Ask Shallon: How To Deal With Mean Girls Who Are Picking On You
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- Опубликовано: 4 сен 2024
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Usually when someone calls me a name I just say 'Aww, thanks, you too!' And either turn or walk away, whatever is available to block the person off.
Wow, Shallon, you are a genius! I remember I used to get picked on when I finally started making an effort on my appearance and got a hair makeover back in middle school. I had so many girls hate my guts like literally the day after, and never understood why. I still have that same hairstyle today, and it turns out everyone says I have the "best hair in school". I wish I would have known back in middle school that people saw me as a threat. It would have helped my confidence so much.
One thing I did in school and am not proud of but helped IMMENSLY was super small:
I used to look at the girl who was always ridiculously mean to me and make sure, she saw me looking at her (not for too long a time, obviously) and then whisper something non related to the person sitting next to me, to make sure they'd laugh. And mean girl obviously thought it was about her. I did this for a while with different people (who didn't realize they were being complicit in that) and it shook her to the core. And when she was weakened I got her alone and confronted her. Without an audience they're usually powerless. And she never messed with me afterwards.
I LOVE your no-bullshit attitude!
Thank you for your advice as always
Screaming ! I love this advice and all your videos. You are a big inspiration 💜💜💜
"Village bicycle" 😂
There are these girls at my school who think they are so awesome and better than anyone else and my friend sits by them in language arts and she said they were talking about me and they said im too hyper and kind and need to calm down im not even hyper I just like to jump all the time and sometimes talk loud and fast or slow and quiet
People think I'm both, they did that 2 me, and she tried to brake me and my boyfriend up, but he didn't believe her, he believed me, which Is sweet bcz that means he trust me ( I think )
I used to get picked on by many girls, but I think that's because I was socially weak.
i realy like the fact that you dont only speak about dating. you are great shallon!
Omg you’re videos are so therapeutic.
When that happened I just talked about it and laughed about it the whole time it stopped after about a week
Hey ! this video really helps and thank you ! i subscribed
Yup
Damn I just started following your videos. Great videos! Keep them uploaded! :)
Your so smart, these are good tips, thanks.
omg all your videos helped me so much tanks alot
Omg you're the best 😂 great advice!!!
tysm this helped me so much!
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Yes!!! Shallon you are amazing.
I so love ya for doing this video
I know I am late to say this but I need HELP these group of mean girls hate me because the most popular guy in school flurts with me so they r so mean to me
Hahaha. This is some real shit. Women warfare & guide to dealing w/ haters
I guess this is a compliment lol I'm a social threat, I'm not even in high school damn will these mean girls every stop!!!
Omg u need to make a speech at my school lol
thank you shallon
Thanks shallon!
omg you so cool this helped alot
You are a fucking natural.
That's me I'm Katie and the 3 mean girls are Regina and her friends