POPULARITY ADVICE: 5 Ways To Make a Good First Impression--Even If You're Shy | Shallon Lester

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  • Опубликовано: 4 сен 2024

Комментарии • 52

  • @amandaeppolito
    @amandaeppolito 6 лет назад +12

    I don’t get how you don’t trip over your words or anything. You are SO knowledgeable and good at what you do.

  • @gemmasmith7570
    @gemmasmith7570 6 лет назад +106

    You are a godsend!!!!!! I love these kind of videos. The popularity videos are really really helpful especially with summer coming to an end! Thank you xxx

  • @melaniehunter6913
    @melaniehunter6913 6 лет назад +52

    "What is this? Bad sex? Stop it." 😂So funny, yet so relatable!

  • @ambercotrone
    @ambercotrone 5 лет назад +10

    I couldn’t have good posture until I started going to the chiropractor. I wish I started going in high school because I wanted to have good posture but I literally couldn’t stand up straight. It’s crazy how connected the emotional/physical is. You have to work on both :)

  • @12SilviaD
    @12SilviaD 6 лет назад +10

    Love how you didn’t just make this about popularity in school. I find it hard networking with people sometimes, because iv grown up being anti social my whole life, so i found this helpful. ❤️

  • @AliciaKristina1
    @AliciaKristina1 6 лет назад +28

    you literally always have THE best advice. i've been subscribed for years and you definitely deserve more subscribers and to quit ur job and do this full time!!!

  • @kingw4542
    @kingw4542 5 лет назад +13

    I totally agree with you about the dead fish handshakes 😂

  • @daneski
    @daneski 5 лет назад +10

    Omg this is one of your funniest ones. The slithering out of hot topic part, the handshake part, I'm crying.

  • @alexandragalhordas1622
    @alexandragalhordas1622 6 лет назад +15

    omg thank you for this! Please more tips on dealing with silence and for dealing with manipulative people!
    love you! Hugs from Portugal ❤

  • @anadani81917
    @anadani81917 5 лет назад +3

    I usually don't comment on RUclips videos but I love your content! It really is changing my outlook on life, thank you!

  • @jenny_walpole
    @jenny_walpole 6 лет назад +14

    I really like these popularity videos 💗 please make more!

  • @mepulley7913
    @mepulley7913 4 года назад +2

    Girl you were ahead of the heard. I finally admitted my mother would CONSTANTLY be right was when I was 39.

  • @wonderfulltreats2427
    @wonderfulltreats2427 6 лет назад +2

    i feel like this is one of those videos i'm gonna rewatch over and over again bc its so incredibly useful. thanks shallon!

  • @itsJade360
    @itsJade360 5 лет назад +1

    Learning how (by, yours truly...) to master the “Three T’s” will always help 1.)Timing, 2.)Tone & 3.)Technique... loadsa love from a new Shallonista 😘

  • @angiemh17
    @angiemh17 6 лет назад +3

    Omg! Thank you Shallon for this topic! I'm such a quiet person and it feels good to know that I don't have to be so extra to be confident. XD

  • @thejoyceslife4002
    @thejoyceslife4002 6 лет назад +2

    u r lifesaver !❤I'm gonna watch this for a million times and share this to my granddaughter

  • @ashleedawn456
    @ashleedawn456 6 лет назад +2

    Thank you for this video, Shallon! I'm going to a new, smaller school and I'm sure these tips will be helpful.

  • @dragonova2226
    @dragonova2226 5 лет назад +1

    Omg girl, you have an awesome attitude and personality....I love watching your videos.

  • @HereIAm247
    @HereIAm247 5 лет назад

    I am the cliché of a nerd; frizzy curly hair, not super attractive, and zero social skills. I don't know why, but I just don't seem to show emotions naturally, even though I do have them (I swear!). *How* do your learn to connect with others? What to say, how to use your voice, how to keep a conversation, how to not come across too weak or too strong? Because it is a pretty big hindrance in my career, my social life, and other things. I often end up being seen as the 'looser', even though I really do try. I try to learn a lot about body language and these things (nerd), but there is just something that doesn't work. I just found your channel, and I hope to learn a lot from it. So thanks for the video! :)

  • @megandettmann4038
    @megandettmann4038 4 года назад +1

    Shallon you're so amazing!

  • @shahad1982
    @shahad1982 3 года назад

    I just found you and I have to say thank you so much for making all of these amazing videos. I’m 38 years old and I’m leaning a lot from you.
    Thank you so much again and keep it up ❤️

  • @soulsearchtarot
    @soulsearchtarot 5 лет назад +1

    So true about posture. I have moments when I think i've been a jerk and I take this position of humility and it always ALWAYS looks like I'm slouching and shoulders in - It's kind of my repentance mode. After doing it for a while I feel I have repented. LOL

  • @soulsearchtarot
    @soulsearchtarot 5 лет назад +2

    Going to binge watch your older vids...Mwaaah !

  • @camelia1501
    @camelia1501 4 года назад

    You are absolutely right Shallon !

  • @lindapool6996
    @lindapool6996 3 года назад +1

    OMG dead fish hand shake!!!! I thought I was the only one

  • @aliyahreign1451
    @aliyahreign1451 5 лет назад +1

    I actually love you!!

  • @stephanievulcheva8125
    @stephanievulcheva8125 4 года назад

    Hey Shaéllon, thanks a lot for your advices the amazing way you present them

  • @theaahello2134
    @theaahello2134 4 года назад

    this is a great video! thank you so much Shallon.

  • @amandaeppolito
    @amandaeppolito 6 лет назад +5

    This saved me

  • @AB-pd6jx
    @AB-pd6jx 6 лет назад +3

    Thank you for uploading xoxo

  • @lesleysmith9122
    @lesleysmith9122 6 лет назад +1

    I love you. That's all.

  • @paucalderon8326
    @paucalderon8326 5 лет назад +1

    I haven't finished the video just yet, but I was on the Super Woman pose... I'm sorry, I used to believed that too. I saw the super emotional Ted Talk about it... Turns out, that has been disproved by numerous studies. Posing like Wonder Woman won't boost your confidence. If anything, watching that Ted Talk and believing what it says, can create a placebo effect, but it doesn't mean it works by itself.
    Whoever, the rest it's true. Even if you're shy, standing straight it's going to give the idea (to others) that you are a confident person.

  • @christinajackson3461
    @christinajackson3461 5 лет назад +4

    But one thing, you said "I'm sorry, what was that?" Men never say "I'm sorry." They will apologize or say "Oh, excuse me what was that?"

  • @fatimaislam4471
    @fatimaislam4471 4 года назад

    i love your advice!! i appreciate you !!

  • @juicyylang3043
    @juicyylang3043 6 лет назад +2

    Hey Shallon, I´m definetly waiting for the trends guys like and the one about underwear you mentioned earlier this year, I was wondering if you could please do a how to help a boyfriend who is crying, or upset?, love you, bye,

  • @gamergal8138
    @gamergal8138 5 лет назад +1

    One joke after another and I can’t recover from laughing

  • @billyjoelxoxogirl
    @billyjoelxoxogirl 5 лет назад

    Omgggg please make more videos like this!!

  • @tinamatijas7104
    @tinamatijas7104 4 года назад

    Love it!😍

  • @kimberleynicole1821
    @kimberleynicole1821 5 лет назад

    Love it!

  • @sargamsundrani3813
    @sargamsundrani3813 5 лет назад

    You’re the best!

  • @gamergal8138
    @gamergal8138 5 лет назад +1

    I’m dying laughing 😂😂😂

  • @alenalondon1310
    @alenalondon1310 4 года назад

    love you!

  • @monagurl1973
    @monagurl1973 5 лет назад

    Thank you

  • @yiranjia7870
    @yiranjia7870 5 лет назад +1

    thx

  • @emmillym5384
    @emmillym5384 6 лет назад

    HAHAHA. You are hilarious and helpful👏

  • @LOLthisfun
    @LOLthisfun 5 лет назад

    Good I love silence at least I have one box checked

  • @Clauds71
    @Clauds71 5 лет назад

    So true 😁

  • @luceroloza6800
    @luceroloza6800 3 года назад

    hahaha your handshake thing, hahah mann same reacción in me, hahha no lie

  • @paigerogers3590
    @paigerogers3590 4 года назад

    ❤️

  • @lunasky39
    @lunasky39 4 года назад +1

    Omg limp hand shakes make feel like I want be sick

  • @nikkimcmurtrey8931
    @nikkimcmurtrey8931 4 года назад +1

    Thank you