Makes complete sense to me, but I've also used that tactic myself. My reasoning is usually very shame based, and my fear of people abandoning me for doing something wrong or I'm afraid they'll yell at me and make me feel worse when I already feel like dog shit, but doesn't excuse it. 🤷I shouldn't do it, and I know that. And I don't as much as I used to. You're doing great Delta! I hope you can continue to find the courage to heal! 💖
I’m the same way I always thought telling the truth would make them abandon me or yell at me as well but I’m trying to change that behavior by seeking help rn
I play dumb automatically as soon as I feel threatened or I feel someone is running a game on me (which, with my paranoia, is almost all the time). Sometimes I even detect people trying to test if I'm really that dumb and I usually pass these tests with flying colours by being so dumb that it doesn't even look like I am aware that a test is being blatantly pushed to my face and the boundaries of my stupidity are so egregiously overstepped. It's automatic. Or maybe I'm really dumb lmao that's also possible!!!
I've experienced this a lot in arguments when someone pretends to not understand your point/perspective, I guess that's what trolling is... Or as weaponized incompetence, so they don't need to do certain things.
It seems like this year the veil is getting a lifted, everyone’s like finally admitting confessing like this is really good. I started confessing all my stuff like five months ago and it’s really helping, if anyone struggling with NPD or a Aspd if you start confessing it will help you so much I promise. To the public just like delta is, I am and definitely a few more people are also which is fantastic
@@kiwicatnip by time and practice to manage. It’s really been helping cause if it’s open then there’s no room for me to manipulate anyone if I say it out in the open, Cause now everyone understands how my brain works. I’ve had a narcissistic collapse Theres nothing left.
@@Mylastday666 so narcissistic collapse can truly cause someone to change their ways? Do you find the confessions personally beneficial? If I understand correctly it sounds like you are holding yourself accountable and taking measures to protect others from your tendencies, which is huge. Thank you for sharing your perspective
@@kiwicatnip For me I know it’s been helping definitely, I can’t speak for others only myself but yes I believe if a sociopath can get to a turning point there is a possibility of managing this where we practice healthier learning habits.
The only people who would normally pick up on the lies being told are probably other liars who have done or would do the same thing. Not everyone is playing by the same rules, that's for sure.
@@lunagamingX if they are going to do videos for everyone to see then it’s only natural you would be opening yourself up to criticism. Same goes for anyone on social media on a range of different subjects. Why would you or they expect to be treated any differently.
It’s not her responsibility to cater to your needs. This page is about her and her journey. I understand it upsets you, but you have to work through it or don’t watch her stuff.
Makes complete sense to me, but I've also used that tactic myself. My reasoning is usually very shame based, and my fear of people abandoning me for doing something wrong or I'm afraid they'll yell at me and make me feel worse when I already feel like dog shit, but doesn't excuse it. 🤷I shouldn't do it, and I know that. And I don't as much as I used to. You're doing great Delta! I hope you can continue to find the courage to heal! 💖
I’m the same way I always thought telling the truth would make them abandon me or yell at me as well but I’m trying to change that behavior by seeking help rn
I play dumb automatically as soon as I feel threatened or I feel someone is running a game on me (which, with my paranoia, is almost all the time).
Sometimes I even detect people trying to test if I'm really that dumb and I usually pass these tests with flying colours by being so dumb that it doesn't even look like I am aware that a test is being blatantly pushed to my face and the boundaries of my stupidity are so egregiously overstepped.
It's automatic.
Or maybe I'm really dumb lmao that's also possible!!!
It's a hard gig being a pathological liar, one has to have a good memory to remember the lie and the truth of what was said .
Thank you for being so honest!
I've experienced this a lot in arguments when someone pretends to not understand your point/perspective, I guess that's what trolling is...
Or as weaponized incompetence, so they don't need to do certain things.
It seems like this year the veil is getting a lifted, everyone’s like finally admitting confessing like this is really good. I started confessing all my stuff like five months ago and it’s really helping, if anyone struggling with NPD or a Aspd if you start confessing it will help you so much I promise. To the public just like delta is, I am and definitely a few more people are also which is fantastic
How does confessing help you? What changes?
@@kiwicatnip by time and practice to manage. It’s really been helping cause if it’s open then there’s no room for me to manipulate anyone if I say it out in the open, Cause now everyone understands how my brain works. I’ve had a narcissistic collapse Theres nothing left.
@@Mylastday666 so narcissistic collapse can truly cause someone to change their ways? Do you find the confessions personally beneficial?
If I understand correctly it sounds like you are holding yourself accountable and taking measures to protect others from your tendencies, which is huge.
Thank you for sharing your perspective
@@kiwicatnip For me I know it’s been helping definitely, I can’t speak for others only myself but yes I believe if a sociopath can get to a turning point there is a possibility of managing this where we practice healthier learning habits.
In a way, exposing ur manipulation tactics takes some of ur weapons away from u, which will force u to deal with others more honestly.
Doesn't matter. My narc misses does this too. Spell it out to her all the time she just denies it
The only people who would normally pick up on the lies being told are probably other liars who have done or would do the same thing. Not everyone is playing by the same rules, that's for sure.
Donald Trump luvs this :0
Great points...and I love the goodwill haul shirt. Please, please moar Delta...we can't get enough!
Some good tips and tricks here.
I can see why this all makes sense
Yes, I've seen it before. Do you recognise people who see through you? How do you navigate that?
This is so helpful, thank you!
So cute & quirky to see your manipulation tactics you use on your partner
@@irrittt is this sarcasm ?
You people are the reason people never speak out this stuff 😒
@@lunagamingX if they are going to do videos for everyone to see then it’s only natural you would be opening yourself up to criticism. Same goes for anyone on social media on a range of different subjects. Why would you or they expect to be treated any differently.
guys run, dont try to save her
Nice eyebrows
Do me a favor? please start blinking a little more, cuz its downright scary that you hardly ever do 😮😢
It’s not her responsibility to cater to your needs. This page is about her and her journey. I understand it upsets you, but you have to work through it or don’t watch her stuff.