It seems like its almost impossible to find and keep love. You find someone you are happy and suddenly they lose interest and you are busy thinking what he might be thinking. God!!
Hello Alex I'm suffering of this kind of set up but thanks for your all of your video to make me feel confident to avoid him and pray.. God bless you always
I’m one of the guilty women who was always there for my man chafing after him. I was there for every phone call, every text all of it! After listening to about 10 of your videos I decided to get rid of all the text messages and I vowed to not call him again. Is this all too late? Can I still make him respect me or is it too late? I want him back.
A guy who is not making any effort to text me first, to meet me He says he is always busy in work He says am his priority and never do anything that proves his words We all have our work but for him i am nothing but work first and he says he will stay forever. I mean how? Invisible presence 😂😂 🙏
Easier said than done …. I know your words are true. I know it’s what I should do … I just can’t seem to do it. When I speak to him again I tell him exactly how I feel . Becoming extremely vulnerable…telling him how I miss him. His response says the same words but is aloof, disinterested, and heartbreaking. I want to connect with his vulnerable side but he won’t allow it. I want to FEEL missed … feel loved .. but the more I try , the more unimportant I feel .
He reached out to me and he also talked about plans on what to do when we see each other ( we are into artmuseums and such)- i just randomly stop texting or don‘t answer- so he will appreciate my time and texts more. Anyways: yesterday he said „you bring out the best sides of me- thank you for that“… what does that mean? We have a really good connection emotionally and yeah well physically also… didnt sleep with eachother ever but we are very physically attracted to each other. Shortly he also told me he was in love with me before ( a few years back…)
It won't work when they forgot about u & moved on in being with someone else who's available & challening. The distance & space creates desire but not if they take advantage of u & found someone else who is more challenging & distant. They don't live with them or stay overnight for days at a time. They go to their own home. How do married couples last after 30 yrs or more together?. Boredom sets in when ur too available. The key is to keep the distance at bay so that space creates desire when the attraction is still exists. If it no longer is then find someone else who appreciates u & doesn't take u for granted like the narcs do..some men need a challenging partner to keep them interested. Baby mind game. Don't like...f them
He watches my stories but don‘t ask for dates anymore. Our date was last november 2021. We cuddled, he made compliments, .. wanted to meet me again, but since than he ignores me for weeks. Ask for a date out of the blue after asking if i dated other guys - yes. Than i suggest him another date because i needed to deny his date options. Than he wrote imidiately „cannot“. And he just drove to the sea on his own although he wanted to reservate it for me
You are amazing. I have on and off relationship with the Person whom I love the most. He didn't text me we are not friends in social medias recently but yesterday we met because he called me to met and I did met and have coffee together.after that he didn't call text me . I'm really confused what's going on to him ✨
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other. Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone. Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way. Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men.
Hi Alex I have a friend who want to married me, from the beginning of this relationship him was very nice to me used to call me like every day, later him hardly call for testing l complete several times him hardly text me and after few weeks him ask we should make love, but I told if you really want me,we will do that after our marriage send them him hardly call me and anytime he called always ask for nothing but sex.what should I do in this situation, some time he talks about the feature but the Care and love I want from him I am not getting that
Dear Alex, I hope you don't mind to answer my questions on your next video. So I'm just getting know my new crush and I met him from dating apps. When he was still being with me, he gives me the mixed signals, extremely busy and just read my texts, when I asked him why he behave like that, he is being honest and told me if he has plenty girls who wants to be his girlfriend. So I confronted him I was just his option. After that I decided to pull back and leave him peacefully, even I started to love him. But yesterday he sent me his selfie pics and then I said "Really sorry, I don't like mind games. Please don't chase me if you don't like me" and then he just read my texts but stalking my stories. What should I do, actually I really wants him back ....
That guy us emotionally unavailable. He even made it known He needs your attention. that's all. Love yourself enough to accept what you already know. the fact that your questioning his motives is enough clarity that he's not being honest.
@@heatherlawson3409 Thank you so much for your sweet advices, Heather. You're right. I already left him 1 week ago, and I clearly understand that he is extremely rude and has immature behaviour, thats why I really hate, he blamed me without giving me clarity by words. Would be happy to hear your reply again ✨
Coach, We had a breakup more than 2 months ago. I did no contact & he also reached out several times. I kept focusing on my development throgh out the no contact phase. After no contact i reached put to him. But he was like he isn't gonna commit to the relationship again. He still reached out to me. He said we could be friends in the breakup day, so may be he is still thinking about being friends. How to make him commit to the relationship. Please reply. Anyway thank you for ur help to us.
Pls am the first to comment coach Alex I want you to help me.ls like am confusing we broke after I knew he has his girlfriend and then in two weeks we had no contact but after we meet but he told me that he was dating with a girl while we was in relationship and said he is in love with the girl.But he asked me if he could' ve to meet with me if he will need me to. What does he mean and now we still no contact for one week help me plz
It seems like its almost impossible to find and keep love. You find someone you are happy and suddenly they lose interest and you are busy thinking what he might be thinking. God!!
Your wife is so fortunate to have you . Love your channel
Needed this 😞 spiralling into negative sadness of him texting me less and less every 2 days
Hello Alex I'm suffering of this kind of set up but thanks for your all of your video to make me feel confident to avoid him and pray.. God bless you always
You are best coach ever
Hi Alex! Thank you for being here exactly when I needed you!
Thank you for your great advice
I’m one of the guilty women who was always there for my man chafing after him. I was there for every phone call, every text all of it!
After listening to about 10 of your videos I decided to get rid of all the text messages and I vowed to not call him again. Is this all too late?
Can I still make him respect me or is it too late? I want him back.
Thank you so much for watching!
A guy who is not making any effort to text me first, to meet me
He says he is always busy in work
He says am his priority and never do anything that proves his words
We all have our work but for him i am nothing but work first and he says he will stay forever.
I mean how? Invisible presence 😂😂
🙏
😅😅😅
Easier said than done …. I know your words are true. I know it’s what I should do … I just can’t seem to do it. When I speak to him again I tell him exactly how I feel . Becoming extremely vulnerable…telling him how I miss him. His response says the same words but is aloof, disinterested, and heartbreaking. I want to connect with his vulnerable side but he won’t allow it. I want to FEEL missed … feel loved .. but the more I try , the more unimportant I feel .
you need to stop wasting energy on this guy
Research manipulation styles of a Narcissist. These behavior's are so specific in the devaluation phase.
He reached out to me and he also talked about plans on what to do when we see each other ( we are into artmuseums and such)- i just randomly stop texting or don‘t answer- so he will appreciate my time and texts more. Anyways: yesterday he said „you bring out the best sides of me- thank you for that“… what does that mean?
We have a really good connection emotionally and yeah well physically also… didnt sleep with eachother ever but we are very physically attracted to each other. Shortly he also told me he was in love with me before ( a few years back…)
Thank you Alex👍👍
Sounds good Alex!!!
Thanks Alex! You sound so sincere!! Will look for future videos. 🙂😉
Thank you so much for the support!
It won't work when they forgot about u & moved on in being with someone else who's available & challening. The distance & space creates desire but not if they take advantage of u & found someone else who is more challenging & distant. They don't live with them or stay overnight for days at a time. They go to their own home. How do married couples last after 30 yrs or more together?. Boredom sets in when ur too available. The key is to keep the distance at bay so that space creates desire when the attraction is still exists. If it no longer is then find someone else who appreciates u & doesn't take u for granted like the narcs do..some men need a challenging partner to keep them interested. Baby mind game. Don't like...f them
We need a video on emotional bonding
Thank you so much for the suggestion! I will keep this in mind for future videos.
Thank you so much for the suggestion! I will keep this in mind for future videos.
thank you
Excellent ❤😊
Thanks alot Alex
You're always welcome Syra!
Perfect timing...tq alex
Thank you so much for watching!
Hi Alex am watching from oman
Than you so much for watching!
Thanks you so much 😊💋🌻❤️
You're always welcome, Kristina
Well said alex you are right..
Thank you so much!
Thank you so much!
He watches my stories but don‘t ask for dates anymore. Our date was last november 2021. We cuddled, he made compliments, .. wanted to meet me again, but since than he ignores me for weeks. Ask for a date out of the blue after asking if i dated other guys - yes. Than i suggest him another date because i needed to deny his date options. Than he wrote imidiately „cannot“. And he just drove to the sea on his own although he wanted to reservate it for me
if he was the one for you, he wouldn't do this, time to move on.
You are amazing.
I have on and off relationship with the Person whom I love the most.
He didn't text me we are not friends in social medias recently but yesterday we met because he called me to met and I did met and have coffee together.after that he didn't call text me .
I'm really confused what's going on to him ✨
Thank you Alex for assisting us.
How can you help us those with narsistic
Thank you so much for the support Pauline!
I have a question. How do males and females bond with each other? I don't see how men and women can bond (especially romantically) with each other.
Women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and science shows that women can bond very well with each other. Generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a man can isolate himself and grief alone.
Women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more understanding, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, more intuitive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way.
Women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men.
Friends how can I stay in relationship which am not given attention it's my duty to chase him everyday...if I stop he never chases me
Alex ur so beautiful ❤️ and handsomes I see urs videos
0urs voice is beautiful
Hi Alex I have a friend who want to married me, from the beginning of this relationship him was very nice to me used to call me like every day, later him hardly call for testing l complete several times him hardly text me and after few weeks him ask we should make love, but I told if you really want me,we will do that after our marriage send them him hardly call me and anytime he called always ask for nothing but sex.what should I do in this situation, some time he talks about the feature but the Care and love I want from him I am not getting that
Your so handsome
Dear Alex, I hope you don't mind to answer my questions on your next video. So I'm just getting know my new crush and I met him from dating apps. When he was still being with me, he gives me the mixed signals, extremely busy and just read my texts, when I asked him why he behave like that, he is being honest and told me if he has plenty girls who wants to be his girlfriend. So I confronted him I was just his option. After that I decided to pull back and leave him peacefully, even I started to love him. But yesterday he sent me his selfie pics and then I said "Really sorry, I don't like mind games. Please don't chase me if you don't like me" and then he just read my texts but stalking my stories. What should I do, actually I really wants him back ....
That guy us emotionally unavailable. He even made it known He needs your attention. that's all.
Love yourself enough to accept what you already know. the fact that your questioning his motives is enough clarity that he's not being honest.
@@heatherlawson3409 Thank you so much for your sweet advices, Heather. You're right.
I already left him 1 week ago, and I clearly understand that he is extremely rude and has immature behaviour, thats why I really hate, he blamed me without giving me clarity by words. Would be happy to hear your reply again ✨
it's just ...
#science
#neuroscience
#emotions
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Coach,
We had a breakup more than 2 months ago. I did no contact & he also reached out several times. I kept focusing on my development throgh out the no contact phase. After no contact i reached put to him. But he was like he isn't gonna commit to the relationship again. He still reached out to me. He said we could be friends in the breakup day, so may be he is still thinking about being friends. How to make him commit to the relationship. Please reply. Anyway thank you for ur help to us.
Pls am the first to comment coach Alex I want you to help me.ls like am confusing we broke after I knew he has his girlfriend and then in two weeks we had no contact but after we meet but he told me that he was dating with a girl while we was in relationship and said he is in love with the girl.But he asked me if he could' ve to meet with me if he will need me to. What does he mean and now we still no contact for one week help me plz
Hi how are you sister? Run away from him now
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