How I Left My Abusive (ex) Boyfriend
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- Опубликовано: 6 дек 2018
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Кино
I can’t believe I breath the same oxygen of him
Same
Fearless Waltz i’m so sorry but that sent me 😅😂
Yes I hate it
Ya it sucks
I WILL HOLD MY BREATH
Harris: I’m gonna jump off a building
Me: do a backflip
At the end of everything Hold on to anything
Me: Dive head first
Yeah
DAMN DAMN DAMN HIT HIM WITH A TABLE
How about a bellyflop?
Everybod do the flop
As a victim of sexual assault I know how it feels to go through this. You are so brave to be sharing your story
im so sorry that happened, hoping for only the best for you in the future ❤
Omg I’m so sorry for you..
i hope you and illy r okay :C
Cap
@@user-xg1bw2bd2l what... literally no proof against this?
6:12 "You don't owe anyone anything." Thank you. I want to give you a hug. I just got out of such a terrible uncomfortable relationship like this and needed to hear that. I've just recently began healing from it.
praying for you ❤ i hope you’re okay now
So sorry you had to experience that,hope ur doing ok ❤
"Age is just a number"
And Hell is just a giant oven
lol
And a dinosaur gut is just a bed for haris
@@tayloryost9603 you tried...
And water is fruitless juice
And kidnapping is surprise adoption
*"I don't like that section of the mall anymore...."*
I- God, bless your soul.
mehgan lee was she raped or is that just me
ACB Ghost
I think she was raped
@@abcc7382 I would say raped, but probably sexually harassed. It's a possibility though.
@@acbghost4411 Yes, she didn't give consent.
500 years in prison for him
Illy, I’ve been in a “grooming” situation like this a couple years ago before. I watched this video and I recognized what the groomer was doing, I blocked him. Now I still come back to visit every once in a while, and remind myself to keep myself safe. I just turned 13, and I sent this video to my friend when she told me about a 22 year old guy asking her for pictures. Thank you for bringing awareness I love you Illy
illy saves lives C:
thank u for commenting this im so sorry for what youve had to bare❤
@@slushiixoxoyes she does!❤
Aww yw ❤@@ZeroAguilar
i'm so glad you're safe :)
Reminder: people who sexually abuse others usally aren't very developed emotionally
so remember you are a lot more developed then this person is, they probably just spent his teenage years doing nothing to develop his brain
You are FAR more powerful both physically and mentally
You're saying that based on nothing. What does "developed" even mean? You saying that smart men can't be creeps lol
@@overlord3481 being mentally developed doesnt equal smartness.
it's just the ability to handle things
@@PixelsPolygonsNPetrichor define mentally developed
@@overlord3481 being able to handle stuff that a younger/traumatised person cant
By emotionally underdeveloped, they mean that the person does not understand how their actions affect others (to some extent)
They don't understand that someone deserves the right to say no, they only act on what THEY want.
“You are not responsible for the joy of others”
-Jaiden Animation
"You are not responsible for anyone's personal happiness"*
Amen
She's a wise soul
That is an amazing quote
Beautiful! 😁
“I don’t like that section of the mall anymore.” Holy shit. That hits different.
Doggoman 555 I remember I got lost in the mall when I was 2
Doggoman 555 ikr
ikr dat sad :'(
@@rendrickluna7237 ... ok?
I have no name very different to what happened to illy
Thanks for making this, I was talking with a 20 year old woman over discord and she always seemed super nice but recently she kept talking about coming to my country for college and I’m only a 16 year old lad, this video helped me realise what she was trying to do and luckily I never shared any personal info
3:41 makes me giggle so hard , i love how she can still make jokes and stuff during a hard time. its so nice for you to be this honest about things like this.
I was in a situation like this before but much less severe. So I was 11 and I was playing a game on roblox with my friends. Then someone came into the server(wasn't a private server cuz none of us had money) and they told me to join their game. I said "why, who are you" as did my friends. They said it was our other friend on an alternate account. I said ok and told my friend I would be right back. This guy then once we were in his private server pretending to be my friend, asked me a lot of personal stuff as they "forgot." This stuff included my birthday and stuff but they didn't say anything like my name as they knew I would catch on. I did as they wanted because I thought it was my friend. This guy then would go on to ask me for secrets that I "had told him" which were really just him digging for more info he could use against me. when he asked me how my dog was doing because and he said my other friend told him about my dog. I froze because the friend he was pretending to be was the only one I told about my dogs death, and I said that if I got a new dog, he would be the first I'd tell. I didn't confront him about it because I knew that if what was going on was what I thought it was, I could lose important information. I then played along and said a bunch of lies about my life and he believed them. He even told me he wanted a picture of me but I didn't do it as he should know what I looked like. After a little of him believing the lies I fed him, I confronted him slowly, and he didn't thunk to an excuse, he just acted hurt like I played him, as he never did anything wrong. I wasn't dumb enough to play his game though so I continued to expose him. When he knew he couldn't keep his act up much longer, he said how much I hurt him and how he hoped I would die in a car crash. He then left after playing victim a final time. After that I would go into the server where my friends were and I told them that the person who claimed to by our friend was just some random guy desperate for friends as I didn't want to tell them about everything else. I would joke about it now but never to those friends as I still haven't told them.
Me too Illys the best 🫶
“So he drove us to a parking garage.. “
*I dont like that section of the mall anymore*
Don’t tell me that didn’t make your heart drop to your stomach. Because it did for me, and Jesus Christ I hate the feeling
Same
What did she mean?
Wade W.
Same :(
• Milky Tea • Um.. he raped her.
Yes
H-hate him
A-an evil guy
R-really disgusting
I-ILLEGAL DOOD
S-supposed to be in jail
I would like justice☺
His name is haris mahjoob. I’ve referenced social media, linked in, everything. He looks like illys drawing of him.
Giggus_ Arrow Does he have any other socials?
Giggus_ Arrow is he on face book?
Giggus_ Arrow does he look fancy?
@@giggus_arrow509 You found him?! What's he doing now?
People like that man make me loose my faith in humanity.
Then people like you go and restore it.
You keep doing what you're doing, Illy.
I was a sexual assault victim back in year 6 by my bully who didn’t get a punishment for it and then I saw this video and I felt so seen, thank you so much illy, you are so brave for speaking out about this and putting your foot down when you couldn’t do it anymore.
"You better be buffer than Mr. Clean with that attitude."
-Illyssa, 2018
Sophia Aquino jelly copies yo comment
I used this a YEAR ago
Yes lol
That’s mood
1000th like
"That's toxic as shiiiiiiiiiiiiii-"
-JaidenAnimations
tom gedison, you are now my favorite RUclips commenter.
this
this is really fucking good
Oo another comment from jaidens toxic thingy..????? I think????
(sorry if I sound sarcastic and stuff)
That actually what i thaught
No😠😠😠😠 it's "UNLOCK THE DOORS FIND THE KEYSSS😭😭" 🤣🤣😂😂😂
Girl, i watched this series when it first came out four years ago. I didn't know it at the time how similar our situations were.
Took a global pandemic for me to leave and several months after to go no contact but things are better now. Thank you for making this video series. You helped me open my eyes and realize what was happening.
That story about the cop just made me mad. Like you said after telling the story, you deserved and needed help. I'm glad you got out of that. And I hope this video has helped other victims.
this is why we don’t use the term “toxic” lightly.
@Logan Roof wtf
@@yngjng7732 Don't mind him. He was being a *d word* back there talking about this video like it was a comedy.
Breaking news *insert @ of that guy* its not *b word*
@@lidiaamorim9342 brasil?
When you live in my world that term is thrown around WAY to much
Well we are very Toxic human beings when we're hungry. And I'm very crazy when I'm need fed a nice pound of lead
my heart shattered when she said that about the parking garage.
Same, it’s so sad when you realize there’s people out there who would prey on younger kids or do these types of horrible things.
Same. I feel terrible for her. I would NEVER do that to someone who I truly love.
And my heart became a little more whole when you gave us validation. Thank you! I was a harassment victim but everyone dismissed it as just my imagination. I'm grateful that you believe illymation's testimony was real.
this is irrelevant but heads up jd i’m a dead gay walking
uwu. And here’s your final bell
It’s one last dance and then farewell
I was unknowingly SA’d by my parents and groomed, I didn’t know that it was happening. But it did. Not including the manipulation, and other types of abuse. I am proud of you for leaving.
I’m so sorry about that, kiddo. You deserved better parents. How are you doing today?
Illy, thank you for sharing your story and raising awareness. I watched this series when I was 11. I’m 15 now, and by no exaggeration, you have saved me.
I’ve made many friends online and had multiple encounters where my “new friends” told me never to tell my parents. I immediately blocked and reported them because you taught me to. I didn’t learn this in school. I learned it by watching this series.
Thank you.
"sweetie, stalking is a big word." That's what the police said to me when I was in a similar situation. Illy, thank you for telling this story. It's good to know we're not alone in the word. All the love, darling.
I wish I could line up all these good for nothing, dismissive law "enforcement" officers and pepper canon them until they apologize!
Those cops belittled you like that? Messed up. I'm so sorry anybody has to go through anything like this.
"Load the cannon!"
Y'know what else is a big word?
*Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious. Which is not what these types of cops are.*
@Logan Roof wtf
You have no idea how amazing it is to see someone brave enough to put a monster like this on blast! MAD props to you!
Oh yay you're here-
Yay ur here :3
oh hey everyones here, shoe 2, all the support for illy !
Yay you're here did you bring he'll with
I love your animations
I was sexually assaulted by my cousin when I was younger and I remember thinking that it must mean he loved me. My sister used to laugh at the idea of me loving my cousin. My cousin's sister who saw it all happen would laugh at me and make me feel bad for letting it happen. My dad had no idea that it was happening, but he happened to get into an argument with their mum (his sister) so we stopped seeing them. The next time we saw them was at my grandad's wedding, about ten years later. By that time I had realised what my cousin had done to me, but I had never told any of my family. My female cousin made a joke about it and I just remember having to try so hard to keep it together.
A couple of years later me and my dad had met up my aunt and uncle for a quick hi. My uncle went on about me as a baby naked in the bath, it was disgusting. The way he talked about it, it felt very paedophilic. I just wanted to leave that conversation as quickly as possible. After that talk, me and my dad got into the car and I told him how uncomfortable my uncle had made me and my dad just blamed me, as I was the one who had wanted to catch up with my aunt. A little later on the car journey my dad spoke about my cousin, saying how great he is, and I told him what he had done to me when I was younger. All my dad said was that I should have told him when it happened, which I retorted, saying I didn't understand what had happened then. It was extremely frustrating.
Since then I have told my sister too and she just got all awkward when I told her. The same happened with the guys I have dated. It made me feel like I was blowing the whole thing out of proportion, but I also couldn't get rid of this feeling of violation. Eventually I told my best friend about it and she was really great. She made me feel validated, and helped me try to get help for it. I am so grateful to her for making me feel valid. I still haven't told most of my family about what happened. But I feel like most of them wouldn't care and would just see it as me trying to cause issues. Sometimes I want to talk to my cousin and tell how violated and betrayed he made me feel, but I also think he wouldn't care.
I also worry that he might have done this to other people, but I don't want to ruin his life if it was just me. He is 6 months older than me so I have been told it could have just been because he was a child himself. At the time of the assault I was dealing with going through puberty very early so I had developed breasts a lot younger than other kids. I also have autism and have always been more trusting of people older than me. I had really adored my older cousin because I felt safe with him. My parents had just divorced and I was always being told to take a side. Normally when I visited family too I would end up having to look after my younger cousins as the oldest, so having one cousin older than me on my dad's side had always given me some relief. Now I am worried when he is in the same room as my cousins as I don't trust him (thankfully this happens very rarely).
I'm sorry for what you had through, even having your father blaming you. It's not your fault, and it really sucks that your father would victim blame. It really sucks that the people you have told do not care, but great, your best friend does.
That's so sad, I hope you get the justice you deserve and uh..., Don't be shy, Tell us his name....
What the heck is wrong with your family …….( atleast most )
I dont think i have the words to even express how courageous you are for sharing this story as this turned out to be majority of your teen years. I know you're in a far better place now but im honestly shocked people like Harris exist.
Keep up the good work with the animations, they motivate me to try them as well even though mine suck 😅
Little does harris know there are over 1.75 million people willing to take him out >:)
Nearly 9 mil
Hey I've got my tranquilizers out here!
Show me where he lives and he's waking up with 10 or more years in prison
Shooting Star UwU no
Rip Harris
Harris gets out of jail I’m fucking finding him
“YOU BETTA BE BUFFER THAN MR CLEAN WITH THAT ATTITUDE”
Ngl best line ever
I love that line lol
Nice plagiarizing
Yes
YOU BETTER BE BUFFER THAN A... wait he's a noodle
i got very lucky.. my cousin sexually assaulted me and my parents found out. i didn’t tell them then his parents found out he got in trouble and thankfully no one else did. here i am, today, suffering through ptsd, haven’t dated a man ever again lol. i met a really nice police officer and he honestly helped much more than anyone has. i thank you for sharing this. and hope that no man ever bothers you like that again. stay strong, we love you
I'm sorry for what your cousin did, you did not deserve that.
I am so sorry this happened to you at such a young age.. as someone that has almost been in a situation like this I completely understand how you felt.. this situation is really scary, especially at such a young age.. I’m so so happy you were so brave to tell this story
He don't protecc
He only attack
But most improtantly he needs to jail real quick no cap
He don't protecc he only atacc if he ever meets me he's losing his fucking cocc
This is why need a REAL batman
If you can get a strong enough case and have evidence, I agree!
Protected
XD
"I don't like that section of the mall anymore."
I have never heard a sentence with so many raw emotions put behind it. I CAN NOT imagine being in a situation like this.
@Logan Roof Wtf dude, not funny
@Logan Roof damn u can jump off a roof W Haris and also do a backflip
@Logan Roof
......
@Logan Roof um wtf that’s not good or nice this HAPPENED to someone and it’s really not funny imagine if it happened to YOU
@Logan Roof backflip off a roof
I feel terrible that someone so young could go through something so horrible
I'm so glad you feel comfortable sharing this story, I hope you get your justice girl
*She was in RUclips rewind* I’m so proud
Animators were included again thankfully
Alex Milne yes! I was like illy!!!!!!!!
Alex Milne everything was still thrash tho
But then the rest of the rewind sucked
I’m more disappointed considering how awful it was
"i don't like that section of the mall anymore" hearing you say that made me feel so sick inside.
Why?
Hanin Mony Because it implies that
she got sexually assaulted in that
parking garage, and now that’s all she
can think of in any parking garage.
It’s heartbreaking.
same. tears immediately welled up in my eyes.
It’s not okay that she was put in that position in the first place but the fact that she was put in THAT position at THAT age is honestly so sickening and so disgusting I can’t even comprehend it. What’s even worse is how the POLICE the people who are meant to PROTECT us didn’t do a damn thing about it. That is the most the disappointing part of this video.
Me too
you are so brave for surviving and telling the story! I am so glad you were able to escape, what he did to you was discusting and im glad you were able to get yourself out of thte mindset and being straightforward to him! you deserve to be happy.
ive been in a similar situation before (a lot more complicated on the emotions but a shorter time by a lot) and seeing this video still sends chills down my spine. it's still crazy that you have the courage for speaking out
The 6.6k dislikes are all of Haris' fake accounts...
YASSSSSS
@@whateverchannel5344 it was 5.2k when i originally typed the comment
Haha XD
Leonardo Font heh
5.3 dislikez
"YOU BETTER BE BUFFER THAN MISTER CLEAN WITH THAT ATTITUDE"
My fav part 😂😂😂
I hate the phrase sticks and stones may break your bones but words will never hurt me
Freaking exactly. Like, as if verbal abuse doesn't exist
Please keep educating us on this you just saved lives
*WHOS👏BACK👏FOR👏THE👏CHAOS*
*IM👏BACK👏FOR👏THE👏CHAOS*
Yeah
*I'M 👏BACK👏FOR👏THE👏CHAOS👏*
I'M👏BACK👏FOR👏THE👏CHAOS
Jennifunny Animations I'm back for the chaos !
"I don't like that section of the mall anymore".
This just broke me.
It's so messed up.
Wait. I don't get it. What did they do?
@@_artly_art3622 He r*ped her I think.
And that is why I totally believe her story, I can relate. 💔
@@stacymolchanova9832 what?! No she wasn't!! What are you even saying?
@@stacymolchanova9832 Statutory rape exist and even so, she didn't give her consent.
No matter the scar, if it's metal emotional or physical, you are so strong for surviving that I'm so happy you are safe. Scars mean you went through something tough in the past, survived it, and came back stronger, and I am so proud of you, Ily ❤
Thank you so much for realeasing this series because it is a very educational and made me and a lot of other people more concious of these kinds of situations.
You are so brave for talking about it especially since videos have come out of people defending Haris and I watched there videos and thankfully found so many comments defending you.
You deserve to be helped :)
“Stick and stones will break your bones, but words won’t hurt you. Right?” Verbal and mental abuse is still abuse. Everyone should remember that. Please.
Yeah
Thank you!
Injuries heal, words dont
Nope.
My older cousin is putting me through mental abuse calling me “fatass” “ugly” “stupid” “untalented” “worthless” and it’s only me. No. One. Else. His parents don’t do anything at all. I believed him. I keep putting myself down. Calling myself the things that he has said. My sisters probably noticed that something is wrong. I try to get better. But I can’t. I’m scared to eat in front of his family. I always have the feeling that I’m being judged. I spend all my time alone not wanting to talk to anyone. Isolating myself. Whatever you say will effect someone forever.
"I don't like that section of the mall anymore".
Damn, that hit me hard.
Im really sorry for what you had to go through
❤️ (and love ur username & profile pic)
@@cosmos_gguk yepppppppppp!!!
Me too
I know I feel so bad for her!
That shit really hit home. I had to pause the video to really take it in. Goddamn 😓
I love seeing videos like these especially when it comes to online grooming. I was groomed several times online but got into 'relationships' with two people and it definitely did some damage to me, even to this day. It kinda makes me feel seen that both of our stories took so similar, makes me feel like I can conquer the pain :) thank you for sharing your story!
People don't know how hard it is for people to do this.... I dealt with someone like this when I was 9 and he was 13.... when I told people... no one believed me either... I am proud to see others who went through similar issues speaking out. Our voices must be heard
Harris: I’m going to kill myself
Everyone including illymation: good
14:48
DErpS Games yep
Mega good
Nice
Nice
I know right
Dad: BILLY, WHY DID YOU SHOOT HIM!
Me: He's Harris
Dad: Shoot him again Billy
One more time ma child, then we’ll calm the cops
@@thefalloftheempire2285 *2
Aim for the head~
Nice
@@huaweiceo2588 10
Thanks fo sharing this story Ily! Your so brave for sharing this story! Your helping so many teenagers out there!
I had to pause these videos multiple times because I had to have therapy for something involved with this topic and yet I wanted to finish the story you are presenting. Thank you for sharing and I’m sorry this happens at all.
Let this be a warning children- in a relationship you are supposed to feel safe, you need to feel like the person really cares about you and they respect you.
@Sparer Yahya Yes.
This should go for any relationship with anyone you know
Too bad I’m a virgin
Ill ask a phone and call 911
Or be a police myself-
You shouldn't limit to just children.
I'm giving you the award of "Thinking 69420% of children are dumb".
Honestly, that cop...
*is as bad as Harris*
Not as bad, but still VERY BAD!
No it’s this bullshit thing that police do in order to not arrest an innocent man over a feminist person accusing someone of rape
ACAB
Vanessa Coria Consani not true there are good cops out there but when somebody robs your house don’t call 911 cus acab right
@@markrichardson9008 Nope that cop IS just as bad as Harris. Ever heard of police brutality? 😊
I’m so sorry Illy ☹️ no one ever deserves this. You didn’t deserve this. I hope he is rotting in a jail cell.
I am late but I am so sorry that happened to you.. no one should have to go through that. And the fact they didn’t even listen to you at the start says it all. This isn’t talked about enough. I hope your doing so much better❤️
I'm still so fucking infuriated that Illy never got justice, not even her having a better life, friends and support system in the present can quench that anger. It's so unfair...
Same.
@Rafa Enzo Natividad Dude, there is literally sexual abuse in the video and you're worried about someone swearing in the comments? 😭/nm
@@oreocrumbs4598 I agree
Same
STILL THIS GUYS SCARED TO FUCKING RESPOND 😂😂😂
“Better be buffer then mr.clean with that attitude ” love that
MemeUs - sammmmmmme
this happened to me in 2021, luckily his friend reached out and got me away from the situation, i’m so glad it didn’t get worse. ‘relationships’ like this rlly fuck you up as a person
You have just made others that may have gone through, be going through a very huge help by posting this. Let there me more of you that speaks out about this.
When you said “and he drove to a parking lot...............I don’t like that part of the mall anymore”it made me so sad I could here the pain in your voice
Yes same dude my heart dropped i feel soo bad
She should of just killed him right there right then
my heart BROKE
I could hear the utter defeat in that voice.
songs to listen to when I'm bored she couldn’t. She was helpless, and couldn’t stop him.
He ruined this girl's freaking life not just childhood he gave her these memories no one should suffer like that
@Logan Roof no❤️ noone else reply please this 9 year old "logan" is looking for attention
ABSOLUTELY NO ONE SHOULD BE TREATED LIKE THIS
Yea I feel so sorry for her
Thank you for sharing your story. I am sorry this happened to you.
The fact that she sounds so sad and at one point she sounded on the verge of tears breaks me
“It’s okay, you just made a mistake.” That’s what my mom told me after I told her that I had been a victim of abuse and pedophilia.
Illy, thank you for helping me not feel so alone.
@@justaturky2890 same!
You didn’t make any mistake. Someone took advantage of you and hurt you when you were vulnerable. I’m sorry your mom wouldn’t see that, and I hope you’re doing well now
The way I went “that’s not normal?” When you said that. Wow. Uh. I am so unbelievably sorry about that for you. :(
I am so so soooooo sorry that happened that’s heartbreaking 💔
@@yd_gacha4307 i sobbed when i read this. it’s not funny or welcome at all. do you know how long it’s taken me in therapy just to try to recognize that it wasn’t all my fault? and do you know that i still struggle with that? my own mother told me that it was my fault, and the one friend i trusted told me that i should have seen the signs. and they’re right! i should have! i should have left so much earlier! thanks for reminding me that the moral of my story is that i was dumb enough to listen to a 40-something-year-old man (even though he originally told me he was 17) when i should have just ignored the idea of love. you really need to get off the internet. seriously. what is wrong with you
The worst part of this is it happened for so long and ruined her entire middle school and high school experience. This happened since she was 13. Until she was 18 how is that okay. This story hurts me worse every time I watch this
@@tacopower3578 fr fr thats sad she cant get that precious time back
Yea and she can’t just go back in time back to her childhood ig that’s what you can call it :/
Not to mention the added trauma she may carry with her to the future, all because of him
yeah thats the worst part
Coupled with the fact that, in another video, she said that she was being bullied at school
“I no longer like that part of the mall” I’m so sorry:((
so brave telling this story. I feel for you illy
When she said she did not like that part of the mall anymore.... I felt my gut contort like a spider in a death curl....
ikr..
I felt the same thing.
I didn't get that line. Does it mean, she got deflowered at the parking garage?
N-Word Killer Prolly.
I feel like I'm more disappointed and angry at the cop because it was his job to protect you. It was his responsibility to take this seriously, but he didn't. He refused to listen and condescended a very serious issue that could have turned much much worse. When people in power like him don't believe survivors of abuse, they have blood on their hands. He doesn't deserve to be a cop.
I'm scared of cops literally because of this reason, something similar happened to me
In my Country: Once a Cop, always a Cop. Your Job is to Serve an Protect the Country. Any Lawmen is not Safe in our recent Administration. Commit a Crime, you get Humiliated by the Superintendents. And either they'll take you some place dangerous or they'll arrest you.
I hope he got fired.
He should be fired
I hope the the cop and her ex dies in a hole with no one to remember them
I watched that tea video in class one day when we were talking about consent. It was really helpful and gave an easy to understand description of it.
I'm so, SO sorry you had to go through this. Just remember even though when things happen in the past, they can still affect you, and I know it's hard to forget things like this, but keep your head up. Don't let that control you.
Your biggest fan,
Tilly
"Age is just a number."
Execution is just a time limit.
911 is a number too :)
And the FBI is just a group of friends!
@@fnafgirl8874 and co-workers
And the time limit is done
OH HO! THAT GONE FROM ZERO TO A MILLON REAL QUICK!
THAT ENDING AS ME MORE ON EDGE THAN INFINITY WAR
GinjaNinjaOwO OMG I LOVE UR VIDS!
Lol
as more edgy than a SQUARE
NICE PUN ;D , wait that's i *tHiNk* a pun
Agent KETH OWO
@Agent KETH no u
Thank you so much for your bravery. We stand by you, you make us feel seen and give us hope for justice. Never keep fighting illy, we stand by you.
I'm so glad you talked about this! we actually have a lot of similarities and so I watched these videos when I was young, which taught me a lot and saved me a buncha times! thank you!
I got chills when you said "I don't like the part of the mall anymore..."😨
What does that mean. Oh wait WHAT
Feffinator she was raped in that part of the mall
“My gut was like.. GURL THIS IS WHACK” 😂😂
WACK
1:32
Why?
@@happymushroom6361 they're quoting the video
I was in a toxic relationship for 3 years
13 years old till I was 16.
And assaulted by some others at 17
I'm in my 20's now in a better place but
Sadly nobody but the people in my life believes me
The people I cutted out now doesn't believe me and it hurt me.
I cannot share my story much in public because I have no proof and having no proof...sucks
Jeez are you okay?
I am subbing you, because this isn't something people can just talk about let alone explain thr whole story. You're extremely strong for doing that. It's sad your teenage memories have this perverted ped0 monster in it so I pray the future is better than this 😄💓
"back for the chaos" >implying i ever left
That made me laugh out loud, omg
illymation glad to be of service
“Age is just a number”
So is a prison sentence 🥰
"Jail is just a place"
@@loopzys anorexia is just an eating disorder 😀✋
“Dementia is just bad memory”
@@TheCareborn Wrong..
Its just a burning memory
police negotiation is just a conversation 🤩
I hate that people go through that and anyone out there who is dealing with this stuff I am praying for you
Im glad you posted this video because it’s important to tell others about these types of things and make sure others know they’re not alone you are an awesome person ily ❤❤❤
It's still crazy how people choose to blame the person who suffered rather than the person who committed the crime
Ikr?! How can people be so stupid?
Say it louder for the people in the back
but like y is a 13 year old on the internet talking to strangers smh
@@harrythehamster72 we ain't doing this today, satan
@@harrythehamster72 And how old were you when you first used social media?
“You’re not responsible for anyone’s happiness!”
- Jaiden Animations, 2019
Some good wisdom by Jaiden to us all
But they feel really depressed- NOT PERSONALLY REASONABLE FOR ANYONE’S HAPPINESS!
But I’m Santa Claus.
Alright gray area
Uhm-
Wise words to live by
Dude, you are talking about the wrong channel.
This really helped with past trauma thank you so much you are the best
Thank you for sharing your story. ❤️
What's disgusting is that there are people out there at this very moment who are suffering from this exact kind of situation and our world puts so little stock into addressing emotional abuse and what it can do to a person now and even years in the future. The statement about you being one of the lucky ones to escape is such an understatment.
Boner
My head hurts right now I’m in a relationship I’m not abusive but I realized I do a lot of the things this guy does (minus the sexual things and such) but seriously I’m crying right now I’ve been too obsessive I’m exactly like this guy.... I need to apologize to her now I’ve made some shit choices...
You better be buffer than Mr.Clean with that attitude lmao love you illy xD
I swear I don't promote drugs kids
Lemme just update and say thanks for 777 likes lol
I don’t know why I am only watching this now. You are so brave and kind and beyond funny!! I am so happy you have the platform you do and sorry you had to go through all of this but how amazing is it that this reached so many people!! Hopefully young people can avoid this experience ❤❤❤❤❤
I’m back to tell you good job from last time! I’ll keep it short sense the other one says the same thing! Great job. Your doing amazing things by warning people :)
I just realized his hair is devil horns...
Daniel Johnson I didn’t kno
I hadn't noticed
Nice spot dude
He's not just a devil
*_He is Satan_*
Daniel Johnson ME TOO!
Just noticed Haris's hair is drawn to look like devil horns
Clever
He deserves to go to down to the under world.
Not even satan would want him
@@yasminlima2272 then where the frick we’re gonna put him!
@@derp9440 Infinity death and suffering lol
@@yasminlima2272 send him to the PURGATORY
Girl, from one abuse victim to another … here is a big long internet hug. This was a ride and took me right back to the memories of my ex… hope you’re well these days ❤
being taken advantage of is my biggest fear. I feel so bad that you had to go through this, people shouldn't have to go trough this or be worried about it happening. it's just horrible.
It’s ok, millions of people are here for you. People are here for Illymation, everyone with that fear? We’re all here.
It doesn't feel good..trust me, I would know :