Ask Shallon: How To Stop Bullying | Get A Bully To Leave You Alone

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  • Опубликовано: 4 сен 2024
  • Need to know how to deal with being bullied, threatened or picked on? Are you being called a fag, a whore or a loser? Check out my tips on how to stand up to bullying and take back your power!

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  • @coralarmbruster1274
    @coralarmbruster1274 6 лет назад +9

    "Ok here's some terrible things you can say" thank you so much shallon!!! This video helped so much!!

  • @darkcookie3517
    @darkcookie3517 9 лет назад +30

    "They think you are Poland" I'm sorry but that was so funny coz I'm polish 😂😂 XD

  • @Cassibales123
    @Cassibales123 8 лет назад +7

    I hate the victim blaming bully protection in schools. If you stand up to them or do something to make them stop your the one to get into trouble. Why is this? At least let people defend themselves without trouble. It's not the standing up for myself that's the problem, it's the getting into trouble for what you have to do when no one helps you, no support whatsoever.

    • @Cassibales123
      @Cassibales123 8 лет назад

      I've noticed that if you suddenly do it back to them they stop but sometimes just ignoring them works if they want listeners. I love mocking them cuz it makes them stop. They often give you ammo of what to say.

    • @sophiak.6170
      @sophiak.6170 7 лет назад +3

      You're right! It's sad that's how the public school system works. Trust me, I went to a public high school not too long ago. It's unfair! If a bully picks on you constantly, you're the one who gets reprimanded and it's absolutely ridiculous. You shouldn't be reprimanded for defending yourself.
      I used to ignore whatever horrible crass thing people said to me, but after watching this video...I think that's going to change. If someone one is picking on you, you have every right to fight back and defend yourself. No one has a right to make you feel like shit.

  • @owensjoberg2113
    @owensjoberg2113 7 лет назад +3

    I always get beaten up in school and the first time I stood up for myself I quote "IN WORDS" I was was in the principles office

  • @1guywithagoalof1sub25
    @1guywithagoalof1sub25 7 лет назад +13

    Bullies will go to hell 😄
    Yay

  • @mermaiddiyartist8119
    @mermaiddiyartist8119 4 года назад +3

    Social terrorists. Perfect explanation of a bully.

  • @ThegirlfromEther
    @ThegirlfromEther 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for this Shallon. There's lots of people that think it's better to ignore the bullies. It important for young people to know how to deal with these kinds of people. This video is so helpful.

  • @goodnoodle5756
    @goodnoodle5756 6 лет назад +4

    Wish you were my mom she won't let me fight them

  • @sarahjekel1372
    @sarahjekel1372 9 лет назад +2

    What I meant is I wish people would understand that if you tell the teacher on a bully they don't care they will just keep bullying you

  • @monicadiep2006
    @monicadiep2006 10 лет назад +2

    This is why I love you shallon. You're actually so helpful and speak the truth that others are afraid to admit.

  • @leao6663
    @leao6663 5 лет назад +12

    I just found my mentor🙌🏻

  • @solxgamingx
    @solxgamingx 8 лет назад +10

    This video is amazing. I have thise one person who keeps verbally harassing me everytime I pass her and this video has helped calm me down.

  • @ollygray1076
    @ollygray1076 10 лет назад +5

    Yay ur advice really worked u r fantastic shallon he won't come near me at all!! Thanks so muck for this advice it really worked!

  • @meara2725
    @meara2725 7 лет назад +1

    Actually they want to see you react so if u let them and just say ok and your point is

  • @baileyizumita4150
    @baileyizumita4150 10 лет назад +2

    Hey!❤️ how do you deal with a clingy guy??

  • @samanthau2463
    @samanthau2463 9 лет назад +3

    Thank you so much! I thought this video was amazing! I had a friend and he was using me for my food and I thought and thought..I told him to leave me alone... next he starts to bully me.. I been sad of what he told me.... He was so rude and ignorant and this helped... alot! Thank you so much!

  • @claraandersson7212
    @claraandersson7212 10 лет назад +3

    This is awesome, thanks Shallon! ♡ I've known about you for a couple of months now, and you have the best advises and explanationes ever! :)

  • @darrenyen6344
    @darrenyen6344 7 лет назад +2

    I'm just wanna them to feel wrong with their attitude

  • @trentigalaxy
    @trentigalaxy 9 лет назад +3

    hey, i like your style, you tell it like it is!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @emilymcgowan6174
    @emilymcgowan6174 10 лет назад +1

    Hi Shallon! I wanted to know how what I should do when dealing with drama on a sports team. I'm on my high schools cheer team and I'm worried about the drama that will happen and I just wanted to know how I should deal with it when a problem does come about.

  • @annarose7576
    @annarose7576 10 лет назад +1

    All the comebacks made me laugh so hard

  • @Jericholic8704
    @Jericholic8704 10 лет назад +1

    Shallon I needed you in middle school

  • @arktana
    @arktana 10 лет назад +1

    great topic shallon!

  • @wwood7408
    @wwood7408 8 лет назад

    i do not belive in fighting back coz u will get in trouble go tell a grown up and they will help you.

  • @rijaaleen4108
    @rijaaleen4108 5 лет назад +1

    Wish I knew this ages ago

  • @MrAlekoukos
    @MrAlekoukos 5 лет назад +1

    Really good!

  • @leahanne00
    @leahanne00 5 лет назад +1

    I have bullys where I live thanks 👍

  • @ugandanknuckle7555
    @ugandanknuckle7555 6 лет назад

    Shit thanks

  • @catarina0ca
    @catarina0ca 10 лет назад +1