @canatolakhoemini6728
      @canatolakhoemini6728 Год назад +5

      I don't think that he's much of a genius, rather her husband and her are very unintelligent.

  • @jonathonwright525
    @jonathonwright525 Год назад +5

    Never get involved with someone who has baggage from previous relationships. She said we have child support. Nah. You got linked up with someone who owes child support.

  • @LeMErin21
    @LeMErin21 2 года назад +51

    Just… wow 😳 The solar panels thing is really blowing my mind.

    • @tonybryant7846
      @tonybryant7846 2 года назад +4

      lol....talk about the "green new deal"....lol

    • @vickieclark5931
      @vickieclark5931 2 года назад +2

      @@tonybryant7846 LOL. IKR? People that purchase these solar panels prove that there is a sucker born everyday.

    • @mikehurt3290
      @mikehurt3290 2 года назад

      I have a friend who sells solar panels and say it's so easy and makes a lot of money, he said one of his smaller deals was 46k for the panels

    • @erickottke9673
      @erickottke9673 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@davidwanklyn8842I would die laughing. She would be my hero if she did that.

    • @fire12731
      @fire12731 Месяц назад

      I’m mind blown too . ridiculous to buy them 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

  • @kingsexploits
    @kingsexploits 2 года назад +70

    Listening to her and her reactions, I can see lots of positivity and energy in her. I am sure she will be out of the woods soon with maestro Mr. Ramsey on her side. Good luck, Jessica, and hats off to Sir for helping another in this sort of trouble.

    • @PurpleRose8725
      @PurpleRose8725 5 месяцев назад +2

      That's not positivity, she's breaking.

  • @hachwarwickshire1718
    @hachwarwickshire1718 2 года назад +48

    The house gives you a psychological crutch. It can calm down the debt panics. It will give you the calmness to make good decisions. Excellent.

  • @AdamJohnson0110
    @AdamJohnson0110 2 года назад +67

    It's obvious that something doesn't typically work in your favor when they're coming door to door to sell it. In my central FL neighborhood, we get 5-10 solar salespeople a year knocking on the door, not to mention constant calls. If it was such a good thing for the homeowner financially, they wouldn't need to be knocking down doors to get customers, they'd be so far backed up with demand that the customers would come to them.

    • @lemongrass3945
      @lemongrass3945 2 года назад

      It depends where you live honestly. You live in Washington state solar panels are not worth it. You live in a state like Arizona its worth it

    • @karlabritfeld7104
      @karlabritfeld7104 Год назад +1

      @@lemongrass3945 hahahaha, I used to live in Oregon. We definitely didn't need solar panels.

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 Год назад +1

      Same. I’m in Ohio.

  • @beckygeer6480
    @beckygeer6480 2 года назад +16

    They don''t have a budget, she doesn't know where their money goes

  • @Leelang931
    @Leelang931 2 года назад +70

    If you really want to save money on your electric bill, just turn off the lights in rooms your not in.

    • @786otto
      @786otto 2 года назад +3

      Hahaha,exactly.

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 Год назад +16

      Lights are minimal with electricity. The big ones are heat and air condition

    • @queenbee3647
      @queenbee3647 Год назад

      Thank you! My husband never made the connection of lights on and tv blaring all evening = big electric bill. 👍

    • @erickottke9673
      @erickottke9673 9 месяцев назад +4

      If you left all your lights and TV's on all time that would be something like 150 watts. The refrigerator is something like 200 watts by itself and the air conditioner or heat pump is something like 4000 watts. If you're talking about lights you're looking in the wrong place for savings.

    • @sct4040
      @sct4040 3 месяца назад

      @@queenbee3647 buy LED lightbulbs and change them all.

  • @Jane5720
    @Jane5720 2 года назад +3

    Hey 36 years old and they are super smart you know what she really needs to do is to need to accept the fact that she needs to go back to work outside the home

  • @jking5772
    @jking5772 2 года назад +11

    They can’t stop spending you can tell in her voice that she is not taking these calls seriously just keep saying yeah “I know I know” which means she’s going to keep doing it. the desperation in the voice is not there yet.

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 Год назад +1

      She’s laughing because she’s nervous.

  • @miketheyunggod2534
    @miketheyunggod2534 2 года назад +61

    Can't wait for the free electricity from the solar panels FORTY years from now.

    • @gonzaga45377
      @gonzaga45377 2 года назад +5

      By then they will be on their 3rd set.

    • @vickieclark5931
      @vickieclark5931 2 года назад +8

      Exactly! That's why to me solar panels don't make any sense. It's like buying an 80k electric car to save on gas.

    • @Jamie-rn8re
      @Jamie-rn8re 2 года назад +2

      @@vickieclark5931 it’s amazing how many people disregard the cost of the car when working out how much fuel they would save with an ev

    • @billybeemus3929
      @billybeemus3929 2 года назад +3

      Payback is closer to 10 years when you purchase your system up-front. Then you get free electricity for the next 15 to 20 years.

    • @sobeliever1638
      @sobeliever1638 2 года назад

      @@vickieclark5931 enivornmentally they do

  • @mxerb5912
    @mxerb5912 2 года назад +174

    100% self inflicted. You put 30k dollar solar panels on a 300k dollar house

    • @mxerb5912
      @mxerb5912 2 года назад +24

      @@saulgoodman2018 you pay 30k in power?

    • @Mactakun
      @Mactakun 2 года назад +7

      @@mxerb5912 I think he means if the monthly payment for the solar panels is less than the monthly payment for electricity. Not likely though.

    • @mxerb5912
      @mxerb5912 2 года назад +13

      @@Mactakun doesn’t matter At 200 bucks a month, it takes 12.5 years to return your money. Hoping that the equipment lasts that long. You could have doubled your money in that time

    • @paulvarjak7378
      @paulvarjak7378 2 года назад +19

      @@saulgoodman2018 I've run the numbers many times. When you take into consideration the limited lifespan of the panels you always end up in the red.

    • @austininflorida
      @austininflorida 2 года назад +6

      @@paulvarjak7378 Don't forget that the loan or lease on the panels can make the house a nightmare to sell if you need to move. You have to really read the fine print on deals like that.

  • @belowsealevel8663
    @belowsealevel8663 2 года назад +12

    Fast forward one year and selling the house to cash out the equity won't be an option. All that equity is about to evaporate as the housing bubble collapses.

  • @pmw3839
    @pmw3839 9 месяцев назад +2

    Always impressed that all these callers have all their numbers at their fingertips. At least they know where they’re at.

  • @aromero385
    @aromero385 2 года назад +11

    Car insurances, plates registration, inspections, gas, car maintenance sums - up money.

  • @Charlie-zj3hw
    @Charlie-zj3hw 2 года назад +92

    spend 30k to save a 150 a month electric bill lol

    • @DIAMONDGIRL57
      @DIAMONDGIRL57 2 года назад

      🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @bettysmith4527
      @bettysmith4527 2 года назад +2

      No even, probably like 50 bucks, if that!

    • @christophermartin972
      @christophermartin972 2 года назад +1

      Their great, great grandchildren may reap the benefits in 80 yrs 😂

    • @secretpal6039
      @secretpal6039 Год назад +1

      Yeah, not too bright.

    • @Mimi_fiufiu_coquito
      @Mimi_fiufiu_coquito 4 месяца назад +1

      Why are her solar panels so expensive 😮?

  • @cathy7824
    @cathy7824 2 года назад +24

    She can get a job at a daycare or gym that way she can work and have her kids with her. The two of them can work it out so she can work at night or whatever time he can watch the kids.

    • @opizacharyuhaulhascomeinmy2139
      @opizacharyuhaulhascomeinmy2139 2 года назад

      Women don’t try they like being lazy

    • @cathy7824
      @cathy7824 2 года назад +3

      @@opizacharyuhaulhascomeinmy2139 I am a woman. I work, most of the woman I know work as well.

    • @CourtneyRobinson
      @CourtneyRobinson Год назад +2

      That is what I did with three then four. Worked teaching fitness, cleaned houses, kept peoples kids in the summer. All of this without a sitter. Worked when dad was home. It was hard but not forever.

    • @jacob_gang
      @jacob_gang Год назад +1

      @@CourtneyRobinson Exactly! Creativity . And they grow so fast! Now I’m looking back at when they were babies and now they’re taller than me . I’m like omg this is a temporary situation .

  • @bullswoodworks8398
    @bullswoodworks8398 Год назад +6

    I hear people screaming this doesnt work. a year later, house is paid off, land is paid off, two cars almost paid off and I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. The whole time, I am still an alcoholic. it could have been easier but it definetly works. Time goes by slower though when you drink.

  • @whiskey392
    @whiskey392 Год назад +17

    I'd like to see a follow-up with them in a year or so!

  • @christinebutler7630
    @christinebutler7630 2 года назад +17

    You can't afford to stay home unless you can get a work at home job, not business, job.

    • @dorianfranklin1399
      @dorianfranklin1399 Месяц назад

      Not true. It requires some sacrifices of material things and strict budgeting but it can be done. I did it!

  • @DNA350ppm
    @DNA350ppm 2 года назад +1

    I get the vibe that as a couple you didn't help each other to give your best, each and together. How is it working now with a budget and a goal that will depend on both doing what you are capable of, when you really show off?
    Don't fear other people's envy, you might as well be many people's inspiration!

  • @Overlord277
    @Overlord277 Год назад

    Love listening to thos motivation. Keep going guys.

  • @ryanferrier9964
    @ryanferrier9964 Год назад +51

    I always come to this channel for a confidence boost when I'm feeling down. At least I can manage my own finances and struggle to understand how foolish and childish people are. Once you take ownership for your decisions, life gets easier... imagine that!

  • @sarrahconley3923
    @sarrahconley3923 Год назад +4

    This reminds me of til debt do us part. The organizational tips Gail gave really helped.

    • @katiebrent3332
      @katiebrent3332 Год назад +1

      Great show! I've saved a lot of money taking her advice 😃

  • @jessy7884
    @jessy7884 2 месяца назад +2

    If the rent will cost as much as the mortgage. It does not make sense to me sell the house.

  • @jenniferwebb677
    @jenniferwebb677 8 месяцев назад

    This is a hard road to walk, but once you do it you never look at these the same way again. Good luck to this family. Hope things get better for them. I did it and I know others too, it's rough but it's worth it it the end I promise. 👍🤞

  • @lucybell1487
    @lucybell1487 2 года назад +18

    Keep on keeping on the budget....this brings HOPE

  • @bahwickee
    @bahwickee 2 года назад +34

    she makes multiple statements about the step daughter... this is awkward.

    • @MrTmenzo
      @MrTmenzo 2 года назад +14

      Just like yesterday's call too. Note to self women hate stepchildren huehue

    • @jeromehenry4484
      @jeromehenry4484 2 года назад +15

      Single people without children should not marry someone with children from prior relationship(s). It's just not possible to come out as top priority, nor your mutual children.

    • @triciabrown1462
      @triciabrown1462 2 года назад +17

      Right? I think when Dave talked over her she said she doesn’t want to resent her stepdaughter. For what? Existing? And existing in her husband’s life before she met him? She already does resent her, and really the stepdaughter is a scapegoat for the couple’s stupid decisions.
      Sorry, stuff like this pisses me off because I was the stepdaughter. Every birthday I had to hear a countdown to when I would turn 18 and child support would end.

    • @christa3224
      @christa3224 2 года назад +1

      @@jeromehenry4484 I don't think that's always true. I have a friend who married a guy with four girls. Her husband has joint custody of them with his ex-wife. She loves those girls to death. That being said, they are far from broke, like the caller in this video...

  • @optomix3988
    @optomix3988 Месяц назад

    Getting on a plan and sticking to it is so important. You have to make tough choices and sacrifice, but when you finally pay off all the debt you feel so much different about life. Honestly, try it. I will never go back into debt.

  • @iomis2001
    @iomis2001 Год назад +24

    I hate when Dave acts like you can just easily double your income. If it were so easy we'd all do it.

    • @mirix1515
      @mirix1515 9 месяцев назад +3

      Is not easy but is not impossible.
      If Dave would have said is difficult nobody would have tried.

    • @kathys1285
      @kathys1285 6 месяцев назад

      Yes you can double your income and it only takes one or two little things

    • @iomis2001
      @iomis2001 6 месяцев назад

      @@kathys1285 Maybe in fairytale land. It really depends on where you live. If you live in an area with few jobs it's not that simple.

    • @lauragem796
      @lauragem796 3 месяца назад +1

      @@kathys1285 so what are the one or two little things?

    • @TJ-gm2uy
      @TJ-gm2uy 3 месяца назад

      I worked a full time job for 25 years because my husband a teacher didn’t make a bunch of money I don’t get these young mothers who think it’s ok to stay home and raise their kids my husband and I worked together I worked nights and all weekends to take as much stress off of us so my husband could watch them while I worked where there’s a will there’s a way

  • @juelzd7172
    @juelzd7172 Год назад +3

    Having a 3 year is still expensive as well, I was paying $500 a month on daycare. I was so happy when he started kindergarten

  • @fastallowance68
    @fastallowance68 2 года назад +41

    Okay, So here is what you should do….”you should double your income next year”. Boom, solved it for you. LOL, okay Dave, thanks for the brilliant advice.

    • @dampam4273
      @dampam4273 Год назад

      lol

    • @dinoXAs2
      @dinoXAs2 Год назад +2

      Yeah that sounded so easy. Just double income

    • @tsescoe
      @tsescoe Год назад +1

      The point he’s making is that you can make more money and it’s not that hard. Most people I hear on here that say “we make about 50k combined” at this point that’s their fault

    • @robertwalker5521
      @robertwalker5521 Год назад

      Sometimes, a person needs to hear the obvious good advice numerous times before they will quit ignoring it.

  • @luthiify
    @luthiify 3 месяца назад +1

    She first needs to stop blaming child support for their overspending. He should be supporting his child just as much as he supports their new child. They also made the bad financial decision to have a child they can't afford.

  • @maryfeigen7715
    @maryfeigen7715 2 года назад +2

    Why are you laughing lady. You're in trouble! Heee...heee

  • @pamperedgurl
    @pamperedgurl 2 года назад +77

    I’m surprised with her listing her expenses and what she owes she didn’t figure out why she is broke. I saw the exchange of looks between Dave and George.

    • @brianparrett114
      @brianparrett114 2 года назад +14

      I wonder if there is hesitation to increase income because that can increase the child support payment.

    • @Ernster86
      @Ernster86 2 года назад +2

      Lol I doubt she can figure out what 1 + 1 is. They are a lost cause...

    • @chief5981
      @chief5981 2 года назад +2

      @@Ernster86 hopeless. Eternally doomed.

    • @jeromehenry4484
      @jeromehenry4484 2 года назад +8

      Caller knew WHY they are broke; she didn't know how to turn it around. Wish Mr. Ramsey/George had asked caller what she did for a living before she was married, sounds like she needs to go back to work soon because she cannot afford to be SAHM.

    • @jeromehenry4484
      @jeromehenry4484 2 года назад +4

      @@brianparrett114 If caller goes back to work, that will not increase child support. But if husband makes significantly more, then possibly child support could be increased.

  • @TheForexApostle
    @TheForexApostle 2 года назад +36

    Great content as always, thumbs up to this channel.

  • @markratigliano3725
    @markratigliano3725 Год назад +5

    Dave did a good job working with her

  • @BrandonMinguez
    @BrandonMinguez 2 года назад +9

    They need a budget and they need to stick to it. If they can do that, this mess can be turned around.

  • @edgehodl4832
    @edgehodl4832 2 года назад +20

    dont sell house, cause rent will be wayaay more than the mortgage. its gonna get really bad out here. mortgage does not go up every year. rent is increasing at 30-40% rate.

    • @brianparrett114
      @brianparrett114 2 года назад +5

      The P&I doesn't go up.. but the taxes and insurance can and will.

    • @jumpiam8477
      @jumpiam8477 2 года назад

      No escrow. The mortgage will be the same for 30 years.

    • @brianparrett114
      @brianparrett114 2 года назад +1

      @@jumpiam8477 Do you to have to pay property taxes where you live? Do you not carry insurance on your home?

    • @jumpiam8477
      @jumpiam8477 2 года назад +1

      @@brianparrett114 I do. I pay a house insurance and a property tax by myself. It's not in escrow. My mortgage payment doesn't go up and down because of that. That's what I mean.

    • @brianparrett114
      @brianparrett114 2 года назад

      @Randall V with my current mortgage my loan to value ratio was large enough that the lender didn't require me to setup an escrow. So I manage it myself and get the interest on my money rather than the lender. In my case, the payment to the lender will never change.

  • @ET-hc4wl
    @ET-hc4wl 2 года назад +11

    Sounds like she was saying she doesn’t want to resent the child but Dave cut her off. If that’s her thoughts, she’s foolish. Child support isn’t the reason you’re broke.

    • @littlesongbird1
      @littlesongbird1 2 года назад +4

      Exactly: it's based on her husband's income. She probably just wanted to be a stay at home wife and spend spend. Also it's not like she didn't know he had a daughter he was supporting?

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 Год назад

      It’s taking away from his income.

  • @avaalva4143
    @avaalva4143 2 года назад +1

    I never thought of a baby step zero of being sick and tired of being sick and tired. The step in which you have to decide whether or not you are going to start the baby steps.

  • @maureenogorman8740
    @maureenogorman8740 2 года назад +4

    She agrees with everything he says. Sell the house "right". Don't sell the house " right". This was hearing active listening theather.

  • @amy2284
    @amy2284 9 месяцев назад +3

    When I had the situation she had, I watched one kid and I earned almost 1000 dollars a month in 2003. It helped us till husband got another job with 30%more during the dot bomb time. It’s temporary but kept us from going under. Also, it’s nice for my child to have another friend to play with.

    • @blueravenchick
      @blueravenchick 9 месяцев назад +1

      This is actually a great idea!

  • @Jane5720
    @Jane5720 2 года назад +3

    I love how he asked Dave Dave always ask how are you and they say they’re great and then they dump their big story on them so they’re not great

  • @johndavidson1173
    @johndavidson1173 2 года назад +1

    A very good decision she made, speaking up

  • @fullpushmetals6711
    @fullpushmetals6711 2 года назад

    Keep Pushin!

  • @ralphholiman7401
    @ralphholiman7401 2 года назад +7

    Well, one good thing about being totally broke. You have nowhere to go but up.

    • @vickieclark5931
      @vickieclark5931 2 года назад +2

      True, but unfortunately some people get even more broke cause they continue to do stupid things.

  • @goingdark4698
    @goingdark4698 2 года назад +6

    You know how to spend successfully. Good job.

  • @tpot91
    @tpot91 2 года назад

    The running my career by default is so relatable to me!!!!

  • @LCmonman
    @LCmonman 8 месяцев назад +2

    A plan helps you be less reactive and more proactive

  • @ericdahl2915
    @ericdahl2915 2 года назад +9

    This woman will not change a thing

    • @harjimbaugh4234
      @harjimbaugh4234 2 месяца назад

      how do you know? do you know her? did you ask her after the call and find out?

  • @cutehumor
    @cutehumor 2 года назад +22

    Say it with me folks. "broke as a joke". 🤣😁🤪😂

  • @sh0t0kan
    @sh0t0kan Год назад +2

    Solar shouldn't be 30k!
    Just get rid of the car and stop buying things you don't need.

  • @heathersostarich
    @heathersostarich 2 года назад

    I needed to Hear that about the House and Make More Money!!!

  • @leaundraeshepherd9170
    @leaundraeshepherd9170 2 года назад +9

    Why would you sell your house when it is going to cost you more to rent an apartment in a few years than your current mortgage?

    • @bik3r230
      @bik3r230 2 года назад +1

      You didn't listen he said if all else fails sell the house

    • @bobs182
      @bobs182 2 года назад

      @@bik3r230 Leaundrae did listen and is just giving the reasons for agreeing with him.

  • @mikehurt3290
    @mikehurt3290 2 года назад +11

    I have a friend who sells solar panels he said it's so easy, they don't require a down payment and push the tax benefits, he says that they practically sell themselves and that one of his smaller deals was like 46k

    • @bik3r230
      @bik3r230 2 года назад

      And this is supposed to prove anything

    • @GoRun1982
      @GoRun1982 Год назад

      @@bik3r230 Yeah it proves they're a ripoff

  • @jacksingh4033
    @jacksingh4033 9 месяцев назад

    I like this man only been listening for couple of weeks great advice we don't know where are monies goes too be honest not me personally but people manage there debts etc

  • @jasonleatherwood2172
    @jasonleatherwood2172 9 месяцев назад +1

    I would be scared to death with those numbers but 5 years ago that was me finally left my dead end job as a assistant manager at a grocery store took a apprentice job fixing household appliances almost doubled my old salary in 2 years my bachelors degree in management was a waste of 40k and 4 years of my life

  • @Anthony-cp7yc6655
    @Anthony-cp7yc6655 2 месяца назад +253

    investing requires good experience and knowledge to carry out a good and successful trade, I have lost a lot trying to trade all by myself May I ask which investments are good?

    • @John-bd9fj4435
      @John-bd9fj4435 2 месяца назад

      sounds great! please I will appreciate your assistance on how to go about it, who's your investor and how good is your investor..

    • @John-bd9fj4435
      @John-bd9fj4435 2 месяца назад

      I am going to look her up, I have about $81k i want to start with....

    • @Anthony-cp7yc6655
      @Anthony-cp7yc6655 2 месяца назад

      Thanks for the efforts you put in these. I found her and i leave her a message i await a response

    • @ethanriley2939
      @ethanriley2939 2 месяца назад

      Just invest in index funds. You're never going to be successful picking individual stocks, that's similar to gambling. If you spread your money out across (for example) the 500 largest companies you are almost guaranteed a safe and lucrative investment. In the history of the stock market, it has always gone up over long periods of time. Over the last 5 years the top 500 companies have averaged a 9% return per yearX

    • @bhe8336
      @bhe8336 Месяц назад

      Don't trade. Invest. There is a difference.

  • @theboss7020
    @theboss7020 2 года назад +46

    Hopefully it goes well for her. I bought a home with solar panels that were fully paid off by the previous owner. I believe he paid about 30-40k for them lol.

  • @momof2momof2
    @momof2momof2 8 месяцев назад +1

    Solar panels Ha! I knew a woman who took out a loan to get them. I asked her how this would save her money. She went silent.

  • @KC-dr3cg
    @KC-dr3cg Год назад +2

    I love his recommendation. Dale Carnegie "How to quit worrying "..solve the worst possible scenario...cut phantom electric expense, only buy basic food for nutrition, get on RUclips for extreme budget ideas..listen to Ramsey Solutions daily..

  • @MichaelHasebroock
    @MichaelHasebroock 2 года назад +4

    Baby step zero, love that idea. One question - how does Bubba(her husband) feel about their situation?

  • @Kushert
    @Kushert 2 года назад +4

    It's funny how people need to be told something that's obvious and surely they already know

  • @andreapoirier5033
    @andreapoirier5033 Год назад

    Omg her giggles!!

  • @anthonybanker6479
    @anthonybanker6479 2 года назад

    In Oklahoma you can get solar panels for free installed replacing traditional ways of having electricity utilities

  • @AudraZapoticky55
    @AudraZapoticky55 Месяц назад +119

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    • @Annis-co7vu
      @Annis-co7vu Месяц назад

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    • @Madlyn55
      @Madlyn55 Месяц назад

      how do I get in touch with this consultant that assist??>>>>

    • @Annis-co7vu
      @Annis-co7vu Месяц назад

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    • @Madlyn55
      @Madlyn55 Месяц назад

      Thanks for these recommendations.....,,,

  • @MintyFreshTurds
    @MintyFreshTurds Год назад +40

    Did she just tell everyone that she used child support money to buy solar panels?? I want to know the situation of how much the ex is being forced to pay for her to waste it and how much he makes.

    • @scroogemcduckismyspiritanimal
      @scroogemcduckismyspiritanimal Год назад +6

      They have to pay child support. That's why there's only $3100 left for the month

    • @lelebella3252
      @lelebella3252 Год назад

      Child support wouldn't cover that🤣🤣

    • @ericadavenport2039
      @ericadavenport2039 Год назад +1

      What are you talking about? Her husband pays child support to the other woman/the kid's mom. Unless the ex wife is living with this caller and her husband, the child support wouldn't be going towards these solar panels. 🤣

  • @rsjcmp2285
    @rsjcmp2285 8 месяцев назад +1

    i almost added solar from a door to door salesman. then i watched dave and realized I'm taking on debt...just pay cash if i want it...and if I have to pay cash i'm not so enthusiastic

  • @clyben3397
    @clyben3397 2 года назад +2

    The giggling was so annoying! I bet she would buy a snowball in the winter.