Let this be a warning children- in a relationship you are supposed to feel safe, you need to feel like the person really cares about you and they respect you.
Hanin Mony Because it implies that she got sexually assaulted in that parking garage, and now that’s all she can think of in any parking garage. It’s heartbreaking.
It’s not okay that she was put in that position in the first place but the fact that she was put in THAT position at THAT age is honestly so sickening and so disgusting I can’t even comprehend it. What’s even worse is how the POLICE the people who are meant to PROTECT us didn’t do a damn thing about it. That is the most the disappointing part of this video.
6:12 "You don't owe anyone anything." Thank you. I want to give you a hug. I just got out of such a terrible uncomfortable relationship like this and needed to hear that. I've just recently began healing from it.
I just started talking to someone who was tormented like that, and if she takes more than 2 minutes to respond to a text, she starts by apologizing. I tell her she doesn't owe me, or anyone jack shit, every time. You're somebodies perfect person, never forget that.
"sweetie, stalking is a big word." That's what the police said to me when I was in a similar situation. Illy, thank you for telling this story. It's good to know we're not alone in the word. All the love, darling.
@@frostandfire7164 wtf the cops said to them stalking is a big word when they were in a similar situation And you just said “this is cute” wtf is wrong with you
"I don't like that section of the mall anymore." I have never heard a sentence with so many raw emotions put behind it. I CAN NOT imagine being in a situation like this.
When he drove you to the parking lot and when you said you had nightmares about it, that just broke my heart. Illy, I am so glad you are safe from Harris and I hope he never contacts you again or anyone else who is like that. Stay safe and I love your videos!
And my heart became a little more whole when you gave us validation. Thank you! I was a harassment victim but everyone dismissed it as just my imagination. I'm grateful that you believe illymation's testimony was real.
“Stick and stones will break your bones, but words won’t hurt you. Right?” Verbal and mental abuse is still abuse. Everyone should remember that. Please.
My older cousin is putting me through mental abuse calling me “fatass” “ugly” “stupid” “untalented” “worthless” and it’s only me. No. One. Else. His parents don’t do anything at all. I believed him. I keep putting myself down. Calling myself the things that he has said. My sisters probably noticed that something is wrong. I try to get better. But I can’t. I’m scared to eat in front of his family. I always have the feeling that I’m being judged. I spend all my time alone not wanting to talk to anyone. Isolating myself. Whatever you say will effect someone forever.
Thanks for making this, I was talking with a 20 year old woman over discord and she always seemed super nice but recently she kept talking about coming to my country for college and I’m only a 16 year old lad, this video helped me realise what she was trying to do and luckily I never shared any personal info
@@yngjng7732 Don't mind him. He was being a *d word* back there talking about this video like it was a comedy. Breaking news *insert @ of that guy* its not *b word*
I'm still so fucking infuriated that Illy never got justice, not even her having a better life, friends and support system in the present can quench that anger. It's so unfair...
I was unknowingly SA’d by my parents and groomed, I didn’t know that it was happening. But it did. Not including the manipulation, and other types of abuse. I am proud of you for leaving.
When you said “and he drove to a parking lot...............I don’t like that part of the mall anymore”it made me so sad I could here the pain in your voice
What's disgusting is that there are people out there at this very moment who are suffering from this exact kind of situation and our world puts so little stock into addressing emotional abuse and what it can do to a person now and even years in the future. The statement about you being one of the lucky ones to escape is such an understatment.
My head hurts right now I’m in a relationship I’m not abusive but I realized I do a lot of the things this guy does (minus the sexual things and such) but seriously I’m crying right now I’ve been too obsessive I’m exactly like this guy.... I need to apologize to her now I’ve made some shit choices...
Illy, thank you for sharing your story and raising awareness. I watched this series when I was 11. I’m 15 now, and by no exaggeration, you have saved me. I’ve made many friends online and had multiple encounters where my “new friends” told me never to tell my parents. I immediately blocked and reported them because you taught me to. I didn’t learn this in school. I learned it by watching this series. Thank you.
I feel like I'm more disappointed and angry at the cop because it was his job to protect you. It was his responsibility to take this seriously, but he didn't. He refused to listen and condescended a very serious issue that could have turned much much worse. When people in power like him don't believe survivors of abuse, they have blood on their hands. He doesn't deserve to be a cop.
In my Country: Once a Cop, always a Cop. Your Job is to Serve an Protect the Country. Any Lawmen is not Safe in our recent Administration. Commit a Crime, you get Humiliated by the Superintendents. And either they'll take you some place dangerous or they'll arrest you.
Ivan Šuman XD No it isn’t that’s not even close to the correction, plus her name is Ilyssa, and her NICKNAME is ILLY! Next time you correct someone make sure you know it yourself
Reminder: people who sexually abuse others usally aren't very developed emotionally so remember you are a lot more developed then this person is, they probably just spent his teenage years doing nothing to develop his brain You are FAR more powerful both physically and mentally
By emotionally underdeveloped, they mean that the person does not understand how their actions affect others (to some extent) They don't understand that someone deserves the right to say no, they only act on what THEY want.
“It’s okay, you just made a mistake.” That’s what my mom told me after I told her that I had been a victim of abuse and pedophilia. Illy, thank you for helping me not feel so alone.
You didn’t make any mistake. Someone took advantage of you and hurt you when you were vulnerable. I’m sorry your mom wouldn’t see that, and I hope you’re doing well now
@@yd_gacha4307 i sobbed when i read this. it’s not funny or welcome at all. do you know how long it’s taken me in therapy just to try to recognize that it wasn’t all my fault? and do you know that i still struggle with that? my own mother told me that it was my fault, and the one friend i trusted told me that i should have seen the signs. and they’re right! i should have! i should have left so much earlier! thanks for reminding me that the moral of my story is that i was dumb enough to listen to a 40-something-year-old man (even though he originally told me he was 17) when i should have just ignored the idea of love. you really need to get off the internet. seriously. what is wrong with you
The worst part of this is it happened for so long and ruined her entire middle school and high school experience. This happened since she was 13. Until she was 18 how is that okay. This story hurts me worse every time I watch this
i got very lucky.. my cousin sexually assaulted me and my parents found out. i didn’t tell them then his parents found out he got in trouble and thankfully no one else did. here i am, today, suffering through ptsd, haven’t dated a man ever again lol. i met a really nice police officer and he honestly helped much more than anyone has. i thank you for sharing this. and hope that no man ever bothers you like that again. stay strong, we love you
Everywhere i look.. VACUUM. There things don't come out of nowhere people, being susceptible to abuse and turning out abusive starts home. They guy deserves all the shit he can get, sure, but his, and her parents need to get some heat too.. A lot of heat actually.
Whoa. After the "I don't like that section of the mall anymore" part, I started crying. The parallels between that and what I've experienced shook me. I have/had all the thoughts and feelings she did. Still blame myself. I dont know how to stop blaming myself for not putting up a fight when I was assaulted. Like her, I always thought I could protect myself, but when you let your guard down, it's a whole other thing. Aaaaaa this made me cry BUT IN A GOOD WAY. Meaning knowing others are struggling with the same issues helps
@Rachel Hartman Don't blame yourself! It's easy to slip into a mentality that you were the one who put yourself in the situation and LET something happen to you, but that's not true. You don't deserve to be mistreated by anyone. You are above what they've done to you. Shame the person who did things to you, not yourself. It's easier said than done but with practice, you can train yourself to believe it.
That story about the cop just made me mad. Like you said after telling the story, you deserved and needed help. I'm glad you got out of that. And I hope this video has helped other victims.
The entire time I was watching this my heart was pounding, and memories of my own trauma came flooding back. I went through a very similar scenario with a guy that I thought I loved, and who I thought had my best interests at heart. When I finally broke things off, he stalked me, threatened suicide, the whole nine yards. To this day I go back and forth between feeling sorry for him, and wanting to tear him into screaming, bloody pieces. Thankfully he hasn’t spoken to me in a few years, but if he ever threatened me with suicide again, I’d tell him with no remorse; “Your life is your responsibility. I don’t care whether you decide to cut it short, or live until you die alone at the age of 100.”
I was sexually assaulted by my cousin when I was younger and I remember thinking that it must mean he loved me. My sister used to laugh at the idea of me loving my cousin. My cousin's sister who saw it all happen would laugh at me and make me feel bad for letting it happen. My dad had no idea that it was happening, but he happened to get into an argument with their mum (his sister) so we stopped seeing them. The next time we saw them was at my grandad's wedding, about ten years later. By that time I had realised what my cousin had done to me, but I had never told any of my family. My female cousin made a joke about it and I just remember having to try so hard to keep it together. A couple of years later me and my dad had met up my aunt and uncle for a quick hi. My uncle went on about me as a baby naked in the bath, it was disgusting. The way he talked about it, it felt very paedophilic. I just wanted to leave that conversation as quickly as possible. After that talk, me and my dad got into the car and I told him how uncomfortable my uncle had made me and my dad just blamed me, as I was the one who had wanted to catch up with my aunt. A little later on the car journey my dad spoke about my cousin, saying how great he is, and I told him what he had done to me when I was younger. All my dad said was that I should have told him when it happened, which I retorted, saying I didn't understand what had happened then. It was extremely frustrating. Since then I have told my sister too and she just got all awkward when I told her. The same happened with the guys I have dated. It made me feel like I was blowing the whole thing out of proportion, but I also couldn't get rid of this feeling of violation. Eventually I told my best friend about it and she was really great. She made me feel validated, and helped me try to get help for it. I am so grateful to her for making me feel valid. I still haven't told most of my family about what happened. But I feel like most of them wouldn't care and would just see it as me trying to cause issues. Sometimes I want to talk to my cousin and tell how violated and betrayed he made me feel, but I also think he wouldn't care. I also worry that he might have done this to other people, but I don't want to ruin his life if it was just me. He is 6 months older than me so I have been told it could have just been because he was a child himself. At the time of the assault I was dealing with going through puberty very early so I had developed breasts a lot younger than other kids. I also have autism and have always been more trusting of people older than me. I had really adored my older cousin because I felt safe with him. My parents had just divorced and I was always being told to take a side. Normally when I visited family too I would end up having to look after my younger cousins as the oldest, so having one cousin older than me on my dad's side had always given me some relief. Now I am worried when he is in the same room as my cousins as I don't trust him (thankfully this happens very rarely).
I'm sorry for what you had through, even having your father blaming you. It's not your fault, and it really sucks that your father would victim blame. It really sucks that the people you have told do not care, but great, your best friend does.
@@pacocarosa8385 yes, it is safe to use the term "rape" in this case. She said "no" repeatedly and was crying and he still went through with it. This lead to her, thinking that Maybe she should have been louder or put up more of a fight and therefore blaming herself. Sadly this is really common in these kind of cases 😔
this happened to me in 2021, luckily his friend reached out and got me away from the situation, i’m so glad it didn’t get worse. ‘relationships’ like this rlly fuck you up as a person
@@rynemcgriffin1752 there would still be evidence that's already out. Like Cristali. He denied it, but we all know the truth and now he's in the slammer where he belongs
all jokes aside, I actually cried. I felt so bad, that I felt like going back through time and find you and just help you in that situation. I watched this when I was 14 and I couldn't understand. Re-watching this right now, as a 15 yr old, I feel bad, and honestly I really wanted to help you and sacrifice everything just so you can be safe. I love you and I hope you're doing well.
Yeeting Birtch tree but she did get something wrong like when she said if you ask someone to say yes it isn’t consent but what if you are asking your parents to say yes to buying a game they still gave you permission Consensually
“So he drove us to a parking garage.. “ *I dont like that section of the mall anymore* Don’t tell me that didn’t make your heart drop to your stomach. Because it did for me, and Jesus Christ I hate the feeling
No matter the scar, if it's metal emotional or physical, you are so strong for surviving that I'm so happy you are safe. Scars mean you went through something tough in the past, survived it, and came back stronger, and I am so proud of you, Ily ❤
everything she says just makes me want to hug her so bad. The fact she remembers all the little details shows how traumatising it was. I really hope this video reaches the people it should, that people learn from what has happened to her, to know that they deserve better
thank you for making this. what you're doing is so important and you're making such a big difference in so many kids' lives. these videos are amazingly important and what you're doing is gonna save lives.
I was in a relationship somewhat similar to this when I started high school. The guy constantly asked me for pictures and threatened to kill himself if i tried to break up with him. I'm lucky that someone I trust found out about it and the relationship didn't go any farther.
I’m so grateful you mentioned the fact that freezing is one of the things a victim can do when someone attacks her. I’ve felt shame and guilt ever since I was raped because I feel like I didn’t do more. When I saw a cop she told me that “next time I should try saying no harder” this video made me cry but I’m so grateful you’re making this series
It's certainly one of the options your brain has to "survive", it's a completely natural response and nothing to be ashamed of, you did survive, and, if you at that exact moment felt like freezing was your only chance , i commend you for being able to put up with whatever that MONSTER forced upon you at that time and come out of it as unscathed as possible. There is no right way to know what would have been the perfect course of action and what would have instead lead to disaster, best of luck with your recovery.
That feeling of freeze in an assault is the worst because you know you should be fighting it but you’re so scared and all you can physically do is take it and cry
Mr. What Doesn’t have to sound so professional, also it’s wrong. It’s easy to tell mental abuse and physical abuse. It also wasn’t an attack sooo I can’t see what you’re talking about.
I’m going to share your videos with my teenage daughters. I want them to know what to look out for, and to learn from someone else’s experience rather than having to go through it themselves.
You and Jaiden are the only reasons I gave a crap about RUclips Rewind. Edit: Aw, crap! How could I forget the rest of the animation squad that was in it! X3
Illy? Listen, I know it’s been three years since this was uploaded, but I seriously can’t watch this without saying something. I’m not the therapist friend, and you’re probably okay. I just needed to say that my heart goes out to you. Words really can’t express how sorry I am that this happened to you.
Girl, from one abuse victim to another … here is a big long internet hug. This was a ride and took me right back to the memories of my ex… hope you’re well these days ❤
IIyssia saying “ I don’t like that section of the mall anymore” genuinely made me tear up it is so heartbreaking that she had to go through this haris is a disgusting piece of garbage and IIyssia deserves better in every way
I am late but I am so sorry that happened to you.. no one should have to go through that. And the fact they didn’t even listen to you at the start says it all. This isn’t talked about enough. I hope your doing so much better❤️
illy: maybe its my fault..... the comment section: ok, sit down. here is a 3 hour presentation on how awful harris is, and 39,600 comments supporting you and wishing you never went through that
"You better be buffer than Mr. Clean with that attitude."
-Illyssa, 2018
Sophia Aquino jelly copies yo comment
I used this a YEAR ago
Yes lol
That’s mood
1000th like
Let this be a warning children- in a relationship you are supposed to feel safe, you need to feel like the person really cares about you and they respect you.
@Sparer Yahya Yes.
This should go for any relationship with anyone you know
Too bad I’m a virgin
Ill ask a phone and call 911
Or be a police myself-
You shouldn't limit to just children.
I'm giving you the award of "Thinking 69420% of children are dumb".
"i don't like that section of the mall anymore" hearing you say that made me feel so sick inside.
Why?
Hanin Mony Because it implies that
she got sexually assaulted in that
parking garage, and now that’s all she
can think of in any parking garage.
It’s heartbreaking.
same. tears immediately welled up in my eyes.
It’s not okay that she was put in that position in the first place but the fact that she was put in THAT position at THAT age is honestly so sickening and so disgusting I can’t even comprehend it. What’s even worse is how the POLICE the people who are meant to PROTECT us didn’t do a damn thing about it. That is the most the disappointing part of this video.
Me too
6:12 "You don't owe anyone anything." Thank you. I want to give you a hug. I just got out of such a terrible uncomfortable relationship like this and needed to hear that. I've just recently began healing from it.
So sorry you had to experience that,hope ur doing ok ❤
I just started talking to someone who was tormented like that, and if she takes more than 2 minutes to respond to a text, she starts by apologizing. I tell her she doesn't owe me, or anyone jack shit, every time. You're somebodies perfect person, never forget that.
"sweetie, stalking is a big word." That's what the police said to me when I was in a similar situation. Illy, thank you for telling this story. It's good to know we're not alone in the word. All the love, darling.
I wish I could line up all these good for nothing, dismissive law "enforcement" officers and pepper canon them until they apologize!
Those cops belittled you like that? Messed up. I'm so sorry anybody has to go through anything like this.
"Load the cannon!"
Aw this is so cute :3
@@frostandfire7164 wtf the cops said to them stalking is a big word when they were in a similar situation And you just said “this is cute” wtf is wrong with you
"I don't like that section of the mall anymore."
I have never heard a sentence with so many raw emotions put behind it. I CAN NOT imagine being in a situation like this.
@Logan Roof Wtf dude, not funny
@Logan Roof damn u can jump off a roof W Haris and also do a backflip
@Logan Roof
......
@Logan Roof um wtf that’s not good or nice this HAPPENED to someone and it’s really not funny imagine if it happened to YOU
@Logan Roof backflip off a roof
*"I don't like that section of the mall anymore...."*
I- God, bless your soul.
mehgan lee was she raped or is that just me
ACB Ghost
I think she was raped
@@abcc7382 I would say raped, but probably sexually harassed. It's a possibility though.
@@acbghost4411 Yes, she didn't give consent.
500 years in prison for him
When he drove you to the parking lot and when you said you had nightmares about it, that just broke my heart. Illy, I am so glad you are safe from Harris and I hope he never contacts you again or anyone else who is like that. Stay safe and I love your videos!
"I don't like that section of the mall anymore".
This just broke me.
It's so messed up.
Wait. I don't get it. What did they do?
@@_artly_art3622 He r*ped her I think.
And that is why I totally believe her story, I can relate. 💔
@@stacymolchanova9832 what?! No she wasn't!! What are you even saying?
@@stacymolchanova9832 Statutory rape exist and even so, she didn't give her consent.
“You are not responsible for the joy of others”
-Jaiden Animation
"You are not responsible for anyone's personal happiness"*
Amen
She's a wise soul
That is an amazing quote
Beautiful! 😁
When she said she did not like that part of the mall anymore.... I felt my gut contort like a spider in a death curl....
ikr..
I felt the same thing.
I didn't get that line. Does it mean, she got deflowered at the parking garage?
N-Word Killer Prolly.
@@chickeneater34 late, but yes
People like that man make me loose my faith in humanity.
Then people like you go and restore it.
You keep doing what you're doing, Illy.
"I don't like that section of the mall anymore".
Damn, that hit me hard.
Im really sorry for what you had to go through
❤️ (and love ur username & profile pic)
@@cosmos_gguk yepppppppppp!!!
Me too
I know I feel so bad for her!
That shit really hit home. I had to pause the video to really take it in. Goddamn 😓
my heart shattered when she said that about the parking garage.
Same, it’s so sad when you realize there’s people out there who would prey on younger kids or do these types of horrible things.
Same. I feel terrible for her. I would NEVER do that to someone who I truly love.
And my heart became a little more whole when you gave us validation. Thank you! I was a harassment victim but everyone dismissed it as just my imagination. I'm grateful that you believe illymation's testimony was real.
this is irrelevant but heads up jd i’m a dead gay walking
uwu. And here’s your final bell
It’s one last dance and then farewell
“Stick and stones will break your bones, but words won’t hurt you. Right?” Verbal and mental abuse is still abuse. Everyone should remember that. Please.
Yeah
Thank you!
Injuries heal, words dont
Nope.
My older cousin is putting me through mental abuse calling me “fatass” “ugly” “stupid” “untalented” “worthless” and it’s only me. No. One. Else. His parents don’t do anything at all. I believed him. I keep putting myself down. Calling myself the things that he has said. My sisters probably noticed that something is wrong. I try to get better. But I can’t. I’m scared to eat in front of his family. I always have the feeling that I’m being judged. I spend all my time alone not wanting to talk to anyone. Isolating myself. Whatever you say will effect someone forever.
Thanks for making this, I was talking with a 20 year old woman over discord and she always seemed super nice but recently she kept talking about coming to my country for college and I’m only a 16 year old lad, this video helped me realise what she was trying to do and luckily I never shared any personal info
this is why we don’t use the term “toxic” lightly.
@Logan Roof wtf
@@yngjng7732 Don't mind him. He was being a *d word* back there talking about this video like it was a comedy.
Breaking news *insert @ of that guy* its not *b word*
@@lidiaamorim9342 brasil?
When you live in my world that term is thrown around WAY to much
Well we are very Toxic human beings when we're hungry. And I'm very crazy when I'm need fed a nice pound of lead
You have no idea how amazing it is to see someone brave enough to put a monster like this on blast! MAD props to you!
Oh yay you're here-
Yay ur here :3
oh hey everyones here, shoe 2, all the support for illy !
Yay you're here did you bring he'll with
I love your animations
I'm still so fucking infuriated that Illy never got justice, not even her having a better life, friends and support system in the present can quench that anger. It's so unfair...
Same.
@Rafa Enzo Natividad Dude, there is literally sexual abuse in the video and you're worried about someone swearing in the comments? 😭/nm
@@oreocrumbs4598 I agree
Same
STILL THIS GUYS SCARED TO FUCKING RESPOND 😂😂😂
I was unknowingly SA’d by my parents and groomed, I didn’t know that it was happening. But it did. Not including the manipulation, and other types of abuse. I am proud of you for leaving.
I’m so sorry about that, kiddo. You deserved better parents. How are you doing today?
Damn.. thats so messed up.. are you doing better now. . ?
The fact that it was ur own parents was very sad:(
When you said “and he drove to a parking lot...............I don’t like that part of the mall anymore”it made me so sad I could here the pain in your voice
Yes same dude my heart dropped i feel soo bad
She should of just killed him right there right then
my heart BROKE
I could hear the utter defeat in that voice.
songs to listen to when I'm bored she couldn’t. She was helpless, and couldn’t stop him.
What's disgusting is that there are people out there at this very moment who are suffering from this exact kind of situation and our world puts so little stock into addressing emotional abuse and what it can do to a person now and even years in the future. The statement about you being one of the lucky ones to escape is such an understatment.
Boner
My head hurts right now I’m in a relationship I’m not abusive but I realized I do a lot of the things this guy does (minus the sexual things and such) but seriously I’m crying right now I’ve been too obsessive I’m exactly like this guy.... I need to apologize to her now I’ve made some shit choices...
"YOU BETTER BE BUFFER THAN MISTER CLEAN WITH THAT ATTITUDE"
My fav part 😂😂😂
Illy, thank you for sharing your story and raising awareness. I watched this series when I was 11. I’m 15 now, and by no exaggeration, you have saved me.
I’ve made many friends online and had multiple encounters where my “new friends” told me never to tell my parents. I immediately blocked and reported them because you taught me to. I didn’t learn this in school. I learned it by watching this series.
Thank you.
I feel like I'm more disappointed and angry at the cop because it was his job to protect you. It was his responsibility to take this seriously, but he didn't. He refused to listen and condescended a very serious issue that could have turned much much worse. When people in power like him don't believe survivors of abuse, they have blood on their hands. He doesn't deserve to be a cop.
I'm scared of cops literally because of this reason, something similar happened to me
In my Country: Once a Cop, always a Cop. Your Job is to Serve an Protect the Country. Any Lawmen is not Safe in our recent Administration. Commit a Crime, you get Humiliated by the Superintendents. And either they'll take you some place dangerous or they'll arrest you.
I hope he got fired.
He should be fired
I hope the the cop and her ex dies in a hole with no one to remember them
The best revenge is that you're still alive and living a wonderful, healing life now. Love you, Illy.
It's not illy it's alasha
Ivan Šuman it’s Illysa
Ivan Šuman lol if your going to correct somebody make sure you know it, yourself.
Ivan Šuman XD No it isn’t that’s not even close to the correction, plus her name is Ilyssa, and her NICKNAME is ILLY! Next time you correct someone make sure you know it yourself
@Kat the Plebby potato Pretty sure that was a reference to one of her other videos.
“Better be buffer then mr.clean with that attitude ” love that
MemeUs - sammmmmmme
And you better be as strong as Luisa from encanto
Yea
Reminder: people who sexually abuse others usally aren't very developed emotionally
so remember you are a lot more developed then this person is, they probably just spent his teenage years doing nothing to develop his brain
You are FAR more powerful both physically and mentally
You're saying that based on nothing. What does "developed" even mean? You saying that smart men can't be creeps lol
@@overlord3481 being mentally developed doesnt equal smartness.
it's just the ability to handle things
@@PixelsPolygonsNPetrichor define mentally developed
@@overlord3481 being able to handle stuff that a younger/traumatised person cant
By emotionally underdeveloped, they mean that the person does not understand how their actions affect others (to some extent)
They don't understand that someone deserves the right to say no, they only act on what THEY want.
“It’s okay, you just made a mistake.” That’s what my mom told me after I told her that I had been a victim of abuse and pedophilia.
Illy, thank you for helping me not feel so alone.
@@justaturky2890 same!
You didn’t make any mistake. Someone took advantage of you and hurt you when you were vulnerable. I’m sorry your mom wouldn’t see that, and I hope you’re doing well now
The way I went “that’s not normal?” When you said that. Wow. Uh. I am so unbelievably sorry about that for you. :(
I am so so soooooo sorry that happened that’s heartbreaking 💔
@@yd_gacha4307 i sobbed when i read this. it’s not funny or welcome at all. do you know how long it’s taken me in therapy just to try to recognize that it wasn’t all my fault? and do you know that i still struggle with that? my own mother told me that it was my fault, and the one friend i trusted told me that i should have seen the signs. and they’re right! i should have! i should have left so much earlier! thanks for reminding me that the moral of my story is that i was dumb enough to listen to a 40-something-year-old man (even though he originally told me he was 17) when i should have just ignored the idea of love. you really need to get off the internet. seriously. what is wrong with you
The worst part of this is it happened for so long and ruined her entire middle school and high school experience. This happened since she was 13. Until she was 18 how is that okay. This story hurts me worse every time I watch this
@@tacopower3578 fr fr thats sad she cant get that precious time back
Yea and she can’t just go back in time back to her childhood ig that’s what you can call it :/
Not to mention the added trauma she may carry with her to the future, all because of him
yeah thats the worst part
Coupled with the fact that, in another video, she said that she was being bullied at school
*She was in RUclips rewind* I’m so proud
Animators were included again thankfully
Alex Milne yes! I was like illy!!!!!!!!
Alex Milne everything was still thrash tho
But then the rest of the rewind sucked
I’m more disappointed considering how awful it was
Oh my God… I am so glad you left that a**hole.
Same
Like Jaiden said: NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR ANYONES HAPPINESS!
Tru nice one
So true. I love that video.
Yes
I read that in her voice
But, what if he's Santa Claus?
"Age is just a number"
And Hell is just a giant oven
lol
And a dinosaur gut is just a bed for haris
@@tayloryost9603 you tried...
And water is fruitless juice
And kidnapping is surprise adoption
I can’t believe I breath the same oxygen of him
Same
Fearless Waltz i’m so sorry but that sent me 😅😂
Yes I hate it
Ya it sucks
I WILL HOLD MY BREATH
i got very lucky.. my cousin sexually assaulted me and my parents found out. i didn’t tell them then his parents found out he got in trouble and thankfully no one else did. here i am, today, suffering through ptsd, haven’t dated a man ever again lol. i met a really nice police officer and he honestly helped much more than anyone has. i thank you for sharing this. and hope that no man ever bothers you like that again. stay strong, we love you
I'm sorry for what your cousin did, you did not deserve that.
“YOU BETTA BE BUFFER THAN MR CLEAN WITH THAT ATTITUDE”
Ngl best line ever
I love that line lol
Nice plagiarizing
Yes
YOU BETTER BE BUFFER THAN A... wait he's a noodle
THAT ENDING AS ME MORE ON EDGE THAN INFINITY WAR
GinjaNinjaOwO OMG I LOVE UR VIDS!
Lol
as more edgy than a SQUARE
NICE PUN ;D , wait that's i *tHiNk* a pun
Agent KETH OWO
@Agent KETH no u
He ruined this girl's freaking life not just childhood he gave her these memories no one should suffer like that
@Logan Roof no❤️ noone else reply please this 9 year old "logan" is looking for attention
ABSOLUTELY NO ONE SHOULD BE TREATED LIKE THIS
Yea I feel so sorry for her
SHE PREDICTED THE FUTURE 0:50
REAL
FOR REAL
REALY REAL
Nah
I'm in the thick of it
Again... that dude sucks. Great video illy. Can’t wait for 2.5
Ikr
Same my dude
(pssssst) hey hey I quite like your vids
Nani?
lel
Everywhere i look.. VACUUM. There things don't come out of nowhere people, being susceptible to abuse and turning out abusive starts home. They guy deserves all the shit he can get, sure, but his, and her parents need to get some heat too.. A lot of heat actually.
Whoa. After the "I don't like that section of the mall anymore" part, I started crying. The parallels between that and what I've experienced shook me. I have/had all the thoughts and feelings she did. Still blame myself. I dont know how to stop blaming myself for not putting up a fight when I was assaulted. Like her, I always thought I could protect myself, but when you let your guard down, it's a whole other thing. Aaaaaa this made me cry BUT IN A GOOD WAY. Meaning knowing others are struggling with the same issues helps
@Jude Boon oh shut up 🙄
@Rachel Hartman Don't blame yourself! It's easy to slip into a mentality that you were the one who put yourself in the situation and LET something happen to you, but that's not true. You don't deserve to be mistreated by anyone. You are above what they've done to you. Shame the person who did things to you, not yourself. It's easier said than done but with practice, you can train yourself to believe it.
I hope your mental health gets better in the future and that trauma doesn't affect you as much. I'd also reccomend therapy if you can afford it. :,)
Too lazy to read but what I'm getting at have a good ... Life?
Rachel Hartman I’m so sarry
The 6.6k dislikes are all of Haris' fake accounts...
YASSSSSS
@@whateverchannel5344 it was 5.2k when i originally typed the comment
Haha XD
Leonardo Font heh
5.3 dislikez
That story about the cop just made me mad. Like you said after telling the story, you deserved and needed help. I'm glad you got out of that. And I hope this video has helped other victims.
The entire time I was watching this my heart was pounding, and memories of my own trauma came flooding back. I went through a very similar scenario with a guy that I thought I loved, and who I thought had my best interests at heart. When I finally broke things off, he stalked me, threatened suicide, the whole nine yards. To this day I go back and forth between feeling sorry for him, and wanting to tear him into screaming, bloody pieces. Thankfully he hasn’t spoken to me in a few years, but if he ever threatened me with suicide again, I’d tell him with no remorse; “Your life is your responsibility. I don’t care whether you decide to cut it short, or live until you die alone at the age of 100.”
I once had 50 missed calls from an abusive ex boyfriend, I was lucky, because I moved far away and never looked back.
Don't know you but proud of ya
You go. You deserve so much better. Hope this never happens to you again
That’s terrifying. I’m so sorry you had to go through that.
Yes. I can’t believe people do this
Im still 11 so i have no girlfreind
Davyan gaming valkerie 999 well then good
People send me creepy messages everyday and they scare me
I'm so glad you feel comfortable sharing this story, I hope you get your justice girl
“I don’t like that section of the mall anymore“ that sentence hit way to hard
Seriously broke my heart :(
Yup
You can hear in her voice that it hurts
Just noticed Haris's hair is drawn to look like devil horns
Clever
He deserves to go to down to the under world.
Not even satan would want him
@@yasminlima2272 then where the frick we’re gonna put him!
@@derp9440 Infinity death and suffering lol
@@yasminlima2272 send him to the PURGATORY
As messed up as it sounds, I've been waiting for this sequel.
Versaucey I mean it is a pretty interesting story
TRIGGERED.
SAME
Same
Versaucey me too my guy me too
I was sexually assaulted by my cousin when I was younger and I remember thinking that it must mean he loved me. My sister used to laugh at the idea of me loving my cousin. My cousin's sister who saw it all happen would laugh at me and make me feel bad for letting it happen. My dad had no idea that it was happening, but he happened to get into an argument with their mum (his sister) so we stopped seeing them. The next time we saw them was at my grandad's wedding, about ten years later. By that time I had realised what my cousin had done to me, but I had never told any of my family. My female cousin made a joke about it and I just remember having to try so hard to keep it together.
A couple of years later me and my dad had met up my aunt and uncle for a quick hi. My uncle went on about me as a baby naked in the bath, it was disgusting. The way he talked about it, it felt very paedophilic. I just wanted to leave that conversation as quickly as possible. After that talk, me and my dad got into the car and I told him how uncomfortable my uncle had made me and my dad just blamed me, as I was the one who had wanted to catch up with my aunt. A little later on the car journey my dad spoke about my cousin, saying how great he is, and I told him what he had done to me when I was younger. All my dad said was that I should have told him when it happened, which I retorted, saying I didn't understand what had happened then. It was extremely frustrating.
Since then I have told my sister too and she just got all awkward when I told her. The same happened with the guys I have dated. It made me feel like I was blowing the whole thing out of proportion, but I also couldn't get rid of this feeling of violation. Eventually I told my best friend about it and she was really great. She made me feel validated, and helped me try to get help for it. I am so grateful to her for making me feel valid. I still haven't told most of my family about what happened. But I feel like most of them wouldn't care and would just see it as me trying to cause issues. Sometimes I want to talk to my cousin and tell how violated and betrayed he made me feel, but I also think he wouldn't care.
I also worry that he might have done this to other people, but I don't want to ruin his life if it was just me. He is 6 months older than me so I have been told it could have just been because he was a child himself. At the time of the assault I was dealing with going through puberty very early so I had developed breasts a lot younger than other kids. I also have autism and have always been more trusting of people older than me. I had really adored my older cousin because I felt safe with him. My parents had just divorced and I was always being told to take a side. Normally when I visited family too I would end up having to look after my younger cousins as the oldest, so having one cousin older than me on my dad's side had always given me some relief. Now I am worried when he is in the same room as my cousins as I don't trust him (thankfully this happens very rarely).
I'm sorry for what you had through, even having your father blaming you. It's not your fault, and it really sucks that your father would victim blame. It really sucks that the people you have told do not care, but great, your best friend does.
That's so sad, I hope you get the justice you deserve and uh..., Don't be shy, Tell us his name....
What the heck is wrong with your family …….( atleast most )
"you better be buffer than mr clean with that attitude" facts
I audibly wheezed
"I don't like this section of mall anymore" i'm really crying inside.
Wait I don't get it.. what happened there????
@@_artly_art3622 she probally was raped or they made sex, but without with her permission, i don't know very well but i think it's this
@@pacocarosa8385 oh
@@pacocarosa8385 yes, it is safe to use the term "rape" in this case. She said "no" repeatedly and was crying and he still went through with it. This lead to her, thinking that Maybe she should have been louder or put up more of a fight and therefore blaming herself. Sadly this is really common in these kind of cases 😔
Me to I'm heart broken
Favorite part: “YOU BETTER BE BUFFER THAN MISTER CLEAN WITH THAT ATTiTUDE!!”
Same
Same
Sammmme yass
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL
luv that part as well
this happened to me in 2021, luckily his friend reached out and got me away from the situation, i’m so glad it didn’t get worse. ‘relationships’ like this rlly fuck you up as a person
Y'now...if he's still got those pictures, he's a criminal.
Yeah, couldn't the police get a warrant on his computer and see that 'personal collection' of his?
Ms Crazy He most likely has deleted these and would make stuff up
They were snaps though
@@rynemcgriffin1752 there would still be evidence that's already out. Like Cristali. He denied it, but we all know the truth and now he's in the slammer where he belongs
Ryne Mcgriffin nothing is ever fully deleted and for a idiot and creep like him I don’t think he would delete them so the police could find them
*yOU BETTER BE BUFFER THAN MR. CLEAN WITH THAT ATTITUDE*
I died with that 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
Ikr
I’m sorry but- “YOU MUST BE BUFFER THAN MISTA CLEAN WITH THAT ATTITUDE”
It's not okay to body shame.
True but lets nuke his house anyway
I actually died
Omg 😂😂😂
@@agereartist3763 did you know nuking a house is worse than this dude Harris? Just thought I'd let you know.
I hate the phrase sticks and stones may break your bones but words will never hurt me
Freaking exactly. Like, as if verbal abuse doesn't exist
"Touching is just touching"
And being touched by handcuffs is just touching
Try a flaming hot knife
@Logan Roof DID YOU JUST SAY FABRICATED!!! DUDE! YOU DO NOT ¨FABRICATE¨ STUFF LIKE THIS!
@Logan Roof, dude, literally no one on this planet deserves that.
@@witchybubbles26pandalover17 this guy literally has a nazi flag behind his pfp
@Logan Roof "she deserves it" Sure hun, go back to playing fortnite 🗿🗿
all jokes aside, I actually cried. I felt so bad, that I felt like going back through time and find you and just help you in that situation. I watched this when I was 14 and I couldn't understand. Re-watching this right now, as a 15 yr old, I feel bad, and honestly I really wanted to help you and sacrifice everything just so you can be safe. I love you and I hope you're doing well.
Same
Its so disturbing that they are people like that
Haris is lucky that illy is a great person and didn't give enough information about him.
Or else that skinny string would have met god by now
Lol I’m like 12 and I understand this fully
when this happened i was playing monster truck racing games on my pc
I got chills when you said "I don't like the part of the mall anymore..."😨
What does that mean. Oh wait WHAT
Feffinator she was raped in that part of the mall
“I no longer like that part of the mall” I’m so sorry:((
It's still crazy how people choose to blame the person who suffered rather than the person who committed the crime
Ikr?! How can people be so stupid?
Say it louder for the people in the back
but like y is a 13 year old on the internet talking to strangers smh
@@harrythehamster72 we ain't doing this today, satan
@@harrythehamster72 And how old were you when you first used social media?
Dude. You explained consent way better than any of my teachers.
Yeeting Birtch tree hmmm
Yeeting Birtch tree probably because your teachers where summering the definition
Yeeting Birtch tree but she did get something wrong like when she said if you ask someone to say yes it isn’t consent but what if you are asking your parents to say yes to buying a game they still gave you permission Consensually
WhAT IS YOUR PFP I'M SO SCARED
When Illy says “And now I don’t like that section of the mall anymore...”
It always makes me want to cry for her
It makes me want to throw up
It really hit me hard when she said that.
I'm sorry, but was that her way of saying she was raped? Bc my heart shredded into 100000 pieces...
Yah
I'm so sorry Alyssa no one should go through something like this. :(
“So he drove us to a parking garage.. “
*I dont like that section of the mall anymore*
Don’t tell me that didn’t make your heart drop to your stomach. Because it did for me, and Jesus Christ I hate the feeling
Same
What did she mean?
Wade W.
Same :(
• Milky Tea • Um.. he raped her.
Yes
"Age is just a number."
Execution is just a time limit.
911 is a number too :)
And the FBI is just a group of friends!
@@fnafgirl8874 and co-workers
And the time limit is done
OH HO! THAT GONE FROM ZERO TO A MILLON REAL QUICK!
"That's toxic as shiiiiiiiiiiiiii-"
-JaidenAnimations
tom gedison, you are now my favorite RUclips commenter.
this
this is really fucking good
Oo another comment from jaidens toxic thingy..????? I think????
(sorry if I sound sarcastic and stuff)
That actually what i thaught
No😠😠😠😠 it's "UNLOCK THE DOORS FIND THE KEYSSS😭😭" 🤣🤣😂😂😂
No matter the scar, if it's metal emotional or physical, you are so strong for surviving that I'm so happy you are safe. Scars mean you went through something tough in the past, survived it, and came back stronger, and I am so proud of you, Ily ❤
He don't protecc
He only attack
But most improtantly he needs to jail real quick no cap
He don't protecc he only atacc if he ever meets me he's losing his fucking cocc
This is why need a REAL batman
If you can get a strong enough case and have evidence, I agree!
Protected
XD
“Age is a number”
And Batman is just a overconfident man.
THE SHADE THO-
I mean, you aren’t wrong
Talking mad shit for someone in bone-breaking distance
@@areyoulostbabygorl231 Yea
And 911 is just a phone number
"back for the chaos" >implying i ever left
That made me laugh out loud, omg
illymation glad to be of service
“And I don’t go to that part of the mall anymore”😕
H-hate him
A-an evil guy
R-really disgusting
I-ILLEGAL DOOD
S-supposed to be in jail
I would like justice☺
His name is haris mahjoob. I’ve referenced social media, linked in, everything. He looks like illys drawing of him.
Giggus_ Arrow Does he have any other socials?
Giggus_ Arrow is he on face book?
Giggus_ Arrow does he look fancy?
@@giggus_arrow509 You found him?! What's he doing now?
Even if the cop didn’t trust illy, he shouldn’t ignore the chance to help someone. So that cop is mean and really dumb.
I want to hit that cop.
uttering death threats is a serious thing. that cop needs to be fired for not even taking a report on it.
cops are trained to trust people and help them. if a cop can’t do their job then they could be fired and arrested at worst
Cops shood be safe and help u!!!!
That. Damn. Cop.
Wondering why im smiling? Cause the parents tried to help instead of shaming the cause. People need to help like this more.
Underrated comment. Hits different when your parents dont give a shit
E
My parents would shame me and then ground me if i got into shit like this
I was smiling cuz dispite anything what's happening to her or what was she's always funny and making it into a funny situatuon
@@ItsSebunGG lol what the fuck this is funny to you?
everything she says just makes me want to hug her so bad. The fact she remembers all the little details shows how traumatising it was. I really hope this video reaches the people it should, that people learn from what has happened to her, to know that they deserve better
The response from the police officer is not surprising but still elicits rage that is hotter than the earth's mantle. THIS IS WHY PEOPLE DON'T REPORT
The mantle is ice cold compared to the fury we feel.
Cops say that people need to report people but they don't take it serious when they are under 18
"I don't like that section of the mall anymore." That broke my heart. I am truly sorry. Also sorry for the doxxing.
I lost you at doxxing...no dictionary would tell me what it means😂
@@blimasolash2551 Its basically publicly revealing private information about someone
same man, I can never find parking. I'm sorry but I had to. That quote also shot my heart.
thank you for making this. what you're doing is so important and you're making such a big difference in so many kids' lives. these videos are amazingly important and what you're doing is gonna save lives.
NateIsLame I love your videos :)
NateIsLame
NATE
n a t e owO
NateIsLame
How does this save lives?? You and her are so ridiculous. Go back to your furry life
I was in a relationship somewhat similar to this when I started high school. The guy constantly asked me for pictures and threatened to kill himself if i tried to break up with him.
I'm lucky that someone I trust found out about it and the relationship didn't go any farther.
oh my god that’s so terrible I hope you’re okay now ❤❤
@@daisy.lvsssss I'm a lot better now. Thanks. ❤️
haris makes me sick, its clear hes an insecure person that needs to put people down to make himself feel better.
Liam dabrowski I think he’s really worse than that. He’s insane.
I could of ended up like him since my parents kept insulting me, thank God.
He reminds me of my sister's exhusband....dang
I’m insecure but I put myself down
I’m so grateful you mentioned the fact that freezing is one of the things a victim can do when someone attacks her. I’ve felt shame and guilt ever since I was raped because I feel like I didn’t do more. When I saw a cop she told me that “next time I should try saying no harder” this video made me cry but I’m so grateful you’re making this series
It's certainly one of the options your brain has to "survive", it's a completely natural response and nothing to be ashamed of, you did survive, and, if you at that exact moment felt like freezing was your only chance , i commend you for being able to put up with whatever that MONSTER forced upon you at that time and come out of it as unscathed as possible. There is no right way to know what would have been the perfect course of action and what would have instead lead to disaster, best of luck with your recovery.
Davide Tramontana thank you so very much! Luckily I have a lot of support surrounding me. I am very grateful
That feeling of freeze in an assault is the worst because you know you should be fighting it but you’re so scared and all you can physically do is take it and cry
no means no sending love your way stay strong
Stay strong girl, it's not your fault! You are a STAR for surviving
Mental abuse is just as bad as physical abuse, and both really need to be handled better than they are. You're a strong person, I admire you.
It was both though, but I guess.
the human brain cant tell the difference between a mental attack and a physical attack
Mr. What Doesn’t have to sound so professional, also it’s wrong. It’s easy to tell mental abuse and physical abuse. It also wasn’t an attack sooo I can’t see what you’re talking about.
@@KRANKYS100 whoops
I’m going to share your videos with my teenage daughters. I want them to know what to look out for, and to learn from someone else’s experience rather than having to go through it themselves.
You and Jaiden are the only reasons I gave a crap about RUclips Rewind.
Edit: Aw, crap! How could I forget the rest of the animation squad that was in it! X3
G a s p
How about domics?
Or Lifenoggin?
Or theodd1souts?!?
Cmon there good too
Wut about james
J-James
Or tabbes
ThisIsLotso what about JAMESSSSS
Illy? Listen, I know it’s been three years since this was uploaded, but I seriously can’t watch this without saying something. I’m not the therapist friend, and you’re probably okay. I just needed to say that my heart goes out to you.
Words really can’t express how sorry I am that this happened to you.
Still chill still chill
HIIII
Agreed, my friend. Agreed.
@@arandomladywithabadsleepsc1748 yas
Facts 💓
Thank you for sharing your story and Harris... ughhh Harris. >_>
Illy, you are the bravest soul.
Hi CypherDen!!
DEEEEEEEEEN
i subscribed
Hey there Cypher loved your last video
😘
Girl, from one abuse victim to another … here is a big long internet hug. This was a ride and took me right back to the memories of my ex… hope you’re well these days ❤
imagine Harris comments under one of these videos and your whole fan base just drags him.
Yup
He probably did comment
• T i a n a’ s F i l m • he would be just torn down by her fan base
True
And now I actually hope he does just so we can all have a shot at him
IIyssia saying “ I don’t like that section of the mall anymore” genuinely made me tear up it is so heartbreaking that she had to go through this haris is a disgusting piece of garbage and IIyssia deserves better in every way
Agreed
Her name is Ilyssia I'm sorry
exactly
wait what happened there
@@detectivebeans3588 i think she got... yk if u know what i mean
When my daughter is of reasonable age, I'm going to show her this series...please keep it up. I need her too understand .
Kita Allen no one should ever deal with this.
I am late but I am so sorry that happened to you.. no one should have to go through that. And the fact they didn’t even listen to you at the start says it all. This isn’t talked about enough. I hope your doing so much better❤️
I know this is a serious video but when she said “You better be buffer than mr. clean with that attitude” that got me😂
“Mother trucker had a BMI of 2... Maybe.” That got me
That got me to
same i am sorry i could not keep a series face after that as well
Honestly, same
JDogVlogs tru
“You better be buffer than mr.clean with that attitude”
l o l
This is my favorite line
rurusiddi sameee
*MR.CLEAN WHERE YOU AT MY BOOOOIIII!?*
illy: maybe its my fault.....
the comment section: ok, sit down. here is a 3 hour presentation on how awful harris is, and 39,600 comments supporting you and wishing you never went through that
Some of these animators gave been through so much, and it is horrible because they are amazing people. I'm glad they know we love them.
@AlextheRobloxian Make that 41K
Subscribers: See Harris.
Subscribers: Honey, you got a big storm coming
@@mr.randomperson9900 **pointing** I know where that came from
Don’t we all ama right
I’m so sorry for what happened. I hope you’re doing better now ❤