My Abusive (ex) Boyfriend's "Girlfriend"
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- Опубликовано: 26 сен 2024
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Here’s proof of my story since y’all wanna doxx me over this shit. twitter.com/illymation/status/1279990200806961153?s=21
Children should not be going through this AND fellow teens AND all
People who pick apart others stories have their own troubles to worry about. I'm so sorry this has happened as some one who suffered mental abuse I know how hard it is to tell your story and have people who have nothing to do with it say that it's untrue :( I haven't seen this episode yet but I'm really glad I stumbled on your videos
Hi
yeet
trying to lighten the mood. I feel sorry 4 u.
Harris: I’m pathetic
Everyone: yes, yes you are.
John Doyle would definitely agree!
just pathetic? he is pathetic disgusting a predetor and he still plays dumb and may even be abusing another girl right now as we talk
You’re goddamn right
phineas and ferb be like: write that down
@@grim_reapepper I came up with the quote first 🙄 /j
I imagine Harris watching this and having a temper tantrum
ikr i genuinely wonder if he ever saw this video
@꧁That one boi꧂ so right boi
Harris
The big bang baby
That would be great.. ╰(*´︶`*)╯
@@miraculoustalesofobliviousness I hope he did.
I hope he sufered
THIS is what women supporting each other is.
Guest1milplayz it matter because it shows that theirs people who have each other’s back and it does matter btw so if you don’t like that deal with it
@@user-gm8mg7eq7m You actually think someone cares about you because of what gender you are?
Chris Davis I’m not talking about a gender caring about me makes it important but about it matter that people are giving you support
@@dudeman7738 What is your point buddy? People can support each other.
@Guest1milplayz You sound like a depressed teenager who is in need of support...
This really saved me illy. Thank you. I was online and this guy messaged me, he said not to tell anyone. He wanted me to send him photos if myself. I was 13. It went on for a month before i came across this series from you. And i thought to myself "Wait..this is what Harris did to her. What if this happened to someone i knew. Wait..****** is doing this to me.." i then texted the guy "Please stop texting me. This isn't okay, if you contact me or my family I will report you to the police. Leave me alone and do not ever even try to get me into your life again". And i blocked him on everything and i was free. Thank you illy..thank you for saving me
Please keep doing what you do❤❤❤
I'm glad your doing better now! ❤️
Unfathomably joy pilled comment
Good for you! I’m so glad you’re in a better place now!
I’m really proud of you for doing that ❤❤
I’m so proud of you ❤
Me to Harris: *your kneecap privileges have been revoked*
*harris wobbly knees*
Jr Telleshj
Or his life privileges should be revoked?
Get Kermit to stomp his knees backwards.
@@saneperson2 first his finger and toe priveleges, and then his shin and forearm privelges, and then his arm and leg priveleges, and then his eye priveleges, and his ear priveleges and finally his torso privelges
I’m really happy to hear that Holly and Kit are engaged now :)
They are, howd u find out
Yayyyy happy ending
k..
Really?! I didn't know
ik aww
God, he sounds like a freak. "It's in my nature?" Bish GET OUTTA HERE
Alex Animation Corner sounds like he's legal cannibal meat to me.
Mood
Yeah that's classic manipulator bullshit
Omah its alex!
Hey Alex! Love your videos!
I just noticed that they were in the autism video, it's good to see that you guys still remained friends. People brought together over a common hatred/bad blood over a person can make the best friendships.
I didn't notice. Where were they?
Nothing unites people like a common enemy.
@@selenahopeofficial she's the girl mentioned that helped ilisa with her self diagnosis
“I’m nervous because....”
“WhY aRe yOU neRvOus?!?!”
"holds camera to face"
I live for this kind of content. Women standing together and salting about a garbage boi.
Let me guess. any pomegranate to your people? Lol
How about saying "people" instead of women. Nothing against word choice but it has the same strong impact and wont tick people off
Jeremiah
I mean, in this video there's literally two women and a garbage boi, so I understand why OP said that lol
Yeah it was just a suggestion.
this screams man hater
Next episode: We 👏 shipped 👏 Haris 👏 to 👏 a 👏 deserted 👏 island 👏 to 👏 die 👏 alone 👏
Or we sent Harris to the trash island his home
With Apolo from lore Olympus
What did that deserted island do to deserve that :d
YAYAYAYAY
Damn why you putting him on an island with a bunch of innocent animals he is going to abuse him but idk if he bullies that raccoon he keeps demanding me for money
You know... My abuser showed me the first part of your story with your ex. He must have thought he was a "good guy" because he thought I wouldn't make the connection that my abuser and Haris were similar in demanding things with a victim complex. It took a few more years before I cut him out of my life completely after that. I didn't cut him out before because he'd always play the victim and claim that "I wanted him to do it" in our cuddles. Meanwhile I was just treating him like I would a lady friend because ladies are more affectionate in friendships than boys are.
I had mental issues and PTSD that I was refusing to acknowledge. It took too long that what he was doing in our cuddles was wrong. Sometimes I wonder if I actually wanted to cuddle him.
Due to my non-acknowledged mental issues and PTSD I let him go past my boundaries. I dissociated.
I told him that what he's doing is wrong and how dare he crossed my boundaries. At the time I didn't know that I had mantal issues, so I didn't have an explanation of why he should back off.
He demanded an explanation and even dropped hints that he could hurt himself by telling me that he knew where his dad's gun was. He'd purposely drive close to the seawall edge that was bordered by a flimsy cable line just to see my reaction. He knew I was afraid of water even if I didn't tell him. He knew. He knew he knew.
He still doesn't know about my confirmed PTSD symptoms. But I had a feeling that he did even if he didn't know the proper term for it.
He knew I couldn't trust men because of the evil men that were in my life in the past.
He knew that I valued my family more than I valued him.
He knew I could snap him like a twig if I so badly wanted to.
So he played victim.
Cue 7 years of wasted time.
But what wasn't a waste for the last of those 3 years in the 7 years was when he mistakenly introduced me to my future wife.
We cut him out completely and I'm still trying to accept that it happened. I want to forget my time with him, but it happened when I was trying to figure out my identity and what it was going to be for the rest of my life.
He wasted my time, that's for sure.
But he didn't waste that I had reasons to cut him out.
Im so happy that you managed to get out of such a horrible situation and that you cut him off
Im so happy for you... i wish i was that brave...
@@urlocallizardboi you can be!!!! sending love and light and courage to you!
@@urlocallizardboi Know that if you are going through anything you can always search up videos like this or just on Google ways that might be able to help your situation
I know it might seem stupid but find EVERY source you can to get you out of a situation that might be dangerous, there is always a way to get you out safely you would just have to find it
I believe in you!
(Of course all of this is assuming that you're going through that kind of situation now but better safe than sorry if I can help someone then it'll be worth it in exchange for maybe being embarrassed that I kind of assumed a lot)
@@urlocallizardboi you ok
*talking about their cute relationship*
“this is illy’s first crepe”
“she liked it”
hi im emma I cannot like. It’s at 669. So I shall say nice and say good day to you mrs.
I think what makes this so great is she's outed Haris to millions of people and he's sure to know about it by now, and the guy is probably shitting himself every time she makes a video telling the world what a monster he is.
@@esmel.4312 He lacks the human attributes of empathy and sympathy. Like all monsters, his body is human, but he is monstrous nonetheless.
Ok I get it Harris was a awful guy but you don't have to say you want to kill him while he sleeps or something along the lines like that
@@meaballmeat no one ever said that.....
The second someone finds and releases this dudes stuff. He’s going to just be destroyed.
He'll be twisting in torment in Sheol.
“Age is just a number.”
So is an execution date.
So is the serial number on my Glock 17.
So is ak *47*
the numbers Mason. What do they mean?
So as the bombs coming at this Harris's house
So is 911
Jail is just a room
Court is just a conversation
i remember watching this series when i was younger. months or years later, a strange guy dmed me on facebook asking me to be his girlfriend when he was 21 and I was 9. because of your video, i knew what to do; i blocked him. because of your video, you saved me from going through the same situation.
Hey… idk you and you don’t know me, but I’m honestly proud of you for doing this. You did the right thing.
You were 9?! That guy should be reported to the police if you can find the right information.
Men can be terrible your so lucky you didn’t have to go down that path.
Respect❤
Me: *realizes that Haris could be abusing another girl right now*
Me: "hackers, do your thing and find him, lets take him down"
Anora seriously needs more likes, I’ve got a hacker friend if ya want
I can’t get in contact with him the easiest yet because I go and visit him but now Corona is here and I can’t travel across seas, now my only way of contact is through roblox chat lol
@@ibtyx1 please tell him to take Harris down
i could do it, but i need and email addres or profile so i can get the ip and use it to get his location when he decides to use his computer then confirm that is him and then just call vladimir
*anon has entered the chat*
Illy: WHOS HERE FOR THE CHAOS?
Kitt and Holly: WE'RE HERE FOR THE CHAOS
And for a stake burning!
@Adolf Hitler LoK reference?
@@rainbowangel5264 Looks like it.
The dog is there for the chaos to
My stalker story:
So in my 1st year of college, this guy names James once interjected himself into a conversation about the controversy regarding the Starbucks holiday cups. It was friendly, no biggie, the more the merrier, it was normal. Then he would come find me and study with me in the library. We would talk every so often and then we went for a quick walk in between classes and I showed him my favorite spot. Well, he surprise kissed me and I was super uncomfortable. I told him I wasn't interested but at that point he had my Snapchat. He would follow me around campus and take photos of me around the campus and send them to me. After a month, I caught him doing it and I got in his face. He was basically a twig like Harris. I threatened to break his neck and smear his face on the pavement if he ever contacts me again.
Aggressive, I know. But entirely necessary.
Threatening someone like that is entirely justified.
@@drmosaratak Only if he comes within a half mile of them. When that happens, GO FOR THE EYES!
Foe Kaiser , YEP , Or TORTURE , RIP out his nails , Gouge out his eyes , etc
see that threat sounds like something i would do to someone like that, so props to you. i hope he gets a kick in the balls for that shit-ass behaviour
GO OFF SIS
Two victims who barely knew each other coming together and talking and acting like old friends.
Popping in to say, Holly and Kitt and Wolfie and I are still wonderful friends to this day. We’re closer than ever- I swear they’re my found family! When it’s safe to travel (it’s currently Quarantine 2020) I’ll be visiting Kitt in Canada and vlogging a little update video :)
illymation yay I think we’re all happy to hear that
very happy to hear that
That makes me all kinds of happy
Bruh i just watched this vid and fojnd this comment
@c o l d h o n e y saame
"I'm nervous."
"Why are you nervous?"
"I'm nervous because like...... WhY arE YoU nERvoUs?!?"
Lol so relatable
Joey The Logboy that was so cute my heart meltet, she’s soooo lovely
Lea She is pretty cool but she reminds me of someone I don't like.
Next episode: Reuniting with Harris and destroying his entire being
Yes lets go
Please
Count me in
I'll be the emergency sniper in case he tries to do some very questionable things
Gang up on him and beat him with broomsticks like a gang of witches.
“Nothing unites two women more than a shared hatred of a man.” -(I don’t remember where I heard that)
Also I love kitt and holly’s dynamic ☺️🥺
Henry Rollins
same in inverse
That line disgusts me so much. Misandry is a serious problem. Wish I could share my hatred for females with other men.
OMG THE ANIMATION IS SO GOOD IT LOOKS LIKE REAL LIFE, HOW TF
I love your pfp
OMG ikr
Yeah I animated this video
Lol
But this is real life!!!! :(
(This is a joke tho)
R/whoosh
Hey Illy, I don’t know if you saw this, but you SAVED me from something like this. The person told me not to tell my family or friends, and my mind clicked to this, and I immediately blocked him on insta and logged off. Thank you for sharing your story! Luv’ ya!
I was much older, but I had an online stalker that begged me not to block him. He had other girls who blocked him (he was creepy and he had mental problems) and you could tell he was getting desperate...I had to set my status to invisible on all the platforms we were friends. I finally had enough of the torment he was putting me through and I blocked him (he unanimously sent me a f*** you message after), it was soooo freeing. I am so glad that you got through yours too♡
I’m happy for you!
Be careful.
Glad you were saved from that nightmare it’s horrible to see it happen to people
I'm so glad!! I will give a virtual hug!!! :3
Harris? More like HARASS.
This comment is so underrated. 😂
Underrated comment alert!🚨 *beep beeep beeeep BEEP BEEEEEEEEP*
LOL 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Got em 👌
Lmfao
“Age is just a number”
So is 911
so is the years in jail!!
This is my favorite comeback
And 8 5 12 12 translate this
Haris probably took a shower of shame after he JUST GOT EXPOSED IN 3 VIDEOS.
I liked because he doesn't deserve a sixty nine
Nah, nah, he got his ass crucified by his town after they watched the first video.
Ok
Oooooooooooohhhhhhhhhhhh
More like he litterally jumped off the face of the earth and landed in the sun and also got dam scoop by baby from fnaf sister location.
Hey whoever commented “next episode: we jumped haris” like two years ago you’re valid and I love you
Lmao
“(NOT CLICKBAIT) (IN THE HOOD) (2017 VINE COMPILATION)”
Then we should them our knife collection we even showed him how it worked
Everyone find him and
Execute order 66
Do you have guns and or girl costumes
@@Mr_D0T_ I’d bring my good lightsaber!
Next video:Hitting Harris with a broom
Edit: OMG GUYS 1K THANK YOU SO MUCH
More like thanos killed harris after i default danced on him
Killing*
Next video: throwing harris to Pluto
you mean a belt XD
LANDMASTERR there is nothing wrong with being gay
Fun fact: the slash and comas were morse code and translating it would give you:HSE#5
If u fix the scrambles and then translate it into leet you get something like haris
Oh my god, thats...so creepy
I thought it might have been morse code but i was to lazy to actually check
@Maria Malkasisn
Np because the game theorist are always here to over analyze everything!
@@Itdjutnnbddug haha thanks lmao
2:45 I fricking love how the dog is just sitting there, hedgehog in mouth, staring at nothing
Music Mage why is that me but instead of a hedgehog it’s food 🍭
me
Me
The hedgehog is the dogs pray once the hedgehog has sat their for enough the dog shall bite the hedgehog killing it then eat it's meat.
Ramses production you must be fun at parties
*“ALRIGHT WHOS HERE FOR THE CHAOS!”*
IM. HERE. FOR. THE. CHAOSSS.
Yay CHAOS
I SAID WHOS. BACK. FOR. THE CHAOSSSSS.
IM. BACK. FOR. THE. CHAO-.
O-ok
Sophia Rogers 666 like lol
*purple frog jumps at you*
*I’M BACK FOR THE CHAOS*
👏 GOD BLESS
Lol ME TOOO
One of my friends pic for her contact photo is ur photo
Chelsea McCain w-whoa
IM BACK FOR THE CHAOS!
This is so sad bc I feel like he found his perfect target. Someone who struggled mentally & was venerable to these kinds of things & he knew it. Problem is no one else would understand bc they weren’t the target he was looking for.
Also, women supporting women is one of my favorite things in the whole world
Don’t care
That doesnt even make sense. Women support women milions of times a day across the world today and across history. You sound like if its some cutting edge inovation and a rare sight to behold.
KNOW ONE CARES BBBBBBBIIIIIIIIIIIIITTTTTTTTTTTCCCCCCCCCCCCCCCHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
Why is everyone so mean. Yes, women supporting women will always be beautiful.
Joshua Griffiths Obviously you said since you replied.
*Next video: torturing haris with sprite cranberry part 1*
THE ANSWER IS CLEEEEAR
IT'S THE THIRST, THIRSTIEST TIME OF THE YEARR
*WaNnA SpRiTe cRaNbErRy¿*
*Wanna Sprite Cramberry?*
Glitchy Jelly sprite cranberry!?
What is this beautiful drink!?
For anyone reading: If this video made you feel like you might be in an abusive relationship, but you're doubting it because "its not as bad as this," LISTEN to your gut. Abuse comes in many forms and severity. Take care of yourself before it gets worse. Don't put up with someone who isn't good to you. Stay strong.
Courtney Danelle Great Advice!
Always trust your intuition. It's the best advice that anybody could give.
many thanks and for the advice
Ok??
@@thevscopeppapig5398 what?
The scary thing is he could still be abusing other girls, or even stalking you without you knowing-
Im in argentina and i am a male, no way hes stalking me
if illy releases harris' full name and address this guy will not survive the next 24 hours.
I give him 1 hour tops
@@ashetoashesjc6879 that's nothing he has 10 minutes max
Lmao then she would be the one actually in trouble with the police
He'll be hunted down
you could just make his life hell forever. saran wrap his car everyday. replace every item in his fridge with a Sprite Cranberry.
“This is just my nature”
“No, this is a choice.”
I liked the video immediately at that part. So proud of these girls for knowing better 👏🏻💕
666 likes
Thanks for sharing your story. I really appreciate how open and honest you are.
The fact that Kati Morton saw this vid >>>> Would love some more videos about this Kati!!!
666
Yess Kati, coming in with the support
I'm now terrified of guys 15 and up
Nothing's happened to me but what if it does? What if I can't tell people being genuine from being minipulative.. What if I can't trust anybody older than me anymore?
@Eos Zelich yes she is
This needs to be on TLC or something. I feel like people should know about your story. Especially teenage girls. This is so drama and heartbreaking.
I admire both of you. It takes strength to openly talk about the toxic people and events in our lives but what you're doing will help a lot of people realize their circumstance are not healthy and not their fault.
@Republica Austriaca please stfu I promise you this is hard for her to get out and shes not saying for views.
@Republica Austriaca I pretty sure she implied that he had raped he saying she had said no and he did something anyways. Do you wanna hear a rapists side of the story? Because I sure dont care what it is
@Republica Austriaca I don't think so. This is very serious and this happens to innocent children,teens,& adults too!
I don't think it's for views & likes.
Really. This is serious.😟
@Republica Austriaca okay...
1) no. I honestly doubt she's lying about all of this just for views and followers. It's honestly sick how some people's response to people talking about the abuse they went through is to automatically not believe them or think they're doing it for attention. Why do you think that anyway? Does she have to be completely broken, terrified, and sobbing uncontrollably to actually be a victim? Different people cope with trauma differently.
2) even if there's a small chance she is lying or exaggerating... I don't care all that much because this story rings true to a lot of people. People have been there. Children have been groomed and manipulated by emotionally abusive assholes on the internet. People need to know and be aware of the signs and know that it's not their fault if they didn't see the red flags in the beginning. These videos are important to victims who need support or to prevent this from happening to someone else. If you can't see that or are just too hateful to acknowledge it I dont know what to tell you.
@Republica Austriaca Yes, doubts are natural but she has shown evidence in the past episodes, also the fact that these women can testify that same/similar things happened gives evidence to his character.
No one:
The comment section: *"1 like = 1 punch for Harris 😩✌️"*
@RAGE INTERNET!!! I can see where you would draw that conclusion, but having people that are very close to me having gone through something fairly similar, I do think that some people are like that for no reason whatsoever. I wish you the best in life. 🙂
Wtf are y'all talking about
RAGE INTERNET!!! Nobody gives a shit what “he has gone through” now you just sound like you are giving sympathy for him! It doesn’t matter what he has gone through, what he did to Illy and maybe what he is still doing to girls is disgusting, appalling, and all out fucking wrong. PERIOD! He deserves to be beaten, to be locked up, to be thrown away like garbage because that’s all he is. Straight garbage.
im high man i haven’t any idea but what I think is happening is RAGE INTERNET! Thinks that what Harris is doing just MiGhT bE oK depending on WhAt He HaS gOnE tHrOuGh. THAT DOESNT MATTER. HE SHOULD STILL BE BETTER THAN THE PEICE OF SHIT HE IS NO MATTER WHAT
harris is a shitty person but these people aren't doing shit either. they're just using a serious situation that happens to many people (some of which don't even tell a soul) for youtube likes, instead of sharing and spreading awareness.
The 16 dislikes are from Harris’s fake accounts
So true
in half an hour, it's now 116 dislikes..
I would be not surprised if Harris really watched this.
Or people who want her to do animations and stop milking the abusive relationship thing for views
It's 107
this series very helped me illy
i was sexually abused by my 14 year old cousin and i was 10 ... thats all i what to say about it. Thank you illy.
im so sorry…i love you
Thanks Emily love you too
im so sorry luv must be so tramatic i hope you get better darling (i call everone darling dw)
Skin you cousin
I'm so sorry. I'm only 11, nearly twelve now. I can't believe that.
*PROTECT THESE GIRLS.*
I don't think this one needs protection, with her vids she destroyed him more than I could have done with my fists 😂
*SAY IT LOUDERRRRRRRRR*
Brad DeVoir *tRigGErEd*
@Brad DeVoir but the original commenter meant protect these amazing girls from that awful man
*suspicious reloading sounds of many guns*
Harris: exists
Literally everyone with a brain stem: your free trial of life has ended
@Sparer Yahya ooh you drive a hard bargain there buddy. It depends on how much he pays us
You need more likes
@@shaquille.oatmeal838 lemons need more likes, they have been working hard this year
@@petahgriff7196 shits that soppused to mean
@@shaquille.oatmeal838 don't you think that lemons have been doing a good job this year?
I wonder if harris will see any of these videos.
Scary thought.
🤔 I wonder as well
I bet he will. Would if his parents saw it too????
Yeah, scary for him cause there's thousands of people waiting to shove a knife so far up his ass he can taste it.
What if i'm Haris ;) hehe
@@weebleflufflycakes7238 knifes are way to causal where's the fun in that -joker
It genuinely breaks my heart to see pictures of Illy from the past and see how drained she looks... I know that feeling all too well and im glad you made it out okay.
Illy I just want to thank you. Up until yesterday I was in a toxic relationship that was killing me. I'm 15 and a guy, I've been dating this girl for about a year and a bit and she was nice at first and just got me to like her. After that it all went down hill, she only wanted me spending time with her, she forced me to cut all my social ties with friends and family by threatening to self harm or commit suicide and that scared me so so much. I don't want to be a cause of pain in anyone's life, she just kept making me a mindless drone. She controlled everything I did and I wanted to say something but I didn't want her to hurt herself. I guess in a way it was kindve like what you went through. I stopped sleeping, stopped eating, I would have no energy left from just laying in bed and it was all sapped by her. I'm so glad that I found these 3 videos because they gave me the strength and courage to finally tell her how she makes me feel and end it with her. This was yesterday and she's still sending me messages about her self harming but I know I did the same right thing. I know it doesn't happen to guys as much so I always thought I was crazy. Thank you again.
EDIT: Holy wow I really wasn't expecting all the support and likes on this comment 😅 I really appreciate every single one of you and just all the love is making me tear up haha. It's been a short while, I have blocked her and am talking to specialists who are helping me through. This isn't really about me though, I'm one of the lucky ones who managed to find a way out, there are so many people who still need help and just can't seek it. Illy put it best and I'm still eternally thankful to her and everyone who's here for me 😊
Patrikas D Congratulations! I‘m 100% sure you did the right thing if she made you feel and act this way!
And the fact that this happens to girls more often doesn‘t make your experience less valid. Every gender can be predator or victim.
Good luck mate! You will find someone who loves you for you❤️
I agree with gnomesie
Please stay away from her. Im only in middle school an cannot say that I "know how you feel" because frankly, that would be B.S
There are many people who may want to harm you and I really hope that you keep on going strong.
Edit: Good luck m8
@gnomesie caramel I don't know man, she's sent me a couple videos of her arm cut open bleeding into a sink full of water with cations like, "thanks" and "you did this" and that's mostly what was forcing me to stay.
Tell an adult about this. Please. Whoever this may be,a parent,friend, teacher, just let somebody know.
And stay strong! Stay. Strong. Don't let her manipulate you again.
@@ambientdeepsleep4741 +block her on social media. Trust me. I've had same situation but with a 35 yo man when I was 18. We werent even together, we were friends,but he brainwashed me to say eveything wrong in his life was my fault. All ended when I blocked his number. I healed couple of months, but if it wasnt for my blocking his number, who knows what would have happened to me......
This animation looks realistic damn
ICubixZed Lol 😂
I know right it’s so realistic it’s amazing!!
ICubixZed eh I still think it's needs some work
I know right. I wonder how long it took to make this
This is art
I wonder if Harris watches these videos about him and is all like "I knoooow, I suuuuck, I'm a terrible persoooon, it's just my natuuuure."
Bet he does tbh
He probably watches them and says to himself "it's their fault" Bc bitches are like that
He’s probably thinking something typical shitty person like “URGH damn, it’s their fault I’m like thiiiisss. The world is shiiiiit and doesn’t deserve meeeee.”
He's probably a redpiller 🤮
I hope someone actually stood up to him and said ‘kill urself? Ok! Go ahead’ 😭
I love how women can connect over a hatred for a vile man. I speak from experience. Illy, your seriously inspirational.
I was sexually abused by my older brother and he is now in jail awaiting trial and I have a small time gap to get over it just enough to face him again.
It hurts cause I trusted him.
Thank you for reading and even caring in the first place
Edit: thanks everyone for the love and support it means a lot to me :'>
I’m so sorry that happened to you. I love you so so much you’re so strong. :(
I hope everything goes okay and I hope he faces his punishment
Did he face his punishment? It must of been horrible, I’m so sorry
I was physically abused by my brother. I'm sorry.
Ooof poor u ;-;
This series actually helped me realize I was in a toxic and abusive relationship and I actually went to one of the links you provided. Doing so really really helped me and I'm so glad it did. I was able to get out of the relationship I was in and now I'm feeling so much better. I know these videos cover a really serious topic that's not usually easy to talk about, but thank you for sharing it. It helped me a lot.
Me too it helped me realize i was in a abusive relationship im 13 hes 16 and i was blind but this helped alot
I love your profile pic link is amazing
I hope you’re in a better place now.
Mustafa Mohamed omg true lmao
@@Tickets2mykells I prefer young link
Can we talk about how absolutely *GORGEOUS* Holly is? I love her style :)
Lexi also illy
Tots Mcgoats
I would love to pull off her style
Her hair is so smooth
She's taken , but I'll admit.....*She so Bootiful OMG*
For the past 2 months I've been hyperfocusing on story time animators. I've probably watched hundreds of hours of different creators, and have devoured the Voice Chat podcast.
And after all of that I can honsetly say... This trilogy is the best thing I've seen so far, amazing work!
I hope haris sees this series.
That'd be pretty dangerous for illy, her friends, her family, and her boyfriend. It's best if he never sees this.
Elliot's Sloppy Comics but now she’s got a whole army to defend her
Ash C yeah but still, Haris is a real bean bag
as much as I'd love to see his soul be crushed by this series, he'd likely just get super weird about her again and try to reconnect with or threaten her if he saw this😥 (or maybe just not say anything so that nobody would recognize him)
I don't he might get crazy and go after them
We are going to sit down *ShANE DAWson StylE*
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The best way to do it
Omg I just got the CHILLS
Heck ye
Red X ?
I'll say it every time I hear a story like this: dear underage girls, that 20-something boy does NOT care about you, he does not love you, he wants someone that's easy to control and too naive to know when their being abused. I know how alluring and interesting it seems to date an older guy when your that young, but it's not worth it.
Abby Nicole not everyone is like that. Sadly, a lot of older guys pray on weak minds. Age does not define strength or weakness.
Only as I grow older do I realise how easy to manipulate young girls are. I look back now and I realise how many girls I was aware of who were getting attention from older guys and were complete putty in their hands. Sending photos, doing sexual things because they felt they had to keep up with an older guy and trusted that he knew more about whats normal in a relationship.
Seriously, stay away form older guys as long as you can. If you meet someone who's awesome when your 25, thats fine, but when you are young and inexperienced you are vunerable and there are so many creeps who want to be with you for that exact reason. They want a girl who won't argue or question then. They seek younger girls because they don't want to deal with women their own age.
Also for freshmen/sophomores, seniors that are interested in you aren't that cool, 9 times out of ten there's something wrong with them and that's the whole reason they can't find someone their age. You'll also see how creepy their interest in you was when you become a senior and realize freshmen look suuuuper young
@@fvckinkys9439 the not everyone argument is unnecessary and entirely unhelpful in this situation. You're helping predators find their prey
The reason this 20 something year old is dating an underage girl isn't because she's mature, it's because other girls his age don't want to date him. Please keep yourselves safe everyone~
I’m just scared for whoever is his target now, he’s clearly got a pattern of behaviour. I hope you are able to help others with this series
"It's just my nature"
My abuser said that when she threatened her life, blackmail, and physically harmed me and my friends. "It's in my blood, It's fine because I was born this way."
Hope you are doing better now
You need more love. I'm sending you a digital hug! (Mask included) 😊🤗🙂💖💖💖💕💕💕🙃
Here is a virtual hug dude, you might need it
Been there and im glad it was 15 years ago for me tho i still remember vividly but im sorry you went through that i hope it gets better and that youre out of that or can get help out
exactly!!!! she hurt me mentally and physically, she literally punched me like a billion times. it's crazy how i trusted her. sending hugs to you *ill wear my mask and gloves too!*
I'm so proud of you and everything that you do. I hope this video helps open up conversations about this, because it's a lot more common than people realize.
Thank you Illy! ❤
Hey I like your Yt channel plz shout me out just because xD Idk I just wanna shout out
How's that grape juice SULTAN
SULTAAAAANNNNNNN!!!!!
Hi i watch you ❤️🔥
@@8hundred790 oh my god yeah how's the grape juice
This animation looks so smooth
Zanken ITs a VideO nOt aN aNImaTioN
Loganimations it's a FuCKing joKE
Loganimations r/wooosh
Kikikikiki
jj gambino your joking right?
Victim blaming is probably the dumbest reaction you can have towards someone who is or has been in a situation like this
Next video: *Hitting haris with a tv antenna*
ALL THE LIKES THAT FAST?! THANK YOUU!
Why do that when you can just hit him with the entire TV? 👌🏼
@@LyricalMiracle9608 tv antenna can be more stabby\pokey
Why use an intena when you can use a sword?
Next video: *Holly holds Harris down while I punch*
@@Swissbiscuit12 duller, more satisfying to inflict pain with a duller weapon. (I swear, I'm no creep, I just read and write a lot)
*_shane dawson has entered the chat_*
Che eto *the DARK side of jake PAUL has left the chat*
Che eto *shane dawson has left the chat*
YASS
Illymation: *Talks about very serious problems*
Me: Yeah, but look at the dog.
Sounds like jaidenanimations with the crab
@@lookmomnohands0391 odd reference but I KNOW IT so I'm proud of myself
Relatable
But look at that FLOOR
It's a Shiloh!
That hug at the end speaks miles. I've been through some crap in relationships but damn. Much love to all.
The dislikes are just Haris from different accounts!
Fax
Harris: YOU FOOL, I HAVE 70 DIFFERENT ACCOUNTS!
Harris: you fool I have 1,000,000 different accounts
Honestly, he sounds like such a petty and pathetic person that I can actually believe him making thousands of accounts to dislike.
True
D R A G H I M
awful edgy username thats also obnoxiously long I like ur username
Lol
@@awesometruth6 your name is fucking inspired i love it
by fall out boy
B R E A K H I M
This is very sweet. It can be easy to feel mentally trapped even after escaping the worst parts of your life. I think those little asides in this video (the cute wall art, good food or a cute fluffy doggy) are important. There is plenty of life and happiness to have on the other side of those days. 🌺
Hello Curio, I like your videos. When is the next video out?
@@rtcitizen The Dumbest Things About Gotham part 2? I'm not sure I haven't been doing this long enough to accurately guess how long it would take. I've already recorded the audio for Gotham part 2, it's about as long as part 1, so maybe around New Years? Thanks!
I’m glad you’ve decided to use Harris’s name in these videos, after all off the absolut Bullshit he did to you, he doesn’t deserve the privacy you give to all of the other people you mention on this channel.
Yeah we need to find out his last name so we can stalk him and have revenge
@@jennifershepherd2921had the same thought😅
*IVE BEEN WAITING FOREVER FOR THIS*
same!
Yeah.
_the _*_sad_*_ thing is, that there are _*_still_*_ people like that _*_out there._*
I just stopped dating a guy like that lmao
so true.. :(
m1kaela vea :v bad ideas and bad people never die
*_URSS anthem sound in the background_*
@@queenbre7406 how long were you dating him for?
Hey how do u do italics I can do *bold*
Your “How I Met” and “How I Left” videos have been constantly popping up in my suggested videos, so I finally watched all of these. I have sisters who have faced abuse, and watching these types of things always gets me so emotional. Every time I see or meet another girl who has survived something like this, I see the faces of the women I love and hold so close to my heart. And I see the men that abused them. My sisters are ten years older than me. I look up to them so much. Their ability to live through hell has prevented me from having to face it. Your ability to live, and tell your story, and keep going, it’s going to help so many young girls. Putting this out there and telling people “This isn’t right, if they do this it’s not your fault, this is abuse, etc.” could potentially save so many people from having to live through something like this. I once read that if you throw a frog into boiling water, it will jump out. But if you put a frog in cold water, and slowly heat it, it won’t register the change, and it will stay in the boiling water until it dies. And I think that’s a great example of abuse. I know so many women that were abused who only found a way out and realized they needed to leave because they feared they’d be killed if they stayed. It’s hard to recognize abuse when the abuser starts off so normal.
Thank you for being so brave. Thank you for trying to help others. It shows that you have a truly beautiful soul that you were willing to relive something so awful in the hopes of educating and assisting people who watch you. I hope the rest of your life is blessed, I hope you never have to suffer through nightmares again (I know that often they can last lifetimes), I hope your trust in others is restored, I hope that whenever something bad comes your way you will find something good. 💖
this kept popping up in my feed too! I finally broke down and watched it, and i'm so glad i did. i knew it was probably going to be a hard watch, but it does need to be discussed, doesn't it?
Jessica W It most definitely does!
God bless your soul @Mason Patricia
Mason Patricia why so long 😭🥺🥺🥺😢
Wow the example you chose with the frog in boiling water is so smart
And ye same this kept popping up in my recomended now that I've watched it i might just study to be a police... so that i can help young people who are turned away
I've gotten a little older since the last time I watched this series and wanted to say;
Due to helping other friends through trauma and situations like this and helping them stop anything that starts, after seeing how many people are like this each time I hear one of the abusers say "if they don't keep talking I'll kill myself" "if they don't keep talking and answering I'm going to jump off a bridge" half of my brain is immediately sympathetic and supportive towards my friend, but the other half just has the immediate reaction of "do it then".
I'd never say it of course, and I deeply apologize for saying I wish the death of another human but when it comes to people I care about and love like family having to deal with these awful creeps... I can't help but want them to rot in the most slow, painful way humanly imaginable.
Edit: Spelling errors
Don’t be sorry for calling their bluff (when it comes to them harming themselves, at least)
Don't feel bad. When I watched the first video, 0:57 in there's a screenshot of this scumbag doing that and my immediate respone in my head was 'Go on then." 😏
I'm fortunate enough not to have experienced this kind of thing myself, but that tactic is a common one. You're human, it's ok to react negatively to someone being a piece of shit.
i was actually in a relationship like this before, maybe 1 or 2 years ago. the relationship happened completely in real life. i’m a male and it was a girl abusing me saying she would cut herself on her wrists and other parts of her body that most people wouldn’t be able to see if i didn’t text back, and occasionally she would. it’s sad to see that there are other people like haris out there, who abuse people like us into doing exactly what they want
Everyone deserves better you deserved better luckily I never had this happen to me
I know your pain.. Had that happen to me too. Sorry to hear!
Well I would say, just let her do it, let her cut herself. But I also know how it’s like to have this happen, like if you only like the person even a bit, you normally wouldn’t want them to be hurt, or feel sad for them if they are sad (about you not wanting a relationship) and wanna „help“ them by just accepting it, you are accepting your own bad for the person to feel better and that shouldn’t happen. Care about yourself first and then about others
I would let her cut it’s her choice not mine
Die Lachmöwe i’m one of those people that really cares about what other people think about me and i was really scarred that others would call me names or something if i let her do it
PART 4 Ex abusive boyfriend finally goes to jail ;)
PART 5 Everyone else but abusive boyfriend lives happily ever after
Sadly due to the context of her situation it is very unlikely for Harris to get arrested.
Sad Plant yes
Sad Plant please
Sad Plant yes yes yes so
I have been in a abusive relationship with a 17 year old , and I didn't know it was one. He would do the same thing Harris did, he did it for three years, those three years I lost to him. But I "broke up" with him, because of your videos the gave me the courage to do it. Thank you so much for making the videos, if you didn't I would have still been with him. And again thank you
you got this
Stay strong
i don't want this to sound creepy but if you ever need to talk to someone head to discord and I'm more than willing to help you or anyone, I'm looking for new friends everyday, and it hurts me that people would do something like this to innocent people. (if you know what I mean) you do not have to but I have plenty of time and I'd love to help, also before someone comments on my profile picture it's only there because of a joke with friends lmao, but in all seriousness here's my discord and if you ever need to talk or if anyone is needing to talk to someone I'm here. Stay strong and don't give up. яαιивσω∂αѕн#0564 Also, I subbed to your youtube channel because I saw your oc video and it's pretty good. take care!
Much love and support
✌
I remember watching this series a few years ago and feeling really sympathetic. When you look at stories of abuse you never think that it could happen to you, but I didn't know I'd be stuck in a similar situation only a couple years after I saw these. Of course at the time I didn't think my issues were that big of a deal, and I didn't think my relationship was all that bad, but especially after breaking up and rewatching this series I realize how wrong my ex was. We've been broken up for about a year now and it's like a huge weight off my chest, but I also wish I could've seen what was happening sooner. It's reassuring to hear someone's story when it's so similar to your own
This is how women should be supporting each other instead of fighting over a man. 💪🏽
THISSSSSSSSSS! 🙌🏾
Its at 199, what have I done
frIckin hell yeah
@@milaschweisthal7772 yes, many people forget that men get abused too. Let's all stay together and defeat those predators!
Yes this is why I don't want I don't to date anyone because of people like Harris
Guys, sharing this man's first name isn't encroaching on his privacy *at all.* Raping someone is encroaching on privacy, saying a first name is not. If people are close to Harris and could figure out who they mean, so be it. They deserve to know what he's like. As if this guy deserves any privacy anyway smh
because punishment without trial is something I guess you support, lol
Frankly I'd say he deserves to be hospitalized, but you dont beat a mad dog. You just put it down.
@@instakittylover3706 innocent until proven guilty
insta musiclover69 that’s a little too far...
Tru tru
this series is so important. i was groomed by an adult man on tumblr at age 12 and my abuser abused and trafficked me until i was 14 and i told the police. people dont understand how these things happen and i felt so guilty even though i was a CHILD. it has taken me years (im 17, almost 18 today) to learn to cope with what happened. i hope you are continuing on the road to recovery.
edit: this man is incarcerated for 15 years for production of child pornography. i do not believe i will ever feel like justice is served.
edit 2.0: if you or someone you know is being victimized by a sexual predator on the internet please contact ICAC (internet crimes against children). they are an amazing federal organization who specialize in cases like this. they really do save lives and strive for justice. also SPEAK UP!!! the worst thing you can do is allow these monsters to roam free. i know how hard it is, but it is worth it.
Hayden Craig he deserves 50 years!
Not trying to downplay what happened to you and what happened is obviously horrible and the man deserves the sentence but why were you on tumblr? Most 12 year olds now don't really go on tumblr just a question of curiosity no hate intended
@@raphaelj2541 kids on the internet will just...discover the internet, because its there and they can access it. i was on the web when i was 10. and trust theres.....a load of 12 year olds on tumblr. 12 year old everywhere for a matter of fact
I'm here if you need to talk or vent
Morry's Illusion I mean i was on the internet when i was 7 so it does really go to show that it is so concerning that there are both adults and children on the web, especially since you don’t know the intentions of people on the internet or who they are.
I love that Harris was very poorly animated to show how much he was despised during the whole series.
Alex clark: The baby sitter story is going to be the best story by an animator
Illymation:hold my ex
*her ex:* half torn apart with some limbs burning in a volcano
“ You can keep him... “
Sooubway is still unbeatable tho
Illy: Hold the dumb baby
“And then throw him in a lava pit”
I know Illy doesn't want a witch hunt towards this guy...buuuut
*HE FRICKIN DESERVES IT*
True
olivia tella I mean like we shouldn’t go after him but also FUCK HIM UP!
We need to punish Harris for hurting our smol bean
@@redre8213 both
If she actually releases a pic of him then maybe just maybe he could be tracked down with all the info we have
Men, we need to step up, speak out against sexual abuse, and listen to the victims.
Sexual abusers aren't people
U r a good person
But men aren’t always the abusers it goes both ways
Daniel Monroe Thank you.
GoFundme thank you, finally someone said it. Men aren’t always the abusers in scenarios like this, sometimes its flip-flopped and women can abuse men as well. They could groom or abuse them sexually, mentally, or physically.
Here’s my story:
When I was 6 or 7, I moved into an apartment complex. I met this girl who I ended up becoming SUPER close friends with. One day, we were walking over to do laundry and she pushed me into a bathroom. (Before I tell the rest I should mention she was only a year older than me) she told me she wanted to try something and told me to lay on the ground. I didn’t know what to do. She started talking telling me she wanted to “prepare” me for something. And then she told me to be quiet and you can imagine what happened. I told her to stop and I didn’t like what she was doing, but she told me she wouldn’t be my friend anymore and would punch me if I didn’t shut up. I can still vividly remember that day. It happened lots of other times. I can still hear the hum of the lights in the bathroom and I can still hear what her voice sounded like, and what she looked like. And I can remember when I woke up in her bedroom one morning and something didn’t feel right. I remember when she got dressed and made me watch. I remember how I thought it was normal.
Please, please speak up.
Where is She Rn, do you still talk to her?
@@SaulBadWomen no. Absolutely not
Wait do you mean 16 or 17?
is anyone gonna talk about how gorgeous holly is like omg
Finally a comment I can relate to. Yes! So pretty!
Simp
Agreed
SchmlackDatBooty imagine calling someone a simp because they complimented someone
Who?
*IM HERE FOR THE CHAOS*
ME TOO
ILLY: *YOUR BACK FOR THE CHAOSSSSSSSSSSS*
YASSS
WE ARE ALL BACK FOR THE CHAOS
*shane dawson style*
Harold The Alien hi harold
Harold The Alien it's Howard not harold
Harold The Alien 👌
Guys stop roasting Haris please :(
Burning trash isnt good for the environment :(
Save the turtles. Disintegrate him in acid.
Man ypu got me for a second
AW MAN, WHY YOU HAVE TO BE SO SMART LIKE THAT >:C I LIKE ROASTING HARRIS
but serously, you got me for a second
YOU HAD ME IN THE FIRST HALF NOT GUNNA LIE
Haaaaaaaaaa u got him thre
I just want to say thank you because my friend watches your videos and she saw your first one of these videos and I was in a abusive and toxic relationship with my boyfriend and she showed me this and I broke up with him and moved away so thank you!
Wish you luck!
Good luck
I’m glad for you! Good luck, and live a happy life :)
are you sure I'm real ?? Are you sure you’re real?
Jk! Good luck!
I'm so content for you, hope you have a better life!
Guys stop with the hate comments towards Haris.
*I can’t like them all.*
Same
I was about to reply with a "wtf do u not get that illy was abused and he is a complete *******" But then I read the end part and was like, well I think so too, virtual high five whoever you are!
@@taramishra2967 lmao
@@whythehellc 😂 lol
I dislike all these video because of haris
The animation looks so relastic.
8k, 5000fps, 120hzs
It's quite the stylistic change
I'm waiting for someone to take the joke seriously.
Yea dude. She's been working hard
@@spacezeppeli7358 same so I can
r/wooooosh them