Assaulted by Bill Cosby with Lili Bernard, Part 1 | Season 2; Ep 6

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  • Опубликовано: 19 апр 2023
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    For the first time, actress Lili Bernard reveals devastating details of the grooming, manipulation, torment and abuse she experienced at the hands of disgraced icon Bill Cosby.
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Комментарии • 226

  • @maam-yj8ph
    @maam-yj8ph Год назад +57

    To Lili thank you for sharing your story because it took so much bravery to recount these painful memories. Hopefully someone else will not have to suffer horrifically in a similar situation.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад +1

      There are statute laws !

  • @EveningTV
    @EveningTV Год назад +49

    Amazing story. I know a lot of people will question how she could forget these events, but I related to it very much. I had no memory of the first fifteen years of my life until I had a near death experience and somehow when I recalled what happened during my NDE, my lost childhood memories also came back. It was incredible! Thank you to Lili bor sharing this painful story and Dr. Ramani for being such a compassionate and knowledgeable listener.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад +1

      Victims, forget!
      This is true.
      However, they read such statements!
      Those statements, cause psychological triggers, with emotional trauma. It's a blame of self hatred
      that isn't justified !!
      The statute of limitations, have reasons!
      Under the privacy protection act of statute law,
      victims of abuse remain anonymous,
      to judgement, with fears, of harm, or potential harm. -
      Those statute laws, apply to accusations of assault, with the fear
      of potential self inflicted harm to thoughts of suicide.
      These are equal rights,
      to a fair impartial jury!
      This is a violation of those individual rights!!
      The supreme court can't overturn a verdict on a technicality
      It's the highest ruling!

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      COSBY'S ACCUSERS
      INCORRECT ASSAUALT DATES
      Sunni Welles, mid 60s
      Cindra Ladd, after 1969
      Autumn Burns, about 1970
      Linda Ridgeway Whitedeer, early 70"s
      Charlotte Fox , early 70 s
      Coleen Hughes, early 70 s
      Judy Huth, 1974-75
      Patricia Leary Stauer, 1978-80
      Joyce Emmons, early 80s
      Rebecca Lyn Neal, early 80s
      Kaya Thompson, 80 s
      Lisa Jones, 80s
      Louisa Moritz, -faulty timeline
      Andrea Constand, perjury
      RETURNS AFTER ALLEGED ASSAUALT
      Lili Barnard, Beth Farrier, Joan Tarshis, Pam Abeyta, Jennifer Thompson, Andrea Constand.
      SECOND ASSAULT ACCUSATION
      Barbara Bowman
      Patricia PJ Masten
      Terese Serignese
      ALLEGED TOUCHED INAPPROPIATELY
      Sammi Mays, Donna Motsinger, Sarita Butterfield, Eden Turl, Sharon Van Ert, Helen Hayes, Andrea Constand, Lisa Christie, Carla Ferrigno, Linda Kirkpatrick.
      MEMORY LOSS
      Heidi Thomas, Marcella Tate, Kathy Mae McKee, Janice Baker Kinney, Lise Lotte Lublin
      ADMITTED NO ASSAULT
      Angela Leslie, Michelle Hurd, Kristina Rhulie, Charlotte Kemp, Beverly Johnson, Lochelle Covington, Victoria Valentino, Jule Allison, Gennett,
      Helen Gumpel.
      CRIMINAL RECORDS
      Shawn Brown, Tamera Lucier Green, Chloe Goins, Chelan Lasha , Linda Joy Traits, Judy Huth , Janice Dickinson, Donna Dottye Barrett , Margie Shapiro.
      Drugs, prostitution-drugs embezzlement, extortion, identity theft

    • @menotyou6254
      @menotyou6254 Год назад

      What did you remember

    • @maevebutler4641
      @maevebutler4641 Год назад

      Amen to that !

  • @rachelreed68
    @rachelreed68 Год назад +33

    He is even more terrifying than I thought. Wth??? This level of grooming is so patient and calculated and predatory. Anyone could be vulnerable because who would believe someone could lie so blatantly.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад +1

      Statute laws can't dictate the charges of alleged accusations!

    • @rachelreed68
      @rachelreed68 Год назад +7

      @@Mojave702 Sounds like you may have a dog in this fight. 🤔

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      @@rachelreed68
      COSBY'S ACCUSERS
      INCORRECT ASSAUALT DATES
      Sunni Welles mid 60s
      Cindra Ladd after 1969
      Autumn Burns about 1970
      Linda Ridgeway Whitedeer early 70 s
      Coleen Hughes early 70 s
      Charlotte Fox early 70 s
      Judy Huth 1974-75
      Patricia Leary Stauer 1978-80
      Ranita Channey Hill early 80s
      Joyce Emmons early 80s
      Rebecca Lyn Neal 80s
      Kaya Thompson 80 s
      Lisa Jones 80s
      Kelly Johnson early 90s
      Louisa Moritz -faulty timeline
      Andrea Constand rejected
      SECOND ASSAULT ACCUSATION
      Patricia PJ Masten
      Barbara Bowman
      Terese Serignese
      RETURNS AFTER ALLEGED ASSAUALT
      Lili Barnard Beth Farrier Joan Tarshis Pam Abeyta Jennifer Thompson Andrea Constand,
      ALLEGED TOUCHED INAPPROPIATELY
      Sammi Mays Donna Motsinger Sarita Butterfield Eden Turl Sharon Van Ert Helen Hayes Andrea Constand , Lisa Christie Carla Ferrigno Linda Kirkpatrick
      MEMORY LOSS
      Heidi Thomas Marcella Tate Kathy Mae McKee Janice Baker Kinney Lise Lotte Lublin
      ADMITTED NO ASSAULT
      Angela Leslie Michelle Hurd Kristina Rhulie Charlotte Kemp Beverly Johnson Lochelle Covington Victoria Valentino Jule Allison Gennett Helen Gumpel
      CRIMINAL RECORDS
      Shawn Burke Brown Tamera Green Chloe Goins Chelan Lasha Linda Joy Traits Judy Huth Janice Dickinson Donna Dottye Barrett Margie Shapiro
      Drugs prostitution-drugs embezzlement extortion identity theft

    • @maevebutler4641
      @maevebutler4641 Год назад +4

      ​@Rachel Reed, I uagree. It sounds like this person understands all the technicallyies of the law !

    • @babs420th9
      @babs420th9 Год назад +2

      @@rachelreed68 Well said, a dog in this fight indeed. I believe Lili! 👍

  • @melissaskitchen8832
    @melissaskitchen8832 Год назад +32

    Dr Ramani, thank you so much for airing this podcast. I enjoy listening to your podcasts yet being able to watch them on video makes it so much more comforting. My heart melted when your guest said that she felt safe with you. The small bouquet of white flowers are very therapeutic as well.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Assault isn't an opinion!

  • @asalane20
    @asalane20 Год назад +51

    The maniacal levels of premeditation this man employed are mind-boggling. The fact that people can defend him is shocking.

    • @Jess-kn8vl
      @Jess-kn8vl Год назад

      People dont want to believe SA survivors, even more so if the perp is famous.

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 Год назад +7

      Yeah it's shocking that some people still defend him

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад +2

      @@angelaholmes8888
      Well,
      It's more about sixty women,
      with names, that are too hard to remember!
      With lawsuits, memory loss, consensual, alleged non consensual returns.
      Looking for attention, that doesn't explain predatory behavior.
      With a pursuit of money!
      The formal charge would be extortion!
      With violations, of a victim's individual rights.
      This is before a mistrial, that wasn't legal to begin with. That itself would just dispose of statements with evidence, when it's found.
      A rejected accusation, can't become a trial after 10 years .
      It's a violation of rights
      Without police reports or medical records, it's impossible to identify a victim, with a legal charge

    • @angelaholmes8888
      @angelaholmes8888 Год назад +3

      @@Mojave702 go away troll

    • @peaceishmael-fr4vl
      @peaceishmael-fr4vl 11 месяцев назад

      What’s shocking that white women waited with no evidence 50 almost 60 years ago to say something about a black man starting out in Hollywood bs😮

  • @SweetiePieTweety
    @SweetiePieTweety Год назад +22

    Her voice. Her speaking voice is incredibly elegant and eloquent. Smooth. So smooth and powerful in depth vibration and scope. Thank you for letting us hear your voice. Your story. Your message. Threatened to silence. Imbalance of power. Hollywood carrots promising fame fortune opportunity. So sad. 😢

    • @hotPrayers
      @hotPrayers 9 месяцев назад +2

      Her voice is beautiful

  • @gretaruiz
    @gretaruiz Год назад +13

    Thank you so much for being so brave, Ms. Bernard.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      No
      There are statute laws

  • @Mistinguette287
    @Mistinguette287 Год назад +8

    What a brave woman! So inspiring! The details, we start to feel, could sleep right. We just want to enter the screen and hug her so much! Dr Ramani is such precious woman, able to seat here and make Lili feel safe sharing this! Wish you both all the best.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Will anyone have to appear in court to
      prove they're innocent,
      after being wrongfully accused 🤔 ???

  • @sandrab.5065
    @sandrab.5065 Год назад +17

    TY for sharing these horrific events, Lili and Dr. Ramani. You can see how adults with traumatized, vulnerable childhoods become prime targets for social and sexual predators.

  • @michellemurphy9326
    @michellemurphy9326 Год назад +19

    So brave to be open about this.. thank you 💜

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад +1

      It violates the rights of victims
      don't thank Lili Barnard for that?

  • @aliceroberts1980
    @aliceroberts1980 Год назад +25

    He’s a disgusting narcissistic piece of garbage . I’m so sorry that happened to you. ❤

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад +1

      The idea, is to not return twice,
      after, an accusation of being assaulted!!
      This isn't about victims !!
      It's about the women that violated
      the rights of victims

    • @cascade00
      @cascade00 Год назад +1

      ​@@Mojave702 why is K'SHAG HENNESSY re writing the story, here, please continue to flag K Shag Hennessy's comments as well as, request the mod to remove. Supposing K Shag is an abuse survivor, there is no excuse.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      @@cascade00
      Statute law
      A right to victims as individuals
      to remain, anonymous to , criticisms,
      judgements, fear of harm, fears of potential threat
      with emotional triggers/ psychological trauma .
      Under the privacy protection act!
      As a statute laws this is an extreme violation of those rights!

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      @@cascade00
      COSBY"S ACCUSERS
      INCORRECT ASSAUALT DATES
      Sunni Welles, mid 60s
      Cindra Ladd, after 1969
      Autumn Burns, about 1970
      Linda Ridgeway Whitedeer, early 70 s
      Charlotte Fox early 70 s
      Coleen Hughes, early 70 s
      Judy Huth, 1974-75
      Patricia Leary Stauer, 1978- 80
      Ranita Channey Hill, early 80s
      Joyce Emmons, early 80s
      Rebecca Lyn Neal, early 80s
      Kaya Thompson, 80 s
      Lisa Jones 80s
      Kelly Johnson early 90s
      Louisa Moritz -faulty timeline
      Andrea Constand ,,- perjury
      SECOND ASSAULT ACCUSATION
      Barbara Bowman
      Patricia PJ Masten
      Terese Serignese
      RETURNS AFTER ALLEGED ASSAUALT
      Lili Barnard, Beth Farrier, Joan Tarshis, Pam Abeyta, Jennifer Thompson, Andrea Constand,.
      ALLEGED TOUCHED INAPPROPIATELY
      Sammi Mays, Donna Motsinger, Sarita Butterfield, Eden Turl, Sharon Van Ert, Helen Hayes, Andrea Constand, Lisa Christie, Carla Ferrigno, Linda Kirkpatrick.
      MEMORY LOSS
      Heidi Thomas Marcella Tate, Kathy Mae McKee, Janice Baker Kinney, Lise Lotte Lublin.
      ADMITTED NO ASSAULT
      Angela Leslie, Michelle Hurd, Kristina Rhulie Charlotte Kemp, Beverly Johnson, Lochelle Covington, Victoria Valentino, Jule Allison Gennett, Helen Gumpel.
      CRIMINAL RECORDS
      Shawn Brown, Tamera Green, Chloe Goins, Chelan Lasha Linda Joy Traits, Judy Huth, Janice Dickinson, Donna Dottye Barrett, Margie Shapiro
      Drugs, prostitution-drugs, embezzlement, extortion, identity theft .

    • @louisjaugustin8673
      @louisjaugustin8673 5 месяцев назад

      How do you know Cosby violated her?

  • @emily1486
    @emily1486 Год назад +11

    My heart goes out to you Lili, thank you for sharing your story ❤

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад +1

      It's only one accusation
      there"s, 59 accusations, that can't
      be explained !

  • @susiesalome
    @susiesalome Год назад +12

    This is harrowing. My heart goes out to her.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Assault isn't, an amateur psychology
      60. random, accusations isn't a guilty verdict!

    • @susiesalome
      @susiesalome Год назад +1

      ???

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      @@susiesalome
      BILL COSBY"S ACCUSERS
      INCORRECT ASSAUALT DATES
      Sunni Welles,mid 60s
      Cindra Ladd , after 1969
      Autumn Burns , about 1970
      Linda Ridgeway Whitedeer ,early 70 s
      Charlotte Fox ,early 70 s
      Coleen Hughes, early 70 s
      Judy Huth, 1974-75
      Patricia Leary Stauer,1978-80
      Joyce Emmons, early 80s
      Renita Channey Hill, early 80s
      Rebecca Lyn Neal, early 80s
      Kaya Thompson, 80 s
      Lisa Jones, 80s
      Kelly Johnson, early 90s
      Louisa Moritz, -faulty timeline
      Andrea Constand, perjury
      RETURNS AFTER ALLEGED ASSAUALT
      Lili Barnard, Beth Farrier, Joan Tarshis, Pam Abeyta, Jennifer Thompson, Andrea Constand.
      SECOND ASSAULT ACCUSATION
      Patricia PJ Masten
      Barbara Bowman
      Terese Serignese
      ALLEGED TOUCHED INAPPROPIATELY
      Sammi Mays Donna Motsinger Sarita Butterfield, Eden Turl, Sharon Van Ert, Helen Hayes, Andrea Constand, Lisa Christie, Carla Ferrigno, Linda Kirkpatrick.
      MEMORY LOSS
      Heidi Thomas, Marcella Tate, Kathy Mae McKee, Janice Baker Kinney, Lise Lotte Lublin.
      ADMITTED NO ASSAULT
      Angela Leslie, Michelle Hurd, Kristina Rhulie, Charlotte Kemp, Beverly Johnson, Lochelle Covington, Victoria Valentino, Jule Allison Gennett, Helen Gumpel
      CRIMINAL RECORDS
      Shawn Brown, Tamera Green, Chloe Goins, Chelan Lasha, Linda Joy Traits, Judy Huth, Janice Dickinson, Donna Dottye Barrett, Margie Shapiro.
      Drugs, prostitution-drugs, embezzlement, extortion, identity theft.

  • @bluelake6646
    @bluelake6646 Год назад +19

    Lili you are a strong and brave women.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Yeah, Not so much !!
      accusations aren't real
      Get over it!!!

  • @kateb7155
    @kateb7155 Год назад +10

    God bless you, Lili Bernard, for using your voice to tell your story. It is compelling, important, and crucial that you are doing so. I hear you. I see you. I believe you. Thank you, Dr. Ramani, for providing a safe space for Lili Bernard to speak the truth. Thank you for supporting her so beautifully as a professional, a survivor, a woman, and a human being. God bless you, also!!!

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      What truth?

    • @kateb7155
      @kateb7155 Год назад +2

      @@Mojave702 Troll.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      @@kateb7155
      COSBY'S ACCUSERS
      INCOMPLETE ASSAUALT DATES
      Sunni Welles, mid 60s
      Cindra Ladd, after 1969
      Autumn Burns, about 1970
      Linda Ridgeway Whitedeer, early 70 s
      Charlotte Fox, early 70 s
      Coleen Hughes, early 70 s
      Judy Huth, 1974-75
      Patricia Leary Stauer, 1978-80s
      Ranita Channey Hill, early 80s
      Joyce Emmons early 80s
      Rebecca Lyn Neal, early 80s
      Lisa Jones, 80s
      Kaya Thompson, 80 s
      Kelly Johnson, early 90s
      Louisa Moritz, -faulty timeline
      Andrea Constand, [ 6 ] perjuries
      RETURNS AFTER ALLEGED ASSAUALT
      Lili Barnard, Beth Farrier, Joan Tarshis, Pam Abeyta, Jennifer Thompson, Andrea Constand.
      SECOND ASSAULT ACCUSATION
      Barbara Bowman
      Patricia PJ Masten
      Terese Serignese
      ALLEGED TOUCHED INAPPROPIATELY
      Sammi Mays, Donna Motsinger, Sarita Butterfield, Eden Turl, Sharon Van Ert, Helen Hayes, Andrea Constand, Lisa Christie, Carla Ferrigno, Linda Kirkpatrick.
      MEMORY LOSS
      Heidi Thomas, Marcella Tate, Kathy Mae McKee, Janice Baker Kinney, Lise Lotte Lublin.
      ADMITTED NO ASSAULT
      Angela Leslie, Michelle Hurd, Kristina Rhulie, Charlotte Kemp, Beverly Johnson, Lochelle Covington, Victoria Valentino, Jule Allison Gennett, Helen Gumpel.
      CRIMINAL RECORDS
      Shawn Burke Brown, Tamera Lucier Green, Chloe Goins, Chelan Lasha, Linda Joy Traits, Judy Huth, Janice Dickinson, Donna Dottye Barrett, Margie Shapiro m
      Drugs, prostitution-drugs, embezzlement, extortion, identity theft .

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      @@kateb7155
      Statute laws!
      An acknowledgement, of individual
      rights, to victims !
      To remain, anonymous of judgement,
      fear, with fear of potential harm.
      under the privacy protection act
      To avoid, emotional triggers, with psychological disorders
      This is a violation of those individual rights!

  • @LCbr1j
    @LCbr1j Год назад +17

    Wow truly unbelievable that Cosby groomed you & was so bold & blatant. I’ve come to learn with age that when some of us have bad experiences our purpose in life is to survive & report it not to be quite about it. I appreciate you very much.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      No there are statute laws

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад +1

      It's an accusation!
      This isn't amateur psychology!
      A victim, with knowledge of assault
      is subjected to psychological trauma .
      This wasn't about a victim!
      Abuse isn't a media event!
      It's a violation of individual rights!

    • @EvidenceBasedMedsin
      @EvidenceBasedMedsin 11 месяцев назад

      It’s bullshit!!

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 Год назад +20

    I always had a bad feeling about Cosby when I watched the show. Felt he was dangerous. I too, have been sexually assaulted as a young girl & teen. I'd love to contact you. My stepfather was the late, black artist, AC Hollingsworth. He was very well known. May I contact you? Your incredibly articulate, caring and valiant. Bravo.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Statute laws
      A right to remain anonymous
      Identification is a violation of individual rights under the privacy protection act !!

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Год назад +4

      @@Mojave702 I don't understand what your getting at. Please explain.

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Год назад

      @@Mojave702 Did I violate something?

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 Год назад +2

      @@Mojave702 I hear you. I get it. Oftentimes when people are traumatized they don't know how to cope. I feel for this woman, having been sexually assaulted myself. Putting things out on social media..hmm I have to think about that. It's all so confusing & disconcerting.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      @@danilaroche1156
      BILL COSBY'S ACCUSERS
      INCORRECT ASSAUALT DATES
      Sunni Welles mid 60s
      Cindra Ladd after 1969
      Autumn Burns about 1970
      Linda Ridgeway Whitedeer early 70 s
      Coleen Hughes early 70 s
      Charlotte Fox early 70 s
      Judy Huth 1974- 75
      Patricia Leary Stauer 1978-80
      Joyce Emmons early 80s
      Ranita Channey Hill early 80s
      Rebecca Lyn Neal early 80s
      Kaya Thompson 80 s
      Lisa Jones 80s
      Kelly Johnson early 80s
      Louisa Moritz -faulty timeline
      Andrea Constand perjury
      RETURNS AFTER ALLEGED ASSAUALT
      Lili Barnard Beth Farrier Joan Tarshis Pam Abeyta Jennifer Thompson Andrea Constand,
      SECOND ASSAULT ACCUSATION
      Barbara Bowman
      Patricia PJ Masten
      Terese Serignese
      ALLEGED TOUCHED INAPPROPIATELY
      Sammi Mays Donna Motsinger Sarita Butterfield Eden Turl Sharon Van Ert Helen Hayes Andrea Constand, Lisa Christie Carla Ferrigno Linda Kirkpatrick
      MEMORY LOSS
      Heidi Thomas Marcella Tate Kathy Mae McKee Janice Baker Kinney Lise Lotte Lublin
      ADMITTED NO ASSAULT
      Angela Leslie Michelle Hurd Kristina Rhulie Charlotte Kemp Beverly Johnson Lochelle Covington Victoria Valentino Jule Allison Gennett Helen Gumpel
      CRIMINAL RECORDS
      Shawn Brown Tamera Green Chloe Goins Chelan Lasha Linda Joy Traits Judy Huth Janice Dickinson Donna Dottye Barrett Margie Shapiro
      Drugs prostitution-drugs embezzlement extortion identity theft

  • @rokoroo
    @rokoroo Год назад +5

    I did love Bill Cosby as a young child, and when I first heard he was accused of rape, I had a really hard time letting go of that childhood view of him. I really didn't want it to be true, while at the same time I didn't want to disbelieve soooo many women coming forward about him. Now that I know more than I ever wanted to about narcissism, I have no more conflict about it. It still makes me sad, but it's the sadness for a lie I thought was true.

  • @cygnelle1232
    @cygnelle1232 Год назад +7

    I haven't had the kind of assault experiences involving sedatives, but the way she described it felt so vivid. I don't see how anyone could hear her story and not believe it. And it is soooo maddening that our society is set up to compound these betrayals and make them even more earth-shattering.
    Lili, I'm so sorry you had to experience the haunting betrayals of Cosby, and of every other person / institution that added their extra layers to those betrayals. What those point to is the sickness of Bill Cosby, of the entertainment industry, and of society as a whole. It says nothing about you and everything about the world we live in. Thank you for telling your story with such incredible bravery and eloquence. We see you

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Assault, isn't an opinion !

  • @acapellaz1
    @acapellaz1 Год назад +17

    Dear Lili, you are beautiful, brave and strong! I am so sorry for what happened to you. Thank you for telling your story 💓

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад +2

      Except, it didn't happen !

  • @viviennea.293
    @viviennea.293 Год назад +16

    Devastating story. I am so sorry she went through this horror. The fact that Cosby is out of jail is incomprehensible. He is a criminal that should hav remained imprisoned.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      There are statute laws

    • @beauthentic7493
      @beauthentic7493 Год назад +1

      Trump also a Sexual Predator is not in jail either. It's the justice system.

  • @kungfupanda1705
    @kungfupanda1705 Год назад +12

    It takes such bravery to do this - people who don't understand that, have never had to go through this kind of trauma. "they exploited your strengths" - that is so true.........and it's so evil to do to someone.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      To begin to understand the thoughts
      of the victim, it [. isn't"" ] an amateur psychology ?
      It's an opinion
      It violates statute laws !!!
      It violates the individual rights of victims.

  • @erikavaleries
    @erikavaleries Год назад +4

    Lili and Dr Ramani, I am moved to tears & inspired by this brave, candid interview. It's mind boggling what he did to lovebomb her, earn her trust, and scramble her brain, to be the hero for her family, to help make her a professional actress - then he slowly introduced shocking cruelty, drugging, deception, assaults, & betrayal - all wrapped up in his role as a mentor, boss, and father figure. I even remember her Cosby episode as a child in the 80's & found it on her acting reel on RUclips! She is as impressive & beautiful as ever.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Accusations aren't real
      Get over it

  • @tj8114
    @tj8114 Год назад +3

    Dr. R. your insight and compassion make you a treasure. Your complete, in-depth comprehension of the maniacal, systematic gaining of trust for the use in the ultimate betrayal is so well communicated. That you approached Lila’s interview from the perspective of a survivor, choosing not to have her relive her trauma bit by bit, is so refreshing. You are an example of the best of RUclips, and humanity.

    • @tj8114
      @tj8114 Год назад

      My apologies, autocorrect changed Lili’s name to Lila.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      BILL COSBY'S ACCUSERS
      INCORRECT ASSAUALT DATES
      Sunni Welles, mid 60s
      Cindra Ladd, after 1969
      Autumn Burns, about 1970
      Linda Ridgeway Whitedeer, early 70 s
      Charlotte Fox, early 70 s
      Coleen Hughes early, 70s
      Judy Huth, 1974-75
      Patricia Leary Stauer, 1978-80
      Joyce Emmons, early 80s
      Rebecca Lyn Neal, early 80s
      Lisa Jones, 80s
      Kaya Thompson, 80 s
      Kelly Johnson, early 90s
      Louisa Moritz, -faulty timeline
      Andrea Constand, [ 6 ] perjuries
      RETURN AFTER ALLEGED ASSAUALT
      Lili Barnard, Beth Farrier, Joan Tarshis, Pam Abeyta, Jennifer Thompson, Andrea Constand.
      ALLEGED TOUCHED INAPPROPIATELY
      Sammi Mays, Donna Motsinger, Sarita Butterfield, Eden Turl, Sharon Van Ert, Helen Hayes, Andrea Constand, Lisa Christie, Carla Ferrigno, Linda Kirkpatrick.
      SECOND ASSAULT ACCUSATION
      Patricia PJ Masten
      Barbara Bowman
      Terese Serignese
      MEMORY LOSS,
      Heidi Thomas, Marcella Tate, Kathy Mae McKee, Janice Baker Kinney, Lise Lotte Lublin,
      ADMITTED NO ASSAULT
      Angela Leslie, Michelle Hurd, Kristina Rhulie, Charlotte Kemp, Beverly Johnson, Lochelle Covington, Victoria Valentino, Jule Allison Gennett, Helen Gumpel
      CRIMINAL RECORDS
      Shawn Burke Brown, Tamera Lucier Green, Chloe Goins, Chelan Lasha, Linda Joy Traits, Judy Huth, Janice Dickinson, Donna Dottye Barrett, Margie Shapiro.
      Drugs, prostitution-drugs, embezzlement, extortion, identity theft.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Assault, isn't an opinion ☝️

    • @cascade00
      @cascade00 Год назад

      ​@@Mojave702 @Kevin Shaughnessy K Shag, tone deaf, empathic fail. Come to Detroit, and tell the police chief i invite you. You ttempt a ra pe, you experience swift street justice, to the tune of you will be lucky to survive, if you find yourself still here on earth you will know you were lucky to survive. If you attempr a rape you will be attacked and chief wont prosecute your attXkers,you will be unconscious before the justice system can bat an eye.

    • @cascade00
      @cascade00 Год назад

      ​@@Mojave702 we got a fxking perfectionist all over the Bill Cosby content, i in Legendary demonix status, would be more than willing to deliver a TKO assault on Bill Cosby's sensitive brain area, so let me know if youre up for a meeting.

  • @phantomwoman2791
    @phantomwoman2791 Год назад +7

    B/c of the abuse she endured from her father, blocking things out was second nature. She also couldn’t count on her father to protect her, so there wasn’t anywhere for her to go for safety.
    I hate this for her.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Accusations are dangerous,
      It isn't a matter of opinions !
      They' re 60 random, women !!
      Abuse isn't, an amateur psychology
      A victim, has self blame, w/ the potential of threat to harm.
      Emotional l triggers,
      Psychological trauma. !!
      Accusations, violate those laws
      with rights to individuals !!
      The privacy protection act of statute laws- to be anonymous!!
      Without identity

    • @phantomwoman2791
      @phantomwoman2791 Год назад +3

      @@Mojave702 Stop.

  • @migdaliavasquez1874
    @migdaliavasquez1874 Год назад +7

    Thx to yous both😊 sexual predators and narcissistic abuse have characteristics in common one of which is that survivors are subjected to devaluation before and after victimization. Pure manipulation.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Manipulation ?
      Women, that want attention from a wealthy man can't explain anyone's deviant predator behavior!!!

  • @Charmainecharmainecharmaine
    @Charmainecharmainecharmaine Год назад +3

    Thank you so much for sharing Lili. You’re so brave and strong. ❤

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Not strong enough, to have a police report or medical records,
      Only strong enough to consensually
      return, with an accusation of assault !

  • @LEM19284
    @LEM19284 Год назад +16

    I sure do hope Camille is watching this. I’m so sorry this happened to Lili. ❤❤

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      It didn't

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад +1

      Your perception is misdirected!

    • @cascade00
      @cascade00 Год назад +1

      Is that Camille, using name of Caucasian, to aggressively hit back? Is that PhD Camille, using low level English, thinking we are going to be fooled? Or is that Harvey Weinstein sympathiser?
      How about I give you my location, invite you here, you will know how Lonnie Franklin Jr felt with Fredia The Cheetah Gibbs.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      @@cascade00
      No
      Assault isn't, an amateur psychology!
      You're asking, too many unanswered
      questions !

  • @leighm9910
    @leighm9910 10 месяцев назад +2

    When this all came out, the black women at my job could not, would not believe it. I couldn’t understand why they were so mad at the news, not at Cosby, but like how dare they bring down a black man again. I didn’t totally get it back then, this clarified it for me. My heart goes out to this brave woman.

    • @KevinShaughnessy-mt9jt
      @KevinShaughnessy-mt9jt 10 месяцев назад

      The women,
      that don't have police reports or medical records
      With names that you can't remember !
      They identify a victim, that has to identify a suspect .
      Victims, are not numbers.
      They're individuals, with individual rights .
      Then,
      It should make sense that a victim is not a value of money with lawsuits that violate the limitation laws .
      Again, victims are not numbers, or an insurance policy,
      It isn't a lottery!!
      Women that want attention from a wealthy man can't explain their own deviant predator behavior

  • @user-kw2ks1ij2t
    @user-kw2ks1ij2t 11 месяцев назад +2

    You both are amazing ❤❤

  • @athenjiwemdumata1357
    @athenjiwemdumata1357 Год назад +3

    My heart is heavy

  • @lynnguest8718
    @lynnguest8718 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Dear Beautiful Lili for sharing such painful events. You are helping millions of people! May God Bless you & love you!

  • @vacationeyes6430
    @vacationeyes6430 Год назад +3

    Dr Ramani you are doing God's work. You are the reason I healed and am living my best life.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Statute laws
      The victims, individual entitled right, to be anonymous of identity
      The violations, of these entitled rights, are legally subject to judgements of criticism, self blame,
      fear, potential fear of harm.
      Emotional, psychological, trauma.
      under the privacy protection act
      of the statute!
      This, is a violation , of those rights !!

  • @kashesan
    @kashesan 8 месяцев назад +1

    The perpetrator exploited this woman's STRENGTHS not her weaknesses. (at 17:54 in) Such an acute assessment.

    • @KevinShaughnessy-mt9jt
      @KevinShaughnessy-mt9jt 5 месяцев назад

      women that want attention can't explain their own predator behavior

  • @beetrootfruit2098
    @beetrootfruit2098 Год назад +3

    Oh! So sorry Lili God will give you healing...

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      You can't analyze the psychology
      of 60 random accusations.
      It doesn't mean guilt!

  • @marleyofficialmedia
    @marleyofficialmedia Год назад +6

    Thank you. Two very inspiring women sharing a respectful space for truth and healing. ❤

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      No there are statute laws

  • @tammyhoward7960
    @tammyhoward7960 Год назад +4

    Lili thank you so much for sharing your story. I'm so sorry for everything you went through. It's shocking how we can watch a show with our children for years thinking it's so wholesome. All the things you went through. Breaks my heart knowing your family came to live a better life in the US. Struggles due to race, abuse, etc....Vindication will come one day. ✝

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Vindicated, exonerated, acquitted ,.
      Statute laws can't dictate the charges of unofficial accusations
      It's a violation of rights !

    • @bernadettewohl8062
      @bernadettewohl8062 10 месяцев назад

      It is called acting.

  • @kcl060
    @kcl060 5 месяцев назад

    So very horrid! Just more proof of how these people prey on the strong. The myth of preying on the weak is just that. You are so brave and powerful and intelligent, and so incredibly courageous to share your story. Thank you because so many people need your voice, and you deserve to be heard and respected for your courage.

  • @SpirituellePsychologie
    @SpirituellePsychologie 10 месяцев назад

    I m so sorry what happend to you Mis. Lili Bernard and so gratefull for Dr. Ramani and her life saving work. To hear your Story ( thank you for beeing so brave)helps me deal better with what happend to me. Thank you for your wisdom and strength and heart and beautyful Soul. 🙏🎶👍💙 Im from Europe. You help People all over the world 🙏💙🎶🌟☀️💫🌍 some people say when memories come back oh its the false memory syndrom....they dont understand... Its so damaging those people....

  • @AAXS-op1vo
    @AAXS-op1vo Год назад +1

    The insidiousness of the gaslighting is sickening. Every young woman (person in fact) should listen to this.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      COSBY'S ACCUSERS
      INCORRECT ASSAUALT DATES
      Sunni Welles, mid 60s
      Cindra Ladd, after 1969
      Autumn Burns, about 1970
      Linda Ridgeway Whitedeer, early 70s
      Charlotte Fox, early 70 s
      Coleen Hughes, early 70 s
      Judy Huth, 1974-75
      Patricia Leary Stauer, 1978-80
      Joyce Emmons, early 80s
      Renita Channey Hill, early 80s
      Lisa Jones, 80s
      Kaya Thompson, 80 s
      Lisa Jones, 80s
      Louisa Moritz, -faulty timeline
      Andrea Constand, [ 6 ] perjuries
      RETURNS AFTER ALLEGED ASSAUALT
      Lili Barnard, Beth Farrier, Joan Tarshis, Pam Abeyta, Jennifer Thompson, Andrea Constand,
      SECOND ASSAULT ACCUSATION
      Barbara Bowman
      Patricia PJ Masten
      Terese Serignese
      ALLEGED TOUCHED INAPPROPIATELY
      Sammi Mays, Donna Motsinger, Sarita Butterfield, Eden Turl, Sharon Van Ert, Helen Hayes, Andrea Constand, Lisa Christie, Carla Ferrigno, Linda Kirkpatrick.
      MEMORY LOSS
      Heidi Thomas, Marcella Tate, Kathy Mae McKee, Janice Baker Kinney, Lise Lotte Lublin.
      ADMITTED NO ASSAULT
      Angela Leslie, Michelle Hurd, Kristina Rhulie, Charlotte Kemp, Beverly Johnson, Lochelle Covington , Victoria Valentino, Jule Allison Gennett, Helen Gumpel.
      CRIMINAL RECORDS
      Shawn Brown, Tamera Green, Chloe Goins, Chelan Lasha, Linda Joy Traits, Judy Huth, Janice Dickinson, Donna Dottye Barrett, Margie Shapiro
      Drugs, prostitution-drugs embezzlement, extortion identity theft

    • @cascade00
      @cascade00 Год назад

      Crown me Legendary Demon from your Queen Bee seat, K SHAG Hennessy has been owned pump pump n*gga 💉

  • @rainbowzebraunicornpegasus2962
    @rainbowzebraunicornpegasus2962 Год назад +3

    I love that you gave this very strong woman the time to feel in the moment and when she was at a loss for words to describe those intense moments, you helped give her names and links to those names for those feelings. You asked open-ended questions that she could answer as vaguely or as detailed as she wanted to. You allowed her to tell her story the way she wanted to, with back tracks and explaining context she felt necessary to her story and feelings.
    I too was one of those people who couldn't believe someone as accomplished as Mr Cosby could do such a thing. Her story pulls on my heartstrings. As an empath, I feel her pain, frustration, and pride that she is surviving. Thank you both for opening my eyes to the truth!

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      It's a false accusation?
      🙄. Get over it !

  • @bellaluce7088
    @bellaluce7088 10 месяцев назад +1

    Wishing healing to Lili and all survivors. ❤

  • @carriebell3566
    @carriebell3566 6 месяцев назад +1

    I feel the self hatred for not being fully black too, and it’s horrific. Both sides of the family have something to say about one’s mixed race

  • @lauramcbride3239
    @lauramcbride3239 Месяц назад

    In 1968, Cosby had an article in the December issue of Playboy called the Regular Way. You might want to check it out!!

  • @angelaholmes8888
    @angelaholmes8888 Год назад +2

    I'm so glad that lili decided to tell her story she's truly a brave woman I hope this has helped others survivors what Cosby did is truly despicable

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      They're, women, that never had police reports or medical records
      It identifies a victim, with a legal charge.
      Without those, it's pointless !

  • @petitebri3327
    @petitebri3327 Год назад

    I'm so grateful Ms. Bernard shared the part about how her brain processed her experience and she didn't understand it...the confusion she described. How her brain rationalized it and made excuses for him. That was helpful to me because I experienced DV. People have disbelieved me and said that since I never spoke to them (or anyone, really) about it WHILE it was happening or while I was in the relationship, then I must be lying and it didn't happen and my abuser is an awesome person and I'm crazy and horrible. The way she described this really resonates with me. This was a person she really believed then cared about her and that creates so much cognitive dissonance. It's incredibly confusing. Someone who hasn't lived with and through abuse has no idea how confusing it is when you're in it.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      There is no verification of assault rape! No police reports or medical records. There was no legal charge !
      Victims are aware of statute laws & know why they exist
      Why don't you ?

  • @annthelen
    @annthelen Год назад +4

    God bless you, dear lady. I pray and wish all the best for you, for healing and empowerment. ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Yeah,
      A court of law can't recognize religions, other than an expression!
      It's an infringement of rights to others! It's a constitutional law

  • @angelaholmes8888
    @angelaholmes8888 Год назад +2

    Like lili I also blocked some traumatic things that happened in my childhood because I wasn't ready to deal with I was sexually abused by a family friend and by a doctor when I was 4 and 5 years old

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      COSBY'S ACCUSERS
      INCORRECT ASSAUALT DATES
      Sunni Welles, mid 60s
      Cindra Ladd, after 1969
      Autumn Burns, about 1970
      Linda Ridgeway Whitedeer, early 70 s
      Charlotte Fox, early 70 s
      Coleen Hughes, early 70 s
      Judy Huth, 1974-75
      Patricia Leary Stauer, 1978-80
      Renita Channey Hill, early 80s
      Joyce Emmons, early 80s
      Rebecca Lyn Neal, early 80s
      Lisa Jones, 80
      Kaya Thompson, 80 s
      Kelly Johnson, early 90s
      Louisa Moritz, -faulty timeline
      Andrea Constand, [ 6 ] perjuries
      RETURNS AFTER ALLEGED ASSAUALT
      Lili Barnard, Beth Farrier, Joan Tarshis, Pam Abeyta, Jennifer Thompson, Andrea Constand,
      ALLEGED TOUCHED INAPPROPIATELY
      Sammi Mays, Donna Motsinger, Sarita Butterfield, Eden Turl, Sharon Van Ert, Helen Hayes, Andrea Constand, Lisa Christie, Carla Ferrigno, Linda Kirkpatrick
      SECOND ASSAULT ACCUSATION
      Barbara Bowman
      Patricia PJ Masten
      Terese Serignese
      MEMORY LOSS
      Heidi Thomas, Marcella Tate, Kathy Mae McKee, Janice Baker Kinney, Lise Lotte Lublin.
      ADMITTED NO ASSAULT
      Angela Leslie, Michelle Hurd, Kristina Rhulie, Charlotte Kemp, Beverly Johnson, Lochelle Covington, Victoria Valentino, Jule Allison Gennett, Helen Gumpel.
      CRIMINAL RECORDS
      Shawn Burke Brown, Tamera Lucier Green, Chloe Goins, Chelan Lasha, Linda Joy Traits, Judy Huth, Janice Dickinson, Donna Dottye Barrett, Margie Shapiro
      Drugs, prostitution-drugs, embezzlement, extortion, identity theft

  • @Mel.H_
    @Mel.H_ Год назад +5

    Just wanted to say I think you're really brave. 👏Thank you for sharing your story❤

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      This isn't an amateur psychology class ! There are statute laws !

    • @Charmainecharmainecharmaine
      @Charmainecharmainecharmaine Год назад +2

      @@Mojave702 nope it’s not anything that resembles an amateur psych class. Which by the looks of it, is all you’ve ever taken as far as psych goes. This is a harrowing, inside, in detail description of this woman’s assault she suffered. Freedom of speech!

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      @@Charmainecharmainecharmaine
      COSBY'S ACCUSERS
      INCORRECT ASSAUALT DATES
      Sunni Welles, mid 60s
      Cindra Ladd,after 1969
      Autumn Burns about 1970
      Linda Ridgeway Whitedeer,early 70 s
      Charlotte Fox early, 70 s
      Coleen Elizabeth Hughes, 70s
      Judy Huth 1974-75
      Patricia Leary Stauer, 1978-80
      Joyce Emmons, early 80s
      Rebecca Lyn Neal early 80s
      Lisa Jones, 80s
      Kaya Thompson 80"s
      Louisa Moritz, -faulty timeline
      Andrea Constand, perjuries
      RETURNS AFTER ALLEGED ASSAUALT
      Lili Barnard, Beth Farrier, Joan Tarshis, Pam Abeyta, Jennifer Thompson, Andrea Constand,
      SECOND ASSAULT ACCUSATION
      Patricia PJ Masten
      Barbara Bowman
      Terese Serignese
      ALLEGED TOUCHED INAPPROPIATELY
      Sammi Mays, Donna Motsinger, Sarita Butterfield, Eden Turl, Sharon Van Ert, Helen Hayes, Andrea Constand, Lisa Christie, Carla Ferrigno, Linda Kirkpatrick
      MEMORY LOSS
      Heidi Thomas, Marcella Tate, Kathy Mae McKee, Janice Baker Kinney, Lise Lotte Lublin.
      ADMITTED NO ASSAULT
      Angela Leslie, Michelle Hurd, Kristina Rhulie, Charlotte Kemp, Beverly Johnson, Lochelle Covington, Victoria Valentino, Jule Allison Gennett, Helen Gumpel
      CRIMINAL RECORDS
      Shawn Brown, Tamera Lucier Green
      Chloe Goins, Chelan Lasha, Linda Joy Traits, Judy Huth, Janice Dickinson, Donna Dottye Barrett, Margie Shapiro
      Drugs, prostitution-drugs, embezzlement, extortion, identity theft.

  • @jeu-de-paume
    @jeu-de-paume Год назад +3

    God, Lili, I cannot tell you how painful it is to listen to your experience. I am so sorry that you got to experience the world in *this* shape. But more importantly, I want to express my *respect and admiration for your strength, composure, endless dignity, and wisdom,* that you have managed to keep through all of this and that are so evident to anyone who listens to you. Thank you for revealing yourself to others; thank you for your courage and grace.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      And why exactly, would anyone
      tell you, that it was rape?
      without telling the police or have a medical record of identification!
      How would two consensual returns
      become an assault rape.
      Why would Lili Barnard as well as yourself, completely ignore that there are statute laws?
      What about the other 59 women
      that you can't remember by name
      How does a victim become a victim,
      when they've been identified, knowing that it violates, a legal right
      of the privacy protection act, dictated
      by constitutional laws with an individual right to remain anonymous
      Assault rape is not an amateur psychosis !
      Or media event !!
      Do we the people,
      have to endure a trial - mistrial retrial
      that dismisses all statements to be tried again to prove as an equal right
      we are innocent!?
      There was no right!

    • @jeu-de-paume
      @jeu-de-paume Год назад +2

      @@Mojave702 listen you are obviously confused and unwell; I'm sorry. I'm also sorry that you feel compelled to *specifically seek* spaces where survivors talk about their experience, and invalidate them. I'm reporting your comment, because I don't think it belongs here. Go and complain about your disappointment elsewhere.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      @@jeu-de-paume
      COSBY'S ACCUSERS
      INCORRECT ASSAUALT DATES
      Sunni Welles, mid 60s
      Cindra Ladd after 1969
      Autumn Burns, about 1970
      Linda Ridgeway Whitedeer, early 70 s
      Charlotte Fox, early 70 s
      Coleen Hughes, early 70 s
      Judy Huth, 1974- 75
      Patricia Leary Stauer 1978-80
      Ranita Channey Hill, early 80s
      Joyce Emmons, early 80s
      Rebecca Lyn Neal, early 80s
      Lisa Jones, 80s
      Kaya Thompson 80s
      Kelly Johnson early 90s
      Louisa Moritz, -faulty timeline
      Andrea Constand, [ 6 ] perjuries
      RETURNS AFTER ALLEGED ASSAUALT
      Lili Barnard, Beth Farrier, Joan Tarshis, Pam Abeyta, Jennifer Thompson, Andrea Constand
      ALLEGED TOUCHED INAPPROPIATELY
      Sammi Mays, Donna Motsinger, Sarita Butterfield, Eden Turl, Sharon Van Ert, Helen Hayes, Andrea Constand, Lisa Christie, Carla Ferrigno, Linda Kirkpatrick.
      MEMORY LOSS
      Heidi Thomas, Marcella Tate, Kathy Mae McKee, Janice Baker Kinney, Lise Lotte Lublin.
      ADMITTED NO ASSAULT
      Angela Leslie, Michelle Hurd, Kristina Rhulie, Charlotte Kemp, Beverly Johnson, Lochelle Covington, Victoria Valentino, Jule Allison Gennett, Helen Gumpel.
      CRIMINAL RECORDS
      Shawn Brown, Tamera Green, Chloe Goins, Chelan Lasha, Linda Joy Traits, Judy Huth, Janice Dickinson, Donna Dottye Barrett, Margie Shapiro
      Drugs, prostitution-drugs, embezzlement, extortion, identity theft .

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      @@jeu-de-paume
      Assault isn't an opinion!
      It's a verdict!

    • @jeu-de-paume
      @jeu-de-paume Год назад +1

      @@Mojave702 yet here you are, proselytizing your *opinion* on the subject about which you have no first hand knowledge whatsoever. It also happens that your *opinion* directly invalidates the *experience* of a survivor of assault. But everybody definitely needs to listen to, and believe, you? Once again: please go fight someone else, somewhere else. You are not welcome here.

  • @BeachyD
    @BeachyD Год назад +7

    My heart breaks for this lady. :(

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Why?

    • @beauthentic7493
      @beauthentic7493 Год назад +2

      I believe that some victims have their own covert narcissism that these predators tap into and exploit. Sounds harsh, but I believe that is a real factor in this .

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад +1

      @@beauthentic7493
      Except, there, are no victims!
      60 is a random number
      It can't explain guilt!

  • @godsavethecoffeecake
    @godsavethecoffeecake Год назад +2

    Incredible interview. Thank you Lili and Dr. Ramani

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      60 women-
      Misidentified you can't remember their names ?

  • @kurenno477
    @kurenno477 Год назад +4

    It is important that you are sharing your experiences. Thank you.
    The layers of betrayal are so painful - betrayal of you as an individual, betrayal of you as a Black and Latina woman, and betrayal of the entire BIPOC work for freedom, and equality, and equal representation. Cosby exploited THAT need as well, to isolate the women he targeted.
    I think it was Phylicia Rashad who said the women or people behind the women coming forward were “orchestrating” the destruction of Cosby’s legacy. COSBY orchestrated the destruction of his own legacy, SIMULTANEOUSLY, while he built it. He did it to himself. It is not the survivors who speak out who damage a predator’s reputation by speaking out. It is the PREDATOR who has done the damage to themself, the PREDATOR who destroys their own “legacy”, career, future, household, marriage, whatever gets boohooed about later. The PREDATOR does it to themself, the PREDATOR causes the damage.
    To every person who clings to power by proxy and defends the predators, wake up! The predator wrought their own destruction.
    Courage, protection, truth and healing to you always, Lili. Always. ❤️

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Because..
      A real victim, won't blame themselves?
      Well, that's unrealistic!
      Will anyone have to appear in court, to prove that were innocent!
      No we have equal rights !
      Have you identified a single victim by name? No!
      It's a violation, of individual rights to a victim to identify themselves!
      An actual statute law, under the privacy, protection act!
      A victims, right t o be anonymous , of
      judgement, with fears of emotional triggers, of pyschological trauma !
      Oh, this wasn't about victims
      was it?
      60 random accusations,
      can't determine guilt !

  • @babs420th9
    @babs420th9 Год назад +1

    What a horrific experience. 😩 I hope Lili can move on and heal. ♥️

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      A consensual return , twice,
      isn't rape!!!! 😐

    • @cascade00
      @cascade00 Год назад

      ​@@Mojave702 i will give you a piece of my legendary 👿 status,
      come here and attempt to exercise your measly intranet powers face to face, and please tell thr detroit police commissioner i sent you. You attempt a rape, you know that cracking sound will be heard and you will know what's good about black panthers

    • @KevinShaughnessy-lf3vs
      @KevinShaughnessy-lf3vs 5 месяцев назад

      😄

  • @migdaliavasquez1874
    @migdaliavasquez1874 Год назад +3

    Amazing interview 😊

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Lies are harmful
      Get over it

  • @leighm9910
    @leighm9910 10 месяцев назад +1

    Betty knew.

  • @lisaberg803
    @lisaberg803 Год назад +5

    Such a beautiful brave powerful woman.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      No, there are statute laws!

  • @annthelen
    @annthelen Год назад +7

    P.S. I absolutely believe you.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Why ???

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      @@No-xs1no
      Accusations, are dangerous.
      60 random- misidentified women!
      A victim with knowledge, of these accusations, experiences - self- blame , with self hatred, with emotional triggers, psychological trauma.
      This isn't an amateur psychology
      class.
      Statute laws, dictate the right to
      anonymous privacy under the privacy protection act.
      Accusations, are a threat to harm
      with the threat of potential harm.
      This extends to those accused, with equal rights protection, against self inflicted harm / suicide
      60 women violated those rights !

  • @SydneySoulchild
    @SydneySoulchild Год назад +1

    to Lili: if you see this, the book Waking The Tiger by Peter Levine might help you in your healing journey!!! it's about releasing trauma from the body... i hope you will know peace!!!

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      COSBY'S ACCUSERS
      INCORRECT ASSAUALT DATES
      Sunni Welles, mid 60s
      Cindra Ladd, After 1969
      Autumn Burns, about 1970
      Linda Ridgeway Whitedeer, early 70 s
      Charlotte Fox, early 70 s
      Coleen Hughes, early 70 s
      Judy Huth, 1974-75
      Patricia Leary Stauer, 1078-80
      Ranita Channey Hill, early, 80s
      Joyce Emmons, early 80s
      Rebecca Lyn Neal early 80s
      Lisa Jones, 80s
      Kaya Thompson 80 s
      Kelly Johnson early 90s
      Louisa Moritz, -faulty timeline
      Andrea Constand, [ 6 ] perjuries
      RETURNS AFTER ALLEGED ASSAUALT
      Lili Barnard, Beth Farrier, Joan Tarshis, Pam Abeyta, Jennifer Thompson, Andrea Constand.
      ALLEGED TOUCHED INAPPROPIATELY
      Sammi Mays, Donna Motsinger, Sarita Butterfield, Eden Turl, Sharon Van Ert, Helen Hayes, Andrea Constand, Lisa Christie, Carla Ferrigno, Linda Kirkpatrick.
      MEMORY LOSS
      Heidi Thomas, Marcella Tate, Kathy Mae McKee, Janice Baker Kinney, Lise Lotte Lublin
      ADMITTED NO ASSAULT
      Angela Leslie, Michelle Hurd, Kristina Rhulie, Charlotte Kemp, Beverly Johnson, Lochelle Covington, Victoria Valentino, Jule Allison Gennett, Helen Gumpel
      CRIMINAL RECORDS
      Shawn Brown, Tamera Green, Chloe Goins, Chelan Lasha, Linda Joy Traits, Judy Huth, Janice Dickinson, Donna Dottye Barrett, Margie Shapiro
      Drugs, prostitution-drugs, embezzlement,extortion, identity
      theft

  • @ThingsILove2266
    @ThingsILove2266 Год назад +1

    Her compromised condition a half day later makes me wonder how many women didn’t make it out at all.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      We'll never know!
      There are no police reports or medical records.
      Officially, it's just an accusation.
      They're 60 women that only identified themselves.
      Which is a violation of rights !
      There are no records, of what they said they were given !
      No toxicology reports !
      Their names don't appear to be of any importance, that anyone can remember them!
      They"re just victims! Of what?
      Who knows?🤔
      Definitely not rape though !!

    • @cascade00
      @cascade00 Год назад

      ​@@Mojave702 shaming you all the way back to your den, with my legendary 👿 status, if you give your real name and agree to meet me in real life you will know what is good about black panthers, you will know how Lonnie Franklin Jr felt after he decided to attempt ra pe on Freedia the CHEETAH Gibbs, and nobody will be there to protect tou, not Doxtor Ramani, not the police commissioner, you will feel a crack before the justice system can even blink an eye. Legendary demon shamed you, you been shamed out of your skin

    • @KevinShaughnessy-lf3vs
      @KevinShaughnessy-lf3vs 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@cascade00😄

  • @jenniferdobransky5240
    @jenniferdobransky5240 10 месяцев назад +1

    Trust....it is not only black women who are not believed!!

    • @KevinShaughnessy-mt9jt
      @KevinShaughnessy-mt9jt 9 месяцев назад

      It must be the police reports & medical records that never happened then !
      How many women could it be without being assaulted ?
      It's more 60

  • @cherylthomas1268
    @cherylthomas1268 Год назад

    27:04 Your cousin was right.

  • @bibi5308
    @bibi5308 Год назад

    🫶🏽💕

  • @migdaliavasquez1874
    @migdaliavasquez1874 Год назад +4

    Who wouldn’t feel safe with Dr Ramani😊 when I’ve complained about sex discrimination; I have been asked by Caucasian women: what did “I do to the predator” whaaaat!

    • @cascade00
      @cascade00 Год назад

      Latina such as dela are intentionally disrespectful towards those with white skin and in a vulnerable type of way, such as targeting sexual, and seem to really be rewarded for it, and we are not allowed to talk about it lest it kill the golden goose, really terrible for all races of people, a set back for all races. Will we ever hear Latina say that all races are cherished? Will Latina ever practice self reflection?

    • @cascade00
      @cascade00 Год назад

      Latina have a way of forcing white to love them, with disrespect, I've never heard a Latina ask outright to be loved, but I hear all the time from lAtina, passive aggression, forcing white to love, but never ever asking respectfully to be loved, you know clearly, the hatred, is now in bred, just as the actress said, she was punished for opening the door to a white, and that memory etched into her mind,
      And we are expected to be silent, lest it bring up shame for the golden goose,

    • @cascade00
      @cascade00 Год назад

      I experience all the time, Latina refusal to self reflect, it seems to be a projection of virgin Mary onto white, it seems to be a religious hatred, that's deeply inbred, it feels to me, since I never hear Latina ask for love, and I always experience forceful passive aggression, using force to try to win love, from Latina, that's very seriously inbred into the culture now, and still no self reflection, will we ever hear from Latina that all races are cherished?

    • @cascade00
      @cascade00 Год назад +1

      Btw we lost a lovely Latina, who was a mulatta, she was half Latina and half white, both her sister and dad are trained psychologists, she felt deeply uneasy that her biologixal dad was watching child porn in the living room of her family home, although she was super proud of him for being Latino and educated. That was my best friend and when she hung herself, I was depressed for a year, the loss never goes away, her sister is a trained psychologist in Texas that I keep in touch with, who is still devastated by the loss of her sister to suicide, for the sake of the Cheslie Kryst's of the the world, for the sake of those isolated souls, STOP THE HATE.

    • @EMVelez
      @EMVelez 5 месяцев назад

      @@cascade00what in the world are you even talking about?

  • @cascade00
    @cascade00 Год назад

    Group mob mentality strong unfortunately, @CallieMae, has been trying to heal for how many years, and her set back, of attempting to win over Camille Cosby....oh my..... And 9 upvotrs..... Oh my a set back for humanity, a set back for all of human kind. Group mob mentality still alive and well, more difficult than it should be, to accept that every race has awful people.

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      Right,
      It isn't a group therapy succession
      It isn't amateur psychology
      It isn't a media event
      It's a violation of victims rights !

  • @grapelund
    @grapelund 5 месяцев назад

    Legal Technicality…..He should have never been locked up in the first place!!!!

    • @KevinShaughnessy-lf3vs
      @KevinShaughnessy-lf3vs 5 месяцев назад

      Technically?
      They never reported anything to the police !
      The women are only being identified with a number not with their individual names
      Then the majority public wants to believe that there's evidence of a crime .
      It only points out that this can happen to anyone!

  • @elvan5922
    @elvan5922 2 месяца назад

    Curly hair is beautiful and most girls and women would go crazy to have curly hair .I had amazing curly hair until I guess my
    Menopuse.You don't value something g until you loose it .And I loved when people said wowww ohh you have wild too
    Much hair because I knew that it was complement and good will 👌👌.Sorry but I don't buy this ohj my afro hair gave me trauma PC talk .What happened to her horrible and she can't stamiach it and she is trying to give and reason to herself why that happened to her...

    • @xanderpromeo
      @xanderpromeo 24 дня назад

      It’s called cultural context. Bless you, you didn’t understand that.

  • @madisonpeschock781
    @madisonpeschock781 Год назад

    No way. Dont believe it. How could she take a few sips and feel drugged for hours and hours into the next day?

    • @worldwidechubbyguy2.018
      @worldwidechubbyguy2.018 11 месяцев назад +2

      apologist

    • @KevinShaughnessy-mt9jt
      @KevinShaughnessy-mt9jt 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@worldwidechubbyguy2.018
      No,
      Women that want attention from a wealthy man can't explain their own deviant predator behavior!

    • @EMVelez
      @EMVelez 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@KevinShaughnessy-mt9jtwow, you’re a dude. Color me shocked. 🙄🙄

  • @m.fazlurrahman5854
    @m.fazlurrahman5854 Год назад

    Who is Bill Cosby? This podcast is ment to serve what purpose? Dr. Bomani is trying to be emphatic rediscovering wounds!! With so much pain and wounds who exactly the victim serviced all those years or she was waiting to meet Dr. Bomani

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      He's a guy, that walked into the wrong courtroom!

    • @cascade00
      @cascade00 Год назад

      ​​@@Mojave702 ​ K Shag, tone deaf, empathic fail from you. Come to Detroit, and tell the police chief i invite you. You ttempt a ra pe, you experience swift street justice, to the tune of you will be lucky to survive, if you find yourself still here on earth you will know you're lucky, because if you attempt a ra pe, or even a se xual encounter before marriage, you will be knocked out unconscious before the justice system can bat an eye.

    • @EMVelez
      @EMVelez 5 месяцев назад +1

      If you don’t know who Cosby is or what the purpose of this podcast is, why are you here??

    • @KevinShaughnessy-lf3vs
      @KevinShaughnessy-lf3vs 5 месяцев назад

      You don't know the women accusers

  • @sshelget
    @sshelget 7 месяцев назад

    And it was a white little girl that said your hair looked beautiful - but your MOM put you down. Who is the racist??

  • @lisacharlton1813
    @lisacharlton1813 8 месяцев назад

    Enough already. Move on. Press charges immediately or move along. Women have responsibilities too

    • @EMVelez
      @EMVelez 5 месяцев назад +1

      Why are you here?

    • @KevinShaughnessy-mt9jt
      @KevinShaughnessy-mt9jt 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@EMVelez
      Why are you here??

    • @EMVelez
      @EMVelez 5 месяцев назад

      @@KevinShaughnessy-mt9jt oh hey…it’s the rape apologist again.

    • @xanderpromeo
      @xanderpromeo 24 дня назад +1

      @@EMVelezthe right wing conservatives need thier trolls to be ever present. 😂

  • @WhistleblowingGoodWitch
    @WhistleblowingGoodWitch Год назад +8

    Outstanding interview and human being. One of the hardest interviews I have ever heard. So much rage, pain, and confusion I am feeling. Is it fair to ask how Camille Cosby is basically his right hand man via enabling? It's one thing to not believe the survivors, it's another to trash them entirely. Is she also a victim of his brainwashing? Or just another lousy flying monkey? What happened to B.C. growing up in Philly to make him turn this way? I know one tbing for sure, Hugh Hefner is to blame in part via Playboy Mansion access, and he was just as guilty. Bless Lili Bernard for her Survivorship and for telling the truth. The courage is otherworldly and inspires me as a Survivor of SA to never give up! 💔❤️‍🩹🙏

    • @Mojave702
      @Mojave702 Год назад

      It's an accusation. Get over it.!!!